A Medical Mistake Changed My Life | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 49 | Season 3

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Relebogile Mabotja

Relebogile Mabotja

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@natashamochitele7988
@natashamochitele7988 2 жыл бұрын
I hope a beast of a lawyer sees this and takes up her case. Medical negligence is a huge thing in SA. I think she has a strong case!
@Das644
@Das644 2 жыл бұрын
And they are very intentional in hiding the mistakes
@zainabinti5170
@zainabinti5170 2 жыл бұрын
Suing the States can be a waste of time. U might win the case,and the States will tell u there is no money to pay u off.
@zoemnguni9729
@zoemnguni9729 2 жыл бұрын
This is called “medical negligence”, let this lady to please please find a medical lawyer and sue the state hospital for this before the 2years pass. Everything she went through from first to start. When these kind of mistakes happens, patient needs to be informed immediately. Sorry to hear what you went thru
@LumkaJwara
@LumkaJwara 2 жыл бұрын
Never stop sharing these stories.. this platform is so important. I hope she does consult just to see whats wrong and before files disappear
@learnwithme322
@learnwithme322 2 жыл бұрын
True...if the files haven't disappeared already.
@regaogetswechuene9591
@regaogetswechuene9591 2 жыл бұрын
Can she please report this to the HPCSA? We honestly can NOT afford this treatment anymore. We can not afford to have more lives destroyed and/or lost. We have to hold these people ACCOUNTABLE. No woman, no one deserves to go through this. I am so sorry you had to go through this Pertunia.
@Yassmiinn.
@Yassmiinn. 2 жыл бұрын
Haven't watched yet but the title alone is a trigger. Almost lost my baby at a public hospital and the memories are so fresh and raw. It's been 15 months and I still can't think about that whole experience without feeling like crying. My baby's alive and well, by God's grace. But those nurses, I have no words for them.
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
Love and light to you and your little one ❤️
@Yassmiinn.
@Yassmiinn. 2 жыл бұрын
@@gamerboy7015 thank you so much 💖
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that babe. Glad you and baby are doing ok
@acceptinglife6491
@acceptinglife6491 2 жыл бұрын
ladies I think we should start considering homebirth
@nobuhlemasombuka3167
@nobuhlemasombuka3167 2 жыл бұрын
I remember when the pandemic started and the then Gauteng MEC Dr. Bandile Masuku. At Mamelodi Hospital there was a crisis of pregnant women laying on the floor waiting to give birth. The videos and pictures were horrifying and he just dismissed it as fake. I’ll never forget that because that hospital brought a lot of premature grief to my family. Even now my biggest motivation for not falling pregnant is the fear of public health care. On the other hand I know young trainee doctors who are thrown into this unforgivable system and they are left suicidal. The lack of resources is leaving them hopeless, exhausted and helpless. We must suffer just because comrades must eat 💔
@stephaneenos2997
@stephaneenos2997 2 жыл бұрын
As a Dr myself I really appreciate your objective, honest comment. The system is failing us all.
@mphomoatshe9300
@mphomoatshe9300 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Sister Please write a complaint to Department of Health of the particular region, don't wait.You are definitely going to get feedback and help,I once referred a matter there and despite the thought of poor public service crossed my mind but I did it anyway. People should be reminded what their job is even if they are fired and debared, it's the only language they understand. Relebogile you are moving mountains hunny, and we are here for it
@truthchronicles8948
@truthchronicles8948 2 жыл бұрын
My sister went through the same dire birth experience, they cut her bladder and 4 days after birth her belly got swollen. she went back to the hospital and it was discovered that the cause of her swollen belly was the urine leaking from her bladder to the stomach. she was in so much pain, and nearly died. She managed to file a law suit against the hospital and the case is still in court. And she's recovering pretty well by God's grace.
@ericamantseki9690
@ericamantseki9690 2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad 🥺🥺🥺 I hope everything goes well for her in court
@sineziwemapukata9630
@sineziwemapukata9630 Жыл бұрын
But when you sign a consent it’s clearly stated that there is a risk of bladder and intestine injury it’s known to be a complication,surgery comes with complications it can happen at private and public hospital
@presh804
@presh804 2 жыл бұрын
As a doctor in the public sector I initially felt defensive when this segment started. But as it went on, there were some undeniable issues: 1. Consent may have not been taken properly. Bladder injury is a common complication and as someone with a previous c-section (as with this lady), the risk is even higher. It should be clearly discussed because it’s something that unfortunately can happen. 2. When a known complication for a C-Section occurred, she was not properly counselled and informed. This can also add to distress, and it’s not fair for a patient. 3. She was treated very rudely and this made the experience worse. 4. She did not have a follow up appointment after having a Caesar as well as a complication. No opportunity to be reassured or explained to. The public sector is a hard place to work, especially obstetrics and gynaecology because it is SO busy and SO understaffed. But it doesn’t give us an excuse not to properly engage patients. I am sorry for your experience.
@erenceletsufi1172
@erenceletsufi1172 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds dedicated to your work ...appreciate people like u ,who understand their job profile and valuing a life of patience. What cause negligence in public sectors plenty employees they dnt know their purpose to work at hospitals
@Viceqt
@Viceqt 2 жыл бұрын
You would be surprised at how people twist their stories when they see an opportunity to sue. Until this goes to court, there’s def 2 sides to a story. See the obvious omission? She says the consent form was for “blood”. That’s a very small part of the consent form but she chose to neglect the rest of the consent process. Also, as a surgeon, I’ve seen/ heard enough not to believe all these stories.
@lungelopilson6024
@lungelopilson6024 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy to here these type of stories because I'm passionate about obgyn and I am a doctor a public sector, I gave birth there, and I got maltreatment as well. So stories like these shows us our short comings. Askies sisi.
@Theincredibleme-98
@Theincredibleme-98 2 жыл бұрын
I am still not 15 minutes in but, I was getting defensive..... I am a student doctor,thank you doctor....I was like but we need to interview stuffs from public hospitals one day,so they just explain a bit situations at public hospitals
@nonkosi8021
@nonkosi8021 2 жыл бұрын
Just look at Shonisani Letholes case (who died at Tembisa Hospital) findings to see how cruel and negligent medical practitioners can be. There are so many cases like his. There are so many women who had hysterectomy performed unnecessary and without a patient's concern. There was a documentary done. I almost died due to OHSS and Pulmonary embolism cos the Dr didnt want to listen. We told the dr that my sis is allergic to penicillin, but the Dr administered it anyway. I demand that leaflet inside the medication, cos a Dr gave me meds with Codeine even when i told him its not good for me. I also gave him the reosons but some doctors dont listen. But when i was admitted at Steve Biko with high risk pregnancy to be honest i had the best care and support.
@yolandamngqolo3201
@yolandamngqolo3201 2 жыл бұрын
Hearing her story, makes it very scary to give birth at a public hospital😭I hope she will do a follow up on who were the people who did the epidural on her, were they qualified to do so... Basically a thorough investigation needs to conducted.
@palesaneo3817
@palesaneo3817 2 жыл бұрын
Public hospitals have evil spirit I'm telling you. I gave birth there in july and I'm glad I'm done having kids. Home birth is the best option to be honest.:(
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
Ive seen in all with Coronation Rahima moosa some nurses re demons 😬
@thutosenokwanyane491
@thutosenokwanyane491 2 жыл бұрын
Private is also the same
@ntokozonene8475
@ntokozonene8475 2 жыл бұрын
Private hospitals are just as bad as you say. There are so many cases like these it’s just you don’t hear of them.
@penelopemngadi8502
@penelopemngadi8502 2 жыл бұрын
Eish I am crying right now 😭😭😭 ,I didn't know that my niece went though so much.I'm so sorry nana. My heart is bleeding for you.
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
I was crying throughout the episode, no one deserves this kind of treatment.
@tiyiselanin
@tiyiselanin 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds so painful what she went through and the fact that she now she has to live with a different condition. I wish she could sue 😔😔😔
@ayemaws5844
@ayemaws5844 2 жыл бұрын
I remember walking dragging my legs, i could walk but yaaaaarrrrrrr that pain guys🙆🏽‍♀️. Child birth is just bad on its own without complications, can only imagine the pain should things go wrong. Strength to you momma
@Nomelis
@Nomelis 2 жыл бұрын
You can hear pain from her voice that this scenario is still fresh, I Pray that she finds healing.
@zoenjoko8988
@zoenjoko8988 2 жыл бұрын
Public hospitals are the pits. I was in a horrific car accident which almost took my life . Due to the accident I had a scar across my chest caused by the seat belt. The paramedics came to the scene and rushed to me to a public hospital when I got there they kept on asking me where was the pain and I couldn’t respond. The only thing that they did is to give me a drip ! After I was fully conscious I asked the nurse if I could go home because nothing was done ! I was still in pain btw, no X-rays nothing ! ... they ignored me. Please note I was in the emergency room for more than 4hrs not being attended. I told my partner that I’m leaving now pain or no pain I took out my own drop 💔then they started shouting at me( nurses and the doctor) .. But I just had enough then I went home with my bleeding hand 😂from the drip. .. The next day I went to a GP who helped me.
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
In cases like this,you have to leave the hospital coz u ll be in danger
@PSdaughter
@PSdaughter 2 жыл бұрын
She should take this matter further. The doctor who did this should not feel like she dodged a bullet,she should suffer the repercussions of her actions
@phumezagontshi3897
@phumezagontshi3897 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more. No empathy. 🥺
@katlegongwatje5131
@katlegongwatje5131 2 жыл бұрын
As a medical doctor myself im really disappointed that such cases are still going on. Mistakes happen but when they do you take responsibility and explain to the patient wat went wrong. But also i think we are also overworked.. especially piblic hospitals in gauteng. Im sorry you went through that experience. It must have been hard
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
There must be a solution though
@acceptinglife6491
@acceptinglife6491 2 жыл бұрын
ya that doctor deserves for something to happen to her, whether its a fine or suspension
@michellesadiki5387
@michellesadiki5387 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Katlego, please advise on how I can get hold of u
@blesssed-siyamahlangu9784
@blesssed-siyamahlangu9784 2 жыл бұрын
My Gratitude's to Pertunia for sharing a heart flattening story. It would be of great interest to follow up because such stories demolishes us as young medical students because it drains the zeal and hunger. The essence of the Hippocratic oath is still valid and doctors should uphold their ethical standards. We have a generation of doctors upcoming they need a well nurtured system. Lets start fixing it now!!!
@aviwepama8286
@aviwepama8286 2 жыл бұрын
Let's unpack, do remember that colleagues across different spheres of all jobs will always shield for each other even if whatever happened/happens is/was negligence. Whether it be healthcare professionals, embezzlement of funds etc.
@makwenamonica5414
@makwenamonica5414 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations to u Sesi Lebo all road are on 100k subscribers 💃💃💃
@ashleyzviitei
@ashleyzviitei 2 жыл бұрын
The negligence and malpractice...the silence and cover ups in these cases. OMG. So many traumatised women/mothers whose lives are changed forever and yet they have no answers. Tragic.
@mamaappleseed3562
@mamaappleseed3562 2 жыл бұрын
Relebogile is such an amazing interviewer, you provide such calming energy towards the person you're interviewing, this was such an important and necessary story to tell so happy that she survived and her child is healthy.
@cmthoughts4803
@cmthoughts4803 2 жыл бұрын
At least you survived my dad never made did due to negligence. I would go to hospital to bring him water and painkillers.😥
@LufunoMuhali
@LufunoMuhali 2 жыл бұрын
If its answers she needs the most i think its best to start the process as soon as possible while its still fresh in everyone's mind. This is so sad, my worst fear of going to hospitals. You go to solve one issue and come back with a different problem. I wish this lady healing, both physically and emotionally.
@yolandagqoli8586
@yolandagqoli8586 2 жыл бұрын
This is a sad story to listen to because it should have been the best day of her life, please go see a doctor asap sisi just to be sure you good. I think you should sue the hospital for negligence not for revenge but so they can understand the importance of handling people's lives and well-being with care. Hope you recover well. You are such a strong 💪 woman big up's to you 💯
@claudiamela4040
@claudiamela4040 2 жыл бұрын
A private hospital neglected me after a procedure in January and I ended up in ICU for days. The matron was from a public hospital and it was her first day, she refused to give me painkillers the whole night and I was an ICU case in the morning.
@miraclemay24
@miraclemay24 2 жыл бұрын
This interview is sooo true. I was also mistreated at a public hospital
@thoesibanda7769
@thoesibanda7769 2 жыл бұрын
Same here🥺
@naledi2725
@naledi2725 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@gugumanqele5738
@gugumanqele5738 2 жыл бұрын
I know and understand the feeling. Also had c-section and from theatre i was injected with penicillin injection whilst wearing a handbelt indicating that I'm allergic to penicillin. So to cut a long story short, i reacted a few minutes after been injected. Was sweating, couldnt breath and i was injected with something else and after that was better after a few hours of hell. Then just a few hours after surviving that horror, the nurse comes back to inject me with another injection and i reacted again. I first started feeling hot, and my heart started beating extremely fast and i just collapsed. When i woke up, asked what injection is it that she gave me, she said its an antibiotic injection but with less penicilin. I was shocked. Imagine, still an injection with penicillin when i react to it.....so some cases are purely because of negligence. That's what happened in my case. And a lot happened, i can write a book. My experience at that public hospital was hell before theatre and after theatre. Some nurses are very kind and some are evil with no sense of pride in what they do, some will tell you it's exhaustion because they are short staff and over worked. So big up to all the professional staff who delivers with pride, have passion for what they do and treat patients with respect and dignity👍👏🙏
@ShuvaiAprilzw
@ShuvaiAprilzw 2 жыл бұрын
Relebogile is a fantastic interviewer and I am intrigued that she is also an advocate.
@ncisept5900
@ncisept5900 2 жыл бұрын
Guys, you are allowed to ask questions.... It doesn't matter if we are talking amongst ourselves... ASK. It's sad that a common complication of a 2nd/more c-section turned out to cause so much pain...not just physically but the emotional pain. Just ask...the Dr. It's your health.
@ScissorN
@ScissorN 2 жыл бұрын
So in this situation how was asking questions going to help, truth is black doctors in the public hospitals are the pits
@randomcathyofficial
@randomcathyofficial 2 жыл бұрын
I had similar experience.. Horrible experience at govt hospital.. Just 4months ago now. Painful that these people behave this way. They have no hearts
@livelovelearnwithsthe7545
@livelovelearnwithsthe7545 2 жыл бұрын
I kept cringing watching this. Oh my word! So terrifying 😢💔😭
@bridgetphiri2721
@bridgetphiri2721 2 жыл бұрын
I gave birth normally at a government hospital here in lusaka ,the nurse was mean ,the way she shouted at me , She told me the placenta dd not come out and she started removing it with her hands and the pain was too much ,I tried to move the way she shouted at me And before that, wen my baby was born I asked her ,is it a gal or a boy ,she said, dont ask me petty questions I'm busy as you can see Yoo,that was the worst day of my life
@ramokonesarahlamola9518
@ramokonesarahlamola9518 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry mommy.
@maambomuleya3063
@maambomuleya3063 2 жыл бұрын
The horror stories I hear of government hospitals here in Zambia. I had to have my first son at UTH because he was born at 8months and I was terrified of what I was going to experience.I literary had to get my step dad to use his staff influence for me to get a decent service. Even with that my son ended up getting an infection and we had to stay an extra 3 days in block D. After I gave birth I bled a bit more than usual and the blood started clotting in my womb. The mid wife,bless her literary had to go in and remove the clots. The pain was worse than the labour pains. That experience made me not to go anywhere near a public hospital for my other 2.
@bridgetphiri2721
@bridgetphiri2721 2 жыл бұрын
@@maambomuleya3063 me it was at levy ,aaah I tell you , They dont care ,ni mulungu chabe
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I'm really you went through that dear
@faraimusakuro9090
@faraimusakuro9090 2 жыл бұрын
Ohh goodness I'm so sorry
@petuniagiftthobela8513
@petuniagiftthobela8513 2 жыл бұрын
I've had the best and worst experiences in one public hospital. Where I was 10 years old, I was in a car accident with my two cousins. Two of us were rushed to the hospital, when we got there, we were not attended to. The nurse asked what's wrong with us, we told her. She just said "oh ok", and just left us bleeding on the benches. Sat there till evening until I decided to just walk home. Worse experience. Such horrible officials give a bad name to all public hospitals, others are really trying their best to serve communities as they have a passion for helping people mara there just have to be more hyenas🙄
@tshidimokone6595
@tshidimokone6595 2 жыл бұрын
Feel sorry for the lady. At least she can hold some urine. There are people on permanent catheters because of this complication. It happens even in private hospitals but they don't conceal it. As for suing the department of health is another issue. They are bankrupt from the lawsuit s. It's going to take a long time to be attended to or get the real story. The student doctor had conscience because he was still new. I wonder what happened to him after telling you the truth. Let's pray that you heal. You need to see the urologist too.
@nthabelengveronica5711
@nthabelengveronica5711 2 жыл бұрын
aww bathong aus lebo im really touched by seeing this coz i remember last week on the comment sections i begged you for this topic. Thank you so much🎁
@tumeloseadira8224
@tumeloseadira8224 2 жыл бұрын
Truth is, most doctors and nurses of our generation are not passionate about their work. Some nurses in they ICUs do drink alcohol in their wards especially on weekends; my mom would tell me that; and she was admitted in a private hospital
@GK222_
@GK222_ 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
This is scary
@ayeshakadwa7317
@ayeshakadwa7317 2 жыл бұрын
It's not easy to be passionate about your job when you are overworked and underpaid and hospitals are understaffed and ill equipped. Medical professionals get mentally, physically emotionally burnt out and they are expected to just go on and keep serving. If anyone is to blame, it is the the policy makers who sit and create plans and make judgments from their cushy offices.
@tumeloseadira8224
@tumeloseadira8224 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeshakadwa7317 Teacher/Lecturers believe that they are unpaid; Police/Soldiers believe that they are underpaid. I guess this is the reason why our state is collapsing
@92Kandee
@92Kandee 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeshakadwa7317 everyone is underpaid and overworked. I guess then we shouldn't complain about the workers at Home Affairs and SAPS. Lol It's a problem for everyone but patients are in between life & death with grumpy, angry medical practitioners. How are people suppose to trust you with their lives; just like we've lost hope in the SAPS and Home Affairs, the same will happen for those in the medical profession.
@onkgopotsekeobaka7680
@onkgopotsekeobaka7680 2 жыл бұрын
Such interviews are a direct reflection on the absolutely incompetent & criminal nature of the government & its departments. May she heal.
@mrsdokotela
@mrsdokotela 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry with the mistake that happened to the lady😔..its part of the complications that honestly happen with getting any surgical procedures..anything can go wrong even result in death during surgery...they should have explained and apologized to her...the same thing happened to my mother inlaw at a private hospital...her bladder was cut accidentally during an operation...n those papers u signed its not only for blood its for all the other possible outcomes during and after the procedure even the operation resulting into death...😔I almost bleed to death after my c section...I cudnt move but I cud feel that I was in a pool of blood...that cud have killed me if I didn't feel with my hand that my whole bed was soaking wet with blood n I am talking about a private hospital 😑such things happen weather in public or private 😔...but I hope she heals and finds healing also in her heart n forgive...the health care workers never ment to cause any harm intentionally so...they are humans n also make errors...🙏
@keepitfrankwithfentse
@keepitfrankwithfentse 2 жыл бұрын
That is insane. Did you pursue legal action?
@londziwekhoza6651
@londziwekhoza6651 2 жыл бұрын
I think the apologising and rectifying the situation is KEY.As it is follow-up medical care should be provided to her because whats important is thats she is restored back to normal health as much as possible.
@Yaya_mtsweni
@Yaya_mtsweni 2 жыл бұрын
Such stories really really get to me . It makes me sad , it makes me cringe because it never stops. Hospitals must and should do better. I lost my leg due to medical negligence. They need to realize that this changes one's entire life.
@quelquun2018
@quelquun2018 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
@michellesadiki5387
@michellesadiki5387 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Ayanda, please advise on how I can get hold of u
@joymogedi7729
@joymogedi7729 2 жыл бұрын
A show that shares stories, challenges and experiences of normal people❤ I love it for that.
@chiedzalight.9656
@chiedzalight.9656 2 жыл бұрын
I part of me remains grateful that I miscarried at a public hospital instead of carrying my child to full term. The service I received from there is appalling. A nurse told me that I'm not the first person to miscarry and I must get moving. Upon arrival a nurse outright asked me "Why do you chose to miscarry at this hour" as if I planned it. Tried to report the issue but all three nurses were protected by their senior. The doctor did not even bother to clean me after my miscarriage, in fact they sent me home. Nobody said anything all that was said said was "You're good to go", the end. It's sad that this lady has to live with this caused by negligence. Honestly speaking the nurse involved should be paying this lady for the rest of her life. They should clean out her pensions.
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry for what you went through
@nompumelelomashimbye2895
@nompumelelomashimbye2895 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry is not enough but I feel sad and very angry from what you just shared. Sending you love and prayers.
@ncumisajuliwe6874
@ncumisajuliwe6874 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@ruthkabeya5522
@ruthkabeya5522 2 жыл бұрын
I had my baby at a private hospital last year and the doctor also cut my bladder, my urine was red for about 2days after that and I ended up with a painful UTI... But it healed within 2weeks, and apparently its something that happens very often with major abdominal surgery.
@marylufuno2789
@marylufuno2789 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest problem here is the secrecy.. They should've atleast explained to her that this is what happened to you and these are the complications you'll face. Not just let her go like that. It's inhumane
@ncisept5900
@ncisept5900 2 жыл бұрын
That's a common complication. We do tell patients when that happens.
@lesegomonametsi8160
@lesegomonametsi8160 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I also know it's a common complication because remember that baby in the uterus starts to grow Nd it presses down the bladder thts why it happens most the time. So I think she must just go to the hospital and ask for the Dr who operated her that day and ask questions,she will get some explanation.
@bambotinzi8485
@bambotinzi8485 2 жыл бұрын
Could you please take this further! You have the right to be treated with respect, this thing of public hospitals that they choose not to do the right thing has to stop. We are humans, and they pledged that they will serve the citizens
@nhlanhlandhlazi4485
@nhlanhlandhlazi4485 2 жыл бұрын
We are ready to unpack.... So let's...
@AmendedVessels
@AmendedVessels 2 жыл бұрын
i am so sorry for what you went through sis, my second baby was c section in public hospital trust me iwas so scared because of stories i have heard at home but it was amazing experience for me the Drs and nurses were amazing my baby was in baby room Cape Town public hospitals are the best for me
@mrsdokotela
@mrsdokotela 2 жыл бұрын
I honestly empathize with the lady...but honestly during covid the holding during the epidural was not allowed I cudnt even have my husband in the theater at a private hospital I had to hold a pillow so tht I dnt move...a slight movement during that epidural can honestly cause complications hence the doctor was so frustrated she/he should have emphasized how important it is not to move...with movement the spinal can fail as she is explaining.. it failed...n hence she felt so much pain...but anyways such things need to be explained to the patient...
@allthingschristwithsofonia4280
@allthingschristwithsofonia4280 2 жыл бұрын
such is unacceptable,i hope Medical team will Get to watch this and improve, people take an outh to serve the people but when they start working they forget the main reason why they are there,i mean what is wrong guys. i hope the justice was served, please open the case so such things can stop ,because if you do not ,someone will go through what you went through. God bless
@zandilevinjwa3659
@zandilevinjwa3659 2 жыл бұрын
I’m sure they’re nurses and doctors from public hospitals under the comments, please tell us what the problem is? Why is your treatment so poor? Do you see the the pain you inflict on innocent people? DO BETTER!
@nthomengmajara8575
@nthomengmajara8575 2 жыл бұрын
They simply don't care. Explain to me who waits 2 weeks to deliver a baby via C-section? Who schedules multiple people, some high risk, for delivery at the same time? These people simply don't care.
@mabukemuemuelelwa929
@mabukemuemuelelwa929 2 жыл бұрын
There’s too many pregnant women and as you’re working on the elective list there are emergency patients that disrupt the list. Elective lists are only on Monday to Friday (8 to 4) it’s very easy for someone to wait for that long because it’s not a first come first served, it’s who needs it more urgently Most hospitals don’t even have enough doctors, it’s a system problem and it’s like that everywhere in SA
@zandilevinjwa3659
@zandilevinjwa3659 2 жыл бұрын
@@mabukemuemuelelwa929 this does not justify the ill treatment that people get at public hospitals
@bukekanohashe6588
@bukekanohashe6588 2 жыл бұрын
Oh man I’m so sorry that you went through such an awful experience ❤️
@LeyleS
@LeyleS 2 жыл бұрын
It’s Thanksgiving and full house but still “Let’s unpack “
@swazi4769
@swazi4769 2 жыл бұрын
This story is so shocking, haibo what's happening kanti in hospitals? Sisi please get yourself a lawyer and open a case. Medical negligence of the highest order. I'm glad that you are alive.
@kaingonakauta6460
@kaingonakauta6460 2 жыл бұрын
This should be taken serious is so scary
@phumlatrudyndzambo8492
@phumlatrudyndzambo8492 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your story because April 2021 I also had my baby via c section,then I started being sick my stomach kept on growing I couldn't eat nor do number 2 the Drs said they don't know what's really going on.i spent the whole of August in hospital and my brother and sister had to come and fight with them so they could attend to me. It's really horrible I feel ur pain sis
@PaballoASMR
@PaballoASMR 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Relebogile may you please do one where people share their experiences of natural birth at public vs private hospital.Thank you for sharing these stories
@whoistayah
@whoistayah 2 жыл бұрын
Looks like everyone speak fluent English on this show 👏🏽👏🏽
@daregreatthingseasq786
@daregreatthingseasq786 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your ordeal Pertunia. I was a midwife at some stage in my career life, I can relate to what you are telling, having to stand infront of a mother and help her to cooperate when the spinal/epidural is being performed before the op starts, reassuring her, comforting her, praying in my heart for this moment in her history and being the only person who can give her moral support at the time is a very touching moment. May you get well soon.
@pamtannya
@pamtannya 2 жыл бұрын
This is so touching reminds me of my experience 6yrs ago. I hope you heal, by the way I'm enjoying the English...
@user-zd8lf6vx3m
@user-zd8lf6vx3m 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. So sorry you went through that. Am I allowed to ask which Gynecologist she was with when she was pregnant with her first child and which hospital she went to for her first operation as she said her first experience went smoothly? Iam so terrified of pregnancy as a whole Iam starting to think its some kind of phobia😀... So whenever I hear someone say things went smoothly for them, although I know that peoples experiences are different, if possible Id probably see that specific recommend doctor or hospital.
@heathermbambeni529
@heathermbambeni529 2 жыл бұрын
Relebogile I love you and what you are doing in this channel,can you please ask the person who did your make-up today to come and see me in my office ASAP
@Das644
@Das644 2 жыл бұрын
They wanted her to walk so that they could hide/get rid of their mistake and not own up to it. Disgraceful medical practitioners Edit: i hope she went back to check the damage as lebo suggested because it would be best to catch any complications at a state where they may be reversed(if they can be)
@boitumeloliholo7291
@boitumeloliholo7291 2 жыл бұрын
My son died after he was born due to medical negligence at a public hospital.
@travel.aesthetics80
@travel.aesthetics80 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭💔
@PMAB8
@PMAB8 2 жыл бұрын
Dogs teach us a lot of things but none more important than to love unconditionally. One can get used to ugliness, but never to NEGLIGENCE.
@Alakhe-maqakamba-sihlahla
@Alakhe-maqakamba-sihlahla 2 жыл бұрын
This happened to me this year April... When I got home after 2days of my c section I woke up feeling like going to pee, as soon as I got up water ran from the scar and the bed was wet. Went to the hospital the next morning and the doctor opened my c section and left it opened. Stayed like that for 6 weeks going back and forth to the hospital for wound dressing. They never told me what exactly what happened and never stitched me back up either. Hubby had to buy medicine from the private practitioner to help my scar close on its own. I sometimes have pain in my incision 🤷🏽‍♀️
@ScissorN
@ScissorN 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭 No ways
@mantsi2704
@mantsi2704 2 жыл бұрын
Get lawyers and sue the state please. Its pure negligence.
@lesegorammego6666
@lesegorammego6666 2 жыл бұрын
Lord my fear of public hospital. I gave birth in October to my second daughter through emergency as my daughter is a preterm i. The staff were just amazing. Everything was explained to me I knew what to expect and during the process they kept asking me if I am okay do I feel any pains. Will forever remain grateful for being able to afford having medical aid. Hope Petunia Wil get all necessary help to follow up as to what happened to her in theater. 😢😢
@relebogilemohlala912
@relebogilemohlala912 2 жыл бұрын
Any lawyers in the comment section to help this lady? How do you go in for a C section and your bladder is cut??? This is just one of the reasons why people are scared to go to public hospitals and private hospitals are expensive.
@resoketswerambaumuthego
@resoketswerambaumuthego 2 жыл бұрын
I'm spite of everything, I am glad she got the surpport from her husband.
@combomalikongwa1407
@combomalikongwa1407 2 жыл бұрын
This broke me.. i can really relate. I was to have a csec at the gov hosp due to medical conditions but the way they used to treat us during check ups, yoh!! It was Gods doing that i had an emergency and the closest hospital to home is private.
@MissIngrilicious100
@MissIngrilicious100 2 жыл бұрын
Aaah man, this is so painful to listen to. I pray for this gorgeous lady to find courage to take it further, you didn't deserve this sis, make them accountable. Get well sistas, godspeed
@phumezagontshi3897
@phumezagontshi3897 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh maarn this is very sad. May she find closure. Sadly this how our hospital mistreat pregnant women in public hospitals. Trust me I have seen the worst🥺🥺😭
@thembisileprecious760
@thembisileprecious760 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this got my blood boiling for a moment. I'm struggling to finish this episode it's just making me feel hot hle. Oh Jesus lady what you went through awa I can't 😢 I've always tot I could watch anything scary or not but after this MH MH MH I just can't
@nomvulairene4177
@nomvulairene4177 2 жыл бұрын
I hate public hospital, at my first pregnancy I gave birth at Donald Fraser in venda, de stinky attidute from nurses, hospital was so dirty, I gave birth naturally around 3am but I was cleaned n stitched around past 7am ka new shift.
@estherkhalo4397
@estherkhalo4397 2 жыл бұрын
This isn't surprising, the public sector is very shoddy, where I was attending anc they had to draw my blood 3 times because they lost my results, they perform all kinds of tests on you and don't give you the results when you ask they dont tell you it's like you're inconveniencing them when you ask.. I was induced with cytotek with my second born and I only know this because I am an avid reader and I took control of wanting to be informed with what was happening. Thank God she's ok, it could have been much worse
@mtnewt1
@mtnewt1 2 жыл бұрын
She really should open a case as soon as possible because if any other issues develop as she goes it needs to be added to the case. It's terrible when ppl don't have an advocate when they can't advocate for themselves smh
@matlhogonolotonimalomo9970
@matlhogonolotonimalomo9970 Жыл бұрын
this really touched me so bad...to start with epidural injection is painful af and then rolling over nkosi yame with a baby and numb legs, she was surely neglected, i underwent a similar procedure in a private hospital and bless those people cos they did all they could to help off the pain and vomiting's though it was touch but i appreciate how they tried hard to make me feel safe and in good hands. i feel so sorry for what she went through, it was so hard to take in plus have a baby to care for.
@The-truth-about-the-truth
@The-truth-about-the-truth 2 жыл бұрын
I wanna finish this interview so bad but it's triggering.
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't stop crying, it was just too painful to watch
@The-truth-about-the-truth
@The-truth-about-the-truth 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it's too painful 😢 💔 and for me it triggered some painful memories. 😢
@nomalungelomjwara984
@nomalungelomjwara984 2 жыл бұрын
I lost my sister 2017 because of medical negligence. she was only 23 years old
@tendanipelaelo6293
@tendanipelaelo6293 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry Noma for your loss
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
I hope you heal from that my dear ❤️
@isaKtw12
@isaKtw12 2 жыл бұрын
She's spoken of my exact story at Jhb Gen. I've just been triggered. Those people🙌
@booairmow
@booairmow 2 жыл бұрын
I always say “let’s unpack” along with 😆
@rebaonemokwele2076
@rebaonemokwele2076 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, me too.
@yolandamngqolo3201
@yolandamngqolo3201 2 жыл бұрын
Me, three 🤣 as well as 'next time on unpack'
@amandamgobhoza2882
@amandamgobhoza2882 2 жыл бұрын
And that feeling when sis Rele says “#lets unpack”i just brace my self for an informative session
@mtnewt1
@mtnewt1 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if it's the same in South Africa but here in the US you're able to request your medical records
@sizakelediya4080
@sizakelediya4080 2 жыл бұрын
I really disappointing how Public Hospital treat people. People health are number one, government need get their priority straight. The health workers they have a very bad attitude, if I was her I would try to contact President or Minister then she will find out what happened to her plus she deserve to sue them so that she can use that money for private to sort out what went to her.
@tebogomokobane8094
@tebogomokobane8094 2 жыл бұрын
The bigeest problem is that almost 90% like public hospitals and all government offices. They have made it a norm to give poor service nd are not willing to change
@kopangletaoa7008
@kopangletaoa7008 2 жыл бұрын
This is triggering for me.I received the worse treatment ever when I gave birth.I’m a Sesotho speaking woman and I was in Durban.When it was time for me to push the nurse kept shouting’Khanula’ to which I told her in English I don’t know what it means.She said I’m acting so she looked at me n kept saying the word.At this point I knew she was giving me an instruction but I had never heard the word before.It was probably after two minutes that she told me to push.She was agitated at this point.I’m not gona say the things she did to me after. Mind you the hospital is Indian majority n according to the lady every Black person should speak Zulu.I’m still traumatized to this day and the stitching is botched
@thandolwethu1982
@thandolwethu1982 2 жыл бұрын
Mmmh I am really sorry sisi, I hope you heal from your tragic experience😥
@anndyx9423
@anndyx9423 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry that you went through that sisi
@gamerboy7015
@gamerboy7015 2 жыл бұрын
Really sorry for your experience ❤️
@tumeloseadira8224
@tumeloseadira8224 2 жыл бұрын
I believe that the doctor that operated on you didn't have a license to operate. My late mom was also operated on by an unqualified doctor. Sue the hospital!
@errolnkuna8433
@errolnkuna8433 2 жыл бұрын
it doesn't help case goes nowhere
@nomsebenzi1
@nomsebenzi1 2 жыл бұрын
The lady should not wait for long if she intends to sue the Dep of Health. She has three years from the date of the incident to institute legal action. Also she has a right to request to see her medical records so she should get that soon before they go missing. She should have had a follow up consultation and counseling. Mistakes happen, agreed but it's how the mistake is rectified and the professionalism of the medical stuff is appalling. Wishing her all the best.
@NtombiGebuza-s4b
@NtombiGebuza-s4b 3 ай бұрын
I know this lady I use to work with her I relate so much in her story I also had a busted appendix and it was removed ever since then I HV these server pains and the treatment was so bad I remember when they stitched up my opp I could fell the niddle I told the Dr that I could feel everything his doing it was during covid I didn't hv a medical aid and the nurses where busy gossiping behind my back saying why is she here why didn't she go to a private hospital its sad hw you are treated in public hospital I feel that s why these a lot of people loosing their life whilst they were not suppose too
@quuranq5876
@quuranq5876 Жыл бұрын
I can't help but cry😥😭😭😭
@ebonytriumph3816
@ebonytriumph3816 2 жыл бұрын
We are losing our humanity, setho is no more. i mean empathy is no more, chatting away while operating
@eagledice2008
@eagledice2008 2 жыл бұрын
Africa as a whole is a scary place when it comes to healthcare good luck to her she’s such a sweet chick
@miramungul7356
@miramungul7356 2 жыл бұрын
I was in the theater for 3 to 4 hours. I am jus happy to be alive
@shanicewessels54
@shanicewessels54 2 жыл бұрын
I'm really terrified now joh. God be with me when I deliver my baby
@maseabatamoshoeshoe6262
@maseabatamoshoeshoe6262 2 жыл бұрын
This is so true, public hospitals they will not even explain your own problem to you...it's just hell
@reginamadikizela7556
@reginamadikizela7556 2 жыл бұрын
What ever the lady went true is something I came across with even now I still have the pains and I gave birth last year april
@MmabathoBoshego
@MmabathoBoshego 2 жыл бұрын
I know this pain... Had a c section also in a public hospital and it was the worst pain of my life.
@Mabobo333
@Mabobo333 2 жыл бұрын
I was also told to roll from theatre bed to maternity bed,it was so so painful.
@quelquun2018
@quelquun2018 2 жыл бұрын
No transfer with a board???
@Mabobo333
@Mabobo333 2 жыл бұрын
@@quelquun2018 no,you use your own painful body.
@phuminkosi1368
@phuminkosi1368 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like this lady was talking about Bheki Mlangeni. The treatment there is very disturbing. I hope she takes this further!!
@oliviajoans
@oliviajoans 2 жыл бұрын
Why was the episode with the uterus removal taken down?
@witneymqadi7306
@witneymqadi7306 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭how can someone be talking about how her weekend was while operating a human Lord heal this woman 🥺😢😪🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️
@mabukemuemuelelwa929
@mabukemuemuelelwa929 2 жыл бұрын
But that’s their work environment, so they shouldn’t talk 🙄 people can be unreasonable though Your work space should be comfortable for you
@ScissorN
@ScissorN 2 жыл бұрын
@@mabukemuemuelelwa929 during an operation sisi? Aren't you supposed to be making the patient be at ease
@zikhonantlonti6662
@zikhonantlonti6662 2 жыл бұрын
@@mabukemuemuelelwa929 are you listening to yourself?
@marymoyo9439
@marymoyo9439 2 жыл бұрын
I know of a lady who right now has a damaged bladder coz of something did in the operation room ,and her being a foreigner is not helping at all ,they refused to treat her and to this day pee is coming out uncontrollably ,she is left with a burden of buying adult nappies which she can't afford ,it's heartbreaking ,I think these people need to be held accountable for their negligence ,it's just unacceptable for them to that
@eddyeddy4286
@eddyeddy4286 2 жыл бұрын
@@ScissorN wow 😮 just wow. You are a woman with the heart of a man an evil man for that matter. Foreigners work in our country and most of them pay taxes. They are entitled to free health care just like us, as long as they pay them taxes. The tax money is utilized to cover the free services that our government offers. Remember we were once foreigners during apartheid.
@thatgirlwhitney8909
@thatgirlwhitney8909 2 жыл бұрын
Really sad story!!! This lady should go forward with this case. These public hospital employees have a habit of mistreating people. This is very serious. She could have lost her life!!!’ And being kept in hospital for so long after giving birth, clearly indicates there was something very wrong. She must go forward and open a case. Go to daily Sun daily and speak out. You will get the help you need, to get to the bottom of this story. Thank God you still here, to raise your kids.
@thulimasilela9888
@thulimasilela9888 2 жыл бұрын
I guess this needs proper consultation,she reallty needs assistant if any lawyer is willing to get this case please may they do. the hospitals are realy runing peoples lives even my grand grand-mother fell blind on 1 eye to a docter who never took proper care,explained to her ,how things are gona be done,i wish we can get a person to assist really
@melomurmursasmr7336
@melomurmursasmr7336 2 жыл бұрын
this is horrifying!! I have never trusted medical establishments. health professionals are also so arrogant, I dnt know who told them they know so much that they shouldn't consider their patients. They don't value human life and health despite swearing to protect it! a rubbish bunch!! but what stood out for me was how supportive her husband was, kudos to him. kudos to her for being in love with a supportive and caring man, amanye amadoda engasile kanje, nxa! also honestly when you fall pregnant make sure you are with a man who loves you, his kid and will stick around. imagine if she was going through all this alone
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