Self Love | Parul Gulati | TEDxGLIMChennai

[@akankshasinghvlogs7405]

She was mah senior in my school😍 She is so kind...! And beautiful soul!😘

[@neetushrivastava9133]

in which school u were in ?

[@ishitasingh6492]

seriously amazing ♥♥♥♥♥

[@akankshasinghvlogs7405]

@@neetushrivastava9133 shiksha bharti in haryana😊

[@akankshasinghvlogs7405]

@@ishitasingh6492 😍😘

[@VRDproject]

Haryana!!?? OMG!! I took her to be a Mumbai girl. Now I truly wish we see her playing a typical Haryanvi Girl with that savage accent🤩

[@kalzj6176]

The way she was speaking about the "other girl" could be clearly seen in her eyes that she was talking about herself...and it really takes a lot of courage to come up like this...to talk about your own story specially when you have struggled a lot in life...hatsofff girl more power and love to you...god bless...

[@viking21]

I noticed too

[@artlove203]

Why an audience is so quit? She is delivering a elegant speech. ❤

[@Iam_namangupta]

Watching it after shark tak. She is at par at everything she does. Superb.

[@mugdhakanungo]

Can't believe you are portraying me in front of me....I loved you from haq se where you are such a strong girl... never knowing a soft hearted girl like me laying underneath...tears are rolling down from my eyes...I am getting goosebumps

[@aryangupta1971]

She was in an extremely underrated show on Star Plus called "Bandi Yudh ke" (prisoners of war). Loved her performance

[@ash8253]

It was a great serial first saw her there love her nose...

[@dollyshukla5646]

she was also d part of web series haq se..

[@minni_bisht_0408]

What i actually loved about her is she's so confident 💫

[@TheNilabh]

I'm not sure if I am going to say that I've become a fan of Parul but I can relate to her so much that it just makes me feel sad. Sad, because the way she speaks, I can see myself in her place. Like this is how I feel and this is what am and I've been seeking answers and validation from others and I've lived with this constant need for approval of others solely because I've never known myself. I still don't know what I want from myself and how I want to be. It's scary when you realise that fact because then you come to the actual understanding that there is no safe place for you to go and that you've been hiding and running from the real version of you. I dont know if people can relate to my comment here but I'm taking this time out to write so much here for two reasons, 1) I really really wish that someone should read this and help me. 2) i know there are many of you who feel just like me and it's not a good feeling and it makes us feel like we're not living like we're holding ourselves back. Like there is potential in all of us but we are not able to do anything because we don't know ourselves.

[@naptune6279]

When she said "anyway" it was the perfect style I have ever seen. Such a beautiful girl. I like her.

[@OjashShrestha95]

That abrupt ending. This lady is amazing. From Acting to TEDX Talk. Everything blows the audience way in so subtle ways. More power and achievements in her life!

[@paridhisinha4833]

Parul Gulati reminds me of " Girls Hostel" by girlyapa I wish they have more episodes 😁😂my comment is so out of tangent

[@adityakumar3943]

Watch BTS. They released it yesterday ;)

[@sanvi3740]

Same here😁

[@i_bit2]

Right......❣️

[@restorezone1145]

@@adityakumar3943 i didn't find girl's hostel season 2....did they released it?

[@akanksha0421]

@@restorezone1145 yes I hope you've watched already :)

[@kuhukapoor9215]

She seems so real and true when she's speaking..all that stammering and pauses make it seem like she's really recalling her past..ohh brother.

[@RubiscoTalks]

I met her during Lil Flea Market, Delhi this Feb (I even have a vlog on my channel) I remember her and became a fan of her since POW series which was underrated! I still remember how her face lit up when I mentioned her work in Prisoners of War! She is a sweetheart...and absolute gem 😍😍 she has her own brand Nish Hair and was promoting it..I really like this talk! Very relatable..

[@ajaykumartripathi85]

Brilliant content delivered almost Perfectly . You did a great job but I guess the audience were dead or abnormal !

[@stha03]

"How can you expect others to love you when you don't love yourself" 💖

[@nidhiupadhyay4607]

U have a charismatic personality . Keep growing 💗 Conclusion: love yourself , always feel privileged for the things that you have stop dying for fake attension start living for true love . Always respect your A category person . ✨

[@nuke2625]

I thought she's kind of a diva girl. But she seems like a nice girl.

[@surekhamallareddi9781]

I actually never liked her in videos because she seemed like somebody with an attitude and now I have become a huge fan of who she is! I love this video and I relate to this.. Great work!!

[@payalk2898]

7:06- Accept yourself and your journey Ask yourself why are you feeling what you are feeling ??

[@riyabhatt1710]

I have gone through same situation but now after going to a doctor or a therapist I found myself and if you and I can do it everyone must do it ... Because mental sickness is a real thing

[@tiaradsouza2072]

She is pretty relatable. Self-love is important! truly empowering.

[@garimasinghbhati6419]

The way she has explained her story was totally relatable. So many things has cleared for me abouts me. Thank you!!

[@ankitashelke1218]

This is exactly what i needed . Thank you so much parul .

[@bvartikaa]

I love how genuine this was.

[@achyutsinha8242]

Hii Parul, my story is almost similar like you and I also get my therapy and after this therapy I got all my questions why is to be happen with me and only me. But it needs guts to say everything about yourself and I want to say great job 👍😎✌

[@humming_words_on_the_tree9934]

Parul ♥ all hearts out to u... Love ur voice and more than that, ur confidence... Whether u are or not. U are doing great. Love ur jacket and u accepting urself ♥

[@coolshailly04]

Hey Parul! Hope you read this.. I first saw you in 'Yeh pyaar na hoga kam' as Bittan and I just loved your character. In most of the shows I watch I like the supporting characters more than the main 2 actors! I just remember your face from that show. Then I saw you in P.O.W. and I followed that show religiously. I loved that show! In 'Haq se' you were also there. I really appreciate your choice of projects. Good luck for your future. Here you said stop collecting and start connecting. Well I was born and brought up in a big city and I face people's prejudice all the time. Oh she's a Delhite must be high headed or just way too modern (which is now the defintion for not knowing household basic chores or being non adjusting). Well I am not one of them and yes someone said oh you don't go out often and are always studying or spending time with your family. So I have friends who are well connected and not collected. Self love is soo important and with time and the success/failures we face I think we start undervaluing ourselves. So it's super important to love yourself and to accept yourself. Other things will fall into place eventually. And yes Parul di (as I am younger to you by 2 yrs as per wikipedia :P) keep smiling! Keep shining! 😊

[@UnlockingBrilliance]

Every failure is coming to make us brave and successful so it's all about our choice what we want to choose.. thank you for sharing worth of self love :)

[@richabhardwaj1196]

Parullll... u r a power packed girl. Keep it up. Love you 😊God bless you

[@RuchiYevle]

How beautifully conveyed! The "Collector" and "Connector". That's the generation of we millennials. We first compare ourselves rather than self appreciation. But this betters with self talk and more importantly self love. One of the rare videos with such relatable "connect"!

[@neetushrivastava9133]

correct but what if somebody has no 'A' category friends, and she wants to make friends but no one wants to be her friend.

[@RuchiYevle]

@@neetushrivastava9133 Firstly, one can list their some friends as 'A' category friends only if he/she knows them, understands them and they do the same. This friendship comes over a lot of time and understanding. And why nobody wants to be her friend? Ask yourself first. Only you can get your answer

[@neetushrivastava9133]

@@RuchiYevle thanks for the suggestion .

[@RuchiYevle]

@@neetushrivastava9133 also take time to differentiate between your friends and acquaintances. Life would be better!♡

[@karshanbhaigohil198]

Ur story just helped me change my story...Thankyou for making me feel that this was an emptiness that I "ws" feeling in my stomach... But now no more... ik what I hv to do... Tysm parul 😇😇💕💕 - Shivangi

[@dikshasharma4518]

I still remember her character of Bittan in the show ye pyar na hoga kam which starred yami Gautam :') loved this video

[@VipulJain40]

Correct she was sister of yami gautam in the show

[@sirishjain7003]

More power to you girl. Keep going strongly .. stay blessed. You are a champion .

[@saurabhniley5441]

You are very brave to talk about your past to help others, also I can relate so much. Great talk!

[@sane2863]

Somehow somewhere when this video started and you started speaking after 2-3 minutes I knew you were talking about yourself

[@pallavid8231]

What you went threw I understand it very much But I am glad you have realized and trying to be a better everyday, ☺

[@kanchankashyap9033]

She's so beautiful from heart and soul

[@nilottomasultana2412]

I really feel the same.. Thanks for sharing.. Lots of love for you.

[@vandanasingh3973]

I lv the reality...........i can feel what she said......just amazing 💓💓

[@ajaykumartripathi85]

One of the most connecting videos on TedX .Parul you are doing a great job dear .Lots of wishes !! 👏👏👏👏

[@kitotekishika]

Don't collect... Just connect 😘

[@aditigupta5649]

Her voice ❤❤

[@dubb3292]

I remember her from Kitni mohabbat hai❤❤

[@ravijoshi6022]

Thank you for being you 👊👊

[@prashanttiwari1225]

Feels like you just portrayed my story.

[@rohitrohan2009]

xD

[@ayushkapoor2119]

This is literally my life story.

[@HollyyBollyy]

People often confuse self love with selfishness, narcissism...the real form of self love is self love and compassion, empathy

[@akanksha0421]

Oh my god! It is great (no other words) Kudos to uh Parul! Really awesome!

[@darshitaagrawal8258]

It was like... Someone is telling my tell to the world... I m 18 right now... And hoping that, will be as much confident as she is, in my future

[@belzebub1533]

What if one has no "A" category friend? The thing is we might feel others superior than ourselves... 😩 Yes its wrong..... Yeah Nothing wrong in taking time.... We are good persons and being better... Somehow ....... Life........

[@jetbllackwings]

10:20 such a great depiction that’s exactly what it feels like

[@angitd3766]

Such a great speech

[@pankhfoundation1750]

Loved your work in "Haq se" on altbalaji webseries

[@revathisusi6609]

I m related to u...!!!ur words r giving confidence sis!!!👍

[@ankitasingh728]

luv u parul,you are so connecting.Ilove your every performance.

[@SeemaSharma-cb9gd]

I can relate to her😔

[@kashikarathor941]

This is very beautiful, thankyou for sending so much power, more power to you💯💖

[@nk8368]

Superbbb....one of the best video i hv ever seen

[@AnamikaSingh-gb3pr]

Totally related to me.. But in my case i know where did i come from ...thnx for this ,to me worked like a therapy. Still I'm struggling with self love 😪 .

[@khanajaana]

I totally relate to you ...I feel the same.

[@sabrinmehtab9293]

i love her episode in girliyapaa..

[@parulpurwar7716]

Loved it !❤️ I feel the same be you self love is something which can give u peace 😍

[@cami__s5068]

I can so relate to this....lovely speech👍

[@monishkakaushal6040]

Are we all attention whores??💙👀

[@suruchi2867]

Aag h bndi ...best speech

[@meghawa]

Wow, this is so relatable😪

[@ganum51]

Nice start parul... Best luck... It's very difficult to keep people engage

[@alidack9750]

Superb..one of the best videos I have watched on this topic👏👏👏

[@shrutitayal01]

🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡ilove your voice and the style of ur speaking,🧡🧡🧡🧡⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@zainabmohammad3834]

Ditto my Story Therapy is yet to happen

[@anitamajhi7635]

Therapy se kuch fayda hota haa...

[@sachusabu1]

This is what I was searching for....thank you❤️

[@Abhishek-vy9kj]

same feeling as i have , a category people are difficult to find

[@gauravgupta9477]

3:09.....I was like "boom!!!!!!!!"..... Collector??....IAS??

[@misbamaniyar2456]

No 😂😂not that

[@manishkumbhar2958]

😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@kjan17]

Me too😅

[@ritambharasingh5373]

I relate so much...but gud t c u n learn frm u Parul to how navigate thru dis situation of ours...my loved ppl tell me luv myself frst..only den can i luv others !

[@harmianaaa]

I'm so proud of you!

[@himanshikashyap4640]

I love her since girls hostel ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@crazycutiie6694]

This helping a lot to overcome the fact that "why people don't like me" Very good 👍

[@riyaz2041]

Confidence level 🔥💯

[@mollysharma3373]

It was worth listening ..... Really...

[@pragatisingh2396]

Love every word of you..♥️♥️♥️

[@namita7387]

I relate to this...but thanks to tell us first like ur self❤😍😍😍

[@durgeshnandinpanda2999]

I can connect this to myself,,,,and loved this talk,,&diva,,,,

[@dikshamalhotra3372]

Appreciate your courage.. 💞 ぱる は きれい です👍

[@knowledgepin3390]

So relatable ❤❤

[@gaurika4927]

She is talking about herself

[@universedaughter8267]

So brilliantly you spoke the all on going things , a stage of every life. Blessed soul

[@aryangupta3498]

mam u r so adorable. Very well presented.

[@Zahra-bi4bw]

She's so pretty 💕

[@prabalsharma6618]

There is a kind of emptiness in ur eyes👀....just saying😁😁

[@Am-js1ue]

I feel the same way as she did and it's so depressing

[@pankajnirankari8710]

From today i changed 🙂

[@geetikashaaran4256]

So helpful, thanks❤

[@meghalad3725]

Idk but somehow our situations relate , like I can't figure out , what is actually happening to me or will I be able to fittin a city , like being a small town girl will I be able to mix up or like fit in there society will ppl like me , Idk but ur vid helped me at some point , all I can say right now is THANKS from heart like I mean it🖤

[@cuteorganism6524]

U r Awesome

[@i_bit2]

You speak so good👌🏻

[@monishkakaushal6040]

Every of my fav person is on ted ex now i love uh guyss❤❤💙💙

[@akhilkumar4032]

I too want to talk any chance.. sister

[@DOCSRUCS4265]

I love myself ....ND I don't care what others think .....

[@kiruthika___attheglobalcit4134]

Amazing. ..

[@Kirti9999]

You solved my problem thank u dear☺️

[@FreshFlower1010]

Ur amazing Parul.. 😘❤️

[@TheVishalvindoorty]

Very nice