Sigma Female Childhood Trauma

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@hrider56 5 ай бұрын

I have been waiting to hear that statement for sometime now. No one has to dig up my past, or childhood trauma. I have already honed it to my favor. Analyzing me is fruitless.

@AuntieShineDaily 5 ай бұрын

I used to say I am my island. Yet, it wasn't a choice for being anti-social. Instead, it's how I survived as a child being constantly rejected whenever I reached out for help from people who are supposed to provide a safe and nurturing environment.

@faithworks217 4 ай бұрын

I did art therapy years ago when seeing a psychologist. It was terrific. I would be blathering away to him while painting, not really paying attention to what I was doing. Then Glen would stop me and ask me to interpret my painting. One of them was three mountains with trees on them. I instantly knew what the mountains represented: three major trials in my life, and then I listed them. Glen pointed out that there were a lot of trees on the mountains, indicating growth. It was true. I grew a lot during those times of trial. In fact, one of them was a nervous breakdown I had in 1986 after my husband left me. In retrospect, I think that I had to go through that nervous breakdown, as hard as it was, because there were things I needed to learn that I could not learn any other way, due to my stubbornness.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 4 ай бұрын

Hi Faith, Thanks for sharing and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

@donnagilbert1039 5 ай бұрын

Very true, my independence intimidates most men, and women. It is only myself I have ever been able to depend on!

@domidiane5110 5 ай бұрын

We are strong , independent and all that stuff , however , we live in emotional pain.

@SharonJones-h9k 5 ай бұрын

I'm 74... Several days ago I was able to speak of what I experienced in my youth, and let it go... I was never loved by the family I was birthed into. I am a sigma female! I belong to God, he uses my prayers as HIS WEAPON ❤ FAVORED by HIM! BLESSED 💞

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

I am delighted that you have spoken out and let go. Nice to have you, ma'am. Welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎💖😘.

@kathleenpopata9718 5 ай бұрын

😊 from across the other side of the 🌎 at 74 keeping your mental Space in peace Happiness internally Life's created adaptability in your own lifetime ✨

@lesliepickett6441 5 ай бұрын

BLESSED and HIGHLY FAVORED by GOD❤

@SharonJones-h9k 5 ай бұрын

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm thank you for posting this!

@amandagazidis 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for making these videos, they deepen knowledge of myself...❤ I was overlooked in childhood and ignored as an adult by my family. I avoid them now...

@earthrooster1969 2 ай бұрын

Truly thankful to these insights here as well.. It's fascinating to realise that SO many of us see life similarly due to exactly similar circumstances ...

@tanyaasargent1392 5 ай бұрын

Oh wow!! Ive never seen myself explained so accurately ..my trauma created me a Sigma female 💞✨️

@beamempath 5 ай бұрын

"Traumas to Triumph" is short but super inspiring! Thank you so much for creating this VDO. I feel like I am not alone anymore. All doubts and questions about my life have all gone. I also see Sigma friends in the comments. I feel very confident and strong now. It's our path and shape who we are. All you list is all true! While I was watching, my thought was like "oh! how does he know that?" Thank you so much again 🙏❤

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

I love this " Trauma to Triumph" You got this😘💪 Thanks for tuning in and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

@ElenoorRigbee 5 ай бұрын

Incredible - every word is true, I felt like you looked into my soul. Thank you!

@love_tee1st 5 ай бұрын

I second to this

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

🙏🙏😘

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

@tonigstar 🙏🙏😘

@godlovesyousomuch5894 5 ай бұрын

All this explains why my mom is like she is 😢 She is very capable and has taught me to be capable This is most likely why neither of us can have boyfriends and why our marriages do not last I can now see how it is very hard for a man to get in our lives because we do everything for ourselves WOW this is my mom she can do everything I pray I am the same as I get older

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for tuning always 🙏🙏😘

@graceamsterdam5404 Ай бұрын

Thank you for good content. This could be all true although when i was young I just focused on moving forward without much introspection as in ‘self care’. Your first one is quite good: self induced perfection caused by trauma’ and risking burn-outs. I had one at 28-29 but in those days even the word ‘stress’ had not been invented yet (not where I come from) let alone ‘burn-out’. I taught myself a couple of golden rules. (1) I plan my life on 70% so I can always do more work and if not I can have more fun and leisure time. (2) when too much work is building up, I do not like to do things less ‘perfectionistic’ so I just cut whole areas all together. For example I cut sleep to a minimum and/or ‘social fun activities’. I also learned to be super selective in whom I spend time with. What to cut also depends on age and stage in life.

@libertybell7145 5 ай бұрын

This is True: (Rare Gems): "Sigmas aren't created by trauma; instead, trauma strengthens them." My lived experience says this is true. Plus, I studied the works of Carl Jung especially the archetypes. I recently watched a video of Carl Jung's original work (a yt channel reads his works & the reading is accompanied by famous art works, especially, for example, works of William Blake). In the video I watched it was a reading of the Deepest Unconscious Origins of the introverted Feeling type. It was a little bit scary it was so profound & I could see & understand how Sigma Female is formed in the material world. At the basic level....the level of Unconscious Origin the Sigma female knows that what the Unconscious Is, is what is real. The external world is a derivative of the unconscious. I think Carl Jung is probably a Sigma Male.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Hi Liberty, Well said 😘😘 Thanks for tuning in and for your contributions..🙏😘

@dgrazie6640 3 ай бұрын

For a Sigma woman, good or bad experiences are learning experiences and not eternal dramas. For a sigma woman the past doesn't control her , nothing controls or manipulates a Sigma woman , She is not manipulable or influenceable , follow your convictions and your intuition.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 3 ай бұрын

👌👌😘

@Jlopez2813 5 ай бұрын

This 100% me! How is this possible? I have felt so misunderstood all my life like I couldn't easily relate to other people but I had friends but I always felt off! These videos make me feel seen ❤ Thank you so much!

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing🙏😘 and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

@sandie4870 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for explaining me to me. 😄 My late mother, (may she R. I. P.), was the Ultimate Sigma Female. This is where I get my trait from. 🧐 Thank you so much for clearing this up because the older I’m getting, the more I’m turning into how my mother was and it’s a bit scary…I’ve become colder and distant from people and don’t care for relationships.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Glad it was helpful!😘 Welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

@sandie4870 5 ай бұрын

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm Thank you. 😊 🥰

@nancykralik6779 5 ай бұрын

I never had trauma as a child. The helping profession wanting to destroy me was my nemesis I trusted them

@me565 3 ай бұрын

I greatly enjoy listening to your videos, knowing that there are other folks who get where this in the box society mislabeled me. Much gratitude and great Blessing all reading this. Peace

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 3 ай бұрын

Thank you very much and welcome to THE RARE GEMS COMMUNITY 💎😘🙏

@lesliepickett6441 5 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯 ❤

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

😘😘👌

@LisaReeves-68 5 ай бұрын

My struggles made me stronger me myself and I and the song is awesome think u LORD for showing me I am made in your image GOD STRONG NOT HERE TO IMPRESS NO HUMAN

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

🙏🙏😘

@creedofidea 15 күн бұрын

Thank you!

@faithworks217 4 ай бұрын

Interesting name for this channel. It reminds me something God spoke to my heart years ago. Shortly after my father died, I had a chaotic, troubling dream, but the strong smell of skunk woke me up. I sat up in bed, thinking about the dream, trying to interpret it. It seemed to condemn me for various reasons. Then God said my heart is like a stone. I felt very glum upon hearing this, and said, "Are you telling me that my heart is hard and stubborn?" I felt Him smile and He gently said, "No," and I saw a picture in my mind of a large, heart-shaped emerald. He was telling me that He was Romancing the Stone, that I am precious to Him. My birthstone is emerald. I then got up and went to the window because I couldn't smell skunk after getting that one whiff of it. When a skunk lets fly, that smell takes hours to go away. That is when I realized that God made me smell skunk to wake me up from a dream that satan had sent to torment me. God was letting me know that He does not condemn me for my flawed habits. He is helping me get rid of them, because they are not who I really am. When I repented of my sins and received Jesus as my Saviour, the sinner died and I became a new creation.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing and welcome to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 😘🙏🏽

@nildalindsley2727 5 ай бұрын

Thank you

@suzwelsh1901 5 ай бұрын

😮😮😮Astounding. Yes. Thanks for explaining that 👍 Like gold to Lear about myself. Love to all readers ❤❤❤

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

👌👌😘

@gem7078 5 ай бұрын

All of this 🦋💎🩵

@Cuspofrevolution 5 ай бұрын

Its that accurate its scary. 😅

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

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@Protek2ndamndmnt 2 ай бұрын

Yeah...💯💯💯

@kathleenpopata9718 5 ай бұрын

Looking inwardly turned pain to purpose Burn out early Trauma shaped my life to support ME 🙃 Rivited in Self resilience unshakable self-talents self-control to be inwardly in control dominion over me no more externalities to be a walk over The best of me amongst all chaos A mindset from a distance sharp mind seeing many others crumble out of control Great to take rest restores Empowerment keepin inwardly in strength & peaceful No burn outs Manifest beauty inwardly to face the externalities reality is tuff but overall smell the ahh haa A Peacemaker to my Peacefulness in the innermost moment what more can one want Years-older worthwhile standing alone came from a Narcissistic Life of betrayal governed by Controlling Alpha's their Beta followers Its my shadow my echo and me super Empath Sigma Womanhood 🏡🪨🌅🛶🚢🛎⏰🌞🌠🔥🌬💯🤚🤚💯👏👏👏☝🌈Wet blankets goodbye 👋 👍 nailed 😊 Self-Independant ✅

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for your thoughts 😘👌

@ms.marion-p4r 5 ай бұрын

thank u so much. ❤

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊to THE RARE GEMS 💎 COMMUNITY 😘🫶👏

@rikkiharcourt3868 5 ай бұрын

Yes, in my case. Young child during 2nd WW. uk. Blitz, evacuation, shelters, rubble, Belsen in cinema, mother misbehaving, then father leaves home for another unmotherly woman. Thought it was all normal. Vowed not to put my children through that. Other early life stages to go through but now was happily married which was very healing. Do so agree that carrying on through that, the future seemed quite pleasant. Now listen to ‘stars’ telling us about their traumas I think……..”Not really that bad, on the whole!”. It is all relative.

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing 🙏😘

@blahwhatever123 5 ай бұрын

Pain to PURPOSE, obstacle to OPPORTUNITY; Self-reliance over dependency. Fierce & kind --> from boundaries ( ♈️ too 😂) comes intuition w/RESILIENCY. What came first the chicken or the egg...the sigma personality or the major life's trauma-drama? 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🙋🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️🙅🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@colleenStephenson-x3t 5 ай бұрын

I always say, after isolation, "Oh, I've been under Badger's Hill."

@zenawarrior7442 5 ай бұрын

Truth here. Depended on myself 💯, very observant of surroundings, read things well. Pain a motivating force & good teacher, never a victim, make it into power Thank you Rare 💎 😊🧡👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏵✨️ps are you saying Sigmas are made from traumatic pasts? I think it could be part of it but I think other factors involved🎀🕶♏️♾️

@TheRareGems-ql8rm 5 ай бұрын

Sigmas aren't created by trauma; instead, trauma strengthens them. Keep in mind that the same trauma or hardship that a Sigma endured and transformed into resilience could completely shatter someone with a different personality. While some individuals may try to mimic Sigma traits because of their life experiences, they can never truly be like a natural-born Sigma.

@zenawarrior7442 5 ай бұрын

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm OK yes makes sense, totally agree. No one can be like us. What we've been thru does shatter most...we just endure & get 💪. Thanks RG💞

@susan_from_washington 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this video. I'm an ENFP, HSP, middle child with 2 narcissistic parents. Your words ring so true for me.

@libertybell7145 5 ай бұрын

@@TheRareGems-ql8rm SO TRUE!