S2E21. Q&A time!

[@kenscales4992]

Very cool video. I LOVE when you said ..." Whatever my man wants me to be ". I feel the same way. Love You Obio. xoxo

[@cyrellroberson9698]

It was the perfect answer.

[@denniscosey94]

This dude is soo dope man. They don’t make men of substance like him anymore. Keep it up

[@Glenmaano1]

" I am whatever my man wants me to be" is going to be my answer to that question from now on. Thank you 🤟

[@alanaban3519]

I would like to ask / was the man made for the man r the woman made for the man / 😅 could a woman play the role of a man in a sex act by her nature

[@stevenwilson879]

Bless. Difficult childhood. Mom just died. Kinda lost. IT WILL GET BETTER FOR ME. Glad you're finding your place. Peace.

[@lady4dajbs]

Yes the video with Trav was indeed a vibe!! Obio is a vibe ✨️ I just always smile with his content. He is a Top Tier Orator 👏🏾

[@marcuswainright952]

Every time Obio references his man... he smiles.. I notice that.

[@tangled55]

7:00 that whole answer is very, VERY resonate and such a beautiful answer. All of that..especially the people "seeing it" and the reclusion it can put one in...that is very emotional.

[@matthewjohnson2423]

“I am whatever my man wants me to be”. I love that! I’ll get there one day.

[@JKeepsItReal217]

The vocals on the Brandy song though!!! 🙌🏾

[@bleukev]

8:24 this!

[@creativeeyeguy]

Keep on keeping on! Grown Black Man is forever trending!!

[@milesjohnson7423]

I felt you about being overwhelmed in a social setting. That sense of urgency to be social plagues us so bad, esp introverts. There's nothing wrong with taking a step back to recharge your battery in a social setting and ppl have to recognize that instead of criticizing our presence there. Like let mejust exist.

[@1ESTES]

....Whatever my man wants me to be"......sho ya right!!!! Big bro. Well said.

[@jonhinson5701]

My favorite videos are of you and your father. It is easy to see that you have his integrity and open mindedness.

[@rspen2142]

4:29 (I felt that) I have not experienced this, personally, but I can understand it. As a younger version of myself, I made a conscious decision to always be "out" so I don't know what it means to lose people because of it. However, I can see those who weren't out whose relationships with people, whom they love, change.

[@cesarsuira3200]

Hey there, bud! Just love the way you talk and manage yourself. Lemme tell ya, u are one big source of inspiration for me. Thanks for all, Obio. I wish you the best!!

[@amirrichaun]

@1:42 okkk vocals

[@teegee7801]

It's amazing how there are TWO closets: One concerning sexuality in general and one concerning sexual positioning and its implications on masculinity. That's why the first thing I look for in a man even beyond looks is, is he ok with his sexuality this includes sexual positioning? That will set the tone. In a sense, being feminine and people assuming you are a bottom has its major obstacles but one major obstacle that I don't have to deal with is awkwardness being assumed something that I am not or having to "come out" as a bottom if I am "masc-presenting". I thought I could escape this in the so-called "gay lifestyle", but wherever men abide, freedom will not. I like freedom and true sex positivity. I find this sorely lacking even in the so-called "black gay community". A lot of people are still not genuine due to stigma. But to my previous point, it is easier for me to say because abuse has built character because you have to affirm your sexuality at an early age due to it being weaponized against you because of what people assume you are. I'll never forget Elisabeth Ovesen stated her MOTHER has been calling her a whore since she was a child. She was raped at 13, so she has been having sex imposed on her since before she could start having sex. People read her for sucking dick, but now everyone want to proclaim their cocsucking skills lol. Point is, being masculine presenting does not neccessarily make life easier. Being closeted for the greater portion of your life will stunt you in a lot of areas that deal with sex and relationships because you have mentally locked yourself up from doing any internal work. The abuse, strangely enough, builds amazing character kzbin.info/www/bejne/qISxZGBvm8SdbtE at 14:20 Elisabeth talks about life that is similar to a gay man growing up.

[@teegee7801]

I'd like to add, I dont think some men are intentionally closeted but just as I had sexuality imposed on me as a point of degradation, sexuality is imposed on masculine gay men because people will assume you are straight. The question is, in what situations do you indulge in the illusion and when do you clear the air. It's all a matter of safety. Black gay/bi/SGL men are not safe.

[@chefhue]

Such a beautiful embodiment of love, this man.

[@MissErickaKane]

I love this video it gives viewers a more insight into you.Yes for the Brandy “full moon” album… ❤

[@can_you_guess_my_new_username]

Yeah, that whole album is a classic... omg

[@JamalTateIsTheGreatest]

Thanks for sharing a little bit more about yourself. I personally love feeling like you are more human, sometimes with people who are influencers it feels like they are just that and they aren’t human but getting to know more about them makes them more real and down to earth. Keep creating space man!!

[@deec.5038]

Our sun and moon are the exact same, so I completely love the vulnerability here and I respect it. This is my first time watching a video, and I’m happy to be here for this journey.

[@KKA868]

Give Brandy her flowers!!!

[@dmay8290]

Need to do more of these! I like this Q&A alot! Job well done Obie! Keep it up!👍😉❤

[@baron_daking778]

I love the openness of this show the conversations and topics are dope. I gotta attend and be a guest one day

[@jamespudd]

LOVE THE VIDEO.AND LOVE HOW YOU BRING EVERYTHING TO THE SURFACE.

[@jovinscovers3005]

Love that u let us in your life , cause its empowering and very supportive

[@Ntwri]

7:59 I was all ears, ready To listen 😂😂😂

[@VII2K23]

Wonderful Q&A. 🖤🖤🖤

[@markson6726]

Thanks 😊

[@evansbond5623]

You better sing Brandy love that song , love you're Q&A

[@walterharris6311]

Man I love your KZbin channel bro great job 😅

[@kennethroberts6048]

The breaking point answer 🤎 👑

[@natheemhendricks5705]

You should visit South Africa 🇿🇦

[@amberj222]

Travis was my fav too ☺️!

[@kylewambot2664]

Wooo. Look at them glasses 🔥

[@Molefhe_music]

You're such a vibe man

[@demetri1136]

I screamed at 1:50 IKTR🤣

[@vgreen1106]

Cmon for the Full (Moon) Masterpiece Love!!! Brandy is my FAVORITE ARTIST and Full Moon is my FAVORITE ALBUM!!!

[@kittythadoll]

Love your content B. I love the it’s just not adding up series and would absolutely love to see more black trans women sharing their experience and perspectives. Since they are the foundation of every lgbt movement it would be nice that you use your platform to uplift them and share their voices 🫶🏻 and that goes also for other bipoc/caucasian trans fems.

[@alw.8849]

glad you mentioned your mother thats good

[@mauricenowlin7568]

Awesome Q&A segment that gave us lil more insight on your persona ... #TransparencyIsTheKey

[@devanteorisha3320]

Obio I STG I just LOVE you!!! Yo my husband fr but we’ll talk about that later

[@rintastica]

oh god DOUBLE aquarius boy bye😂

[@sibusisoblessing3312]

Love you from south African cape town ❤🇿🇦

[@sithabelamandlawenkosiwodu6298]

4:17 what's an attractive guy? Everybody has a type.

[@Chardamus09]

Then what do you consider attractive?

[@FredThomas1911]

Nice video!!!

[@terrancemaloney29]

Ok y'all......we're gonna have to throw some names out there as (body type) examples for Obio to give us an idea of what he likes.

[@slash_md1948]

How do I get on the show?! 😂😂

[@BenjaminBanks615]

Do you ever get sick of being gay? Me:FUCK YES!!

[@ciel222]

GREAT VIDEO😊

[@davidemerald7690]

Nice Q/A but i was looking forward to hearing the freakiest thing you ve ever done

[@terrello1874]

❤

[@kevinjackson1903]

What was the *bleep bleep, bleeeeeeeeep! We (I'm intrigued.) 😊 You can shoot it to me. 😁

[@darnellabramsify]

This!!!!!!!

[@thoughtsandwords3029]

Talk ya shit, Obio!!!!

[@josephmcknight9635]

I enjoy your video you really got it going on. I'm your father age I'm a late glimmer be blessed.

[@juzt_d3l]

My Aquaman brother I’m Aquarius ☀️ Capricorn 🌙 Aquarius ⬆️

[@bricewanda3216]

❤️❤️❤️

[@wonathancopeland9069]

When are you going to have a Senior LGBTQ Male on your blog?

[@frankcole5220]

👍👍👍💯💯💯❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@terrancemaloney29]

Y'all better subscribe to his page.

[@LockedInNOW]

Love how open you were , but Honey our Kids need attention 😢 !

[@shaddertownie1629]

First

[@sasajc05]

Well I have a question: Do you prefer gay men or DL men & why 👀😌

[@TENCANTDIE]

ummmmm OBIO U BETTER SING SIR

[@coriprentis]

Heeey Obi!