Shannon Sharpe's One Sided Beef with Black Women's Hair.

[@traumaqueeen]

Anything they hate in us, they hate in themselves. Imagine making fun of the hair that also grows out of your own scalp, make it make sense people.

[@JulianAlbino]

right, that literally makes no sense and just reveals that he really hates himself

[@beatsbydizzy8932]

that part

[@mayowasworld]

Yup I kno his internalized anti blackness is HOLLERING.

[@kimgardner2281]

Truth

[@las8883]

They stupidly view natural coily hair as masculine which is why they feel like it makes sense to put down bw with the same texture as them. Pure idiocy.

[@SelfLove4eva]

Unfortunately, Shannon Sharpe represents a lot of black men in the community, this behavior is truly distasteful.

[@HypnoticHollywood]

Black women are not in the position to accuse anyone of distasteful behavior, have you seen Sexyy Red or Love and Hip Hop??

[@SelfLove4eva]

@@HypnoticHollywood The subject matter is about black men not black women.

[@Ubothered]

Have you seen diddy, Future, and all the other sick house kneegrows?​@HypnoticHollywood

[@bkchic8824]

​@@HypnoticHollywood BM are also on love and hip hop, and most rappers are men. 🤣

[@prezian1312]

@@HypnoticHollywood They don’t represent every women though 😂

[@darkfemme4914]

A white man had to tell him that and all he could was laugh with his goofy self because he know it is true.

[@TeaWitcher]

Sad times. Like what is even funny about that 🦝🦝

[@JulianAlbino]

that was so embarrassing

[@IOU88]

Lost and pathetic 😬😒

[@extrashotofespresso_]

They the weakest link as usual.

[@Melinanextdoor]

​@@JulianAlbino you're handsome 😍

[@KitanaTulip]

when black men gonna realize they got the same hair we do

[@alee111]

They know. That's why they hate it. It's self hate

[@joepatrick3092]

We wear our own hair you guys (black female) don’t

[@alee111]

@@joepatrick3092 you black xys shave your hair off masking your self hatred with a tight fade. Be silent!

[@TechnicolorZebra]

@@joepatrick3092”wear your hair out” aka buzzed low in a fade and/or with artificially manipulated waves to hide ones actual hair texture, but yes go off about wigs and weaves 😂

[@Sharifay.]

@@TechnicolorZebraAin’t that something? The same black dudes that make fun of light skin or mixed dudes & call them soft, mimic their slick hair. They all wanted their “waves on swim” at one point, yet have smoke for BW.

[@alovinglens]

Which is wild how they dissociate from blackness but swear they’re proud to be Black. You can’t reject that woman of an ethnicity but embrace the male version of that. Thank you for your work good sis!

[@cheekintenders]

Its so disappointing when so many Black men don't respect and protect Black women, but Black women are always showing up to support and protect Black men. I think about the dynamic between Black men and women a lot and sometimes it takes everything in me not to become a divestor, and I'm so ashamed to admit that- even in an online space. I don't hate Black men, but sometimes there's only so much empathy I can give to people who hurt me, director/indirectly. I just wish they would work with us towards a better existence and not against us right with the rest of the world.

[@alovinglens]

@@cheekintenders yes! And your feelings are valid. BM are responsible for creating such an unnatural dynamic, and they have the power to change it. But now the benefit of joining and aligning oneself with yt supremacy against black women is access to financial capital. For me, the question is, how do we divest from degrading and hating black women as a form of profit making, even though that is the oldest form of profit making in America. It’s just now and 30 years ago, marking the origins of gangster and misogynistic rap , black men are willing to cash in on it. I 110% feel you on the challenge of loving a group that has bought into scapegoating us to avoid reconciling with their internalized anti-blackness and self hatred.

[@angelr5694]

​@@cheekintenders Investing in yourself and being proud of your blackness should not equate to investing in black men. The way we have been socialized is that black= black men, black culture = black male culture, and so on. There are several pillars needed to make a culture and an identity and regardless of where in the diaspora we can identify them through the means that black men have established but cannot do the same for all of the pillar for back women, why is that? leaving them alone is not hate. you are simply building your own identity and power that no one can place or take from you.

[@angelr5694]

@@alovinglens great question!

[@Tessy29k]

It's annoying to me that bw still stick by black men no matter how much they try to embarrass and harm you. It's honestly mind boggling the amount of punishment bw can take from bm.

[@sofineshesmine]

He wasn't laughing like a hyena when Monique said, I heard you don't like black women. He was very serious with his reponse. But he acting like a clown when a white man says the same thing.

[@fhenlizhao5406]

Because many of these types are giddy an around Mr WM. They worship and idolize other men

[@thundercat6709]

Yep and her semi-joking about no one wanting to date “Black Shannon” seemed to sting a bit.

[@Iphideen]

The way Black men become so submissive around white people is disturbing.

[@mayowasworld]

😂😂 so truuuuu!!!!!

[@Zan823]

Yeah she definitely shanked his ego ​@thundercat6709

[@advice4u409]

I believe that BM like Shannan who had mothers and grandmothers who were self-sacrificing, struggled, and worked hard on their behalf, subconsciously, makes them devalue BW. They too see BW as the starter/struggle wife, until they can attract "better." That's why BW should reject the struggle and the "ride or die" because it has the opposite effect on loyalty and value.

[@KayDejaVu]

Very well said! I just saw a piece on Clarence Thomas. In his book he made mention of his sister being on welfare for a few years but made no commentary on how his father made him feel after abandoning the family. Even when we help them, they view you as less than. During BLM, I saw some posts BM made saying BW were seeking attention when they stood up. They did not mention us marching as their sisters. But as attention seeking. This 'support the BM' BS has been a waste!

[@PieceMeals]

💯 they see bw as mules and in their most unattractive, lowest state in their eyes I.e struggling. The women in their household who were hustling, working hard, doing the job of two parents and trying to keep the household together are how they see all bw I.e tired, unglamorous and unattractive.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@KayDejaVuClarence Thomas’s sister ended on welfare, because their grandmother, mother and aunt made her work, so they ALL could financially support Clarence Thomas Uni education in Theology and ALSO when he changed his major to Law (so his ungrateful treasonous azz started over AND went to Law School on their dime). Kobi’s parents also put all their financials into Kobi (expensive Italian coach, which is why he speaks the language perfectly), so his sisters couldn’t afford to go to Uni all for him to give all his wealth to the Hispanic community. Theses males are disloyal.

[@mayowasworld]

@@Ricoque-u2momg so all the women banded together to support the boy child just for him to turn around and act how he does?! A mess!

[@alwaysannoyedforever518]

@@KayDejaVuto say we’re attention seeking as if we aren’t black too? As if there aren’t black women’s names listed right beside theirs? Disgusting.

[@extrashotofespresso_]

EVERYTIME my dad talks about the day I was born he doesn’t talk about how beautiful I was, he doesn’t talk about how happy he was to be a father to his first daughter, he talks about how curly my hair was. Some BS. Not trying to throw him under the bus but the older I get, the harder it gets for me to not roll my eyes. It’s stupid AF. The obsession black dudes have over hair is disgustign. The other day my brother made fun of me for wearing a wig. Why are ninjas THIS obsessed with hair? Like I was minding my business, not bothering no one and it always goes back to hair. I’m starting to think these dudes wish they were women cause the obsession is getting ridiculous.

[@m_martha_e]

I feel you. My parents’ friends seem to only care about my hair texture and marriage status. They are blind to my actual accomplishments. As long as there is a loose curl texture and a husband nothing else matters😑🙄

[@EtherealSolana]

I hate when my dad complements my hair. It always has some subconscious undertone of yt worship underneath it. Like when it’s straightened he gives more happy reactions

[@kakishisfriend1126]

They'd never make fun of a Asian or White woman for wearing wigs though 😢

[@Iphideen]

Stop confusing the misogyny/misogynoir with a desire to be a woman. Im really tired of that being the go to reasponse of cis Black women. The video literally talks about misogyny in Black men please open your ears.

[@Sharifay.]

@@IphideenRight. Not the just the misogynoir but the abject self hate. They hate themselves so much they project it onto black women. Non-black women do not get the same snide remarks from black men.

[@selwatchesyt]

The self hatred is so sad.

[@shardeabre]

He has a black belt in self hate

[@melaninkind8783]

Your comment made my day😂😂👏

[@potofgoldseeker4248]

😂😂

[@Melinanextdoor]

Exactly 😹😹pretty funny and smart

[@kekedream]

💀💀💀

[@taotaostrong]

😂😂😂

[@DefinitelyNotNormalLol]

While they worry about women’s hair and skin color other races of men are running circles around them financially, intellectually, technologically, I could go on.

[@taurus_beauty11-11]

✨👍🏼✨

[@SpeciesUnknown]

Facts

[@Ricoque-u2m]

They can’t even keep their community safe from each other. Always running to other races of men’s communities to whine and cry instead of rebuilding their own.

[@loriwheaton9376]

Cause they petty and intellectually deficient.

[@ichellexcel]

Preach! At my previous job, there were so many male doctors who were mostly White, Asian, and or Hispanic. It was very rare to see a Black male doctor. And if I did see one, he was from the motherland.

[@fae3821]

I'm glad you pointed out how his response was different when it was a man calling him out! I notice that all the time. Men in comment sections having all the smoke and insults for women but either ignore the men that disagree with them, or respectfully respond to only the men 9/10 times. They act like we don't see it.

[@toricollins6516]

TikTok Panels has made what you said ENTIRELY true!

[@hevabmore]

It shows how submissive they really are.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

It shows also how fearful they are of men in other communities. The truth is they’re aligned with white supremacy.

[@mayowasworld]

Yup!! I peep this often it happens so much sadly

[@Tonia682]

I’ll be 56 in December so Shannon and I have the share the same birth year. I agree that he should know better but he reminds me of the uber-colorist boys I grew up with.

[@MeltingOnYourMind]

Not 56😮you look gorgeous not a year beyond your 30s if this is your profile pic☺️

[@t_ylr]

It's not just age it's also where he's from. And like no shade to anybody from South Georgia. I'm from Atlanta. Black folks from Columbus, Augusta are cool, but when I meet black folks from South Georgia I feel mentally they're still in the 1800s. It's not all but it's a lot of the ones I've met lol

[@Tonia682]

@@MeltingOnYourMind Thank you! ❤That is me 2-3 years ago.

[@userubblemon]

you’re gorgeous

[@nias67]

Oh my goodness!!! Saaaaaaaame 😩😩😩. The self hatred is real 🙄🙄🙄

[@MellieMcK]

I remember a black classmate in HS told me I should straighten my hair and I'd be prettier to date (???). We weren't even friends, we just had classes together and it was so out of pocket. My husband isn't a black man which wasn't intentional - we met online and had no idea what the other looked like, but I've never been disrespected and commented on by him the way black men have which is wild. Stop chasing these men that don't want us and go for the men that actually appreciate you!

[@lavonnealexander6936]

wtf 🤬he is probably crazy, I wouldn’t sit near him.

[@TrangPakbaby]

It’s so funny when I talk to blk women who say they will never date out because “only a blk man can understand my struggle!” Do they understand the struggle of a blk woman? The evidence says absolutely not

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

They're the cause of it a lot times.

[@alicia7737]

They often cause it and they understand it, but they don’t care. This is what those blk women don’t get.

[@EtherealSolana]

My own father says misogynistic+anti-bw stuff time after time. Even tries to hide it. But it always slips. I’m tired of other bw trying to keep us race loyal. They would sell us out for resources and power in a second

[@TrangPakbaby]

@@farmhouseonthemountain 💯💯facts!!

[@ichellexcel]

👏👏

[@theblushingbookworm]

You are spot on with saying we as Black women, are currency. It’s sad, but true. Those kinds of Black men see us as “ things” while we view them as human- there is zero reciprocity. Also, him congratulating himself for producing a child who lack God kissed 4C hair , is super cringe.

[@mayowasworld]

Yessss it’s prolly for the best that his black lineage stops with him lol

[@theamethyst93]

He is such a cornball, he has this idea in his mind that yt people respect him in this certain way they really don’t in reality. like he thinks they’re his buddies but they aren’t, he’s just another kewn they laugh at every now and then but he doesn’t see it and it’s kind of embarrassing tbh 😂 he does the MOST for their approval.

[@kekedream]

He is always buck dancing for the yt gaze 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Like most black males- while proclaiming that black women are the jokes to all non black people instead.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

OJ was like that! Very hateful to black people, but luuuuuv himself a white person of either gender.

[@ljakob4890]

@@theamethyst93 you KNOW they laugh at him behind his back.

[@Childgodgirl12]

It's crazy because the job he left with Skip Bayless showed they didn't respect him.

[@regina5848]

Black men has always made jokes of Bw hair think about it. Back in the days on Martin Martin was always making jokes about Pam's hair.🤔

[@kekedream]

And dressing up cosplaying a Blk woman stereotype too.

[@SONIA-q5i]

It's when Martin called Pam nappy headed😅💀and that time Martin has 6C hair😂😂😂😂

[@EtherealSolana]

@@SONIA-q5iand worse of all, they hate us the most when they have the same or darker skin tone . Like wow

[@SONIA-q5i]

@EtherealSolana pure mental illness I tell you and what's funny is that they think it's normal I'm definitely sure they get laughed at by other races when they say and do embarrassing stuff like that😭😭😭😂😂💀

[@SONIA-q5i]

@EtherealSolana pure mental illness I tell you😭😭😭🤣😂😂and what's worse is that they think it's normal I'm sure the non bm they friends with be laughing at them so hard when they say stuff like this💀

[@Saraimaz]

I dont understand why no one calls out how feminine blck men are for constantly talking about hair but not even owning the hair shops in their own communities.

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

I am SO tired of men aged out of a woman's dating pool being salty about that so coming in extra hot with the critiques. It's giving very high school, 'she didn't reject me, I never wanted her to begin with!' vibes, from men old enough to be a grandpa.

[@LisePlansandJournals]

Black men dont see their mothers, grandmothers etc in every black woman. They only give women in their families respect and it is important to stop expecting skin-loyalty or love from them. It's just not gonna happen.

[@fhenlizhao5406]

That’s the ironic part. You have to be seriously DAMAGED I mean uncle Ruckus level damaged to hate your dna and phenotypes. It means you essentially don’t appreciate your own life and the type of women who brought you into this world.

[@charmaineespeut4627]

If they can be racist toward Black women then they do not respect their female family members

[@walkinthewoods981]

I think they do. Many of their grandmothers and mothers were light skinned. When people are talking about their parents, you often hear, "my mother was lighter than my father." You also hear people say that a parent told them not to marry a dark skinned woman if they want pretty children or grandchildren. I think they are just continuing a pattern.

[@AnyTiers]

Actually they feel the same way. They don't that deep about their family

[@PieceMeals]

They do and it explains the projection on to all bw. Let's be real most only grew up with the matriarchy in their family who had to do everything to care for them including take on a dual father and mother role which is where this assertion that bw are masculine comes from. It's hard to be soft when they are having to do everything in the home, work and raise children. BM see this as a struggle they don't want to be part of when they gain some success and do everything to escape it. However, they see all bw as 'the struggle.' Sure, many love their mothers but just as many are resentful of their upbringing and blame the women in the family esp because 9/10 the father is/was absent.

[@sherryg1850]

Thank you Mayowa, the forgiveness train needs to stop when it comes to black men like Shanon Sharpe . The disrespect is too much and I hope at no point he doesn't need black women to come to his defense( like they all do) because I for one will not.

[@priscilla8068]

We always defend these men and I hate it so much because they don't deserve any of our forgiveness

[@sherryg1850]

@@priscilla8068 exactly!!

[@QrannBadal-j2b]

Black men treat black women like shit b/c that's how black women treat other black women. Theres no unity Amon women so we will suffer without unity. Black women hair is beautiful 👑

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Burn the capes. It means nothing, never once meant anything anyway. Our ancestors could come back and tell y’all that much.

[@Aishao-c5c]

Well the black sisters don’t have to help him. Let him call Michelle.

[@lisaj4441]

Hmmmm he had NOTHING to do with his daughter's hair. If anything, his genes were fighting against it. So why is his proud? How did he do well?

[@Vbkingsova]

😂. Thank god she didn’t get his nose.

[@mayowasworld]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@ssa-yp9jt]

because he was able to pick and attract the kind of woman with “good hair” that gave his daughter “good hair” too

[@Cocoabrown25]

#featurism ☝🏾😉​@@Vbkingsova

[@Heat_Rush]

What's crazy is that there are Asians who are perming their hair to rock afros!!!!!!

[@kenealcloete8657]

It's the way she spits such stone cold hard facts and casually ends the video asking us in how her makeup looks, you're so real I love your channel and everything you stand for. ❤❤❤

[@northrnstar]

mayowa speaks straight facts and is also good at creative makeup looks. she's my icon

[@bythandeka]

11:50 😢 in South Africa, in Zulu language they call that of a woman “imbokodo” meaning a rock, and I don’t like that term at all. Because it means, everything has to be a struggle for a woman. Like bro, I am soft, I hurt, I get tired, I run out of ideas and not know what to do. Strong woman, is used loosely and is a dangerous term because there’s extreme expectations around it. We bleed blood hey 😢😂 like seriously

[@EtherealSolana]

Being “strong” as a bw is something we’ve always had to be since precolonial times. Even a Portuguese Catholic man who traveled to west africa saw and was appalled by how hard African women worked (taking on more than women in other societies usually do) compared to European women during the 1600s. Reading that history is so insightful. Blk women have been praised for “strength” but it’s always been out of survival and men capitalizing from our overextended labor… 😢 The book is called “problems in African history: precolonial times” *slave raids also put more labor burdens on African women. Throughout East and west Africa. They were even preferred, especially later on in the Atlantic trade, and from the beginning in the Indian Ocean trade because European and Arab men saw that African women were used to doing more work on average than African men!!!! It was also easier to keep a woman enslaved bc she didn’t have the amount of physical strength on average as a man, and of course she could be forced to produce children (but often the children died, or were deleted bc of the harsh realities of the their condition. Only those with better conditions were more fertile)

[@SONIA-q5i]

​@@EtherealSolanawe have been through a lot😢

[@bythandeka]

@@EtherealSolana it’s a really tough position and it doesn’t have to be that way.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@EtherealSolanaat least we’re finally not forcing that narrative on our young fully black girlies coming up. When I see fully black little girlies, I always bless her/them in my heart and wish her a safe, struggle free life on this Earth.

[@Intentionaltia]

He laughed. How embarrassing. Even the white man noticed. Some of these BM are embarrassing af.

[@JulianAlbino]

the makeup eats and look eats

[@cynthiaholland13]

How did he do a good job that his daughter has long hair??

[@traumaqueeen]

its idiotic, these men are idiots.

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

He's saying he chose well in a mating partner according to BM standards and that he created another female "preference". Whoever the child's mother is, she is probably light skinned with a looser hair texture and he wants a pat on the back for the facts that he bedded such a woman and procreating with her at that.

[@Shay416]

He's such a weirdo and a bully. What a POS.

[@Heat_Rush]

I'm black and Native American. I have long "good hair." And I wear weave and wigs because the upkeep is exhausting 😮‍💨. I sweat a lot and after a while that perm or blow out goes right out the window. People ask me all the time why I wear wigs. I love braiding my hair and throwing on a unit that will still look good at the end of the night.

[@CloudTribe]

Sometimes I wonder do toxic Black people just simply outwork everyone in the community and make it to the top, or does the system pluck them up and put them way higher than they should be. Because the amount of idiots who are successful is almost unfathomable, but we can't seem to establish a pro Black voice that takes precedent over all others. I think things are getting a bit better but it feels like life is a tv show.

[@MellieMcK]

It's more beneficial for the toxic black folks to be popular (imo) - gives everyone else ammo to keep disrespecting us!

[@ncpsbh1504]

​@@MellieMcKthey're grifters. They criticize and humiliate Black people for money regardless of the impact their actions are having.

[@arigodut]

They pluck them up.

[@LisePlansandJournals]

13:22 "He doesn't want to reproduce another him." Most bm dont. The sooner we come to grips with that the better. Harsh truths but still truths.

[@PurpleGalaxies123]

I wonder why dark-skinned black women want to have sons that look like Shannon Sharpe, even though men that look like Shannon Sharpe don't even value the features of their own mothers?

[@angelr5694]

I do wonder whats taking so long

[@ms.evegene]

They still aren't there for their kids....

[@chelseaamara7218]

Does the world really need black man??!! Absolutely not.

[@mynameisnotimportant2854]

@@angelr5694 black males want blackness for themselves. They like the attention they receive from society

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

I'm from the Balkans, so your look today really reminds me of the traditional dress of the women from my homeland. Very ornate, and hair covered in beautiful colorful scarves. 🙂

[@Nethanda]

Why do old white men love stalking young black women's pages? It's supremely creepy. Go to your demographic?

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@Nethanda I noticed the same. Every race is listening and watching us.

[@blackinton2526]

Why the hell would someone from Balkan(a place full of anti-black people) watch these kind of things damn yall are obsessed and lurking

[@HelyBel]

I never liked him nor will I ever will. Men like him are just a disgrace. He has black daughter my gosh can’t he learn one or two things in not what to say I am convinced he does it on purpose.

[@EtherealSolana]

I’m my father’s daughter and he complains about women, and especially blk women most of the time. Even indirectly, he slights my image and pedestalizes everything Latina/yt adjacent. Still wants me to marry a man like him tho. Not gonna 😂

[@HelyBel]

@@EtherealSolana fathers like him lack self awareness why would a parent want their child to date someone like them, I find that very very weird. Best to use him as not what to date and what to stay away from. I once saw a man similar to this guy and he asked me if my hair was real and I purposely said no it is not and it costed me a lot, loved that look on his face he thought I was like other people that would allow him to disrespect other black women , I knew his intentions behind his conniving questions. He later on tried to convince me I was trying to westernise my self and why I shouldn’t want to be white women and in my head I was like projecting much he just saw me here for the first time and u can tell me my life story. But one thing I always remind my self is a quote I saw online that says along the lines of not verbatim but “don’t stoop down to their level we don’t want the crown 👑 on our head to tilt or fall, we r queens” so my Moto is let them hate and criticise what else can they do. Sorry for my little rant ❤️❤️❤️

[@astoldbygingrr]

BW need to stop with the “but your mother, sister, daughter, grandmother!!1” stuff. They do NOT care. Who says they like any of their female family members to begin with? Most of the time, they are mentally separating them from the women they are romantically interested in. I do the same when it comes to BM. My brother and father are wonderful men. I also recognize a lot of BM are not like my brother and father. I simply refuse to have any loyalty to BM. It would behoove the collective of BW to do the same.

[@HelyBel]

@@astoldbygingrr I couldn’t agree with you more 💜

[@PrincessPink-x]

I believe his daughter is mixed or something. He was happy to share that hair is real on a post one time.

[@DoraVDora]

That red scarf just looks so pretty on your hair and against your skin !🥺

[@annawoods3120]

On point as always. For that to be his response it’s so telling. Black men want to gaslight us and make us think it’s just preference but it’s ani blackness for sure.

[@SONIA-q5i]

There's no such thing as preference when it comes to race let's not get it twisted

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@SONIA-q5i exactly dogs don’t have a preference for mating with cats. They prefer girl doggies like themselves. Only BM and AW hate themselves so much.

[@SONIA-q5i]

@Morenita570 I don't understand why ppl think it's normal to say I don't prefer someone that looks like me that's pure mental illness honestly💀and they also sound so dumb when they say things like I prefer other races of women over my own lmfao how embarrassing and humiliating

[@EtherealSolana]

@@Ricoque-u2mhmm I don’t know way to much about the Asian community to make a judgment on AW. I’ll say, yes I notice some have image issues (but honestly so do bw but we still collectively worship our male counterparts) I also may be overstepping but another reason AW may date WM a lot is because it’s more acceptable (as a pairing) for them +they get more egalitarian freedom under western culture than eastern oppressive societies. It’s worse in the East -GBV in Africa, how Korean women are treated (why their birth rate is abysmal among other factors). Women in eastern countries have less rights and liberties than living in the west. In my parents’ country women were finally allowed to own property/inherit it in 2012/2013 😮

[@Ricoque-u2m]

@@SONIA-q5i yes and what the Ok Cupid studied REALLY said was that except for BM & AW every one prefers their OWN race. It also emphasizes that if BM & AW chose their counterparts ALL races would be equal. Think of the abusive narc triangulation to turn BM self hatred into a debate about the attractiveness of black girlies. How diabolical.

[@Isletfemme]

And yet still, many Black women continue to support and promote men like him. Make it make sense.

[@gelliebeane6789]

Right! I only watched the Kat Williams & Monique interviews, only watched because of them. Otherwise, Shay Shay can move around somewhere.

[@dymondkittync]

First of all this look today is giving me life. The makeup, the scarf, the colors ❤❤❤. Second agree with everything you said and wanted to comment as the colorism with children in the lesbian community is diabolical. As a black lesbian the level of self hate this displays has had me baffled for a while. I'm so glad you said something on this issue.

[@sc5195]

I think you misinterpreted Gary Owens comment (unless I’m missing the whole clip). GO was pointing out the fact that black men don’t speak up for black women publicly because they are more concerned about making commercial money from any brand, even those that don’t highlight black people I.E John Deer and Wrangler. They would rather put profit over progress. He wasn’t dumping on BW, he was just pointing out an issue in a comedic way.

[@edgytypebeat781]

That still doesn’t change the fact that he was anti-black in the past, even going to lengths to say the N-word

[@kasandimulaa9999]

His laughter was compliance. Think about it big picture based on all of his commentary and aggression towards black women

[@MT-hk9cp]

I agree with you. There are pictures of his grandma with her natural hair, straightened like most old women do. His daughter that graduated from medical school has braids. I think he doesn't care for women who wear lacefronts. A lot of men dislike them because a lot of women wear them.

[@AL-ALady]

Yesss Mayowa is in the building 😘

[@crazyjloop89]

Queening as per use'

[@AL-ALady]

​@@crazyjloop89🎯

[@annabel753]

Ur pfp is cute. Is it from something?

[@AL-ALady]

​@@annabel753Thank you, No, I created it myself.

[@kekedream]

Laughs while Gary Owen, a genuine comedian, sits there with a stone cold face of truth. Shannon is pathetic with his self-hating nonsense.

[@nicolenicole2085]

Yea Gary low key outed him on his own show

[@daniela5748]

I’m glad you said this ! Gary Owens outed him !!

[@jmanhope1745]

It is impossible to be immersed in racism and not be affected by racism. When men denigrate women, subconsciously men are expressing their repulsion/disdain towards their own phenotype. Hair length defines beauty the same way finger nail length defines beauty!

[@EtherealSolana]

They hate themselves and the womb they came from. They can have what they want. It’s not gonna be me 😅

[@firandcurly84]

It's hard but it's not impossible. Black women can choose not be a sponge and absorb that nonsense , and live happy carefree, successful lives

[@jmanhope1745]

@@firandcurly84 can you think of one of us that is not affected by racism?

[@firandcurly84]

@@jmanhope1745 we are all affected by these mongrels but we won't lie down and die in misery. It's what they want. We can't and won't give it to them we are still thriving, happy, business owners, traveling , celebrating, educated, winning

[@CeieAnthony]

I always look forward to your uploads! Since finding your page, I have grown to accept and love my nappy 4C hair. If you ever doubt the impact of your content, just know bc of you this darkskinned Haitian queer Black man loves his Afrikanness, his unambiguous Blackness, more now than before I came across your page!! I feel seen and protected whn I see you confront and combat featurism, texturism, colorism, and overall anti-Blackness; especially in our community!!! You have a lifelong supporter & follower!!! XOXO Mayowa!!

[@traumaqueeen]

Very nice comment!

[@CeieAnthony]

@@traumaqueeen thanks...just spoke the truth!!

[@aielianna]

She is a beacon for the queer black community ❤️❤️

[@canone.colombe]

Same. I now wants to go back to freeform (I did in college before working). My dream would be to partake in creating an ecosystem were freeforming and letting the sun kiss you is the norm.

[@CeieAnthony]

@@canone.colombe yeah I'm letting my hair grow & do what it does with no substantial manipulation, except for the use of a coiling brush & Haitian castor oil...my goal is freeform, if it doesn't get there I'm still going to keep it growing out no matter what nappily!

[@ea7109]

The green inner eye is gorgeous 😍

[@cannadybell8219]

No offense to anyone but Shannon is on the DL and he's probably very angry at black women because we can see right through it

[@IOU88]

@@cannadybell8219 👀

[@Alyssaj1236]

I've always thought he was DL too. Like what heterosexual man will call himself "Shay Shay" 😂😂

[@Melinanextdoor]

​@@Alyssaj1236exactly he's so zesty and he in the closet

[@las8883]

💀😂 I keep seeing people say this and I'm curious how people know

[@IOU88]

@@las8883 If u notice the signs, u know.........

[@chillandrelax348]

@11:54 they see us as sub-human, not superhuman

[@chxrryery4188]

they see us at sub-human but expect us to do superhuman sacrafices for them

[@sula0020]

Oooooh chillllllld

[@Ami-ml7gp]

Yes, you are exactly right about men choosing partners so their kids will have certain features. I was there when my brother was completing the paperwork for my niece. When the lady at the hospital read back what he wrote (mother and baby's race; white), she looked completely confused. He doesn't even want them listed or thought of as black or biracial 🙄.

[@MT-hk9cp]

Judy and Da Brat did the same thing and used the excuse that the few black donors looked like a cricket so they picked a white one....sad.

[@katherinesavarese6009]

I will always appreciate will smith smacking the dog mess out of chris rock when chris tried to make fun of jadas hair to entertain yt folks and antiblack black folks

[@thhe5859]

Hello!!! A guy tried to paint me as violent because I rejoiced when he did it. You can’t disrespect a BW about her hair in front of her husband on HIS night and think you can get away with it. He’s lucky he has all of his tooth.

[@micahrose7566]

​@@thhe5859I said the same thing to my family 😅 They're looking at me like crazy... Man was just defending his wife in that award show..

[@Joyful_Smiles]

Same here!

[@changingfashionsinc]

🙌🏽

[@magentawave5595]

I'm a black person. I'm sorry if I'm not as knowledgeable about this, but I didn't associate his joke with her being a black woman. Her hair just looked like the G.I. Jane character. I can understand why people were upset because of Jada's hair condition. However, that doesn't mean that Will Smith had to slap Chris Rock on tv. There's a time and place for everything. Why should we have to respond to this with violence? This didn't help us either with 2 black men getting into an altercation on national tv.

[@ItsShayyy]

Acting like that at his big age, is he not embarrassed? 😂😂

[@Serenity_Garden_Life]

At my older age now.,., I interpret male hatred towards women as closet gay. I don’t care how straight they look or act….it is just too weird for men to hate on or be jealous of women

[@thhe5859]

Yup yup and yup and the type that don’t feel any woman is good enough for them… gay

[@northrnstar]

not necessarily. i tend to think that too, but overall this hatred and jealousy of women comes from misogynistic values that tend to get internalized and so make men see women as less than and not really a person to spend time with, but rather someone who's only good when she's servicing him, be it on sex, housecare, childcare, you name it.

[@Shay416]

And the fact this man had to release his own sextape. Yeah everywoman knows what's up

[@nicolenicole2085]

Yea he gaaaayyyyeeee 😂

[@CosmicGrind41jXq]

Those super mysogynistic macho guys are soooo gay

[@toughsuga2]

I agree , we need to stop being so forgiving.

[@cynthiaholland13]

You are so exquisite. This look is so elevated

[@jewellsplayhouse]

How sad. I’m never surprised though lol

[@powespjays]

I'm 48, I remember when he played ball. He was in Whyte ppl's hip pockets a long time ago. His self hatred is long standing.

[@isa_virtual]

"these men don't wanna save you" it's absolutely facts. your blush looks lovely here mayowa ✨

[@mayowasworld]

Thank you boo!

[@lillybilly9954]

I will not support male content. I would prefer watching commentary from black women creators who discuss them and other things instead of. We need to direct resources and attention to black women.

[@cutiepiea3687]

Yeahhh it's annoying us black womens we watch men more and make them famous quicker than black women creators it's weird! We need to stop being so make centred!!!!

[@sadiM653]

What will it take for black women to stop caring that black men don’t like black women? I feel like these conversations are honestly making black women crazy. The more you keep having conversations about black men disrespecting black women, the more they will do it. Black women have serious problems with not releasing what needs to be released. Don’t respond to anything negative about you unless it is vital that you do.

[@m0mmy2aStar]

Mayowa, you're giving Mother Mary who will read you down 🙏🏽. ❤ Great video

[@philisazibi7582]

The interview of Shannon Sharpe talking about his grandma looks like he was aiming for the Oscars.

[@pink-tulip317]

Seeing you today Mayowa is like a breath of fresh air! I remember seeing your video with Old Sha Sha😒obsessing over his daughter’s hair…He and others like him are so ridiculous and need to be totally cancelled 🚮 You look beautiful, as always 😍..I’m loving your makeup, colors and look for today.

[@gravityclarity]

He could make his grandmother proud by respecting black women.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

They’re unaliving their mothers for making them move out the home in their 40s. Clarence Thomas, Kobi, Lawrence Fishburn didn’t help their parents or sisters and had them begging money or living in poverty.

[@gravityclarity]

@@Ricoque-u2m despicable. What is wrong with these m3n?

[@demetrica1]

BM with mics are performative. Around us (BW) they put on airs and sometimes become defensive. But BM will never challenge a non-black man, especially a white man. It shows that BM are easy to conquer if you are yt and have remained conquered by the yts.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

They’re delulu about being conquered and enslaved by Brad, Ping Pong, Pedro & Muhammad on the global world stage. They hide behind hair and makeup to not discuss their being at the bottom of the hierarchy and refusal to build amongst themselves.

[@Timm-v4l]

He use his grandmother to play on our sympathies that’s it

[@faithyande6702]

And you all black women believed him and sympathised with him

[@moreni2nd405]

Na wa o!!!! Self hatred is so irritating 🤢🤮🤮🤮 You look amazing! 😍😍😍

[@almaarnold7332]

Love your talking points. Your study of black people gives much food for thought. I have found someone who shares many of the conclusions I have come to recognise in my people. This is all so very refreshing, especially in one so young!

[@Warren_90210]

Black men like Sharpe view desiring or accessing racially ambiguous and lighter skinned women as the prize for escaping their material conditions because they’ve been taught to empathize with their oppressor. It’s so angering. They’ll throw black women under the bus at the drop of a dime.

[@amaris5]

It’s weird. They do you not see themselves in black women which is crazy 😭 I love my women.

[@ascott4502]

Thank you for the labor in this space. I know it’s hard, but we need people to continue. Blessings to you ❤❤❤❤

[@cleopatraponder9274]

It’s really a shame because all they telling their daughters are that they are only worth their looks and if they step out of that then what they got. Like oh no you don’t have to work hard you got that good hair any man will take care of you. Meanwhile 3 baby daddies later…………

[@thhe5859]

This happened to my mom. She’s a preference and thought that she was going to be able to skate through life because of it. Ruined her whole life and didn’t accomplish any goals.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

It does kind of helps fully black girls in a way. I was able to go to Uni and marry a ‘good’ BM because the preferences were getting knocked up and abandon. They were sidelined and on welfare pretty quickly.

[@shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt]

Your makeup is poppin!!

[@tebugomajombozi1197]

Black men stay failing black women. I owe my entire being to black women.

[@Ifanythingeverhappenstome]

I love your opening music

[@mayowasworld]

I love it too my best friend ate with the song

[@chillandrelax348]

I love how you express yourself with your makeup and fashion ❤️ gr8 video

[@Thisisnotalovesong206]

Your analysis is spot on.

[@bronzedrage]

When he interviewed Amanda Seales he just assumed that her mother is white. She immediately corrected him and said that her mom is a Black woman from Grenada.

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Her mother is white passing multi racial mix. She was being a lie racial.

[@anngayle9731]

The subject matter was excellent you hit every phase of the subject. Thanks.

[@npcrookeface]

Really loving the fit and makeup today!!! Although I always like it, but especially today!!!❤❤❤

[@cory.doras69]

I love the green by your eyes and how well your pink lipstick matches!!!!!!!

[@azizabahati7037]

Your makeup looks beautiful ❤ I love this look!!! And you made some valid points in regards to Shannon but a certain type of Black male as well. I agree, Black males have found community in misogyny and most dangerously, misognoir

[@AP-yd1nt]

It's so crazy because HE has 4c hair. The texturism and colorism almost always comes from the darkest, 4c hair, broad-featured men. It's so sad because BW accept those features on BM but so many successful BM don't find those things desirable in BW.

[@leonplays2575]

But my whole thing is that doesn't he has the same hair type.

[@mariatrotman2698]

I am so grateful that all of my brothers loved and married Black Women . Therefore, have beautiful offspring that look like themselves. Black and beautiful 😍. Black Love is Revolutionary. Francis Cress Welsing. ❤ 🎉

[@islandgirlruby2750]

Shannon Sharpe sitting up in the video looking like a buff Madea. His masculinity will always be in question.

[@iyahnuh3101]

Love the look today gworl and that pop of green is a vibe 😍😍😍

[@mayowasworld]

Thank you!!

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

I lived in Idaho and Wyoming for a few years... There's a LOT of white women, and they pretty much all get extensions, wear tracks for more more volume, all day every day. But they don't receive the same hatred.

[@MiriamPendleton]

Your makeup is fabulous! I like the showier styles also but this emphasizes your beauty more than the makeup itself, if you know what I mean. Love your commentary!

[@mayowasworld]

Thank you babe!!

[@thePettiest1]

The only reason Shannon apologized to Megan was because her album had just dropped and all eyes were on her at the time. She had an amazing year and made new fans and figures. Eventually, his comments on her would've just blown back up in his face so he gave his apology preemptively. You can't talk any way about just anyone and he knows that. Any other Black woman with less or simply no celebrity and he would just double down on his remarks. People can be very selective about the Black women they choose to treat as full human beings. And those that get that privilege are then viewed as the exceptions to the "rule". Just like with Shannon's grandma. And even still, people somehow still manage to dehumanize them. Because by the way that we talk about the saintly, super-human Black women who can 'take care of anything and all of us', we turn them into these idols that in turn wouldn't need any help or support whatsoever. Because that one 'anecdotal Black woman' from decades ago could handle things 'so well'

[@RACKITBALL]

Yes MEN generally see those who serve them as servants and think of themselves in such dynamics as kings because of that! So stop serving them and be the queens you are!

[@deeeeeeeeeet4512]

❤ the pop of green in your makeup!

[@OffPuddinGirl97]

I really want men like this to understand that no matter how many nonblack women you sleep with, or how light your baby’s complexion is you are still black. Erasing your black dna through your generational line doesn’t carry any currency in any world

[@Ricoque-u2m]

Wrong they’re NOT still black. New Rules! Moving forward Gloctavious or Tyrone stays in Brad or Ping Pong or Pedro or Muhammad’s community when they choose one of their females. And now those females should protest for them. They’re no longer welcome back into the fully black community and can’t speak on black issues. They’re bi racials are NOT black and 87% breed back into their mother’s community. Because you’re what your mother is, we only accept bi racials from fully black mothers.

[@wetwicksdry]

It's an interesting point about black men seeing black women as having to be almost inhuman to provide for and raise them. It then begs the question how do they see themselves? Having to be raised by someone inhuman then makes you the animal doesn't it? I love the green inner eye and the magenta lip is pretty on youuuu.

[@Theemultidimensionalgoddess]

Off topic but I love that u have such a unique identity love ur style 😍and ur content keep going ❤

[@ladejay9961]

She should have responded “dont you have another video to “leak” to convince us you aren’t ga… nevermind”

[@MsLhuntMartinez79]

We have a beef with his hairline, his haircut, his speech, his gait.... he walks real sweet, like he is capable of pooping whole bowls of Foot Loops. Stop it SS

[@scottrogue946]

They say “oh it’s just hair” but what makes me laugh is when people started calling the fade “the Travis Kelce cut”. The amount of BM I saw crying about that made me laugh. They don’t even like their own hair texture.

[@punkwonder]

Makeup looks great :) I love the very soft pop of green on the inner corners the best. I also thought it was extremely hypocritical of Mr. Sharpe to make that horse hair comment just a few months after he gave Megan a public apology. She was very gracious to him in that interview but there were still comments he made even then that felt a little infantilizing to her tbh

[@firandcurly84]

Yet still every time one of them get into trouble here we come with our cape to their rescue.

[@shisha182]

youre skin is GORGEOUS and i LOVE the green on the inner corners

[@CoolBeans193]

Ngl as a queer cis-man, I sometimes struggle with loving my dark skin. But I come to your channel for rejuvenation. I know this might be a space for women only but I just wanted to say Thank you! 🖤

[@BlessAminata]

Why do you struggle with loving your dark skin ?

[@MellowJelly]

This stuff is so disturbing to me because you're right, it's not even treated like a problem. Making fun of black women and their hair is so normalized and accepted that they high profile celebs get away with absolutely no consequences

[@kathleendantzler]

You’re looking lovely today. I love the makeup and head covering.

[@BxTiki]

I like the green as the inner corner highlight. It pairs with the lip color

[@Bromeliadsss]

I love Megan’s beautiful big curly fro.