Relationships in Crisis in the Philippines/Why Did She Leave Us?

Relationships in Crisis in the Philippines/Why Did She Leave Us?‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ This is my candid chat with my friend Juells, who has found himself raising 3 kids alone in the Philippines after 18 years of marriage.
Juells in the Philippines
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[@assocrec]

great interview, Jules appears to be very transparent but most important a solid dad!

[@ivoted7199]

Seems like the age old cliche': "Don't bring your Filipina back home". This guy seems like a good dude who fell in love with the mountain girl and then she changed. That must have been rough...

[@dumaguetedreaming]

Why? It's worked out great for our family.

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

This video just sucked me in, Jules seems like such a nice man. A really good family man, the world needs more guys like him

[@happylohomestead6323]

I told my Filipina wife several times during our marriage of 27 yes she decides to leave there is no coming back because I will have moved on and would not think of her again. Some might think I am hard but I do not deal with things like this. Still married and living in Philippines in the province where live moves at a slower pace and less stress.

[@darylhunt9070]

I am a single dad with kids full time feel for this guy. At least his kids are older. Not all women are great and a lot are selfish and self entitled and want no responsibility

[@sandy-quimsrus]

Good on you for doing the right thing.

[@youtubehandle-]

Seems there is more to this story, wish them all the best. ❤

[@plantworks100]

Hey Paul my dear friend, what an awesome video brother! I have nothing but total respect for this gentleman and how he raised his children. And I really loved how he never bashed his wife, and he even defended her in some of her decisions. I wish nothing but the best for this beautiful family. May God bless them always. Thank you Paul my dear friend for sharing this awesome video. Please stay safe and healthy, and God bless you, Baby Mae, Riza, Jennifer, and your cute little dog.😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 😊 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@intuitivesean443]

Yep NEVER bring them too America

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

I would argue that point. We have a wonderful marriage and travel back and forth. Our son when he reaches college, we will continue, the Philippines will only be 7 or 8 months a year, our hearts are with our children in America

[@AidaJof]

Hi Paul, Wow - this is a great video. Jules is in a great & healthy place emotionally. He seems to have a great relantionship with his children but more importantly towards his wife. His wife is trying to find her legs in terms of reconnecting with herself after years of sacrifice; she may have had a let down by life in the Philippines but eventually realize that life in the US without those she loves & love her is not worth it. I wish them the best whatever the outcome🙏🙏🙏

[@hawkkim1974]

Love is like a flower. It comes, blossoms, and goes. You don't have to stick to a dead flower since new flower is on the way.

[@psp8788]

Hopefully shes going true a discovery face in her life and will realized how important you and the kids are.If its not the case it will take you a few years to get over it and you will move on, kids are for life , the rest not so sure..Good luck brother , ive been there so i know the pain.

[@RetireandGo]

Thank you for this video. This is a reality and it’s good to talk about it. In any country the search for love and a relationship can go wrong and it’s painful. I hope only the best for this man.

[@michaelcassidy1864]

He seems like a very good person. Id imagine he may be in demand from other Pinays.

[@mitchbarredo3990]

I was expecting my Filipino wife to leave, we had a terrible beginning to our marriage and we almost didn't make it several times. But for some reason she never left, at least not physically. After fifteen years though our end might be near.

[@tinaraphael9783]

Dude seems a cool guy Wifey will come back to her family.

[@oahuguy3918]

He doesn't feel as devastated as you would expect. I guess all is well.

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

I can't imagine how this must feel, such a sad story Paul

[@msd6105]

Great interview and wishing the best to the gentleman who seems like a great dad and person!😊😊

[@gibblespascack1418]

I can see the Lincoln Town car. It would be the right move, if it was available.

[@jspice-kl2wc]

Super great interview, and a never done before topic. Thank you for sharing. 👍👍👍

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@whatyourlifestyle998]

Well I said all t but I say to him. Best of luck. I wish the best for him

[@perry8498]

Paul the counsellor

[@sowhat7472]

Absolutely great dad from what we have been told ❤

[@Tech_Publica]

How many times do these dude need to hear "do not bring your foreign wife to the US" before they finally get it?

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

I married a single mother and the gift of love I receive everday from my stepson is amazing!!!

[@markbrown8793]

Did the same thing bruv the respect is unbelievable would never change a thing living like a king in Australia

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

@@markbrown8793, Amen brother

[@samlolham2327]

The once great America has been heavily contaminated by destructive ideologies and strange new societal norms which have also been spreading to most of the western world. Don't risk it, don't take your Filipina to the West.

[@everyonehasadream]

Well done, Paul. My best to Juells and his family. 🙂

[@Pr3ct]

Never take your Filipina to America.

[@oahuguy3918]

yes, that's the first thing that came to mind.

[@dumaguetedreaming]

Why are you afraid she will find more freedoms and opportunities that the US promises?

[@marriedtoafilipinachannel]

I would argue that point of view, I literally know dozens that have and have wonderful marriages. It's all up to the individuals

[@joeknight3269]

already a subscriber of juells love the guy

[@gunasekaran8309]

good job paul

[@Francesc661]

Did she go back to the US to file divorce? I mean all respect with my question, I am worried about this because my wife and daughter is there in cebu, daughter is citizen of USA, wife wants to come here, she has already wanted to walk 3 times. Because I have not brought her here yet

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

she will be back in December

[@assocrec]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 /with divorce papers? I hope not

[@Richierich2025]

I love Jules man he’s a good good dude real good dude man glad I found his channel 1st channel ever found about the Philippines that turned me onto the Philippines was this channel old dog 🙌🏻👍🏻

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

That's awesome

[@bobbiestephen6021]

I’m wondering what type of Job she has????

[@whatyourlifestyle998]

I was surprised to here that the school was 7 to 5. Here in Tacloban it only half days and serious are home by 3

[@sandy-quimsrus]

Ouch, that's a long marriage to lose, sorry for your troubles. On a side note his accent is like Matthew McConaughey. Remember a lovely story where an interviewer asked him why it's always Mathew, not ever Matt. When he was at kindergarten and his mother was a teacher there a friend grabbed his hand and said, Hey Matt let's go play outside. His Mother/teacher grabbed him by the neck landing him on his butt, said I gave you your name from the Bible, your name is Matthew. He said, yes ma'am and never let anyone call him Matt again. Edit sorry Americans your school system sucks, my Mum sent my brother and sister back to Australia to finish schooling for their last 2 years when we lived in D.C. because our Universities wouldn't reconise the qualifications.

[@nevergiveup-db6fp]

Yup

[@Smiling_mike]

Thanks guys! I sub to both channels, all the best to you both! 🙏

[@Francesc661]

Paul can we meet in august when I come home?

[@Francesc661]

I am coming in to see my wife and daughter

[@suzannahoffman-he3yj]

Paul: It is a shame you don't give people the proper advice. The elephant in the room is that this did not work because he married a 20 yr old, then kept her barefoot and pregnant. Her mind was not even fully matured yet. How could she even know what she wants?? He wanted someone very young, which is great for him, but unfair for everyone else.