Responsible Friend Vs. Hot Mess

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[@shersai5141]

Me at the beggining of the semester vs me now

[@darshel3078]

So true😜

[@Clevoliver]

Same

[@Niyati_Sinha3005]

Nope my beginning of the semester is also the hot mess.

[@nardjess.o5146]

Agree

[@ly6841]

Yep

[@MonkeyBunnyShop]

Who else clicking amd thinking ashly is suppose to be the hot mess

[@MonkeyBunnyShop]

Click in*

[@byunbaekhyun2125]

Me

[@anytroubles]

Me

[@bethsieb7373]

me

[@sunsetz2341]

meee

[@sarahalbassam9530]

since when did ashly become responsible lol

[@yerbuamerch5670]

lmfao exactly! 😂

[@ashantiwrlds6119]

Lol never

[@morgandrotar721]

sarah albassam yes!!!

[@sregister04]

lmao right 😂

[@kpopmixes1489]

sarah albassam since now 😂

[@gaiad8013]

I’m both of these, but it depends on what day it is

[@carmeladelrosario7574]

why has there been no replies for 2 years

[@justalarryshipperlol1904]

@@carmeladelrosario7574 ikr

[@Lina-sk5hd]

@@carmeladelrosario7574 make that 3

[@daraquesto2277]

Lol

[@mariavalencia878]

Monday vs. Tuesday

[@Wowitswhitney]

How am I simultaneously both of these people

[@buzzfeedviolet]

+xoxo We are all both.

[@JoseJaure]

+BuzzFeedViolet I LOVE ASHLY

[@amyg4983]

+BuzzFeedViolet Plz reply my Guinea pig has a bad eye it mean lot

[@gagacheva]

I strongly relate

[@nightsbeatswitchgood]

Me too😂

[@1705pink]

who else assumed that ashly would be the "hot mess"

[@adonsukiwang3754]

yep! XD

[@shinyskywriter]

Me haha

[@kaja1353]

+erika wang Me

[@karyn3343]

Me LOL

[@Stressed_PhD_0831]

Meeeee!

[@isabellenguyen3568]

How do you get out of that parking lot

[@katiepruett1203]

ikr

[@keirungimugadu7179]

Dennis Nguyen lmfao😂

[@gopikashrivastav1729]

you don't

[@hopeiredale529]

Dennis Nguyen I legit was wondering the exact same thing

[@gurleenkaur1442]

you fly or just tow

[@dancegirl0221]

wait, what's wrong with that parking lot? how do cars get out?

[@noused1381]

|-/

[@retrotrash848]

|-/

[@LizzyTheBoo]

|-/

[@shannonfrye8678]

|-/

[@cassidydeneau7076]

Shut up with the 21 Pilots I JUST WANNA KNOW HOW THEY LEAVE

[@breadddie]

WHO ELSE IS UPSET AT THE FACT THAT ASHLY IS REPRESENTING THE RESPONSIBLE FRIEND IN ACCURATE

[@buzzfeedviolet]

+iiQuirkii I am v. responsible in real life!

[@breadddie]

+BuzzFeedViolet Are you really though? Cause buzz feed always represents you as a hot mess so this made me about Like Die

[@xxkawaiikatxx2757]

+BuzzFeedViolet that's cool! I always thought you WERE a hot mess, because of how you are shown!

[@zodamaker]

IT SHOULD BE ALLISON..though I love ashly,WHATEVS

[@m2412]

+zoe peterson i dont think alison works at buzzfeed anymore :(

[@therealdanfan]

How the hell does anyone get out of that parking lot?!?

[@safiyyah113]

I never thought of that 😮😮

[@uqiam]

I know right? It's so f***ed up.

[@lacceybird]

Valet parking probably

[@selena5460]

+emma n With magic :D

[@KiaAfzali]

carefully

[@freezycow89]

I'd say I'm a hot mess...but I'm ugly. Let's just call me a mess...a big big mess.

[@rubyp.7768]

Same

[@oliviavivas5113]

Don’t say that!! I’m sure your beautiful on the inside❤️

[@beautybyjosiek]

Lol !!! I'm like dead set in the middle !!!

[@daraquesto2277]

Well u should try to be more organized

[@watchbrooke]

I relate so strongly to both sides of this 😂

[@elizabethfleck5157]

Lol me too 😂😁

[@elizabethfleck5157]

+Sincerely Izza OMG TWINSESE!

[@marcelaortiz323]

+Brooke Houts same

[@emilyg9463]

I know right

[@elizabethfleck5157]

+Emily G yea

[@winistan]

What kinda fucked up parking lot is that ?!?!?

[@vagabond789]

that's park of the joke lol

[@vagabond789]

part*

[@winistan]

+swirlykhan929 park lololol

[@wolfpackforever5482]

1:58 am I the only one who questions this parking lot?

[@denijonez]

Wolf pack forever mee tho

[@Emma-eg7gy]

Look further idiot

[@thedude030]

How convenient that the time also works as a video time stamp to that particular part of the video

[@SlightlyOffThinker]

what kind of car park is that? how do the cars get out?

[@TheCMnews]

It is a timed parking lot. The cars on the inside have been intended to stay past a certain time, and you have to leave your keys with the parking lot attendant. Cars on the outer edge will leave sooner. If the driver is not back by that time, the attendant moves the car.

[@SlightlyOffThinker]

+Chris M that's very smart, it saves space and time also creates jobs

[@obliviousfantasy633]

oh....................that is really smart.

[@meowsav]

+Chris M Wow , that is very interesting.

[@emqueenofmemes2514]

+Chris M but what if you need to leave in an emergency?

[@xBelzerger]

Damn, the hot mess one is close to home.

[@hazelspark7783]

+xBelzerger lol same Im even allergic to gluten XD

[@elemgemify]

+Cardboard lmao you're funny 👍🏽

[@coloritgreenbehappy]

+xBelzerger same... down to the froyo cards

[@aywancfc]

I have a credit card, but I've lost it. Also have lost my metro and debit before. xD Because I know myself, I'm always terrified I will leave my keys somewhere and get locked out of my apartment lol

[@amybeth5776]

+aywancfc Same here...it's why I've got several key copies in different locations 🙃

[@divergentgurl1414]

THIS SHOULD BE GABY AND ALLISON

[@iri2454]

Yeeeeaaaaas

[@camilacristina9927]

YES PLZ

[@Roxy-kb8tn]

Gabby left buzzfeed

[@divergentgurl1414]

***** they both left

[@valentinapablos2273]

+divergentgurl 14 why did they leave

[@SOPHIA-qo9jx]

How do they get their cars out in the parking lot...?

[@aarna7859]

thats so true

[@julbby7512]

#SOPHIA# yo wtf yourenso right

[@ambiedorlandta6568]

#SOPHIA# lol

[@raelily172]

i literally was scrolling in the comments looking for thissss

[@marcelladearcos9384]

#SOPHIA# they don’t

[@jsk944]

I don't understand how you get your car out of one of those gridded car parks, like from the middle

[@ailenel.9823]

i'm guessing the valet drivers move them if the ones in the middle are leaving

[@romans.9474]

How do some people get out of that parking lot

[@steffanichow1725]

lol I know right??!!

[@romans.9474]

Steffani Chow right!

[@bambiambs1308]

Two words: Monster truck

[@selena5460]

+Roman S. With some magic, all you need is to find Harry Potter.

[@thesigmaticplayer9627]

no one escapes the parking lot. we are all parking lot

[@lilbihxxx1234]

The parking is a hot mess itself lol

[@lilbihxxx1234]

*lot

[@AnaMateifilm]

Ashly is legit morning person goals

[@sageyuntaii9989]

how tf do they get out of the parking lot if your car is in the middle

[@meowsav]

Its a timed parking lot , the ones in the outside are intended to leave earlier than the ones in the inside.

[@sageyuntaii9989]

ahh, that makes senseeeee

[@keirungimugadu7179]

SavvyCandy what happens if the ones on the outside don't move

[@devasri_]

IM SO CONFUSED HOW DO THE INSIDE CARS IN THAT PARKING LOT GET OUT??

[@lizomarylopez9786]

omg i thought i was the only one that say that

[@Wewearmore]

They don't... Oooooo

[@leyway]

Was scrolling down the comments just to see if anyone else noticed too lol

[@neversaw]

+Pavan Kapoor coming in with the smarts 👌🏼

[@finnchapman5435]

Very, very carefully.

[@ourdearlydeparteddoll]

I feel like we need Allison and Gaby for this video.

[@kimbapkidding6093]

Gaby doesn't work for buzzfeed anymore

[@ourdearlydeparteddoll]

+Sprinkle Cream I know that. That's why this video doesn't feel right without them.

[@celestemoreno2343]

+The Inflatable Sea Lion How do you guys know this and when/where did that information come out :0

[@ourdearlydeparteddoll]

+Celeste Moreno they said it on their own channel.

[@basedukhti]

Yesss

[@hirshtveria4715]

What surprises me is how you drive out of the parking lot

[@Rainbowdash6DoesMC]

If you were parked in the middle of that car park how the heck would you get out?

[@JamesV84]

*Ali:* "Did I Uber?" Well if you didn't you might have to now if your car is one of middles in that car park, haha XD

[@Amethyst2000]

+Graphic Design Guy there you are XD

[@JamesV84]

***** Certainly not a king, but thank you :)

[@JamesV84]

amethyst2000 Yes, I was very late to this unfortunately =/

[@remecelleclapano3888]

WHO WANTS COOKIES!!!!!!

[@JamesV84]

Candycraftor clapano Who doesn't want cookies, lol :)

[@ASRoosFilms]

I really thought Ashley would be the hot mess when I saw this video, guess I was wrong. Still a bloody great video!

[@ASRoosFilms]

*Ashly

[@daniellemcconville6481]

same haha

[@buzzfeedviolet]

+ForeverAmber LOLOL. Everyone seemed to assume that :D

[@justslightly7794]

Omb Saaaaaaaaaaaaaame!!!!!

[@ilovdmgmjhtkzketc]

+BuzzFeedViolet ..

[@xxangelinaxx7797]

I think I'm in between not organized not a hot mess

[@arnas8043]

I always go to sleep at 22:00 and wake up at 6:30

[@unpredictablepancake3826]

HA SAME!

[@erinlee2708]

Arna // Arna_3008 I go to sleep in between 22:00 and 2:00am and wake up between 6:00am and 9:00am

[@potterlibrary1389]

I go to sleep at 22:00 and I wake up at 5:00

[@gabrieleg5010]

Haha the reason I wakep at 6 cuz I cant fall asleep in the morning

[@strawberrymilky8671]

Well sh*t i go to sleep at 2 a.m and wake up at 10 😳

[@cheermaddie]

How do they get their cars out of that parking lot?

[@madikim5636]

thats what I was thinking!!!

[@miaratcliffe3839]

Giant Godzilla monster lifts it out for you duh.

[@michellexie3277]

+Maddie omg didn't even realize that until

[@maanasig565]

Thats what I thought

[@mustapha1403]

+Maddie YOU DON'T .

[@TheDesaroo22]

NIIIIIIICE SHIRT ASHLY!

[@buzzfeedviolet]

+Destinee Thank you! Grace forever!

[@TheDesaroo22]

+Olivia BE This definitely doesn't sound creepy at all! 😂 But her name is spelled Ashly on her social media accounts, probably a preference, so that's how I'm going to address her! :)

[@ray-fw1pk]

+Olivia BE Everyone addresses her as Ashly, hon!

[@imaverypowell]

Ikr I want it I am the organized one!!!

[@lauraloveleyy8639]

That looks like the most inconvenient parking lot ever

[@jkimberly8702]

How would you get your car out of that parking lot if you were in the middle? ._.

[@meowsav]

Its a timed parking lot

[@Leticia-zs3ej]

SavvyCandy what does that mean

[@WendyAnytimex]

TBH I'm both just depends on the day...

[@myahdee]

yeah me too

[@oracleofdewphi]

Me too! I'm not at all a morning person, so that's a struggle sometimes. I try to be organized and responsible, though. I'll admit I'm bad at remembering where I parked, though I make an extra effort to remember if someone else is with me.

[@Angel77777771]

How the hell do people get out of that parking lot?!?!

[@netwolfe]

+Angel77777771 I was about to ask the same question.

[@natalie-po9gs]

+Angel77777771 Magic!

[@kevins7704]

not letting people go early i think loll evribody goes at the same time!

[@kevins7704]

netwolfe yeah, its not just flawed, its horrible. cuz ppl who parked on the marginal area can just leave lol

[@sophia-bs9es]

I love how confident ashly is, it's rly cute! U go girl!

[@yasmine1031]

That is a very impractical carpark

[@neszta]

Dang, Grace & Style shirt on POINT!

[@lisasaleh8137]

+Neszta was looking for this

[@AletheaSpencerX]

the ordering scene is just being super indecisive... which is me 100%.

[@lewdogzombies]

That car park is absolutely hilarious 😂😂

[@imaanfaisal7278]

"I have, ah... Some froyo cards..." So me xD

[@valquility]

I didn't know that people like Ashly exists

[@soapie6603]

i am one of them

[@tamagoswirl]

Gaby and Ashly in a video together?! It's a dream come true.

[@alchi7533]

+The Fugly Duckling I dont get it.

[@emmettmccall9890]

+Annierocks3 it's not Gaby

[@Widgie6]

;)

[@Mskalsndhsikabsjss]

+TheKawaiiMassacre There was previously a video about dopplegangers, with the girl in this video and Gaby. This was a reference to that.

[@breezie01]

+Olivia BE you don't have to post that on every comment.

[@michellemarie1197]

I'm the hot mess 😂😂😂

[@ameliamedl6778]

how the fck do you get out of that parking lot if you're in the middle?

[@themickeysquad5121]

Normally it's Ashley that's the hot mess!

[@katli4806]

How does that parking lot even work

[@Milfuelle100]

I am 100% the hot mess. I have a friend who’s been had it all together since she was like 8. HOW DOES SHE DO IT?!!!!!!!!

[@undeadbandit835]

wtf is this parking place?! you can't drive out wtf?

[@KirstyGriffiths99]

It is a timed parking lot. The cars on the inside have been intended to stay past a certain time, and you have to leave your keys with the parking lot attendant. Cars on the outer edge will leave sooner. If the driver is not back by that time, the attendant moves the car.

[@undeadbandit835]

So complicated and so unpractical

[@laraschafer2172]

Anyone else expected Ashly to be the hot mess, too?

[@plantmuffin9866]

These two are literally representative of my two brain cells that run my body.

[@aesthetica350]

I’m so happy to see Ashley as the responsible friend.

[@Sophia-ws4ws]

I feel like I’m a mix of the hot mess and organized one lol

[@tommorrison9490]

BEAT GRAPHIC DESIGN GUY

[@dumbfuck6594]

SAME

[@katiehuynh4849]

Me too!

[@maggiepanyard9676]

+Chaøtic Piløts |-/

[@JamesV84]

Well done all. I was so late to this. I guess I was a "Hot Mess" XD

[@breadddie]

+Graphic Design Guy -dies- No So joke Hungr -dies again-

[@tienho5677]

How the heck are you supposed to get out of that parking lot?

[@user-bl3fl7cu7p]

It's timed, the ones on the outside leave sooner, insides leave later. If the outsides don't move in time, an attendant moves them.

[@rebeccakhosravani3086]

gay may • 27 years ago oh ok, thank you

[@loganscchaos_]

I am the organized friend. I just am. I keep everything in line. I keep my family on time as well.

[@vipernoodle]

I love how Ashly used to do video where she had to be really awkward but now in these videos she's so put together! What an actress

[@thisismycreativeusername5418]

How r the cars suppose to get out of the car park?

[@shadowprincessnami3412]

Anyone else seeing some problems with that parking lot?

[@fiskimasi6224]

+Muuuora nobody?????

[@obliviousfantasy633]

Just a few seconds ago I found out it's a timed parking lot and that the cars on the inside are staying for a long tome and the ones on the outside will leave sooner but they could have been kidding..........

[@meowsav]

Its a timed parking lot.

[@obliviousfantasy633]

SavvyPlaysGames hey didn't you comment on that other one where they told us about the timed parking lot?

[@aspwned]

This is like me at the start of school. Sometimes I'll get out of bed late and forget most my stuff. But sometimes I'm really organized and can remember everything

[@miko_lovesu2103]

I'm in the middle. I'm a hot mess when it comes to waking up and getting ready in time. But when it comes to schedules and Money ect I'm reasonable.

[@crayongudetama9278]

Ok "responsible" and "organized" don't necessarily mean the same thing.

[@belle3744]

I'm the hot mess and always will be

[@spoon2793]

No one gonna mention the fact that Ashley brushed her teeth then ate breakfast, that is not responsible

[@alanchen8273]

I do that and most people I know do that.

[@LittleRedPigeon]

The only reason I'm responsible is out of anxiety and fear.

[@Darkev77]

i bet 90% of the people are the "hot mess"

[@UnconvincingX]

Glasses = Responsible

[@aniekes3861]

I'm a hot mess with short term memory. YAY Life can't get any better *sarcastic*

[@julia0110]

love that she just put the card on the counter and than took it back😂

[@Amethyst2000]

I was expecting Ashly to be the hot mess lol

[@lucyren4675]

BEAT THE GRAPHIC DESIGN GUY FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I CAN FINALLY CROSS THAT OFF MY BUCKET LIST:)

[@JamesV84]

+Lucy Ren Glad to have been able to help cross something off your bucket list. Well done :)

[@friedrichn7767]

Tbh everybody knows that you are not allowed to get out your bed till you are almost late.

[@notevenme0507]

I always tought that i'm a hot mess. I just realize that i'm a responsible

[@mangotune7826]

IM SO EARLY WHAT IS THIS SORCERY

[@lavenderlinx1810]

+Panic! At Hogwarts *gasp* Your name is lifeeeeeeeeeee

[@LizzyDahBunny]

SAME

[@p1nkterror]

OMG YOUR NAME IS PIC

[@maanasig565]

+Panic! At Hogwarts YOUR NAME AND PIC ARE AMAZING!!!

[@hazelspark7783]

+Panic! At Hogwarts ur user is literally me

[@Ceel00yy]

Oh. My. God. I'm the 'Hot Mess' girl. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I WANNA BE RESPONSIBLE!

[@ella5053]

She just picks up a yoghurt on her desk from the day before and starts eating it😂

[@chileanyways9464]

Ashley=Responsible=Me=LOL

[@scrap8760]

Don't get a credit card..... don't do it

[@ccs898]

I swear 50% of these comments are 'I thought Ashley would be the hot mess' and 'What is wrong with that carpark how do cars get out'

[@jadestep9624]

Exactly, I find it VERY annoying when like 250 people will all comment about the same thing.

[@kathrync8085]

Is it bad that I am simultaneously the hot mess and the responsible one?

[@KhalidAun1]

I just love how everyone is commenting that they relate to both sides because it's true! Everybody has their ups and downs and some days you just have everything on point and other day everything is just horrible and you feel like cradling into a ball and cry in the corner. That's life for you folks, but no matter what you think on the bright side and stay positive always. Stay strong fellow KZbin watchers, stay strong.

[@shaye813]

I'm a mix of both

[@katiethegymnast1911]

Shaye Anstey same

[@laurentakako]

How do you get out of that parking lot if your car is sandwiched there?!

[@molly_1250]

Isn't it funny Ashley is being responsible but is usually the hot mess😅💞

[@erikadixon684]

I'm like both of them combined, some days are responsible and some are just... Bad

[@TheFreshspidey]

I am so the hot mess lmao :/

[@megang1312]

isn't this basically Gabby and Alison?

[@ixlymel]

sounds like this friend is just indecisive

[@keirungimugadu7179]

I'm the responsible hot mess 😂

[@lunarcrow8526]

Wait she brushed her teeth before eating...

[@katewright4301]

Lunar Crow Yeah I read that you should brush your teeth before breakfast because it has something to do with the acid in food softens the enamel of your teeth and then when you brush it damages the then softened enamel.

[@ariannamvar3472]

Kate Wright still you can get rid of all the bad germs if you brush after breakfast so it won't matter

[@lunarcrow8526]

Emily Is Loves nothing! I'm sorry! 😖

[@sabrinacat7293]

I'm totally the hot mess

[@nemesisdeimos92]

"that's today?" Is actually my most used phrase in college.

[@emmxlauren]

This is basically the expectation vs reality of every single day of my life

[@Sam-sp3nc]

*enter generic graphic design guy comment here

[@JamesV84]

*enter generic reply to BIRD WOMAN ! here :)

[@Sam-sp3nc]

+Graphic Design Guy *enter generic greeting to graphic design guy

[@JamesV84]

BIRD WOMAN ! *enter generic reply to greetings to bird woman !

[@Sam-sp3nc]

+Graphic Design Guy *enter generic convosation starter to graphic design guy

[@JamesV84]

BIRD WOMAN ! *enter generic ice breaker to bird woman !

[@dinabritel6528]

ashley is like spongbob hahaha "just like yes and the day after.."

[@niyatinanavaty2993]

I'm like a mixture of both. I'm the responsible mess

[@usharvibasu2990]

I'm the responsible friend, but it's all a disguise for the hit mess inside