Quitting YouTube & Baby #4? // Q&A

[@cuhdence9075]

'liked' because of your raw ending. You somehow manage to make professional and realness work together. Thank you for the hard work that you do. You, along with 1 or 2 other KZbin mom's, have really helped me survive this first year with my first child. It's a lot of work and you handle yourself beautifully.

[@LoeppkysLife]

Comments like this is what keeps me going 😭 God bless you!

[@thebyrdsnest1465]

The ending was amazing! She also is helping me survive motherhood and being anew mom- we can do this!

[@hyukas_favourite_plushie6037]

@@LoeppkysLife luv ur fam

[@mmha_jaclyn]

The wild youth question!!! My husband and I have been together since 16/17 years old. We never went to parties, didn't have desire to hang out at bars, etc. We either spent time at home watching movies and having a good meal, thrifting together, or going to a family birthday party. We've only been with each other too. People always said "don't you want to experience this or that" and we both have always felt like we haven't missed out on anything and have enjoyed life together and growing together.

[@Chrisplainjane]

RE: kitchen - it has great bones. I would paint the cabinets properly, prep them correctly & they will come up lovely painted. Replace countertop it will feel like a new kitchen for a couple hundred dollars. I’m also sure you could reach out to a company to sponsor it so it will be even cheaper / free.

[@nicolejones8503]

The combination of your outfit, the lighting, and your hair is making you look like an ethereal goddess 😍😍

[@Kimberly-mi5wl]

I think people are asking about quitting KZbin because many mommy vloggers are taking their kids off YT due to “child exploitation”/creepers watching content with kids in it.. and many other reasons. Kinda scary.

[@Kimberly-mi5wl]

@@chantalyt No hate towards mommy vloggers. I’ve watched many for years and love them! Some are a little distasteful.. but I digress. The not going to live in fear is my motto too BUT it’s very different when it comes to children who rely on being protected.

[@chantalyt]

@@Kimberly-mi5wl I know I totally agree. It's such a mixed bag. Thank you for keeping this message out there. It's real and it is scary.

[@LoeppkysLife]

Ah that makes sense. I’m more and more careful everyday with what I share for this very reason.

[@CorrinaRoseWrites]

Yes to this!!! I know a family vlogger whose video of her daughter being born and other newborn videos ended up being discovered on a p*rn site and had MILLIONS of views... It is truly sickening just how perverse and evil some people are, and no matter how carefully you display children on the internet, they are never truly safe. This is one of the main reasons I have removed all videos and pictures of my toddlers from all my social media and just directly send pics and videos to family and friends that I want to see them. This is a very real and very prevalent thing and we absolutely need to protect our kids.

[@river-jay5536]

@@chantalyt No, you let them win with keeping up that content and giving them plenty of material to do things with you dont even want to think about.

[@tquad64]

Thank you so much for the update on Winston. I thought he might have died. But I’m so glad he loves his new home and his doggie siblings. On a side note, I didn’t realize how big Winston was until you inserted the photo of his new owner holding him ❤️

[@0osqueakso0]

Thank you for answering the questions about Winston ! I loved your openness about it and I love that you took time to find him a home thats suits him so well 🤗 A house with three kids is a LOT of stress for a cat, since cat loves their routine, which often goes out the window with kids.

[@mariaeduardaleite4932]

Glad to know I'm not the only one worried about Winston 😂❤️

[@EmilyThabit]

I didn't even realize he wasn't in the vlogs until I watched this video and she said it 😅

[@audreygiles7431]

I’ve been wondering for a while and commented on a couple videos. Haha!

[@0osqueakso0]

So glad he found a home he is confortable in ! A house with three kids is sure stressful for a cat 😬

[@sarapnina]

Thank you so much for the Q&A. You said that when the kids are older you will be quiting youtube because changing the content never works. But it does! I follow Crystal Tara, she is a mother of 4 kids, but now that they are older she does vloga about lifestyle and decor and she is pretty sucessfull. I think you will find your calling when the time comes. 🤗

[@MarieTiffanii]

I second this! I want to be here for your journey, whether that’s kids in or out of the vlog! You have so much creativity to share with the world, and I wouldn’t want to miss out on any cool project you guys do haha 🤪🤪

[@Haleycowett]

Yes!!

[@wholeheartedambition]

Can we just take a sec to appreciate that outfit? So cute 🤩

[@mollyfrances9157]

I love Delilah's style--she even makes sweats look chic 😍

[@wholeheartedambition]

@@mollyfrances9157 yes! everything looks so effortlessly cute haha

[@KellseyH]

I need this shirt!!

[@itsmeshemeka]

@@KellseyH right? Her shirt is so cute!!

[@Danny-be1ex]

Where’s the shirt from?? So cute for postpartum

[@hannahoverton1175]

Aww, i’m so glad Winston is so happy in his new home and you did what was best for him❤️

[@feyzaopanoglu3350]

Delilah, you set a very good example for me. I learn a lot from you, not only about being a mother, but also about faith and being a practicing muslim. I wanted to thank you in that regard. So so much. I'm just raising my first child (2 months old like william) and I would feel so much more clumsy and anxious without your videos. Thanks to you, I'm not afraid to give birth to a second child and that makes me very happy.

[@casadecrow436]

I just wanted to say that I have been so inspired by your videos- your honesty and how genuine you are as a Christian as well. One of the reasons why I recently decided to come on KZbin is because of beautiful accounts like yours. Thankful I came across one of yours videos a few months ago 🥺🤍

[@selinaselcuk6626]

William's slurping is everything 😍 thank you so much for your realness Delilah you're a blessing for the KZbin community

[@Claire-f]

I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels that way about parties & going out 😂 I settled down young as well and am expecting my third in a month. Super cool to see someone similar to myself on KZbin.

[@makaylasaffron4932]

I never was a party person Or going out if I do it small like going To the farmers market , going out to eat with a friend or my husband or for coffee I’m 21 married and soon to be mom people do judge me for this but everything was Through God and it’s given me comfort

[@andreadavis9730]

I never enjoyed the "college life" either. I much prefer smaller groups of people where I can really get to know those around me. I feel like you make much more meaningful friendships and meaningful memories that way. From my little experience with college parties etc, all I saw were people participating in things that could potentially hurt them for life. People have this idea that the college experience (i.e doing whatever you want, whenever you want) is a must or you'll regret wasting your youth, but I wonder how much of all that people regret later in life (even if they never admit it).

[@Danny-be1ex]

I’m 23, engaged now and we’re ttc starting in a few days ☺️ I never cared for parties, I got my share of going out and doing dumb stuff 19-21 and I didn’t want much more. I’ve always kept to myself anyways, I’m a bit shocked when people are still salty if young people have kids cause it’s like.. we’re gen z 😂 a lot of us introverted and doing all those “do this while you’re young” isn’t very fun.

[@beavadakkoot]

Same!

[@emilybonanni5878]

Happy to hear that Winston is fine in a new home🤍

[@grinstaspinsta]

Thanks for sharing your sleep training story with Eloise. Our journey with our oldest was SO similar and I've always been self-conscious about being honest about that. Idk, even though we know it's what she needed and she's happy and healthy, I think I worry people will think we weren't gentle enough or something. So, thanks for the confidence boost 😊 I so appreciate how open-handed you are with parenting decisions. Such a breath of fresh air.

[@hannahconley3672]

You’re absolutely glowing in this video! Beautiful as always!

[@heythere2174]

I breastfed and didn’t get my period back until a year postpartum 😳 my body was like- nope, not today sister! One baby at a time this year, thanks ✌️

[@xkstrycharz]

You could still be ovulating and not getting your period while breastfeeding! So it’s super important to be protected if you don’t want surprises 😬 I didn’t get mine until 10.5 months postpartum

[@Carlie_flower]

Ha same girl. My boy is 13months now and I only just got my period back

[@sarahwelsh3]

Same!

[@nattyophelia7879]

I wish!! I bf and got it back after 8 weeks pp, I’m currently 5 months pregnant and have a 9.5 month old 😳

[@katiemuth2066]

I got pregnant 9 months pp with no periods. I guess my body said 2 babies a year lol

[@thehalls-rm9iv]

Love the set up, lighting and editing!! 💕💕💕 Also please never put quitting KZbin in the title again!! Nearly sent me into early labour!!

[@luisestevez9547]

😂😂😂

[@rebeka.7]

omg same😂my heart skipped a beat when i read that

[@yolandidutoit3757]

Bahahaha!!!

[@sharifayusuf430]

😂😂😂I was like shld I unsubscribe before I get a heartbreak but I got strong and watched🥰🥰

[@cbcb769]

I love listening to your baby nurse, it is just adorable!

[@niknikkuta4241]

I'm pregnant with my first & for some reason don't feel the need to read any pregnancy or parenting books. If there's something I'm concerned about I will look up that particular thing but otherwise I want to take each day as it comes & do what feels right (natural instinct) for me & my child, & not what books/others tell me should be doing & then stressing about it when it isn't the same as they say. Everyone's experience is different so what works for one may not for another. I'm going into this with no expectations or preconceived ideas.

[@stephanieo8925]

Your outfit is so cute! And good job mama for sharing your faith and really being a light to others on here. I admire that about you! I only keep up with you and Sarah on here now that i have 3 kiddos;) you both are so uplifting to watch!♥️♥️

[@nicoleolmstead6959]

I also got my period back 7 weeks PP. I know y’all have gotten pregnant quickly each time you’ve tried so you’re probably very fertile, we also immediately got pregnant when we tried. I think some people’s bodies are just ready to get pregnant at any time! A blessing but also a little scary lol.

[@rebecagordon1921]

I was JUST thinking “I haven’t seen Winston in sooooo long 🥺” and clicked so fast when it was a question on the thumbnail

[@madmarich.]

I like when youtubers admit they don't share everything on youtube. I admine you more for it, knowing there's parts of you that you'll likely never share with the internet. You're YOU and you and your family life is still personal at the end of the day. I don't share 100% of my life with my coworkers 😂 Thank you for sharing what you share, Delilah and Zach, and I respect you for enjoying parts of your life with only your family.

[@maryswift6014]

You are so beautifully humble. What a nice lady you seem to be. I love your ideas for managing family life. I like the way your keeping it real with class.

[@madelinelajoie9127]

When my daughter was 18 months we were still exclusively breastfeeding I found out I was pregnant with my son. I had no idea because my period never came! So it was nice to not have my period for a GOOD minute.

[@haileysmith9233]

The last 26 seconds just make me love you and your channel even more!

[@johnthompson1280]

I am glad to hear your kitty is happy in his new home and you did meet your calling when you became a mom.

[@mamatofive1]

I’m sorry you got your period back so soon postpartum! 😆 I always look forward to the break so much! Thanks for this real look at balancing work and motherhood as you tend to your sweet baby! You seem like the most gentle, tender mother, and I really admire that. ❤️

[@jadabraden8475]

You are glowing in this one!! Just had to say how amazing you look.🥰🥰🥰

[@caitlinlorea912]

I just want to say thank you for filming your NICU experience. When you first posted it I thought you were exaggerating the feelings but when my baby was born at 36 weeks 4 days I found a lot of comfort in those videos. We have been able to come home from the NICU now even though she is still on oxygen at home. Anyway I just want to say thank you for those videos it helped me a lot!

[@Yellowbird-12]

26seconds at the end gave me a good giggle. You are a gem 💎

[@lindsaycruser852]

I love your content and I always find your energy to be really uplifting and motivating and you have gave me the motivation quite a few times to get up and get some stuff done like I should be and I adore your family, your raising wonderful children that have values and that's amazing for how young they are! Also, your relationship with your husband is very aspiring to me to improve my own!

[@laineyherrera8089]

Loved the pre-film footage😂 Thank you for throwing that in!

[@kaykeescorner]

Word to the wise: you do not have to get everything done before you take time for yourself. Normalize relaxation as a priority ♥️

[@Mama-fq2yb]

I saw my Winston question! I’m glad he’s doing great! Love ur fam !

[@erinweaver1416]

3:52 is my life right now with a newborn. Thank you for being so relatable ❤️.

[@brittz7506]

I saw "quitting youtube" in the title and I've never clicked on a notification so fast in my life. I'm so happy it's not true, you're one of my favorite creators 🧡 your top is so cute!

[@brittz7506]

Oh then you scared me with the Winston thing! I always assume the worst, so I'm so happy to hear he loves his new home 🥰

[@JoelleGrace]

Watching when you were talking about ballet & Eloise. (And how her interest might change) Made me think of how grateful I am that my mom always encouraged my ever changing interests. Because we homeschooled it made it even easier for her to smoothly transition my curriculums & focus on different things that aligned with my current interests! Like for a while I was obsessed with presidents especially Abraham Lincoln & Teddy Roosevelt (he has an amazing biography btw!) So that year (and the next) we focused mostly on history, Presidents, Abraham Lincoln’s & Teddy Roosevelt’s lives! Then later it was Herbalism, Foraging, Art, Nursing, midwifery, ect. It was an amazing childhood and I will always cherish it! I am so glad that you are paying attention to her interests and helping her to pursue them! 🥰❤️ I love watching your family grow together!

[@abagail_]

I just found out I’m pregnant a second time but with twins, I have no idea what I’m doing 😭

[@feyzaopanoglu3350]

You will do great, I’m sure ❤️ sending you love

[@LoeppkysLife]

Wow, congratulations! The Lord blessed you with those babies because He knows you can handle it ☺️ You got this mama!

[@EmilyThabit]

Congrats! You will learn everything in due time, I am sure 💚

[@marie-louiseweerheim4224]

Aba gail means joy of the father. Know that our heavenly Father will always be there to help you.

[@dh5272]

The tiny Baby William yawn at 21:07 exploded my heart 🥰🥰

[@chavelybourgeois1605]

I kept rewinding, William was distracting me the whole time. He's so cute oh my goodness!😍

[@sarahp3144]

William just gets cuter and cuter! Darling boy!

[@louisebourne5779]

Thankyou for doing this vlog it was very informative . Your children are a credit to you. Your such a great Mum. Love your vlogs xx

[@lindsaybauer6295]

I have found the transition from 0-1 really hard as well!! My daughter is about to turn one and I am still figuring things out but it's gotten easier for sure!

[@beccathebirdgirl713]

i'm gonna miss winston! do the kids miss him?

[@theclevercricket6187]

My husband is my rock at times I get so overwhelmed and he can see it sometimes before I can. He will do the corse I dislike the most like laundry and dishes. Sometimes I’ll come home and the whole house is clean.

[@madmarich.]

Aweee Winston! I'm so happy for you! How cute!

[@chelseag1922]

Your hair is soooo pretty! Thank you for the Q&A. Always look forward to new posts on your channel.

[@johana6226]

Your hair looks gorgeous!! :)

[@lindsaycate2429]

I got really excited to see this posted! In the last blog I watched I saw you putting away laundry and got a little sad that it wasn’t a “laundry chat”. Thanks for being so pleasant and bringing joy to my laundry today!🤗

[@CharleyPlayGames]

I found your channel when you only had 17'000 subscribers. I don't remember if Eloise was born by then or you were pregnant with her. I find inspiration through you; in parenting, in relationship, in your interior taste, in your remarkable way to find treasures in thrift stores! Not a believer in God myself, but still your moments of devotions inspires me to try and be a better person.

[@Dara-tn8rg]

Beyond happy we got that little nugget at the end haha, but honestly: another amazing video!

[@kristennicole4173]

I am such a fan but I was afraid to comment idk why but she inspires me so much I just had my second child 3 months ago. I really do watch her for a piece of mind I love it thank you Delilah!

[@KatherineStirling]

You are so amazing! Thank you for doing what you feel inspired to do - honestly has helped so much and given me so much comfort about family life and parenting. Bless you for your efforts!!!

[@briannachandler8440]

Oh my goodness I love the end pre-filming bit, great touch!

[@eburkinshaw]

Is the top you’re wearing thrifted? So flattering & gorgeous! Always love your content thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@jessicafloyd2602]

I appreciate you so much. I just discovered you recently and I have a baby boy about the age of William and your videos have encouraged me so much to stay close to the Lord and raise my children in His word 🤍 so thank you.

[@lisalevan]

I love the ending!! You’re absolutely adorable! Thank you for sharing 🙏💗

[@miabirchenough4563]

You look stunning in this video 💕💕

[@Daymickey]

I love that ending! 😂 thanks for sharing. Also it’s not as embarrassing as you think. It’s just very real.

[@RobertaStonequist]

Love the ending ♥️ Praying against any fear involved in future pregnancies for you! I had this with my first after miscarriage and it’s awful. The Lord is faithful - His love is holy and perfect and remembering that removes all fear!

[@k.a1999]

the last couple of seconds omg. 🤣 i appreciate that you put that in. i’m dying.

[@mael2039]

glad you did what's best for Winston. Working at a shelter I can tell you that the number of pets cast aside after their owners start having children. They drop them back of where they got them from more often than people who got pets as Christmas presents for someone, and that's to say something. I think many people understand superficially that bringing an animal into your family is a responsibility for the duration of that animals life but it's very easy to get rid of them no big deal once they don't fit into the family anymore. I am very glad that you took the time to find a loving family with Winston who will hopefully keep him forever. It shows that you didn't just ignore your responsibility for his wellbeing and you made sure he was well cared for, and has everything he needs. I know that you wouldn't have made this decision if it hadn't been the best for him.

[@Ari-ct6mf]

I want to ball my eyes out how could you let Winston go. I don’t think I could do that for my cat

[@samanthar.2665]

Hi Delilah, I've been watching you videos for about 4-5 months and been loving your videos. I have to tell you that we had our daughter 3 months ago and we decided that I would choose our girl's first name and he would choose her middle name and he came up with Delilah:D!! so when he told me, the day of our induction, I thought "wow, I actually know a Delilah and she's lovely" so her name is Hazel Delilah.

[@mechanicgrl]

Glad that Winston is loving his new home. I'm and introvert also and was never into the party scene.

[@beatrizlopes8857]

It's so beautiful that you mention our Creator in all your successes. May our one and only living God Bless you and your home endlessly. You have a beautiful family.

[@bethanysanders32]

I loved the whole video, but the last 26 seconds.... more relatable than you know 😘

[@yasmingoodwin9680]

Haha the footage at the end cracked me up, so relatable 🤣 (your hair looks amazingly soft 😍😍) I'm so glad Winston has found a new home though, I was worried! Also, Will is probably the cutest baby ever, and you make VERY cute babies so that's saying something!!! Loved this vid, so chill 😊

[@starlowe7620]

Hey Delilah, or any mother in the comments, I have a question. I just found our today that I'm pregnant with my husband and I first child. I wasn't expecting and now I don't l know what to do. I'm really happy but I'm also scared because pregnancy scares me. I have so much respect for you being able to have children and stay strong and fearless. Do you think I can do that too? I never really saw myself as a mother but staring down at the pregnancy test it still feels unreal. I can't help but feel anxious and happy at the same time. Amy advice helps. I've been following you since you had Theo but never in my life did I think I would be carrying a child of my own. Thanks for your time 🙏

[@JoelleGrace]

Oh Congratulations! This will change your life for sure but in a beautiful way! I don’t have a lot of advice but I will be praying for you! You can do this! As soon as you hold that baby your mothering instincts will immediately kick in! She does have a few videos though in her playlists I think and I hope she sees your comment!❤️❤️❤️

[@brianadeeds597]

You look sooo beautiful. Love your hair in this shot.

[@k.schofield]

I really like your hair this way, Delilah!

[@ohitsmaggie]

Your outfit is STUNNING 🤩 okay now I’ll watch the video 😅

[@kiragomez1758]

I’m 6 weeks pregnant with my first, and I’m in bed soooo sick. You’re video really distracted me in the best way, so thank you 🥺💛

[@ilanagreen5371]

Delilah you are looking absolutely beautiful! Thank you for such quality content as always💕

[@Sarahssafespace]

You are incredible. I’ve been watching you for awhile and I just love you and your family so much❤️ you’re very inspirational

[@ericabaltayan5493]

I saw the headline and had a heart attack! I have been watching you since you were very early pregnant with Eloise and I just love your whole vibe and outlook on life ❤️

[@jcid90]

I love that you said your strength comes from God, word, and prayer! God bless ❤

[@piadeldossi6551]

I really really love your realness. When I Watch you I see your struggles even if you don't show everything. I feel less alone in a way

[@chavelybourgeois1605]

Hi Delilah! Have a beautiful day!❤

[@carlavst6999]

Hi Delilah! why are you thinking of leaving your kids out of social media/youtube, when they're older?

[@alexandriakaitlynrauchle9119]

Whoo hoo! The Q&A is back!

[@happygoldenyears4707]

It’s so funny how much you and I have in common! You and I both had a baby June 11th ,I always get my period back two months after even with EB and never knew why😅 and I also loved the name rose ever since I was a little girl. That is what I named my first daughter who was born June 11th. Rose🌹 love your channel Delilah.

[@EmilyKathrynH]

I don't have kids and am in a very different stage of life, but I still love your videos! I'm here for you and your amazing personality, not just the motherhood content, so I would stick around even if you switch things up in the future!

[@nikiburton7659]

You are amazing Delilah 🤩 your family is just beautiful ❤️

[@carolebyham172]

Loving your hair!! You are an encouragement to me in my walk as a mom and in Jesus. Thank you!

[@bridgettechavis2135]

Where is your top/ wrap from???

[@clarahernandez5636]

Hi im new to your channel i have been watching your videos and enjoy watching them as a mom of 7. You our so right people always ask me how do you do it. I answer the same thing the Lord gives the strength I need. Your 3 little ones our so cute God blesses you and your family.

[@ArtisticAlleyTJ]

Your outfit is soo cute 🥰 love seeing all your videos ❤️

[@grilledcheesebb2318]

I can't believe Winston is rehomed :( at least he's happy I suppose. How did the kids react? I remember Theo used to like feeding him!

[@jordanphillips8007]

Cats are such easy pets it makes me sad he had to go

[@kthx_bai]

:(

[@faithhammond10]

Yeah, I hate the way people re-home pets because life gets busy. They're a lifetime commitment. I've been getting increasingly annoyed by Delilah s attitude. Think it is the time to unsubscribe.

[@ChristianAnneSmith]

I love hearing the comment from Winston’s new family. It sounds like he was so needed by them and it is the perfect situation for everyone involved including Winston. ❤️

[@BeatrizSantos-jj3zp]

@@faithhammond10 Yes, pets are a lifelong commitment and you definitely shouldn’t get rid of a pet just because. But if you realize that you can’t give a pet the quality of life he deserves, the right thing to do is to give him a new home, where he can thrive.

[@Serenity0621]

OK I understand why you want to leave KZbin and all that stuff but I love watching your videos because it inspires me to help educate my child and it helps me with developmental steps for my child. But I understand why you want to take a break you deserve it momma!!

[@matildadominica]

This video made me really sad.I love your channel sooo much and you’re my idol Delilah! I can’t think that someday you will be quitting YT and i will not see your life and videos anymore :(((( But I obviously understand that. Sending lots of love for you and your family❤️I thank God everyday that i discovered you and your channel.

[@maeovercast4527]

Where is your shirt and pants from?? I love this outfit!

[@hopespeaksyt]

I just found your channel!! Love it.

[@tiffanyandchris]

Could you please link where your top is from? So gorgeous!

[@lesvlogsdekalou1610]

Thank you for your honesty and for talking about the Lord! I’ve been struggling lately and will be going to church tomorrow to find my strength again ❤️

[@wandaivettemilanrivera4139]

Hermosa tú familia, Beautyfulll you're family 💙🤍🧡💛❤💚