They hurt me so Bad I even beg them They still play with me
@anaymousjohn5227 Жыл бұрын
Dont reach out it makes u look weak u know that its like they got power over you
@chrismallia1559 Жыл бұрын
Accepting reality is something harsh, but it's something we almost do. When you meet that person that can't be part of your life you must walk away no matter how much it hurts . Just remember in the long run you're only hurting yourself that person doesn't care and probably enjoys the fact that you are there for them no matter what, just walk away...🙊🙈🙉
@ChefBurns1 Жыл бұрын
After breaking up with my ex I’ve been down the rabbit hole of advice on KZbin. 100% this is hands down the best video I’ve seen. I’m not sure why. I think it’s the no bullshit. Straight to the point and great advice all in one. Thanks for your awesome work man.
@SCGSHOW Жыл бұрын
Thanks for Watching 👏
@RR-fn6dm Жыл бұрын
Omg I can’t wait to stop caring about him! My gosh he gave me basically NOTHING and I still held out hope. It’s humiliating. I finally ended our connection 12 days ago and all I want is to move on and not care anymore. I am trying everything to not think about him.
@Love236417 ай бұрын
Same boat😢😢
@shawnbenjamin5331Ай бұрын
@@Love23641same boat it’s crazy 😢
@sylhomeo63517 ай бұрын
OMG! I have listened to a 100 videos on how not to care but nothing worked. This video is the only one that makes sense and has convinced me. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
@SCGSHOW7 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@VGB004 Жыл бұрын
Much respect for this video and info. People think they are doing a good deed by saying standard positive phrases that after awhile become so repetitive that as soon as we hear them we already know its a fake brush off of our hope that somebody really cares. 🤔😶
@pedrolopes3542 Жыл бұрын
This advice does not work for everybody. Not everyone who is hurt and wanting to forget someone is always angry, there are those of us who are just feeling hurt because we do not fit into someone else's life, so we are falling to the side without any fault from the other person's part. I do not feel frustrated, I do not feel angry, not even disappointed really, however I do feel extremely sad... It is all just sadness, just that emotion of feeling alone and missing someone who does not misses me, not because they are "bad" or "careless" or any other negative attribute, but instead because that person just has a different life and we simply do not fit in and they are going thru some personal trouble and they don't have time, patience, energy or desire to be around me. They might not even know how much I care. And if they did found out how much I care they would be even more freaked out and perhaps even repulsed... so, as you can see, anger plays no rol here, it does not exist, it could never exist.
@wowowoaoaoahwiwheueh Жыл бұрын
The feeling of caring too much for someone who probably doesn’t know how much you care about them is painful
@pedrolopes3542 Жыл бұрын
@@wowowoaoaoahwiwheueh yes it is, but you can stop caring so much by establishing other connections to other people. Good luck.
@wowowoaoaoahwiwheueh Жыл бұрын
@@pedrolopes3542 i will tell you my story, i tried making friends to have fun before my exams cuz i would have to travel and be trapped in my room for 3 months so for a month i made this friend and got clingy to them as hell and we did all sorta fun stuff and they said they only grab my hand and walk only with me and I thought we’re best friends too, after i left to my country for my exams they never checked up on me or talked to me ever since and said that we are just friends and not best friends and then i seen their stories on instgram with other ppl doing other shit they said they only do with me and it only hurts like a bullet to my heart, i never ever cared for friends only when i met them and they are the only person i cared for in my entire life genuinely, but they never cared about me i was only for fun to them and i cant wait to go back to that country to meet new friends and forget. 3 months of pure torture everyday thinking about them always
@keith2o911 ай бұрын
The only time I feel angry is when i get used and manipulated by others when i thought they were friends. But not fitting into others lives, its sad but why be angry. Just like how sometimes we ourselves dont vibe with the person who wanna be friends with us. This goes both ways.
@thunderbird335311 ай бұрын
Best comment.....I agree to every single word.....I'm not at all feeling angry but I'm extremely sad for missing and caring about someone who is not missing me. It's very painful. 😒
@victoriamiller779 ай бұрын
I think you are very wise, I've had a few fair weather friends in my time, you learn who is worth it and who is not worth your time. Thanks for your fab advice ❤
@SCGSHOW9 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you!
@niallsmith9432 Жыл бұрын
Great video, going through something like this right now. You video was so helpful:)
@winnielimhuiyee2800 Жыл бұрын
Yes. You will never be enough for the wrong person . My wrong person was still hung up on his ex wife when we moved in together , the second week we dated , he had to move back to his ex wife because of his daughter.
@andziagreen4922 Жыл бұрын
😲Really sorry to hear this🤗
@wowowoaoaoahwiwheueh Жыл бұрын
I have had a friend who stopped texting me first started being dry in my texts and when i had to travel for my exams they never checked up on me to ask me how i was or would reply dry to me when i talk to them, now they did say that they only were bored which is the reason they needed new friends however they keep posting stories about their other friends and seem much happier with them and give them so much love that they used to give me and saying they didn’t to anyone else, it was like getting shot on my heart and I couldn’t even confront them or talk to them irl because i was away and i think maybe they stopped caring about me because they couldn’t have fun with me anymore, i cannot get over it it’s been 3 months but that’s probably because i have nothing else better to do than stay in my room all day and study, and I’m planning to get revenge but a positive one by getting new friends and posting about it and weather they didn’t like it or didn’t care i would still be happy if i got new better friends anyways and got over them
@Kareena1988Ай бұрын
You are describing my whole family. Especially my brother and sister.
@SCGSHOWАй бұрын
Sorry to hear that
@jamiewilliams8107 Жыл бұрын
When you accept something you can't change you move 9n with life and don't get stuck
@EmmettLBrown201510 ай бұрын
I miss my ex-girlfriend, I broke up with her because she only cared about taking money from me and she only cared about everything that I can do for her, she didn't truly love me from her heart so I left but I miss her very much but she has already forgotten me and even blocked me when I even try texting her a few times, I really miss her because I keep thinking about when I first met her, It's eating me up inside..
@JP_11_10 ай бұрын
Hang in there. In the same boat. At least we are rowing the same direction 💯
@EmmettLBrown201510 ай бұрын
@@JP_11_ Thank you, that does make me feel better
@nuez23747 Жыл бұрын
Same they did and keep doing with me as chronically ill person . They abused, abandoned me and denied me support helped or empathy. For me it's not a life stage, it's a permanent state of mind. I can't trust anyone I don't rely on noone anymore. Dating partners bloqued me too. They do this, they cut off and deny any conversation. It says all, they don't even care to tell you what the problem is. And it's gaslighting as you were left and blame yourself while them they refused even to talk about it, actually they didn't give me any chance at all no chance to get to know me. I don't agree to blocking people tough as how we act so it comes back to us. Ignore them, cut them off of your life but show your level is higher than theirs
@arniejayrodriguez11637 ай бұрын
So much tears i cried now while watching your this video. . I feel so much pain
@SCGSHOW7 ай бұрын
Stay strong. You can get through this 🙏🏻
@angelthebeast148 Жыл бұрын
i can't, honestly is hurts to much
@winnielimhuiyee2800 Жыл бұрын
During the no contact , I realised why I was not good enough for him and he couldn’t see my good qualities except the initial honeymoon magic . He was still hung up on his ex wife , even when we moved in together , he constantly comparing her and me . I felt weird and off , just didn’t feel I was enough for him . He then blame me and turning our relationship into an unhealthy relationship. There’s no love or humility.
@andziagreen4922 Жыл бұрын
I did the same evaluation of my ex and it gave me answers but first I needed to clear my mind from those strong emotions people have after breakup
@tiffweaver9300 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I came across this at a perfect time in my life.
@SCGSHOW Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome!
@kentaroo.7759 Жыл бұрын
I did the last one. I blocked and deleted someone from my life forever.
@1974dodgecharger Жыл бұрын
It’s a lot harder when she’s pregnant lol
@mikevital7656 Жыл бұрын
OK people how do you do this if you have kids together
@MrsBonesjangle Жыл бұрын
This video probably isn't appropriate for your situation, a situation where you need to maintain contact with your ex because of the kids. But I tend to think that if you can find love, happiness & self-respect with a new partner then the ex will lose all power to hurt you emotionally - you'll simply stop caring so much about the bs going on between you and be able to concentrate more fully on the kids, strengthened by your relationship with your new partner. If no new partner is on the horizon then just keep watching self-help videos, like I do! Self-respect is the key, I think. Good luck!
@introvertedways6976 Жыл бұрын
I’ll tell you this, in my situation awhile ago with my baby mother and every time i would get my son it was uncomfortable and couldn’t get her out of my head because i was still single and wanted her she doesn’t want me. However what helped me was I let my mother pick up/drop off my son for couple months until I forgave her and let it go as time goes by we communicate with each other as friends and that’s better than nothing because we have a child together we don’t have a choice. Only text when it’s about picking up your child, have someone close to you do, and later on thru out the months of doing so it’ll be better for the both of you
@biggerthanhiphop764110 ай бұрын
Just keep it short and about the kids only ..it worked for me ..
@Agnet_Faze Жыл бұрын
Well someone I care about has blocked me and they hurt me by saying that they have no interest in talking to me but at the same time this person has always been excited when seeing me and also always cared about me....
@HeavenlyLights9 ай бұрын
When you make the decision it is then easy.
@SCGSHOW9 ай бұрын
💯
@highplainsdrifter6992 ай бұрын
I dont care anymore..... Phil Collins 1982 🇬🇧👍
@GBPOGI2Ай бұрын
What if its your wife who does all these?
@SCGSHOWАй бұрын
Then you need to have one SERIOUS heart to heart conversation.