The Woke Teachers of TikTok: This is a Serious Problem

Woke middle school teachers on TikTok are becoming a PROBLEM. Let's talk.
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[@BeccaRaptor94]

Why would a child need to know their teacher’s sexuality? They don’t!

[@moosethecat4434]

Why not? It exposes them to new kinds of people which can expand their worldviews.

[@ann0y1n98]

@@moosethecat4434 dude why does their sexuality matter at all?

[@ryanthomas49]

@@moosethecat4434 you're the type of person to think that being open minded means do whatever you want without consequences.

[@moosethecat4434]

@@ryanthomas49 what is the consequences of a child knowing their teachers sexuality? Are teachers just supposed to never talk about themselves ever to their students?

[@IainFrame]

​@@moosethecat4434 4 year olds don't need their world views expanded. They don't even know that 1 + 1 = 2 yet. They need to be taught the curriculum.

[@SwatchMeCrochet]

I had two lesbain teachers at my high school that lived together as a couple. Everyone knew they were. They came to school together, had lunch together and went home together. And NEVER was this a topic for discussion in class. They were very professional and it was none of the students business. The one I had as an actual teacher taught English and Journalism. And she was a good teacher. This woke stuff is crazy. I'm getting to the point where I think teachers need a mental health check and be at least 30 before they get a classroom of their own because these 20 somethings are way too immature.

[@abriannajohnson5576]

As a 24 year old, I agree

[@deborahwilson2857]

Why would anyone believe these crazy people? The ones screaming “WOKE” are the sick, ignorant and hateful people.

[@teddiallen3325]

Why does the topic of gender, genitalia, sexual orientation, etc need to be discussed in a classroom especially beginning at pre-k. WHY!?! This is disturbing, also teachers who don’t know what to be referred to as and keeping secrets from parents. I am so thankful my children are almost all out of school. These videos are so disturbing!!! Teachers are there to teach English, math, science, etc. These people have no business in the class room as teachers. WOW, this is unbelievable to me that this is allowed!

[@teeehee123]

I'm 24 and teach and once when teaching 10 year olds who were a bit more curious (or trying to distract from me teaching) asked if I had a boyfriend. They knew I wasn't married, obviously due to the Miss in my name, but I simply told them it was not appropriate to discuss this. We moved on and they never asked again. Although I am straight and do indeed have a boyfriend, my personal life is not up for classroom discussion, it's unprofessional.

[@watermarkers74]

Sadly the reason they are hiring these people is because they are so desperate for a living being to be in a classroom they will hire just about anybody. No one wants to be teachers so they have to pick from the bottom of the barrel. All the good teachers have jobs.

[@DgardsGaming]

"You can't make a kid LGBT, but you can make a kid confused about being LGBT." now that is a great way to explain it.

[@vintagevibes1974]

The more confused and unstable people are the easier they are to control. Sad but true.

[@tatianasouza2361]

And by becoming confused, they turn into easy preys to predators and pedophiles.

[@ascent8487]

I agree with her. I really can’t believe anyone’s sexual preference nor their gender identity can ever be changed but you can definitely confuse the hell out of people.

[@nedhill1242]

She’s actually wrong. Because I have seen videos of people in their 20s and 30s that were confused when they were kids and because of all the peer pressure at school and from the media from doctors from teachers from every angle they said well maybe they’re right maybe I am transgender but then they got into their 20s or their 30s and realize they were not and now they are transitioning back to their birth sex to their birth gender. I love Blair but she’s wrong about this. Because there are people that were confused and would’ve been fine if it hadn’t been for all the other people around them pushing them to actually decide to be transgendered.

[@Maniacman2030]

@@nedhill1242 All this post sounds like is that you prove EXACTLY what she said. They were confused about something, people kept pushing her towards one thing, which screwed with her until she figured it out by herself. In fact, that sounds EXACTLY like proving Blaire's point.

[@darkestgray0]

A teacher at my high school came out as trans. That's cool and all, I understand informing students if you're in the middle of a physical transition. What the students and parents didn't appreciate was the TMI aspect of it all like updates on, i.e, breast development. Needless to say, many kids were pulled from the class.There is a way to go about it without being narcissistic and creepy.

[@cosmicmuffin322]

That is beyond creepy

[@caelanoldacc]

i’m a bi teacher and i have no idea why my kindergarteners would need to know about my orientation or dating life. i’m there to teach and look after them, not to share personal anecdotes.

[@keashaann]

Thank you!

[@someguy7805]

Exactly. You're teaching the proper way it should be.

[@kindapeachy9877]

Exactly. Children don’t understand the complexity of sexual orientation.

[@serpentines6356]

Exactly. Your personal sex life/orientation belongs in the privacy of your own life, adult friendships, whatever. I saw a video where the teacher was all proud of "coming out", and telling her students she was "gay." I think they were 3rd, or 4th graders. I was horrified! Gadz. These people are sick!

[@AfterbrunchDelight]

Thankfully you're a rational adult unlike these poor examples of teachers on this video.

[@lyss.heiden]

I'm a preschool teacher and I can tell you that I have never had a kid bring up gender or genitals. Their idea of gender goes as far as a boy likes blue and trucks, and a girl likes pink and dresses. If I let my kids identify however they wanted they would identify as Elsa or Sonic the Hedgehog (which my kids have asked me to call them lol). This is stuff that they don't just think about and the fact that teachers will go out of their way to bring this up is insane to me. And there is no reason for those kids to know anything about your orientation or identity. If you need to be validated by a bunch of 3 year olds in order to have value, you need some help. Let those kids just be 3 and pretend to be whatever they want. It's not that deep.

[@vianjelos]

Kids that age think they are dogs and dinosaurs...like can they really be expected to understand the complex nuance of gender identity? Also sexual orientation is a bit gross to talk about with kids..anything more than "I like boys, I like girls, I like both" is more detail than nessesary for them.

[@fated2you]

THANK YOU. Taught preschool for four years. Never came up once.

[@OLDSKOOLRAVER1]

If a young child started using those sort of words, phrases, I would be calling child protection or the Police straight away.

[@FreckleFinance]

I remember my brother pretended he was a dog a lot at preschool age.

[@H.Liddell]

OMG this is almost verbatim what I've said on a couple posts of the same topic. Lol 100% agree 👍🏻

[@amelia.444]

I remember being a little kid and hearing the adults who taught me say they couldn’t mention their policial views simply because it wasn’t needed. Kids aren’t in school to hear about your views and sexual orientations.. the fact that it’s normalized is very gross.

[@nopenotsaying]

yeah we shouldn't learn anything about teachers. We should create enviornments where students can't create a connection with a teacher. Its not as though creating a connection with your teacher helps kids.

[@AlyssaTheePatriot]

That's right, let kids be kids

[@songsthatarecatchy]

As long as it goes for ALL sexualities I'm fine with it not being discussed.

[@530laflare9]

@@nopenotsaying creating a positive relationship with teachers actually does have a positive affect on outcomes in schools but I do 100% that we don’t send kids to school to learn about their teachers and their views lol. That’s honestly so annoying.

[@nopenotsaying]

@@530laflare9 i can agree with political views but in terms of a teachers sexuality, its something that can help other LGBT students relate to their teacher and even for non LGBT students its a nice thing they can learn abt their teacher.

[@michaeldupont0701]

Almost all of these "teachers" seem so mentally unhinged that it amazes me how they even got through the hiring process.

[@andjelabozic2317]

Because they're a protected minority and the regular teachers are quitting because they go too much pressure and parents won't parent, so they end up with disrespectful, immature children that can't follow simple instructions. And it's not children's fault(most of the time), many adults end up failing children or otherwise leave them to fend for themselves

[@FardtilUshid]

They're chosen for the job on purpose

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Ikr? Some real freaking wackadoos

[@missf4681]

Dumbing down of America

[@alwayslearning2190]

Honey they don't even pay teachers. You know jobs who don't pay well are notorious for hiring just anybody.

[@ChelseaMiddlebrook]

The fact that schools are hiring these people is scary… if my child got enrolled in one of their classes I would pull them out immediately. Parents, do better.

[@ksustrick1]

My daughter is now 17, was the victim of a hate crime in her school in December. She opted to leave and get her GED. May as well since covid robbed her of her HS experience anyway. She was tired of the woke BS they were peddling. I backed her play 100%. She now works full time and is taking courses to pass the test.

[@beepbeep9043]

@@ksustrick1 what happened with the hate crime :(

[@ksustrick1]

@@beepbeep9043 She has much lighter skin than i do, walked down the hallway to class, was called racial slurs for being white (she's actually part Native American) then they knocked her to the ground, stole her iPhone & airpods (which luckily we had insurance on her phone which cost $200 for the deductible), because apparently white kids have a target on her back. She can't go back there. It could have been SO MUCH WORSE!,

[@jakexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx]

Why would you blame the parents when they didn’t hire the teacher💀

[@truthhurts2879]

It's not just scary it's absolutely deliberate. The entire education system has been deeply infiltrated by the Marxist communist sympathisers as has entire government, politicians and many other depts. This is no accident and most certainly didn't happen organically. This has been decades in the making and weakens America from within, from the armed forces being weakened using females as men, religious institutions, movies, music, but at its heart is the co~opting of education not to mention its having a drastic effect on new births with so many men transitioning to female. In the next 20 years it will come to fruition, and this agenda is taking place worldwide, just look at new Zealand, Australia, UK, Canada it's no coincidence all the world leaders are using the exact same speak and key words. This is far bigger than anyone can imagine.

[@RealClintFlint]

“The topic of gender and genitals came up!” I’m pretty sure that’s what the non binary being talks about 100% of the time to anyone, not just 4yr olds. Run kids!

[@meanbean6011]

Honestly they rarely care. I cut my hair short when I was a preschool teacher and the kids asked me if I was a boy now. I said no and they kept it moving. Why do they need a long discussion?

[@stefanianoto4372]

The topic of genitals while eating in a cafeteria. Wonderful.

[@sbclaridge]

Not true, at least for those of us nonbinary people who are actual rational thinkers (like me). Problem is, many of us Americans, or human beings in in general (!!!), are irrational. Critical thinking has been flushed down the toilet in America; no matter how much you hear about schools and colleges wanting to improve critical thinking, far too many people continue to react with their emotions. Facts don't care about your feelings.

[@jbird4478]

Teacher: "Did you have a good weekend?" 4 year old: "Well, I was contemplating how in modern society the concept of gender seems increasingly less tied to a person's genitalia." That just happens all the time.

[@ineffablemars]

I'm nonbinary and no. Most of the time I just go about my life as usual. I'm a teacher and I would NEVER talk about these topics with a child.

[@mandisalmon-warr9281]

I am a HS teacher. I am a straight, Christian woman. I don’t believe that my sexual orientation or faith have a place in the classroom. I am there to teach…ELA, mathematics, science and social studies, and in my case, as a special education teacher, life skills (cooking, finances, etc.). I should not use my position as a teacher to attempt to dissuade or indoctrinate ANYONE to believe the way I do or DON’T. Folks need to stick to being a teacher. Love your students for the amazing individuals they are and are becoming. Just love them. Keep sex, sexual orientation, politics, etc. out of the classroom. BTW-two of my all time fav teachers in HS were homosexual. They never “outed” themselves…they just taught. And they were the bomb!

[@m.j.2939]

💯

[@Dee-oj5zm]

While I agree with most of this, I think it's pretty important to teach HS students about sex and specifically safe sex. That being said, of course there is an age-appropriate way to do so (same as with teaching younger children about anatomy and what is/isn't appropriate/okay) and it needs to be strictly adhered to.

[@leatheryfoot6354]

Guhdamn! What kinda HS do you work at? They got you doing everything but scrubbing the toilets.

[@mandisalmon-warr9281]

@@leatheryfoot6354 haha! Ive mopped floors and washed tables…does that count! SPED is a different kind of teaching. But I love it!!

[@joesoldchanneldeprecated5948]

Thank you for the based comment. I'm screenshotting this.

[@conniemccollough9753]

I went to school in the 70's. I can honestly say that we NEVER had this kind of stupidity. Our teachers just taught us...that was it!

[@goawayleavemealone2880]

I love that "consent" is one of the things they're teaching these kids, when doubtless they never got anybody's consent to teach the kids these things.

[@AnyOtherName25]

I’m really hoping it’s the “consent” talk my child gets at school, which is “don’t touch people, keep your hands to yourself” and they recently sent a letter home for parental notification that for the older kids they would explain that the “swimming costume area is private” that’s it, that’s all little children need to hear about consent

[@blackqweenmars]

I mean, consent should be taught to preschoolers. Not like sexual consent, but basic consent like being able to say no to a hug or something. And knowing where is appropriate to touch people and where it’s not.

[@kittymilkyyy]

@@AnyOtherName25 That’s what I saw being taught to a group of kindergarteners, they weren’t told specific things, only told that if they were uncomfortable by someone touching them, to talk to a parent/adult about it… I thought this was a nice things personally, because it didn’t sound sexual and I thought it’s a good thing to remind kids that they are able to feel uncomfortable as well, and learn how to handle that discomfort even if it does only mean talking to an adult about it for the adult to handle the matter

[@chillout1738]

Its like teaching them about stranger danger and not to get into cars with them. They need to be taught more of that if they are in churches as well as its well documented how they are filled with predators and just move them around without any accountability or going to jail. Those poor children didn't have a choice to not consent.

[@ThesmallJEEPette]

I was a preschool teacher for a while and I taught consent in the context of keep your hands to yourself, or if someone doesn’t want to play with you then you can’t make them. Age appropriate consent.

[@Dedee143]

I’m a bisexual woman and a teacher not once has it ever crossed my mind to let my students know my sexual orientation like WTF is wrong with these people ..

[@avaannie3906]

When I was in school, teachers Barely ever talked about their personal lives. I don’t understand these teachers talking about every small detail of their personal lives, it is so baffling! I think Blair is completely right, it’s all Narcissism!

[@avaannie3906]

@@queenpondue101 yea never really realized that the librarians never really talked about themselves at all, lol. Like they were all super sweet but I only knew their names. I think as kids we knew a bit more about the teachers just because we spent more time with them. But again, they Never talked about their sex lives, ever! You’d know if they were married or had some kids but that was about it. And I grew up in Portland Oregon, lol, I can only imagine what the schools are like there now 🙄 I’m just happy my kids are already out of school. I’m sure I’d be homeschooling at this point if they were little. It’s just super sad and ridiculous!

[@brendanh8978]

I didn't know a damn thing about my teachers. The only reason I knew some were married was the Mrs/Ms prefix. The male teachers were a total cipher. There is SUPPOSED to be personal separation between teacher and student, they are an authority figure, not your play buddy.

[@lumpyspacecadet]

They are millennials. Typical millennial thinking everybody wants to know their personal business even when they don't care and/or it's inappropriate to divulge it.

[@dudeorduuude5211]

@@lumpyspacecadet I think they need to be fired. No teacher should be talking about their sexuality nor genitals with students. And not even their private life.

[@laurencubbage5636]

I had teachers in high school who were married to each other and the only reason anybody knew was because they had the same last name. They never talked about it or said anything. We would see them occasionally holding hands after school as they walked to their car but that was it

[@samlynx2016]

A TEACHER locked a student in a closet?? They need to be arrested for child endangerment!!

[@grueslayer]

Both kids obviously had their cellphones on them so they should have called 911 or their parents and say they're being held against their will by the teacher... down comes the hammer of justice on idiot teachers.

[@ilyalycat21]

He opened the door while saying he was locked in lol

[@russiandrago821]

@@ilyalycat21 the door was blocked from the other side

[@sweetcheeks5775]

They have covid as an excuse so of course they can get away with it.

[@shortycakes2007]

@@ilyalycat21 the teacher was holding the door closed.

[@natf11]

I’m a teacher. I promise we aren’t all like this. I’ve also never met a teacher like this (and I live/teach in CA). But this vocal minority is embarrassing.

[@loturzelrestaurant]

Keeping Secrets from Parents isnt objectively bad though and Blaire seems to not know that Parents can just be bad Parents . She seems unaware this little, tiny, GIANT fun-fact. She makes it sound like Names and Pronouns are the same as the word "Sugarcube", but thats b.s. A child obviously should have the Ability to have Secrets form Parents; in fact, it may ENDANGER a child and get it HIT. Hello? Do you have no common sense, dear Blaire? If you wanna pretend theres no parents who hit their Child for daring to think Atheist-Thoughts after being raised Christian, then your objectively wrong.

[@manniefresh3425]

@@loturzelrestaurant what are you talking about. Maybe teens could have some secrets but children absolutely shouldn't, unless its the rare occasion where the parents are abusive and cps should be involved.

[@m82s01l]

Agree these were so cringe worthy. Especially the pledge of allegiance one. Get an American flag lady.

[@gonzalolirasbartab5200]

@@loturzelrestaurant "Keeping Secrets from Parents isnt objectively bad" - Yes, it is.

[@loturzelrestaurant]

@@gonzalolirasbartab5200 No, it is objectively not. How unfamiliar are you with Reality? The Planet you live in? Your World?

[@Suzie_Q1989]

Yes, it’s like they are having a “me” party because they want the attention all on them. You’re right, they’re narcissists

[@JayJay-xr8ds]

You know you're dealing with a narcissist when they need validation from children and go to tiktok for answers.

[@nenmaster5218]

Yeah, but this youtuber here pretends that all gay teachers are like tiktok-teachers, which is objectively wrong. Not to mention she literally uses the word groomer, which plays into the Groomer-Narrative, which is harmful-as-f-ck. Here, let me cite proof, that you can then proof-check: ‚Some More News’ made a video named ‚GOP vs Queer’ and it dives into a lot, including the Groomer-Issue.

[@mst2628]

@@nenmaster5218 at no time did she state or express that she thought/felt that all gay teachers are like this. In fact she even mentions a gay teacher she had in school & does so in a positive light. Grooming is exactly what the behavior being talked/bragged about in these tik toks is. Her stating her personal opinions/thoughts about the people in them etc. Is not anywhere near as harmful as the dialogues they are having with children.... Children who they are not the parents of!!!

[@nenmaster5218]

@@mst2628 Ok, but have you, MsT, or have you not finished the 3 GOP-Videos of "Some More News", covering everything from Row v Wade to Florida?

[@milesmoraleswife323]

Yeah, not to mention, creepy too

[@archades115]

I remember back in my day when teachers did not discuss personal views, ideas, beliefs. It was considered highly inappropriate, and we were encouraged to come to our own conclusions through experience.

[@brianchecketts9792]

Exactly! We need to regain some lost principles.

[@caeligood6607]

I mean, being a teacher 100 years ago was a different animal. Women could get fired if they got married!!! or had babies!!! I mean.. that was a problem. But as with that.. your personal life is your personal life and it is really what you are doing in the classroom or extracurricular activities where students might see you that might be a problem. BUT even if your teacher was gay/married.. ok .. fine.. but would you be ok if the BDSM community said "ok, well we want to NORMALIZE Bdsm..." ... why? I know that may seem to be a leap.. but just putting things into perspective...

[@archades115]

@@caeligood6607 The question I find myself pondering is whether women have any business teaching boys at all.

[@NeloBladeOfRanni]

@@caeligood6607 are you really comparing being LGBT to being into kink lmfao

[@hannass4797]

@@caeligood6607 Wait what? What does bdsm have to do with being married or having a baby?

[@jadefire2817]

I mean, when I was a child, I thought my teachers *lived* at the school. I didn't really know they even had "lives" outside of that. I certainly didn't know or *CARE* what sexuality they were. This whole idea of doing these things and saying these things to literal children is just so bizarre to me.

[@TEM14411]

Exactly. I remember being shocked my teacher shopped....I just saw them as a teacher....why do children need to know about their personal life?

[@somestranger1101]

I'll never forget we had a gay teacher and he walked in to the locker room. One dude said, do you like what you see? He only responded with child I like men not boys. Funniest teacher though

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

Based and snarkpilled

[@uglymelon6721]

@@ThinWhiteAxe who’s that

[@stormxx89]

Never had any issues like this going on when I was in school. Like people's sexual orientation wasn't a thing that was discussed by teachers to their students when I was in school. I'm 34 now. Why do young kids need to know about any of this stuff? It's not necessary.

[@quarteralien]

These people sound incredibly needy, and they gain their fulfillment talking about themselves to a captive audience in their classrooms.

[@whitelasagna6786]

I see what you did there.

[@ohwellwhateverr]

They should be in jail.

[@Tom______________]

The overall impression I get watching these is of a group of very highly strung people who enjoy telling other people - in a patronising manner - how others should think, feel & live by a certain set of rules that they have invented. Truly bizarre. Quite close to a religious extremism in some way.

[@gabenorman747]

Nice leftist strawman of religion.

[@nikicarrie4071]

🙌🏽 yes

[@nancynichols8659]

yes. they punish people then if they dont behave how they want like a cult

[@user-nw8tg1pg9y]

I was a preschool teacher. My name was Miss Rachel. (My sister taught at the same place and we were both not married yet, hence the first names.) 99% of the time I was called Yashel because the kids were 3. I didn’t care, I knew they were trying their best.

[@jules2291]

Atleast they tried ... when I was a kid there was this teacher people called 'Santa claus' becuase her name was hard to pronounce and she was plump and dressed in red .

[@lisasmarchioli778]

I'm a preschool teacher too in the UK my dad is Italian so my last name is an Italian surname. Honestly I just accept anything as long as they are able to confidently call for me. I also get some hilarious variations of my name which makes me chuckle 🤣

[@jcrawford5674]

Meanwhile national literacy is at an all time low. Why aren't these teachers putting their energy in giving tools for success instead of trying to groom these innocent kids :( let kids be kids. Swear things would have been much better for ME if adults didn't groom me. And the fact our public schools are allowing it is disgusting.

[@aleksandramironova7896]

I'm 22 years old math teacher and I'm really shocked that they don't discuss something more important. Because I'm from Eastern Europe and as a European we often think that Americans are dumb and crazy- that's a popular opinion and now i understand that this is because instead of teaching kids basic math, geography and history for example, they teach them political agenda. By the way love your videos ❤

[@Brook_55]

I'm a student, yeah. You're not too far off. There are a ton of good teachers but they're drowned out by bad teachers. The change for me started around high school where teachers kinda strayed from their topics and started being more inclusive and more about agendas. Now I'm stuck having to play detective with my baby brother's teachers and school. I'd rather listen to my 8th grade math teacher talk about taxes instead of another agenda tho.

[@snakesocks]

The story of the new teacher who's shocked & impressed by the pre-school class is the most revealing to me. Blaire cut it off but she literally squeals with glee at the end. It has nothing to do with 'education' & everything to do with creating a little club where all these weirdos are suddenly the cool people and at the top.

[@bedrockgemsonfire4127]

Oh my god you hit the nail on the head

[@cinnamon8884]

that story obviously was made up.

[@May-Hope]

@@cinnamon8884 or that other teacher walking in was just plain shocked and appalled but that individual made it look cool and like it was a positive reaction

[@goodcompany6494]

I was thinking much the same thing. That, and that many of them talk like children or young teens and seem to have serious arrested development. These children are being cheated out of an education, which is the worst part of this.

[@86oldbehave]

She got fired for this video! So that’s why I always say, keep making your videos and posting them so we know who to fire!

[@jenniboo9441]

The confidence, pride, and finality the second lady spoke with when bragging about how she keeps secrets from the parents of her students is unbelievably unsettling. And the trans teacher. Note she said "but *I* wanted to talk about it". Then she went and planned and threw am entire event for herself, where she was the center of attention. This isn't about the kids. It's about the narcissistic adults and their need for attention. By being a teacher, they have a captive audience who's forced to sit there and listen to them.

[@a.h.6812]

I will be a future teacher and if a kid tells me to please not to tell xy to his parents because otherwise they would beat him up or kick him out then I would not immediately tell the parents.

[@violentwildling8924]

The second lady was actually the least concerning to me. I've had friends whose parents beat the crap out of them when they found out they were going by the pronouns that made them comfortable at school.

[@NekoArts]

@@a.h.6812 I understand where you are coming from and I agree to a point. Personally, I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand, yes, I agree that a student should be able to talk to their teacher about certain issues without having to worry about it being reported home to their parents. On the other hand, I have a big issue with how these particular teachers are presenting the issue. I agree with Blair that this comes off as at least somewhat predatory and that is a big issue. I had a teacher in elementary school who I could talk to about almost anything and be confident that she wouldn't go to my parents or talk to anyone else about what I told her. I am insanely grateful to her for being that outlet for me during those years. That's a good teacher. But this is not what I'm seeing in the teachers in this video. Their "this is our little secret"-thing is very disturbing to me on so many levels. I hope what I'm trying to say makes sense.

[@sugarcanecanela]

@@a.h.6812 yall realize there are other resources for after the fact (not perfect, but there regardless) if a child is telling you they are afraid of getting beat by parents, then you report it -_- you get the principal involved, counselors, social workers. Not play secret superman to get a kid to like you. If you're concerned, be concerned all the way, not just up to a certain point

[@a.h.6812]

@@NekoArts yes that makes sense, I agree with you on your points.

[@EdSelkowPersonal]

Parents who subject their children to these monsters will regret it.

[@godspeed6991]

I had gay teachers that never fully confirmed it. I guess they felt that teaching their students math, or English, were their job requirements, whereas discussing personal ideologies were not...🤷

[@MeowieWowie93]

Why does a teacher need to come out to their students ? That's so weird. Having a Q&A is narcissistic af.

[@jasonmillstalks]

If they locked my kid in a closet for not wearing a mask, bad things happen everyday

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

I'm not a violent person, but... if it were my kid... things would be going down...

[@SorenArouet]

Taught for 10 years, my identity and what I'm attracted to were never discussed in my classroom. We were too busy learning math.

[@marcsegal5123]

Hi Blair. I have been a middle and high school teacher for the last 40 years. I have taught in California, Idaho, Oregon and now Las Vegas, Nevada! Here are some things that I really don't understand about these so called teachers. In my contracts, all of them, I am warned not to communicate with students on social media. Ever. It is inappropriate. Another thing I never do is discuss religion or politics. If they ask what my religion or political opinions are, I tell them, for the benefit of the class, I prefer to keep that private. Do you know why? Because children are IMPRESSIONABLE. Meaning, if they like you, or if they don't have supportive parents, you just mentioning something different to them, could cause them to change their views. I don't need kids going home to their Mormon or Catholic parents and saying, "My English teacher told me that God and Jesus were Jewish and he's Jewish so I want to be Jewish. I would be so reprimanded. As far as sexuality, I don't specifically talk about it, but I have mentioned my wife and children when telling them stories about my life that SPECIFICALLY SUPPORT MY LESSON PLANS. If I was a gay man, mentioning my husband would be okay as long as why I have a husband does not become the lesson. (It would be like me mentioning that I have been married twice and going into a long intensive as to what went wrong with my marriages. That is none of their business and has no place in an English classroom. I could go on about this for days, so I will end this with one final thought. Teachers, do your jobs which is to teach the subject(s) you are licensed to teach and follow the curriculum you are being paid to follow. If you can't do this, find a different profession because you can and will be appropriately "asked to resign" or be fired. If you break the contract, the union can't even help you. I enjoy your videos and appreciate your conservative outlook on life. You are what a trans woman should be, until you mentioned it, I thought you were a biological woman. Bravo.

[@Hippieskippie]

Everyone of those teachers need to be fired. I'm so happy I'm moved to a small town where this crap is not acceptable.

[@Hippieskippie]

@Robbie Rutland Damn right they all do!

[@HandcraftedintheFoothills]

You would be surprised at what is happening in small town USA schools and libraries.

[@justinmudford4629]

Fired isn’t enough they should be charged what these teachers are doing is criminal

[@Jacoe413]

None of these people should be alone with kids. The indoctrinating power they have is terrifying.

[@shorty3142]

And the fact they all apparently want to be teachers and have these positions and are able to fill these young kids up with their ideologies

[@crystalwaters1111]

I love how the kid that was locked in a room pulled out his phone camera and started taping everything. He was able to stand up for himself and declare his rights while also being super polite during this whole debacle. It gives me hope for the youth 🙏

[@BlueDauntless]

He also should have been on the phone with 911

[@LocoRodeoBozo]

Seriously, I wish I had a smartphone when I was in 4th grade back in 2001. Abusive teachers can haunt you for life

[@hopelesspandora4195]

I'm glad that his reaction to this situation is what stood out to you, because his reaction didn't change his reality. these situations where kids act properly and still live negative consequences is what breaks their hope. we should be focusing on correcting the problem.. not on how well our children are capable of handling those problems.

[@DGolden247]

@@hopelesspandora4195 I disagree. Of course we, the adults, should focus on correcting the problem, that’s obvious. But teaching children how to have the correct mindset when faced with hardships is important as well. If you choose to give up hope when the situation doesn’t change for the better, then you’re making yourself incapable of changing the situation in the future. A child should be taught to never give up and to look for ways to help make the situation better. Teaching a child to be strong and to self-motivate during harsh times is important, it’s what they’ll need as they grow into adults. Otherwise the world will easily break them without even trying to.

[@hopelesspandora4195]

You went off into your opinion (which I agree with btw) but my comment wasn't based on what's going on in your head. This kid was locked into a room. are you saying that the teacher was right in locking him in like that? to teach him "the right mindset"? because if that's what you're saying, you're twisted, and wrong. there's teaching a kid to be strong, and there's locking him into a room. nuances

[@Goldenretrieverlife3484]

I am so glad I don’t go to school in this day and age. If my teachers locked me in a room I would probably have a meltdown those kids handled it very well and thank god they filmed the @buse in case the mothers decide to take it to court.

[@Unregistered.HyperCam.2]

Rather ironic that multiple of these people mentioned talking to kids about "consent," then go on to be manipulative toward children. Also ironic that these people that talk about "consent" start kicking and screaming when people refuse to consent to accept their opinions and world views as gospel, because they can actually think for themselves, rather than regurgitate whatever they hear like-minded(hive-minded, honestly) people say on Tiktok and the like.

[@DarknessIsThePath]

Not to mention that many schools never even informed the parents.

[@jendagesse4524]

This school system is fucking sick and disgusting what they are teaching little kids I feel sorry for them

[@molliemaxon3800]

These teachers are fully overstepping. Some of them are definitely predatory. They are there to teach these kids, not use them to validate their own gender issues.

[@repvoid7680]

Society is insufferable, this goes for every social group.

[@dangerotterisrea]

Humanity is doomed!

[@01What10]

Agreed. I'm sick of everyone.

[@metalhead1040]

How are some of these teachers not in jail, especially the ones who locked the kids in the closet?

[@thumbwitch4607]

Breaking boundaries reduces safeguarding, which is definitely preparing the ground for further grooming so I don't think you're going too far by thinking "predatory", because the potential is there. Teaching kids to keep secrets from their parents is absolutely breaking boundaries and against safeguarding. It's not a good thing.

[@BryanAJParry]

As a teacher and father to a three year old girl, yeah, what you said. This stuff is sick and dangerous.

[@alannajones330]

It depends if you have abusive parents the kind that end up having cps called on them. Than I think secrets are okay. I personally knew someone that was gay that there dad was practically beating the shit out of them because of it. It required at teacher calling cps multiple times and getting in contact with family on the other side of the country.

[@BOOSETO]

@@alannajones330 that's not a child being told to keep a secret from their parents, that's a child reaching out for help. Not even close to the same thing.

[@shannajoy1821]

The whole medical community supports keeping vaccines from your parents if you want one. I knew the medical community and their jabs were toxic when they started publishing this grooming material

[@doro666]

As a teacher all I can say is that listening to these people makes my skin crawl... Yikes...

[@loturzelrestaurant]

She makes it sound like Names and Pronouns are the same as the word "Sugarcube", but thats b.s. A child obviously should have the Ability to have Secrets form Parents; in fact, it may ENDANGER a child and get it HIT. Hello? Do you have no common sense, dear Blaire? If you wanna pretend theres no parents who hit their Child for daring to think Atheist-Thoughts after being raised Christian, then your objectively wrong. ???

[@nickwest8824]

The two videos of the kid locked in a classroom were both filmed by the same kid

[@dandy-dani]

As someone who is planning on becoming a mother in the future this is mortifying, I'm not sure what I can exactly do to prevent these type of people from conversing with my child or harming their education or warping them to their ideology but I know for sure that I will want to meet each teacher.

[@moreruffles89]

Omg right! I’d want to evaluate the teacher teaching my child. They should focus more on bullying than this.

[@hant679]

Homeschool. It is what I do. No way am I taking a risk like that with my kids! Plus, I love homeschooling. It is a lot of work but very rewarding and amazing at the same time.

[@dandy-dani]

@@hant679 yeah but what are the qualifications? How does it work exactly like paperwork wise for example will they be able to graduate officially speaking? I'd also hate to solely depend on homeschooling I'd like for them to feel included with kids their age that's very vitle especially for younger kids. What my mom did for me was sent me to school with certain rules for the school so I'd leave at 2pm only to go home for homeschooling from a trained teacher from the state (not everyday ofc)

[@hant679]

@@dandy-dani to answer your specific concerns: 1. Paperwork and qualifications vary greatly depending on the state. I have homeschooled in 3 states. In one, I had to notify the state board of education and include the names and ages of the children I was homeschooling; in another, I literally had to do nothing; and in my current state I am required to submit my curriculum and grades. 2. Graduating is usually pretty easy, again depends on the state. My parents homeschooled 3 kids in 2 states I graduated in Wisconsin - my parents declared me graduated and gave me a transcript to send to colleges. It was similar in Washington State for the other two. When my son graduates, the umbrella school gives us his transcript and diploma. 3. As for socialization and friends, there are tons of options. Co-ops, tutorials, meet ups, field trips, service opportunities, clubs, sports, theater. I live in a rural area and we could seriously do things with other families every single day of the week, if we wanted. We are mostly introverts so we choose to be more selective but I know families who do things all week long. No shortage of opportunities!

[@dandy-dani]

@@hant679 ooh thank you! I'll surely look into it for my soon to be family :)

[@Julia-lj3wb]

Reason number 10000000 why my girls will not be goin to public school. I’ll teach them about all that at an appropriate age.

[@conservativechristian9871]

I had a gay teacher as well but there wasn't any announcing or him talking about his sexual preference. We got the vibe but a teacher should not share anything about their personal life, it's extremely inappropriate

[@corystajduhar]

I'm not sure what you mean by "a teacher should not share anything about their personal life." Every teacher I ever had talked about their spouse and children. They might say "my wife was driving on the freeway last night and..." They also tell stories. Now that gay marriage is legal, are you saying only heterosexual people can talk about their wife or husband? If a male teacher said "my husband" or a female teacher said "my wife" then it would be clear that they are homosexual. Are you saying they should not talk about their personal life? Again, every teacher I ever had from kindergarten through college talked about their wife or husband. Now that gay marriage is legal, a man saying "my husband" or a woman saying "my wife" would make it 100% clear what their sexual preference is. Teachers have ALWAYS talked about their family.

[@conservativechristian9871]

@@corystajduhar none of my teachers did, they taught the subject they were hired to teach and didn't talk about their personal lives. The only way we knew a teacher was married is if it was a female and she was a Mrs. I'm guessing you are a millennial? I am Gen X. Not sure if that's the difference, just guessing. The world is going down the toilet and the things that have transpired have been in the making for decades and I honestly can't stomach what this world has become. What people do in their bedroom is their private business and should remain that way. I don't need to know what way you swing to appreciate you as one of God's children and a unique individual

[@ginasalinas300]

I don't know why everyone thinks that the whole world needs to know who they are sexually attracted to. Sexuality does not need to be discussed with young children and it's not the place of teachers to inform older children without parental permission

[@RoadsToNowhere7997]

I'm white, I've been poor all my life, I'm currently homeless, where's my "White privilege"?

[@sevenproxies4255]

That moment you realize that Blaire would be a great mom.

[@norrinRadd2149]

Hell yes she is a true patriot with great values.

[@ThinWhiteAxe]

Agreed

[@86oldbehave]

I’ve always thought she’d be a phenomenal mother!

[@kristinazubic9669]

Before she moved, she mentioned in a video that one of the reasons they were moving was because they wanted to live in a better place to raise kids. #belikeblaire

[@cinnamon8884]

dad

[@spidrscared84]

Growing up my teachers never shared what their orientation is. If I had kids today I would home school them.

[@jasminerussell9732]

If I seen a teacher doing this shit my kids would be out of that school or the teacher would be…..this has No places in school this is definitely growing

[@via-anghelmagahum2586]

Why do those teachers need validation from children?

[@jamielshields9680]

This is about the preschool teacher. As a former preschool teacher and now a private childcare provider licensed through the state......she says "it's my first year with my own preschool class I teach".........needs to be her last

[@encryptlakegames5328]

Lmao i had a teacher that was gay. He wouldnt get offended by us calling each other it or worse. But you also would have never known he was gay. Because his personal lif was that, personal. During a school fair him and his husband ran the cookout, fucking greatest pulled pork i ever had. (That my mother didnt make.)

[@MsPickles333]

As a child I didn’t know anything about my teachers personal life!. None of us cared. WtF. This is beyond annoying

[@blackqweenmars]

12:20 looking kids in a room because of masks is crazy at my school. They were just give you a mask if you didn’t have one. And when I volunteered at a preschool program, we were just put masks on the kids when they took them off.😂

[@umwha]

Unpopular opinion: nonbinary isn’t even a real thing

[@ookipuki]

@Marianne please do not say a gender identity has anything to do with being a monster who is attra_cted to children As a straight cis woman, it was hard to accept that my boyfriend is actually nonbinary. We've been in a relationship for over 8 years. Happily . They are not abd could never be a monster . Hell... they aren't even pan or bi. And they give me excellent cunnalingus. A great love and sex life as beautiful adults. Pls don't say dumb things. 😅 you don't have to accept or like what people are, bit respect them! (Unless they are actually HURTING innocent ppl!) Ps I despise these " teachers " 🤮

[@Taylor_mamaof2]

@Marianne yup. This way everybody can be apart of the lgbt cult without changing their sexuality. Easier to get children involved. EVERYONE is gender fluid in some way or another, including straight people.

[@Coastiestevie]

Unlawful restraint is the charge for keeping someone from leaving, maybe even kidnapping

[@lovepeaceempathy6698]

Kids in pre school need to find out who they are and teachers are supposed to help them do so. Kids are clearly no instrument for teachers to find out about who the teachers are. That seems abuse to me.

[@no_ononono3074]

AND PLEASE IMAGINE IF A CIS MAN WERE TO BRINGING UP ANY OF THESE THINGS IN A CLASSROOM?! people would be pissed

[@ryanthomas49]

To be fair, a lot of these people are cis.

[@yomuno2511]

The only time I recall a debate about pronouns was an English teacher that the class insisted their female pet cat or dog's pronoun was she/her whilst the teacher insisted it/its. Not that much excitement years ago.

[@vidyaparthasarathy9435]

I really don’t know where we went from teachers teaching the subject matter to discussing your sexuality. I was an English teacher in high school and my kids never asked anything about a teachers sexual preferences are. Why? Why are these people allowed to teach?

[@tstarr8314]

I think the closest we got about talking about teacher's relationships in high school was when 2 teachers got married, and the only reason that became a topic of conversation was because the female teacher went from Miss soandso to Mrs whatever. Kids literally don't care about their teachers private lives.

[@HereForTheShips]

This video convinced me that if I ever have a kid, I'm homeschooling 😅 I don't think it's healthy to talk to 4 and 5 year olds about sexual orientations and sex and body parts etc I think that's a parent's job. Still in my country it's not like this, but if United States is being like this, it's only a matter of time it spreads. I think this can cause problems in the future for these kids. It might confuse them unnecessarily.

[@darylesells19]

This doesn’t happen in every school in the US. Blaire is finding videos of a select few extremists that make their sexualities and gender their whole personalities. I’ve got young family members in school now learning just fine, same as we all did, their teachers are there to teach and keep their personal lives separate from their work lives. The closest I ever got to knowing things about my teacher’s lives outside of school would be when they’d joke about their kids during down time in class and we’d be allowed to cut up some before lunch block. There’s a line between professionalism and oversharing and I’ve yet to have a teacher that crossed it.

[@combatduckie]

techers can do it in my opinion, but in a rather "superficial" way, touching the subject on a surface level, and only if children explicitly ask about the topice, such as sayinbg that there s women who love women and men who love men, and women who love men, but NOT to go into the physical details about it, and trans is much to "complex" for children to understand and should be reserved for puberty age or something....It s GROSSto me "teaching" this topic in DETAIL to some 4 year old, it s actually borderline ped. to me if a teacher does this.

[@dove1965]

That is insubordination, and she just copped to it on social media … grounds for termination.

[@robinfrenchbowman8835]

I just don’t understand why these teachers feel the need to tell their students about their sexuality. I mean they are supposed to be there to teach them not to tell them about what they do in their bedroom and private lives. It’s actually sickening to think about. In my opinion whatever you are you don’t need to tell their students about what they do in the bedroom

[@richardconrad5438]

They do it seeking validation that they do not get from other adults.

[@taraelizabethdensley9475]

They don't even look like teachers, just messed up

[@lysirishfleur3030]

Why is it when you don't know something, or don't feel comfortable with it. They call u TRANSPHOBIC

[@Kittykumbata]

I think the “person” with the awful pink eye makeup was talking about the Spanish language due to it having rules regarding feminine and masculine words but honestly people who complain about it probably don’t even know anything about the Spanish language

[@jmwasp]

As a teacher of 14 years, this pisses me off so bad

[@SnickSnack_123]

It’s against the law for an American school to not have a flag in every classroom

[@s.c.7362]

What law, haha?! 😂

[@SnickSnack_123]

My old art teacher said there were specific rules put in place for the American flag in each classroom. It couldn’t be dropped on the ground/touch the ground, it can’t be aimed downward, and it needs to be placed at a corner as if it could see pretty much all of the classroom.

[@roxannerobinson5729]

as a trans woman and moderate dem these people really piss me off. Now I understand why states like florida are passing laws. They are there to teach them the basics to get through life not their own political or gender ideology.

[@hdunaway110]

I’m a straight conservative and I have friends that are trans, gay, and dems and this radical bs had given us more common ground that ever. I don’t see how it’s gotten to this point when there are so many irrational people on both sides.

[@dougfisher2060]

*as a trans woman and moderate dem* What TF are you pissed of about? That isn't very dem nor trans of you.

[@dougfisher2060]

@@hdunaway110 Dump 'em.

[@hdunaway110]

@@dougfisher2060 what?

[@hdunaway110]

@@dougfisher2060 I’m assuming you mean dump my friends because we are different and have different political views? I’ve never considered agreeing with someone to be a requirement for friendship. We treat each other with respect. Like adults.

[@Pupkiwi]

If I found out my childs teacher was making gender identity and coming out videos to their class on social media I would sue the school. Wtf?

[@EEVOL]

It's creepy that these people are trying to get validation from minors. The alleged conversations with their students they are describing is bordering grooming behavior.

[@alyssericcio8626]

Ohhhhh wow this made me so angry! I have a preschooler and a 1st grader… and I would be furious if this was the way they were being taught! They 100% have no idea what any of that means and to be subjected to at such a young age is horrifying!

[@jamiesteaparty]

The teacher keeping secrets from parents of the children in her care is displaying very concerning behaviour. It's a safeguarding nightmare. Even if she is just doing this to be compassionate (and she likely is just doing it because that's what she thinks is best) it is still very dangerous. Teaching children and teens to keep secrets with an adult from loved ones opens them up to accepting grooming from other adults who might have bad intentions.

[@HahahaThatsTrue]

Its not “keeping secrets” it i was a transgender student i would value the respect my teacher has of my identity. Sometimes coming out means life or death, or being homeless.

[@erviatangerine5108]

The only thing kids should know about genitals in age of 4, is their correct names and that nobody suppose to touch it, unless it's a parent helping kid to bath or medical professional. That's it. That's all they supposed to know. Leave everything else to puberty

[@bradevans5468]

Students found out our drama teacher was gay and started spreading shit about him and calling him nasty shit to each other to the point he quit his job.. as a gay student that didn't give me much hope

[@mer3556]

A teacher's only job is to teach the state required curriculum. Not one's personal views on anything. Especially not sexuality. They aren't personal counselors, they are CHILDREN. In some cases, it's unconstitutional as well. Don't believe me? Try me. There IS a thing called freedom of religion and for many, this right DOES apply as it's against many religions to participate in anything to do with LGTBQ. What a grown adult does is their personal business. But its not their right to impose or force it on others, especially children that aren't theirs.

[@marianemashkalo4182]

The topic of genitals came up... how?

[@MythicalHippie]

My whole life I was always uncomfortable with “Pledging my allegiance” but it wasn’t because “I hate the American flag” its because I didn’t feel comfortable pledging my allegiance to anything especially under god, being agnostic and questioning religion from a very young age. And as a straight cis person I definitely wouldn’t be comfortable doing so to a gay flag. These people forget not everyone is on the LGBT spectrum…

[@86oldbehave]

I know I’m seriously out of the loop but can you please tell me what cis means?

[@kyraezikeuzor]

@@86oldbehave it literally doesn’t make sense but it’s a nontrans person

[@86oldbehave]

@@kyraezikeuzor oh okay and thank you 😊

[@smobworld]

As a teacher myself, literally all I care about at the end of the day is if my students are actually learning (and if they aren't what can I change about my teaching to fix that) and if they are feeling okay physically and mentally. That's it, all I care about is the kids and doing my job for them not me and my personal life. Edit: have also been in a position with a student who did came out as trans to me but asked if I would not tell other teachers or their parents. It's not a thing of just keeping a secret, it's for the child's wellbeing. I can't imagine how traumatic it would be for the child if I told the parents and they weren't accepting of it. I just don't think it's my place to tell them, it's the student's choice. I did ask them for their preferred pronouns/name for class and they told me what was on the school register to avoid looks and rumours from other students which is also very fair. It's a tough position to be in bc I want to help them as much as possible but I also can't get too involved and overstep boundaries

[@ghxstleader485]

I think you should tell the parents. They have a right to know. For the kid's sake they should know even if it hurts the kid's feelings or trust in the short term.

[@BlkMagik]

@GHXSTLEADER @GHXSTLEADER I disagree only because we don’t really know how the parents will react and how that will subsequently impact the child. They could be abused, disowned, put out… anything can happen, and I don’t feel it’s worth the risk. For eight years, I’ve worked for two nonprofit agencies specializing in homelessness and you’d be surprised how many kids are homeless due to coming out as gay or trans to intolerant parents.

[@ghxstleader485]

@@BlkMagik The truth needs to be known whatever the consequences. That's just assuming the worst and in order for the parents to protect their child they need to know about this. Someone might be grooming them to be trans and then ruin their life because trans kids don't exist.

[@smobworld]

@@ghxstleader485 you're also assuming the worst with what you've just said. I should also point out that I work with older kids. These aren't 7 year olds that don't have any idea what they're even talking about. They're old enough to be aware of identity and understand their feelings a bit more so if one of them says "please don't tell my parents" I think they're absolutely old enough to know what they want and it should be respected. If it comes to a point where the child's safety becomes an apparent issue then yes contact the parents but still does not mean I'm within my rights to out their kid. Just let them know something is going on with their child and encourage them to speak to them so they might open up.

[@StarWarsomania]

It's not your place as a teacher to NOT tell the parents. I can't imagine why you think it would be.

[@blackqweenmars]

I don’t really consider keeping a secret though. Like there’s a teacher in to see everything that a child says. Like if somebody’s Child’s favorite color is pink and they don’t report home then is it a problem?

[@Mia-kj3ek]

Seeing them makes me questioning n scared at the same time like how r they even hired in the first place

[@kteam4u]

I swear if f i didn’t see this stuff on your channel and Marcus’ channel, I just wouldn’t believe it. Im Soooo grateful and thankful i don’t have any young kids in school. I had enough issues to contend with throughout my child’s educational journey but dealing with that stuff pales in comparison to this maniacal malevolent behavior from today’s so called “teachers.” Seeing how messed up this world was becoming back in the 90’s, I adamantly decided, I would stop at 1 and I was done. And I meant it. 30+ yrs later after seeing stuff like this, I’m so happy i made that decision. I really pity younger parents having to drop their kids off at any school because you really just don’t know who you’re allowing to have complete access to your child’s mind and heart for 6+ hrs a day, 5 days a week for at least 12-13 years. I mean ultimately your child will be spending more time at school than with you. I can definitely see why many parents are home schooling their children. It really is the way to guarantee these awful people don’t get to camp out in your child’s mind and curate your child’s identity

[@brittanykay1079]

Yea I would never hire that girl who only talked about herself when she’s starting a job working with kids

[@mariecherrytree]

Not a single student needs to know my sexual preferences. That creeps me out like crazy.

[@Radmountainbiking59]

Agreed. At least until that student turns 18. In Iceland.......15.

[@gabrielle-d1b]

@@Radmountainbiking59 nah, leave that at home. My sexual preference shouldn't be a focus for any student. That's gross

[@mariksen]

Depends on what sexual preferences you have... if you are lesbian/bi/trans, it's all right, but kinks and fetishes are NOT

[@youremybiggestfan]

I used to call my female teachers dykes but would get mad if they called themselves dykes. Its offensive as fuck

[@zeenuf00]

@@mariksen no. Leave it all out and stop being creepy.

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

The teacher saying she is "out as bi as a teacher" really annoys me. As a bi woman, nobody at my job knows my orientation purely because it doesn't come up because I'm there to... do a job.

[@pollyc.1957]

Yeah, I mean when I'm talking to a female coworker, and they're trying to get home, and they tell me that their wife is waiting for them, it doesn't derail my day. It's nobody's business. I don't need to know if you like men or only men or don't like them or anyone else at all.

[@Queenofthatank]

Only time my sexuality came up at a job was when I was called a lesbian because i wasn't flirting back with a guy at my register n i said maybe you just ain't that attractive maybe i have a boyfriend or maybe I'm tryna do my job take your pick at whichever won't bruise your ego my coworkers were dying laughing until he said I'll slap you i took off my vest n started walking out n said I'ma smoke a stoge n give him 5mins to rethink the fact that he thinks I'm scared of him idk what they told him but i never saw him again.

[@johnwolf2829]

You are all talking about dignity, but to a political activist dignity is a handicap and they despise the concept. I have heard that actors and politicians operate in a similar way.

[@natalyavalasquez9121]

When you clock in youre there to work when you clock out you can act however the hell you want I truly don’t understand why these clowns really gotta make shit complicated

[@CyberianFaux]

I have always struggled to understand people like that. I never put my orientation in people's faces as that is just a small part of who I am. I am confident in myself enough to not need validation of my own preferences. If someone finds out my orientation, fantastic. If someone doesn't find out, who cares? Imagine if straight people were constantly reminding you they were NOT gay or NOT bi due to their own personal lack of self worth outside of it. Sure, I may find a reason to say it to someone under the right circumstances but I mostly just enjoy living my life.

[@dramallamarama5300]

I accidentally outed my mother to my school, where she taught -because in my mind it was like whatever- ,apparently to everyone else it was the most amazing revelation to behold and they constantly asked her about it in the following weeks. Her being the professional lady she is, just said ‘yes, can we get back to the lesson now? Great!’, she didn’t let it become a topic of conversation and stayed within her bounds as an educator. Teachers in the UK aren’t even allowed to discuss their political views with students because it’s seen as unprofessional and it isn’t their place to be influencing kids like that. They can mediate discussions between students but ultimately they are an impartial 3rd party (and this is high school level).

[@hail8163]

as they should be. i understand teachers are human but it’s gone too far

[@PatricenotPatrick]

I agree blaire. I had a gay teacher and he didn’t “come out” but we knew. He didn’t make it this big issue for his social media. He taught math. You know, cuz it’s his job….

[@that1chicbecca8]

Same. I had a PE teacher that was (well, she still is) a lesbian. My son had her as a PE teacher 24 yrs later. She was always super nice to everyone, and just wanted to make sure that the kids got to run around, burn some energy & have fun in gym class. She was always completely professional & awesomely could recall her past students even decades later. She cared about kids & their well-being, but didn’t try to talk to any of her students about her personal life. None of my teachers- gay or straight- ever talked about their personal lives to their students. They all had a strong degree of professionalism that seems to not exist now.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

@@that1chicbecca8 you know what.. I had a Lez PE coach in elementary and it didn’t hit me til I was mid 20’s and then I realized why she hated me. I never understood why she went by Miss Duval when I THOUGHT it was a man smh. So I’d say miss duval but also sir naturally as a Texan. No wonder I was always in trouble. I honestly had no idea until I was going through old year books. I’m so sorry miss duval I ain’t mean it 😭😭😭😭😭

[@that1chicbecca8]

@@PatricenotPatrick omg. Texas here too. My PE teacher was elementary too 😂😂 & dammit I didn’t know she was a lesbian until my son had her & she told me she was retiring and that her gf had went back to her ex husband. Turned out her gf was also a teacher 😂 Like no one talked about their personal lives at all!!!

[@megangwilliam5343]

Oh gosh, that reminds me of something my team did to our coach that I found really invasive and gross. I was on the colorguard team (we perform with the marching band during halftime at football games, we have flags, rifles, and sabres etc) and our coach was gay, it was pretty clear as we’d also noticed his partner at our competitions, and because the stereotype of men in color guard is that they are very flamboyant and almost certainly gay, but he never brought it up so it didn’t seem like something really important, but a few girls on my team went out of their way to find his personal Facebook (he has two, one for professional purposes and one for personal stuff) and stalked his photos to find his boyfriend and then constantly called him out about it asking for details. Why? I don’t know, I had a falling out with some girls the next year and quit,

[@9999plato]

How it should be. Nobody cares what you do in your home. Be a great educator and produce students ready to take on the challenges of adulthood.

[@setharies8877]

Now imagine if it was a straight male, talking to kids about their genitals and sexual preferences. He would be thought of as a sexual predator. Being female/trans/gay/non-binary doesn't make it any less creepy... Unless you are in a high school sex-ed class, literally none of this stuff should be talked about with students.

[@ookipuki]

THATS WHAT IM SAYIN!

[@Buzzkilljoy1248]

You're exactly right. Literally any other time, these people would've been reported, investigated, likely fired, and probably put on a watchlist. The only reason they're being so bold and brazen about this is because the patients are running the asylum.

[@Roxxelana]

100%!!!

[@sweetaudrina_]

Exactly

[@allie_678]

Good point.

[@annabetty7984]

Those people should not be ANYWHERE NEAR OR AROUND kids.

[@anonymouse6703]

I was molested at a very young age and I know that if I had a teacher talking about their sexuality, gender, genitals or literally anything about sex, I would have felt extremely uncomfortable and unsafe around that teacher. It is not their place to do that and I can't believe this is being allowed.

[@erikaelyse8192]

Not to mention it normalizes sex to children, so if something inappropriate happens they are desensitized and likely won't say anything. It's terrifying! I'm sorry that happened to you, I hope you are doing well today❤

[@MasterBuilderDragon]

I’m so sorry for what you went through. No one should have to go through something like that, especially a child. Prayers your way.

[@blackqweenmars]

It depends like, is it a sex education class? Or is it somehow related to the curriculum? If it isn’t then no.

[@mooney9046]

I would have felt very uncomfortable and unsafe as well. When I was growing up, I had an understanding that "private parts" weren't something grow ups or other kids should be talking about or showing me.

[@mooney9046]

​@@blackqweenmars there's no sex ed in preschool

[@m.l.tankesly2665]

When I was in school, we didn't even know our teachers had first names, or even if they were allowed off school grounds. Mind-blowing when we would see one out in the public like a grocery store. Look, I am old. Things like that never occurred to us. Of course, we were too busy learning how to write in crusive, how to actually do math, and reading comprehension.

[@ji-look6142]

As a teacher I cannot BELIEVE that person who held an entire Q+A event with flyers to talk about their own private life 😭😭😭

[@blackqweenmars]

Fr I’m not a teacher, but it seems like a very weird seeking of validation to me and not related to school curriculum at all

[@petrichor9541]

Talk about narcissism

[@milliewoo337]

They think they’re the head of some ultra noble cause- and then they post about it on TikTok to get approval from the other people they’re mimicking, a pat on the back. It’s disturbingly transparent that all of this sh*t is about validating themselves

[@sineadlemonade5955]

It's all about attention and ego!

[@stellagillen3377]

Frrr and the teacher Madd it sound like a good thing too

[@wendypatton1932]

We did not know $hit about our elementary school teachers 😂 Especially ESPECIALLY, anything that concerns their body, sexuality, personal life etc…

[@Abcd-ht8df]

😂😂 the chick like.. And I served them the tea and actual tea..we didn't have enough for everyone." 😂😂😂 Riiight because these young students are your friends huh? 😂 these people are so odd I can't even 😂

[@hearts16]

I had a lesbian teacher. Everyone knew, but she NEVER talked about her sexual orientation or sex life. She was a professional.

[@tylerdavis169]

W

[@mushlii]

Same here, she mentioned her wife once because someone asked her how her week was

[@CastleBlacula]

Back when they taught something

[@Radmountainbiking59]

Just to be clear. Was this a teacher who was a lesbian, or, a lesbian who taught other lesbians how to be lesbians?

[@anaradu1835]

Same, she is one of the best human beings I know. But work was work, everyone respected her as a professional, she kept her personal life aside.