Love Is Blind S3 #56 - (Colleen Interview #4) - Therapist Reacts

[@VolleyyballPlayya]

Maybe it’s not fair to think about because perhaps I wouldn’t think it was strange for other married couples to do from the show, but given the flags we saw previously of Matt and how Colleen was acting during the reunion, I was excited to see Colleen speak on her own. It was a little disconcerting to see that Matt was watching in the background.

[@ohisee9173]

It's a bit unfair. Alexa did the exact same thing with Brennan, asking him off camera about going out

[@trustyourpulse]

I felt the same way when I heard him off camera. Like he’s creeping around to listen.

[@user-zs2je6dx9d]

They’re married and live together 😭😭

[@sm2593]

​@@trustyourpulse omg he left the room as she starting talking about the abuse thing. They live together, what do you expect?

[@Ola_Stawinska]

Now Matt says that they went out, but during the reunion no ome remembered it?

[@crystalscollection1511]

The thing is, Matt still didn't confirm that people went out after the party, he only said that he himself got into an uber and Colleen fills in that "yeah they all went out but Matt got an uber home". I haven't yet heard anyone say the words "he went out too, I was there." Everyone claims to not have been there. So did Cole go out with just the film crew?

[@Halbmond]

Brennan claimed so but only weeks later when he couldn’t be asked for details for some reason

[@chantawilliams3078]

@@Halbmond All of sudden he didn't didn't drink 20 shots, and the anesthesia just magically went away, honestly. They are all liars. They're trying so hard to push a wrongful narrative to break someone down.

[@jeans0130]

@@Halbmond lol! Oh no. I don't believe Brennan at all. Especially since he has domestic abuse and assault charges.

[@Halbmond]

@@jeans0130 Yeah exactly! His takes on this situation seem so sketchy

[@mirimiriela480]

I maintain that the option that makes the most sense is that Cole said he got the number off of the cow and Z completely misconstrued it, but I have no evidence for that. It makes the most sense to me that they all wanted to go home and wash off the manure and not go out again.

[@azarialr6639]

My thoughts are similar, not the cow though! I love that. But to me if she assumed there would be girls/strippers and didn’t believe him when he said no, and after her being condescending he makes some flippant remark with no truth to it, asking if him hitting on a girl trying to get a last kiss or a number is what she wants him to say and she takes it for truth. Meanwhile he forgets it, as to him it was just a flippant remark made while drunk. It fits with other things we’ve seen from them. No outright lies from them, just distortions and Coles bad memory.

[@nnn9122]

Cole addressed the cow theory himself and said that's not what happened. I had entertained the theory before though.

[@poponachtschnecke]

It's nice hearing someone with a kind perspective call out the pretend body positive people who really just want an excuse to bully the people who don't look like them.

[@ness0388]

Cole didn't say he didn't go out. He said they weren't with girls. Pretty sure the narrative was that they went to the Saloon at the place where the bull riding was. So they went "out" as in to the saloon and that's where they were drinking. They all drank a lot which is why the guys were saying "I didn't see that, and I don't remember any girls."

[@basia5183]

Dr Honda I’d love if you reacted to Nick and Vanessa Lachey specifically and their contributions to these shows. I know they don’t have a lot of screen time but it does seem their style is inflammatory or they often ask questions in a way seeking confirmation bias that seems really unhelpful. Idk. Not sure if it would be good content or interesting enough but I feel like they are kind of “toxic” themselves but there not much feedback on their roles

[@jeans0130]

How will Matt know that Cole went and got a girl's number if he said he took an Uber home and wasn't there? And how will Colleen know she wasn't there?

[@lynnd5342]

It wasn’t just Cole’s family that wasn’t involved. Raven’s family wasn’t involved neither was Colleen’s. Cole said he saved himself for marriage because of religious reasons and that’s probably why his family couldn’t be involved either. They had honeymoons before marriage. I don’t understand why it has to be about race. Zanab’s insecurities interpreting things again. Sorry thats just what I believe.

[@amandajo340]

@Ruth yeah I think he said they video chatted with his sister or something.

[@Halbmond]

Colleen: wasn’t at those mysterious bars Matt: took an Uber home and wasn’t at those mysterious bars Colleen: yeah Cole definitely was there and got a girl’s number that’s a fact

[@cassimetric]

he literally said yeah they went out but i didn’t 😂

[@YoYoWaddupBro]

She said that she didn’t know about him getting any girl’s number but that Matt said the other guys stayed out.

[@poponachtschnecke]

For someone who hated having terrible things implied about them, Colleen really dove in to implying Cole's family wouldn't meet Zanab for racist reasons.

[@s.melonita4454]

Why are most people such hypocrites ugh. I always try to put myself in other people's shoes. Always check on my bias and try to chdck people, too. And then I get labeled holier than thou. All my life I've had to listen to ridiculous things from people around me. Many times my whole family. It's the ignorance for me. If I had a penny for every time someone in my family said something homophobic for example I'd be pretty wealthy.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

It's literally right after she says how the speculation made her husband afraid to essentially communicate in a way that could possibly be perceived as aggressive and then just dives right into spreading rumors and shit.

[@amandajo340]

Colleen didn't dive into implying Cole's family wouldn't meet her for racist reasons. The interviewer prompted her to answer if it was because of her name being Zanab (implying it was because of race) and Colleen said she didn't know and there's a lot of factors and gave examples of her own family not wanting to be on the show. There's nothing wrong with saying you don't know - that's actually pretty healthy because she doesn't and can't know for sure. She said Zanab told her things about there being mentions of her weight and race. If Zanab told her that there's nothing wrong with saying that's what Zanab told her..

[@jans2073]

Confused how everyone is suddenly confirming that Cole did in fact go to a bar after saying in the reunion that they had no idea if he went out or not after the rodeo.

[@daizeedee1202]

Because it's a show at the end of the day. They have on camera and off camera interactions. The audience doesn't see everything. They are given a 'storyline'. The 'cast' follows the guidelines of the production team..sometimes coached on what to say or not. Then there are contracts. And for the 'cast' audience perception is key as it can positively or negatively affect post reality show income streams...ie amassing followers to build a business. It's a scripted entertainment show.

[@Bbydawl]

As much as I enjoy reality tv, I can’t imagine ever participating. The way her and her spouse have been treated is exactly why. On just about every American reality show, there’s a villain. Someone is going to get the role.

[@mferrariish]

If Cole lied at the reunion, then everyone lied at the reunion because they all denied it at the reunion and all of a sudden now they are confessing 🤔

[@janeryan2709]

Contract?

[@erikasigurdson312]

This whole thing about online bullying of Colleen kind of gets at the thing that I really dislike about reality tv. The shows set up these storylines that invite the audience to pick a villain or pick a side and then relentlessly hate on and bully the person they've decided to hate. So if you sympathize with Zay when Cole is going on and on about how she's not as attractive as Colleen, the implication is that now you get to hate Colleen and pick apart her body and looks. That seems to be half the fun of reality tv for a lot of people--but I really think that is by design and the creators of these shows have to be part of the change, not just the audience.

[@amandajo340]

Yeah, from what I know the reunion is filmed just a little after the show airs when there's already a few episodes out.

[@ziruixu]

Matt and Brendan didn't provide any details about the "went out". In fact, they didn't even show their face in the interview. Matt claimed that he ubered home and the rest of men went out. If Matt went home, then how would he know Cole went out? And how would Colleen know Cole got a phone number? During the reunion, clearly the topic was whether Cole went out or not, Matt gave a speech that he didn't see any girl and ubered home. If Matt knew that Cole went out, then why didn't he mention it in the reunion? True, it would be weird for Zanab to lie about this, but it is also very weird for Cole to lie about this. He could just say, "we did go out but i didn't get a phone number". If they did go out but Cole decided to deny, wouldn't he be worried that other men would contradict him? I mean, Brendan seemed very hostile during the reunion. Dr. Honda told us not to detect lies by facial expressions, but if I have to bet money on this, based on their facial expressions, I would bet that Cole has been honest and other cast members have not. About the "biggest girl" Cole has been with. I mean, Cole has only been with two women in his entire life. It is still inconsiderate to make such a comment, but he only lived with two women

[@ziruixu]

During the interviews with Jilet, it seemed that Alexa and Colleen were trying to put words into Brendon's and Matt's mouths, respectively.

[@ziruixu]

Cole could have cheated without being seen by anyone, why would he cheat in the bachelor party? Also, he could have dated someone after the filming, but he seems to live a single life

[@lynnd5342]

I think based on Zay’s need to compare herself to other women and her ability to twist facts to fit her narrative she asked Cole if his ex-wife was smaller than her and he said “yes” or something like “she’s really skinny” and Zay interpreted that as “you’re the biggest girl I’ve ever been with.” Technically true but totally out of context.

[@nicky132]

10:30 I'm sure that the people who want body positivity are not the ones bodyshaming you. It's a common but weird argument to say that you know what certain groups of people are thinking,

[@jeans0130]

Nah. I don't believe any person who would say that they would be the nicest person you would ever meet. To me, it's more of them convincing themselves that they are nice than convincing other people.

[@lmshanyfelt]

Just like we all assumed. They didn't see/hear anything firsthand. They just took Z's word for all of it and mistook that as firsthand knowledge. It's also not Cole's fault that his family didn't want to participate in the show's premise.

[@daizeedee1202]

Maybe too because his family knew what a lightweight....kind of self indulgent person he is..always following his whims and not thinking clearly. After all they witnessed up close his first failed marriage. Just saying...Once is a mistake..twice is a habit.

[@BananaTPie]

I’ll believe it was malicious and not him blackout drunk and not remembering some girl giving him her number only if some girl comes out with the receipts… or her side of the story. Like the one with the SK drama did. “I heard that he said.” From whom?

[@AlisonWarren]

Kirk, PLEASE tell me you have or are considering making some *“who’s the jerkface”/jerkface-related merch,* bc I laugh every time you use it w a perfectly straight face. It would literally be the first piece of YT merch I would buy!

[@Halbmond]

*Kirk 😉

[@AlisonWarren]

@@Halbmond hahaha wow good catch, thanks! I have a friend named Kurt, so my phone must have assumed & I didn’t even notice. Fixed it!

[@itskaybe6348]

He does have don't be a jerkface merch. It's the sunset art

[@beccagleee]

Notice at 5:35 when Anthony brings up the reunion and how Colleen came across as uncomfortable and she immediately looks up (seemingly at Matt, not in the frame) and sips her tea. So weird.

[@kaybmagic12]

My hypothesis is Coleen is backing up zanab and Cole did not go out after. Kind of hard to pick up girls when your covered in shit.

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Yeah they probably got embarrassed when they saw Zainab was essentially lying to them so the girls seem to have doubled down

[@BananaTPie]

That makes so much sense.

[@daizeedee1202]

I bet you would pull it off though as you seem like the kind of guy who'd do just that...

[@rosyf123]

Do we find it noteworthy that Matt is sitting across Colleen? Is it part of his possibly controlling behavior?

[@xonscreenxromancex]

This has nothing to do with the video, but I just wanted to send gratitude your way, Doc. You truly put out the best content. And rapid fire lol. I know you are not longer taking new clients, and I remember you saying (I think) that you received flack a while ago from those in your field- due to this being a very non-trad way of viewing psychology. But I think you as well as others who are psychologists/therapists on KZbin, are doing a great service to people who are in the social media industry. For the simple fact that you get it, and you have a better understanding how to analyze the issues someone might face while being a prominent social media figure. Just my 5 cents 😂

[@abacoejenks]

omg you skipped the scene where matt walks behind her and she completely tenses up!!! I thought for sure you would catch this. Her personality completely changes. 😬😬😬

[@LilyShimizu]

He’s just waking around the room doing his own thing, and she didn’t tense up at all she just continued with the interview. None of her movements in that moment appear to have anything to do with him just walking around his own house. What reason would she have to tense about his presence only in that one moment anyway? He was in the same room for the majority of the interview.

[@mabel9357]

It's getting ridiculous how people are desperate for drama, to the point where they are trying to "will' Matt into being abusive. Let this couple be, they both seem to have their own issues to work through without randoms online thinking they know Matt's and Colleen's most hidden psychological issues. Yes put him in prison because after marriage they both live in the same house, what a shocker. It's not some sleuthing adventure where a bunch of youtube audience uncovers some murder mystery. Live and let live, they seem to have reached good communication between each other and are clearly working to improve. Time to find drama elsewhere

[@abacoejenks]

@Lily Shimizu you didn't watch the original video. But thanks for commenting.

[@amandajo340]

@@abacoejenks How do you know that?

[@AGirl_IsNoOne]

I think it is notable that in fact their stories and confirmation did change about whether or not cole went out with them...when immediately confronted about it none of them could definitively say they went out (or more specifically Cole). Matt said he didn't go out after and there were no girls there when he was around and he wasn't aware who went out after....but now suddenly he does know they went out? Brennan said he was too drunk to remember where they even went just knew they went somewhere and were out until 4am... So he is an unreliable narrator if he was so inebriated that he can't remember the locations I doubt his ability to remember who exactly was there...it would be reasonable to assume the possibility that he is blending memories of the night in it's entirety (including the saloon) in his recollection. Yet, he stands by his accusation but can't provide any details to lend credence to this being a fact. Bartiste and SK said nothing. The only assertion that Bartiste confirmed they went out was through Nancy's claim that he told her but he himself has not said anything on the subject. The only people we have 100% confirmation was there was Brennan and Bartiste, and I guess some of the crew. The stories from the cast during the reunion is changing now during interviews to double down against Cole so that they don't look like shit stirrers I guess or to save face? Idk. I also feel like if there were any witnesses in these public spaces that someone would have seen something or taken a picture confirming Cole was there and would share that information bc of how much the issue has blown up. For example, the Jersey Shore cast when they first started...people see a group with camera crews around them and want to interact with them or take pictures of them...pictures with them. I find it hard to believe that not a single person witnessed his presence and have stayed silent on it....especially for a bit of recognition, clout, notoriety, few seconds of fame...lots of people like that exist especially now a days so idk. There's still too much data for a reasonable doubt that the other cast members are not being honest and are not reliable to be so under the circumstances of public backlash for how Cole was treated during the reunion. Also, if it even is proven that yes he did go out. It doesn't mean the story involving this woman he supposedly flirted with and got a number from is true. It does reflect negatively on his trustworthiness as he refuted going out at all but both could be going to the extreme to protect their narratives and the actual truth lies somewhere within. Although, sure, I see Dr. Honda's point of it being a weird thing for Zay to make up but if we take her word for word assertion then....it seems very unlikely to be true because she said "he tried to kiss her and she was like no, I don't do cheating" but then she gave him her number? That just doesn't make any sense to me. Seems very contradictory. Now it could be possible this is what Cole told her but even still....sounds unlikely to have actually happened so idk why he would tell her that...why would he make that up and tell Zay that? To what end? I also don't believe it because why would Zay not bring it up at all on wedding day if he revealed this to her the night before? In fact during the whole wedding day up until she made such a whiplash of a change during that "I do not" speech....she spoke like someone very much in love but having doubts about whether they are actually ready to be married. It fits Coles narrative that they had spoken about not getting married but staying together. The way both of them were acting and talking up until the alter seemed to support that being the understanding between them that day. I don't think they would have been in that place if they had this bomb drop from Cole the day prior on their relationship. Seems odd.

[@Ola_Stawinska]

I mostly agree with your comment, I just think that you confuse two events. The one when Matt was mad about Coleen not being back at 2am was not after the bachelor party, but after other party they had during the season, when other people from the pods (for example Andrew) also came.

[@AGirl_IsNoOne]

@@Ola_Stawinska oh yeah, you're right, I did get those events confused. Just went back to the episode to make sure. Removed that from my comment. Thank you!

[@lynnd5342]

I agree. In Alexa’s interview with Gilet Slays and during the reunion she had no qualms about blasting the things she’d heard about Cole but then wanted to keep silent on the things she’d actually seen firsthand??? Makes no sense. Colleen’s statement about HEARING that Cole said Zay was the biggest girl he’d ever been with is sus too. Based on what we actually SAW on the show, the cuties scene and the facts that we now know I suspect what actually happened was that Zay asked Cole if his ex wife was smaller than her (recall that in the show Zay asked Cole to rate her then asked him to rate the other women essentially comparing herself with the other girls. In Cole’s interview he admitted to having saved himself for marriage meaning he’s only slept with his first wife and Zay- even if there were more it couldn’t be that much more because he’d recently gotten divorced) with Cole’s typical brutal honesty he said “yes” or something like “she was real skinny” and Zay interpreted it as “you’re the biggest girl I’ve ever been with.” Technically true but highly taken out of context. Cole also said he waited to have sex until marriage for religious reason, it’s likely that his family couldn’t have anything to do with the show for religious reasons as well. They knew he’d be embarking on this honeymoon with someone he wasn’t married to. After they got married things would’ve been different with his family. Cole was brutally honest about finding Colleen, someone Zay knew and was friends with, attractive. He went on and on about it to the point it was cringey yet we are supposed to believe that he got some random girl’s number and felt the need to lie about it? Doesn’t make sense. Zay was so convincing that the cast cannot accept that Cole isn’t the monster they believed him to be and they’re doing some serious mental gymnastics trying to make her narrative fit. You can see their wheels turning and the confusion when asked for specifics or first hand observations. I’ve been there. Learned to see things for myself before putting myself out there for anyone.

[@ohisee9173]

One thing to note: I rewatched their wedding segment and Zanab actually DID allude to it. I think it was after she walked away and was in the room, she was quickly listing thing she couldn't get over and one of them was his "advances to other girls". I'm mostly on Cole's side. But this one point is really confusing to me and it seems like neither of them wants to tell the whole truth.

[@nnn9122]

When Colleen said that she heard Cole said Zanab was the biggest girl he'd ever been with, I don't think she heard that from Zanab. In this interview, it seemed like she was implying that was something she'd heard from production.

[@BrookeInProgress]

There was a comment on another one of Dr. Honda’s videos comparing Matt to Chris Watts. I can’t believe people can watch Kirk’s ultra-nuanced takes and then go into the comments and say something like that. The internet culture around these reality shows is out of control.

[@DoNotFeed_AfterMidnight]

Love your content!

[@RickityKricks]

It's pretty weird that people are bullying Collene. I understand how people might feel a way about Matt but she didn't really cause any controversy. If they're right about Matt wouldn't they want to be kind to her. People can sure do some weird things.

[@chantawilliams3078]

From what I saw on Twitter, I don't think anyone was really bullying. They were more concerned than want to attack her. She is a zanab friend, so I wouldn't be surprised if she is delusional 🫠

[@steffany3513]

I thought they always filmed the reunion before the launch of the show…. Like i am pretty sure.

[@AndreaRodriguez-cu7yn]

Said this before but important to comment again IMO: She could just be making this narrative of Matt being #1 as to comfort Matt’s traumas of not being #1 in his past to another. And she loves him so much that she just doesn’t want Matt to question how #1 he is to her now. We obviously saw red flags of a potentially abusive relationship but we don’t have enough data to accuse them of that. I wish she would just shut it down: “no he’s not abusing me and you guys can all fuck off for thinking so..” she just keeps dancing around it and that’s what people are hung up on. It still leads us to question but if she’s 100% true then this is my take as to why she’s lying about the #1 thing.

[@Malrie]

I find it interesting that Matt is there while Colleen is doing this interview. Personally I would want some privacy in order to speak candidly without my partner in the same room. I think in many ways having your partner in the room during an interview like this could effect your answers

[@mkaverage4773]

1:18 it is a little suspicious that Coleen is like “They definitely went out, so Cole lied.” and then looks to Matt to confirm & then is unsure. They DEFINITELY went out means you know, not Matt left so he actually has no idea but he says they did so definitely. Just say “I think they went out, Matt wasn’t there so I can’t 100% confirm, but the other guys also said they continued partying.” I don’t think Cole is a perfect angel but I do think Zanab distorted some things whether on purpose or by mistake. I’ve said it before, if Zanab jokingly asked “so did you meet any hot girls?” And Cole sarcastically replied “oh yeah I got someone’s number & we kissed.” She’d take that as fact.

[@andra9601]

Is saying something like “the cast members knew that going on reality tv exposes them to trolls and bullying, yet they still agreed to do it assuming that people will love them” victim blaming?

[@jeans0130]

To be honest, I don't think it's victim blaming. They certainly aren't victims. They knew full well what reality tv entails. They signed up for it, got paid for it and exposure from it. If people criticize them online and they get butthurt, then they should stay away from the internet. But from what I see, they're milking their 15 minutes of Fame for all it's worth so I don't really feel as bad about it calling out their poor behavior on a public platform. But I do draw the line to sending these dms and posting anything hateful.

[@TattedTentacle]

“Hurt people hurt people” rings true, but could it also be that the part of internet culture where you belong if you’re trolling is also goading this on? I’m not sure all internet trolls have been hurt; some are just impressionable, bored and doing what their peers are doing without much thought.

[@umbrellathorn]

even tho i’m highly suspicious of matt, i think it’s incredibly harmful for people to be going after him & colleen. if it’s not true, like you said, there’s so many repercussions. but even IF it is true that he is like that, I think it’s actively putting her in danger because he could very easily blame her for not shutting it down & things could get much, more worse for her. then she would be afraid to say anything because of the vitriol she’s received from the public & would be further isolated. basically how can people claim to be against abuse and still only be further victimizing Colleen? (edit: also people aren’t “stupid” for staying in bad relationships omg, why is everyone blaming her if they think she’s being abused??) i don’t trust matt either but (a) i know part of it is projection of my own experience and (b) i know joining a twitter mob would ONLY HURT colleen, regardless of the truth. ugh it makes me upset.

[@norbertavecchio1996]

Dr Honda commented that he couldn't think of any reason for viewers to bash Colleen. I would speculate the following: Many, many, many little girls dream of becoming ballerinas, and most of them have that dream squashed at some point. I think many of Colleen's haters may be jealous of her success in ballet, and feel it's unfair. Aspiring ballerinas are told time and again that they must be 100% perfect to have a chance. It puzzles me that people would call Colleen "too fat" to be a ballerina because she seemed incredibly skinny, but perhaps those who developed anorexia in an attempt to make it in dance would have a different perspective. (I also thought Zanab was quite skinny, so all off the alleged comments from Cole make no sense to me either.)

[@KJ-jd5ko]

Funny how these people that claim bullying or Cole bullied them or zenab they all bullied him to tears at the reunion hypocrisy

[@beccagleee]

Uhmmm this is the first video of Colleen's series where I've heard Matt's voice... as in he's watching Colleen and every word she says... makes sense now why Colleen is always looking up during the interview... she wants to make sure Matt agrees + approves of what she's saying. Super sus. Not totally sure how credible her interview is anymore.

[@KJ-jd5ko]

Wait no the reunion played in the same couple weeks of the show. Playing. So in two weeks she went through all of that?

[@dariasmeh]

Mean comments are hurtful. This stands true. Although I think there are people who don’t let the comments demean them - I’d reckon Dalai Lama, Eckhart Tolle, Mother Teresa (if she was alive) don’t get affected by mean comments and they get a lot of exposure. And I think it is possible to not be affected by the barrage of hateful comments but still hold true that hateful comments can be hurtful. You don’t need to be one of those people to have a deep sense of self because we all are enlightened, discerning people. It always puzzles me when we say something is possible and then the opposite isn’t possible- but if one is possible then the other must be possible. That’s physics. And the world is all built on physics. It isn’t that one thing and not the other. If you grow a tumour you can ungrow it- I think it’s more apt to say one doesn’t know HOW to do something, rather than to say it isn’t possible. And more apt to say that HOW is difficult. But not that it’s impossible or there are limits to it and you just gotta live in those limitations.

[@hayleyb467]

how does one ungrow a tumor?

[@dariasmeh]

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[@sacmakiz]

yes, american reality tv wants a villain and a victim but i find no reason to believe in what colleen says to be true. still defending what zanab said to her as "facts" and portraying matt as this just nice, compromising man is just hard to believe. her shallowness is about not ever talking about a hard thing and brushing off everything concerning will make her tell more stories in the future, when no one really cares about her story anymore. if she was so close to having a panic attack during reunion, she could have said that instead both matt and her was gushing over each other's posts on ig. it just made everything superficial and hard to believe. she doesn't want to talk about valid concerns from herself or other people but is so comfortable at blaming other people "bullying" her or demonizing cole just like the rest of the crew. she isn't as nice as she thinks of herself. if being phony is a nice thing, sure she is the "nicest" of all then. she loves being the victim of online "bullying" but when people are actually concerned about her behavior she still thinks she is being bullied. smfh

[@lynncrf]

In what world is Collen too big? What?

[@samdavissr]

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