r/NotLikeOtherGirls - ”My Body, His Choice”

[@AnnoyingSquib]

I think these "Pick me" girls don't realize that men aren't the only ones that are capable of being misogynistic.

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

No, they're aware. What they're not aware of is it isn't a rule of living, anyone can opt out of misogynistic behavior at any time and for any reason.

[@Kartoffelkamm]

@@YourWaywardDestiny On top of that, misogyny (and all forms of discrimination, really) works on an opt-in system, meaning at one point you have to decide to act that way.

[@emisthem6562]

Yep - even in the trans community people who were assigned female at birth like me become misogynistic and its insane! How has life experience not allowed them to see the disparity between how we treat men and women?

[@hkandm4s23]

There are absolutely a lot that think they can't be misogynist because they are a woman and still have the old fashioned view of feminism that masculine=good and feminine=bad. Like the people that claim to be feminists by insulting traditionally feminine women or stay at home moms. I see it the most in fully conservative or religiously brainwashed women, women stuck in an old fashioned idea of feminism, or literal children trying to find their identity who feel shame and embarrassment at anything that signals their own femininity.

[@royalxprincessbaka6875]

​@@emisthem6562there's this one trans man creator I had to stop watching because in almost every video of theirs, he found some way to start bashing women in it and it was starting to feel very reactionary in it, especially some of the comments in his videos were leading heavily towards redpill rhetoric.

[@Ecofriendlyant]

I can't imagine the amount of trans guys that have gone through the not like other girls phase just to realize that they were men....

[@ankebosing1968]

Or butch lesbians

[@ten6446]

I was one of them lol it took me so long to grow out of it. I realised I didn’t hate feminine coded things I just hated that those things made people think I was a girl

[@DinosaurNick]

My pipeline went "I;m not like other girls ... I'm a tom-... oh... I'm agender."

[@DinosaurNick]

@@ten6446 That is exactly how I feel as an agender person!

[@TheDopekitty]

For real! My not like other girls phase lasted for 30+ years!

[@julietterousselet7164]

"she was dresssing up for tips so she probably wanted to be SA'ed" is probably one of he most stupid thing one could say as the actual reason she is dressing up IS LITERALLY IN THE BEGGINING OF THE SENTENCE

[@tripolarmdisorder7696]

I agree with you. That commenter was sick, like torturing puppies with acid, sick.

[@seigeengine]

It's also absurd. She's a gd child. If you try to blame a child for being SA'd by a 50 year old, you need percussive maintenance.

[@badcaseofstripes]

Yeah that's crazy. She thinks she was secretly lying about doing it for tips, but like why would anyone ever lie about that? Yeah I wear this tight shirt because I make 50% more in tips a night if I do. Not that I secretly want to get assaulted WTF??

[@Gormathius]

I saw some old guy trying to get rich off a fruit machine. He probably wanted to be in debt.

[@TheRedPharmacist]

Yea, and ppl in suits wanna get robbed because they dressed fancy/rich for work.

[@OneToxicPixel]

Wearing crocs around a horse is insanely stupid. I used to do some horseback riding myself as a kid. As part of that I also had to take proper care of the horse. I was wearing proper boots. Got a bit to close to the horse. Dude stepped on my foot. Not even like fully stepped on it, he gently put his hoof on my foot but when he realized he wasn't standing on the ground, he was standing on me, he immediately stepped back. He only put half his weight on it I guess because otherwise, my foot would have been broken for sure. Only hurt for a few days tho. Lucky me. Wear proper shoes around animals that potentially can crush your bones to a fine dust by stepping on your foot accidentally.

[@wartgin]

I didn't have boots but was fortunately wearing hard leather shoes when a horse shifted slightly when I was standing beside him grooming him while visiting friends. The soft ground also helped so I didn't have any injury but it is exciting trying to get a big animal to shift over a bit when they don't even realize they are stepping on you.

[@SamanthaManning-xy8fu]

If you’re around horses enough it will happen. 🙂‍↕️ I know that from experience 😂

[@Sincerely.Nature]

Your horse sounds so sweet

[@madisonkraft3223]

I had my foot stepped on by a Shetland pony while wearing crocs. I was a dumb kid

[@PinkBerryMoose]

Happened to me and I still haven’t learned my lesson and wear my crocs around the horses but I got really good at dodging…. I really gotta get new work boots

[@zacharysieg2305]

38:16 Somehow I’m even more creeped out when women refer to other women as “females” than I am when men do it.

[@floreya67]

Yeah it isn't good, there's often transphobia in there too.

[@whynot6266]

Tbh, as a girl, I am very scared and angry when someone, wether they are a man, woman etc. refers to women and girls as females. Idk man they just give the vibe that they are misogynistic as hell

[@GretlUnicorn]

To spread some good vibes, here's a fun fact: Otters often hold paws when they sleep on the river so they don't lose each other!

[@ThingInTheHall]

:D

[@R-PGamerKing]

Thanks homie

[@minestar2247]

So cute, spread the good vibes

[@CoilCannon]

I’m pretty sure they have favorite rocks too, and I think they gift each other rocks as well if I remember correctly.

[@Antifearn]

@@CoilCannonJust like how penguins use shiny pebbles to find mates?

[@cattheace17]

so sick of the whole “your body my choice” thing, someone tell these people to let women live ffs 🤦‍♀️

[@rebeccamount50]

It's gonna get worse over he next four years.

[@Alphaismyname]

@@rebeccamount50fr, sadly :/

[@LittleMaitea]

@@rebeccamount50… or more if the orange gets his dictator fantasies thru … I hope not But i fear it

[@griffitsbatmansuit]

I can just pray for America at this point

[@Eric-md3mp]

Anybody saying it is a wannabe rapist and should be treated accordingly

[@grimdarkmalarkey5402]

I'm not like other girls because all humans are unique individuals, and there's no monolith of girlhood for me to quirkily defy.

[@missnaomi613]

Amen!

[@KacperSobierajVargskeletor5421]

“Agreed, this is 100% true, I’m not like other living entities because the human beings in this world are such interesting creatures, they all are wacky and crazy and funny in their own original ways, and we cartoons, a specific demographic in their species are practically the same and equally as cool! We’re wacky, we’re toony, we’re just a little loony, and here in this cartoony, we’re invading’ your TV! There is no monolith for life on earth to follow, that goes against all science and biology, right, Wakko Warner? See, they all agree! Life can be so much fun when you don’t give a damn what other people think. Take it from me, your favorite light blue rabbit, Buster Bunny from Tiny Toon Adventures! See ya around when the next episode is released! And remember, be yourself unapologetically! Right, see ya!” - Buster Bunny quoting the speech of Hoops And Yoyo from Nintendo SpaceWorld 2004’s stage performance as a way of agreeing with you, 2024.

[@GemmaDann]

But, but, but.... the manosphere and incels say "ALL."

[@grimdarkmalarkey5402]

@@GemmaDann any "evidence" people use to prove the Woman Hivemind is "a real thing" and "they're currently surrounding the building" and "OH NO THEY'VE BREACHED THE BUNKER WALL-" is just nonsense made up to sell podcast merchandise!

[@bradiedean7466]

For the construction supervisor post: isn't wearing tight clothes on construction sites or around heavy machinery safer than wearing baggy clothing bc it's one less thing to get caught up in gears or on materials? That's why I'm supposed to do it when i work in a chemical lab, same with putting up my hair

[@LemonLehon]

Yes! Very accurate in many places with moving machinery or delicate/dangerous surroundings.

[@iclynnx]

Yes, please no baggy clothes around moving machinery... I went to the depths of the internet one day and saw a video of a real incident. It's horrible what can happen.

[@gachareacter4170]

Absolutely! I mean, I'm not really as experienced in construction, but I used to take woodworking and... jewelry, long sleeves, and baggy clothes were literally banned. If you had long hair, it NEEDED to be put up. I remembered a woodworking teacher saying one time, "If you wanna play with a living blade, feel free to pay the replacement fee [$100~ish to replace it] upfront." [It was one of those cool blades that retracted immediately when it felt human skin] I also took welding classes-- and I don't really know how you're supposed to make yourself attractive underneath a full body suit, gloves, and headvisers. [Maybe with makeup? But eugh, it would get so sweaty so fast under that protective gear... go for it if you want, but I would rather not-- I would definitely get an acne breakout!] TL:DR; That post was super confusing to me

[@chrissystrawberrylimetea9728]

24:08 I shut down a pick me in a similar situation once lol She was talking smack about my tequila rose drink because she was 'so used to drinking beer with the guys that fruity drinks seem silly' and the guys all agreed with her until i said "I think beer tastes like p!ss. If you guys wanna drink p!ss, all the power to ya. I don't k!nk shame." and every guy sitting at the table looked grossed out, she was ANNOYED at me the rest of the night. The next day she accused me of stopping her from getting laid because one of the guys didn't want to kiss her with 'beer breath' lmao

[@wolvie1618]

Beer is absolutely awful, idk how people can enjoy it, but to each their own. Also I'm pretty sure it's not her beer breath but rather the sheer amount of bullshite waterfalling out of her mouth that stopped her from getting some lmao

[@BarbieDreamDungeon]

Beer breath is so vomit inducing omg

[@PaulCoyJR]

Woman: "you prevented me from having sex with men, who are always thinking about sex!" X to doubt. If she couldn't get laid in a bar, then those men must have talked to each other beforehand.

[@S3lkie-Gutz]

@@BarbieDreamDungeon as someone with eastern european immigrant family members i’ll do you one better, vodka breath. it literally smells like fighter jet fuel(also present mic icon spotted👁️👁️🫵)

[@BarbieDreamDungeon]

@@S3lkie-Gutz What's "present mic"? My picture is just my fursona

[@Arct1c.x.F0x]

Political “Not like other girls” is the worst subcategory of “not like other girls” in my opinion

[@shinymainespoon]

It's truly the Women Voting For Leopards Eating Women's Faces club. And the fact that it's ALWAYS religion-motivated makes me very upset

[@SomeF3lla]

Honestly, the political subcategory is always the worst subcategory in everything.

[@porkiipahfahh]

no britney ur not quirky for stripping your rights and every other girl's rights away

[@MirandaPantel]

"Not like other categories"

[@baraness24]

"I'm not like other girls, I LIKE being property of the state! 🤪"

[@Jonilo123]

I saw this exihibition with the clothes from SA-Victims. Most of them were everyday clothes. What left me in tears was a wedding gown and a floral dress of a 4 year old girl. I read your answers. So many victims! I am deeply sorry, what happend to you. Schools have to stopp teaching girls to cover up. Instead they have to teach to respect bounderies. That goes both ways. Do not forget: Boys and men also can be victims!! VICTIM.SHAMING.IS.THE.WORST.

[@R-PGamerKing]

what the actual flip is wrong with people

[@nola281]

It doesn't matter what you wear, creeps are everywhere. It's not about what you wear, it's all power and control.

[@minestar2247]

Yeah, truly unhinged and sadly normalized Changing that would require a social change though

[@minestar2247]

​@@R-PGamerKingsome people are just like that, they are not fit for society and aren't taught or punished accordingly

[@JustAPasserby-e6z]

I've heard of it. It brings me to tears knowing that you could drag someone who uses the opportunity to stomp down on those who have been victimized by going on entirely preformative "moral" crusades and condemnations about manner of dress, or "provocative" conversation, or any number of convoluted arcane "signals" that have to be interpreted in very specific logic defying ways where doing the opposite also signals the same thing premeditated predators take as an "invitation" mid-self-serving-sermon and force them to explain what was wrong with each one and they'd be back to their preaching as soon as they felt properly avenged against how their rights were violated by being forced to be in an uncomfortable situation they were prevented from escaping.

[@Blake-ij4kw]

A lot of these girls really confuse me especially those who dislike feminism. 'I want to be a stay at home mum' BRILLIANT! I love that for you.!! 'I'm not a feminist' Feminism just means that you have the opportunity to make that choice and have support in whatever you decide. So I just don't understand why women dislike or even hate feminism.

[@Blake-ij4kw]

It's a SUPER weird misconception. Feminism isn't telling you that you HAVE to be something. It says that you have the OPTION and can decide for yourself what you want to be/do.

[@ThingInTheHall]

Conspiracy theory: Those are created by angry men to make sure feminism is painted as evil so they can still date

[@dabbacchio9787]

The conversation ends fast when I'm told this "-I'm anti feminist and I think (...) -fine who allowed you to have an opinion and to share it tho"

[@skeletonwarlock5741]

Misunderstanding what feminism is?

[@teritt]

Because they don’t understand that feminism was literally a fight against commercialized sex slavery for women. People don’t realize that women back then were literally a _type_ of slave. Their labor was that of a nanny, a maid, and a sex slave, their owners their fathers and husbands. Do you know why feminism finally picked up in America after segregation? It’s because black men gained voting rights before white women did. Slavery was obviously much worse for black people in America (because America was the first to treat black slaves as non-human) but if you look at how women and slightly more favored slaves were treated, it’s not at all that different.

[@iurlure]

30:53 "...accuse the guys of harassment..." So... did she fire women who were complaining about workplace harassment? Hope they press charges.

[@stonesbonesangroans]

I had to laugh, because in my family, we say, "If you're always smelling shit, maybe that dark ring above your upper lip isn't a mustache."

[@jaxscales6158]

😂

[@williamepler2901]

the first time i heard "pick me girls", i heard it as "pygmy girls", and thought they were just small women. it confused me greatly

[@henrikemangelsdorf2868]

The best category of pick me girls😂

[@f1mbultyr]

Ah, the English language an its homophones… But remember, it always "could of been worst" or something

[@HazooToo]

I wish I had a pygmy girl. I would buy her a tiny saddle, so she could ride my cats.

[@OswaldAurelia]

Little Women moment

[@Lunexxtastisch]

Happens to me everytime it gets first mentioned in a video. 😂

[@RulerOfArniskad]

I'm not like other girls. I am a collective hivemind of exactly 55 worms. We are each ordering 55 of each and every one of Click's plushies. Also, we eat pick me girls.

[@Blake-ij4kw]

Jane Prentiss vibes in the first half /pos

[@Nameless-nine]

Is there - by any chance- a wasp's nest? In your attic...?

[@RulerOfArniskad]

@@Nameless-nine no, only a few vulture bees. They help us with rent.

[@RulerOfArniskad]

@@Blake-ij4kw I've asked around, none of us know who Jane Prentiss is, but we appreciate the compliment :D

[@PocketTheHamster]

​@@Blake-ij4kwI WAS LITERALLY GONNA SAY THAT

[@courtneybermack]

"being a stray at home Mom isn't so hard!" Life is relative. SAHP is a dream for some people and a miserable hellscape for others, but it's never easy. Spend three hours with a five year old who keeps changing the rules to go fish because they don't want to lose and see if you maintain your sense of child-like wonder. Spend five hours in meetings where you're constantly talked over and every idea you have is ignored until a man repeats it and see if you dream of sitting on the couch with a baby spitting up on you. At least that can't be done over email, amirite?

[@eaweareeacosa1878]

I would love to be a sahm but I also like having money so… off to work I go 😢 If only we could all just be independently wealthy 😂

[@claida339]

I just love how you said "stray" at home mom because it implies that you are going feral and frankly I would to if I had kids 😂

[@danieltilson4053]

@@claida339 The domestic housewife implies the existence of the feral housewife.

[@xejelah]

@@claida339 I just assumed she meant homeless - when you don't have a home, your home can be anywhere.

[@ArchmageIlmryn]

@@eaweareeacosa1878 TBH I think that is a substantial portion of why people romanticize the "tradwife" life. (At least the ones that genuinely do and aren't just making fetish content pandering to weird dudes.) They see it as an escape from capitalism, as though going back in time on women's rights would somehow magically give men enough money that the majority could support a housewife.

[@thegreenbeandoesstuff]

30:38 I am a woman that has also worked in construction as an electrical apprentice. Yes, I was the only woman in the group, but that had an entirely different outcome…coworkers were rude and spiteful towards women and, even if they did not attempt to harass me specifically, they talked horribly about modern women (“they don’t know how to serve their husbands”) IN FRONT OF ME. My father worked with me. He fed into their discussion. I haven’t looked at him the same way since. Stop pitting women against women. Stop pitting HUMANS AGAINST HUMANS. This behavior disgusts me to a degree that makes me glad I left the full time apprenticeship.

[@Katarina-wr2hi]

omg i'm so sorry to read it! and abt your father too... it's so sad that people think that decent behaviour is something not necessary while it actually is.

[@thegreenbeandoesstuff]

@ I’m really glad people see what’s wrong here, since so many people in the past have even blamed women for the men’s behavior. Basic human decency is so easy to achieve, I swear it, but they act like they’re walking on eggshells in order to show any kind of respect.

[@Jacoe413]

I got a job I was really excited about. It was a male dominated environment. I quickly realized I wasn't respected. I ended up losing my job to someone who had the same level of experience to me... that person being a guy. It turned me off of that career.

[@thegreenbeandoesstuff]

@ I’m so sorry to hear that. Truly. It really makes one believe that they are worth less than another human being, which just…isn’t true. It’s one thing to find the right fit for a job, but a completely other thing to pull down someone who was qualified just to replace them with a more privileged individual (most often men). I really hope you can find a good job for yourself, it’s important to love what you do. There’s hope out there

[@S3lkie-Gutz]

i worked new construction cleaning with my parents and i heard this shit all the time, if being physically disabled and getting covid multiple times didn’t make me quit all the degeneracy and misogyny i’ve heard over the years would’ve (i was also a minor and working to get extra on top of my allowance yippee/s)

[@Antifearn]

I am not like other girls… I’m really tall and skinny, I have really big feet, I never wear anything girly like skirts or heels, I always have my hair up in a ponytail, While other girls drink and hang out with the boys, I like to stay at home and read books, I LOVE food, I HATE pumpkin spice lattes and have never had one before, In fact, I hate anything that has to do with pumpkins because one Halloween night, I got one thrown at me by a headless man riding a horse, which caused me to mysteriously vanish from society, You know what, I’m not even a girl, And I don’t even exist because, I am Ichabod Crane, the fictional protagonist of Washington Irving’s 1820 short horror story, The Legend of Sleepy Hollow.

[@forkingsandkeys]

Who’s that coming down the street? Are they shovels or are they feet?

[@PaulCoyJR]

You had me in the first half, not gonna lie.

[@LondonHymbery-c9d]

​@@PaulCoyJRreal

[@artheenbyrogue804]

5:40 I thought it was gonna be a trans guy thing 😭 like "my mom thought she was raising a princess, turns out she's raising a prince". So much for wholesome vibes.

[@Kenghym]

@@artheenbyrogue804 might still get there. You never know. Lots of transmasc folks edge their way forward over the gender spectrum and go through that phase along the way.

[@artheenbyrogue804]

@Kenghym very true, I was like that too lmao. Maybe this person will come to a realization, we'll never know.

[@myheartismadeofstars]

​@@Kenghymme as a child: "I'm not like other girls" Me as an adult: +frilly dresses, pink, toys, etc+ My fiance as a child: "I'm not like other girls!" Fiance as a teen: +chill but getting into makeup and enjoys dresses+ Fiance as an adult: "I am not a girl" Lmao I always laugh when I remember that we went from a sorta butch/femme couple to a feminine woman/masculine man relationship

[@CasualVFlowerEnjoyer]

​@@myheartismadeofstars cuuuuuuuuuute ❤

[@myheartismadeofstars]

@@CasualVFlowerEnjoyer I'm glad you think our relationship is so cute!! Maybe you'd like to know that we met when we were 11/12 and started dating when we were in highschool. Been together ever since (14 years come April)

[@Random_panda12]

3:33 click in full on knight cosplay and an unkempt blond wig saying “Yass queen you tell them basic birches” is something I never knew I needed 💀 Edit: 3:55 and a beanie apparently 💀💀💀 Edit 2: 4:31 we Stan the pixel shades

[@stephanybrown3226]

It kept getting more unhinged and we are here for itb😂

[@Streetcleanergaming]

Pixel shades my beloved Preventing death by living on 0HP is just too good

[@contra1124]

He probably can't see with those shades and that's why he hit his mic with the sword 😂

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

He nearly unalived Mic-hael 🎤

[@rebny7801]

I took a screenshot!

[@JennyEverywhere]

My partner and I had made friends with a married couple (man & woman) who are heavily into the tattoo scene. They were both tattooed all over, and most of the work was beautifully done. They asked us if we wanted to meet them at a local convention they were attending. I was fine until we realized it was a tattoo convention. I had horrible needle phobia then, too, and was a bit stressed out, but it was okay. Much of it was fascinating, the art was beautiful, and the technology of tattoo equipment was very engaging. Until I walked past a man tattooing another man's shoulder as I went by, I was looking right at them when the artist put down his tattoo gun and wiped the man's shoulder with a clean, white cloth. It came away red. My vision turned gray, then black, as I fainted on the spot. I have no aversion to blood. I thought I was handling the tattooing, but I was wrong. The stress from the needle phobia was just hiding, waiting for the stimulus that would break it free. The wiping blood off the shoulder was the proverbial straw breaking the camel's back, and it all cascaded down. I was fine a few minutes later. It turned out the convention had staff medics, who wandered the show floor, armed with first-aid kits, water, and ice packs. Sometimes they helped people getting tattoos, but the much larger number were attendees who didn't realize they were getting squicked out until they fainted. I wasn't the only one. I wasn't the only one _that hour._

[@Lionhart-fw5nq]

that was a random unrelated story... but an interesting one? so you get a comment instead of a like from me

[@rebny7801]

Thank you for sharing. Nice story!

[@desperadox7565]

@@Lionhart-fw5nq Random unrelated story? It's related to Click's comment about his needle phobia.

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Funny I hate medical needles but fine with tattoo ms or sewing needles.

[@Lionhart-fw5nq]

@@desperadox7565 ah ok. i missed that info

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

13:49 "But I'm one of the good ones! I can be kept as a pet!" That's such a good reversal honestly and a great example of how being a pickme doesn't grant as much privilege as pickmes think, cause they're encouraging and reinforcing exactly the system that oppresses them _in their own circle_ and won't really be treated as equals for being "different" (even if some of the people they're trying to appeal to may encourage them that they are different and special, the scapegoating of people like them and them by extension will affect them.

[@Hawksthemakeshifteagle]

You didn't put the other parenthesis →)

[@sheilajensen4263]

With the “Being a SAHM isn’t that hard!” person, soooo much of it depends on the individual kids and parents and how the strengths and weaknesses line up. An extroverted parent with a chill kid who doesn’t have sleep issues is going to have a wildly different experience than an introvert with a baby who has colic, for example.

[@missnaomi613]

Exactly! I was a stay-at-home mama. I wouldn't say it's the hardest thing in the world, but it certainly wasn't easy! *My only regret is that their dad is not a good coparent.

[@waffles3629]

Yep, like way too many parents seem to think "my kid is good at/can do X" means "any parent whose kid isn't good at/can't do X is a failure of a parent". Like no, just no.

[@basicallyarock]

I love how both emotional support demons have long blonde hair but one has quirky hair

[@Kirsui]

The dress-up bit with the beanie on top of the nazgul helmet was peak comedy 😆

[@imjustroleplaying]

3:41 I'd freak out over both 1. Breaking a nail hurts, and if it's a glue on, now you have to find the nail and then find glue to put it back on 2. If that wasn't a cheap knife... WHAT DID I DO THAT MANAGED TO BREAK IT?! I also just got a pink knife a few days ago, and it's really, really neat :3 It's my second one, and it has a spring mechanism.

[@ThingInTheHall]

*stabs you with ✨glitter✨*

[@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake]

I want a pink knife (i am terrified of knives bc one time i almost cut my fingers off trying to close my pocket knife)

[@seigeengine]

@@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake I still vividly remember holding a bagel while cutting it and sawing directly into my hand. Sometimes my stupidity astounds me.

[@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake]

@ i did that with a baguette

[@catandrobbyflores]

I break at least one nail every other day at my job. And it's because of a freaking door handle! It hurts like a b*tch!

[@SpookySal13]

I think I know exactly what exhibit you're talking about and I'm pretty sure one of the displays is just a diaper. It breaks my heart and makes me so upset when people blame the victims for how they were dressed

[@osheridan]

13:08 I once read a fanfiction where unconditional love was used as a form of horror. It was very good.

[@AroAce_Psychopath]

Would be lovely to read. Psyhorror is perhaps one of my fave genres I'm just lazy and don't know where to start stuff lmfao

[@Aceindeck]

Plss bless us with the sauce

[@Koy_txt]

26:58 ah yes, just friends, definitely not adorable sapphics who are so madly in love with eachother

[@LoremIpsum-dp1li]

Good ol' r/GatekeepingYuri.

[@13Eggies]

Exactlyy!! I had to react verbally to that! Just friends he said

[@tra12048]

They were such great friends! Some could even say they were... roommates?

[@Pindie12321]

@@tra12048oh my god they were roomates…

[@LeeLuvid]

These videos always hit me man. I used to be of the "not like other girls crowd!!" And looking back i do cringe at it, but also, that poor girl was hurting because she didnt understand why she felt wrong. Im glad to say now I'm doing better, I've realized things about myself that explain my feelings, and i hope these girls who say stuff like this find solidarity and solace in other things rather then bringing others down //Edit: spelling!

[@grrahstacky]

I think the difference was that, some of these girls are agreeing with political figures that wants to restrict a woman's body. They should be hated for it and shamed because they're supporting horrible men. But like if we're talking about the "I'm so better than her" type of pick me? I guess they're harmless, but at the end of the day, it's still wrong to create a stereotype of other women just so you can feel different from them. But the political type of pick me is much worse than the normal pick me in my opinion.

[@-MarbleHornetsFan-]

4:50 The best part is that if I remember correctly, the “You’ve met with a terrible fate, haven’t you?” Isn’t even an originally BEN DROWNED line, it was said by the Happy Mask Salesmen from Majora’s Mask. However, I don’t have the game, or even the right console, I’ve just seen play throughs, so that may be wrong. 37:43 I thought it said 39 cats instead of 390 calories. Honestly, if I had the money, the time, and the means to, I’d happily own 39 cats, but it would be impossible to please them all.

[@gavinmichels8827]

It is, it's literally the first things the Happy Mask Salesmen says to you in Majoras Mask. (Probably why the creepypasta used it, it was a very ominous greeting)

[@-MarbleHornetsFan-]

@ okay, I thought so, I even looked it up, I just didn’t want to embarrass myself because you know how certain people on the internet get

[@RenegadeDesigns]

37:40 That looks like a girl who's been yelled at one too many times for her life choices and started lashing out at anyone she perceives as judging her. Its awful when people get to that point of "Must protect self. Everyone threat. ATTACK ATTACK ATTACK." After being attacked by too many people.

[@FelidaeFaeTV]

I needed to see this reach for empathetic understanding without excusing; thank you 💜

[@m310grass]

I would love to see a not like other girls post saying that “men make better friends then women because they don’t steal your man” get immediately clapped back by some girl saying “I stopped hanging out with my male best friend after he stole my boyfriend”

[@Ottermamapoeia]

Right? I was thinking the same thing the whole time 🤣

[@m310grass]

Or alternatively another girl saying “I only hangout with men because unlike girls men won’t steal your girlfriend and they aren’t competing with you for a girls attention”

[@Silliest-guy-the-ever]

I had a not like other girls phase, turns out I’m just trans.

[@cheddarcheezit2647]

Mood 🤝

[@user-dw4uj1cw4l]

"I'm not like other girls, I'm a boy" (welcome to the boys club, there's cheese in the fridge if you'd like)

[@maxdaae]

So it technically wasn't a phase lol

[@Bry-Guy909]

I mean you weren't wrong.

[@numberfour1234]

In my experience, unconditional love can exist only for pets. My cat could be an absolute asshole, a bully or a murderer and I'd still die for it. Hell, my cat could be the boss of the street cats mafia and I'd still love it.

[@js66613]

If your cat would be the boss of a street cat mafia, they'd be the coolest cat on the planet. (Who knows, maybe it secretly is...)

[@numberfour1234]

​@@js66613 I wouldn't even be surprised

[@Bry-Guy909]

I mean most animals are all of the first 3 you mentioned, and I still love them.

[@tealkerberus748]

I have two cats. They can and do create absolute mayhem around the house and we just accept it. But if one of them started abusing the other, that would be a boundary - not to stop loving them, but to separate them. Fortunately as a bonded pair, they adore each other. I reckon the same applies to my children. If one of my kids ever brings home a dead body, I'll help them dispose of it, and if they want to tell me what happened, they'll do that when they're ready. But if one of my kids was abusing me or anyone else under my protection - which includes our cats and other non-human dependents - then yeah, that's a boundary. I'd still love them, but that behaviour would have to stop.

[@CasualVFlowerEnjoyer]

My cat abuses and gaslights me (sneakily hits me as I walk by, then acts like he didn't do anything), interrupts me trying to do anything productive, bites me for petting him TOO GOOD and constantly victimizes himself by standing right behind my legs any time he knows I'll have to back up/ turn around (like standing at a counter, looking in a closet, making my bed) so he has an excuse to hit me. I can't leave though. My CDs are still in his car.

[@ShanRenxin]

I dread how that pick me mom at the beginning is going to raise that boy. Her daughters seem to have turned out okay, and I hope they'll be a bigger and better influence on him than the mom is.

[@meli1306-t9s]

I know! Right? The post where the girl mentioned her mom was a pick me was eye opening-- my mom was a pick me and said all of these toxic things. My sister and I absolutely do not get along with our mom (I went no contact) and our brother ended up becoming an absolute garbage human being. He's lazy and always looking for a girl friend to mooch off of and doesn't bother working himself.

[@missnaomi613]

@@meli1306-t9s I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you know you deserve better. (And I'm a mom!)

[@lucialma]

Me at 15: “I’m not like other girls” Me at 35: “I’m exactly like other autistic girls”

[@katherinepatchett7975]

Spot on 😂

[@Uffda.]

Get out of my head! 😂

[@annamolly9446]

Same tho 😂

[@Halomeowmeow788]

The "my best friend is a cow" one whilst she's stood next to a horse reminds me of Mushu from Mulan when he says "Disgrace on your cow" whilst pointing to Mulan's horse 😂

[@Yellowjacket-z3h]

This reminded me of this little joke my friend group has; We have this small group of people where most of us are gender queer. A lot of times if one of us starts explaining about some weird situation we were in or if one of us does something differently than others etc, they'll imidietly go: "I am not like OTHER GIRLS, I am not even a girl!" It's great fun, can recomend 😁

[@doclewis8927]

I'm a 50+ year old woman and I've NEVER thought about looking up any of the exes of any of the men I dated nor my husband. Why would I compare myself to someone he ISN'T in a relationship with anymore, especially if he DUMPED them? There's zero confidence in your own personality and looks if you're "stalking" their exes. They're the exes for a reason. I think the reason they're the exes is MORE important. I have an older sister who was always "looking for mr. right" with a whole laundry list of things she wanted him to be and to be for her. While I looked at each relationship, even a single date, as a learning experience of what I didn't want in a partner. I didn't think about how I'd "fix" him to fit my list. I wanted someone who made me happy just the way he was and who wanted me just the way I was (am). It's okay to change over time but you shouldn't expect people to change for you nor should you change everything about yourself to "please" others. You have to live with yourself and you shouldn't pretend to be something you're not. There's nothing wrong with changing IF you want to change but you shouldn't do it just because someone pressures you to do so. Be you and you'll find whomever you're meant to find. Or...worse come to worst...you end up alone but happy with who you are. My older sister always asked me if I was "lonely" before I had ever started datting as if the only thing in life was being in a relationship with a man. Again...her "knight in shining armor coming to save her". I told her that I couldn't "miss" something that I'd never experienced (I was 19) and she was surprised about how "profound" my statement was. There's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. My sister often talked about a guy she went on one date with as "he's the one", especially if that guy had money. I often thought that she wasn't as "worldly" as she thought she was. It was annoying to hear about how great some guy was because he took her to a fancy restaurant and they had the s*x but then the same guy wouldn't call after even though she thought they'd really hit it off. I didn't know how to explain to my OLDER sister that he'd already gotten what he wanted from her. My sister's a beautiful woman and very extroverted but she was blind when it came to what men wanted from her. She had guys tripping over themselves to go out with her and sleep with her but she didn't have them tripping over her to be in their lives. She's a wonderful person but I have no idea how she acted on their dates to cause them not to ever call her again. When she saw my first boyfriend, she couldn't understand why someone as good looking as he was (he was a model) was with me. Yep...she literally said that. "Why's someone like him with you?" Ouch. She seemed shallow in that moment and I understood WHY none of the guys she dated wanted to stick around. In our old age...we've both settled down but she's been married and divorced and married again while I just went through my relationships learning from my experiences what I DIDN'T want in a relationship and what I didn't want my partner to be like (which is easier than..."he must fit this mold"). We've both been in these last relationships for a long time. Me over 22 years and hers right around 20 years. It's nice to know that she finally found her "knight" even though he didn't fit the mold that she'd made in her head of that "knight". Funny how life and love works itself out. If I hadn't have found my husband, I'd be just as happy by myself. Never forget that YOU need to feel happy with yourself first before you can feel happy with another. Sorry for the rambling. Love y'all. Blessed be from me and my witchy, Wiccan ways! Note: Sorry for the typos but I'm not going to reread and make corrections for my grammar and spelling! Thanks for reading and understanding.

[@skeletonwarlock5741]

I didn't know people over the age of 50 watched the click have a nice day

[@Silkendrum]

​@@skeletonwarlock5741 i turned 80 three weeks ago.

[@HH-975]

Thank you for sharing your story, I'm still waiting until I meet the right person and observe other relationships to determine what I don't want. Your advice have been uplifting to read :)

[@wartgin]

​@@skeletonwarlock5741 62

[@skeletonwarlock5741]

@Silkendrum congrats I guess

[@phantomswagger9363]

16:43 - Everybody gangsta until the cockroach starts flying.

[@SpringStarFangirl]

Everybody gangsta until the roach climbs up their leg in the shower.

[@Ottermamapoeia]

Everybody gangsta until the cockroach scampers over your fingers in the middle of the night

[@stephaniet1389]

This unlocked a high school memory. During english class, a cockroach was flying and scurrying around the classroom and everyone was freaking out. Some students tried to pick it up with paper, but little guy was too fast. I just wanted to get back to the lesson, so I walked over to the craziness, picked up the roach with my bare hand, and tossed it out the window. Nobody messed with me after that.

[@karabearcomics]

Towards the end was one that made me think some people need a refresher: "a part" and "apart" aren't synonyms. In fact, they're antonyms. To be a part of something, you are with it, part of the whole. If you are apart from something, you are separated from it, not with it at all. I know this stems from the same place that causes people to spell "a lot" as "alot" (or "allot" if they go by their spellcheck, even though it's doesn't mean the same thing), so it's not likely to go away anytime soon, especially since so many people don't know if it's "your" or "you're", or the like. Just wanted to get this off my chest though, as sometimes I feel I've done my English degree a disservice by not mentioning such things, despite it being nowhere near the most egregious thing people featured in this video have done.

[@EnbyFranziskaNagel]

I allot a lot of money to my vacation fund.

[@justalyssa5871]

Dude, I feel like you have legit helped me become more emotionally aware and not be an a-hole. Thank you

[@arceusinsanity301]

5:10 hun you don't need to be a pick me to enjoy creepypastas, it doesn't make you special, but this behaviour makes you a jerk

[@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake]

I like creepypastas as much as the next person but ain’t nobody referencing a character when they’re trying to mention cannibalism lmao

[@poke-talia268]

Lol. That post went around a lot in 2010-2014 with a bunch of preteens on fanfic websites and tumblr. It was a bunch of people who could not spell for their life and would go in group chars to just make the characters smooch. It definitely wasn't a good post to share, but it was mostly kids with lacking social lives irl. 🤷

[@blueberrorthebean2108]

As someone who still likes older creepypasta to this day, literally this. You're not special for liking internet horror, boo.

[@lydiaalexian1435]

Also, owning up to your hobbies WITHOUT putting others down makes you seem cooler and less insecure so why do it? It ruins the whole vibe...

[@yeeyeeyeeye]

As someone who liked creepypastas and internet horror as a kid and still does, that was a blast from the past in the worst way.

[@Alphaismyname]

HELP- THE GACHA IN THE THUMBNAIL- LMAO

[@FelicyaFeliyxLuck]

GACHA MENTIONED WHOOOOOO

[@Jellywolf-conansversion]

ik it killed me

[@AtlasAbyssed]

@@FelicyaFeliyxLuck YASSSS🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@_BloodRedRoses_]

I watched a gacha video today...

[@SunshineGemlin]

Fr

[@scriptorpaulina]

DO NOT WEAR STEEL-TOED BOOTS AROUND HORSES!!! They can stomp the toe around your foot and amputate your toes. Just wear normal riding boots, which have a space in the front so your feet can slide backwards. Src: taught horseback riding for 5 years

[@Romanticoutlaw]

I'm imagining it like one of those hydraulic press videos 😭

[@Antifearn]

My film professor always wore steel-toed boots in both the classroom and on film sets, so they got really smelly. I can’t imagine how fetid they would get being worn in a barn!

[@AshasArts]

There's actually a myths busters episode on the whole losing your toes in steel toe capped boots thing and the conclusion was if it was bad enough for you to lose your toes with them on your whole foot would probably be left the consistency of toothpaste without them. Good quality steel toes consistently protected from all tested methods of damage. Can't say exactly for horses but they did put the boots in a hydraulic press and drop significant weights on them and compared it with regular boots. The regular boots were mush, the steel toes, while you'd probably have some bad broosing would otherwise be fine.

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

I dud this for years no problem now I'm scared lol. Tho I had a horse stand on my foot while wearing flip-flops that was fun

[@nowitchisanisland]

A friend of mine had their toe crushed in this exact scenario. I saw the boot... they were very lucky to even have their toe still attached.

[@Mythrone]

"My body his choice" is literally such a wild sentence like have some self-respect girl 😭

[@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake]

I’m not like the other girls. I’m very neurodivergent, don’t have good social skills, and i’m still trying to figure out who i am. But i wouldn’t change the other girls for the world, because they still make an effort to include me and make me feel wanted

[@mariane5564]

Growing up I always relate to the not like the other girls caracters, because I always felt like I didn't fit in with others, turns out I'm neurodivergent

[@sircrumbfan]

I'm not like other girls, I'm a guy 💅✨

[@Sior-person]

Yaaasss king slayy

[@timothyisstupid]

Real

[@yourbirthgiver69]

periodt 😍

[@Dutch_Dame68]

I'm not like other girls, I used to be man💅✨

[@yellowbutterfly6796]

laughs maniacally in trans masc 🏳️‍⚧️

[@Forestnymph205]

24:28 - 24:38 The irony in this For the ones that don't know. Making all those side braids and with bows and everything take considerably more time each morning than a messybun which is the last picture. That means that people use FAR more messybuns than any of the previous hairstyles

[@lemonadewithstrawberries]

that's what i was thinking. not that it even matters, but a clawclip hairstyle is wayyyyy more common

[@seigeengine]

You do know you don't need to redo braids daily, right?

[@missnaomi613]

@@seigeengine it depends on the texture of the hair. Those pictures (unless I missed something) featured hair that seems similar to mine, which would not look nice the next day. My daughter, however, has the kind of hair that could hold it.

[@Forestnymph205]

@@seigeengine the ones showed in the video do. I am as white as they come and my hair is while curly not afro. I do need to redo braids daily. I know that afro braids can sit in for ages but those kinds of braids would make my hair fall out

[@seigeengine]

@@Forestnymph205 Nah, these braids too. The difference in hair texture has effects of course, but it's not to that point.

[@jynxcloudy6969]

I'm watching this while walking home in the rain. The moment Slenderman is mentioned, the street lamp I'm passing flickers and shuts off. What spooky timing

[@rebny7801]

Did you get home safely?

[@jynxcloudy6969]

@rebny7801 I did, yes Though there was some tall skinny guy in the corner of my vision the entire walk... I think they were following me

[@ThingInTheHall]

​@@jynxcloudy6969did he happen to have a suit

[@dr_slurmp]

27:51 “does her playlist compare?” she says as she proceeds to show the most consensual metal/rock selection known to man

[@Ares_V]

37:33 I used to judge the hell out of people who liked $8 coffee that's mostly milk and flavored syrup I assumed they didn't like the taste of coffee and were trying to mask it which seemed stupid while I love black coffee no sugar... Until I discovered Turkish coffee. The process of brewing it followed by that delicious cup of hot goodness is therapeutic for me... Then I found a different brand that sold some of its coffee with cardamom.. Then I tried adding sugar... Then cinnamon and you know where I'm going with this I didn't gatekeep coffee but I was sure some people had no taste buds even while aware everyone being different but I guess we aren't really all that different Thank you for coming to my Tedtalk

[@SpaceBearEngineer]

I'm glad you got over that. Btw, whenever someone says something along the lines of "people don't like something unless they eat it straight!" It makes me imagine them sitting on the couch with a spoon and a bowl of salt.

[@Ares_V]

@SpaceBearEngineer I'm not proud of it but as a kid I used to get in trouble for stealing the salt to eat it straight like not a bowl but yes in spoonfuls.... I'm also over that I swear.. but maybe your "theory" is not that far off

[@carniethedat7071]

So far as I can tell, the whole "black coffee" thing pretty much boils down to how much people can tolerate bitter flavors. Even the best brewed black coffees have vastly more bitter notes than coffee with cream or sugar, and for those who are extremely sensitive to that kind of thing, masking it can do absolute wonders. The same thing goes for chocolate/cocoa, especially at 70% or higher, and some people who like high-cocoa bars don't like black coffee. That's what makes it so funny (in a dark way) whenever I think about this internet argument...

[@kokoduspcy]

i still judge those people if they go to places like starbucks but it's cuz i dislike the place, not people's taste 😭

[@gabriellehitchins9182]

@@kokoduspcy are you from Melbourne or Wellington? There is a reason Starbucks never really took off in these parts (lots of good places already existed)

[@EddilyKitty]

It astounds me that in 2024 there are so many people that still just focus on looks and literally nothing else.

[@unionfire]

That's human nature... Quality of life gets better very slowly, but in the end we're still humans and there will be people who care too much about looks and people who grow up and don't care or have never cared. A never ending cycle

[@Just_a_Goth]

​@@unionfire Then why does the intelligent population not struggle with this?

[@unionfire]

@@Just_a_Goth I didn't say they did, ''intelligent population'' is only a fraction of the whole after all Edit* I literally said ''...or have never cared'' that implies the ''intelligent population'' you mentioned. It helps to read and take a minute to understand what you read. You don't have to ask needless questions that way

[@Just_a_Goth]

@@unionfire That's weird. Only YOUR comments are showing up. Care to explain why? Got something to hide like a tarnished ego? 🤔

[@unionfire]

@@Just_a_Goth Did the other guy delete their comment? lol

[@KwehShiro]

''you've met with a terrible fate[,haven't you?]'' is from zelda majora's mask and is the most popular quote from it, small bit of trivia. That said, that person was cringe, dont take the name of my favorite game in vain, 'quirky girl' .

[@Killerbuneh]

I lost it laughing when you put on the glasses with the helmet. Thankyou click I needed that today.

[@jessicaholscher4097]

10:35 My theroy about older women being mean to young women: it's often jealousy. I am 42, and when I see a young woman, especially when she's having fun with her friends or something, I think, "God, to have those days back: or even that energy. Good for her. I hope she gets to have lots of fun like I did." So, I know there must be women out there who are like, "That was me once, and it should still be me! How dare you for existing and reminding me of my age and the fact that society deems older women less worthy because all I ever had to rely on was my looks!"

[@js66613]

Honestly, that mom who'd blame the victim would've - if she hadn't already voted for Trump and supported Project 2025, 'cause she thought that somehow she wouldn't have to deal with the consequences. She also has 0 self-awareness clearly, and I feel bad for her children. :(

[@Tachii31]

4:25 This just reminds me of that whole era of fanfics with "quirky" girls shipping themselves with Jeff, which was concerning enough that I read the story to see why it was so popular with these people and learned that the character is like 14 years old or something...

[@snowkr3580]

I mean personally 14 was the age when i liked creepypasta the most. And I feel like that's the age people usually get into it. I still like the characters, they're fun and cringey in a nostalgic way. I feel like writing a self insert fic is not that bad honestly, as long as you don't simp for real life killers. I've never personally been interested in that, but I am demiroace, so that's probbaly why.

[@BiDisaster327]

I had a creepypasta phase when I was like 12 or 13, most kids of that age are super cringy I'll be honest. Personally i hated jeff but I've always knew that other fangirls weren't attracted to the actual image and story itself, but the art people made of an attractive alt guy, which wasn't a mainstream thing. I think it's important to understand that! young teens on the internet will always be into fanon-ized version of horror media, like how kids also like fnaf animatronics (even though theyre pieces of metal and corpses or something) but you can always draw them to be appealing, because it's fun. Then years later you'll grow up and realize a lot of the insane things like murder and serial killers are an actual thing, you become more critical of it, because you have a developed brain There's also creeps who are adults and like children though, yeah, but usually it's kids that like kids.

[@jax_403]

Click videos used to be the best way to end the evening, now it's the best way to start the day (I moved from Sweden to America)

[@westcannistraro]

22:38 Click, here, is describing something animals like turtles get nicknamed Bubble Butt. Where there is a big airpocket in their shell (generally due to hitting something like a boat) and it causes their rear end to always be on the surface of the water and their front end only able to be underwater. It is incredibly dangerous for turtles and other marinelife who deal with this. He was saying this as a lighthearted joke, but funnily enough, it is actually a real thing in animals *edited for grammar mistake

[@Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose]

Oh no, that’s so sad

[@curiousnerdkitteh]

18:43 "So if that was the shot, then the shot has indeed missed!" Nice.

[@sevans8784]

PSA: the "sober curious" movement is about approaching substance use with more nuance than an "abstainance only" way of thinking! There can be a lot of shame around struggles with addiction, and it's common for people to get stuck in a cycle of "I'm an addict, so I can't at all have this thing," to "I really want it, but I can't have it," to "okay, maybe I'll have a little," and then "well, if I'm screwing up anyway, I might as well binge," and around and around and around. Being sober curious comes more from the mindset of "I can drink if I want to, I just don't want to right now," which is a much gentler, more compassionate way of working with yourself around addiction.

[@mari-mari-yasno]

Thank you, it sounds useful for me

[@sevans8784]

@mari-mari-yasno you're welcome! It's certainly been helpful for me 😊

[@Moon_x_sun]

8:18 alot of girls have a “not like other girls” phase but its sad when it doesnt end :/

[@claida339]

Yeah, I think it comes from the fact that we are given the image in media etc that girls like pink and want babies and only think/talk of boys/clothes/make-up, but this trope isn't that frequent in real life. Most of us talk to other people and realize they're also 3 dimensional. The people who carry it longer in life just probs never make friends. And I would venture that there's an overlap with the political aspect because both growing out of that phase and accepting others imply empathizing with people they've decided are not like them.

[@Moon_x_sun]

@ that’s true :) I also think some of the media of the 2000s and 2010s did a push to showcase those girls that aren’t like other girls and kinda pin them against each other like sharpay vs Gabriella where yes sharpay had dimension she was also very much a stereotype - where you get to see Gabriella from way more dimension. (Ofc they touch many subjects but that’s one I remember seeing in many movies growing up) the brunette loser vs blond popular girl yk. But I do think it’s a part of growing up going through that phase of realising others aren’t npcs in your life they’re just as fully ‘fleshed’ out as you And I think you’re right with those who might not grow out of it

[@TrainWreckInTheOcean]

I agree, often times (from what I've seen) it is either a lack of attention or connection (not saying it's ok) but it hurts me on another level to know how bad it can get if nobody tries to get a hold of the situation and stop them from being, well...

[@XCaptianXChaosX]

20:12 the friend was jealous that OP looked hot and was trying to embarrass her on purpose. I would bet she was waiting for a chance to wipe the sauce off the friend's face. Which is only something that someone does if they're super close to someone. It was weird.

[@Romanticoutlaw]

I'm not like other girls. I'm three raccoons in a trench coat

[@ThingInTheHall]

3 kobolds in a trenchcoat

[@lemcy1256]

12:55 Unconditional love is A THING! But only for your kitties, puppies and other animals under your care... because humans are mostly trash. But most animals are the the kindest creatures you'll ever encounter.

[@jaxscales6158]

Your comment makes you sound like you’ve never loved anyone in your entire life, unless they’re an animal

[@lemcy1256]

@@jaxscales6158 Nah, I love a lot of people... my parent, my siblings, my friends. But I meant that this love is very often not unconditional because people have bounderies, rightly so. Also, humans are able to hurt others psychologically and emotionally on purpose. As far as I know there are very few species who are capable of mental cruelty. Unconditional love is something different. With pets (and also one's children I suppose, though as a childfree person I can't judge that) it is a whole other thing.

[@elyzabeth5671]

I really like what Jamie Dodger said about this whole trend. Yes, some of it is just internalised misogyny, and it deserves to be called out. But what if some people relate to this sentiment of distancing themselves from “other girls”, because… they aren’t really girls? Kinda realised that this is what’s been to teenage me (uncomfortable nb laugh)

[@tealkerberus748]

And if society stopped pushing adolescent girls to all conform to a stereotype, the ones that actually aren't girls would be free to realise that without having to fight for their individuality too.

[@kokoduspcy]

i felt this on a spiritual level lol my whole life i was kind of a forced "not like other girls", not because i acted like the girls in this video but because other kids (girls a bit more often than boys) always pushed me away cuz i was "different" turns out I'm enby and autistic 😭

[@Zer0Z0id]

right as my pizza finished cooking and I sit down... perfect

[@yellowbutterfly6796]

nice! 🍕 bon appetit

[@worm2976]

hope the pizza was nice!

[@koraliekora-leepalmer4024]

Lmao, i just saw this after making a "im just a quirky girl xD!" Joke in my head. The neighbors are putting decorations up and I was like "I'm so quirky, always buying plants instead of having holiday decorations"

[@moth_pawss]

4:34 normal girls say cannibal, hazbin hotel fans say rosie or alastor

[@AlexiosGachaOfficial]

And Hannibal fans say **Hannibal.**

[@4SC3_]

I looked at some photos from that SA victim museum he mentioned around 8:45, one of them was an army soldier's uniform. Someone who had on their uniform, someone who fought for the country, got SAed. Absolutely disgusting.

[@badcaseofstripes]

About the SAHM thing, I am essentially a housewife to my fiance (we're both gay) and her dad. I'm disabled and can't really work anywhere without getting extremely burnt out. So i do my best to cook, clean, do laundry nd dishes, and make sure everything runs smoothly in the house. Even that is hard enough for me, I'm 26 and it takes it's toll. I need days off. Can't even imagine if I had a kid or two on top of all that, I would die from the stress. So if taking care of kids at home is 'easy' for one person, great, but it's definitely not easy in general and that shouldn't be projected onto other people. For me personally it's hard enough to take care of the home by itself. It kind of reminds me of how if you look up a tutorial on some program or software or something because you can't figure it out yourself, it irritates me to no end when the person making the tutorial is like "this is so easy guys! this is the most obvious thing in the world right here!" it's like buddy, people wouldn't be looking up a tutorial in the first place if it was THAT easy... it just reads as petty undermining and egotism. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses and that fact shouldn't be discarded so someone can project their bias of how 'easy' something is, that other people often think is hard.

[@ScarabD]

God, our great great grandmothers did NOT get force fed in prison until they vomited for this sh*t.

[@alexagray6307]

Sometimes I feel upset that my language doesn't have a woman/female difference. That way I could weed out the sexists in a heartbeat and move on with my life

[@Atlessa]

Oh? What language? Do you basically say "woman dog" or "man cat" if you wanna make that kind of distinction?

[@Nelly-w7c]

I feel very confused about this statement. Are you upset about what they said? Do you get what they are saying at all?​@@Atlessa

[@Star-vf8vz]

@@Nelly-w7c They're asking if woman/female are the same word in this language, and if that means a literal translation from their language could read female dog as "woman dog," or the like.

[@Santisima_Trinidad]

3:50 nooooooooo, my dearest sweetest quirky girl XD, you missed the chance for a pun. "Normal girls wear bows, we shoot Bows!". I have never been more disappointed.

[@katherinepatchett7975]

MY THOUGHT EXACTLY

[@Wh1teMo0nl1ght]

Omg I was thinking the exact same thing 😭😭

[@ArcanineEspeon]

24:54 Garfield: "why are you changing the subject to human women or whatever? I was talking about MONDAYS. Get me some phucking lasagna, lady"

[@savageinkstudios2969]

People will legitimately get mad if you say you find parenting easy, or say you must be doing a crap job. Its nuts. I cant even blame that mom for feeling the need to say something.

[@tealkerberus748]

Some people find parenting easy like some other people find training for a marathon easy. If you're doing the activity you most want to do in this world, it may be strenuous and demanding, but it won't feel like work. And that makes it feel easy.

[@savageinkstudios2969]

@tealkerberus748 thats how i feel about it. I had fertility issues and miscarriages for almost 10 years trying for a baby. By the end i didnt think it was even possible for me. Now that i have my son theres nothing in the world id rather do than spend every minute of every day with him. Even when i was up every two hours breastfeeding from cracked bleeding nipples it never felt like work and i wouldnt have traded it for anything. But a parent who doesnt enjoy parenting hears you say that and "you must be doing a terrible job if you enjoy it" 🙄

[@Jeshcaprints]

People should just be able to have both opinions. Not everyone is meant to be parents and some are. This is why getting rid of reproductive rights is terrible for everyone, it’ll hurt the ones that want to have kids by not making it safe for them to conceive and terrible for people that really aren’t prepared for kids

[@evilcowhead]

Oh my gosh, I need to say this, but I was a pick me girl before I transitioned! I literally just hung out with the dudes. When they said I wasn't allowed to due to religious reasons, I hung out with the girls, but they didn't like me. Now that I realized I am just antisocial and trans it makes so much sense.

[@Just_a_Goth]

*Asocial. I'm pretty sure you don't suffer from Antisocial Personality Disorder, which includes psychopathy and sociopathy among other destructive personality types and symptoms.

[@evilcowhead]

@Just_a_Goth actually I do but I created a flowchart on how to associate with people a long long time ago and I realized I actually much prefer living off the energy of other people's Joy versus their pain. Or at least I prefer the consequences of A versus B

[@Just_a_Goth]

@@evilcowhead Stop trying to be edgy. You cannot decide that yourself. You're not a trained and educated professional. And you've already disqualified yourself, displaying your ignorance. Asocial = not much, if any social interaction. Antisocial = destructive behaviors towards the community such as lying, cheating, stealing, and up to violent crime.

[@evilcowhead]

@Just_a_Goth oh wow, so you think YOU are an expert? My previous and current therapists would disagree, and truly, it doesn't matter what you think. I just thought it was cool that you actually knew the difference. Although it is just hilarious that you think you think but based on your repetition I would bet you recently Googled this

[@Just_a_Goth]

@@evilcowhead So. You sat down with not just a therapist and went through the whole process, not just a spreadsheet? Genuinely asking.

[@Gu1t4rL0v3r4ever]

37:48 My mom carried around a toddler at 40. That toddler was me. And fart you! She’s an amazing mom!! You can be a mom at any age (unless of course you’re a literal child or infertile due to old age) I really hate that people judge adult women based in when they have their kids. If you had a kid during a teenager, that’s your responsibility. If you didn’t want it, you should’ve been careful. If you want a child at 39, go for it! But again. It’s your responsibility. Being a mother isn’t easy, no matter the age.

[@Toni-lo9ms]

6:18 That mom's mysogyny isn't just internalized, it's spewing out of every orifice.

[@emorainbow8999]

I wonder what people like her would say about the full body coverings, infant clothing, mens clothes, and loose fitting clothes (majority) in that museum. It doesn't matter what you wear, how old you are, what gender you are, nor where you are. If someone wants to SA you, they are going to SA you. Guy, gal, enby pal -- doesnt matter. Monsters walk among us and pretending its the fault of those attacked is beyond disgusting.

[@GabrielleGillespie-pv8lu]

“There’s like lemonade” hon that was a tequila shot with lime 😭 I love the click

[@NINJAfries07]

26:24 “Hahaha my horse broke my toes” “Oh dang!” “And she weighs over 15,000 pounds” “1,500?” “Nope. Add another 0 to that” “There’s no way it could be that much”

[@Plushinfernalii]

4:06 This has to be one of the best click moments in click history

[@katherinepatchett7975]

Completely 💯💯💯

[@Suited_Nat]

9:21 this is so ridiculous. If that were my parent, I’d straight up say to her that she’s blaming a child victim of r*pe instead of a pedophile.

[@ann18o96]

Oh yeah a horse once stepped on my toes in normal riding shoes. On accident. I swear he didn't notice, and seemed surprised when I was insisting of moving him xD They're so smart and so dumb at the same time I swear...

[@EchoL0C0]

Most animals have a specific intelligence (I don't know if that's the actual term) which means they can be very smart at one or a few things, but only those things (which is different from humans, who have general intelligence and can be smart at a lot of different things.) So yeah, it's totally possible for animals to be smart and dumb at the same time!

[@sebforce1165]

28:40 well, they could go to work drunk or hungover because they wouldn't get fired or called out about it, but _gods_ forbid someone younger than 30 arrives to work drunk or hungover, if they don't get fired, those "80's Teens" would call them very un-nice things and of course, _try to get them fired._

[@sebforce1165]

Oh god and towards the end _PLEASE don't encourage American "Truck Culture"_

[@waffles3629]

Fr. A older patron at a pool tried to get one of my co-workers fired "for being drunk". She wasn't drunk, she wasn't even drinking age, and hadn't been drinking, she'd just had dental work done like a week before and her face was the tiniest bit puffy.

[@dragonturtle2703]

Unconditional love is better thought of as love you don’t need to earn or maintain. But can still be eroded or shattered by enough negative stuff.

[@Illegally-_-Miku]

"Im not like other girls! Im transitioning into a man!"

[@Klmp13]

"Your body, my choice" is absolutely true. So here, drink this Arsenic. I insist 😂

[@Antares2]

42:49 She writes she is "not apart of this generation" which means the exact opposite of what she probably meant to write: "not a part of this generation" Being "not apart" means to be part of. Of all the things to misspell.

[@restrictedmilk]

I see this misspelling so often and it sends me every time!

[@claratalbot7613]

28:30 Ah yes, the classic of calling the younger generation all "lazy" & "soft" because how dare they ever take a day off from work when they need it. Like sure try to avoid drinking too much when you go out but things happen & trying to force yourself to work when you don't feel good for whatever reason ends up with either makes your recovery take longer or you end up crashing later on when it catches up with you. It's better to just take the time off to fully recover. If your workplace gets upset with that, then that just shows you they don't really care about their employees & don't see them as people

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

Here to spread some positivity! It’s the last day of the show I’m in and it was a super fun show to do :D Anyway, how are all of you doing? Feel free to rant, talk about hyperfixations, anything! Remember to take your meds, drink water, and eat something if you haven’t already!! This is a safe place, and I love you ❤

[@einindividuum5428]

Aw, that’s so sweet of you 😊 My current hyperfixation is Baldur‘s Gate 3 again after a bit of a break and I absolutely love this game! May I ask in what show you were? I am curious :)

[@katherinepatchett7975]

Thank you, you wonderful beautiful bean - I needed this today 🥹

[@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil]

@@einindividuum5428 It was called Trap :) it’s a documentary-style horror play it was so awesome

[@John_b123]

4:20 saying ben drowned instead of link in the context of any other zelda game besides majoras mask wouldn't even make sense. Also form what i do remember ben drowned was represented by a wooden stastue in game not even link

[@H4vnt3d.D0ll]

Yea, he's represented by a statue of link Maybe the post is just saying they recognize BEN more that Link..? I dunno

[@TrainWreckInTheOcean]

I love reading comments like this where people just rant abt their interest lol, also learned a new cool thing from it

[@rosehall3690]

As a former creepy pasta middle school girl I used to repost this all the time and I know it by heart unfortunately. When click started reading it I got horror flashbacks

[@CyberWarezz05]

6:39 my mother is in competition with me too and I honestly never understood that. Like, it took me a while to figure it out, and after I did, I couldn't accept it easily, especially since it hurt. So here are some things that made me realize this: - my mom rarely complimented me, in fact she insulted me more by calling me either fat, lazy, or insinuating that I'm not "good enough". But the thing is, my mom is exactly the person that she calls me: she is unhealthy, doesn't do any physical activity, and loves to complain about anything - she can't stand to look the same: she hated when I bleached my hair blonde, because she is a blonde. She of course complimented me when I dyed my hair reddish brown again. Same happened with hair length: she can't stand to have shorter hair than me, and insults me if I suggest that she should get a new haircut. - she can't stand the fact that I am in a happy and healthy marriage. She always said that my husband isn't good enough for me because he was poor, and now when he has a decent job, she says that I can get someone with even more money than him. My mother and father are in a toxic marriage, but she only sees flaws in other marriages.

[@brittanypanda3322]

I had a friend in college who drank the frilly drinks when we went out. They taste good and he told me it helps to "weed out the fakes and bitches" lol. Idk where he is now but hope he is doing well and found the right person. He was the kind of guy who was very comfortable with himself and didnt gaf what other people thought. Great guy.