How I Ended Up In Korea As a Business Owner 🇰🇷 it has been harder than you think... | Sissel

[@kalista89]

I’m sorry this happened to you, my dear. Own your stories. You have become a beautiful human and a successful woman and you owe this to no one but yourself! ❤️

[@Sapphirekgm]

Sissel: "I've never really been a fan of America." Me, an American: "Girl, SAME."

[@sisselab]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Sapphirekgm]

@@sisselab I grew up in a military family so I did a lot of moving and travelling around the world (even lived in Seoul for a couple years as a kid) and I will always be a little salty that I had to eventually stay permanently in America. All countries have their good and bad parts, but it's so hard for me to see more pros than cons in America these days... Someday I hope to have enough money to be able to move abroad, or at least to spend a lot of my time travelling again.

[@NavyGrey]

I live in America too and completely agree lol I am also not a fan😂

[@kazebaa]

Agree, I love Europe, and in September Im gonna live my dream, and finally go to Switzerland 🇨🇭 !!! 😊, Im nervous, dont know french yet, but in life you need to forget the “cons” and just try new things ! Love your history!

[@kazebaa]

@Juli VanHouten thank you so much !!! I know im gonna love it !! I always wanted to live in Europe ( im from Chile), live in Spain a few months, but I have this dream for so many years, and with the quarantine and covid, I realized what i Really want ... Its gonna be dificult to get there, but i need to try !

[@alliahrose2878]

Sissel you are honest, mature, wise and smart for such a young age. Surely you are one of many people's inspiration and motivation. You surely deserve all of this. You are one of the most hardworking people I ever see. Your story is so honest and such an inspiration to work hard and move forward. Wishing you more happiness and success! Your team especially your manager surely is the best!

[@sisselab]

Thank you for this loving message, it means a lot 💚

[@sofianunes4301]

i think most europeans, when we think about usa we're always like "ah no"

[@dieseangi]

Honestly yes

[@julie9136]

as an american, me too me too

[@annaday946]

as an american, yes I totally agree. I would move out of America if I could... especially after the most recent events at the captiol...

[@andreacole9658]

@@annaday946 factssss I been planning my escape since middle school💀

[@anavh8067]

@@annaday946 It was only a couple radical people if you compare it to the rest of the population tbh. They do not represent America as a whole. Bad things happen in every country and one's America isn't necessarily another person's America. This is a melting pot of different cultures and ideologies as we count with about 20 percent of the whole world's population. If those that can change the bad things leave, especially the ones that feed our industry, then we will go down. We can't always control those that are out of their mind. Both the very far right and left are stupid.

[@julie_s8689]

God I’m really sorry Sissel but I’m especially mad to hear this kinda of stories so frequently I think most people don’t realize how often it happens this is one of the reason why we still need feminism so much and I really wish that it will change! Thank you so much for sharing this with us and I’m sending you all my good vibes for 2021 and even longer 💛

[@sisselab]

Exactly!! 💚✊🏻✊🏾💚

[@Jasminluvrockable]

You are so right! sadly it happens more often than we think. I am also grateful that more people are speaking up so we can all support each other!

[@MrAbdu-qm3mf]

And yet girls keep making the same mistakes

[@julie_s8689]

@@MrAbdu-qm3mf and yet man continue to spread rape culture and being stupid 🙄

[@doroparker1702]

@@MrAbdu-qm3mf tell me where you are that I can kick you where it hurts.

[@delaney6122]

Sissel, I can't imagine how hard it was sharing your story. But we all love you and are here for you.

[@lovelace5286]

19:50 "At the time I felt safe because I thought I knew him" 80% of survivors personally knew the perpetrator. I'm so sorry this happened and to you or anyone who want through this you need to know that *you couldn't have known that a person was going to violate your trust*

[@cassandra4515]

I cannot begin to express how grateful I am that I live in a time where women are opening up more and more about these kind of issues. It helped me build the courage to speak up myself and that is something I will always keep in my heart. Sissel, you are one of these people, and you inspire me in so many ways💚💚 Thank you so much!!

[@Hyyh006]

I don’t think people fully realize how strong she is for telling her story. That is so powerful and even though I had to click away two times because I was getting triggered, I feel like it helped me in a way to realize that it can happen to anyone and it never was my fault.

[@melzerda295]

God Sissel, I am mad now knowing that happened to you, it fills me with sad an anger as well. This atrocities happened everyday and I applaud you for sharing your story with us. It is important to visualize it, otherwise rape culture will continue to work under the shadows without any consequences. We your followers are proud of the strong and brave woman you have become!! And for the girls out there maybe in a similar situation, know that you are not alone. Feminism is a beautiful and warm embrace between us sisters 💚 happy 2021 to you Sis and wish you nothing but happiness!

[@giorgia.g]

Thank you for sharing this story and all the things that happened in between. Everything you've been through has made you the strong woman you are today and that's why we all follow you!✨💛

[@twentyone2187]

30 minutes in Sissel's channel feels like 3 minutes 😢, I love you so much please know that you played a role in inspiring a lot of people including me ! An inspiration which can only and possibly change someone to the better no matter how small or big the change is ! Did you know that you are one of the strongest girls I've ever known in my life whether online or in real life, hope this year will bring you joy and loads of happy moments you and your loved ones 💘💞 I love you so so muchhhh 😘

[@sisselab]

🥺 almost tearing up 💚

[@m3r3dith]

I'm sorry for what happened to you girl, you're such a strong, wise and beautiful girl! I'm glad you have trustworthy friends now. I hope your 2021 will be way better than the years before 💜

[@sisselab]

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[@PoPsYmElLi]

Thank you for sharing Sissel. I had a similar experience on my first trip to Korea. I felt safe, but I was not. It was so hard for me to accept how it impacted me, I gave up my Korean studies and wanted nothing to do with the country because it reminded me of the experience. And it has taken me almost 5 years to recover from it and find a way to love myself again and Korea again. I applaud you for finding your way back and for staying in Korea!

[@sisselab]

I’m sending you a virtual hug and a bunch of love 💚

[@SylviaKim]

Wow Nice story!!! I haven't been caught up with your life for so long, so I really wondered and found this video!!! Happy for your life!!👏👏20:00 So brave to bring it out to the public. Happy New year Sissel🙌

[@Gint04re]

Thank you for being honest with your experience in korea, I think a lot of people think it's all butterflies and fairies when they move to a new country especially with korea when it's surrounded by awesome music and culture but shitty things can happen too. I'm so sorry that happened to you and I wish I could give you the biggest hug. But you've come so far and I'm so proud of you. You're so talented, beautiful and smart. Stay strong and keep being your creative awesome self. Thanks for making me smile 🥰

[@sisselab]

Thank you for this loving comment. I feel your hug 💚

[@sarahshafiq299]

I am very grateful that you are able to talk about your experiences and show different sides that have shaped you to become the strong woman you are

[@cindyharris0531]

I am so very sorry that you were hurt, especially by someone you thought of as a friend. You are such a lovely person and I have so enjoyed your channel. You are in my heart and I pray you heal completely from that experience. Much love and hugs to you.

[@debbie_mrks]

sissel, i can‘t even express how thankful i am about you opening up to us. i can just barely imagine how you feel when thinking and talking about what happened and it‘s incredibly brave telling us something so private. sending a BIG hug and lots of love from germany, you‘re absolutely amazing and inspiring, thank you so much for everything! 🤍

[@ToxineLycoris]

Thank you for sharing your story, as harsh as it is and not sugar coating it. It permits to put into perspective the potential hardships and the risks of moving abroad, but also of life. You grew to become a wonderful person who truly deserves to be an inspiration for others. I hope time gonna ease your pain and your encounters with people make those hardships an old memory. I'm looking forward to watch your work. Thank you. Lots of love ❤

[@melissa_dwr]

:((((( im so sorry that happened to you my Sissel. i’m literally in tears. you are so so strong☹️🤍 sending love.

[@kylatolentino7912]

It's Sissel again! I really stopped what I'm doing and clicked right away.❤️ I hope you a great and happy 2021❤️

[@sisselab]

awwwwwwww my heart is melting and my cheeks are blushing ☺️💚

[@Annamaria-km8wh]

@@sisselab thank u for this video❤️❤️ so u haven't went to the university??

[@mochibujo]

This must’ve been really hard to film and edit. I’m so sorry you had to experience that. Having moved to a different country at a young age myself, I know the struggles and how scary it can be, especially with men who does not respect women as human beings. You’ve come so far Sissel! I’m so proud of you. Love from Norway!

[@Hyerininseoul]

I believe that everything in this world is connected. Eventhough this video was made 2 years ago, but I currently have same situation like yours when the first time coming to Korea. The part that i need to let go and forgive , it makes me believe that after everything that I have gone through I will find happiness like you as well

[@Itsatechnicality]

Just wanted to say, it takes 6 years for each of your body cells to turnover. After that time, there won’t be a part of you that has been abused. Hope that brings a bit of comfort ❤️

[@bboysoljiki]

What a completely eye-opening video.. Thank you for sharing this Sissel. I hope one day you find peace of mind and more importantly justice against that monster.. All the best in the new year!

[@s.478]

Dear Sissel, I rarely comment on YT, but I had too in this case. I am so, so sorry that happened to you! You are very brave for speaking out about this, and I am so impressed you have found a way forward, into a successful life and even a loving relationship. You are right in refusing to let one thing define your life, but this is often easier said than done. On a side note, and on a more general note, I have just read the entire comment section - also something I rarely do - and I’m quite shocked at the number of similar stories, and a bit amazed at the reactions. (I don’t mean that in a critical way at all!!!) I think I have read the word ‘crime’ about 3 times, at the most. I know sexual assault is extremely difficult to prove, I fully understand that what a ‘victim’ (horrid word, but there we are) least wants to do is go to the police and/or court. I also understand SK is not necessarily the most female friendly place on the planet, as well as so many other countries for that matter. There may be little point in seeking justice. But have we now come to a place where young(er) women don’t even talk about sexual assault as a crime? Just as something truly awful that can happen at any time, and that you then have to get over, if you can? Little as the police may be able or wanting to do, let’s at least call it by its name amongst ourselves: a heinous crime that is punishable by law (even if said law shows little interest in doing its job). As someone a bit older, I’m now wondering how many young women have just given up on justice of any kind in cases such as these. That is not OK, to say the least… Sissel, you are so right that it is important to speak out about these things. Again, you are very brave for doing so. Perhaps the word ‘crime’ could be added (again) to the conversation? Until we do, a certain group/type of men will not even see as such. But then again, this entire long and rambling comment may be out of place and/or unhelpful, for you or anyone else… If so, sorry for having taken up anyone’s time. Blessings to all and especially to you!

[@sisselab]

You are so right. Let’s call is what it is 💚

[@doroparker1702]

Thank you. I wrote two comments already. I call it attack and I know three girls who had an attack by a friend. The crime can not go on. There has to be punishment for the attackers as the girls have too much wounds after the attack.

[@deppy1734]

I just came across this video. I totally agree that it is a CRIME. The perpetrator should not get away scot free. Social media ia a very powerful tool. That person should be called out and punished.

[@missdeath1990]

I cried with you when you shared your experience because unfortunately I've been in that place. Honestly sissel I'm older than you but I look upto you because you are so mature and you handle yourself and your life so well despite obstacles and low points. You are inspiring others each time you grow, and bless you girl I am glad we get to be connected to each other like this!

[@erikastellah]

you are so brave for talking about it. it makes me angry how men can do something like that and get away with it without any consequences. i hope in the future there are more laws that actually protect women😪 and i hope more public figures like you will help to increase awareness about this topic and create change. supporting you always sissel❤️

[@janikbastide1985]

You are so brave for sharing this Sissel, it's such an awful and disgusting thing that can ruin someone's life, something so many of us are scared of. Thank you for opening up and raising awareness about this. You're such a kind, unique and strong woman that we look up to. So happy to see in your newer videos how things are going so well for you, let's make sure it stays that way. All the love and wishing you only the most happiness in the world. xx

[@freyamei3835]

I never thought that you are a person that experienced something like that. You are so inspiring and such a strong, independent woman with a huge creative mind. And that shows me, that even when you experience something like that, you can go on and be such a wonderful, strong, kind and happy person like you are. Its normal that you are not over it yet, but you show all your followers that you can live and go on and be happy. And time is healing, really. I can tell from my own experience. And you show us, that it is not the end. Sissel you are an inspiration for all of us.

[@freyamei3835]

This person is just horrible and it is unbelievable that there are people like this. I wish you the best and everything good in the world.

[@andreashelton]

Seeing you in this video and seeing you now. You’ve grown so much. It’s amazing. Congratulations 🎉

[@amorfati3559]

This is so heartbreaking but thank you so much for sharing. Sadly, I am sure there are a lot of other girls who went through a similar experience and don’t know how they will ever start to recover. Seeing you talk about it openly and talk about how you grew from it is really admirable. 💕

[@nellekehendriksen5603]

Thank you so much for sharing your story and being vulnerable with us! You've become such a strong and beautiful human!! I hope you have an incredible 2021 ✨🤍 we'll be here supporting you always

[@shadhaebadhy7913]

I've been waiting for this!!! Love this already ❤️. It feels like we are getting more close and I love that. Setting up a life in a new country alone as a woman is not a simple thing. I am so proud of our sissy🔥😭❤️

[@sisselab]

Thanks love 🙏🏻💚

[@dalilak1871]

im glad i can see you smiling now, you're so strong

[@abby4115]

I've been watching your videos for awhile and I rarely comment. However I have to say this: You have a beautiful soul Sissel. Thank you for the content you put out, thank you for being vulnerable with us, thank you for showing us that making your dreams come true and achieving your goals is possible. I can't wait to see your journey in Korea and all the beautiful things you will accomplish. It is easier said than done but leave the hardships behind to make room for your own happiness. Don't let a temporary person make a permanent impact. I wish you all the happiness in the world and to always be proud of yourself because I am proud of you ❣

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much love, you made me smile 💚

[@celinevanlier2964]

I’m really glad that you made this video and shared all this information. Nowadays I see so many video’s of people moving to Korea and making it seem like it’s the easiest thing in world while in reality it’s not. It always made me really sad because I always felt like I was the only one who couldn’t move to Korea. While in reality it’s just not that easy. Thank you and loveyou 💜

[@LupitaGVera]

You are an incredibly strong person. No one should have to go thru an experience like that. You are a fighter.

[@YunexyChan]

Omg I'm so shocked, I feel so sorry for you to have experienced this situation with this guy you thought you can trust. I wish his sausage stay like pudding 4ever! I wish you all the best Sissel, sending you good vibes from Germany. PS. Love your facial oil and already ordered the second bottle. Stay healthy and strong!

[@sisselab]

You made me laugh hahaha, thank you for that love 💚

[@melaie6723]

I‘m learning chinese rn and honestly I feel the same. Chinese is so fun! Never would’ve thought that

[@michellenickerson1632]

You are the strongest most inspiring woman I have ever come across, and it has been a BLESSING to have watched you grow on your journey. You are doing so amazing !

[@argie6272]

To be able to talk about such a terrible thing WHILE still recovering from whatever illness just you had... Girl you are amazingly strong and I truly admire that

[@vittoria4913]

Thank you for this video, both for the very informative part and for showing such a vulnerable and sensitive part of yourself. You’re a very precious human being! I wish you the best and the most success in this life. I’ve been interested in moving to Korea for a while now and trying to figure out how that could ever be possible without becoming an English teacher... ahhh it’s so hard but thank you for talking about your journey and shedding light on “prisoner” contracts!!! Had no idea this could be a thing for entertainers too

[@KristaWasHere86]

Stay strong Sissel 🤍 you deserve to be truly happy and I am happy that you found your happiness right now. Your story is an eye opener for all of us. Thank you.

[@Lifeguardyeah]

I’m so sorry for your trauma. You are strong because you managed to get up every day and continue to build your life. That experience will never disappear but I hope it will reduce in significance over time and that you find the peace, safety and security that you deserve. Happy new year!

[@sarahharmonie]

I do love your videos a lot, thank you for taking the time to talk about all the real stuff, I think it's really important, for you and for the people that watch you as well ! Great video ! I am really looking forward to my future travels (including korea) :) hope you have a nice day x

[@arianeac3080]

Thank you for sharing your story, it takes a lot of courage. It's weird how you confessing made me feel like a close friend, even if you don't know me. I find your vulnerability very touching and your insight inspiring. Always love how true your videos are.

[@bettyzaragosa555]

I could listen to you talking for hours Sissel, you're so endearing and vulnerably honest which is something rare these days. I wouldn't have imagined that you went through this, and I'm so sorry it happened to you. I don't know you personally but I can tell that you are a pretty soul, and after hearing your story I am even more in awe at how beautifully you grew out of it. Don't lose that sparkle that you have Sissel, never. Lots of love from a french subscriber ❤️

[@sisselab]

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[@pharux9465]

I am so proud of you for opening up and talking about something so traumatic. You are strong and your actions do make an impact ♡. Big love, support, and hugs to you. May all of the healing and peace you need come your way.

[@twentyone2187]

" Honeyyy... it costs a lot of moneyyy " the rhyming 🤣🤣

[@Zzz-cm5kw]

I'm so sorry to hear about what happened to you - and so sadly unsurprised. Some people really take advantage of young people isolated in a foreign country where they barely speak the language. I admire how strong you are to talk about this, and how strong you've been despite everything. I wish you nothing but happiness for the years to come!

[@Sophia-AS]

I am very sorry for your experience. You don’t „have to“ forgive to go forward. If it helps of course do, but as survivors we are not bliged to forgive. I think all the things you did to move forward you did perfectly. I don’t know how I stumbled over your channel, but I enjoy your sincerety and authenticity very much, beautiful strong woman!

[@maddie-sophie]

Came across your video today. Although it's 8 month old now, thank you for this unandorned storytelling!! Coming in the raw, I really appreciate it❤️

[@itsmelly_121]

Sissel you are so brave for sharing your story with us... I really coudn't help but cry during your video.. just because I realized how similar your situation is to mine...and how I've been exactly though the same things... Sometimes I really wish that I could just be able to have a talk with you as a friend or bump into you by coincidence because your stories always inspire me and make me feel better...as someone who has gone through the same experiences. Currently living/studying in Seoul...and having difficulties with the life but not giving up. Your stories makes me realize how precious my time in Korea is...and pushes me to make the most of it. I sincerely hope that you can be truly happy and most importantly healthy in the new 2021 year! Support and respect XX

[@nadinemjones-ruffin821]

I am glad that you shared your story. In time you will recover. He will have to deal with his ugly ways in time. So keep your head up and keep on your spiritual journey of healing.

[@shohineedeb9089]

I can't even begin to imagine how hard it was for you to share this traumatic experience. Not just share it but also acknowledge how it has been affecting your life. Brave people like you make the world better. Thank you!

[@ellansweet]

Gosh...I'm a Swedish girl and will turn 18 this year. I'm planning on moving to Korea in 3/4 years or so. I've already been following you for 2,5 years I think and you are a huge inspo especially when our countries are neighbors and your whole spirit and personality really calm me down. I'm truly sorry for what happened to you, I've heard that it's really hard to report to the police about such things in SK. You are so strong and brave, thank you again for inspiring me

[@ALostSeoul]

You are so brave to talk about this on youtube. I am really proud of you Sissel 💕 I’ve been following you for a while and you seem to have changed and become much more mature and open since coming to Korea. Thanks for sharing so much of your life and I hope you know we’ll always be here for you no matter what 🤗✨

[@thema6956]

I’ve been wanting this kind of video from you for a long time! Thanks for sharing, even the things that are difficult even though you don’t need too. Many will find comfort in not being alone and seeing your progress, i’m sure. Hope you have a wonderful start of the new year Sissel💛

[@mrsmitchell27]

Wow, You have been through thick and thin. You managed to get past your downers in life. You are a great woman and never forget it!!!!

[@KatieCung]

You’re so strong for all you’ve been through ❤️ i’m wishing you the happiest of 2021, only good things will come and keep coming! ❤️❤️

[@antigonip9432]

I am so proud of you Sissel! Been a fan of yours for over a year now and I am constantly inspired by you in so many ways! I am so glad that you can finally feel relaxed and happy in Korea, surrounded by lovely people.. I am so sorry for what happened to you, but please remember that he must and he can be held responsible for the atrocious things he did.. We will all be here to support you!

[@kkobulatte]

I feel thankful you're in a position now that allows you to speak about it. A lot of people still have this idea about Korea being a safe haven or something and still forgets these things happen. Hearing you talking about it and how you're healing or you've healed, I feel thankful and really grateful you wanted to talk about it with us

[@kcufuoy5062]

How do you know if the piece of crap guy was Korean? It could have been another foreigner.

[@kkobulatte]

@@kcufuoy5062 I haven't talked about the guys' nationality tho....

[@christianally]

I'm so sorry that happened to you Sissel ! I unfortunately had the same terrible story more or less the same as yours when I moved to Paris. I blamed myself for a while, thinking that maybe asking this friend for help, wanted to hang out and drink together were somehow like sending signals. I'm almost over it now and just want to thank you for the sincere sharing, these stories need to be heard. May we all be stronger in and happier in 2021!

[@emmaunderbluesky7511]

Asking for help and even sharing a drink is never a signal. It wasn’t your fault. Hope you’re at a better place.

[@lolagr]

I admire your honesty and that even after something so horrible you didn't gave up your dreams. You are an inspiration ❤

[@sepideh7976]

I'm so sorry that happened to you, sending you all my love and hugs! I'm currently binge-watching all your videos and you seem like such a strong, sweet and beautiful person, I really admire the life that you are living and wish you all the best for 2021 💚💚

[@shreyaasingh27]

Hey you beautiful strong boss women... I'm so sorry that this happened to you.. There are always people like this who'll try to use you... Drag you down... But the only person who can save you is you yourself... I admire and respect you a lot sissel... I definitely wish to meet you someday... Lots of love darling. 💗

[@charlottebourguignon9290]

Sissel... hun I have no words. What you’ve gone through... I can’t even think about it without wanting to cry. No girl should have to go through that and I’m sad that’s the world we live in. You are /so/ brave for speaking up though and I hope it can help you with the healing process too! It’s not much but I’m sending you big virtual hugs! Please take care of yourself and keep talking. It helps. Love you lots! ♡

[@emmahawking922]

Sissel .. I'm so proud of you , I always ask myself , what I want ? do I really want to get married ? do I want to create something , do I need to be like others ? and when I see you I just realize how many opportunities I have , how much time is here to be me , to be confident , to move on and grow without borders . You are such an inspiration my sweetheart LOVE U SO MUCH .. keep shinning

[@isabelleam4993]

They wanted to take your passport!? That's what pimps or human traffickers do to keep their victims under control. Really questionable methods of doing business. No doubt that some idols are bound by such slave contracts. Really upsetting. :/ Edit: I should have waited with commenting until after watching the whole of your video. Sissel, I don't really know what's the right thing to say, but what I want you to know is that you are so strong and I admire you for that. Du bist wirklich unglaublich toll. Viele liebe Grüße aus Deutschland.

[@isa020]

i've never commented on any other video before, despite following you for a little over one year, but i just wanted to thank you for sharing your full story with us and being so open about it. your channel helped me a lot especially the past year, with everything that happened and is still happening your videos are something i am always looking forward to and your channel really became a sort of a safe and calming place for me and many other people in the community. i wish you all the best this year and always. despite the rough start im really happy for everything you have now and for the fact that you're now surrounded with people that love and care about you deeply. you're such a beautiful and kind person and i'm sending you the warmest hug. i hope everything will stay the same as now and that this next year will treat you kindly. you have a lot of people here ready to help and comfort you wherever you need it just how you do for us everyday. thank you for all the work you put into your channel, your such an inspiration. happy new year sissel 💖

[@sisselab]

Thank you for the warmth I feel in this message 💚

[@melissa_dwr]

im so early , this is about to take me on a rollercoaster of emotions haha. love you Sissel🤍 edit:you are so strong, i’m so sorry you had to go through something so so terrible.🥺

[@sisselab]

Awwwwww hahaah 💚

[@laclaclaurent.3824]

3/365 of 2021.Happy to see you with other video.😍

[@maithenavarro4029]

i’m so proud of you for opening up and being as strong as you are, and also am so very sorry! i love your soul and i hope you live happily. thank you for making my days better🤍

[@ilhamababakr5424]

I just want to hug you, thank you for trusting us and sharing this with us and know that we will always support and love you

[@cassstephens9910]

So, so very sorry that person ruined your trust. You are a wonderful person with a charming personality. It helps me also to let go of old harm by seeing your choice to forgive on your own choice in order to be free to live the you want and deserve. You have every right to make a truthful video that reflects your personal experiences. It sounds you've made the choice to gain knowledge and strength from this episode. I'm impressed by your choices and will also try to incorporate forgiveness to live my own life fully, so TY for that. All the best to you each day!

[@milenaberne57]

Hi there, I just wanted to embrace you with all my thankfulness for being honest and open about your experience in Korea. I can connect with a lot of what you lived through and felt on many levels. I actually felt a little bit like looking at myself in the mirror about 12 years ago, after my two years in Hanoi and being brought back from Oman in vegetable state after a car accident. So there is love for Asia. There is trauma. And then you start all over again when you have a family, questioning yourself, if you want and can go back to that adventurer/'what visa brings the next day' spirit when you have a child traveling with you. Korea is ambivalent and interesting in many ways. It reflects my two pasts. It has all what I find important, yet there is this pile of hesitation. Thanks to you, I see some things clearer and what you explained grounded my expectations. Thank you for sharing and all the super best for 2021 !!!

[@Yasmin-dq7yu]

Thank you Sissel for opening up and telling us about your journey to Korea. It’s very interesting to learn about the steps you took. Also, thank you for your openness. It’s never easy to talk about certain experiences but if you do, there’s definitely a person out here that will learn from it. You’re so strong for standing above that. You’re amazing and I’m glad to see you so happy in the recent vlogs. All the best and love from Germany :)

[@DeliaX]

You thanked us for listening to you but thank YOU for opening up when you didn't have to. You're such a strong and inspiring woman Sissel. Keep growing - let's get it!!!!

[@sisselab]

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[@hideelili5109]

Oh Sissel, so heartbroken to hear that that happened to you. I am happier to know that you moved past it and didn’t let it define you and you have become this amazing woman and entrepreneur. Wishing you the best in 2021, lots of success and most importantly hope you stay healthy! Love you💜💜💜

[@estkng03]

I am so sorry to hear what happened to you but I admire you to actually be a powerful and clear minded woman today. You inspire me everyday to become a motivated young adult💚 Thank you for sharing everything it really helped me empowering my project of living France and moving to south Korea, I hope I will made it Have a beautiful day Sissel 💚

[@sisselab]

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[@piareadz]

I think this video made me really love you and your channel more. You were so open and vulnerable and I'm sure that was so hard for you. My respect for you has grown so much. I am so sorry you had to go through all that pain. Just know, you are such an inspiration for those who search for courage and growth. Lots of love to you!💜🌻

[@haneefah2362]

I’m watching this late actually but if I ever get to see you sissel, I’m giving you the biggest hug ever!❤️

[@lemoneyes1214]

i am so proud of you and for the strength and power you have obtained all these years, i may have found you the last year or so but this video clicked something in me especially when you talked about your experience and i just wanna say thank you for sharing it bc i know that many many people have experienced such things. im so happy you shared and i want you to know that even if you dont know us we kinda know you and we will be on your side no matter what. keep doing the amazing job you do and know that no matter what we are here for you for hardship and joy

[@pamelahowe9138]

You have been so strong, I'm so glad you moved past it although you won't forget it, you are a beautiful girl and have alot to look ahead to

[@jennyilagan3718]

im so sorry to hear about the horrible thing that happened to you. but im also glad that you were able to rise up from that dark place. continue inspiring people like me with your work sissel! really love watching your videos 💖

[@NarikoElika]

Sissel, I'm so incredibly sorry for what happened to you. I think you are so incredibly strong and brave. And you're right those things don't define you. You are not a victim, you are a survivor. You fought the darkness and emerged in the light. You are now living your life, and doing such amazing things. And you will just continue in your success. Wishing you all the happiness, love and peace possible. Love you lots!

[@nikhatkhan1586]

You are the best.....You deserve this success ....And we love you and will always love you. ♥️♥️ Happy 2021

[@bibielle2160]

I’ve been through the same thing, like u thought u knew ur long time friends till they did something totally uncalled for. This guy friend of mine when he knew that I was planning to visit the city where they are, suddenly suggested for me to stay at his place and suggested doing sexual stuff. Yeah, I felt betrayed cause I have never done anything that will amount to him having those thoughts and I totally deleted our whole conversations cause I was in disbelief. From that incident I learned that sometimes people aren’t what they seem to be. Cheers to u Sissel for moving on from that unfortunate past and I hope that u’ll be blessed with happiness and good health for many years to come.

[@itshoenestlyme2829]

Thank you for being so transparent with us about the whole timeline of how everything went down, you already know not everyone opens up like that! But happy new year 🥳 much love and positivity!!!💓💓

[@michellewood1419]

First off: Hugs from Oregon, USA. I've always believed that everything we experience {good & bad} shapes who we are. Your difficult experience has only made you stronger. Sure, no one should have to go through that, but you came out the other side. You are an amazing and strong woman. I look forward to seeing what's coming next for you.

[@HeatherAnnCorrey]

Physiologists are super helpful for helping you to unpack that horrible experience. I've been in therapy for a year now and it has helped me so much. Sending positive & healing vibes to you 💖

[@jennyward]

So sorry to hear you went through something so traumatic! You are so strong to move past it. Keep believing in yourself because you are a strong, courageous, beautiful person and will continue to do amazing things!

[@flouce]

You’re so brave to be keeping going despite it and to be talking about it so that other people might (tragically) relate and find comfort / support through this... You’re only one year older than I am and yet such an inspiring model ❤️ I really wish you all the best for 2021, and go girl for that 3-year visa 💪🏽

[@Naithesther7085]

Thank you for sharing your story. You're so strong and brave. Your story will help others We Love you

[@angelikasamorodnova9178]

I pray you heal from things no one ever apologized for. You have all my respect Sissel..You’re such a strong woman. We’re proud of you..So so so proud of you our dear Sister. 💛

[@glamberkitten]

I love this video - the sincere way you speak about your true self and your thoughts about what happened. And u r right - you don’t have to forget, but if you can forgive you will find peace and you take control of your own life and happiness. Good for you, Sissel! 👏🏼

[@whatsername104]

hi sissel it's so hard to open up about this and you are so strong to do so! it's ok to feel down and have mental obstacles still related to it, and you can only do what you can. taking things as they go is all you can do and it is ok! hope you are well and continue to grow and find ways to heal!

[@XmissXichigoX]

I think you’re really strong to stay in Korea after your horrible experience. Love how open you are. This is going to help a lot of other girls forward!❤️