Pure OCD: Relapse, the Key to Success, and Acceptance

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@zarrsar6372 5 жыл бұрын

Anxiety is the food that the bad thoughts feed from. Without anxiety there is no OCD. When I fixed the anxiety the thoughts disappeared. The way I fixed the anxiety is by accepting the thoughts as normal as long as they are not acted out. I believed our organic mind sometimes misplaces and misconducts information and that is just part of being alive. I believed this then and now. The thoughts got starved and died away

@markyinbelfastxx9088 9 ай бұрын

Deff an under rated comment

@Hawthorn6852 6 жыл бұрын

I've always heard that relapse is part of recovery, like a bump in the road, and that it helps to look at how far you've come and celebrate how long you've gone without relapsing.

@zarrsar6372 5 жыл бұрын

not a good idea.

@solorhypercane5041 4 жыл бұрын

zarr Sar why is it not a good idea?

@tylazulhayir5162 4 жыл бұрын

@@zarrsar6372 It's a great idea, it reminds you of how silly and unnecessary the ocd is...

@lesperlsp909 6 жыл бұрын

I'm suffering form HOCD , and there are some days when I fell better than usual and don't have so much anxiety , but I'm 100% sure that there will be some bad days and I should be ready for them

@aquadisee4636 6 жыл бұрын

Lesper LSP I’m struggling with this too. I hope you get there hun

@meganbenjamin6247 6 жыл бұрын

This could not have come at a more perfect time! I'm currently going through an OCD relapse, and everything you said resonates with me. I especially like what you said about the key to success coming from yourself. I'm going to try really hard to remember that while I deal with this. It's always good to know that I'm not alone with this, even though it can certainly feel that way. Thank you! :)

@angelASMR1 4 жыл бұрын

I think the “part of who I am” and that also being of piece of you’re not a bad person, is such a great thing to solidify ! I have relapsed my first time since I truly TRULY felt free from my OCD, and I think that’s the part I lost by forgetting it. I forgot that the REASON I got “over” my ocd was because I truly accepted it was apart of me “but not me”, and with that I could easily let it stay there and be like that’s okay! It’s us - it’s fine. I think forgetting that made it so when it returned I was so lost and confused - so that reminder will be the best thing to keep myself on track of not letting it go and separating myself from it again.

@hiphiprenae 5 жыл бұрын

Chrissie, this hits me so hard right now. I probably should not have watched this at work because I am trying to hold my emotions together. Thank You for this video. I needed this so much. I am going to pick myself up again.

@maxandocd7588 2 жыл бұрын

I love this woman!!!! So relatable, a great author, speaker, and overall nice person who really gets what OCD is like for people who really have it! I feel like I'm not alone when I watch and listen to Chrissie's videos, as I've been through the ebs and flows of OCD for two years now! It's not fun and can be truly horiffic. What helps me ground myself when I sense myself drifting into the thoughts and anxiety is to face my emotions and thoughts head on; notice them, realize they're there, and try and remember and put into action the OCD therapy guidelines, or ERP if I feel up for it. We who have this disorder, or any disorder for the matter, are not weak or alone. There are many others out there in the world who truly get it, and I have a very strong support system consisting of my family, friends, and loved ones including my boyfriend Blake

@stephentreanor5044 6 жыл бұрын

Just started doing some cbt work for my pure O which is working really well, slowly but surely

@hannasajdak2965 6 жыл бұрын

Stephen Treanor What medium are you doing CBT through? A program, podcast, psychologist? Glad it’s working for you:)

@stephentreanor5044 6 жыл бұрын

I was doing it through a self help book

@mohamadsaleh7669 5 жыл бұрын

How do i get this self help book?

@cocopopp-6865 5 жыл бұрын

What does the self-help book say? Like what do you have to do

@bitesize7817 5 жыл бұрын

This was really helpful - thank you! It is really unnatural to accept something you really dislike, whether relapse, intrusive thoughts, OCD more generally, but this video is really insightful on the mistake to avoid and the right mindset to do it. Listened more than once!

@19MadMatt72 4 жыл бұрын

Now that I have had my feelings explained to me, I comprehend when I’m going into relapse, and the torturous anxiety and intrusive thoughts that will follow. Not understanding them for 40 years was my fault, but my trust issues (especially with doctors), kept me from seeking help.

@paulSmith-te8gq 6 жыл бұрын

Great Video Chrissie.... ebbs and flows.... could not be described any clearer... Thank you so much

@katiec3768 Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏

@martymartmusic 5 жыл бұрын

I am 40. I've had debilitating OCD. I have had years where it has been almost completely gone. Why is it chronic? I've been told they only say that because everybody has intrusive thoughts and that can't be stopped. I've talked to so many doctors and therapists and I've read every book on it and watched every video. Dr. Claire Weekes was the most helpful of all.

@azureshieru423 2 жыл бұрын

Hello I’m sorry, but do the relapses lessen? I’m scared that I wont be able to live.

@farvisualstudio 2 жыл бұрын

You’re so kind and nice, it makes me feel so good to hear you speaking about these things that I really don’t like to talk. Thank you so much!!

@angelASMR1 4 жыл бұрын

The entire thing was great, but it was the last five minutes that entered my soul LOL

@rebecahurtado4959 6 жыл бұрын

Chrissie you are goals!!!! I think I learned about relapses in the hard way and now that I am better I cant fully enjoy it because I am always expecting the relapse. Its crazy lol!! Thank you for your videos!!

@MrBhupesh7 4 жыл бұрын

Yes,it is,you will have to do it yourself,keeping yourself occupied helps,Playing sports,outdoor and indoor chess like helps,Listening to Chrissie's videos helps,accepting relapses will happen helps,Having healthy diets helps,Helping others helps.

@rebzeb5814 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Chrissie, thank you for your video. I am in the middle of what feels like a significant relapse after staying above water for about 6 years. I was scared of relapse and in denial for a while. It has now hit, and the pain I feel is immense. I really needed to hear this. I am starting to accept this is going to be a life long illness. You are an absolute legend. Many hugs to you, from Australia xo

@cinndhybaxter4275 4 жыл бұрын

I am so glad that i found your Channel I've been struggling with pure OCD since 14 , now im 25 , i had a terrible impulse to harm my husband on July 2019 :( it was the worst panic attack ever , after this day its been difficult to be with my husband ive been having thoughts that what if i do not love him anymore and i should get divorce , because i do not feel those lovely feelings for him that i had before this intrusive thought attack me i was always kissing him just like teenagers in love , always grateful for him , acting like best friends, Like i do not want to divorce but it worries me that i do not feel the way i used to , hope you can help me , i take therapy but i think my therapist has no experience with pure ocd because at first she coulnt understand me.

@mateogarzon9995 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the Video ! Its great to find complete resources and good knowledge about OCD.

@stephentreanor5044 6 жыл бұрын

Goddddd I’m so going through with this at the moment! I’ve had a pretty good summer but I’m now I’m feeling like shit again

@niryashk9197 4 жыл бұрын

Your ever word is my story thanks for you support god bless you

@GeorgesTUBE1 5 жыл бұрын

You are an absolute advocate to OCD suffers, you have really helped me so thank you ! One question, is a relapse the act of developing a new compulsion ?

@emm3634 5 жыл бұрын

george OB same thoughts/ obsession coming back I think

@scottadams6549 6 жыл бұрын

Hi Chrissie, thanks for sharing this, really goooood! I love how raw and honest you are here.. Amazing!

@ivettelunagonzalez8368 3 жыл бұрын

I relapsed a couple of months ago and I didn’t know it was relapse it was like relapse and my ocd morphing into a different form of the thoughts so I didn’t know what happening and I thought that “this is the day that I become like this this is the day I lose my mind and I become this way” and so my entire mind believed it and my entire self believed it and I felt in this static fear of a world idek how to explain it but it manifested my brain to believe it to be true so when I would see triggers I would think it’s true and everything made it seem like it was too true, and it’s been four months and I’m finally stating to recover a little from the relapse

@GoldenFenrir 2 жыл бұрын

For me the thought is "What if the OCD is right this time?" and more prominently "What if I could've made things better? " And that relapse happened when my cat died, i got a new kitten a couple of months later, and he died 3 days later. He was perfect and I lost him and that gave me the full on relapse. That was 6 years ago and I'm still suck. I'm still over compensating in every other area of my life trying to be perfect because I felt like I had perfection and I lost it. And now I just keep on trying to be perfect, trying to make everything perfect, trying to make my life perfect. My OCD just locks onto porn to try to make me forget, which of course fuels the OCD anymore. I hate feeling dead inside when I live without porn but i hate the depression porn brings. I just wish I could have a life where I can forget it all; which of course trying to forget makes it the OCD worse. I''ve gotten a physical illness now because of it. I'm so tired

@guidosanchez5695 4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god, I can relate to everything you spoke of here. Thank you sooo much for sharing.

@TheLiverage 5 жыл бұрын

Chrissie, could you please someday make one of this videos about ''How to try being creative with OCD?'' My writer's blocked ass would be very thankful xdd

@MrBhupesh7 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you,you are wonderful Madam,I've almost watch all your videos.

@megandavis7998 6 жыл бұрын

Going through a relapse now. I have rOCD. This is the first time since I've been diagnosed that I'm actually getting ERP. Having a hard time accepting and doing the exposure. In my brain I'm like how is doing exposure going to make the thoughts go away. Thank you for being so real and raw.