Silent Authority: Command Respect Without Saying A Word

[@yummyEnchilada]

Me: "Here's whats going to happen, you give me a raise and..." Boss: "You're fired"

[@JamesRDavenport]

My reply: You just screwed yourself for the next two months. Good luck training that army 1 week wonders to do for a day half assed what I did for years with awesomeness. Enjoy your shlubs!

[@alangc76]

lol

[@LawinReborn]

They key is to be so good that they cant fire you

[@brandonbaza1639]

@@LawinReborn I agree, if you consolidate your power base early on, then you'll be too good to be fired and firing you would dilute the quality of your business firm

[@RamloghunLuv]

This phrase demands a crucial position in the workplace. Referring that you are among the pivotal element in the office ,this line works like a charm. Anything can be imposed or said but depends on what is your status and how you make it sound to the listener.

[@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862]

Stay calm when others are freaking out. Learn to control your emotions.

[@elektrotehnik94]

Better yet; detach your mind, from your emotions. Look at your emotions from outside, evaluate them. Have a quick think if reacting instinctively (with emotions) will help you in this situation. You will find quite often there is a better way, with more calm and reason :)

[@PhantomAyz]

You can't control your emotions, but you can control how you act

[@tjz6202]

@@elektrotehnik94 Exactly this

[@numeekune1398]

And do the oposite when they being calm. They will take you serious and start thinking you must be upset because they do something wrong even they don't.

[@potmki6601]

Yet another basic line or quote from self-promoting guru. Get outta here

[@ayubm9196]

Harvey is the definition of confidence - this man should’ve won an award for this show!

[@tabeabussmann]

And hes so hot🥲

[@ronneilbrown9816]

Definitely agree

[@aniket987]

What show is it?

[@stevepurple3178]

@@aniket987 Suits

[@AshrafKhan-nm5wc]

Fuckin crazy show

[@SuccessWheels]

Some NOTES here 1. CONTROL THE FRAME WITH BODY LANGUAGE & TONE: If someone talk to you aggressively make sure you don’t respond to their emotional state. Stay cool, calm & Respond not rising to it. Which means you set the frame not other person 2. WHEN IN CONFRONTATION, ATTACK THE FRAME, NOT THE CONTENT: The less you focus on defending yourself the better your banter will become. Don’t try to win every critical exchange. 3. HAVE THE BELIEF THAT YOU ARE NOT THERE TO IMPRESS: If you are sells person or on a client facing role if you shift your mindset from I am selling this person or I work for this person to this person need me to partner with them. This means you will push back when needed, you will give better advice. 4. BECOME AN EXPERT AT FRAMING PEOPLE’S OPTIONS: You don’t need to have total control just control the options and the person who controls the options controls the outcome 5. CREATE OPTIONS FOR YOURSELF: Believe & show that you can always get different path, client, job if someone closes the door for you. My crazy passion is to share summaries like started doing it on my channel with PDF summaries✌ Lets create options for ourselves to show extreme confidence😃

[@cheffibrah1794]

Thanks man! Nice channel, keep going

[@Billy-yk5te]

Parasitism is not a good look for a life "coach."

[@sormin3456]

i've been waiting for your summary :D

[@Obabynation]

ThAnK you 😃

[@vynguyen7991]

Thank you!!!

[@titlespree]

To build real self confidence that is effortless and lasting, one must cultivate a sense of freedom and control. This comes from cultivating habits of looking inward, becoming independent, and working on improving oneself in all important arenas.

[@JJoh4040]

That's a FACT! How do you start and complete those things and consistently keep those habit's.

[@titlespree]

@@JJoh4040 Its simple, but not easy. The starting point is embracing the uncomfortable. The fixing point is feeling comfortable being uncomfortable.

[@Leprutz]

this is the reason I do not like this video. You state an obvious and true fact, whereas this video concentrates on a fictional character with written decisions.

[@Kaoren717]

I think it's also important to reflect on things that you have been taught and accepted as beliefs that may not be beneficial to you. I feel like we were closest to freedom as children, we just needed to develop introspection and empathy, but then society sabotages all of it and tries to make us into "Adults", so that you can be controlled.

[@Kaoren717]

@@ConfidenceCreator2 How do you go through life if you don't care what people think though? Are you going to be a hermit?

[@jackiemarie9008]

when harvey mentions the queen of england without knowing that she’s rachel’s soon to be grandma in law

[@josmarleiva6845]

They knew. It's called predictive programming.

[@exnihilonihilfit6316]

@@josmarleiva6845 and yours is called "mental illness"

[@mrg2235]

Really guys

[@ryliek6832]

@@exnihilonihilfit6316 that made me laugh out loud

[@EastAngliasFinest]

@@josmarleiva6845 At least you are awake.

[@fcukausername]

Harvey single-handedly makes that show worth watching imo. Surprised it took this long for there to be a breakdown for him. Great video.

[@janpalokari4631]

Harvey? You mean Jessica?

[@oriehi_raphael_paul]

Ikr!

[@jonnycpardoe]

I wouldn't watch if Harvey wasn't in it neither.

[@rory9659]

Louis is my favourite character

[@Comyupower]

@@rory9659i think louis and harvey are the real stars of the show

[@Rensune]

The Key to Harvey's Charisma is the Work underpinning it. Not just his Intelligence, or Talent, but All the Hard work he put in to get there, and his knowledge of his Chosen profession. Confidence is a LOT Easier to have when you Know what you're talking about, and can PROVE It.

[@vekaasha5762]

Do a character breakdown of confidence on Peaky Blinder's Thomas Shelby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@alexanderekubo538]

Vekaash A have a death stare

[@raquelborn]

Matthew Barry he’s an INTJ that’s why he seems emotionless until you get to know his character better

[@xAiiuRz]

YES PLEASE DO THIS!!!

[@ArchMage1011]

THIS

[@Indyhomeprosrealestate]

YES!

[@codebreakerowns]

I've literally been asking for this breakdown for the past 2 years. Charlie you hero. Now you've got to do Jessica Pearson. Arguably the most dominant female character on television.

[@edwarddean7]

Me too, and video about Jessica is a great idea!

[@ryancheng1312]

@@edwarddean7 Donna's confidence is pretty up there as well

[@nadiriqbal22]

Not arguably bruh...its period!

[@ppvk2610]

@@ryancheng1312 Donna is A-mazing!

[@aamishazeem3770]

@Not Convinced it's not

[@sebastianelytron8450]

I named my eraser "Confidence ." Because it gets smaller after every mistake I make.

[@BoqPrecision]

I'm about to make your eraser even smaller critiquing your lame joke.

[@TheSuperStarCarWash]

W0W... Your slick! loser!

[@Bakwazan]

Actualy making mistakes and learning from them can make you better at something and thus more confident

[@escobarfedmedrugs]

@@Bakwazan it was a joke man

[@maranofan]

This joke is actually funny. Poor the bitter betties with no sense of humour

[@Truth_101_]

i just wanted to share a lil something i took from a previous video. making myself comfortable when going in a room or coming over to sit with people makes a huge difference. i started doing this contiously and it quickly became unconcious. when you lets say join a group of friends who are already sitting, sit slowly, find the perfect position for you, (for me its putting my right leg on my left leg) and take a few seconds to soak up everything thats going on around you. even if someone started talking to you before you are done with this little "ceremony" dont even bother replaying untill youre done with it and feel 100% comfortable :). it makes a huge difference. i think i saw it on their george clooney video :). thanks CoC!

[@stoicx.]

0:48 - #1: Your body language & tone. 4:29 - #2: Attack the framing, not the content of the insult. 5:52 - #3: Don’t be there to impress. 8:09 - #4: Learn to become an expert at framing your options in any particular scenario. 9:20 - #5: Create options for yourself.

[@jonnycpardoe]

'The less you focus on defending yourself, the better your banter will become'. Love this!

[@mohammedzafar8520]

1. Control body language and tone 2. Don't defend yourself but attack back. 3. You're not there to impress anyone ppl r there to impress you 4. Attack the frame not the content 5. Control and create the options

[@minopoke]

Please do one on Donna! She’s the only one who really stands up to Harvey, and we need some more female analysis :)

[@juanyamirespinoza8664]

Shut the foook up

[@peeplepeeps1500]

Yes, please!!!

[@JamesRDavenport]

Donna is hot.

[@namjoononbicycle]

I know right! There is not enough female personalities on this channel!

[@namjoononbicycle]

@ioana ilea I am so confused. You're agreeing with me or not? Because I literally said they should make more analysis videos about female personalities too

[@Jouhzu]

*Warm and strength = confidence* Cold and strong = arrogance Warm and weak = pitty Cold and weak. = lost cause

[@Jouhzu]

Anna 123 well you got to look at Jouhzu videos then to get some inspiration

[@Leprutz]

sounds like a buch of bull to me. Calm and layed back is a sign of confidence. Of true confidence.

[@Jouhzu]

Stephane Gregory Dan okay bro

[@GEliteG]

warm and strength= Kamado Tanjirou

[@Jouhzu]

Confidence Creator How so?

[@TuanJinnNguyen]

Great analysis. I just finished Suits, a bit late, but i gotta say, Harvey and Jessica are among or even the 2 most well written characters in TV series. Those that you can learn tons of things from

[@enry1821]

Think harveys the real Mvp, Mike got the plot going on and Luis brings entertainment, tgese three for me have the spotlight

[@Victoriaward]

I run an eCommerce consultancy and these tips are complete game changers for anyone running a service based business 👌

[@Orik960]

One of my favorite shows and characters! Good breakdown! Something that was relatively underplayed in the video until the end is the reason his moves work: his radical competence. Confidence and techniques are great and can get you places, but you won't be able to keep your position or demand raises or whatever without some value backing you up. That either means competence or leverage of another kind which Harvey almost always has in spades. Thanks for all your hard work Charlie! These videos have been a great boon to my own charisma :D

[@pauldickinson3961]

Please do a video on Thomas Shelby at some point.

[@fito3496]

Yes please we all need that.

[@emanuel9918]

Asap

[@harispapadopoulos4295]

Best. Idea. Ever

[@taylor_tony]

Good suggestion

[@jonathanwolff5826]

YES PLEASE

[@kimiko4616]

Wow, this channel just got litt up!

[@timothyc3602]

underrated comment

[@ThisisFerrariKhan]

😑😂

[@frostyplays949]

xD

[@kaylag5043]

You assert dominance over a situation by acknowledging that you don't control what happens to you, but you do control how you respond to it.

[@klara7247]

”see that’s funny because” are the best catchphrases in this series

[@vipuljhakal7403]

Please tell me the name of this series?

[@SbeveTheFirst]

@@vipuljhakal7403 suits

[@johnnyscanadianlifestyle8285]

Lol thats so true, thanks for bringing that to light for me

[@Maxx9081]

The character Harvey has changed my life, in two years my life turned around. I have watched the whole series more than 5 times. every time I feel low, I watch Suits❤️

[@Victoriaward]

I’ve already commented on this video. But I just want to add to it. Understanding frames of reference is one of the most powerful ways to finally start being able to get to grips with dominant, disagreeable personality types. It took me way too long to realise this BUT never argue with their frame...simply assert yours with persistency and conviction. The person with the most compelling frame wins. Unless you’re dealing with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath, in which case you have a choice: you can either grey rock (google it) or be destroyed. That’s the second lesson. Be clear on the ego you’re dealing with. Some egos have a scorched Earth policy.

[@MyLilPwniez]

Can you make an analysis of confidence for Tommy Shelby from Peaky Blinders?

[@cherch4625]

yes!!

[@ItsAsparageese]

@@ConfidenceCreator2 I'm so entertained by the fact that you posted this comment even though you said never mind even while writing it. Like, it's not even edited. That's just adorable, and I often do similar things and just leave my thoughts there in a thread even when I realize I was mistaken or just needed to look something up, so I love this

[@Farawayfromyou9]

What exactly is the purpose of them and this channel? I'm confused. Does it mean to make characters like Tommy Shelby and... as role models or just learn from them and add to our best version?!

[@ch3ngg]

could you do a video on donna, please??? especially in conflict scenarios and standing up for herself. her confidence is goals!

[@hazardmouth]

I love this channel. I would much rather watch content like this any hour of the day then listen to all the negativity that is swarming our social media and KZbin videos. You are doing your viewer's service, and I am greatly appreciative of your efforts.

[@syedmisbah2378]

*7:12* that's the best moment in that entire season which showed how Harvey bends anyone to his rules another thing is most of the scenes in this entire video is taken from *Season 1 & 2* , where Harvey was complete boss and badass in his deals

[@lucym911]

YAAAAAAY I'm SO glad you finally did Harvey Specter!!

[@jonnycpardoe]

What a man.

[@kenroykentish4641]

When Harvey was talking about what would u do if someone had a gun and how he framed it all that just changed my whole perspective of how life is and how to handle dangerous situations if only they were more people like him

[@davecullins1606]

Almost EVERYONE will give you only two options and make you believe there are really only two. Much of the time they even believe themselves that there are only two. The people who succeed more rarely ever pick on of the two options because they usually always find a third that's much better.

[@damonlove8]

finally a Harvey Specter charisma on command

[@jonnycpardoe]

:D Glad I found it too

[@louiev100]

I walk around like this and it's been working for me. I'm in sales though so I deal with people who constantly look down on me throw back handed compliments threaten to leave lmao everything he deals with in the vid so that's why I am how he is all the time thanks to this video. Wont work all the time for some like me but definitely need this in your arsenal and should use it as much as possible to get better and figure the best times to pull it out

[@wishmeluck4933]

Automatic like because suits and because charisma on command

[@JasmineNothanks]

Thanks I missed the name of the show. I think I'll have to check it out.

[@wishmeluck4933]

@@JasmineNothanks it's a great show from the beginning!

[@TheJamsplat]

Stopped watching shortly after they lost Mike. Wasn’t the same without him and all the in-fighting within the firm got old.

[@tanishqsuryawanshi1276]

@@TheJamsplat damn, I just spoiled the show for myself

[@frostyplays949]

@@TheJamsplat he comes back...

[@marklesueur1288]

The way to Set the Frame is to Know YOUR "Outcome" for the interaction. As mentioned here, Frames are continually changing, so by Knowing What it is that You Want to have Happen that specifically prevents others from changing Your Frame & allows you to adjust yours to theirs as you go through. And whilst speaking about Frames, there is also Re-Framing. Context Re-Frames & Content Re-Frames. Using the metaphor in this video, .. you can keep the artwork & change the Frame that it's in (Context Re-Frame) or keep the Frame & change the artwork inside it (Content Re-Frame). These are foundation concepts from a feild called NLP & relate to Influence with others. The allied understanding that supports the concept of Frames is "Criteria". Those elements of your outcome that must be present for you to know you have achieved it, whatever they may be.

[@digitalmarketingsupply]

This is a great video! As I watched the show (I was new to Suits until a few months ago) I got such a kick out of how they would show Harvey's body language when they'd do flashbacks. And then you see how much more confident he became. I loved that! I find myself getting my inner "Jessica Pearson" on now! Making sure I "OWN" myself as I walk into rooms of people. This show really lays it out for us!

[@14Javid]

Who else is waiting for Tommy Shelby video?

[@Gwopomoli]

Javid Mardanov mad

[@emanuel9918]

Yes

[@ongito29]

Yeaah

[@MrSunbeam]

💯💯💯

[@SurgeryIsWoke]

British Jimmy Darmody

[@SivaArunagiri]

Great video! Suits is one of the finest shows that is not only a drama series to watch during your free time but also something that you can learn a lot from.

[@sddhvjlsdfhvjlsdfhvlhvkjsbnvs]

Preparation is the key to confidence. These body language and attitude come automatically as an icing on cake.

[@jaredgijoza1906]

NOTE: Reacting is like giving an immediate (usually negative) response to something while responding is noticing your own emotions and taking a second to breathe and consider the situation.

[@Friends4ever3373]

I have watched the first 7 series 5 times over...watch it everyday with my lunch and I am not faking when I say the show has changed me as a person...I rarely get influenced but this character cannot be overlooked

[@sumanthmurthy1642]

Think you left out one very important part of Harvey’s charisma. He’s PREPARED for every situation and guess that ties into having options? Of course, it infinitely helps to have Donna as his secretary.

[@ChrisRubeo]

What I love about your message and your channel is that, ultimately, it's about becoming an overall better person. THAT it the pathway and the goal.

[@jtkwndnff3505]

Please do a video on charisma on Sterling Archer! This is like the bajillionth day I’ve asked this.

[@ConceptHut]

Confidence is about sureness. Confident action will be fluid and flexible, not rigid or stiff. Lacking of fear or insecure behavior. Lacking of rush or pull back.

[@mr12aT]

The most dramatically filmed tv show I’ve ever seen.

[@MemberOfTheSaints]

What do you mean? Over the top? Is it worth watching in your opinion?

[@mr12aT]

@@MemberOfTheSaints First season was good, and maybe half of the second season. The then after that the drama just gets too much because its non-stop. You will forever have the phrase " God damnit" imprinted in to your memory, god damn it!

[@fcukausername]

@@mr12aT my exact thoughts. i noticed that at one point virtually EVERY scene ended with an argument and somber music. the melodrama becomes excessive to the point where it loses all weight and you just become numb to it. season 1 was like a totally different show, and a far better one.

[@dunnowhat2say566]

Well if there wasn’t for the drama the show would be really boring... it’s a show with a bunch of lawyers

[@MrMacFighter]

Man.. this course is looking better and better every time I see a vid from you guys! Loved it! Thank you :)

[@Number2Drakefan]

This channel and many others have made me a dangerous man

[@Orangesorbet131]

I would be really interested in watching one these confidence breakdowns about a female celebrity!

[@ItsAsparageese]

That said, I would hazard a guess that most of the audience here are men, so there are probably subtle ways in which they're helped by greater prevalence of male examples -- just in terms of seeing someone they can identify with and more easily liken to themselves in the mirror. As a chick myself, I love all the videos and gain a lot from them all equally, but that's me. And I have noticed just now, cruising through their videos page, that most female examples are from real life, and rarely from fiction, so that creates some room to explore for sure!

[@monsieurpnut]

I’ve observed that most confident women in today’s world seem to emulate confident men anyway. I think it’d be an interesting albeit perhaps slightly redundant video

[@CrabBait]

Confidence is not gendered. He breaks down male and female characters on the charismatic traits at an individual level. You can learn from any character!

[@mimesthaisilva8321]

Good Vibrations We don’t need to emulate men. It’s about being a confident person, not a man or woman as if we were different species.

[@kuuuueee]

Then watch one his many other videos about women??

[@SanneHillemans]

"There is always another option that suits him better" 😂 I see what you did there.

[@ZTRCTGuy]

Actually when I encounter a person like Harvey, I usually go full stoic mode. For example someone just trying to command another person, which he tries, I will become more reluctant to do what he says. I will prolly say something like ''Or what would happen?'' in a calm way. Harveys attitude mostly only works if there aren't too many people around who behave like him.

[@chasemait]

Yes! I have been waiting for a dive in onto Harvey Spectre. I've been really into your videos as a Communication Major. Keep it up!

[@izzojoseph2]

I’ve found, if people are aggressively arguing, I deflate by picking a low grade point I had been defending and abruptly agree BUT stage the first part as if I’m about to attack ~ “You know what!? I think you’re right. I agree. I hadn’t thought about it in that light and you’re right.” 3 agreements with a confirmation and it completely deflates their aggression. It works every time I’ve used it and allows me to then follow with support for my main argument, which I then usually win.

[@lua_moura]

I absolutely love Harvey!! Suits is one of my favorite shows!! Great video ❤

[@ItsAsparageese]

Really glad to see one of the Charisma University ads actually take up a better-proportioned part of the video. :) I totally approve of pushing your monetized product, absolutely, but it seems like for the last little while, it's been way too heavily emphasized. I almost never skip out of a video early due to the-obligatory-commercial-piece, but lately I'd been doing it with your videos because those CU plugs would go on and on for (what probably wasn't, but felt like) 20% of the video. This was MUCH better. Thank you for balancing that more comfortably! I hope, and sincerely think, that the audience will appreciate that and respond better to it. You guys are the ones who look at the metrics, so IDK, but that's my personal opinion. Wishing your enterprise the best!

[@ThomasFrasier]

suits was a great show. i feel like rewatching the first few seasons again.

[@jonnycpardoe]

Totally. I'm going through to watch them all again.

[@marlenasien8793]

I like to think that having a well-rounded personality means that I have a collection of characters at my disposal. Harvey is now one of them. I am not him much of the time, but he is now in my tool belt.

[@osse1n]

*Confidence* - when you are encountered by a new situation but have enough belief in your abilities, to know that you will be alright in tackling it

[@karanabraham7906]

Love these videos, but I always forget it when I'm in actual social interactions 😅

[@saurabhm383]

Stay calm and you will remember. Never get nervous in front of anyone.

[@Adam_Lyskawa]

Rinse, repeat, try to remember, you WILL make it. I wish I had watched that all a long time ago.

[@TheLowlifeFilms]

Do a video on Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders! I love his character and confidence and one of your videos would be PERFECT!

[@isaacstevens1912]

Do a video on Andrew Yang! His kind personality is infectious. Also, the way he handles criticism and brings people to his side is definitely worth analyzing.

[@seabrarebecca]

This is very valuable. The concept of frames is steadily supported by psycholinguistics, discourse analysis and pragmatics. Congratulations and thank you for this video, Charlie!

[@billcipher1602]

Have you ever considered making a video on Thomas Shelby from Peaky Blinders? I think it could be really interesting.

[@SuperPEman]

Being Harvey is the key to having confidence...

[@TenaciousTex]

Believe In yourself more then anyone else that's what it took for me to really get my channel going and my life rolling master yourself.

[@shaunmcgluffin4980]

Jotex Enlightenment you are your #1 asset use it!

[@saltuponwounds6845]

Self reliance over everything

[@bernelcolins9873]

Inspiring words bro loving the content

[@typicallightskin2431]

YOOTEXX

[@TenaciousTex]

Typical Lightskin yoo

[@littlegiant5979]

My favorite T.V characters of all time and he is explained masterfully thank you for this.

[@Sur4aaaaa]

Pls name moveeeee❤❤❤

[@wildcard126]

Gonna throw in my vote for the whole “Tommy Shelby Video” idea people are pitching. Seriously needs to happen

[@JasmineNothanks]

Side note* this seems like a very interesting character & now I'm interested in this show. Great analysis.

This show is great. Available on Prime.

[@alexanderenfloristijburg8211]

Mann you're about to discover a greatt show!! Enjoy :P

[@pratikbhuyan]

You need to see it just for this guy alone

[@SallyMichelle97]

The show finished 3 weeks ago and I catch things like this and miss it! The other characters are great too, you should give it a try for sure

[@JasmineNothanks]

@@pratikbhuyan agreed. He seems interesting to say the least.

[@Hubjeep]

Note Harvey's thick, symmetrical full-Windsor tie knot. Nearly every knot of his adversary was a half-Windsor or Four-in-Hand knot (strangled and/or out of shape).

[@Hubjeep]

Seriously, anyone else notice this?

[@futseb]

I like your channel, your advice seem to me reasonable and clear, there are not magic tricks. The weakness however of your channel is to contently show pieces of TV shows or comedians in display on talk show. The problem with it being that it is not real. These are scenariis and dialogues written and arranged by a team of scriptwriters. I know it's much harder to do. But if you could interview some real people out there who changed the way people behaved to them by changing their behaviors first, that would be fantastic. Thanks for all the work, and keep on.

[@PinkRidingHood97]

YESSS YOU FINALLY DID HARVEY SPECTOR! I LEGIT WATCH SUITS TO EXCEL MY CONFIDENCE SKILLS!! Thanks Charisma on Command!

[@markshrah6537]

Excellent case study of Harvey's confidence. I want to know how much time this took you, and what approach you took to perform this. Could you make videos on Mindsets as well? confidence comes with a stable mindset, along with many other benefits. This video grants an edge to the people who already have their confidence sorted, but doesn't help the ones yet to discover their confidence. This can only be solved by first laying a foundation( Mindset).

[@devam7768]

THANK YOU! FINALLY! BEEN ASKING FOR THIS FOR 8 MONTHS ❤️

[@terryzuniga2473]

7:43 Never before have I been so offended by something I one hundred percent agree with

[@patrickorourke41]

Yes!!! So glad we finally got a Harvey Specter video👏👏👏

[@phillconklin382]

Thanks for featuring Suits, I love this show. It was insightful as always, I always learn something from you. :)

[@aksuri94]

Can you please make a video on how to write a personal statement for academia? How to demonstrate different things like talent, work experience, diversity, trauma/ over coming something and explaining flaws in academic record. What life story should you pick? How do you make sure you're memorable? Please and thank you!!

[@jolenes.6804]

Really enjoyed this! And I enjoyed the clips on deflecting insults. “I’m surprised you didn’t recognize your wife’s perfume. I know. Not married. Still funny!” That was cute. Thank you for uploading these!

[@grimson248]

I've been waiting for this breakdown for years! Thanks guys! Love your videos

[@Zorez21]

Awesome video as always Charlie! However, something we’d all love to see is Thomas Shelby from Netflix’s Peaky Blinders

[@brittv5474]

If you haven't done a video on her, definitely look into one on Kate McKinnon. She's magical in interviews... and pretty much always.

[@pablorivadeneira7529]

You should analyze Neal Caffrey from White Collar.

[@shivanshbhardwaj3297]

One of my favourite TV characters

[@Bunny19454]

Finally!!! I've been waiting for this for years!! Thanks

[@gustafrindestal]

The less conclusions you make, the more confidence you will have

[@raichua]

I love that you used Harvey for this topic. Excellent content and advice.

[@Mark-nb9vo]

Do one on Patrick Jane’s natural charm

[@MrMadFingaz]

THANK YOU

[@koeientepels6825]

Yes, his character is very magnetic and his way of influencing is very interesting

[@MrMadFingaz]

@@koeientepels6825 especially because he always stays so true to himself

[@Mark-nb9vo]

Confidence Creator search up the mentalist, you’ll like it

[@zu-zu5940]

Do one about Patrick from spongebob

[@jasg771]

Harvey exudes charisma, way more than other lawyers. I think there's a very thin line to differentiate between confidence and arrogance. Tone and micro body language set a remarkable difference in the way you portray yourself and how others perceive you as.

[@princevegeta9980]

Me:"Try taking a swing towards me and I'll wash the floor with your face" Also Me after getting beaten up: "Hello 911"

[@joelpierce1453]

You should do a video about why Olan Rogers (has a KZbin channel and created the show Final Space) is such an entertaining and effective story teller.

[@green_eye_gossip]

The only thing I didn’t like was when he said “you took another step toward earning my respect” I mean it was just cocky and made it look like he thinks he’s so special, thus, just making him look like a fool.

[@bartekmalinowski]

I’m a simple man, I see charisma on command finally do Harvey Specter - I click

[@thatjudomaster]

Can you do a video on Thomas Shelby from peaky blinders?

[@knightstormbringer]

I love the inclusion of the two Bobs interview from Office Space. Great clip to illustrate your point on frame control.

[@AngieNFilms]

Such a great breakdown!! thanks for sharing!

[@TankieBoleke]

I love Harvey Spector. I want to have his confidence and charisma

[@JonathanLov]

Dang, this is some quality content...

[@davidjsouth231]

I work in federal government and many leaders were put here because of nepotism. They also have no desire to change the status quo.I don’t play games and if you don’t want to play ball to accomplish the established goals then I move on without you. And many feel threatened when you’re emotionally secure and don’t respond with fear.

[@filipjovanovic6461]

Can you do a video about Peaky Blinders??

[@brandonbaza1639]

Man, I've been waiting for a Harvey Specter vid for a long time!!!