SECRETLY Want More Than Friends With Benefits | 3 Steps To Get Out of "Friend Zone"

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Apollonia Ponti

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When someone wants more than friends with benefits this is another alternative to the friend zone. Do I think that you can change this around if you want more? YES! I tell you how in this video.
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@TonyVega123
@TonyVega123 4 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with my benefit woman. Now we are engaged and expecting our first child.
@moisesbeyond
@moisesbeyond 4 жыл бұрын
remember she is not yours is just your turn
@AnonymousJ99
@AnonymousJ99 3 жыл бұрын
@@moisesbeyond what an awful thing to say lmao. That normally applies to young couples not people that have kids and are engaged.
@moisesmontanez5101
@moisesmontanez5101 3 жыл бұрын
WOW AWESOMEEEEEEE GOD BLESSSSSSS THE FAMILY AMEN GOD IS LOVEEEE❤️
@fudeezyrogers1297
@fudeezyrogers1297 4 жыл бұрын
I cant even get to friends with benefits 😂😭
@TAILSORANGEs
@TAILSORANGEs 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting us know how to make the best out of our relationships!
@bigdogmack8692
@bigdogmack8692 4 жыл бұрын
This is awesome content. The ponti brand works. This is what gemini brain power is all about
@SuperQdaddy
@SuperQdaddy 4 жыл бұрын
If you have money and balls to control the benefits...that's it !!
@AbsoluteKnowledgeSeekers
@AbsoluteKnowledgeSeekers 4 жыл бұрын
Major point to know: You’re not her only friend with benefit
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Nice tips to prolong the agony in the “ friend zone” mess the beta guy got himself in the first place. Just cut to the chase and tell her what you want. It’ll take less than 30 seconds, game over!
@tracyvanover9638
@tracyvanover9638 2 жыл бұрын
I always say take your time, do your own thing, if he comes around then let it flow if he doesn't then let him go!! Most men that don't respect you enough to date, hang out, meet friends, or mom. then there is a very high chance he has a few FWB! Bet!!
@dexdagamer2887
@dexdagamer2887 4 жыл бұрын
I've tried most of that . Stuck up city round here .
@vonDega
@vonDega 4 жыл бұрын
LOL...this came up on my home page...Bruh, don't put to much thought into it. Don't put YOURSELF in the friend zone. Stop being soft!! Charisma and Confidence. Look her in her eyes and speak on it. All else will fall into place. Good info Apollonia. But this info is elementary and should be already known and acted on. Dudes be thinking too much.
@Trace7173
@Trace7173 4 жыл бұрын
I find it so hard to believe that FOB is real..Why would a woman agree to something that completely benefits the guy..I can't even find any relationship much less a FOB situation
@archstanton3763
@archstanton3763 Жыл бұрын
Oh it’s most definitely a real thing. In my experience it’s been the woman who’s initiated the idea. However it can go south when feelings rear their head, as they will do at some point. Women are emotional creatures and no matter how high her defences or her attitude to being just FWB it often comes to a point of pain. It goes two ways, they run because they develop feelings they thought they wouldn’t or they say they’ve changed their mind and want more. Just my two cents from my experiences from being in FWB situations.
@smoothdesire9203
@smoothdesire9203 4 жыл бұрын
Aren't all relationship for her these days "friends with benefits" oh and a free meal
@VerisimilitudeFilms1
@VerisimilitudeFilms1 4 жыл бұрын
Screw "More". How do you get to have "friends with benefits" to begin with!?!? I thought that stuff only happens in the movies.
@chrysromeo
@chrysromeo 4 жыл бұрын
attraction must be intense enough or isn't enough from the start: usually, this situation of "friends" means the attraction is not at the right level and turning it around may not be worth the effort, because the problem is that she's already got a frame in her mind (conscious and subconscious) of what it's about: "friends with benefits"= settling for less than, which is never the best situation... the man might think attraction can increase by changing his attitude, but the fact remains that she's got it figured out already (even if she doesn't know it, she already knows), sooner or later she's going to meet another man that she has no doubt about and who she won't ever consider just a "friend", and that's where her interest and priorities will shift... once an option, always an option... it's better to move on and find something genuine and right, because hanging around waiting isn't going to bring results, better understand the truth and move on, find someone who feels the feeling and doesn't have any doubts... unless, of course, you don't mind settling for less as well
@darlingtonvelandzie5750
@darlingtonvelandzie5750 4 жыл бұрын
Thiss content is absolutely relevant... Thank you Miss Ponti
@FiereZero
@FiereZero 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to say thank you for these free videos I’ve been following your steps fairly well sometimes my Aspergers causes me to get overly excited. Thankfully the woman I’m talking with understands that’s part of me and I make effort to show I can quell the excitement. I am keeping my options open, but I do enjoy who I’m talking with hoping once I knock out a few bills this month I’ll be able to purchase your guides. I love it please keep this up you are helping
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Thank you for your message.
@waudicas
@waudicas 4 жыл бұрын
I’m Aspie too. Greetz from Sweden 🇸🇪
@waudicas
@waudicas 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget to check her blog too, there’s tons of stuff there.
@musajallow2718
@musajallow2718 4 жыл бұрын
Hi I really appreciate you, You morals lessons, my god bless you long life and good health.. Am greeting from Gambia west Africa...
@CalvinJamesJr
@CalvinJamesJr 4 жыл бұрын
I like being in that position
@johnfiveash6733
@johnfiveash6733 4 жыл бұрын
Apollina your videos are awesome.
@bigdogmack8692
@bigdogmack8692 4 жыл бұрын
Ohhh and might i say " you look marvelous".
@S1MPLECAVEMAN
@S1MPLECAVEMAN 4 жыл бұрын
You've given better advice than this before.
@khumbuzampono8494
@khumbuzampono8494 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much. You've given me something to meditate on.
@puffy_vegas7610
@puffy_vegas7610 4 жыл бұрын
II am a 46 year old man this is not what with FWB means to men. So let me clear this up. Your are in the friend zone ladies and you will never ever ever ever coming out. But my friend married her husband they started out as FWB. I told you the truth do what you want.
@juliawarren574
@juliawarren574 3 жыл бұрын
Never ever ever ever coming out ? .. but your friend did! .. you just gave an opposite example. Make it make sense
@andywhite8944
@andywhite8944 4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate your time..
@narutovskiba88
@narutovskiba88 4 жыл бұрын
this is the best place to be u are the sexy girl. it will naturally grow into a friendship
@kcleach9312
@kcleach9312 4 жыл бұрын
#2 will slap you into the friend zone if your not careful!!
@k.venkatarao2164
@k.venkatarao2164 4 жыл бұрын
Mam 1st view
@outlawstarr5209
@outlawstarr5209 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning Apollonia. I like the tip on the confidence level of saying "you may get a kiss to night". I say if you dont behave yourself I spank you. To she what action she takes.
@rachelmorrison362
@rachelmorrison362 4 жыл бұрын
That’s too abrupt. I honestly have so much respect for men but what you’re talking about is playing games. Just be yourself
@johnskyes8091
@johnskyes8091 4 жыл бұрын
If women has a man but yet she’s always friendly when we are out is that lady like... not saying don’t speak that’s just crazy but at times I think it’s not lady like.. ????
@VampiraVonGhoulscout
@VampiraVonGhoulscout 3 жыл бұрын
Sigh. So I'm polyamorous. I had no intention of finding a serious secondary partner, just casual encounters and FWB. So that's what I agreed to with this new guy. I'd only spoken to him online because of lockdown until a couple of days ago when we met in person. We went over the whole FWB thing again just to be sure of what we were looking for. But he is really sweet and I find it *very* difficult to find people I am into, let alone someone who I feel is a match. I just have this gut feeling about him and on the train home I was like, aww crap here come the butterflies. I'm not saying I want to jump into anything right away but I guess I'd be open to it developing into something more a few months down the line. We'll see where it goes. But now I gotta have that talk with him to ask if it's on the table on Monday and I feel like it's ending before we've even made it to the bedroom >.> I can never find people like him as well, it's so hard.
@Fire91ful
@Fire91ful 3 жыл бұрын
What happened?
@SOneGodoneintentionS
@SOneGodoneintentionS 4 жыл бұрын
I know she is using me. but I'm loving caring about her I hope I can change her mind?
@jasperjohnson83
@jasperjohnson83 4 жыл бұрын
Hi, thank you for the content. Please, where is the download link to friendzone no more?
@sammonsterenergy1982
@sammonsterenergy1982 4 жыл бұрын
I want to get to that stage however currently she’s not getting back to me about when she’s free next to hangout, even thou we’ve chatted for 16weeks and the date went well we went on. Suppose lockdown isn’t helping many things right now with dating
@briar35981
@briar35981 4 жыл бұрын
Friends with benefits never works. One of them will ruin it with feelings.
@alstonfernandez
@alstonfernandez 4 жыл бұрын
fuck im exactly in this spot. right video at the right time
@DennyBlade2001
@DennyBlade2001 4 жыл бұрын
I can't even get a friend with benefits. How to get find or turn someone into? Needs advice!!!
@eddymasoud5335
@eddymasoud5335 4 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@Billyguns82
@Billyguns82 4 жыл бұрын
I am a friend with benefits with this lady but we are both in a crazy situation I'm going through a divorce she never got married but she has a child with her boyfriend and that's with him we both hang around the same groups of people and no one knows about us she talks about leaving but I don't see it happening I'm pretty much open everybody knows about my situation I don't know if she's just using me for sex or an escape and I have a feeling she might be doing it with other men she's pretty honest and she tells me she doesn't have time but I don't think she's completely honest with me my gut tells me she's keeping something when my divorce is final I am willing take the next step with her and have a real relationship but I don't think she's ready or wants it
@rachelmorrison362
@rachelmorrison362 4 жыл бұрын
This advice only works with really confident women who are financially secure like the woman who is speaking in this video
@thatswhatisaidhoe9649
@thatswhatisaidhoe9649 4 жыл бұрын
I wish I was you're friend
@helderabraham682
@helderabraham682 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Apollonia this is what is happening to me, can you grieve more advise on the issue and what is the best plan .
@macona7318
@macona7318 4 жыл бұрын
thaks once a gine
@zilalaq574
@zilalaq574 4 жыл бұрын
I came to take tips and I have watched ur most of the videos and now I felt love 🤣🤣
@darrickbrisco5016
@darrickbrisco5016 4 жыл бұрын
Why buy the milk when u already have the cow
@alanwalker6877
@alanwalker6877 4 жыл бұрын
Hello alan i love this video wise you did this last next i have friend with benfes she is in england i am in lreland doing this back and forward over the last to year i told her i what more she what nutes i do not know how to charge this i still talk to her put have not see or travel since i sad that
@thyson4luv
@thyson4luv 4 жыл бұрын
Are you speaking based on past experiences and if so how many people did you actually dated and what makes you an expert?
@nealpnkflyd
@nealpnkflyd 4 жыл бұрын
what if we have been friends for 14 years and she;s been frirtatious but i was too scared of rejection to go for it.
@nokonice9088
@nokonice9088 4 жыл бұрын
Hi ponti. Anytime I call my girlfriend and I hear ca waiting I start to think about plenty things. How can I get rid of such thing
@marksyb957
@marksyb957 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Apollonia (I love your name), how to move from "friends" to "Friends with benefits" would be good.
@Para_Noia_
@Para_Noia_ 4 жыл бұрын
Seek out other women
@djalfredstein1049
@djalfredstein1049 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Apollonia, what if I don’t have friends with benefit yet I want to learn to get out of the friend zone. Does your product help with this? Thanks in advance!
@narutovskiba88
@narutovskiba88 4 жыл бұрын
ask her out
@dannyarnold4201
@dannyarnold4201 4 жыл бұрын
I want to find FWB's. *_(F)ilipinas (W)ith (B)enefits_* 💪😎
@yorsamore
@yorsamore 4 жыл бұрын
I have friend she shows good interest but sometimes she acting Weird she doesn’t reply my text message can you give me your Suggestion please thanks?
@ltmoods4182
@ltmoods4182 4 жыл бұрын
Not sure why you would want more.
@sundayaito4366
@sundayaito4366 4 жыл бұрын
LT Moods, because people develop feelings over time. Have you seen the movie pretty woman? If you have not, I suggest you see it. The situation in that movie talks of a story of someone who ended up wanting more than just a fling with an individual they encountered, kinda similar, I will say, to what is being said here. Lead characters in that movie is Richard gere and Juliet Roberts.
@EssentialMedia11
@EssentialMedia11 4 жыл бұрын
Irresponsible advice: affirming a fuck buddy then trying to train them out of a situation like many wont have already made of mess of things. Particularly women who can remain hurt for many years after not realizing emotions can consume & cripple.
@howtointroverts9718
@howtointroverts9718 4 жыл бұрын
First comment
@rayromo7222
@rayromo7222 4 жыл бұрын
To late for me
@wamblirobideau9225
@wamblirobideau9225 4 жыл бұрын
I love u
@MoreisMor
@MoreisMor 4 жыл бұрын
Can I have a conversation with you?
@macona7318
@macona7318 4 жыл бұрын
nic3 earings
@leonelmateus
@leonelmateus 4 жыл бұрын
My comment got deleted. lol.
@paulprince1364
@paulprince1364 4 жыл бұрын
What is your ethnicity
@abhishekkumarmandalmea-4145
@abhishekkumarmandalmea-4145 4 жыл бұрын
😍
@DRGUANE
@DRGUANE 4 жыл бұрын
🙏👍
@yawessilfie1724
@yawessilfie1724 4 жыл бұрын
Next video. How to keep Friends with Benefit when you want nothing more.
@eddymasoud5335
@eddymasoud5335 4 жыл бұрын
I need to speak to you
@macona7318
@macona7318 4 жыл бұрын
r3all3 your sumthing 3als
@robertrichards6459
@robertrichards6459 4 жыл бұрын
High-value male
@peter.salazar
@peter.salazar 4 жыл бұрын
Stop saying "button" please lol...
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 4 жыл бұрын
Never!
@TheAtxathlete
@TheAtxathlete 4 жыл бұрын
That’s a bunch of bad advice and beta male behavior
@DEMediaDrive
@DEMediaDrive 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like too much work for me. Back to stocks and real estate. I'll depend on that gravitional pull. Good luck single people! 👍
@PMMagro
@PMMagro 4 жыл бұрын
This is the problem with "freinds with benefits" Does both only want that now and later? It might be a way to start out but...
@79800955
@79800955 4 жыл бұрын
Tbh I would rather have a friend with benefits than a girlfriend No disgusting talk about the future such as Marriage and pregnancy Can go on more fun dates Less standards on making an impression
@davidsdinero
@davidsdinero 4 жыл бұрын
Learning to become a man is one of the best skills a man can learn💯👍💯
@alexik7356
@alexik7356 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that you didn't flat out insult Professor Finance keep it up
@orionanderson6719
@orionanderson6719 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, thank you very much for this. I like how you mentioned how a man should have options and have things that he is doing along with not dropping everything that he is doing just for her. Very important to prioritize, thank you again and have a great day
@leavemealone5242
@leavemealone5242 3 жыл бұрын
I want much more than friends. They like I like you only as friend
@jaimerios461
@jaimerios461 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me be a better person and giving the secret's of a women so I can learn what are women are about not what a man thinks how women are
@razorramone63139
@razorramone63139 4 жыл бұрын
Could've used this one before Covid. 😒 What about if they suddenly end up in a relationship with someone else? Do you wait around to be FWB again?
@pascalleblanc43
@pascalleblanc43 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Where does it stop this FWB? I met this woman and I made it clear that I only want FWB. I think that she wants full time relationship. How to make sure that you are free to go at anytime without hurting here? I probably made a mistake
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 4 жыл бұрын
Never be in the friend zone with a girl that you like or are attracted too. No.2 Never be a friend with a girl who has many guy friends.
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 2 ай бұрын
I played myself
@glenlobo
@glenlobo 2 жыл бұрын
I came here to get out man
@roorooadventures4771
@roorooadventures4771 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. I will work on them and take my time. I want to have fun with my own wellbeing and boundaries and enjoy lifestyle in new ways.
@troyharper6967
@troyharper6967 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this it came just in time I'm dating a co worker & we are doing FWB thing but she gets jealous but says she isn't is she lying or does she really like me ? Much love to you & your family 🌹
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Tony, I'm not sure. I would have to know more about the relationship between you two. I would advise to give this time and see how she continues to react. :)
@troyharper6967
@troyharper6967 4 жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti Thank you Ms. Appollonia 🌹
@moisesbeyond
@moisesbeyond 4 жыл бұрын
Never date a coworker if things go south and they eventually will you will loose your Job...remember she is not yours is just your turn
@karlosgray8874
@karlosgray8874 4 жыл бұрын
Apollonia, Do young women who are 35 or older like older man?. I am 60 years old. Am I too old? Please advise what is the best age range I should be looking for. Thank you.🌹
@telmeme4405
@telmeme4405 4 жыл бұрын
I have a girl i craze to date , I know she what’s too but she like oh I can’t make my mind up , I would love to be friends with benefits with her but at the same time I don’t want to scare her away! What should I do ? I have had so many dreams about her even kissing her and all but don’t know if I should just tell her how I feel inside
@alvinsolezi6164
@alvinsolezi6164 4 жыл бұрын
Hi apollonia See i was dating this girl for a month now but one day she told me that she wants space and she wants us to be friends... and i gave space and sometimes i go no contact but after 3-4 days she reaches out to me and she says she's just greeting me, she's just checking on me. But i don't understand this what does she really mean actually cause i really love her
@moisesbeyond
@moisesbeyond 4 жыл бұрын
With the Laws biased against men...the only relationship men Should have is Friends With Benefits , no Long term relationship and no kids at all
@stevestyles138
@stevestyles138 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.. good morning, Ladies, gentlemen good morning. Rules.. Guidelines to the Game! Always... always on Point! Thank you 😊. Styles
@coolyeh6305
@coolyeh6305 4 жыл бұрын
Beta guys and girls are the best. Alpha male or female is gone all complied to the lockdowns believes me cause i m damn🔥🔥🔥
@gillarsh1411
@gillarsh1411 4 жыл бұрын
Nice topic 😅👌👌
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@leonvarin8979
@leonvarin8979 4 жыл бұрын
I missed your more recent videos. KZbin wasn't giving notifications like before. After a forced update, I now see you again. I got some catching up to do LOL
@edgardelacruz6601
@edgardelacruz6601 4 жыл бұрын
Hey love your videos . Can you do a video on how to act on a separation but we still have to focus on our kids. Oh and want to save my marriage.
@benalexender3046
@benalexender3046 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks from Egypt 🇪🇬
@danielagbaniyaka6196
@danielagbaniyaka6196 4 жыл бұрын
I just love Apollonia Ponti. I love you. You are one of the finest out there,helping men and women to become better.
@smithgeorge5429
@smithgeorge5429 4 жыл бұрын
Are those flowers real or are they fake
@MohamedSaid-ww7fx
@MohamedSaid-ww7fx 4 жыл бұрын
I like Appolonia Ponte
@BB-uz4tc
@BB-uz4tc 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic Dona
@innocentmapindu6352
@innocentmapindu6352 4 жыл бұрын
thank you Apollonia for the useful tips
@willharper8346
@willharper8346 4 жыл бұрын
Came at the right time! Thanks 🙏🏾
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