PTE Clips: I Will Not Teach You How To Treat Me

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@PermissionToExist 11 ай бұрын

Clipped from: Disrespect: The Root of Narcissistic Behavior kzbin.infoFEVJdUki6_w?feature=share

@alexisgarcia1344 11 ай бұрын

Yes!! They CHOOSE to be disrespectful.

@cwizzy13 11 ай бұрын

Exactly!

@jhoniikemp 11 ай бұрын

Yes to the Clips!

@JustBeREAL1st 11 ай бұрын

Say that again 🙌🏽

@michaelcampbell3172 8 ай бұрын

Bingo! Nailed It Girll.

@Spock_Rogers 11 ай бұрын

I know a narcissist who says this. I knew it didn't sit right with me. Thank you for pointing out why.

@thepragmatist 11 ай бұрын

I absolutely agree with what you're saying here.

@what.you.allowyou.permit2030 7 ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY!!!! 100% I agree with YOU. That's so bullish a narrative!!!!!!!! cuz it blames the target for someone else's behavior.

@akazinsomniac3007 11 ай бұрын

My mom says that all the time and she's a covert narcissist. When I was a kid she would have me go back out after I was bullied and put up with more she's pure evil!

@edunlap6594 11 ай бұрын

I am looping this while I am at work. I have hated that dumbass statement for a long time. The women who say this BS need to assess their level of evil

@lyricmelody8162 8 ай бұрын

I had a sociology teacher who tried to convince the classroom that we "teach people how to treat us". I had no idea what she was talking about. 😒😵😟😑😵‍💫🥺🤐🤔

@HopeHalligan-x6m 9 ай бұрын

Thank you for your wisdom. I have NEVER liked this "teaching" (WE teach people HOW to treat US).

@mtc-j9i 11 ай бұрын

You’re absolutely correct. Yikes! This is terrible. Every person has to teach you how to treat them?? lol yes, that means disrespect is their norm for every person, and the people who were supposed to teach them - their parents - did not. Absolutely. This is on point. I would NEVER mistreat someone on purpose - no matter how they felt about themselves - good or bad. Thank you for this post. I can stop blaming myself now! And move on. If I wouldn’t do it to you, but you keep doing it to me, then we just don’t have the same values. Moving on and the search will continue for decent empathic people.

@celismalone3946 11 ай бұрын

ABSOLUTELY 💯, CORRECT‼️✔️

@awalebebinu 11 ай бұрын

All facts.

@kathyblanda7212 11 ай бұрын

Love the PTE clips! Keep them coming please.

@justChrisjones 11 ай бұрын

Yep! This is so profoundly stated, thank you. Its taken me decades of family direspect to finally figure it out. Ive had the rock bottom worse. But teachers clergy and most other people respected me. So im living well but i dont have a family anymore. Im alone and its ok. Thank you for this well put statement.❤

@susanservin1949 11 ай бұрын

The notion of teaching someone how to treat you is a guilt trip. Everyone has free will and everyone should be treated with respect no matter what their own opinion of themselves is. NO excuse for disrespecting others.

@violet18 11 ай бұрын

I'm so glad you posted this. When people say that, it makes me feel like it was my fault because they're shifting the blame onto me.

@sophiam9886 5 ай бұрын

They are shifting the blame onto you. That's why you feel bad when they do it.

@laleezy77 11 ай бұрын

& ppl who choose to disrespect can't be taught anything anyway lol it's not like they're gona listen or be aware..

@breakthroughmoment1647 11 ай бұрын

I fully concur, PTE. You’re informing the world that respect is a trait you don’t have. You’re telling on YOURSELF.

@HopeHalligan-x6m 9 ай бұрын

The other phrase I HATE is: "There are no victims, just VOLUNTEERS." Huh ? ? ? ?

@victormclaine721 11 ай бұрын

Agree. Thank you.

@suzannebunbury2961 11 ай бұрын

Truly excellent teaching.

@heathermjordan-durant8684 11 ай бұрын

I wasn't notified of your latest video, it was the all bell. I used to listen to you years ago. You helped me through a lot. I want to say thank you and I'm glad you're still here. ❤🎉

@awakekate3064 11 ай бұрын

💯 I hate this saying! The advice should be if someone treats you rudely walk away. Block. Go no contact!

@justChrisjones 11 ай бұрын

I needed speed dial for foster care!

@adenbuford7396 11 ай бұрын

PTE, Great. Getting clips up. Awesome.

@augustineschaefer5522 7 ай бұрын

When you say it that way…I can’t teach the remedial people. You gotta come to the table with respect, dignity, and not antagonism or other bullying activities. We gotta have some common ground

@hitealwomanhere8712 11 ай бұрын

Truth

@SuspiriaX 2 ай бұрын

I can't stop applauding this. Literally every time I watch it my hands come together with this huge grin on my face. You nailed it.

@Texas-t-shirts 11 ай бұрын

Of all the things taught in school, this, is the main result; One is better than another, and, it must constantly be confirmed...

@lanaivanovic5272 11 ай бұрын

Very interesting take on the topic. Never heard it before on the internet. 👍

@angell504 11 ай бұрын

Idk where you been hiding but this video is on point. How other people feel about themselves is none of your business and they need to stop using that as an excuse to make scapegoats out of people who did nothing to them

@ildyivy 11 ай бұрын

This is a horrible one I’ve heard before. It’s like an excuse for abuse. It sounded offensive to me and really hoped this is not right. I understand that it is my responsibility to identify my deficits that may have let a predatory person I allowed in to my life abuse me, prevent it in the future, but I shouldn’t have to teach someone how to treat me with respect.

@SuspiriaX 9 ай бұрын

It's supposed to be for people who aren't supposed to love you Unkind strangers or criminals Pseudo-toxic corporate environments It shouldn't be applied to relationships that are by choice and therefore ought to be loving! IMO

@sophiam9886 5 ай бұрын

@@SuspiriaXNobody knows who is going to be rude, abusive, or a criminal to them ahead of time. Therefore, this message stands true for everyone, not just outsiders who you don't have a personal relationship with.

@hughmungus6402 11 ай бұрын

Amen! ❤

@timhargrow 11 ай бұрын

Its just plain gas lighting and blame shifting

@jaiafrica6112 5 ай бұрын

I take it as most people being inherently evil and thus whatever goodness you experience has to be enforced by you much like how we have laws to enforce civilization. A good person would not believe that someone having low self esteem/ no boundaries means they deserve abuse but People are not good creatures unfortunately.

@sophiam9886 5 ай бұрын

Regardless of all of that, nobody can control other people's behavior. Case in point, people break "laws" all the time. Every person's behavior is their own responsibility.

@PJB3-jj9jp 10 ай бұрын

Hello, I want to introduce a different way of looking at “teaching someone how to treat me”. When someone offends me or does something that I do not like, I make them aware of their actions because I am creating boundaries for myself (safe space) and also letting them know that I will not tolerate certain (offensive or damaging) behavior. That person then gets to decide if they want to change their behavior toward me or not. If they do not, then our relationship probably will not continue in the same manner or maybe not at all. That in a sense, is teaching them. The lesson is: this person has boundaries while navigating in a healthy relationship and if they value the person and the relationship, they “choose” (as you put it) not do those things to again.

@lizlalove6171 11 ай бұрын

Spot on. I totally agree that in a civilized society, no one should have to force anyone to respect anyone else. Isn't it unfortunate that, the way human relations work, animal instinct will take over and people will treat others to the max limit of whatever is tolerated? This is definitely true in the dating world. When people school women on how to deal with men, it's a given that you have to clearly demonstrate what you'll put up with or you'll end up getting mistreated. That why modern dating sucks.