RED FLAGS When DATING THAI GIRLS!!

Dating in Thailand? You want to meet a Thai Girl, but not sure what to look for? In today's vlog, I am in Bangkok's Soi Cowboy, before taking a trip along Sukhumvit Road to Nana Soi 4 where the infamous Nana Plaza is located! I share with you my red flags to look out for when wanting to enjoy dating here. Thailand Nightlife is amazing and it's definitely tempting to head to Walking Street in Pattaya in search of love, but is that the right choice?
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[@areyouexp4]

so many red flags bar girls have - disappear and go phone silent for days and or weeks and than say battery died or phone breaks - you go to meet her and she isnt there and mamsan or other girls say she just go to get something to eat she be back in one hour 555 - 2 phones - says she is going " back home ' for a week - or the temple for a week and no phones allowed - you can just never get to a spot where you can trust them and temptation is everywhere - you will never know the truth and eat yourself up trying to find out

[@keisone]

Oh yeah!!! The phone died, I meant to talk about that but forgot!! No girls phone ever dies in Thailand, everyone has a powerbank and every restaurant, bar, cafe, whatever has phone chargers. Thai girls phones NEVER die haha

[@MarkSmith455]

Why are you eating yourself up to find out - Just move on, as you already said temptation everywhere 😂

[@redlightron]

​@@keisonemy ATM hab sikh buffalo 🏧🦬🏧🦬🏧

[@joegiccominato7402]

Yes going to the Temple and the phone is not allowed to be on. 🚩

[@areyouexp4]

@@joegiccominato7402 thats untrue they can use phone at temple in thier room or step away from temple grounds

[@johnmellyn2700]

What it all boils down to , from where I’m concerned … is just never get in a relationship period ,… it’s much cheaper and less stressful to rent instead of buy !

[@SoloDoloTravel]

💯 FWB only! It’s not disrespectful, as long as you are up front and don’t mislead one another. This is especially important if you are focused on making money, and setting up your future. Woman are distractions. Stay focused fellas. @keis. Treat her like a star and she will treat you like a fan

[@jkow814]

Yes, but when your in thaialnd, it's good to be friends with some locals that speak English, they can help you a lot and show you the good spots, and if that means me spending $20USD on them for taking me out and showing me a good night, it's well worth it, especially because I spend more money on my guy friends when we go out.

[@tmb3131]

true that! I always have a Thai wingman@@jkow814

[@RobFomenko]

​@@jkow814 Agreed.

[@harleyrngr]

I ignored the red flags with my Thai ex-wife for to long but finally opened my eyes and divorced her a year ago. There's a lot of good woman here in Thailand but you do have to be careful and when money is talked about learn how to say no!!! Another piece of advise, only date Thai women that have a real daytime job lol

[@Ansonsjourney]

I agree, stay away from bar areas unless you just want some fun, date girls with good jobs,date girls that won't expect money and have a willingness to contribute even if it is just a little ,and yes if they drop off for to long there might be something going on, if your not the man the eventually someone else will be especially if you drop out to long.

[@Ansonsjourney]

I agree, stay away from bar areas unless you just want some fun, date girls with good jobs,date girls that won't expect money and have a willingness to contribute even if it is just a little ,and yes if they drop off for to long there might be something going on, if your not the man the eventually someone else will be especially if you drop out to long.

[@Ansonsjourney]

I agree, stay away from bar areas unless you just want some fun, date girls with good jobs,date girls that won't expect money and have a willingness to contribute even if it is just a little ,and yes if they drop off for to long there might be something going on, if your not the man the eventually someone else will be especially if you drop out to long.

[@ponderwithdave]

I agree, stay away from bar areas unless you just want some fun, date girls with good jobs,date girls that won't expect money and have a willingness to contribute even if it is just a little ,and yes if they drop off for to long there might be something going on, if your not the man the eventually someone else will be especially if you drop out to long.

[@giannilyanicks1718]

no the good ones are rare to be seen in thailand like many countries

[@hectorjones5780]

If you meet her in a bar in Pattaya, it is a giant red flag already. But seriously, more red flags if all her friends or sisters are in the 'entertainment' industry. If she 'loves you' within days of meeting you, if she sleeps with you the first night you meet her, if she speaks very good English but claims to only be in Pattaya for two weeks. If she has multiple tattoos (most respectable Thai girls don't have any ), if she drinks a lot but does not get drunk, if she gambles, if she is constantly checking her messages, if she goes to the restroom or outside to answer messages of phone calls, If she knows all the discos in Pataya, I could write a book on all the red flags...

[@wanglee21]

Yes the speaking good English is a real Red Flag! Most of the one's I've met who do, have babies with foreigners or have been tossed around with many western men.

[@pistenbroke4933]

Yeah a touchy subject that one Adam ,I have this to add: - (Golden Rule ) Don't take a girl out of the entertainment industry in Thailand and make her your girlfriend .( stick to the one day rule) - Don't date a massage lady either .They work crazy hours and will have no time for you ! - Harden up when your there .If it looks dicey , cut things off and move on . - Don't ruin your holiday by getting emotional over a woman ! - Listen to the Expats they have a wealth of knowledge !

[@brookhilton9136]

In layman terms, Date Thai Women who are in the middle class and above

[@johntaylor3940]

true you cant take the bar out the girl

[@colonelfustercluck486]

yep..... a nice woman who actually has a qualification and job and makes her own money..... not a crazy one. Two guys I used to work with spent time in Kuala Lumpa and got to know a couple of young ladies, who were friendly and pleasant to be with....so one thing led to another and they got to know each other. These ladies had credit cards in their own names, given to them for their own personal use, by their sponsors/boyfriends..... who were back home in USA at the time. The women bought alcohol and accommodated the male friends of mine who spent a few weeks with these ladies. They had to leave a few days before the boyfriends arrived in town. And when the boyfriends finally left, the ladies called them, and it was all on again. That's tough work if you can get it...... f^*ked to within an inch of your life and someone else is paying for your beers and food !!!! YOu just have to move over when the guy who sponsored the credit card comes to town.... (hi five !!! Wass up dude??) @@brookhilton9136

[@wanglee21]

@@colonelfustercluck486 I was at a coffee and I over heard 6 Thai women with sponsors and husband trying to get in the pants of one White dude. I told myself, "don't commit to these Thai women, just have fun with them. You can't trust them." It's kind of funny how they use White men like this! lol

[@ronnana694]

The massage ladies also work something else...

[@michaelcrawford2726]

The best test I've found for dating with a Thai girl is just have one fight or argument with her and see if she treats you any different. If she puts in effort afterwards she could be a keeper if she's distant or rude I would move on. Relationship is work and if both sides aren't able to work together it will never last.

[@johnnybgood3909]

that can cause death

[@andrenomaderaiz]

Relationship is work on those problem you wouldn’t have if you were single 🤣🤣

[@giannilyanicks1718]

the rude and distant girls are the most common

[@winnerwinnerchickendinner8809]

Good luck with that testing experiences

[@johntaylor3940]

GET RID OF A MOODY THAI THEY NOT SANE

[@toddsellars4694]

Another excellent video Keis👍Good information and well stated. Keep up the good work 👍

[@eatthailand6479]

If you really want a good Thai girl, chances are you won't find one that's hanging around tourist areas. You'll have to venture outside of the bar towns. And YES, there are many really good women in Thailand who know how to take care of and respect a man.

[@michaelh878]

Online or in bars in the non- tourist areas.

[@johntaylor3940]

true i live in the gem city ,Chanthaburi

[@AreeyaKKC]

​@jerryevert644rice farms outside Nakhon Ratchasima.

[@Ramon_92]

Ive been to Thailand about 4 x now and ive dated different types of woman its easy to say that finding a real woman outside of the bars and massage parlors is alot better for you on the long term This is because the girls that you find mainly in the nightlife areas and massage parlors are focust on 1 thing and 1 thing only *MONEY* they might pretend they like you at first but once you get to know them better you quikly find out that all she wants to do is either go to the bars with you (and give her lady drinks) or just go shopping . Its possible to find the rare gem that just wants to hang out regardless of what youre doeing but its hard to find those in all my visits ive had it happen twice which isnt alot to say the least . Also if a thai girl asks you for money or to go shopping note that this is NOT how real thai woman behave a real true thai girl that works and goes to school will never just ask for money and materialistic possesions and that is the type of girl you will be much happier with in the long haul than just a spoilt lady that loves you untill youre wallet is empty .

[@ericg9092]

If I want someone who loves me until my wallet is empty I'll date in the U.S. Lol

[@RobFomenko]

Ah... Cough cough... My ex wives?

[@frog-eye1420]

If she takes a younger lad with her on dates with you and says its her brother then 100% it's her Thai boyfriend.

[@wanglee21]

Working girls call their Pimp's brother, and the Pimp's call the working girl's sister. My friends and I figured that out when this happen to use on different occasions at the bars.

[@AreeyaKKC]

​@@wanglee21brother and sister means close friend to thais. Not just boyfriend or girlfriend

[@RodRockets]

Met mine at MBK shopping mall 13 years ago… we’re same age, still happily together. Been living together in Australia now 6 years and have a happy 3 year old daughter… Own various land holdings and property in Thailand. Counting down to retirement… The 1:100000

[@robertofraser101]

Great stuff mate love your delivery just subscribed

[@michaelshirley4874]

Good advice buddy , i have been to thailand now for 20 years , 16 separate trips , I have had a few relationships over the years ,I have been to the villages in issan a few times , it was an amazing experience to interact with Thai families , yes I have spent a fair amount of money supporting the girl at the time , but I think the life experience is worth it , I am now in a relationship with a genuine Thai lady for 5 year’s , I hope to retire there very soon , keep up your good advice 🙏

[@marksallai2289]

nice one worth the squeeze

[@grigorirasputin425]

Biggest red flag if she says she “hates Thai men”

[@BecdeCorbin-cq8ln]

My Thai wife said the same thing, I have been with her for 14 years now 😂😂

[@grigorirasputin425]

@@BecdeCorbin-cq8ln you won a lottery

[@BecdeCorbin-cq8ln]

@@grigorirasputin425 She has never worked in a bar or anything like that

[@grigorirasputin425]

@@BecdeCorbin-cq8ln ​​⁠good for you man, congratulations! There are good girls there of course it is just that a phrase “I hate Thai men” is bit dumb and used by massage girls and bar girls. You should’ve asked her then “do you hate your father?”

[@deantibbz5715]

I was sat in a bar in Pattaya once, got chatting to this western guy and his thai girlfriend...a few hours went by she asked for my instagram...whilst most of the night he was trying to convince me that she was genuine and not like the others, all this time she was sending me nudes of herself and telling me to meet her out back.

[@RichyHH]

did you show the guy what she was sending you ? i hope you did because hes gonna get done over later on in life

[@thomas25082]

Did this really happen lol

[@28pbtkh23]

Un-freaking-believable, if true.

[@deantibbz5715]

@@thomas25082 You've obviously never been to Thailand, if you had then you would know that this is common with 99% of Thai girls.

[@zappas10]

I’m an Expat in Thailand for almost 4 years now, and the problem is not just with girly bars. Even with women who have a job here, they all consider foreigners to be wealthy and are constantly looking for financial handouts or gifts. It’s extremely hard to make an authentic connection with a Thai woman, partly because of the language and the wide cultural differences. But mostly because they only seem to have money on their mind, rather than love in their heart, so the true romance of relationships is almost impossible to find here.

[@jamesinbangkok]

So learn the language. If you come across as only being able to offer money to a woman in Thailand, that's all she'll see in you. Be more interesting to her and learn her language to a decent level. I found that once I got to a good level in both speaking/reading Thai, the attention you get from girls when you're dating them is 100x higher than when you can't speak Thai.

[@johnnybgood3909]

the only connection you want with a woman is wet

[@Obeliskz87]

There is no "true romance of relationships in the west ". What era are you living in?

[@motivacao-fire]

I believe all over the world be like that, pal. Specially third world countries.

[@GregoryGreg-db1gt]

maybe u just have none else to offer

[@user-mq7rn7iy8s]

Brother l follow you since july 2021 You had 2000 subs We met in sumhumvit 33 in December I saw you and just pointed „KEIS“ Skinny short guy with buzzcut. You were so confused cause you didn’t know me but l know you from the videos😅 I missed my flight that day and went to soi 33 bunped into you Life is funny like that I see how your editing and natural speaking behind the camera have improved so much ! You deserve the subs you have Mad respect

[@dannymeconi2931]

In all honesty and with my wealth of experience (been to Thailand once for the first time about a month ago) as long as you don’t have to buy them a house it’s cheap 😂 I’ve lost 3 houses to Western women so far and I’m only 52. 😂

[@misterbanshee7992]

Your a champion for surviving through that lol

[@marksallai2289]

just enjoy the game and be the boss and have lots of fun

[@changechange9972]

Great channel! I try to watch every video. Keep it up!

[@PeRcH72]

Thanks for another nice video!

[@user-cj4gt6yw2k]

Everything what you said is true. My perspective is as a visitor but this applies to anywhere. I laughed at the 2 phones issue because when I finally visit TH and VN, I plan to have my regular phone and buy a cheap phone in BKK to use for contact with whatever girls I meet. Ditch that phone upon leaving. Also my thinking is never repeat with any girl so you don't get to know her, because the concept of abundance is on your side. Good topic and vid.

[@JAMESBOND69able]

Great advice, love your work 👏.

[@Riccardo-lagz]

As always Adam you have wise words my friend and your vlogs are always interesting keep up the great work. Had a beer during the weekend with Sam absoulte legend.

[@boeasy3015]

I met a girl on line, over the covid period, and was convinced she was the one (yes very naive) she worked in massage, so I thought she was different to “bar girls”.. long story short, red flags popping up everywhere but I chose to ignore them until I actually met her in person and than suddenly it dawned on me, my missed calls, only for her to call back from toilets or very short, “yung Mak” I’ll call later, the suggestive social media posts with her highlighting certain guys comments , the red light list goes on.. they were all there.. I eventually confronted her about other “boyfriends “ she denied this but than her social media posts got sloppy and had imaginary of her and other blokes, I confronted her again with proof and she admitted “of course I have other boyfriends, how do you think I survive” ..that was (finally 😆) enough for me and I said I’m out.. she just said “ok” not angry , nothing, I was just another number & she obviously had others… for the record , yes I did send her money, yes I am stupid, but yes I have learnt my lesson 😆😆

[@keisone]

Covid was an interesting time, with all the bars and massage places closed I met a lot of people that “don’t work in bars” yet when the bars opened up, they suddenly thought they would try it out haha.. usually the pro’s have at least 2-3 of these red flags anyway so it’s easy to spot

[@fernandostudebaker5861]

you thought she was the one before you even met her? lmao. wow you are a sucker

[@traderken7923]

Don't you have others too mate? I mean that's how the game is play... just find yourself one that like other grl too and you will be set :D

[@28pbtkh23]

We can all respect a man who has confessed the error of his ways. 👍 Her coolness when she ended it is very telling. You represented so many baht per month, and that was it.

[@gregbrown81]

I hope so it was pretty bloody obvious

[@allangreenley9901]

Great video good information.. Good facts to take onboard , the warning signs must always be looking for a red flag 👌👌☺

[@drewcorry5056]

Absolutely Loved Every Minute

[@longdatedoptionsleaps6112]

Hanging out and having fun with a Soi cowboy gal is 👍👍👍👍👍. Just don’t expect to “change” her. I’ve had tones and tones of great night outs and Soi cowboy and the gals always figured into it

[@emptyemptiness8372]

Red flags - bar girl Massage girl Gogo girl Freelancer Never went further than year 9 at school, from poor village and has good english From isaan and is good at pool Calls you tirak on the first day Expects a salary Is more than 10 years younger and is cool with it You met in Pattaya phuket or pat phong. There are great wonderful loyal women here...just not in bars....they are educated, have jobs, contribute to relationships and are totally normal , they are also around the same age as you, have similar interests and actually like you not your bank account.

[@chichangwu]

i have heard stories about girls that just do this for a short time, and after that they get rotated out by new girls, so they return to their normal job after they make a good sum, some are pressured by their own parents, as i understand most of them funnel their earnings to their family, i have been there a short while ago and its actually quite sad to see, i noticed the first time when i left my hotel or wanting to enter my hotel i needed to get past a massage shop, i passed it maybe 60 times in a couple of days and not once they forgot to ask me to come in, so at my last day i got a feet massage there😂

[@leozadda]

Is good at pool 😂 true

[@user-ck6sd3el7i]

Isan girl

[@schrodingerscat3912]

dude fr bargirls are savages at pool. I walked out of there lookin like a clown after one game

[@marksallai2289]

but the top 4 red flags are the most fun times

[@Steve_77777]

Been in and out of Thailand for the last 20 years, its the same anywhere, its all about how good are at qualifying people, and the connection

[@keisone]

Exactly mate! Look for the signs 😊

[@johnnybgood3909]

in and out? crikey

[@kennetharntson5912]

One of the main warning signs with a Thai girl you meet on the streets or a bar is how well she speaks and understands English. If she understands and speaks it well she is probably far smarter than you. She has been in the business a long time and knows all the tricks and more than likely has many men all over the world that come to Thailand often and spend their time with her. Also keep in mind that many of these girls in the business have had many customers that saved money for years to have a 2 week holiday in Thailand and many will keep the girl he met the first night while he was in Thailand and during that 2 week holiday he showered the girl with gifts gave her cash, took her out to good restaurants, dancing, drinking, and shopping. If you think she is going to give that up to spend her life with you in a one bedroom apartment cooking, cleaning and waiting on you think again.

[@traderken7923]

So the takeaway is to learn Thai or meet a Cambodian to teach her English - got it! bad apples everywhere man.

[@paullowe2682]

Great info , thanks so much

[@marsfuture]

All sound and realistic advice, and delivered with a friendly and well-meaning attitude. Great vid as always!

[@snozzlehead92]

My Thai gf is a teacher and is aware of the stigma/reputation of Thai girls asking foreign boyfriends for money, so she never asks for it and, in fact, turns money down if it's ever offered. Even if she really does need it!

[@johnnybgood3909]

where does she live

[@andalan321]

Just playing the long game

[@snozzlehead92]

@@johnnybgood3909 Saraburi.

[@ollelindskog4531]

​@@johnnybgood3909No problem. I have her Line. We met online a few years ago and I tried to help her during the pandemic. She almost starved to death before she aceepted any money. She has NEVER asked for one sigle Baht.

[@Nordic_Sky]

Exact same with my gf who works in a hospital. They do exist!

[@matthewfriedewald8551]

so many red flags every time, and I never see them. you made a good list brother, thank you... safe journey

[@tjmctube]

Busstop! One of my favorite places on Soi 4. Inexpensive, no loud crowds or music. I like to sit on one of those hightop chairs facing the street and watch the craziness of Soi 4 pass me by.

[@theoldmaninthailand]

Nice hat. Raiders!! I’m watching them right now vs Rams preseason back in Cali

[@rona8663]

Great video and advise and I love your hat. Go Raidersssss !!!!!!!

[@danielyee1423]

Good advice and common sense approach to relationships with SE asian ladies. Always a good idea to step back and think with the big head and not the little one.👍

[@Scruffers2011]

In Thailand right now.. I have traveled to various places (Pattaya, Chiang Mai, Khon Kaen, Phuket)... I don't go to bars. It's still difficult to find a Thai girl who isn't comparing you to some imagined rich standard or to stories about their friends with rich foreigners. I like Thailand but I'm beginning to think that a Philippine girl living with me in Thailand would be better than a Thai girl.

[@user-dy2qq5wh4b]

I know a few men who are doing this in CM and say its the way to go; they speak english, and re way more into committed longterm traditional christian/ catholic values. It seems to work better, but the marriage/ visa thing can be a challenge for them.

[@kingsatyrx]

I always try to impress upon Thai ladies that most of the farang they see there on holiday have to save one or two years just to come there and that prices are much higher in the west. I also remind them that there is a difference between partnership and sponsorship.

[@666Counterforce]

I always enjoy hanging out at soi cowboy - usually at the Oasis bar, watching people and girls

[@BruceReign]

Your vlog style is on super saiyin level. Good stuff.

[@martymar9311]

Thanks for this information 🎥

[@johnnybgood3909]

I recently started dating a bar girl from soi 6. Yesterday she asked for money as her mum was dying. I said to let her die.

[@tonys8448]

😂😂😂

[@KingBrew187]

Hahaha

[@harryhunter114]

It's usually the Bufflo that gets sick first.

[@emptyemptiness8372]

​@@harryhunter114the last 3 yrs it's been mum in hospital, they even have stock photos of a sick mum in a thai hospital to show you.....I figured this out when 3 girls in 3 different villages had the same sick mum in the same bed in the same room but in 3 different hospitals.

[@keisone]

Best thing to say is act really concerned then say “let’s go there today to see her” tell her you will book a car or flight to get there to see her in hospital, check the reaction

[@AdrianRamirez-fc8wu]

I appreciate you. I need to go visit and use your feedback on lifestyles.

[@mickmarkwick2263]

Nice video you are 100% right...

[@SO-lh5ey]

I make it very very clear I'm here on holiday and probably never see each other again and make it very clear I've been to Thailand over 25 times so I know your Games!! Most are pretty cool about it 🙏🏻🤣

[@GoneAdrift]

The info contained within is pure gold 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻

[@tylerdurden7288]

Love the comments, keep em coming! Good reads boyyyss

[@daviddavis7555]

A lot of tattoo’s is a red flag for me

[@rona8663]

Great video and love your hat.. Go Raiders!!!!!!!!

[@PREPFORIT]

A very informative/Good reminder Video. I would say If you are In Pattaya , Bangkok etc for a week or a month only then Enjoy the Lust. Once you have moved to Thailand then have super fun and get it out of your system then find Love far away from The bars !

[@keisone]

Exactly man! Nailed it!

[@diamondd5027]

I stick to my "good time not a long time" rule and there's never a problem. 🤷‍♂️🤣

[@jaronmartin5758]

Just enjoy the beers mate. Sounds about right on such a beautiful day.

[@JasonRuppVlog]

Fam, these are damn good tips.

[@brianstreet7377]

Spot on mate 👌

[@Jason-zh7wo]

Good advice ! lesson learnt the hard way but with massage girls 😂😂 i went to Thailand in 2016 for the 1st time, i researched on the web before i went but not youtube back then, i still wasnt prepared 😂😂 all the advice goes out the window when you meet the cutest girl

[@darrylknight2675]

So very true. It happened to me and I am old and experienced but sometimes you just fall for her and the red flags get ignored.

[@keisone]

That’s always how it goes, you look past the obvious.. We all do it haha

[@marksallai2289]

but why a wife or a girlfriend just have fun what I do

[@darrenbretherton7298]

Took me 13 years to find a good one. Don't get me wrong I had a lot of fun in those 13 years and met some beautiful people and I'm still in contact with some of them and as you said they are living the jet set lifestyle. One particular girl had 5 sponsor's on the go at the same time. Been with my girlfriend nearly 5 years now and when she gives me earache about other ladies I say to her well I've tried the rest already and you are the best so shut up.

[@bradrothberg5863]

well done Keis

[@stlev99]

Rose is one in a million. L the best to your mother, Dave a d especially you so smart, so resilient and positive. Take care

[@Wilko11]

Sound advice 👍

[@tthiakos]

I thought of an idea for one of your videos. There are some off road motorcycle tour companies around Pattaya, you should go try one.

[@LukeBaillie]

Luke from Chengdu here 🤘🏼 You said it correct at end there homie, use your brain and not your heart!

[@BOYCI3]

I've found that applying the 3-day rule works well when in Thailand. If things extend beyond that timeframe, I tend to reconsider the connection. In cases where there's genuine interest, she often takes the initiative to seek you out, and she might even go the extra mile to meet up, even if you happen to be at a different bar.

[@markfromct2]

Keis. Good advice. Best was when you said about which body part runs your life: Brain, Heart, Knob As long as you know which part is making decisions, you will do OK My second comment is to all westerners who are serious about Thailand please read this is: Study the culture and family traditions.

[@Leeside999]

The girls who get crazy on drink is a sure sign of trouble ahead also. Run for the hills!

[@keisone]

Haha I’d be doing a lot of running here 🤣

[@PhoneNHe]

As a Thai person, I can approve his insights. Valuable content to spot the red flags. Well done delivered in an informative way. Don't let her beauty or kindness blurr your mind and your groin dictates your reality. You can get those women out of the bar, but you will never get the bar out of the women. Thank you.

[@mitchie2267]

Bro, if you are actually Thai, why would you like a gross sexpat like this?

[@kozmo930]

Keep repping the 'Raider Nation' your wearing it well!!

[@keisone]

Cheers man! I went to a raiders game when I was in the US 😊

[@bgt828]

Very true. If you see them travelling to Dubai or Macau. Then they might be out of your league and not ready to settle. Also Instagram photos of the girl in business class. Well, she most likely didn’t pay for that ticket herself. Great video!!! 😎

[@chandlerbingbong]

Yes. We've all heard of the Dubai Porta Potty saga.

[@robertowilco7422]

Good advice champ .

[@keisone]

Thanks bro!

[@fab5749]

The sick buffalo story is the funniest red flag... and it happens more than we think

[@markrenton5791]

poor buffalo😂😂

[@kingsatyrx]

That is such a notorious classic it's hard to believe that that actually works any longer...think they even used to have a bar on Soi Bukawo in Pattaya named "sick buffalo" lol

[@ThailandBeyondTourism]

I have been living and visited thailand since 1999, but I think you understand thai relationship and thai girls games very well , better than most youtubers ,,, may i ask how Long ( let's say number of days total) ? i am impressed with few things that you said 🤔👍

[@ThailandBeyondTourism]

Some people pick up things really fast i guess

[@wefrazzini]

Good information, I think you are right about not getting into the wrong relationship blindly. I would like another video on how you get out of the wrong relationship with the Thai girl once you realize their red flags appearing. Enjoy it all.

[@johnnybgood3909]

tell them your mother died and you need money

[@jonasdahl2394]

Say "No" ?? lol

[@TheRealDermatologist]

50 ways to leave your lover.. just hop out the back , jaCK, MAKE A NEW PLAN STAN.. GET A NEW KEY, LEE.. AND GET YOURSELF.. FREE..

[@bijanbayne3259]

I'll be back there Sept 9. Never went to a beer bar (been f/ one month April/May and one month june/July- Bangkok, Hua Hin, Jomtien and Pattaya). I don't drink or have time. I do date Thai girls, but didn't meet them in bars

[@vexed008]

Bro I’ve been there no fkn question! I wish I knew about yuh then coulda kicked it! I wanna come back. I will come back. Spent all my time in Pattaya. However I knew Bangkok was it! Ur covering all the things, keep it up! Spitting facts!

[@jefflopez4087]

yo keis im going to BK next week would love to grab a beer. is that possible?

[@winnerwinnerchickendinner8809]

What's diff where they are and what countries they located? They are all unknown not just in Thailand

[@mikelee7972]

just remember long term = long time!!!! costs more in the end...........hahahahahh great video

[@jackdobson1992]

In Thailand....when Money goes out the door.....Love goes out the window. 😫🙃🤦‍♂️🇹🇭

[@DaBooster]

Nice Raiders cap !

[@josegoncalves8521]

Spot on . 👍

[@kamika-zz6192]

Honestly very good advice, I have been to Thailand several times and am going back again at the end of this year. I would avoid to give money for the company or a sexy time in Thailand, It messes with your head. Thailand is allready fantastic for regular dating.

[@rzadigi]

What’s the best way to meet them?🙏

[@S2KDAN101]

best thing I've heard in this video.. "listen to your head and not your heart"

[@ingwisingwis8336]

Anyone who has been socialized in Western culture must accept that different social rules apply in Thailand, especially in the relationship between men and women. If you can accept that, you may have the best time of your life. Everyone else should stay at home and look around there.

[@johnsmith-fk7fw]

in my experience, westerners dating girls from asia / S america usually get chewed up, they are too weak and emotional to deal with a lot of the tests girls from there will give you, and end up getting walked over

[@maegalroammis6020]

that's kinda rude.

[@mikkenieminen9603]

different social rulez are many times individual

[@alanjohn9789]

​@@maegalroammis6020not rude just TRUE

[@mickyLat3652]

Spoken like a true seasoned vet. There are plenty of good ones (away from bar/massage/social places) but 1 problem I often see that I thought I would mention is that the guy gets infatuated with a girl (for good reason) but gives in to her every wish & forgets that he is the man & is allowed to say no. When the man isn't a man/leader, the woman doesn't gain any respect for that person - it's human nature. Saying no sometimes from the beginning is a great test too which will quickly determine her intentions. It's not the only test but I found it to be a good one. Cheers

[@fluke1464]

Bar girls are the best. They always have friends and happy to share most of the times

[@wills9732]

I am considered about the friends that live in her vertical smile.

[@Willsilverun32]

A story for you, German guy he is 73 she 48, been meeting her twice a year for three years, going to get married, she wanted gold dowry this and that so he was about to part with thirty thousand quid , gold, wedding, etc. He went to a coffee shop on beach road she went shopping in central plaza , he got a text message , wasn't meant for him she had another guy on go Korean guy big fat and ugly , any way he knew the message wasn't him but it aroused his suspicion, so bought a spy cam in the form of a lighter , it looked just like a lighter , so he let record while they were in bed he fell asleep and she was chatting her ( uncle) in bkk. When replayed the video from the spycam lighter, she had loads of men lining up to giz on her face, don't know what the site was called , he said hundreds of men with the todgers out ,then she would press the screen and his cam came on . He packed up and left immediately, a couple of hours later he would have been thirty thousand pounds out of pocket, what a lucky escape he had. Don't know what this like 3d porn site was. Never ever send a Thai girl money.

[@user-uj7js5sm6t]

I am in my early 30's with mid level SMV. I would like to think you can find true love in Thailand but realistically speaking I am not sure it will happen. Even outside the bar girl scene I am afraid alot of girls in Thailand will not like you for you, they will just see you as a meal ticket even if you are somewhat attractive. In a few months I will go back to Thailand and try my luck again but if that fails I will give either Japan or The Philippines a go. Pay for play does exist there too but many men I have spoken to have told me as long you look presentable and have good intentions then you could easily find a girl that likes you for you.

[@thurstonpowell8687]

I have a woman I wanted to marry but the pattern of saying "You need to", "You should" really is a deal breaker, especially when the non-stop critique of my personality. I'm suspecting this women has a son who has abandoned three of his genetic children, divorced his first wife, left his second and third girlfriends both with his babies, now living with a 4th girlfriend and a kid not his, and my girlfriend likely supporting these abandoned children with cash I gave her. While I feel for the children with no father present its hard to accept minute to minute criticism throughout my day from a woman who bears no shame for the son she raised like this. I shouldn't be proud to remain single and childless but I'm happiest alone.

[@tinacollins9213]

You will find love when you stop looking for it

[@jamaleats]

I got the Dubai one followed by the Sick parent Scam tried on me by the same person in Phuket, Lucky I had Expat friends that smartened me up

[@lightchaser2k6]

I agree on all the 3 flags u highlighted, except the last flag. 1. Being the obvious; and most experienced party guys would say - fuck n dump. 2. 2 phones or more; yea u are right on it but how fast depends cos sometimes Thailand signal sux, esp some people don't immediately reply but are genuinely decent people. This however is a good indicator; most don't afford 2 as it requires efforts to pay or maintain the line and it can be extremely expensive to for them based on their salary range there. The other line is 1000% maintained by their darlings monthly, be it knowingly or not. 3. Traveling alot; a definite yes but u need see the frequency; Do you guys know 90% of the Thai religion is buddhism but they have undercover roles as well? Most of these girls moonlight as call girls overseas in affluent countries like Korea, Japan, Singapore, Malaysia, etc and all these they usually go thru contacts via the buddhist 'monks' who are gangsters leaders etc in actuality. The connection is such that girls like these, usually poor village girls who wanted a better life, approaches monks to pray for better luck and some lament their issues to them. The monks in return for their 'donations', lights up their connecting men with outside residents in that few countries if there's 'demand/vacancies'. Mostly its a go but depending on some people, they usually go to those who can speak English as they earn more, or have higher chances of hooking a long line. 4th flag on not working etc; its subjective as I do know of families with girls who don't work as they have channels of wealth coming in, some legit, most not. And while there are few in non-legit channels, they arent always not the ones not to approach but its not easy as their family generally are very well versed in filtering who they can continue relationship with and mostly are Thais themselves, usually the higher class or caste few. These families often deal in; drugs, illegal money laundering/gambling, trafficking etc and i generally advise caution, particularly obvious farangs, to be very wary of them as u will become one of their possible branch-out connections from Thailand if u do land one. I'd wanna add 3 extra ones are; - one who drinks/smokes frequently; not discriminating smokers but most girls if not all who does, are not the 'go-to' ones as they mostly have connections to places that require them to smoke or bear with the smoke etc and they get into the habit. Some are even drug dependant. Those places in mention are only the night entertainment ones in Thailand. - sales girls; In general, most sales girls look demure but often if not always those who don't earn enough or have extreme wants (like gucci bags, new iphone etc) are the ones who will 100% moonlights and not the go-to type. These are also the few types where the families with 'large connections' will look to for potential 'supplies' to overseas 'demands'. - girls who have kids early; 99% of them usually immediately turn to easy way out to maintain the high cost of taking care of 3~5 mouths in the family. Such girls don't just have themselves to look out for but their parents (who will look after their kids) as well as possible siblings etc. The best few girls to date are mostly girls who have normal families; poor or not, seldom go out of the countries (frequencies like less than 4months to 2 years' or ever, except within Thailand), works normal jobs except sales (sales girls makes 99% part time call girls easily as its usually hard to close any in Thailand without good connections) and best of all, seldom drinks & not smoke.

[@bigtruckdriver00000]

Cool 👏👏 thanks

[@schrodingerscat3912]

you can play on the light side and run into a little darkness when money gets involved or you can play on the dark side and run into a little light when feelings get involved

[@user-jk1gz9mv1y]

Sunny here ❤❤❤❤❤from Bangkok ❤❤❤❤❤

[@mikev4542]

More dating videos pls!

[@billynguyen3011]

dude man i wish i saw this before i went to thailand too late for me bro

[@danielhusain7570]

the travel thing was a good point no one ever talks about that!

[@gezeers]

As you say don't let your heart lead you but your mind. I have met my girlfriend on line and now I'm leaving with her and she comes from a very good job ,house and car and i would say that I'm very lucky to hit the jackpot and she has a very small family. I told her from the start that she is number one and I'm her number one and she's happy. I don't have to worry because over 15 months we speak everyday and night i know her movements in Thailand while i was living in the UK. Friends have visited Thailand and she was happy to show them around Bangkok. And i can say that she is hard work in some cases but i then also need to take it easy as we come from to different cultures. So now that I'm living in Bangkok I hope to bump into you Kris one day and buy you a nice cold beer.

[@randomrachael420]

Would be interesting to interview a few Thai girls and ask them the red flags when dating a farang :)

[@rudirude4357]

according to my girlfriend it is a topic discussed at length by them. Heavy drinking I think is a big red flag for them. Not wanting kids would be another.

[@PeaceDub]

@@rudirude4357 Also not like butterfly man

[@Einnod31]

Where do you get your Off White Tees?

[@John54]

Everyone I know who is in full time relationship with Thai girl met her in a restaurant... 😊 Basically it's alright to get played as long as you know your getting played...