Love Is Blind S3 #59 - (Nancy Interview #3) - Therapist Reacts

[@jheromesmother]

The KZbinr who does "out of context Dr. Honda" videos is going to have a field day with this one! 😂

[@dahliaholm3637]

I was thinking the same thing LOL

[@AlisonWarren]

HAHAHAHA I had this exact thought. Bidets, socket location in bathrooms, stigmas abt discussing bowel movements, an impromptu free ad for Kohler toilets, a rebuke of 7-11 murderers & coal rollers, a shout out to his wife bc he knows it’s getting ridiculous. I just love everything abt this lol. Nancy who?

[@Kayleyjustine]

I was thinking the exact thing 😂😂

[@happyhiro]

LOL yes

[@QurVgn]

Hope so. Hungrily waiting for her next video!

[@davidhollinshead6995]

Did Dr Honda really just “Maybe the real blind love is the friends we made along the way”?

[@AlisonWarren]

*LIVING* for this ep turning into Dr. Honda passionately speaking his truth abt bidets & stigmas re: discussing bowel movements while dragging 7-11 murderers & ppl who roll coal. What a delightful ride lol.

[@mayacandace6670]

Hahaha same

[@InThisEssayIWill...]

Nancy is the most put together of the women this season, IMHO. I think it's too bad that, for whatever reason, bartise convinced her not to call it quits. I do think it indicates a tinge of desperation that she was willing to go against her better judgement to give him another chance. It really just sounds like she's ready to have someone to share her life with and nobody who steps forward is up to the task. I hope she finds someone who is going to put in the effort she deserves. Unrelated I'd be really curious to know what ended her previous relationship with her business partner.

[@ShellyManne1]

She’s a total catch… kind, trustworthy, honest, intelligent, mature, financially stable and savvy, funny, positive and all of this in a beautiful body, face, mind and soul.

[@InThisEssayIWill...]

@@ShellyManne1 My thoughts precisely.

[@ShellyManne1]

@@InThisEssayIWill... despite my name Shelly, I am a guy. I would have thought I hit the lottery if I found her on that show. His loss.

[@Sough]

Interesting, i didn't find this season compelling at all. Sk and Raven: never seemed interested, didn't plan to live in thr same time zone. Z and Cole: never connected. Nancy and Bartise: he was never on board. Alexa and Brennan: their peak connection was liking the same food. Matt and Colleen: she never seemed into him and i worried for her safety

[@charlize9341]

Agree. I did not like any of these people at all. None of the relationships were interesting. Part of it may be that we didn't see much of their pod talk times. I don't know why any of these people connected and most seemed obviously mismatched. This is actually the first time I've ever watched reality tv as a hate watch just to see things go wrong for people that irritate me. I'm also confused by his praise for the season since the majority of his commentary was "conspiracy theories" pondering about production and NDAs. 🤷‍♀

[@jillianphoenix3270]

Wow that tangent about shame and body positivity was AWESOME. Love love love.

[@jetblack6381]

So exciting to hear you make the connection to holiday camp. That’s what I’ve always thought about these shows - the feelings are ‘real’ but they’re like a camp romance - really intense and all consuming, but then you go home to your bigger life and look back on it and think ‘huh…?’.

[@whtyc]

Omg please do the rewatch/commentary! When reality tv isn’t too obviously controlled by production I’m so fascinated by the interpersonal dynamics etc. I would love to hear your insights now that we have more data.

[@GreenJewelLights]

Honestly best rant of 2023 thus far 👏 this is my type of body positivity!!!

[@happyhiro]

the interview itself wasn’t super eventful but you managed to make this video so entertaining and at the end, honestly a little iconic. thanks Dr 😀

[@ness0388]

I just found out that Zanab now lives with one of the other women on the show who didn't move forward beyond the pods. So those bestie connections definitely happen!

[@Mcknzy51]

Dr. Honda would LOVE Love is Blind Japan. I didn't connect with anyone on the US version, they focused on the same dramatic topics and lacked the emotional elements. The Japan version really allows you to get a feel for people and who they are. I was really invested in each couple.

[@AurorasWindow]

I think once you have kids, regardless of your ethnic or racial background, all the weirdness around poop goes away. It’s not uncommon to have conversations about poop with other parents 😂

[@ktz5047]

I agree with this 100% 😂❤❤

[@lailaalanna315]

I have kids and I don't make this a topic of conversation. Totally unnecessary outside of caring for the kids...

[@littlenatb88]

You should hit up Tushy for a sponsorship. I bought a bidet from them based on a podcast ad and let me tell you, Jihoon had it right.

[@mandi4794]

Bidets are life changing

[@BrookeInProgress]

Same here!

[@jmorphiscave]

I’ll rewatch too. I’d be interested in what Dr Honda has to say if he does. Please don’t keep us waiting for 90 day Happily/After season finale part 1! Oh my …… lol.

[@i_prefer_the_term_antihero]

I absolutely loved this episode. I was going to make a joke about how it started with him talking seriously about reality tv, and then in the middle he’s advertising a bidet XD but by the end I had tears coming to my eyes because of the perspective on shame. This was just wonderful all around. Both in seriousness and hilarity

[@GreenJewelLights]

Polish immigrant here. We would all use the toilet without closing the door. It actually felt weird to pee with the door closed! I guess peeing is so quick closing the door felt pointless? There was many a situation where one parent was in the shower, another was on the toilet, I’d come in to brush my teeth and then the dog would join in because everyone else was in our tiny, tiny bathroom so why not? 😂😂 Poop was where we personally drew the line though. A closed door was how you knew someone was pooping. Pooping was more of a nice private moment where you could relax and read the back of a shampoo bottle or sit with your thoughts. Now we do Wordle or respond to texts we’ve been meaning to get to. There’s something indulgent about it. Or is it just me??

[@anitraholmes8461]

The poop/bidet section of this video is YT gold!! LOL! Dr. Honda, you're hilarious!

[@fieldsofyasmine6255]

that speech at the end was wonderfull

[@AprilT72]

Who requested that Dr Honda watch Too Hot to Handle? I can barely tolerate that show and I love trash tv.

[@showorchid2641]

If you decide to rewatch and review again, I would watch every video!! lol

[@ReginaVestra]

I am SO GLAD to see Nancy agree that Bartise brought that topic up as a way to make a "justified" exit.

[@Mailechannel]

I always listen to Dr Honda, like my daily radio. His calming voice and fair attitude helped me to focus. Sometimes I fall into perspectives of too many psychology problem with the workd tho he he

[@Alumnia91]

This is the longest bidet pitch I have ever heard and I liked it.

[@lauralagzdina]

Btw. There is Love is Blind Brazil right now on netflix. Also Ultimatum France. Both would be great material for this channel :)

[@beah4915]

“Your body is a wonderland” Dr. Honda 😂

[@charitydixon7828]

American bidet haver here! For everyone who is interested, bidets (or at least bidet attachments) are extremely available and way more affordable than you might think~ I'm talking $25-$50 for a good solid clean up. They are increasingly growing in popularity; I listen to several comedy podcasts that are sponsored by bidet companies. You've got this Dr. Kirk! Get you that clean booty sponsorship

[@jasmincastillo8686]

It didn’t really seem like the abortion conversation should have been had between Nancy and bartise’s family. That conversation should have stayed between the two of them. Why does the family have a say in someone they barely know?

[@vasilicaperescu6186]

Loved your speech

[@gracearivenbark]

Love this whole video! Dr. Honda, you’re so right!

[@madhappy77]

Temptation Island is my fav reality tv dating show hands down. The concept is wild and I feel like the couples are a lot more open to addressing their deeper relational/personal issues...but also some bullshit slips through the cracks. The Evan/Kaci/Morgan saga from season 1 + the truth that came out afterwards still blows my mind

[@sarah_bae]

I LOVE temptation island!!!

[@sarah_bae]

Wait what’s the truth that came out ??? The premise of that show is so bizarre lol but one of the couples on (I think the last season) went to the high school I went to so it was crazy to realize it’s real

[@madhappy77]

@@sarah_bae omg so Evan/Kaci were presented as like this on again off again couple where Kaci was pressuring Evan to marry her despite him having conflicted feelings about marriage (esp surriunding his dad), then he fell in love w/ single Morgan & there was a really dramatic bonfire ceremony at the end where Kaci was absolutely distraught. AND THEN....turns out Evan is a compulsive liar who was on all sorts of drugs & never held down a job/lived as a deadbeat mooching off his gfs while also being emotionally abusive(? iirc...) & cheating on them!! Morgan & Kaci both posted exposés on him on youtube

[@sarah_bae]

@@madhappy77 omg yes I do remember watching those KZbin videos ! Totally forgot all about that hahahahah no one talks about this show so it totally slipped my mind!

[@madhappy77]

@@sarah_bae I actually watched it bc Noel Miller made some hilarious recaps of the seasons 1-3 😂 but yes I wish more ppl talked about it!!!

[@lailaalanna315]

She didn't have any isiue attacking Cole. She doesn't say bad stuff about Bartise because she's a sucker for him 😅

[@Kaeriox]

Dr. Honda, thank you for normalizing washing your butt looool. Culturally, we wash after every bathroom encounter (1 or 2) and use both soap and water. Growing up my friends thought I was weird and I had to be the one to open the conversation to it. Fast forward 15-20 years and now they all have bidets and tell me how silly they were LOL.

[@annabailey787]

I loved the end rant about bodies. so uplifting!

[@charlie_says3841]

Yep! We don't have bidets that much here anymore, so I use 100% biodegradable water wipes called "safe to flush" (great brand btw) rather than loo roll. Now if I am stuck out somewhere without them I never feel clean when using the loo. When we change our babies nappies, we don't just use dry paper to clean their bums, we use moist wipes to properly clean the area; same applies to adults really!

[@inferno7289]

the "safe to flush" ones aren't safe to flush either, please look it up

[@negarbayati5697]

As a middle eastern living in US I share the pain of not having bidets here, and I started laughing out loud when Dr Kirk started saying “you’re disgusting for not considering that bidets would make you less disgusting.“ I need a shirt with that quote 😂😂😂

[@pinky1494]

I'm in the camp of laughing hysterically about poop/butts/farts. I started cackling as soon as Nancy brought up the bathtub and I saw your reaction 😂 At work, my boss and I make fart sounds all the time and it makes my day so much better.

[@crystalscollection1511]

Maybe my favorite moment in all of your content Dr. Kirk, is you trying to convince us paper users how great a bidet is! I just had one removed from my house, but having a well-adjusted therapist explain my anal cleanliness is exactly what I needed to reconsider. I'll see what the husband says :D

[@lauralagzdina]

I feel for Nancy so much, shes amazing girl. I wish her exactly what she needs to have exactly what she wants, whatever that would be

[@mandi4794]

If you do rewatch, will you watch the scene where Zanab and Cole are cooking? Just before the "bipolar" conversation.

[@Lafloofen]

Your poop talk had me rolling 🤣 My husband and my first date was hot tubbing, and I’m sure we had some sort of poop talk, I wouldn’t put it past us because that’s how we are. We are always joking around. 10 years later, we still laugh with each other over silly things like poo

[@grace.1123]

the bidet conversation is so interesting and i agree 100%. i lived in korea for 2 years and while i didn't have a bidet in my apartment there, everyone there uses wet/baby wipes religiously. i literally cannot poop without having them now because the idea of wiping without actually cleaning down there is SO disgusting to me. when i would travel to japan i had so much fun using their bidets, and the best part was the music it'd play so you couldn't hear other people!! western/WASP mindset about pooping and just using the bathroom in general is SO backwards. like do you WANT other people hearing you poop? do you WANT skid marks ruining your underwear?? the fear of having a bit of water shoot into your butt to literally CLEAN you is so bizarre lmfao

[@t.ron314]

I’d just like to give a shout out to the line, “that end of your body” 😂😂😂 and I agree 100% about bidets

[@accc1024]

I have the Kohler bidet!! Best purchase ever. I brought my husband on board with it too and we both hate going to the bathroom in public restrooms now because no bidet. But his family definitely thinks it’s weird and humorous that we have one, my family all have one too 😄

[@4it4k]

I laughed out loud at the conclusion 😂

[@rebecavang3756]

I thoroughly enjoyed the bidet bit 😂

[@4everhope1]

I love you and I loved your bidet tirade -- agree 100%

[@kikicinza]

I’m so glad the Dr. Honda got the bidet talk off his chest. I feel just as passionately about talking about 💩.

[@idaalavioon]

Persians are pro-bidet too!!!!😂. I use a similar bidet. I like clean butts and I cannot lie 😂

[@meredithadams9468]

“Love is Blind Brazil” season 2 just came out last week and I’ve already binged the first several episodes. It’s so good!!!

[@jmorphiscave]

Only curious- why no exit tag line ?

[@ms-corleone]

Take care of yourselves, Jennifer & all other DKH watchers, because we deserve it. We really, REALLY do! 💛

[@aj-dg1lj]

Yes rewatch sounds good...... Like in Glass Onion

[@samfindsjoy]

Yes please rewatch and react!! I ❤ your Love is Blind content!

[@millievanillie90]

I really enjoyed the bidet rant. I’ve been thinking about getting one and now I’m convinced. We are really weird about our bodies in the U.S. We idealize\objectify perfection of bodies and shame what is realistic and should be accepted.

[@lentilcrafts1481]

As a mixed race Japanese-American myself who also truly discovered the beauty of bidets while on a family trip to Japan, Kirk ranting about bidets is the best thing on this planet hahahaha😂. I have gone on the same rant so many times to people and I am just glad to see bidets becoming more mainstream. The Toto Washlet is first on the list for when my partner and I finally buy a home!! Until then we just have a Tushy since it can be easily attached/removed.

[@Stormy575]

If you go back and rewatch I would definitely follow along! In fact I'd prefer that to reactions in real time. There were many moments in the initial reaction videos where, having already watched the season in its entirety, I had knowledge that you didn't. And it was frustrating at times knowing that if you'd watched the whole episode in advance you'd probably have a different take on particular scenes or moments. So I'd love a review of S3, applying all that you know from the season and post interviews. 🙏❤🙏

[@grieves11]

Kohler where you at!

[@meredithadams9468]

I bought 2 bidets from Wayfair during the pandemic for my bathrooms and they were my best investments!! So glad I did! I got the nice plug in ones ! Game changer

[@carolinaacastro2516]

Dr. Honda, the Ultimatum France is amazing, I wish you would see it and comment for us.

[@geauxmimi]

OMG, I came here just to comment the same thing. It's soo good and has realistic life problems in my opinion. Dr Honda, please add it to your list.

[@adrianamartinez8092]

We have a bidet in both bathrooms in the house. As a Latina, this ain't a thing in our households. However, I learned about them after visiting a friend's apartment. His family is from Pakistan, and apparently, bidets are a huge thing there. Anyway we got one and I LOVE IT. When family visits, they all comment lol they like it!

[@shannondepalma8929]

now that I have a bidet, I feel so gross every time I use a toilet that doesn't have one! I'm right there with you Dr. Kirk

[@Halbmond]

When I renovated my bathroom, I wanted a washlet (toilet with integrated bidet) soooo much but it would have cost around 2000€, while my brand-name normal toilet was just 300€. Next time I’ll definitely invest that money but until then, I have to be content with occasionally using wet TP

[@MsJeanneMarie]

Wet TP?! Doesn’t it disintegrate as soon as you put water on it?

[@mandi4794]

you can buy an cheap attachment. one of mine was $18 and took about 15 minutes to install.

[@Halbmond]

@@mandi4794 that’s true! It’s not the same comfort, ease of use, or aesthetic, though. That’s why I’ll wait for the next renovation

[@Halbmond]

@@MsJeanneMarie I mean the type you can buy. I know there’s some controversy around their impact on sanitation, but the type I use seems pretty water dissolvable

[@MsJeanneMarie]

@@Halbmond oooh gotcha! Okay! I’ve always heard those referred to as wet wipes. I was wondering cause I’ve tried wetting toilet paper and that is not a good solution. lol

[@sunnypie2]

😆love this tangent!

[@mayacandace6670]

Omg as a half Japanese person currently living in Tokyo, the bidet rant had me dyingggg 🤣🤣 so real

[@Ola_Stawinska]

Im definitely in the other group, any poop conversation gross me out. I don't know why, but that's how it is. On the other hand my husband can talk about poop at any moment. He actually told me some poop story quite early in relationship, i had to fight with myself to not run! :D And when it comes to bidet! In Brazil they have some form of bidet (its like a small shower next to toilet). It took me two years of living hear, just to try it (i thought that its gross because you touch it with your hands right after pooping, so of course other person before you also touched it with dirty hands)! Now i can't imagine life without it :D

[@sarah_bae]

My daughter is comfortable to fling the door open and have full on eye contact conversations with me when I’m on the toilet lol everybody poops !

[@BrookeInProgress]

Question for fellow bidet owners! How do y’all prefer to dry off afterward? I’m obsessed with my bidet, but this is the only thing I feel like I haven’t quite figured out yet.

[@aussiej]

Hope Mrs Dr H had a good laugh!

[@lanagustafson2905]

When i was a kid my parents had a bidet and I always it was for washing your feet

[@elizabethdebrosse96]

Please do this season of Married at First Sight!! 😍

[@happyhiro]

also I come from a Japanese/mixed asian household and very much relate to the openness with toilet talk. plus the open door bathroom situation, which I thought was normal my whole life up until I moved out lol

[@julie-wb8cf]

☺️ Yes to bidets and selflove

[@poponachtschnecke]

It's funny to me that Kirk talks about tp as being only used dry and without added soap.

[@ShellyManne1]

Nancy is a total catch!

[@lisapvpv]

We love u Dr H! And great episode as always! I'm also one of those bathroom people, however I just don't like talking about my own, haha!

[@nanderxmcnander]

Re: Bartise's abortion opinions and bringing it up with his family -- I don't think Bartise had ever really thought critically about abortion and didn't understand why it would be a charged issue. I think he just brought it up as an example of a disagreement, without being aware of how uncomfortable it could make Nancy or whether it could turn his family against her.

[@TheMaltebella]

The whole bidet thing... 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

[@latunskyASMR]

I want a 1-hour video of Dr. Honda talking about bidets :D

[@Peeegoska]

Did Kirk watch Too hot to handle?😁 I need to see that haha!

[@NoName-mp2ec]

I use a tabo because it's cheaper than a bidet :)

[@kajkas2528]

I do not know about States, but in Europe in every supermarket you can buy wet toilet paper. It is soaked in miccelar water and is quite effective in cleaning your rear end 😉 also cheaper than expensive bidet

[@mandi4794]

you can buy it here but it's really bad for the plumbing. even the ones that say they're safe really aren't.

[@TheIndigo1child]

OK serious question to the bidet users (Im a very curious person sorry in advance) So my only negative thought about them has been what's the point because don't you still have to wipe yourself? If you shoot water up there how do you dry it? There is no way I'd be using an ass crack towel more than once so you would still need paper no?

[@mineliatrujeque9725]

I think with the toilet paper shortage during Covid , people may have a different outlook on bidets 😂

[@agatharedriver668]

One of the best yammerings of all time 🥰

[@crondawn7961]

Doctor I love your curiosity! Do it.. Love it… I’m watching it lol! I would love to go back and put a finger on it! Love ur vids!!! 💚💚💚

[@patriciajeronimo427]

I wish you could react to the LIB Brazil, this season is happening so many red flags that it would be so nice to know your insights on what's happening!

[@mariemoncada6980]

American taboo is not 9 or 10 lol the middle east especially Afghanistan has literally unspeakably strong taboos against farting. There were news reports during the war about the outrage Afghan translators would feel when the American soldiers would fart. It is common for Afghan family members to not EVER speak about "bathroom stuff."

[@mandi4794]

oh my gosh 😂

[@samirasingh3193]

Same with Lebanese families

[@mariemoncada6980]

@@samirasingh3193 maybe it's a Muslim thing

[@AndreaRodriguez-cu7yn]

*not holding you to it: but heck yes to the aspiration of rewatching and reacting to a few scenes! 🤩 No pressure though if you don’t do it lol 🙌🏼

[@bigmunchkinfan]

I really wish that Dr. Honda would watch Married at First Sight. He could gain a lot from that show as well.

[@sarahohara4022]

I love my bidet and my family doesn’t get it. I have a real problem traveling and going without it. Gross! Poopourri actually sells a bidet that doesn’t require power that you can add on to any toilet. Maybe I should buy another one and bring it on vacation….

[@julimej8516]

Yeees Watch and Talk about it again . Love it 🙏🙏😍😍😍

[@TheCouchPotatoWatchesTV]

Dr Honda I would love to see your reactions to the show Toddlers and Tiaras! Really enjoy your content and would love to see what you think of that show!

[@hayleyb467]

It is a wild show! I doubt Dr.H would cover it as it blurs the line of consent from the toddlers. he's talked about avoiding content with children in the past.

[@LibraLeo325]

Speaking of “#2” - I think part of the stigma is sub conscious associated with death perhaps (?)

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

Yeah like if you don't get it away from you it could be fatal. "Don't shit where you eat" is a saying for a reason lol

[@mackenziekelly2778]

This episode reminds me of this quote I shared with a friend this week: “If you don’t find farts funny then you’re a loser because you’re choosing to have less joy in your life but the exact same amount of farts” 🤣 No one is a loser of course for what they find appropriate or funny but this cracked me up and I thought you might appreciate it. Loved this bathroom talk soapbox episode 💩🚽🧻👌🏻

[@maddiefaye696]

I agree

[@roshunepp]

Dr. Honda can't help but go in on bidets lol.

[@crondawn7961]

Toilet paper ugh lol! 💚💚💚

[@Emi-xp5tl]

Italian bidets are the next true step

[@acivilright]

You are right about bidets, Dr. Honda! And other things, of course. But especially about bidets. LOL

[@dariasmeh]

Love how this video abruptly ends. Kudos, Stacey on her excellent quality control of this video!

[@inferno7289]

to me it's odd to hear that Kirk thinks that season 3 is the best reality show he's ever seen considering how fast and surface level he skimmed through it with his reactions