Pure OCD: Fear of Incest intrusive thoughts

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Chrissie Hodges

Chrissie Hodges

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@aguywithayoutube9685
@aguywithayoutube9685 4 жыл бұрын
my intrusive thoughts make me wanna die...i’ve had these thoughts since a child and felt so weird and evil and depression n stuff kicked in but....i’m 17 now and knowing everyone else has this problem makes me feel a little better
@aguywithayoutube9685
@aguywithayoutube9685 4 жыл бұрын
@cheese fries u have a princess bubblegum pfp : )
@ariellaallen2856
@ariellaallen2856 3 жыл бұрын
Also keep on praying to Jesus. He will help. Read His Word and Follow In His footsteps too. Ur not alone. I struggle with this too. God Bless u. I will pray for u.
@wayne6931
@wayne6931 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so ashamed for having this. It's very suffocating everyday dealing with it.
@stevengems4878
@stevengems4878 3 жыл бұрын
Same here i have these thoughts i am afraid . This pandemic it triggers me more
@alachingada3563
@alachingada3563 3 жыл бұрын
Same I just want to kill my brain
@CaringMind
@CaringMind 7 жыл бұрын
A dark subject, but worth raising. Good stuff
@madelinestevens8185
@madelinestevens8185 7 жыл бұрын
Oh god thank you. I've had OCD thoughts about ALL of my family members I cry almost daily because of these faults.
@lizshawiscool
@lizshawiscool 6 жыл бұрын
Madeline Stevens does it get better?
@danieltang5096
@danieltang5096 6 жыл бұрын
Awww poor baby... ❤️
@yagmurm.140
@yagmurm.140 5 жыл бұрын
Hi i have these thought rn and does it get better?
@brettmahorney71
@brettmahorney71 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing to cry about. Does not mean theres something wrong with you
@melochimes
@melochimes 3 жыл бұрын
Anyone else is scared that they could be real and this is not OCD? Or that you think that OCD only to justify yourself?
@annebranch6262
@annebranch6262 6 жыл бұрын
This is my biggest fear. Fear of incest. I get these distressing thoughts about my dad. I won't get into detail but they get so bad I cry. I look stupid moving my head side to side and contorting my face and mouth, clenching my fists when I have these thoughts. Can't wait to start treatment.
@danieltang5096
@danieltang5096 6 жыл бұрын
I have feelings for my aunt, and honestly I don’t want it to stop
@Selena-mz6ln
@Selena-mz6ln 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Tang...you definitely do not have OCD then if you want the thoughts-
@nate4713
@nate4713 4 жыл бұрын
Anne Branch I do the same thing I shake my head and tighten my fist
@NiranjanRavikumar7
@NiranjanRavikumar7 4 жыл бұрын
Hello. I totally understand and sympathize with you. I went through this and my suggestion is please meditate. You'll learn how to let thoughts pass as if they are not even a part of you. Thoughts come and go all the time. Don't worry. If you start reacting to those thoughts, you'll only aggravate it because it's your mind you are going up against and the reply it will give you is "Oh so it is true, then." which will just increase the anxiety. When those thoughts come around, just say this "Meh. I know who I am. You cannot define me."
@RaikenXion
@RaikenXion 4 жыл бұрын
@@danieltang5096 I had that as a teen but it was when i accidentally walked in on her naked.
@niryashk9197
@niryashk9197 4 жыл бұрын
Many people struggle with this kind of OCD it’s very hard to live with this these thoughts tear you apart but we have to understand that it’s a disorder thanks a lot for you support god bless you
@luzycat7869
@luzycat7869 4 жыл бұрын
I cannot look my family in the eye. And you make the stories funny, I like how talk about this topic.
@amritapuri9038
@amritapuri9038 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate. My relations with my family is so much crashing down and my entire world is crumbling down just because of this.
@emelyrodriguez8084
@emelyrodriguez8084 3 жыл бұрын
@@amritapuri9038 I can relate too. I wish there was an ocd support group
@alachingada3563
@alachingada3563 3 жыл бұрын
@@amritapuri9038 Same
@Yamsandjams-w4t
@Yamsandjams-w4t 3 ай бұрын
Same.. I cannot look into their eyes and also physical touch becomes a problem… it triggers it for me so much.. a simple kiss or a caress becomes a trigger.. and also my mind goes like “this kiss was a bit passionate, what if they are secretly harassing you sexually and you don’t realize that?”.. that’s one of my darkest deepest themes I have had sines childhood and it’s the first time I think I comment it.. just because I saw your comment and how it’s exactly like mine it gave me the courage to go into details on how it affects me.. the amount of shame and guilt I feel when it attacks me is crazy.. if only people knew how dark it can get… like a horror movie
@galchonok2000
@galchonok2000 Жыл бұрын
I have been suffering from pure o (incest thought) from 13 years. It’s killing me inside. It’s so torturing and so painful. But I believe we all can go through it ❤ it’s not you, it’s just a disorder
@7Minish
@7Minish 6 жыл бұрын
I had this when I was a child. It was awful. I would cry for hours and hours. And my mom would ask me why are you crying, and I couldn't tell her. It went to sleep when I developed religius OCD. That's when I almost killed myself.
@busygal777
@busygal777 7 жыл бұрын
This is by far my most difficult fear obsession, thank you for this vid! Just bought your book!
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate 7 жыл бұрын
How did you like the book!?!!?
@ElectricWarior
@ElectricWarior 7 жыл бұрын
Ah..such hell this is, so hard to go through but gets better with the help of the uncertainty.
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate 7 жыл бұрын
It IS hell!!! Thank you for watching!
@harunrazak7764
@harunrazak7764 7 жыл бұрын
+Chrissie Hodges/Pure OCD Advocate *like
@kzhasour
@kzhasour 3 жыл бұрын
So I’m really really suffering right now. Lately I’ve been terrified that my father could be having incest thoughts and sometimes i even think he has been secretly touching me, when i know that in reality he would never do that. But it feels so real and it’s bothering me so deeply because i know it’s an intrusive thought but i just have trouble living with it.
@kzhasour
@kzhasour 3 жыл бұрын
And there’s no ocd specialist in my city
@indigobindigo3247
@indigobindigo3247 3 жыл бұрын
I’m having the same exact problem but mine is with both my parents this started for me like 3 months ago it’s so horrible
@d1m1trismp
@d1m1trismp 2 жыл бұрын
I have had these thoughts for 3 months. Are they incest ocd?😢
@soulmellow338
@soulmellow338 5 жыл бұрын
it makes me sick to my stomach like i don't have enough issues
@omikredarhcs8221
@omikredarhcs8221 3 жыл бұрын
you create your own issues
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
What triggers it is porn
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
What triggers it is what I am exposed to
@georgemccall-zz4pd
@georgemccall-zz4pd 4 ай бұрын
@@PopCultureKing2009do you think abstaining from porn will restore your brain and the thoughts will eventually subside?
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 4 ай бұрын
@@georgemccall-zz4pd ? I don’t know what you mean
@DavidTheCastle
@DavidTheCastle 6 жыл бұрын
You are very funny and have super pretty blue eyes. Thanks for making me feel better.
@findingtifa
@findingtifa 4 жыл бұрын
Ocd is really hurtful this is the help that I needed to find earlier in my teens I couldn't even tell to my physquiatrist about it I felt so much shame I admire the way that the info is given people just don't understand that this are really mental disorders! Oh and she got the balls to explain as plain a truth at it is
@mooniemoon8996
@mooniemoon8996 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks I can finally go back to being normal!
@negalgg5372
@negalgg5372 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t even talk to my own mother in the eye , I feel so ashamed and disgusted and sad when the intrusive toughts come , I’m only 17 and this is very tough for me it is very draining
@SpiritVines
@SpiritVines 6 ай бұрын
I tried using p*rn as exposure therapy, and I knew it was all fake obviously but I still got turned on by the thought of it! It’s horrible because I’m like omg what if I actually do want that. What if I’m mad. What if… I know I’m bisexual but what if it’s more than that. I really hope it’s not but I’m not sure.
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
I lost my mom to breast cancer and living cancer I can’t even look at a picture of her in my aunts room I feel like she is watching me and I feel her spirit around me and that is scary it’s uncomfortable I don’t like the thought of my mom watching me
@Selena-mz6ln
@Selena-mz6ln 4 жыл бұрын
I have OCD and i have intrusive thoughts but last night i had a nasty dream about someone that I shouldn’t have and i woke up and was just sitting there thinking about it. Now i just have so much anxiety built up inside of me and its making me believe im attracted to that person or i wanna do what i was thinking about and its really scary because im not sure it was an intrusive thought because i created the thought on my own and i just would really love some guidance if anyone would like to share tips or information about what is going on? Thanks to whoever is listening😇🙏🏼
@drinkbleach1827
@drinkbleach1827 4 жыл бұрын
Selena this exact thing just happened to me holy shit
@Remake5182
@Remake5182 4 жыл бұрын
This happened to me too, it was so guilt creating.
@Selena-mz6ln
@Selena-mz6ln 4 жыл бұрын
Learning With The Smiley Yellow Face yeah ik i feel so guilty when stuff like this happens🤧
@Remake5182
@Remake5182 4 жыл бұрын
@@Selena-mz6ln IKR
@novelvlog1562
@novelvlog1562 4 жыл бұрын
Is that your dad or brother..? Or son
@isthataspider7410
@isthataspider7410 2 жыл бұрын
It’s even worse because I’m bisexual. Oh yeah, I also have misophonia and certain noises sound sexual to me even when they’re not. So Idk when it’s misophonia or ocd, probably both. It’s breaking me down but I’ll get through it. Thank you for this
@princessofthebog2053
@princessofthebog2053 2 жыл бұрын
I’m going through the same
@amandahernandez6117
@amandahernandez6117 Жыл бұрын
Same…
@dogaozmen8889
@dogaozmen8889 6 ай бұрын
I HAD THE SAME THING!! I wonder sometimes if these ocd symptoms occured back then, and whether watching smexual content could have something to do with it. It's too complex and annoying
@isthataspider7410
@isthataspider7410 5 ай бұрын
@@dogaozmen8889 either way our brains would find something to freak out over even if we could go back and address the root causes, because that's just the way ocd works. Fun times! Good luck to you and the others here.
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
What about babies boys are you able to handle that that worries me does that make me a pedophile
@barongbajbaj1945
@barongbajbaj1945 7 жыл бұрын
You are really brave for coming out with this. Thanks Chrissie.
@lanemichaelwalters
@lanemichaelwalters 8 ай бұрын
I don't know what is happening in the stars today but I was guided to your video just now 😊 and want to thank you for helping to shed light on a completely misunderstood area of my life. I am 39 years old and feel like my mind has just been opened. A mental health breakthrough! So grateful you took the time to post this. I really love and appreciate your vibe/energy
@Hawthorn6852
@Hawthorn6852 6 жыл бұрын
It seems like the teenage years are always the ones that spark sexual intrusive thoughts! 😂
@killmexd7704
@killmexd7704 5 жыл бұрын
@@danieltang5096 ...
@TSJ99
@TSJ99 3 жыл бұрын
Damn hormones
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
I hope I don’t have them anymore when I’m older
@emelyrodriguez8084
@emelyrodriguez8084 3 жыл бұрын
tysm for this video. My ocd themes have ranged from suicidal ocd to pedophilia and this. This one is the one that has stuck with me the most because it is the worst. Its so hard to want to even live and I genuinely want to just disappear instead of having to deal with this. I also tend to end up thinking about a theme so much where I research stuff and with incest I know people used to do that a lot so its like howw?? Then I try to come up with an answer to make sure I don't do that. This happens with almost every theme. I need answers to calm me down. Rn, I don't have any and now I'm thinking what if I end up viewing all my family members in that way? This is the worst ocd theme bc I love my family so much. I'm close with all of them but things have changed since this theme. I distance myself from them and it sucks. Its so hard.
@vanshikakaushik6497
@vanshikakaushik6497 Жыл бұрын
I fear my mom and brother sleeping together ocd enough?
@NiranjanRavikumar7
@NiranjanRavikumar7 4 жыл бұрын
I implore everyone who is suffering from this to know themselves completely. Know who you are. What you represent. For that you have to put yourself through good suffering like working out, running. Remember guys. Our imagination is always a background process, which creates scenarios both good and bad. It's important to realize that all these thoughts are from your biggest fears. Meditate for 10 minutes every day. When I went through this, I had a very difficult time in my life. It was when I started knowing who I am and just breathe through thoughts as they pass, that I had any relief. Don't touch those thoughts. Don't analyze them. Just let them flow. Don't associate yourself with those thoughts. We're in this together.
@allamanos4949
@allamanos4949 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@unknownuser4879
@unknownuser4879 2 жыл бұрын
@@allamanos4949 My fear is always: what if it isn't ocd and I'm really a monster
@MO1234161
@MO1234161 2 жыл бұрын
@@allamanos4949 Believe in yourself 💜
@emilyrenyalmeida3436
@emilyrenyalmeida3436 2 жыл бұрын
@@unknownuser4879 So is mine! But I try to stay positive and remember “it’s just the ocd trying to convince me it’s real”. It’s never real.
@puref00ty11
@puref00ty11 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@tanishajain7194
@tanishajain7194 4 жыл бұрын
I had tears while watching the video. I have never felt so accepted. Thank you so much! You are amazinggg! Sending love! :'))
@iraaddams9903
@iraaddams9903 5 жыл бұрын
I just want to thank you so sooo much for taking your precious time to make these videos ...you have no idea how much you've changed many people's lives of which includes mine .I just wanna hug you and everybody else who relates...this is making me cry ....thank youu.ill always be thankful
@prabhavbhagat292
@prabhavbhagat292 5 жыл бұрын
hi , i have incestual ocd ( along with hocd contamination ocd , magical thinking etc. etc.) has it ever happened to you that you had a feeling that you need to think those thoughts for it to get over ? and then when you do think them you get crapped up thinking that you wanted to think them
@ariellaallen2856
@ariellaallen2856 3 жыл бұрын
Just know that it’s not ur fault. Keep praying to Jesus, Following His Word and reading Scripture
@poni_poki
@poni_poki 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like the feeling of a "need" to think the thoughts is a compulsion, which makes sense. And then the guilt from performing the compulsion follows.
@prabhavbhagat292
@prabhavbhagat292 3 жыл бұрын
@@poni_poki It's been two years since I left that message , I was fifteen then am seventeen now , and it almost seems remarkable to me just how different a person I was then . OCD is a part of who I am , but hardly affects my daily life at all now . I think at some point I became so so fatigued of all of this , that the pointlessness of my compulsions became very very apparent ......
@poni_poki
@poni_poki 3 жыл бұрын
@@prabhavbhagat292 I’m so glad you’ve been able to manage OCD! I am still working on it but I am generally in a much better place with it than I was before I knew I had it and what exactly was going on.
@prabhavbhagat292
@prabhavbhagat292 3 жыл бұрын
@@poni_poki Thanks ! You'll get there too , just don't ever get stressed out because of it .
@immaisuradze
@immaisuradze Жыл бұрын
Well i having incest thoughts about my brother, recently my brother became more open with me and we went shopping few times and i was happy that he was friendly and open with me and then ocd kicked me that i like my brother
@zwyczajnadziewczyna333
@zwyczajnadziewczyna333 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video! It's a really tough topic, but I'm feeling a bit better now, I'm not alone with that!
@suvignanpothuraju8350
@suvignanpothuraju8350 6 жыл бұрын
Love you Chrissie and your counseling videos a lot to me because I suffering ocd for 5 years.
@stevengems4878
@stevengems4878 3 жыл бұрын
I thought I am alone with these thoughts 😢😢 right now it keeps coming in my mind and feels like doesnt go away
@stevengems4878
@stevengems4878 3 жыл бұрын
Can someone email me at lemonrockee@gmail.com . And lets have conversation with this issue
@sadalpaca1307
@sadalpaca1307 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Chrissie! This video is a godsend, thank you so much for your kind message and advice for this hellish strain of OCD (honestly, the worst one ever).
@danieltang5096
@danieltang5096 6 жыл бұрын
DO you have incestuous thoughts?
@alr.3137
@alr.3137 4 жыл бұрын
It reminds me of the Psych talk in GTA Vice City: "All these years I was afraid that I want to sleep with my mother - and now that I did it - guess what, I'm not afraid of it anymore
@NitishKumar-yj6yo
@NitishKumar-yj6yo 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot . You are a great human being
@hamza3065
@hamza3065 5 жыл бұрын
You have been such a great help Chrissie, I definitely feel much better and I feel I can defeat this monster
@thec2359
@thec2359 3 жыл бұрын
I have had this for over a year now, every action I do relating to my siblings and mother always makes my mind convince me I am a dirty pervert and that I am attracted to them. The other day my mum was on my bed and after she left I didn't feel comfortable sleeping there so I sprayed deodorant on it and then I sniffed it to check the smell of the deodorant but my mind convinced me I was being perverted and I have been haunted by it for a while. I also have POCD and it is horrible, I just hope people sympathise with me and don't see me as a pervert. I only did that because if I didn't my mind would have convinced me I am being a pervert if I didn't squirt the deodorant. Oh and I sniffed it for the smell cuz I like the smell of deodorant. I hope Chrissie sees this and still considers it OCD not me being a pervert.
@geogithomas2473
@geogithomas2473 3 жыл бұрын
u helped me sooo much and i laughed at the thoughts for the first time
@julianaramirez7669
@julianaramirez7669 3 жыл бұрын
It happened to me as well then after seeing this I feel less alone, and everything has improved since then!
@jaded5481
@jaded5481 3 жыл бұрын
i have this but only with a specific family member. it’s gotten so bad, i’m convinced i have real feelings/desires for this person. it’s tearing me apart. i can’t even be around this person anymore, hear their name, or look at pictures of them without being triggered. i can’t help but feel like it’s real.
@kyleigh8433
@kyleigh8433 3 жыл бұрын
Your not alone ♥️
@ashutoshtiwari8225
@ashutoshtiwari8225 3 жыл бұрын
Happening to me for months. It is not real trust me. It feels real but it isn't, it is just a neural pathway that your brain follows everytime it gets triggered. Anxiety is one of the main reasons that it feels real. I know its hard to ignore the anxiety that it causes but you will only get better once you learn to ignore it.
@freck2614
@freck2614 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t worry it’s fine. You aren’t alone at all.
@MA-gb6wj
@MA-gb6wj 2 жыл бұрын
Hey how are you doing atm? Are you still having this intrusive thouths? I'm having this exact same problem atm and I'm scared it's real
@freck2614
@freck2614 2 жыл бұрын
@@MA-gb6wj So am I I'm scared to see therapy or any kind of help. Incase i don't have ocd and I'm a horrible person.
@IAm-zu4ql
@IAm-zu4ql 7 жыл бұрын
Your videos are brilliant thank you! You are serving the world well!I we love your energy and mind! :)
@INSPOSPIN
@INSPOSPIN 2 жыл бұрын
Does it happen to someone else the there is a period of time where your ocd is just gone and then it returns?
@stephentreanor5044
@stephentreanor5044 6 жыл бұрын
Sorry but I’ve got to say that I do believe totally that my ocd was brought on as a result of trauma.
@isasofia4633
@isasofia4633 4 жыл бұрын
Even though it could’ve been caused by trauma it’s best not to dwell on the cause because it can be a compulsive behavior that gets you stuck in that ocd cycle of negative thoughts and anxiety
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
I don’t want to blame it on my trauma and my problems
@GlitteranGold
@GlitteranGold 11 күн бұрын
Not even to mention the intrusive thoughts of wanting to harm my enemy’s something else I leave out for fear I’ll get locked up if I mention how I’ve thought of harming others. That have abused and hurt me gave me trauma.
@NN-gl2ef
@NN-gl2ef 3 жыл бұрын
i have intrusive thoughts/images (ocd) for more than 7 years had some treatments but nothing really helped and it just get worse everyday ; and it comes to my mind all day like if i was doing nothing it wouldnt go away or even if im watching tv i get distracted by these thoughts all the time every second, i hate this so much and things gets more complicated.. i have also other disorders which makes me more exausted and weak to do anything abt it. to people who suffers now never lose hope we got this!!
@michaelwolf7894
@michaelwolf7894 9 ай бұрын
The thought itself isn't so problematic, it's when some get curious and want to act out those thoughts.
@geogithomas2473
@geogithomas2473 3 жыл бұрын
i have got intrusive thoughts about my family members when I was little... that time it was soo scary and we went to hospital and doctor said that i have ocd …..but we didn't do any treatment coz it went after 2 months automatically...….BUT it came again and i am suffering for 4 years now it says me i like the thoughts and i will become like soooo much scary (sometimes violent) at ocd …and .the worst part of ocd is when it says and u doubt whether u like the thought and it feels soo real and i am soo scared now
@geogithomas2473
@geogithomas2473 3 жыл бұрын
@Sayan prince can u say how u recovered
@hollycallow2588
@hollycallow2588 5 жыл бұрын
Fear of liking my dad ?
@maxnapoles7739
@maxnapoles7739 4 жыл бұрын
Yes that’s a symptom don’t be alarmed u don’t like ur dad
@waterunder3718
@waterunder3718 4 жыл бұрын
I have a fear of liking my mom like having feelings for her
@maxnapoles7739
@maxnapoles7739 4 жыл бұрын
Water Under OCD can cause fake feelings it’s not real, what do u feel?
@waterunder3718
@waterunder3718 4 жыл бұрын
Max Napoles oh when she was talking to me like leaning in, I avoid seeing her face cause I still have hocd and I turn around
@maxnapoles7739
@maxnapoles7739 4 жыл бұрын
Water Under oh I do that too but it’s just ocd if U fear it it means it’s not true just try to ignore it
@lasdj1848
@lasdj1848 3 жыл бұрын
I have this and hocd last month it was about my mom then it goes away now its about my dad (im straight man) WTF im so scared of this sht
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar 5 жыл бұрын
It's Like Supicious of everything, That Reality Was not Real, and you start to Wonder well what Is True. But It's already what you basically Know, Cause Well If it wasn't, How the Hell did you make it this long In age if it wasn't.
@anonymouslyknownravegirl2945
@anonymouslyknownravegirl2945 Жыл бұрын
I fear that it’s real and I feel so ashamed at times. I try to reassure myself it’s ocd. I fear it so bad. Even when strangers, friends or anyone asks me about my family I even feel guilt and shame and do actions trying to hide my thoughts because I think people can tell or read my Mind
@ranapaloma
@ranapaloma 4 жыл бұрын
is anyone in the same boat and can talk to me? i am very suicidal because i think i failed (verbal) exposure and made everything worse. i need to talk about this, i need to somehow reassure myself it was not a bad intention and that i'm not a horrible person that deserves to die because of that. the only thing that helps me go to sleep is the thought that soon i will die and will never ruminate and panic again
@sadfreak761
@sadfreak761 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah shure...are you on Instagram?
@ranapaloma
@ranapaloma 4 жыл бұрын
@@sadfreak761 oh my, thanks so much for replying! luckily for the last few weeks my mental state has been more stable and i'm not that much of a danger to myself anymore but if your offer to talk remains, my instagram is m.love_art (and ofc i'm also there to listen if you wanna talk because it's quite hard to find people to personally talk to about intrusive thoughts and related troubles)
@sadfreak761
@sadfreak761 4 жыл бұрын
@@ranapaloma I messaged you on insta my account is melancholia_________ (There are nine _)
@sadfreak761
@sadfreak761 4 жыл бұрын
To the people that liked the comment: Also feel free to message me :)
@ranapaloma
@ranapaloma 4 жыл бұрын
@@sadfreak761 i'm so sorry but i never received a message! :( i regularly checked the inbox but nothing
@GlitteranGold
@GlitteranGold 11 күн бұрын
What if it’s about your lovers family and not about yours? What’s wrong with me. Like I have messed up thoughts but I’ll never mention them to a therapist or anyone for that matter because there so fucked up.
@GlitteranGold
@GlitteranGold 11 күн бұрын
I’ve never had physical trauma just mental trauma but it’s messed me up terribly. I also suffer from Borderline and I heard you can have both OCD and Borderline together.
@poni_poki
@poni_poki 3 жыл бұрын
Really struggling with this one recently, and have been on and off since I was about 10 or 11.
@poni_poki
@poni_poki 3 жыл бұрын
Luckily I am doing ERP for it and becoming much stronger!
@aydenb.5011
@aydenb.5011 3 жыл бұрын
has it gotten any better?
@poni_poki
@poni_poki Жыл бұрын
@@aydenb.5011yes, thank you! My medication has helped a lot in the past couple years.
@eternalservantofreaper1744
@eternalservantofreaper1744 Жыл бұрын
I don't know If I have OCD or not but I definitely relate to unwanted incestual thoughts
@jesterlpm5054
@jesterlpm5054 Ай бұрын
i have thoughts about my younger brother and it hurts but at the end of the day once you realize it’s not that big of a deal it’s actually kinda funny 😂
@921ster
@921ster Жыл бұрын
I have ROCD, and it is killing me. I have terrible thoughts that turn into feelings and it torments me. I really don’t know what to do at this point??
@dayshabutler1957
@dayshabutler1957 4 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Thanks so much for this. I actually laughed because you are so comical. Will you please give me advice on founding someone who specializes in this? I have recently been diagnosed with bipolar and so my current counselor refuses to treat me for OCD until my bipolar meds are right. She did mention possibly doing CBT after the meds are right. But she won’t even label it as OCD. I did have a counselor label me as Pure O before but for some reason this counselor I saw today doesn’t like labels. I did explain how mentally abusive my ex is and how that could have potentially caused or trigger the OCD so maybe she thinks it’s not really OCD but IT IS. And I’m not particularly talking about incest. There’s all kinds of themes with my OCD. But I want exposure therapy fast.. whatever it takes to recover ASAP. And of course I’ll keep getting treated for the bipolar. Thanks! 😊
@beartonuzans1776
@beartonuzans1776 4 жыл бұрын
If anyone comes by this comment I'm just really concerned weather my thoughts are true or not I don't want them but I'm afraid it'll be something that I want this is not of suspicion just out of being scared, when it is gone. to be clear I don't know if this is something like sexuality how it just kicks in and you can't control it. I think that's a majority of the reason why I keep on thinking I am a monster because I'm unsure. Ps. I feel like I've got a thing in my mind which channels all my inner fears and violent and sexual thoughts. Like the devils inside me or something I'm not sure if it is OCD despite all the boxes being ticked and being diagnosed.
@beartonuzans1776
@beartonuzans1776 4 жыл бұрын
These thoughts just phase through my head like a full lesbian kissing a man, you can't feel something unless you're programmed to
@wshankley24
@wshankley24 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This really helped and was so clear and honest.
@robertogarza8960
@robertogarza8960 3 жыл бұрын
My worst OCD is probably when I blaspheme the Holy Spirit in my mind. In took me to the edge of insanity. I also had/have intrusive thoughts of incest, harming my kids and family. Always over worry thinking that my kids may be outside when I’m leaving somewhere and I might run them over . I also think of grabbing an officers gun when I see one. Hitting someone in the back of their head when they’re not facing me.
@gregorylmedleyjr.1705
@gregorylmedleyjr.1705 3 жыл бұрын
@Roberto Garza we can pray about this matter I battle these things also
@djvn229
@djvn229 11 ай бұрын
My heart goes out to you❤
@Ramonaew
@Ramonaew Жыл бұрын
I relate to these intrusive thoughts but don’t think I have OCD, so was wondering any other causes
@87vega87
@87vega87 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Chrissie, I love your videos! Can you or have you ever done one on pure O with obsessive thoughts of severe mental illness/insanity? This is my current struggle and it hasn't been easy finding resources on these. Thank you for all you do!
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate
@ChrissieHodgesPureOCDAdvocate 7 жыл бұрын
This is a very common theme for many people. While I personally have not experienced this, I do know that help is available to learn to manage this through ERP therapy through OCD therapists!
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah My parents never married, I haven't seen my father In 25 years? This could be a sister, I just wouldn't know about. But I called my uncle his brother and asked, And he told me.
@Sturmone123
@Sturmone123 Жыл бұрын
i had this OCD even tho there is no poisonous animals in finland, i would not like to have it but its just natural lijke you get those shivers.
@dayshabutler1957
@dayshabutler1957 4 жыл бұрын
Side note, I don’t really have the time or money to see multiple counselors but I will if I HAVE to. I know talk therapy is good for the trauma I’ve experienced and some other things but I don’t believe it will fix my OCD.
@Mgonz9034
@Mgonz9034 4 жыл бұрын
I hate most of my thoughts.
@unknownuser4879
@unknownuser4879 2 жыл бұрын
It's so bad. I'm so scared it might not be ocd
@amangadpale9284
@amangadpale9284 2 жыл бұрын
I really wanna talk to you badly you're only person on internet or earth I saw talked each and everything I'm tired explaining others and they didn't understand. But I can't afford your 100$ session cause 100$ in indian rupees (I'm from india) is 7000 rupees that means almost a price of a smart phone. Can you help me out? In this case? I wanna talk just once to you
@kevintopete9337
@kevintopete9337 4 жыл бұрын
So I got HOCD for no reason like I just got from a thought I wasn’t born with OCD or have general OCD and Generalized anxiety. My HOCD was going away but just yesterday I got INSEST OCD and once again back to square one but how long does this OCD goes away I already had severe HOCD I don’t want another OCD along with my anxiety.
@ariellaallen2856
@ariellaallen2856 3 жыл бұрын
Just know that it can always come back or go away. Keep on praying to Jesus, read Scripture, and follow His ways. Ur not alone
@martinaavona
@martinaavona 3 жыл бұрын
How are you now?
@kevintopete9337
@kevintopete9337 3 жыл бұрын
@@martinaavona I’m fine I still have ocd but not that inset stuff anymore
@scorgi0
@scorgi0 3 жыл бұрын
@@kevintopete9337 I been struggling with incest ocd about my mom for 2 months now. I been on fluoxetine for over a week now. What did you do to overcome the incest ocd?
@Angie_bae
@Angie_bae 4 жыл бұрын
I almost dumped my living man over intrusive thoughts of other men, scared of running people over while I’m driving, etc.
@joeyjackson9199
@joeyjackson9199 2 жыл бұрын
What if somebody was having thoughts about tieing up their aunt
@seanparker4461
@seanparker4461 4 жыл бұрын
What you resist persists lol
@purvii2371
@purvii2371 5 ай бұрын
The worst thing happened to me was, I was actually infatuated by one of my cousin in the past (specially when I hit puberty) and now I'm ruminating, feeling guilt, shame on myself and what not.. I'm ruminating about my all cousins to check that if I felt the same about them or not. I also get thoughts about my sibling which makes me feel like a demon, I check what if I feel the same towards him or not.. it also feeds my POCD too (coz my sibling is so young). I ruminate that what if I'll get attracted to my sibling in future when he grows up.. it's literally hell. OCD loves to add more and more themes each day.
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
At least you haven’t done anything with your cousin I can relate
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
What triggers this
@Ramonaew
@Ramonaew 8 ай бұрын
I know I have intrusive thoughts but I don’t have OCD so I’m not sure how to get help
@pixelpancake4498
@pixelpancake4498 21 күн бұрын
Intrusive thoughts are a symptom of OCD, not a OCE only thing. Your issues and brain are valid.
@nailajaazneen3386
@nailajaazneen3386 4 жыл бұрын
You're the best ❤
@Charlotte-ye1vb
@Charlotte-ye1vb 3 жыл бұрын
You're all i needed
@alr.3137
@alr.3137 4 жыл бұрын
A remember this clip on GTA radio 📻 on the psych channel: "All my life I was afraid of sleeping with my mother - and now that I did it, guess what? I'm not afraid of it anymore!"
@YuichiKatagari
@YuichiKatagari 3 ай бұрын
Bro. Are u there
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
What I am exposed to triggers it
@stevesanders6855
@stevesanders6855 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou-very helpful
@ashutoshtiwari8225
@ashutoshtiwari8225 3 жыл бұрын
I suffer from ocd along with stuttering.
@okays297
@okays297 Жыл бұрын
You are a queen
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar
@ProtonHelixNegatronOscar 5 жыл бұрын
It all looks good untill you see the face. So keep your eyes up, so you know who you looking at.
@anushreechaudhary571
@anushreechaudhary571 2 жыл бұрын
I hope i can get rid off it
@stevendaniels5501
@stevendaniels5501 3 жыл бұрын
Listen I love you you are you just pure and you maybe OCD works for you because you sure straighten out something for me that I've been going through for a lot of years I would like to describe it to you but I'm not going to do it over the public comments and it's kind of weird because it happened and I just like to talk to you because you just you just honest you just you you straight forward you don't beat around the bush about nothing I'm not I'm not I'm not like that either I don't hesitate to say what I need to but the way you describe you know you do for real I'm not going to b******* with you it's just you know you don't find many people that out there you know and get on social media and talk about this and that when it comes to being a victim of sexual childhood the others never they never say why they they didn't tell for a long time because it feel good they like it and it's not people they're human it doesn't matter you know when you got turned on the sex pulling over there just like just like you said it's in arousal that you can't do anything about this you know it doesn't have to come from being triggered and sexual arousal is a human you know natural occurrent so you know I would like to I would like to have a conversation with you and you know because I like your style you're right with me I love you you cool my name is Steve and you have my email address you know able to have a conversation with you or you know text me back and forth Gmail email whatever please don't hesitate to let me know I will not go on social media to do it so I feel like if anything if anybody I would feel comfortable with talking about what happened this was years ago years ago I was 9 and I am 61 now and I have a few
@adriaunaa5745
@adriaunaa5745 5 жыл бұрын
HELLO
@armin_arlert_haii
@armin_arlert_haii Жыл бұрын
14:37 just for me :)
@magnusschultz5299
@magnusschultz5299 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic
@anonymouslyknownravegirl2945
@anonymouslyknownravegirl2945 Жыл бұрын
🥺Thankyou
@Kiplingl
@Kiplingl 5 жыл бұрын
Who are you I want to know you
@mochuae
@mochuae Жыл бұрын
8:30 for me
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
Porn triggers these thoughts
@diya5517
@diya5517 2 жыл бұрын
love u
@fishman5519
@fishman5519 11 ай бұрын
All the incest porn thats skyrocketing in popularity isn't helping on an issue like this lol.
@Aivottaja
@Aivottaja 10 ай бұрын
Which is why people should stop consuming it. It's toxic garbage for your mind. All of it.
@Aivottaja
@Aivottaja 8 ай бұрын
@@ahmedelgendy1341 How clearer could this be made?
@SpiritVines
@SpiritVines 6 ай бұрын
I watched it as exposure therapy and it made it so much worse. Now I actually feel so much worse. Worst part is I liked it. I think knowing they’re all actors is the reason why and I’m just attracted to women of different ages, but I keep telling myself “what if I’m a disgusting person” maybe I am idk I’m gonna talk to my therapist. I wanna cry
@PopCultureKing2009
@PopCultureKing2009 5 ай бұрын
That is sick and disgusting I have seen it and I feel horrible watching it and I hate myself for it and feel shame and guilt
@terenzo50
@terenzo50 Жыл бұрын
I don't have any family members. I was adopted.
@deliveranceisfree3659
@deliveranceisfree3659 2 жыл бұрын
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