This song is heartbreaking because he sings “You never gave a warning sign” and she responds with “I gave so many signs.” It just shows that they have had miscommunication for so long that she just had to leave and move on.
@orphanedhanyou10 ай бұрын
They didn't. She did. You can't give "signs". You have to speak up.
@lisahodges948910 ай бұрын
@@orphanedhanyou Unless you’re in that situation then you don’t really understand.
@Userwtv7 ай бұрын
@@orphanedhanyoumaybe she did give signs and he just didn’t see them and it could feel like he doesn’t even care about your signs
@stardustmelody27098 ай бұрын
Taylor wrote it with him in mind but she was too afraid to ask him. Finally, she sent the song to him. He sent it back with the bridge added to it.
@EmmaTheCowie8 ай бұрын
They performed this live together at a Bon Iver gig in London. The crowd lost their minds when Taylor came out. It’s on KZbin- you react to it!
@wgrodrig565111 ай бұрын
They have two more songs together, Evermore from Taylor’s evermore album. They also worked together on Renegade a song from a project with Bon Iver (Justin Vernon) and Aaron Dessner. Aaron has produced all their songs together. Similarly, she has two songs with The Nationals, Aaron Dessner’s band. Coney Island on Taylor’s Evermore and The Alcott (aka one of my favorites ever) from The Nationals’ album. Happy discovery!
@UniqornGleek2911 ай бұрын
renegade is so underrated!!! ❤️
@UniqornGleek2911 ай бұрын
Coney Island is probably my fave on evermore! 😣💜
@Cucumberstopickles11 ай бұрын
@@UniqornGleek29same!! Obsessed with Coney Island
@CelinaSharp11 ай бұрын
Yes! Love them all ❤
@wgrodrig565111 ай бұрын
@@UniqornGleek29 no lies detected. It’s sad that is so under appreciated when the song is such an elegant and heart wrenching masterpiece.
@okaytee301211 ай бұрын
"that's just my regular playlist" same Alex 😂
@UniqornGleek2911 ай бұрын
this is in my opinion one of taylor’s best songs and definitely her best duet ever! so heartbreaking and beautiful! ❤️
@crystalkadletc194411 ай бұрын
This was the first song I fell in love with after the first listen. A lot of songs are a slow build for me on Folklore/Evermore
@widgetchick11 ай бұрын
They sound so amazing together but their voices ALMOST clash - it's almost a perfect disharmony, which is perfection for this song. Once again. Genius.
@jess49711 ай бұрын
Hi guys, Taylor wrote the song with William Bowery (Joe, her ex), and Justin Vernon wrote the bridge. She talks about it before the music starts. You should watch the Long Pond sessions special because she explains the writing process, and I'm sure you'll like it 🙂
@Pure-Jealousy11 ай бұрын
It's still on Disney. Watch the discussions about the songs. My daughter and I have watched a zillion times. ❤😊 We love Tay!!!! Great content.
@Hey_Jamie11 ай бұрын
Justin Vernon. Not Bob iver. Bon Iver is a band lol
@crystalkadletc194411 ай бұрын
Long Pond Sessions documentary is a MUST MUST MUST. You will gain even more respect for Taylor when you hear about the writing process.
@jess49711 ай бұрын
@@Hey_Jamie thanks for the correction
@yousra872811 ай бұрын
This song was actually written by her and and her then boyfriend Joe Alwyn, they're both massive Bon Iver fans and they got Aaron to ask if Justin would want to be featured, he wrote the bridge to the song and then sent it to them and it was added to the song. So the song was technically written by all 3 but in an "individual way".
@JenniferDomitrovits-xu9df11 ай бұрын
When Bon Iver does that whoo-hooo thing towards the beginning (sorry- don’t know what it’s called either…😉) it’s haunting because it resembles a lonely animal howling but is still clearly a human voice, so it sounds primal, visceral and beautiful all at once.
@TAHBofficial11 ай бұрын
We need a professional singer to jump in the comments and help us figure out what it’s called 😂
@r-ln5xw11 ай бұрын
@@TAHBofficial it's called a falsetto or a head voice I'm pretty sure, but I'm not versed in western music terms to this level (Indian reporting again lol) so I mayyyy be wrong.
@JenniferDomitrovits-xu9df11 ай бұрын
Thanks! 😊
@HayDances10 ай бұрын
Voice teacher - definitely falsetto/head voice. 😊
@hris92149 ай бұрын
@@TAHBofficialmaybe crooning? Haha just guessing
@kkcc41111 ай бұрын
I got to see exile as a secret song at my concert during the Eras tour and it was life changing.
@surrealster327 ай бұрын
i was there too! it was amazing
@69wacky2 ай бұрын
I was sooo jealous when she sang this. Its gotta be one of my favourite songs. You guys were so lucky
@itsbrightness11 ай бұрын
Taylor said that her and joes favorite things were sad songs so I think that’s why they made so many together and also why in You’re Losing Me she says “how long could we be a sad song till we were too far gone to bring back to life”
@DannyGoldstein11 ай бұрын
“C-spot” has actually been living rent free in my mind since the first time you guys said it 💀 That, and “Tay Sway” lol
@TAHBofficial11 ай бұрын
We love it 🤣
@akashvalsan660911 ай бұрын
This was a Grammy nominated song for pop duo performance.
@VictoriaBelanger8 ай бұрын
There’s a live version where she is a surprise guest at a Bon Iver concert in London. It’s so beautiful.
@yara550211 ай бұрын
Yes, Taylor explained that this is 2 ex lovers meeting when the woman is with her new lover (first verse), and they start talking about their different opinions of the breakup ( to him it was out of the blue and as she says I gave you many chances and many signs that this was not working), and as the song progresses they are no longer listening to eachother and screaming. Him singing harder/ almost overpowering her in some parts and her lighter is intentional in the song, showing their dynamic in their relationship and their miscommunication.. Taylor and her ex wrote he song and she then asked Justin to feature on it and sent it to him, and he then added a bridge.
@DAngel1208611 ай бұрын
I hope you watch the full long pond session so you can also hear what goes on in Taylor's mind while she was writing the songs in folklore
@AuroraMichaela19956 ай бұрын
This song is GORGEOUS but the part that gets me every time is “never gave the warning signs” “I gave SO many signs, so many signs, so many times.. didn’t even see the signs” 💔😭
@ZATennisFan27 күн бұрын
There is a direct link between this song and "The Last Time"
@sarinasoren781811 ай бұрын
In the documentary part Taylor said she was nervous to ask him to feature because it would suck if he said no, she was really excited for the opportunity to work with him! I think her wide taste in music impacts what she does in really interesting ways.
@MCP92010 ай бұрын
I am spellbound by these two voices and this song. Obsessed with it.
@tudie54808 ай бұрын
I am too. It’s amazing!!!
@ashtonreads11 ай бұрын
You should try the Long Pond Studio version of “This Is Me Trying” but make sure to watch the video where she explains the meaning of the song before she actually sings it!
@Alyy9876511 ай бұрын
But listen to cardigan, betty and August first to get the whole love triangle story and then to this is me trying 👍🏼
@kaileyrosemahan810111 ай бұрын
This is honestly one of Taylor’s best works, IMHO. it’s top notch on all levels.
@maggiealdridge853211 ай бұрын
Since you guys really liked this song with them together, they have another song with Bon Iver on it as a feature called evermore from her album evermore. Just as beautiful and could most definitely hit you right in your c-spot
@lauranathaliachavesforero8886Ай бұрын
I absolutely love this song, and you should listen for the live at the eras tour. The entire stadium sings the duet with Taylor. It is one of the coolest song in concert!
@ItsBrittanyMichelle11 ай бұрын
It’s one of my top favorite songs of hers. The impact, the writing, their harmonies it’s just gorgeous
@bethlegg413111 ай бұрын
Taylor has another song with a feature that is set up like this-the last time ft. Gary Lightbody on her Red album-where it’s not like a typical feature song and more of a collaborative piece between the two of them. I highly recommend you guys listen to it
@LanaJulie339 ай бұрын
Omg exile's prequel 😭❤️
@addiegabriel933310 ай бұрын
One of my favorites of hers and probably my favorite duet Taylor has done.
@tedtheyerl509010 ай бұрын
Love this song, glad you guys do too! Thought it was just me ;) You can almost see my house out Justin V's studio window, I'm a huge fan of him and Bon Iver. Justin's voice makes this song, but credit Taylor for her wonderful voice and contributions/collaboration. Lyrics are incredible. Makes you feel! That's what music is supposed to do, and this did. I'm a fan of Taylor now too ;) Swiftie I think they call it! Then they start playing Bon Iver songs when I shop at the grocery store and visit recreation centers here in Eau Claire, played on radio stations and recognized throughout the country? They made it!
@renbader11 ай бұрын
This song is genuinely life changing like favorite song of all time category
@lifeisgoodll7 ай бұрын
She has SO MANY phenomenal songs that I can hardly choose favorites, but I freaking LOVE this song ♥️🖤♥️🖤
@katrinachavez11 ай бұрын
This song will forever be on my top five ❤
@carolynparris131111 ай бұрын
Coney Island…featuring The National…Matt’s deep voice + Taylor’s angelic = Chef’s Kiss
@antoinettecampbell35639 ай бұрын
You guys really should watch the long pond sessions in full, you'd love it. Before each song she explains the writing process and and what each song is about. After she wrote this she was nervous to send it to him but he liked it and here we are
@IvyCowboy11 ай бұрын
Thank you for pronouncing Bon Iver right lol. I always love your Taylor reactions; it's so fun to watch 3 grown men be so affected by Taylor songs. It truly warms my brittle little heart. So I'm still (un)patiently waiting for you to do Don't Blame Me from the Reputation Tour...
@jbriggsstuff11 ай бұрын
Joe sang the entire 1st verse while with tayler exactly as it is now. She asked Joe if they could write the rest of the song and theyre both huge fans of Bon iver. Justin who is the singer from the group Bon iver created the bridge after it was sent to him and it's a masterpiece!
@Kim-mg6bo4 ай бұрын
Y’all made cry with this reaction video. Great commentary.
@jaydepurdie75159 ай бұрын
Jake, you are beautiful, I love that you feel all the feels and aren't afraid to show it 💗💗💗
@sukia58711 ай бұрын
we need the champagne problems and right where you left me reactions! those are two of her best songs ever tbh
@blackice278 ай бұрын
My FAVORITE Folklore song...and definitely close to being in my top 10 Taylor songs. It is so good...love when Taylor duets with a male. Evermore and The last time are also favs of mine!
@MC-lb2nrАй бұрын
“That’s just my regular playlist” Alex is my spirit animal
@MoyaoftheMist11 ай бұрын
What I can’t believe is that they recorded the two halves of this like a thousand miles apart. Like… “exile” sounds like it’s knit together by angels or something, and they weren’t even in the same room. Just…how? Anyway, everybody else offered backstory already, so I’ll let that sit, but I totally understand not watching her little interviews since you wanna go in blind and make your own interpretations. I don’t think you should have to watch interviews to understand a song; how it resonates with you is what matters, y’know? Anyway, loved the reaction. Thanks for sharing!
@mallorymyers752529 күн бұрын
I love her first line: "I see you staring, honey, like he's just your understudy, like you'd get your knuckles bloody for me." It illustrates so much story with just one lyric.
@Sharon-yn8xg9 күн бұрын
So Taylor wrote this song and sent it to Bon Iver to see if he would sing it with her. He included the “woo hoo” part from the beginning which adds so much.
@lisalazarus851911 ай бұрын
Yes def a C spot song! Elated that you guys reacted to this!!! Here’s the lore. Her then boyfriend under the pseudonym William Bowery actually wrote the first verse and music for it. Taylor overheard him playing it and she fell in love with it and wrote the rest with Bon Iver. She hinted to Aaron who is on the piano and one of the Folklore producers, that she hoped Bon Iver would be interested in collab-ing. Aaron having a close friendship with Bon Iver given their bandmates, made it happen. Bon Iver wrote the bridge “so step right out, there is no amount of crying I can do for you” verse. And a trifecta of poetic brilliance was created. Thanks again guys. Always love your reactions. ❤
@tesselate8nowait26211 ай бұрын
This live performance and My Tears Ricochet from the Long Pond Sessions are my absolute favorite Taylor performances, up there with Out of the Woods on tour, and All To Well at the Grammy’s, and I’m constantly looking for reactions to those performances so thank you lol♥️
@tcconnectionАй бұрын
They sound hauntingly amazing together. Hard to believe they didn't record it together.
@sophyapaiva873011 ай бұрын
they also collaborated on the song evermore, from the album evermore, it's incredible. I love your reactions guys, we all understand you.
@02michellemybell028 ай бұрын
Everything I hear this song like this it just makes you want to cry they sound so good.
@HayDances10 ай бұрын
Voice teacher here, hi! I think the words you may be looking for to describe Bon Iver have to do with vocal TONE which has lots of gorgeous GRIT and GRAVEL. 😊 Enjoyed this reaction very much, thanks!
@TAHBofficial10 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@rickdoerfer86209 ай бұрын
"Balancing on breaking branches". A brilliant line. Alliterative and loud, like trying to save a disintegrating relationship.
@Toupie10011 ай бұрын
They are indeed amazing together, I love Renegade on the Big Red Machine record
@TjC_31249 ай бұрын
The official lyric video on her page hits hard just like Vigilante Shit. The back and forth of the lyrics is incredible! I totally recommend it.
@Peg4u15 күн бұрын
Taylor's boyfriend Joe Alwyn plays the piano, very well. Taylor heard Joe playing the first verse, and singing part of the opening lyrics that he wrote. She loved it, especially with a man's voice going first. It's as if they are having a conversation while singing their frustration at not being heard by each other, as they sing this sad goodbye. Taylor and Joe, finished writing the song, with Justin Vernon contributed the lyrics, "So step right out, there is no amount Of crying I can do for you..." Taylor talked about it in the Long Pond intro to this song. Exile, is my #2 Favorite Taylor Swift song... All Too Well [10 min] is my #1.
@sfzombie24738 ай бұрын
It hits my soul ❤❤❤
@sarahgray61579 ай бұрын
The relationship you all have with one another is pretty amazing. I don't have a sibling or a cousin I'm this close with. Love seeing the connection the three of you share. And love seeing that connection come out as you discuss Taylor's music! Thanks for great videos.
@TAHBofficial9 ай бұрын
🫶
@MC-bj6kr11 ай бұрын
It is so hauntingly beautiful, I love this song and collaboration.
@lifeisgoodll11 ай бұрын
Might be my favorite TS song, if I could even choose one. It’s genius. It’s beautiful. Pure art.
@Mandy-ce5zs9 ай бұрын
This is my favorite song. Long mind sessions is so great
@elizabethjulia208 ай бұрын
you guys keep wondering and I don't want to be that person but I'm like... even if it's at the end (so you can figure the song out yourselves) please watch the intro/explanation. taylor talks about loving bon iver and how her co-producer got them in touch, and how she never thought he'd want to collaborate with her, and how he heard the song and was immediately inspired and came back with aspects of the bridge.😅
@Micannagal8 ай бұрын
I cried too ❤
@orphanedhanyou10 ай бұрын
So many hear this song and say "see he didn't see the signs!" when "signs" and games are NOT the same thing as communication and actually voicing your concerns and issues.
@MizukiLovesDraco11 ай бұрын
A few of Taylor's songs she has a feature sing the first verse and then she comes in, I've noticed mostly when the features are guys. It's that way in The Last Time, as well. That's also a great sad song. I think it's maybe because the song is supposed to be the couple speaking to each other, so it's just whoever "started" the conversation.
@elisamaer991411 ай бұрын
What i s amazing is that they were in two different locatio ns and this was during the pandemic. He wore a kerchief because there was a person there I think, to set up the csmera and sounds..
@valerytv_11 ай бұрын
we didn't know we needed this until we got this collab they must have felt this too, so they made another collab for the song Evermore from the Evermore album 🤎 and she gave so many signs, man
@UniqornGleek2911 ай бұрын
yay! we finally got jake to cry!!!
@eb541528 ай бұрын
have you all seen the surprise song version of this? unfortunately bon iver wasn’t there for it but the crowd sang those parts and it was also a beautiful rendition
@albertohermosilla593811 ай бұрын
One of my favorite song of her ❤
@raedee65752 ай бұрын
This song and video makes you feel like you are watching a real couple still madly in love and you start cheering for them to figure out their communication.
@carsten198911 ай бұрын
Justin Vernon (Bon Iver) received the unfinished song and he wrote the amazing bridge for this, which occurs twice. He sent the bridge back to Taylor Swift and she was amazed by it and the rest is history. I’m assuming by giving him the first verse, she’s allowing the female to respond, which I understand. Also, giving him the first first may simply be in deference to Justin Vernon, who she REALLY respects
@judeless7711 ай бұрын
Taylor and her ex, Joe, wrote it together. She presented the lyrics to Justin Vernon (Bon Iver) and Justin said that he would never say that in this kind of a relationship fallout. He changed some of the lyrics to be more accurate to what he would say and this is the magic that came out. Makes you wonder what the original lyrics were.
@Snakechill11 ай бұрын
This was a fantastic reaction, thank you, guys! Your chemistry is off the charts. It would be great if you had the time to react to all Long Pond songs, you're amazing people reacting to amazing content. Thanks again!
@cindymeyer-hunt32089 ай бұрын
Such a brilliantly produced song that just tells such a heartbreaking picture story on your minds eye. Bravo!! I’m so happy you saw the unique brilliance in each other. YES!! Make an album together!!
@ellieandthetorts11 ай бұрын
Taylors songs with bon iver: Exile, Evermore, and his song renegade with big red machine featured taylor. He also did backing vocals on her song marjorie (& its suspected a few others from evermore album)
@julianadavila34411 ай бұрын
This songs gives me goosebumps
@heatherkingston14458 ай бұрын
Justin's voice gives me goosebumps.
@Charlene-i2m11 ай бұрын
Your commentary about Exile was insightful, spot on, and held my attention until the end of the reaction video. On another note, I noticed the rapport among the three of you is reminiscent of what makes the Kelce brothers' podcast so successful -- just a little calmer, not so over the top. That easy ebb and flow is organic and can't be manufactured which leaves me surprised your subscriptions aren't, at a minimum, in the six figures. I look forward to future reaction videos from 2.5 brothers.
@songs4polarbear11 ай бұрын
C Spot? Yup, i'm using that 🤣🤣
@alyzzzzard508911 ай бұрын
they have another song together!! evermore, it’s the closing track on her follow up album to folklore, i highly recommend! if you want another long pond song, i’d suggest “the last great american dynasty” for lighthearted or “seven” for c spot lol
@ZUMBA_062311 ай бұрын
I actually cried watching this… y’all’s reaction is always on point!
@Ldlover11 ай бұрын
to me this is a masterpiece
@terryblair9663 ай бұрын
This bridge he wrote for the song just added a sad part, but lovely to it.
@lianereichert537711 ай бұрын
You need to check out when taylor talks about the song in longpond sessions and they also played it once live
@UniqornGleek2911 ай бұрын
exile is from folklore, but taylor teams up again w bon iver on folklore’s sister album evermore. the song is called evermore and it’s equally amazing!
@DiannaDoyleFNP4 ай бұрын
Taylor and Joe Alwyn wrote this song together during the early months of the lock down. She collaborated with Aaron Dessner for the first time on this album. She really wanted Justin Vernon of Bon Iver to sing with her but didn't know him. She idolizes him. He is friends with Aaron who pitched it to him. He ended up writing the bridge. So it was quite a collaboration between all of them.
@madelynsheets43397 ай бұрын
Bon iver came up with his part and Taylor wasn’t expecting it
@natsgo155410 ай бұрын
Everytime they say Bon Iver sounds like BUNNY BEAR hahaha
@SassyChiefsFan4 ай бұрын
This prob one of my all time faves. I absolutely love this song.
@eew1211 ай бұрын
She ex boyfriend Joe Alwyn wrote the entire beginning of the song and played it for Taylor. She added to it and then Justin Vernon added more. Joe is credited as William Bowery on the record. So it starts with the man because of Joe.
@RonyChatter11 ай бұрын
The song describes two sides of the same coin. The female voice wants to breakup as she's fed up, she's done while the male voice is also done and asks her to leave if she wants to. It shows the situation when couples break up. Both of them have things they want to tell to each other but they just can't speak up. The girl thinks she gave the signs but he says she didn't. The guy then says how she left him alone and the girl says that they were never together emotionally... It's so beautiful
@olanaowen732010 ай бұрын
I would buy that colab album so fast....
@tvil811 ай бұрын
I actually prefer the studio album version of this one. Its grander and exposes the c spot more😂 they also did a song called evermore together, Also beautiful
@karma_drolma8 ай бұрын
Same. I love the long pond version, but the studio version just goes deeper. And Renegade is one of my absolute favorites.
@elisake11 ай бұрын
Would absolutely LOVE if you watch her long pond session for “This Is Me Trying.” Such a beautiful song.
@lek11611 ай бұрын
Definitely keep checking out the Long Pond Studios Sessions! The entire thing is phenomenal. “The 1” is a great one for you guys to do next 😊
@1Alekfan6 ай бұрын
This is one of my favorite T S songs, I rear up every time I hear it.. just sooo good! ❤
@mkinz212211 ай бұрын
If you liked this, also suggest her other Bon feature, evermore, or Nothing New with Phoebe Bridgers!
@JillCrowe5511 ай бұрын
Please check out her 1989 Tour Live version of Clean. She gives a little speech at the beginning that reflects on how peoples opinions can scar, so badly, how a person feels and thinks of themselves. Absolutely beautiful!! ❤
@orphanedhanyou10 ай бұрын
Her live 1989 was not very good (she was pretty unhealthy at the time) but clean was probably the best
@JillCrowe5510 ай бұрын
@@orphanedhanyou she was still absolutely gorgeous 😍
@SknezE11 ай бұрын
I agree. This was very impressive. The two of them did a great job on this. Tae has no idea how much she's destroying Jake, slowly. 🤣🤣
@evemcgregor592211 ай бұрын
okay so i’m gonna need you guys to listen to you are in love, dear john, and watch the rest of the reputation tour videos. Please and thank you.
@lcan739011 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful song love it so much ❤
@katherinehayes52813 ай бұрын
As many have noted in the comments here, this is one of my favorite songs. It seems unique to me because rather than hearing about the breakup, it's as though you are witnessing the breakup through their "conversation." Thanks so much for your reactions!