Real Families Full Episode: Rescuing Families from Kid Chaos

Australian parenting expert Professor Matt Sanders is helping UK parents tame their children through a new reality television program and a national parenting study. Driving Mum and Dad Mad helps rescue five families whose children were pushing their parents to the limit.
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[@jelica9475]

I kills me how they always say "We have tried everything" Except rules, consistency, consequences and modeling the behavior we want......

[@FastNCurious88]

💯💯💯

[@joyfullmink]

"He swears cause he copies his older brother." Yeah, and the olddr brother learnt it from the parents.

[@tuffteey112]

Kelly I know, I burst out laughing when he said that

[@jeoneunthatbitch3897]

literally two seconds before he said that they showed the clip of the mother screaming and swearing from the top of her lungs while beating on the brother smh. definitely a lack of insight there.

[@alfieh9329]

ikr he said it like every five year old knows swear words 😂🙄he's 5 not 16 !!

[@beaucrawley1191]

That cracked me right up 😂😭

[@Theaterfreak]

@@jeoneunthatbitch3897 I was absolutely appalled at how those parents swearing at their kids and each other. Peole swear, I swear, but that was just disgusting.

[@joyfullmink]

Did he really just blame the five year old for the two year old swearing? We literally just saw the mother swearing repeatedly in front of the children whilst she hits them.

[@impracticalsewing7071]

Kelly Exactly and it's completely ridiculous. These parents are so immature.

[@erickomondi3400]

.

[@kiwidreams3]

Kelly and the adult was in the room watching as the big boy hit the younger one and did nothing.

[@CherryFrog321]

Yeah, when I first saw a comment about them blaming the older brother for the younger one swearing (before I had watched the video) I assumed the older one must be a teenager. Not a 5 year old! Smh

[@dominewimbury2039]

So Cameron's sister who is good most of the time, doesn't get any presents, yet Cameron does? Yeah ok mum!

[@tinaandersen3270]

Sad

[@s.p1512]

I was thinking the same . It's called favouritism I treat all 4 of my children the same because as an adult i know how it feels when you get less attention from your parents compared to your siblings

[@courtneynicole7968]

maya noor good for you. My brothers are spoiled rotten and I never really get anything.

[@nicholdsouza6482]

@@courtneynicole7968 same here. I am an adult now with two daughters of my own..

[@jacquelinehunt7794]

Domine Wimbury he’s a spoilt brat who should be ignored

[@Solosoul_in_oz]

Im a single mum n I swear, my 3 kids don’t swear n disrespect me like that and my son has adhd, these parents have lost control smh

[@megapixel1158]

Tia I respect you your kids must love you so much

[@Lauritonas]

These parents just dont have consequenses (im sorry idk how to spell it)

[@nicolaferrari1299]

Tia i 100% agree with you, I'm a single mother with a 3yr old and he's such a loving king hearted little boy. Its how you raise them and nurture them

[@maryamcc3689]

Great mummy

[@Solosoul_in_oz]

Nicola Ferrari naaaawww that’s nice bet u both have a strong bond 😊

[@KathD10]

When I was a kid my parents just had to give me a look and I knew I'd done something wrong and had to behave myself otherwise I'd be in a load of trouble when I got home.

[@robhicks2117]

YES! And I know that look! Just one look, that's all it took.

[@momandjas]

Hahahahha

[@bmeeseeks2881]

Yup, the death stare.

[@lburns7952]

Me too. They'd just give the look, wouldn't utter a word and we'd know 'Omigod it's a wrap. We're done for.' I'd think ' Will I survive through whatever is coming''?? I'd start praying 'God, please, PLEASE' ..........LoL

[@maryslocum9443]

But these kids are not normal they have an imbalance. ADHA. ADD . hormonal , chemical . some will never be diagnosed they will be labeled and dumbed

[@jeoneunthatbitch3897]

these parents annoy me so much.. the fact that they dont see that theyre the problem is truly mind boggling

[@ivonned32]

Is truly pathetic. These so call parents have NO RESPONSIBILITY SENSE.

[@c.robison448]

how many children do either of you have?

[@jeoneunthatbitch3897]

@@c.robison448 How many kids do Jo Frost have?

[@c.robison448]

@@jeoneunthatbitch3897 How many years have you been to university, then a professional Nanny, then a successful TV show that is shown worldwide in two formats; a British one and the American verison. All this along with a You Tube channel of her own?

[@jemimahkendall6579]

@@jeoneunthatbitch3897 answer the question Lola how many kids you got, I have four of them and these days you try to actually parent people accuse you of child abuse

[@katiethomas5889]

I have actually learned a few things by watching this to listen to the experts. My daughter isn't badly behaved, but it helps to be reminded that kids need structure, positive reinforcements and so on. And the best thing to do as parents is be on the same page, it really helps I think.

[@SchoolActivitiesIdeas]

Never ever give any reward to a kid when he misbehaves so much to get the thing they want..,

[@fionageorgakis699]

And now my 22 year old hates me because I was not giving in to her tamper tantrums for 18 years. Now she is pregnant and thinks she will be a better mom that I was....

[@sashypooh409]

@@fionageorgakis699 well it's not all about discipline, positive reinforcement is needed as well. ..all kids tend to think they will be a better parent. That's common. Sounds like she doesn't understand the enough about life nor the foundation of the discipline to have resentment.

[@SolvingYourProblemRightNow]

No1 parenting mistake

[@commandixnostalgia2321]

Fiona Georgakis Oh just wow! A 22 year old having tantrums.. 😂😂

[@sandramiller8737]

Her first mistake was letting him out of the cart.

[@sarahkuuspalu7924]

I thought the same thing!😂

[@yoshidababies4222]

Sandra Miller Not really. Kids in the cart get really antsy and bored. It’s better to have older kids out the cart and have them help. Both my kids are well behaved in the supermarket because I give them jobs to do. I don’t need to bribe them either, they enjoy helping.

[@maryslocum9443]

Amen

[@amberinthebox4462]

Make them stay hands on the cart.

[@kimberlyhovis5864]

Yep, I also wouldn't have cared if my child screamed and carried on like that. It's not my problem if my child has a temper tantrum in public (most little kids try that), it's my child experimenting with different ways of communication in order to get what they want. So, I wouldn't have cared; I would have just ignored it. 🤷‍♀️

[@miameme444]

That little boy saying "Im not a wirdeo" what a lovely thing to call her son.

[@mkj8973]

Omg I can't believe these kids have TVs in their room...

[@erickomondi3400]

yes

[@smpal6626]

@68 Yellow Sands Official Channel It's a good thing to have a tv in your child's room? Are you serious? It is absolutely NOT a good thing.

[@agaathglorie3217]

L Pol

[@Christenloves1999]

I had a tv in my room when I was little and it didn't bother me at all. All I did was put a random movie and just played down and went to bed with no issues. I'm almost 23 and I still have a tv in my room.

[@luvgalore320]

She needs to stop feeling guilty and stop buying cameron stuff because thats gonna make him think he can act like that and ne will get things.

[@emilyburrows416]

Yup she's just rewarding bad behaviour and instilling that if he acts up he'll get a treat 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@luvgalore320]

Emily Burrows exactly 🙄👍🏽

[@jojozepofthejungle2655]

I wonder if Mum has ever heard of a star chart rewards program...cost $2, it's a joke. Maybe star for Mum and Dad too 😂😂😂

[@Babyboffa2018]

I dread to think what these kids will be like as adults

[@chelseashamim9148]

Jack Thompson imagine teenage

[@mickeykyker4837]

Full blown narcissism.

[@roisink3043]

When the child turned around to his mom and said "I'm not a weirdo" it broke my heart yes he has ADHD and he probably knows he different he can't control that

[@hollybowen6581]

Her comment killed me. I have a son with adhd and asd and he is so aware of being 'different' to the point he cries about wanting it to go away. I dread to think how that little boy must feel, I just want to cuddle him

[@emilyburrows416]

Honestly I did too why would you say that too your own child in such a vindictive way? I call my daughter a weirdo in a jokey manner and she's still a baby so doesn't understand but I'd never ever be so mean to her. She was downright cruel to him 😔

[@roisink3043]

@@hollybowen6581 I know what you mean my 2 brothers both have asd and adhd and it breaks my heart when the older one crys about being different and they know and understand it's so hurtful I feel bad even calling them weird in a joking way x

[@roisink3043]

@@emilyburrows416 I agree it's a joke I mean I get she was stressed but the fact she said that to her son broke my heart and probably many other peoples hearts x

[@hollybowen6581]

@@emilyburrows416 oh I completely agree, when me and my son are being silly together he will laugh and call me a weirdo as I might with him. This was said in a way that he obviously found hurtful. I know as humans we say things that we don't mean in the moment but it's no excuse with a child

[@ingeborg-anne]

"Oh my kid misbehaved, so let me buy him a gift". What do you THINK that kid's going to take away from that? Misbehaviour begets rewards!

[@tinaandersen3270]

I know. Right?

[@marclabrie6027]

Misbehavior begets punishment not rewards

[@idajensen5000]

Hitting your children is unforgivable, see how Aaron curls up to protect himself and turns his face away in fear. Aaron and his siblings should be removed by social services, that mum is a horrible abuser.

[@CrustyUgg]

I watched a video on FB of a child having a temper tantrum and not getting her way and the mom and dad didn’t fold. The younger ppl in the comments were condemning the parents for not giving in. If you’re a person like that who would let their kid just get away with everything and anything.. here’s a glimpse into your future!

[@yukilynx3526]

I'd like to see the video. Do you still have the link?

[@masbel7709]

I think one important thing what the parents dont do is, to praise the children and give them positive feedback. Praise them with your voice for the smallest thing they do correct.

[@BEATHROKZ]

Best advert for contraception.

[@aaeyeshadowinthedark]

😄😄😄

[@deee1776]

It’s not difficult to be a parent at all. I’ve never had any issues with my two! I find it sad that you base your response on this!!!

[@ivonned32]

The kids are not at fault. Parents lacking authority and patients over their children. The easy way out is to blame the children.

[@rochelletalania3364]

lol

[@mommabear5059]

Gavin true, some people shouldn’t have kids

[@dominewimbury2039]

Hang on Gary, your youngest swears. Yet so does Tracey. Your wife and probably you, swear in front of em so yes, it does come from the parents!

[@impracticalsewing7071]

If you throw a fit when you don't get what you want so will your kids. Imagine seeing your parents throw temper tantrums all day every day. Paula is literally having breakdowns with her son. Your child will never be calm if they see you anxious.

[@Jane-yg3vz]

She says he's punishing her for being gone all day but what's actually happening is she only pays attention to him when he's misbehaving. Kids do what gets them attention.

[@Crazycatlady71]

@@Jane-yg3vz that's exactly my thought, too. The little guy is wanting his mommy's attention. If she would play a game with him, I bet u would see a huge difference in that little boy. I felt so sorry for him and the others acting out. They haven't been taught or given any positive attention. Praising ur child works wonders!

[@DrugParty]

I’m not a parent so maybe I’m way off base, but all of these parents seem aggressive and a few of them have truly shocking language in front of their kids - isn’t it just a tiny possibility that all the children are feeding off that? The parents are screaming, shouting and swearing at/in front of their kids - how can you expect them to behave in a polite and respectful manner if you’re not leading by example? Angus’s mum flies off the handle in 0.2 seconds and don’t get me started on the other chav family. When will parents learn that children copy what they say and that the change starts with YOU?

[@emilyburrows416]

You may not be a parent but you hit the nail on the head.

[@Qwinpin]

Too right!!

[@infijureckid2753]

@@emilyburrows416 True words! I am shocked when I hear und see the parents

[@lynn.d1015]

NatalieD you have no idea what you are talking about! When you have a couple of these monsters then tell us about it

[@deborahkovac7945]

Lol do you honestly think those kids would pay attention to nice?? Think again some kids don't respond to nice at all.

[@candicehawkins2676]

All I can say is," Good Lord." I had a child with a severe learning disorder and one with ADHD. This never happened at my home and we (adults)never fought around the children.

[@MsAliceVampire]

I mean look at those people... Aaron’s family... both swearing, mother hitting this kids, dad smoking right next to the child, look at the state of them... should not have reproduced in the first place.

[@mkj8973]

YES!!! these people make me so angry... They don't care at all...

[@lyndameg134]

Did mum drink heavily when pregnant or take drugs? Something is not normal

[@angelinaballerina2407]

@@mkj8973 they don't care how shallow you idiots she wouldn't be trying to get help if she didn't care

[@brittany7jeffrey4]

@@mkj8973 They don't care? Really? My gosh, why in the world do YOU think would they come on tv to show the entire world what happens in her home, day in and day out? Think about it like that! Honestly, people need to think before they comment!

[@marionomalley4671]

Probably

[@tuffteey112]

I thought I was out of control as a kid but Jesus they are bad

[@tuffteey112]

TheGooners11 they did, it was just harder to document it because of cameras and stuff

[@kellytrindles984]

So it’s all women’s fault give me a break

[@emilyburrows416]

@@kellytrindles984 I know right? How DARE women go to work to help provide for their family. They should clearly be at home cooking/cleaning/raising the children gosh 🙄**heavy sarcasm** It's not like most of us have a choice, we have to go back to work full time as we've got bills to pay sadly.

[@sophierix3356]

TheGooners11 are you joking? Mums should stay at home and dads go out to work or the kids will end up like this? Are you actually saying women are the ones who should do this and the fact women now work is a bad thing? Men and women are equally capable of raising a child. Just because they are bad at controlling their kids doesn’t provide evidence in favour of your statement. Get a grip

[@deee1776]

It’s not the children that are bad!!!!

[@joyfullmink]

"I'd rather thump a door than a child" - How about you learn some self control and don't punch anything?

[@northr5515]

Use the kid as battering ram on door

[@withramya]

easier said than done.

[@k.v.8335]

On one side you are right about that but I think for now it's good that he thinks like that

[@sandcastles73]

@@withramya Not really. Quite easy not to hit a child.

[@meaganlalonde2518]

Omg I couldn't even watch this. What's the telephone # for child protective services in the UK?

[@mickthealcoholicbear8311]

first of all feed them real food, not garbage

[@faithconstentine9018]

Frank -E Muckbang you are absolutely right, 👍

[@Tata-iu3fy]

At least they have food to eat, some children go hungry. Their choice of food is just that, their choice. It may not be the best choice, but still their choice. What they eat has almost nothing to do with their parents lack of discipline, and parenting skills.

[@meemcg1585]

@@Tata-iu3fy that's not true. It has a lot to do with it. High sugar and no nutrition. It's a real problem. Do some research please.

[@meemcg1585]

@@Tata-iu3fy I do agree with you that there is bad parenting though. That's not the only issue. Diet has a play as well.

[@Tata-iu3fy]

Lissa Mcg key word almost. Maybe you can research what that means.

[@biffalump]

I really felt for Jane on that shopping trip and I don’t judge her at all

[@GhostLightPhilosophy]

Cameron’s mum has set herself up for failure. She buys him a toy every day as a bribe? And then wonders why he kicks off when he doesnt get one.

[@SarahWestTheXanaduQueen]

I was thinking that same exact question.

[@debrabolton6475]

Wow, there are no words to describe these children and their parents.

[@ThePojengsidur]

Oh my. When my puppy was misbehaving, i went out to play with her. She was crazyy. And spending more time with her, playing with her until she was tired out, training her, and really starting to look at what I am doing wrong with her. Its taight me alot with kids also. Training myself to act right with a dog or a human was the real cure. We need schooling for parents.

[@Gaby74237]

I admire parents who are willing to look at themselves on national tele and try to make changes in their parenting

[@cheshire-yu4nz]

I hope those people don't have any animals for those little monsters to abuse.

[@bogdanrusu3669]

Christina Reynolds Yeah?

[@bogdanrusu3669]

Christina Reynolds oh... ok. The more you know

[@elliekeogh2434]

The clip where the mom was slapping the child and saying ‘should I should I ,’ is the parent being out of control

[@lorrainepenkert4855]

These parents really believe that the 2yr old is learning the swearing from the 5yr old , but they would wanna look back on this clip , there screaming swearing and slapping seriously Imensly LOUD , no child should have to experience that

[@pommiebears]

Lorraine Penkert they’re Wayne and Waynetta Slob from the Harry Enfield show....I swear! How stupid is that man? The five year old learned it from the parents....is he that STUPID that he cannot see what is plainly obvious?? This has made me really angry. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@fatimayusuf9497]

Smoking next to a child is unbelievable I can't stand parents smoking while children are in same room

[@fatimayusuf9497]

@Jayne Eyre your sister diffnetly did the right thing for her kids . It's common sense not rocket science what smoke does to the lungs .if people want to choose to smoke that is their choice but it's not their choice if they got children around or even non smokers partners in same house .in this time and age is difficult not to know the risks of smoking around kids but people are so selfish

[@CathyKitson]

Jayne Eyre So her in-laws did what she wanted, and she didn't keep to her word.

[@emmakennedy104]

Whilst smoking in the same room isn't great for the kids (so we are told anyway ....... I'd say it's no worse than car fumes and all the other chemicals we have in the air but that's another argument) it does not create naughty children. Its the physical bad parenting that results in these very unruly children. All of these parents shown just cannot see that they are the problem. I could go into detail but there is so many things they do wrong I'd need a day to type it all.

[@CathyKitson]

Little Blue Lol so did I. It's a wonder I'm still alive. Far more people smoked then, yet there was far, FAR, less asthma and eczema than there is now.

[@franz8259]

I grew up in the sixties, every adult was smoking. No child was showing such disrespect and brutality than the brats in this documentary. They are nothing else than monsters, future criminals. I bet they!ll end up behind bars in 10 years.

[@Me-pe8eb]

I mean the parents are completely to blame.

[@Christenloves1999]

Agreed

[@Crazycatlady71]

100% the parents fault! I feel so sorry for those kids. Their parents r crazy and obviously they aren't parent material.

[@jemimajust827]

Reminds me I must get on the pill

[@chanyphilly8266]

Lol, I'm so glad I don't want kids, this would make you want to wear an old fashioned chastity belt!

[@nikkid284]

😂😂

[@balletickid]

The kids' behaviour is just a product of their parents'. So if you think you'll be as terrible as these parents... then yes never have children!

[@emilyburrows416]

If you don't want kids yet/ever make sure you take your pill religiously according to it's instructions!!! I missed ONE and now have a lovely 10 month old daughter 😂

[@deee1776]

It’s not difficult being a parent at all. Your response actually makes me feel sad.

[@irishrover2251]

This is what happens when there's no routine, no rules and no sensible parent. I brought 3 kids up on my own and they have good jobs In the community helping others. YOU are your child's teacher, you need to teach them how to be a kind caring human. What I see here is the next generation of Inmates. SMH !!!!

[@imelda4jesus]

your so full of pride taking all the glory, have you forgotten that your testimony of successful parenting is nothing but the grace of God. And please, i beg you to stop cursing peoples children i.e speaking negatively into their future lives i quote you "i see next generation of inmates", cursing on children always return back on the senders head, meaning what you wish children will come back to your own children. Remember you have a generation of grandchildren, great grandchildren to come....God bless you

[@TheDaniela3112]

Irish rover from the Facebook group???

[@isissahara388]

It's not "living in a house with a child like Cameron" it's living in a house with a child with behavioural problems YOU created.

[@chelseacarter3374]

Rewarding bad behavior is not the answer!! I'm a mom as well!!😣😑

[@marclabrie6027]

No it's not the answer

[@elli3k]

“My stomach says I’m hungry”😂😂😂

[@AndrinaMurray]

My heart actually breaks for these children

[@tuffteey112]

Andrina Murray I feel kind of bad for the single mum but I feel like she isn’t disciplining Angus properly (I honesty don’t know what I would do in her situation though)

[@AUSSIEMEGSCHANNEL]

Thankyou, I hear blame the kids for acting up. But its deeper than that. Kids pick up behaviors from people and there environment. Lack of understanding. Even though they are little. They still have frustrations that aren't taken seriously by parents.

[@workingmumsneedgin6505]

Yep!

[@vickishaw6053]

Exactly, it's the parents fault, they've planted this behaviour in their kids, however from what we've seen in the past(the James Bulger case for instance) some kids ARE born bad.

[@ivonned32]

Me too.

[@aes8302]

Is there a return policy? Can the Stork come back and replace them? I see future psychopaths here.

[@carrieconnolly2639]

"Why can't children be like dogs?" If you wanted a dog then you should have gotten a dog, not had a child.

[@blackswan1983]

I took the Triple P classes in Canada when my daughter was diagnosed with ADHD&ODD. Combined with my daughter attending her own classes on zones of regulation with her peers, our family is much, much happier now. PPP really does work.

[@d_9979]

this honestly made me remember to pick up my contraceptive pill tmrw

[@KINNOHA]

When I misbehaved as a kid I got a smack and was sent to my room.. a new toy was out of the question! 🙄

[@fionageorgakis699]

Try and do that now...DCFS will get your kid away from you and call you unfit mother. I almost lost my oldest one because she was very difficult child to deal with when she was younger. I too felt like I couldn't cope so I put my foot down eventually. Her stubbornness would take the best of her and was not accepting the word NO coming out of my mouth and she would scream on top of her lungs and neighbors would think the worse and they were calling the cops on me two three times a week.... Now she is 22 and is acting like she was a victim of abuse...go figure.

[@Sarah.M98]

@@fionageorgakis699 Wow!! Sorry to hear that happened to you, sometimes society makes it's difficult to raise your children your way because you're in constant fear of people like your neighbors making a big deal out of nothing. Parents no longer have control over their children because the government and society take parents rights away and give children more right, and when children have more rights than the adult they no longer see their parents as an authority figure and start to think they can behave however they like. Smh

[@littleangels7095]

I was smacked a lot lol for not drinking milk, for being naughty chased with a rolling pin I came out alright and we often laugh about it now

[@marclabrie6027]

@@Sarah.M98 untrue

[@Sarah.M98]

@@marclabrie6027 That's your opinion and that comment I made was my opinion, so deal with it. Smh

[@indiamuir7849]

They’re so delusional when they really think they are not to blame for their child’s behaviour

[@philipwalters3565]

This is what happens when you don't follow through - kids are not daft and they learn fast - why should they listen - you never deliver on your threats

[@greensan3093]

Exactly my thought. It's as easy as that

[@marclabrie6027]

Exactly

[@bangtanbts5526]

As soon as Cameron started acting up.. I would've left whole basket there and walked out. Wouldn't take him anywhere unless he acted right

[@lucykirk1909]

wonder how angus behaves with his au pair

[@moobag587]

Lucy Kirk I was wondering that too . She needs a medal and I hope she’s well paid for it. !

[@annikabern2107]

As an au pair, she won’t be well paid, it’s pocket money.

[@spacewombat6174]

His mother is a neurotic nut case and the kid needs chloroform instead of ritalin

[@jpt7667]

Was wondering the same

[@greensan3093]

Probably completely different if she knows basic rules of parenting. Kids most definitely know the difference between adults, their acting towards them and who disciplines them.

[@f8ki]

The perfect condom commercial

[@faithgermage8583]

Lol🤣🤣🤣

[@Oakleaf700]

No boundaries! Angus's mother is frantic. Like two kids fighting. Awful parents....sheesh .

[@ShadyLadyBeauty]

She is afraid of him and he knows it. She stirs him up. After she took the shovel should explain to him why can't have the shovel and not had any more negotiations after it.

[@Oakleaf700]

@@@ShadyLadyBeauty Absolutely...Kids are not daft...they sense when an adult is afraid to take control. Kids like to feel secure, and this means firm boundaries.

[@Ayukina05]

I am shocked. Arons family Shows child abuse. Somebody should take custody of Aron and his siblings. Cameron's family is so overwhelmed with him. The mom with the boy with ADHD is doing her best but she needs somebody to show her technices for raising a child with ADHD.

[@keirarogers8203]

Ayukina GoT it’s not child abuse it’s showing your child what theyre doing is wrong

[@Ayukina05]

Also children want attention. They want to be seen. If they dont get your attention by doing something right they try new things. They dont decide between positive and negative attention. So they misbehave and as soon as they have done it they get attention. For them the only logic desicion is to misbehave again. Children do what works.

[@RosaWolf3400]

Calling her kid a weirdo and saying the things she said to him is not "doing her best"

[@nimas832]

@@keirarogers8203 You need to update yourself on what child abuse is. That is child abuse when it comes to the case of Arons parents, especially the mum with her hitting and abusive behavior towards the children. She is a horrible mother, the father at least sees his flaws.

[@Ayukina05]

@@RosaWolf3400 I think she is doing HER best not THE best. Offcause its unaceptable to call your child a weirdo. Have you worked with children with ADHD ? I have. It is much harder to help them control thereself as you do with neurotypical children. And ADHD is more than beeing hyperactive. It's about emotional overloads, impulsifity, selfcontrol, sensetifity together with Lack of understanding and prejudice. And as a mother without knowlege about the real face of ADHD you are alone with it. I can cope with severel ADHD and autism, rett syndrome,.. because I have learned it. (And yes ,I really love my work and every single child)She's overwhelmed and tries wrong things to get her son behave "normal". Offcause it is her mistake to act like this. But the health system is also involved for not support a mother with a child with diagnosis.

[@sharonramsden7221]

Children learn by observation and mirroring behaviors.

[@catlady7135]

I noticed that some of their houses are very cluttered and dirty looking. That kind of mess creates a frenzy in an adult brain can you imagine how much of a frenzy it created in the child’s brain?...I think this is contributing to the child’s erratic behaviour

[@crcb4]

Well when you have kids running a muck and running the home they have no choice. My house was always messy with 3 boys but my boys rarely acted that way

[@mayacollins4738]

Have you thought about maybe they don't have time to clean because they're so caught up with their child's behaviour? Or yes there's another version, they just don't like to clean. But not only dirt affects child's behavior there must be something else as well

[@ummesawdah]

Clean space clean mind. Poor kids

[@rosequeen2461]

Cat Lady children probably made the mess but yes mum or dad or both of them need to clean it regularly I have kids and clean 3 hours a day bc they make a lot of mess and we need to maintain our house to a clean and good level

[@thereseward7852]

Absolutely!

[@whatswrongwithpeople-xq2uk]

Makes me realise just how well behaved my boys are lol and they have there moments

[@desertgirl3374]

Hitting your child does 1 of 2 things: 1.) can make them think violence is ok and subject them to being victims of abusive partners and friends 2.) Makes them think violence is ok and they are violent to self and others.

[@Anna-di8le]

Some people just shouldn't have kids.

[@aishlingwall9823]

I'm never having kids

[@purple1017]

Aww heck no I was a single mum of 4 no way any of mine would have been aloud to run circles around me my no was my no I backed up punishment given these kids know their parents are easy to get away with they instead of standing firm would give up boom kid winz

[@mollyhayes3782]

Exactly my auntie is a single mother of 5 with 3 different fathers and 2 have ADD and ADHD another has autism and ADD and none of them are even on this spectrum of being naughty so parents can't blame ADHD, ADD ect. for bad behaviour, because you prove it, my auntie proves it is bad parenting I prove it I had my son when I was 17 and my sons dad died in a car accident when I was 18 my son has ADHD and ADD and he is good as gold sure he has off day like when he's tired or things like that but he has never once hit me or hurt me in any way sure he's made me cry but that's because I care and live him so much, I think any parent has cried at least once

[@henrypickett5934]

Feel sorry for these parents, hope they get the help needed. And thank god my kids were never this bad

[@barneycooperx]

Watching these videos is the best birth control method ever existed

[@kellylewisfischer181]

My heart is absolutely breaking for Angus. All she does is yell at him and gives him zero affection. That poor kid is just dying for some love from his mom. Damn.

[@tinamorey1769]

Boundries & limitations from age one ..thru to death ! You are ALWAYS a parent never their friend . PERIOD

[@TheDaniela3112]

The way Aaron and his little brother fight is absurd. One of them kicked the other in the head! It's crazyp

[@modernskyn]

These parents let these kids behave like this from a very early age. Now they are left with this mess. As a mother of four kids (now, 27, 25, 19, and 17), I started teaching them out of the womb. Kids naturally want to please their parents. This is a train wreck 🤦🏻‍♀️and the parents are doing no justice by rewarding bad behavior

[@I_am_Ravenclaw]

That's why I don't have kids. Not sure I could cope

[@ivonned32]

Is very admirable when someone admits her limitations. You are not alone. The children are definitely not at fault. It takes a deep desired to raise your child and do the life style with joy otherwise why even pretend to want to try to be a parent? If more people were honest as you. We would not have over population problems.

[@sweetdelight723]

Most kids are not like this

[@chloesaddington3431]

Ik it looks bad. Its not the children its how they have been brought up

[@TranceGurl20]

Glad I got my tubes tide up, I dodged a bullet ma dudes.

[@PixelEditedEgg]

When I was younger my Mum wouldn't crumble under a tantrum, she also didn't swear at me or my sisters. It's not helping that Cameron is getting rewards for harassing his Mum.

[@AmusedChild]

Chaotic parents have chaotic children. These kids were given no boundaries, discipline, or chores. (Kids raised to do regular chores are the happiest kids I've seen.)

[@pottsy7490]

There is nothing wrong with the children, it's the bad routines and slack parenting that is to blame.... Shouting, slapping and lazy discipline from the parents results in their kids reacting in the same way...

[@bl6797]

She’s rewarding the boys bad behavior! Buying him chocolate after his temper tantrum!

[@andressahoese7735]

I feel so sorry for the siblings who behave well and get totally neglected

[@dominewimbury2039]

12:00 ooh Kieran kicked him straight in the face! That had to bloody hurt

[@dani_huni7022]

And the parents response was nil im completely disgusted watching that behaviour by the parents

[@elliegoldie6140]

That was awful 2 year old kicking another in face and mum and dad say nothing,children should be in bed at night this sleeping on couch no way,l wonder how these children are now as l saw this a while ago,

[@dominewimbury2039]

@@elliegoldie6140 Kieran went missing from home earlier this year aged 16. Thankfully he was found safe and well a few weeks later. So this is around 14/15 years ago

[@lk1590]

It’s a constant confrontation. The parents would drive me mad! Can’t imagine what it must be like to grow up with these people.

[@lucykirk1909]

angus's mum is a joke

[@moobag587]

Lucy Kirk they’re all a joke!

[@sandrafinbar]

Lucy kirk I feel sorry for her doing it on her own and she works. She doesn't stay home being lazy and expecting the government to pay for herself and her child.

[@SoulKhepri]

The spin elbow-kick at 4:23 sennnttt me loooool

[@jessbremner8781]

“jesus CHRIST Angus “

[@richardbenitez7803]

I’ve always wondered if some of these aggressive boys, action types, would relate to martial arts teams where you get a combination of physical workout, but direction and a sense of wonder that boys seem to thrive on. In this case, this kid is very young. But, there must be some sort organized activity that specialize in young kids.

[@suey8227]

The parents are the cause - bad parenting - giving in all the time - rewarding bad behaviour - of course the kids are going to act like that. Saying no and meaning no is the key here

[@bass13mary]

I had a horrible brat who’s mother bought him toys everyday. He was a bully and an only child. His mother made every excuse for his consistently poor behavior towards others. But Jeremiah was special. Even the parents dislike him. His mother was always at the school.

[@emmaj1384]

“Why can’t children be like dogs?” But they ARE like dogs, you just have to train them right

[@skinsciencebymira]

I swear everytime.... “we just don’t know why they’re like this! We don’t know what to do” but then they’re lazy, uninvolved parents that aren’t loving, don’t lead by example, and don’t have firm boundaries that they enforce with consistent logical consequences.

[@lspbeautea4791]

In all honesty I reckon around 1/2 of kids diagnosed with ADHD don’t have it. A stern voice and follow ups on warning ⚠️ is needed. Repeat until results happen . Award good behaviour and don’t react with bad. Naughty steps and bed time stories work. Bad behaviour = no bed time story ... come bed time stick to your guns... next day if they start to play up warn them about not getting that story and see how they can and most likely will change their behaviour. It’s could be a trip to the park/day out/game activities... I found the bed time one worked best for me. Always fallow up the warning . If you say X and they push you make sure you deliver what you had warned would happen. That’s where I feel people can go wrong and I’m my experience what worked best.

[@desertriase1530]

“I’m not a weirdo” 😞😞 Broke my heart

[@alexiab3880]

One big and important thing my mother told me once is That our children are a reflection of ones parents And this has been something I have lived by since she told me that I now have a beautiful well behaved 2 1/2 old little boy I truly love being a mother The guidance and care in his world

[@roccohayabusa9701]

Vasectomy booked

[@luvbeinghiswife1148]

My husband had one years ago, best decision we ever made. We love our quiet, child free life!

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

These spoiled children have no boundaries and use manipulation to get their own way, and the parents are inconsistent. The language from the parents is unbelievable.

[@jejewh683]

Wow! Teaching your kid it isn't okay to hit by hitting him...... mind-blowing!

[@superdupersnowflake]

I feel so sorry for these parents . These children are a nightmare. You care and love these children that you carry in your body for 9 months only fir them to treat you as if you are their enemy, they abuse you, break your heart , and torture you every day. I really have such empathy for these parents . You parents do not deserve this daily abuse, and torture. I pray that one day you will have a peaceful life ❤

[@laura-tx3rk]

jesus christ angus!!!!😂😂😂

[@rabidrabbitshuggers]

Parents with out of control children remind me of people who eat their way to morbid obesity: they both claim they have no idea how they got to where they are, but they have total control of the situation and always have had that control. It’s so frustrating.

[@recency_bias]

rabid rabbitshuggers I don’t claim I have no idea how I got to morbid obesity, it’s just that day in day out each bad choice seems so small, each individual chocolate bar is like what 200kcal, it doesn’t seem like a big deal, until it’s the end of the week and I’ve eaten 3000kcal a day.

[@pba1219a]

I cannot even begin to imagine my son raising his hand to me. Ever. He has way too much respect for his dad and I. This is just beyond me.

[@KateH296]

If your kid sucks, it's your fault. I'm sick of people acting like they can't do anything about their kids like they had no part in forming them. Grow some balls and accept responsibility for what you've made.

[@sasha5294]

*truly grateful for my birth control*

[@douglasransom4138]

And this is the reason I'm never having children.

[@aishlingwall9823]

Same here you're not alone

[@luvbeinghiswife1148]

Same, there are alot of us

[@SolvingYourProblemRightNow]

Parent: bleep... bleepdebleepbleeep!! Child: 🖕off! Parent: how can I stop my child swearing all the time? Me: 🤦

[@uuesgirl]

Just because you CAN have kids, doesn't mean you SHOULD have kids.