Girl Idk how many lifetimes you’ve lived but you’re smart af
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Really? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
@SM-ce1uy3 жыл бұрын
That's a negative mindset which also reeks of trust issues. If you cannot trust others best to be single and become a priest
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
@@SM-ce1uy So according to you anybody who chooses to stay single should become a priest? Can you explain how you figure that?
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
@@SM-ce1uy A single man can trust many other men and even many women, except the one he marries.
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
@@SM-ce1uy Lol 😂😂😂😂 some men don't know they like men too
@Tatianarain5 жыл бұрын
1. Never cook for them 2. Always talk about future husband/wedding without including him. Do it in front of people. 3. Tell his good upstanding friend that he will make a good husband. 4. Keep the chase alive. 5. Talk about moving to a different city
@yasnyne5 жыл бұрын
I would these tips on/close to someone that is interested in me.
@taryswilson12275 жыл бұрын
Thank you now I don't have to watch it
@katrinamccreary64115 жыл бұрын
@Mr. Beats then your not the one🤷🏽♀️💁🏽♀️and its ok!!
@Rusty-Brown_5 жыл бұрын
90 % of men will say seee ya so ladies do these things if you want to be single
@whatsmaname92195 жыл бұрын
MrPieceFull your not the type of men we are trying to marry though...
@brownladyjay08588 жыл бұрын
girl...you got something...these dudes are highly upset in the comment section...damn
@bedwenchingwithbenifits45536 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MandyRichert6 жыл бұрын
Men hate on this info because he's a Dusty! He knows it and doesn't want to be played, because he wants to be the player. That's why they even watch this channel, he's threatened! Hehehe! 😂🤣 On here, a man should shut up and realize he needs to step up himself as a man!
@theashologist6 жыл бұрын
A woman should should "step up" herself as a woman too and not be nitpicking at what they want, but what they need for themselves first. You wanna tell a man that he has to "be a man" (whatever that dumb phrase means) then you need to be a damn woman.
@MandyRichert6 жыл бұрын
Ashley Johnson COMPLETELY agree about woman. I don't need anyone. But for grown woman (not young without enough life experience) I understand and disagree with one statement. There are VERY FEW men that are on the up and up. Or you live in a fantasy world and refuse to see this or just young and only had a handful of experience with men. I'll say woman are the same too...but I'm not living in a fantasy world, HELL NO! I seen and experienced enough to understand why woman want to live like this. I need a healthy middle ground myself. But I get why they live like this. Some woman chose to stay dumb, or ignorant to reality! Fact!
@amo298126 жыл бұрын
Mrs S you will be single and not by choice! You have understand and study humans' psychology, which first and from most we are animals, people have morals only to be outta jail , so listen to Ashera, she's giving you psychology lesson to be able to live in this world and get whatever it is that you want.
@showerdivine5297 жыл бұрын
so true, when I first started dating my husband he told me one day I will be his wife , fast forward , we are now married.....
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Hope it lasts...
@user-yq1fv2dc1j5 жыл бұрын
Girl he’s literally been using these tactics on me🤣🤣no wonder i want to marry him so bad
@tempesttking57155 жыл бұрын
therealdess ٤ 🤣🤦🏾♀️😆
@aminah7615 жыл бұрын
therealdess ٤ 😂
@felistacharlie5154 жыл бұрын
saaaaameee ,but im over that shit
@venty51974 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha😂😂
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
When he says "I'm looking for a girl to fall in love with" while talking to you dump his a$$
@theboudoirbarber5 жыл бұрын
I’m so excited to try the “you’d make a great husband one day” to my boyfriends friend. Even though he’s already expressed getting married and taking care of me financially when I move to him I just want to see him squirm a little 😂 this the most real advice. My boyfriend and I dated when we were younger and it didn’t workout. Neither one of us knew what we wanted and I didn’t know the game. 4 years later and I’ve used all your advice and this man is going to support me and I can do what I want with my life, live how I want and be who I want. And that’s how you fucking do it. Couldn’t have done it without you.
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
And you are not even embarrassed to type this?
@ceewoody7310 Жыл бұрын
@@elputasyou sound dumb. Why would she be embarrassed and she’s winning? U must be a dusty
@TheOneluvlieladie7 жыл бұрын
I've watched this video at least a dozen times. I giggle every time I hear "Give em the move"! I feel like you are having an intimate convo with me! I appreciate you sharing the GAME!
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Well, there are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
@datbishruby44308 жыл бұрын
tis is making my toes curl. the advice is delectable.
@redrumax8 жыл бұрын
lol you are smart, girl, love you. psychology is all, thats how I got my husband to marry me too:)))
@krysiepredeoux7 жыл бұрын
sometimes your looks are enough. I met an older guy and he wants to get married already and his financially stable
@kyracoach7 жыл бұрын
Great honey , make sure he treats you like a queen before during and after.
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
... so he wants kids
@Lalajewel5 жыл бұрын
Yesss you’re so right!
@chanelknight68805 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I met a older guy saying the samething and he played me smh . Asshole
@apriljoixrush5 жыл бұрын
Krysie Galon true
@Gothhana8 жыл бұрын
I've been on a break from men for the last 7 months since I've got a bad "picker" with choosing the guys that I actually want. I just stumbled across your channel. These videos are super informative, and helpful. I think once I get everything sorted with what I want in a relationship, I'll take these ideas to heart/head with me. Love it.
@fatoumatabah1987 жыл бұрын
Gothhana
@migyalmama Жыл бұрын
update?
@naviifra23748 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much! Im 24 and ready to settle down. Your videos have given me so much self worth. Thank you big sis :)
@robertmartin62387 жыл бұрын
Has any of this advice worth?
@katrinamccreary64115 жыл бұрын
Give it Time
@RomyPidgin4 жыл бұрын
And you're 27 now 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@naviifra23744 жыл бұрын
@@RomyPidgin lol whats funny 😂 i want to know the joke.
@frenchwithbonjouracademy16563 жыл бұрын
@@robertmartin6238 it works on real men bcz broke men act like a woman
@jackiel2797 жыл бұрын
This might manifest another man LOL
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯
@mellywelly84747 жыл бұрын
**WARNING** doesn’t work on men with low self esteem 💀
@ahmina.animha89026 жыл бұрын
Ratchet kingdome that’s okay.. you’ll never have anybody 🙂 keep on
@BadamosiYusra6 жыл бұрын
Who wants to marry a man with low self esteem anyways?
@rsvp-dc56295 жыл бұрын
Low Self-Esteem ... Keep it real, baby! No MONEY!
@vanaphill24545 жыл бұрын
then dump the men with low self esteem
@PragmaticMoves5 жыл бұрын
Or men with sense. Are men really that stupid 🤔😯....ok well that explains 🤣🤣
Oh my goodness! Shera struck nerves in this video coz dusties are on rampage in the comment section🤣🤣🤣. They are trying their hardest to make their points and how else to do it than the oldest trick in the bag, tearing every word of common sense down. Men quit playing, y’all know she is telling the gospel truth. Just stop playing and go make some money.
@mikayacox30357 жыл бұрын
BRB gotta trick my bf lol
@bikerchic6506 жыл бұрын
Mikaya Moorleghen lol! Did it work?
@MrMarcomedina6 жыл бұрын
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@mikayacox30356 жыл бұрын
bikerchic650 lol yes I’m actually engaged!
@HoneyHoneyBaby6 жыл бұрын
Mikaya Moorleghen Wow...Congratulations!!!
@momoVerse-z5h6 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaaassss huni
@mysociallife69 жыл бұрын
Keep it business so true don't whine to a man love that example
@LiveWithDes6 жыл бұрын
Bish you slick lol I do all this stuff subconsciously but now I'm aware of why
@ButterCookie19844 жыл бұрын
Because its witchcraft
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Well, good luck getting a man...
@Voiceoverbysiera14 күн бұрын
@@ButterCookie1984bippity boppity boo, we have no tears for you! 🪄
@celenagostavo82074 жыл бұрын
i applied the same concept with a man that i wanted him to commit to me. it worked. and guess what all reverse psychology works on men. soo women just relax your p and let the man work work for it...
@kenyattabrown294 жыл бұрын
How long did it take?
@msebonynicole91866 жыл бұрын
This is so funny not because of what she saying but because I've done all of this (not knowing) I would tell my bf when I get married the honeymoon will bethis my wedding my wedding MY WEDDING then he starts with the us us us everything was us then I started cooking for him full meals for about 3 days then I just stopped Everytime he says he hungry I hand him takeout menus lol then the moving thing for me it was actually a genuine conversation because I really do then he flips like what about me what about us ....anyway my point is I need a one on one hun you inspire me so much and I apply or have already applied your knowledge to my everyday life how can I book a session with you
@librarianrose44724 жыл бұрын
How did it turn out
@freespirit.89587 жыл бұрын
Lol i did some of the things you said and my boyfriend allready sqweezing my leg because i said damn where is my future husband then he started squeezing my leg lol i was trying not to laugh all through this and it worked for me i was excluding him out lmafo hehe it got him thinking to1
@meni89196 жыл бұрын
Shera, your hair is really beautiful
@linahernandez69134 жыл бұрын
Don’t cook for your man for real those are husband privileges 😂
@xavierwoodley3 жыл бұрын
Husband? Or slave disguised as your husband privileges? Most women appear to believe a man is garbage unless he worships her. It's sad as can be.
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Let me guess... You're still single right? Divorced?
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
@@xavierwoodley Nobody wants a simp lmfao
@xavierwoodley3 жыл бұрын
@@babyc.3015 I know that's a lie. Most, if not all women want a simp. He just has to physically look like an "alpha" male, so you don't feel like you "settled."
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
@@xavierwoodley I'm not someone without boundaries so I wouldn't want to attract a man w/o it as well. If he's a simp he's a loser. Ew
@alyssia4445 жыл бұрын
Before watching this video I’ve said thing like that like “my husband” and my bf gets so upset that I talk like that so I stopped lol but I’ve been doing wifey things for a bf oh no
@gg61625 жыл бұрын
Same here. I always do the "when I get my husband one day" thing. It gets him everytime lol
@mahaalotaibi83527 жыл бұрын
I love her she's so right!! Lmao ! make it happen baby you're in charge! Not him ALWAYS 😂
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Really? You actually think so? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
@su812ny9 жыл бұрын
you couldn't make this video in april while I was still in relationship? hahaha
@katiataggarta191410 ай бұрын
This is insane 😂and I’m sure it works !! Shera you are amazing ❤️❤️
@kindachill Жыл бұрын
I’m literally scream laughing at how smart all of this is
@mikapettigrew56756 жыл бұрын
It’s not a trick... it’s pressure and if y’all bummy asses can’t stand the heat well🤷🏽♀️ move on so a real man can take y’all place lol #dusties
@SuperSupersackboy6 жыл бұрын
Aint nobody worried about marriage except women lol
@mattclark13357 жыл бұрын
Instructions weren't clear. I got engaged to a cook book 😐
@elena76595 жыл бұрын
Kim Jong Splooge 😂😂
@crystalrose26418 жыл бұрын
lmao your laughs in this kiiiiiiiiiiill me! I gotta set my stuff up to start dropping these hints. I love you and your vids btw
@SkinLikeCaramel4 жыл бұрын
I saw this video years ago and it popped up on my recommendations today.. of course I re-watched it.. your advice is Brilliant Shera ✨💛
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Now, here's also another advice also from a woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ3ZfnSJlJdjgZY&ab_channel=karenstraughan
@MrsSJR44446 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!!! Point. Blank. Period. Keep doing all that you do ❤️ I get so much inspiration from you.
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Amazing, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
@jeangeniex38 жыл бұрын
Damn wish i would have seen this video a year ago!
@tirenahewitt77311 ай бұрын
I tried this and he been asking me what would I say if he asks me to marry him.. I guess he really thinks I would say no because when I talk abt marriage I don’t include him
@makalayoung58011 ай бұрын
I just heard my man say something like,”where have you been, my wife” shera knows 🎉
@sabounji6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, by healing our own selves we are healing others indirectly.
@amanag39995 жыл бұрын
I love these videos straight to the point !💕 thankyou for all the tips
@itsmissvsworld9 жыл бұрын
I'm learning, girl!!!
@DarnellHendeason-dk3uw8 жыл бұрын
How about not having sex until you're married.
@mandisa_shabalala8 жыл бұрын
+Cool Chicka Then, they were not meant for you.
@M202487 жыл бұрын
Darnell Hendeason No sex before Marriage only happens Representative. of Georgia. Armenia. & Muslim countries... age is no involved if you not 50...
@zDeka7 жыл бұрын
at the start thought this doesnt sound good but it all made sense . good job girlll !! 💓
@lynnnguyen307 жыл бұрын
It sad to say this is true sometimes we women play this sort of mind games to get respect and chase by men but to certain degrees else it becomes superficial and deception.
@eklouyawo74008 жыл бұрын
The reason that makes men give up his desire to marry a girl is most of the time those "games" that frustrated man. In fact, it is not the man likes to chase but he does it when he loves you. And when you play too much "hard to get", you will hurt him. He will be frustrated and will give up to marry you. That is why many women miss out the man who really loves them and want them for the rest of their life. So, girls, you must be wise when playing games with the man that you like and want him to marry you. Do not do too much so that you don't hurt him and frustrate him. Most of the time he will not show you that he is frustrated or hurt. He will suffer in secret and at the end, he will give up although he wants you.
@MandyRichert6 жыл бұрын
eklou yawo O.M.G. really!?? ALL men do is "PLAY GAMES"! FACT! IF y'all didn't constantly try to play woman, we wouldn't even need these videos. You said this is why men don't want to marry?! Um, wrong!!!!! They don't want to cause there to busy PLAYING GAMES! Plzzzz! You talk like we got all these great men to choose from. Wake up and drop the BS
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
False
@МеруертК-у2н3 жыл бұрын
Act like a lady, think like a man. So, men play games, then women play too
@jean-neowoh007 Жыл бұрын
This is most likely an insecure man with low self esteem of course he’s to sensitive to chase
@M202487 жыл бұрын
You're best maind opener most American women. I'm European & I think same us You. Thanks you Halpin women's... Amen
@GoddessAsha4 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know why this video cracks me up 😂❤
@pinkgal2069 жыл бұрын
Girrrrrlllll. I already know all of this. I swear this is true....
@frenchwithbonjouracademy16564 жыл бұрын
Your older content used to be much wiser , relatable ..
@Tay00036 жыл бұрын
Got to love SheRa, you always make my day ! 👏👏❤
@nylaspeaks72726 жыл бұрын
My ex must have been watching your videos because I swear he tried all theses things on me....even left me to see if I would beg him back...well he he still the sad ex wishing he can get back what we had...smdh
@whatevervlogs96638 жыл бұрын
Lol .. "Are u momies kid too"
@lovejones28808 жыл бұрын
Btw I love your videos they are so empowering. I was that nice girl not too too nice because my mouth can get crazy. But as I am 30 with a small kid I aint taking anymore b.s.
@paperclip69937 жыл бұрын
If you have another man's kid, you can't play this game. It's to easy for a man to walk away from all the mess that comes along with being a single mom. A very low value man can't play this game ethier.
@jadebrown50274 жыл бұрын
I’m watching again for husband number 2😂
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
How sad.
@kemeticdecor88558 жыл бұрын
my man and i been together for 6 years. About 2 yrs ago he proposed to me with a cowry shell(spiritual vibe). He did it in front of the ancestor altar with some of our friends but i wasnt sure if he was serious. He kept tellin me he was "dead ass". Either way he always said he wouldn't truly get "married" because he believes that the govt curses people through signing that paper. He says if he did it in front of the ancestors then that should mean more than what a piece of paper says. What do you think?
@SheRaSeven18 жыл бұрын
i think you better think about your life in 5 years... and if he dies you cannot get life insurance , or you have no say over what happens to his body... I also say you cannot do much in this country trying to be TOO "spiritual" you need a balance... you need a real ring, and a real marriage ..... if he believes that then he needs to buy you some land with your name on it instead of giving you a ring and a marriage certificate...because when he is ready to leave you, he can get up and go with no thoughts.... no paper work and no reason! those dusty Hoteps are only finding spiritual excuses for why they cannot afford a ring and get married ... your whole family and future will be cursed living without order... in all reality if you have kids, you will be a baby momm and he will be a baby daddy. even gay people can get married now.... and they do.... for legal and financial reasons which is smart.... don't be a fool, and marry someone who is not very smart and plans ahead, unless you have a stack of gold bars and money , please do things the right way before you regret being that unwise as to take a shell and give yourself to a broke man lol this is 2017 not 1862....
@royalone52517 жыл бұрын
last call I know that game. She's right. This is him getting the benefits of a husband, but you will never get the rights of a wife. Don't go for that crap
@moniquemcquieter43875 жыл бұрын
I think that is awesome he doesn't believe in American culture.
@avawilliams58275 жыл бұрын
You and Anna Bey are gonna have me set for life. Thank you so much😭😭
@NatalyF175 жыл бұрын
Ava Williams yes girl!
@claudinechodzi57124 жыл бұрын
Same here
@white29254 жыл бұрын
Same here
@roniron36224 жыл бұрын
Yes! I would also add to your list Chloe_ (hypergamy) Aly Art (body type, makeup, hairstyles), but MOST IMPORTANT Meredith Miller and Dr. Ramani (narcissists) so you can identify red flags in the first date and get rid of the Dusties
@sayyida_aishaa Жыл бұрын
I swear yes!!! And wizard liz too
@alwaysshae099 жыл бұрын
This is gold!
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Really? Gold, huh? There are not many incentives for men to marry. They can lose everything: They can lose their children, they can lose their house, they can lose their reputation, and they can lose their freedom for something as simple as a woman's complaint, exaggeration or false accusation. Most men 30 an older know better than to sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it.
@erab.82365 жыл бұрын
I need a BFF like you! I like the way you think! 🔥♠️
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ3ZfnSJlJdjgZY&ab_channel=karenstraughan ...
@theresemeggitt84558 жыл бұрын
I agree she is right on! LOL
@dolli8189 жыл бұрын
LOL this video is SO funny! But true lmao
@crystalarnoldfortune8 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this sooner. Thanks for the enlightenment
@Kalasun75 жыл бұрын
What if he starts talking about his marriage and excluding you. Thats gonna hurt.
@Angela-ny5ni5 жыл бұрын
Kala Headley Then that’s not the man you need.
@alexisbanks90526 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on long distance relationships?
@mmaeyen6 жыл бұрын
Yes, please!
@NA-vt6mz4 жыл бұрын
It’s waste of time
@babyc.30153 жыл бұрын
Shera said she doesn't do one since she thinks it's bogus
@charlesturner61315 жыл бұрын
Girl I didn’t know you had another Channel what’s the link because I get spiritual too lol...with watching your videos and a lil candle work I’m back with my dude but I’m learning to train him, thanks for all your help can’t wait to start watching your other channel love you bye 😘
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ3ZfnSJlJdjgZY&ab_channel=karenstraughan
@genefaye67957 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this video. Absolutely super advice.
@badfairyy2 жыл бұрын
😻✨💎💍 great refresher lmao
@ashajeremiahqw87752 жыл бұрын
You got married
@badfairyy Жыл бұрын
@@ashajeremiahqw8775I did 😌
@artbyanjumsulaiman95545 жыл бұрын
What to do in long distance relationship?
@Dil-bh5qb2 ай бұрын
اهم نقطه ساعدتني في الفيديو اني افهم ما سر المطارده الرجال هي انك تكوني زي التحدي و مو لازم يعرف ايش تعملي في يومك ولا انتي بحاجه انك تعطيهم الاجابه طول الوقت لان هذا الي يخليهم مهتمين .
@chelcya27298 жыл бұрын
how long should i wait before i give him the ultimatum because all of this is very useful information really love your channel
@celestedivine7968 жыл бұрын
lol,Girl you are Crazy,but I totally agree,Love your Insights!
@d3stRuctv39 жыл бұрын
lmao!! okay its worth a shot. great advise.
@arialovetarot5 жыл бұрын
This ain’t gonna work on my emotional ass Pisces Boyfriend. 🤣
@Gawdessofficialpublishing5 жыл бұрын
Aria R that’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Did you try? My pisces mf has flipped and talked to me about children after I started caring more for myself 🤣
@seanmathews18263 жыл бұрын
This nonsense will not work on any man over the age of 35.
@GoodnessBassey014 жыл бұрын
“Are you mummy’s kid too “🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Abeisgreat18 жыл бұрын
This is great study material for men on the true nature of women. Its a great eye opener.
@ahmina.animha89026 жыл бұрын
Abeisgreat1 shut the hell up. 🤣 men can be so illiterate ...
@mzique9 жыл бұрын
I'm loving it x
@ava_adamsg Жыл бұрын
he bought a whole new tv and a living room set and matchinf decor for me in our house u think it’s working ?
@DebraAnnMatthews6 жыл бұрын
Hi Shera love this lip color. What color is it?
@carolthomas1078 жыл бұрын
You preach it SheRa!!!!
@zanb53976 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful!
@dionneminus41267 жыл бұрын
I fucking love you...you just saved my damn life
@lolamarie6968 жыл бұрын
You're perfect, you're fucking perfect
@neqwise26415 жыл бұрын
I do this!!! I forgot I watched this forever ago. I got this!! 💪🏾👑
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, and here's also another advice also from a woman: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ3ZfnSJlJdjgZY&ab_channel=karenstraughan
@BintaLawallegacycarefoundation8 жыл бұрын
well said u just make my day.i loooooove u.
@beautifulyblessedone73557 жыл бұрын
I love this chick she's so real and funny 🤗
@greatiam5916 Жыл бұрын
Most of this stuff I already do naturally 😂 for example I be excluding him from my future as a husband didn’t even know I was doing that now I’m adding on the rest 😂
@Lanasia235 жыл бұрын
You’re so beautiful. You remind me of ms. Tina Lawson
@Iamchristaelaine3 жыл бұрын
My friend lied and said she was pregnant then got pregnant then they got married. He left a woman he was with.. yikes. I need a plan
@isabellopes8902 жыл бұрын
By planning to get what you want over other women’s tears using lies will only add karma on your life, early or later. Same could be done to her one day or to someone she cares the most. Then she will know, how he feels to be wronged.
@beauty4u1328 жыл бұрын
are you mommy's kid too!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@ccpj0eyb3193 жыл бұрын
Seriously cook good for him because you stand out as a WIFE. Many women can’t cook nowadays
@DivineSunPower2 жыл бұрын
The more I don’t want- the more I get
@YahiriJ4 жыл бұрын
Good advice, a little scary but true
@seanmathews18263 жыл бұрын
A little scary? She openly admits she believes in manipulating men to do what she wants. This woman is pure evil.
@vanaphill24545 жыл бұрын
What if he wants to cook for you?
@kristen63935 жыл бұрын
Let him. Sit back and enjoy.
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
@@kristen6393 Really? You don't think you'll need to do something for him in return? Just "sit back and enjoy"? I doubt it: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.
@aleenamuhammad Жыл бұрын
What’s the other channel??
@Msbusinesss5 жыл бұрын
I really hate that this has to be mind game like.... Why does it have to be this complicated :( I'm just going to be myself n c what God does
@user-gb4lb6ic6x5 жыл бұрын
agirl nameD this is why we dont get married😂😂😂🙂
@elputas3 жыл бұрын
Well, it's going to be a little harder than that, sis: 1. If a man is providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 2. If the man stops providing, his wife can divorce him and he's financially ruined. 3. If the wife stops performing her duties, she can divorce her husband and he's financially ruined. 4. If the wife divorces her husband for any random reason, he is financially ruined. 5. If the wife cheats on him and he obviously wants to divorce her, he is financially ruined. There is no logical reason for many men to marry given the above scenarios.
@TheTuesday119 жыл бұрын
Why would you want to marry anyone who you have to trick? I married a man who loves me and I love him. We both wanted to be married because we're better together then apart! Be honesty if you want it to last!!!
@asiabryant2078 жыл бұрын
It might not always be about tricking. If you are behaving in a way that resembles a wife, then it is less likely that he will propose because the interaction is already similar to that of a marriage. Even though it might appear counterproductive but i feel what she is saying is if you want to be his wife, stop acting like is wife until you are.
@angell5047 жыл бұрын
TheTuesday11 I lost interest once the word manipulate was spoken. It's a shame. Women like me suffer for women like that. If a man don't wanna marry you, let him be. Love yourself, be ok with being alone, and be prepared to earn your own money. If you have to constantly remind him of your good qualities, he doesn't deserve you. He needs to know for himself your are that one. I'm sure the trolls will have a ball with me. Frankly, I don't care. Although most of this is 100% correct so no shade intended, manipulation is another form of self harm. To see this type of ignorance being put out into the universe shows me we live in a materialistic superficial world. Hopefully you all use your better judgment.
@Nika-yx7mi6 жыл бұрын
Diva 504 men like games and a challenge and if you’re not manipulating them then they’re manipulating you!
@LaMorenadelfuego6 жыл бұрын
Kali Palmer thats right! You got it girl
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
Diva 504 let me guess. You're single
@graceali-grap99195 жыл бұрын
ok....love this girl... Let the church say...Amen!
@PurpleRoomTea Жыл бұрын
It didn’t work I got impatient and I left him 😭 We’ve dated for 6years
@samanthaguirado42806 ай бұрын
I’m 3 years but he’s 25 and says to wait until 30 (I’m same age) 😭😭😭
@newgirl29582 ай бұрын
From my view if u dont ask directly u wont get it . I move in his house first without him asking me to move in - i just told him ill brought all of my stuff here .Next step is marriage and i will ask him to get married or just drag him with me to sing paper because i dont want to live unmaried . And i think second one is much easyer - me to plan everything and him just to folow me
@prechomu56957 жыл бұрын
Whats the name of your lipstick
@queencupcake099 жыл бұрын
No offense, but if I have to play games like this then I don't wanna be married lol I'm too old for that lol I love your vids btw. :)
@HausOfAdonis6 жыл бұрын
QueenCupcake32 then ur lazy behind won’t get married
@NoName-sp5dp6 жыл бұрын
Then be a gf
@samahj85675 жыл бұрын
These are good tactics to get married or at least to weed the men away who don’t want marriage. These aren’t malicious games.
@MsJupiter92 Жыл бұрын
Hahaha I actually did leave, for a month, currently in Florence, Italy for a photography course :D