Sister Drops Her Kids Off Due to an "Emergency" But I Find Out On Social Media...

Sister Drops Her Kids Off Due to an "Emergency" But I Find Out On Social Media It's For A "Childfree" Wedding... And Her Boyfriend Doesn't Even Know She's A Mom!
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[@thunderpants3500]

It's so sad that people don't know how to identify what abuse is.

[@SYLVESTER-6782]

OP couldn't even identify abuse and "manipulation" in adulthood. I feel like she finally stood up for herself when her Bf told her to.

[@henrywade-re1of]

Bro I wouldn't want a dumb woman like this as my wife lol

[@LA-ly1nt]

​@@henrywade-re1of don't worry. No woman, dumb nor smart, would want you as a partner as well. If, by some miracle, a woman does, then she's suicidal.

[@snowfairy8350]

@@henrywade-re1ofShe’s not dumb, just conditioned and traumatized. Some people were raised to care more about other people’s feelings than their own comfort, and it’s hard to get over it. OP frustrated me too, but I understand her situation.

[@JDR71326]

​@@henrywade-re1of she aint dumb shes a engineer

[@wheninrome198]

The weird thing about abuse is that while the victim is suffering, if the abuse is all they know they're sometimes more likely to stay as it's all the really know. And even when they start experiencing healthy relationships in others, the abuser has this hold on them as they know how to make the victim vulnerable. I think that's why OP let her sister walk all over her for so long even after constant realizations, despite how infuriating it is.

[@theomaid]

Don't pity the OP. She sounds like a professional victim. I've seen this type of person before, all they want to do is indulge in self-pity + pity from others A professional victim with 0 self-respect. Basically trash

[@mnomadvfx]

That only works if they are perpetually cut off from alternatives. Except she has a job, she has a boyfriend. I don't buy that either or both of these places would not have offered her advice, if not outright demands that she cut herself off from these abusive people. I can't imagine any sane boyfriend wanting to stay attached to a woman who is willingly remaining a doormat to them and getting in the way of their lives together - he'd either just leave, or demand that she grow a spine and cut them off Also, it's not like there are not paid alternatives to foisting children on your relatives. The OP's sister and her sisters husband work - so they have money to afford childcare. If not there is also the mother - who apparently will bend over backwards to support her first daughter.... except for childcare, while most grandparents fall over themselves to spent time with them.

[@zeliapepper2040]

“DO IT FOR DAN!!” Strikes once more

[@DarkEinherjar]

DO IT FOR DAN-- I MEAN, MIRANDA!

[@dmr4450]

😂

[@edgarjimenez6209]

I remember that story 😂. At least Dan is making an effort to be a better person with his brother after divorcing "That B!tch"

[@emanx222]

Omg yes!!!!!!

[@emanx222]

​@edgarjimenez6209 THAT BITCH, Damn i think that was the story that introduced me to this channel! LOVED the OP, cant say the same for this OP

[@VynDimentional]

I like how I have never seen that story yet I have a pretty good Idea on what it is Dan has become legend

[@Myathaarth]

This story can be summarized in two words-- Doormat and ragebait.

[@abd-animation-22]

Perfect summary

[@angela4000]

Absolutely!!! This woman should have walked not ran away from her family as soon as she left home.

[@morganablackwater2017]

​@@angela4000 as much as I agree she should walk out. Im old enough to know its easy to write it not so easy to do it. She grew up in abusive environment that was draining enough to train her to be invisible but not abusive enough to leave physical scars. Its hard to realise whats going on when it happens to you.

[@exalpergames90]

Those are 3 words

[@zelbayanym]

​@@exalpergames90 that's 2 words

[@smorphous8928]

Kind of funny in a way, the parents basically enable their daughter to be a partying, neglectful parent, with no job and I doubt the father is willing to pay child support as their not his kids, while her kids are obnoxious brats. It’s the parents fault for not treating both children equally and enabling their daughter to walk all over Op.

[@theomaid]

Only you can stop someone from walking over you

[@danacarter9147]

Well, OP's parents will get a sad wake-up call, when their grandkids are taken away from their golden child daughter by social services, and being raised by randos.

[@onlittlecatfeet]

I feel suspicious when op's parents apologize and acknowledge their fault, and I'm glad I was wrong

[@wickedashley]

But also still continue to facilitate the manipulative behaviors from the sister. Like just save the sorry and admit you don’t care lol

[@wickedashley]

I usually defend parents who choose not to post their children. I don’t because of my work and I don’t feel safe doing so. I am single but I do have a child. I do not hide him, but his likeness does not need to be on the internet. HOWEVER, this woman obviously is trying to portray herself as a single, child-free bachelorette and that’s wrong.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Anyone else just soo insanely annoyed with Op. Like while listening i just was constantly yelling “GROW A SPINE AND SAY NO” Frustrating AF. REALLY hope this is fake.

[@darrellb9519]

Yeah I have no remorse for doormats. OP is an AH. Stand-up for yourself instead of whining to internet strangers.

[@raven2785]

Half of all of these AITA stories are just people who are too afraid of saying no

[@vendetta.02]

​@@darrellb9519imagine victim blaming

[@Shadow-ml1hr]

I hope that she was told that while in therapy

[@darrellb9519]

@@vendetta.02Sounds like another doormat making excuses for a fellow doormat. I don't disagree that the OP was a victim at multiple times in their life. I do disagree with constantly coming back for more abuse and then crying victim. Take some responsibility for your own life.

[@hinatakenpachi6564]

Op just rolls over and takes it. Even knew the sister was a cheater and let her marry that guy. Should have done the right thing and warned him. Cheaters don't deserve a good person. And her just letting the sisters kids kick and pull at the dog? Hell NO. They'd be gone from my house instantly.

[@tothewonder6248]

OP is strangely just as annoying as her sister.

[@simonapalileikaite3734]

my exact thoughts!!!!

[@noneedtoknow07]

Yeah. She said she "finally realized..." around three times in this story at some point she was the one letting this happen.

[@dmr4450]

Agreed

[@dumbidea1007]

I mean that's the definition of why victim blaming term is a trash term. Many Time they are as much to blame as the perpetrators. I mean sometimes I try to be more tolerant when I get some people's got mentally broken as a kid but sometimes I just can't empathize

[@issiahmiles2509]

DYofesei😮😮idgel😮🎉

[@SYLVESTER-6782]

I'm glad OP finally stood up for herself. It is annoying how she kept getting walked all over even when she was an adult. She should continue to go low contact with her parents and tell Dave about her sister since she is a bad parent.

[@AgNtPARADOX]

Just from the first few min of listening I knew her sister was to much spoiled

[@f687sNFM]

and op insufferable

[@lacusclyne9601]

Can't stand any of these people.

[@f687sNFM]

Especially op

[@NagoBust]

​@@f687sNFMfr she's such a doormat at some point you gotta help yourself

[@sofyuchiha9]

@@NagoBust well that and she doesn't like children. that's a red flag. Also owning a dog does not make you a parent and I'm a big dog person..

[@VynDimentional]

OP is literally the first person I've seen on these videos that always seem to pick good partners

[@firehot427]

“Dating other guys on the down low” yeah ESH

[@yanuarpdt]

This is truly a rage bait. Not because her sister, but because of OP. I can't stand her sister, but i can't stand her more.

[@mchickengaming]

amen walking door matt

[@jackchop1576]

If I had a sister like that, I would never even go to her wedding let alone be a maid of honor.

[@justroonhere]

Not rage bait, it's AI generated

[@f687sNFM]

​@@justroonhereits just cliches

[@justroonhere]

​@@f687sNFMcan you find the OP? I can't. I've searched everywhere. This is fake/AI generated.

[@Panwere36]

The first story is about why a toxic female never should be indulged. "Miranda" talking over her mother and her bridezilla behavior was beyond over the top and I totally agree with how she let others see her as the toxic witch she is. The parents playing a part was/is just pathetic. Also, the fact is that there are far too many "Miranda" 's out there. Far too many single moms act just that way. Any woman who takes that much effort to "conceal having kids" never should have gotten custody. Toxic mothers are far worse than anyone wants to admit.

[@ninjastorm540]

I feel for OP but man did she allow herself to be a doormat for years. The whole back story i felt like screaming "stand up for yourself already!". It sounds OP even let her sister control her even after moving out which was crazy because she had no power to control her. Man i really hope OP's therapy helps her fight for herself more.

[@lep33]

Sorry for what you went through OP, but GROW A SPINE 🤯😑

[@SoldierOfGodwyn]

Major doormat energy

[@1Scimetar]

Oddly enough, if OP were to call CPS on her sister, she'd be doing her duty to that family by stepping up as those kids' aunt. Also, she seems to be the only consistently not toxic family member they have, and good or not, but it sounds like all of her sister's misdeeds have primed OP to be a pretty good mom once she does start having kids of her own, assuming she's willing to entertain the possibility.

[@sirmatsdubois2509]

okay I think the op really struck a gold mine here. because I was afraid her mother was going to be this narcissistic woman who wouldn't change her views even when in public. but I am pleasantly surprised that the mother and the father are willing to change. Because the disharmony they were afraid of is happening because of their favoritism. I understand that you were afraid you won't get the opportunity to have that second child but that's no excuse to ignore the other child you have. And especially letting her get away with a lot of things. I'm at least glad that the mother and father are willing to change and actually kicked their favorite child out so she would get her act together. and I think that will be the best for moranda. at least op was able to flush the toxicity out of her parents and make them see what Monsters they've become. Also I personally hope the boyfriend finds out that op’s sister has kids without any of the family having to do anything! That would be the ultimate revenge!

[@Drachir767]

I want to hear Daves story, how he got himself entangled with such a person and then finding out that this disgusting human cheated multiple times...

[@nicknitro86]

It's always been fascinating that women will hide the fact that they have kids from guys like it's not going to backfire.

[@sliqyplayz8072]

It just feels so goofy.Like do they really think that they are just going to mask up the fact that they have children for years and ig once they get married they can trap them?

[@yque4733]

Anyone else roll their eyes as the OP continued their story?

[@brianarnold8666]

It pisses me off how spineless op is

[@f687sNFM]

They have to make the narrator spineless for engagement

[@LadyWolvie82]

Imagine the difficulty that some people have when they are doing their best to say no and the actual issue are the abusers and enablers.

[@Art_museum28]

Well, when you’ve been raised to essentially not have a spine, it’s gonna take you awhile to actually grow on

[@JustinAdamson270]

​@@LadyWolvie82no you can't blame them because you don't have a backbone

[@f687sNFM]

Man everyone is ripping off the "do it for dan" cliches. So many stories just the cliche

[@ninjastorm540]

"She accused me of being stuck up and ungrateful for all the times she claimed I owed her for babysitting her children." How the hell does anyone have that much mental gymnastics to say this to someone?! That they owe them for babysitting their kids??? WTF?! That alone shows how insane her sister is. OPs vile sister was cleary addicted to controlling her and using her as a servant. Any action OP thought was her reaching out to be close was actually a way to make her subservient to her again in the excuse of helping family. Also sounds like OP's moms favoritism was the main cause of her sister becoming a nightmare. The dad seems like he had no backbone to stop her too and allowed everything.

[@theomaid]

+ the OP is garbage The whole family sucks 😕

[@kaidrazarc8000]

Short version "Door mat is walked over"

[@MissDeadlykitty]

Oh man this is my brothers wife. She acted like this towards my parents and I.

[@civivva4501]

'...and her boyfriend didn't know she had a child...'

[@mongviemong]

Mom : you shouldn’t bring your aunt into this Op: two can play same game mom 😊

[@user-iw3cw4tt3o]

Tell me u are a doormat without telling me you are a doormat😂

[@realogamusic]

ultimate pushover

[@Russianspyyyy]

Haha fax

[@sugisdoomguy54]

If she’s a adult she could’ve just denied the baby sitting and then if Miranda didn’t pick the kid up Miranda would be charged with child abandonment

[@Damychad]

She had sooo many occasions to destroy her toxic sister...so many...

[@funtimerhikes2330]

8:48 OP your sister is unhinged and is insane the sister doesn’t like the way you babysit then hire a babysitter also I think it’s concerning like hello didn’t your sister and mother thought of the fact that the kids are still living with them

[@reillycurran8508]

I think Miranda was blowing a gasket at her wedding because she knows how bad the way she treats OP looks to outsiders and she was fuming at that bad look being a blemish on her "perfection", causing her to lash out even more because she sees it as OPs fault she looks bad for how poorly she treats OP

[@jasongarza8352]

Why are most of these stories coming with vibes of "do this for Dan" lmfao

[@cameron765]

I can't finish the story 6m in and the op is getting on my nerves grow a backbone Jesus

[@slayerwytch2032]

I would’ve told Miranda and my parents to figure it out. And leave me out of it! And then I would tell the parents if they’re so concerned about the kids, then they can watch the kids! And coddle their golden child… and op double down, screw keeping the peace

[@Pence128]

OP isn't a doormat; she's toilet paper.

[@sameeramadushan9253]

Walking doormat 😅

[@theomaid]

*crawling She can earn even more pity by crawling on the ground instead of walking 😆 🤣

[@coriweaver4343]

I would have sympathy for a single mom if they acted like one. Ops sister isn’t a mother. She’s hiding her kids and is openly drinking in front of them. Ops mom and sister needs intense therapy. Not use op for their dirty work.

[@c.otoodripzzy947]

Such a damn doormat. Total pushover

[@eowyneadig7879]

If I had one of these work from home jobs and had some idiot trying to push their kids on me, I would do most of my work at Starbucks or similar.

[@SungJinWu_]

Its mirindas fault behindthe reason shes single

[@targetcissp3434]

Most of the stories started where OP got no spine... Then suddenly they find they have brass balla in their closet....

[@ArtByCass]

I am just starting the video, I was born prematurely, and yet im not being favored left and right. These parents need to get their head straight and raise their dang child correctly.

[@theomaid]

Its perfectly natural for parents to shift more of their care and affection to the newborn. This is something you learn as you grow older. Sadly, the OP just used this as victim fuel

[@anonymousnekokamikannakamui]

@@theomaid its one thing to give more care to the younger kid its another to let them get away with being a spoiled brat who as an adult has no morals responsibilty or accounabliity if i did half the stuff this girl did to her older sister to my younger siblings as someone raised by a single moms who had a wooden spachula instead of a belt let me tell you the worst we ever did as kids was break stuff and fight but never did we cut clothes at worst a door or wall hole in dry wall stufff that can be replace or fixed with a google search and a youtube video some stuff sisters do to each other is so toxic if me or my brother tried doing that it would end in a fist fight boy am i glad i only have 1 half sister and 3 step sisters all younger and live with diffrent mothers glad i didnt have to deal with toxic family like the one in ops story deff would of ended in a fist fight equal rights equal fights as i like to say anit no one above an ass woppin

[@ladyweasellou3367]

I don't get how teens and young women have b***hy siblings, cousins, etc like this and actually listen to them spew crap about their boyfriends and such they don't even know. I had a cousin like this I was raised with and knew she was only going to cause pain so shrugged her off.

[@lelo8744]

OP is the AH: who doesn't like teddy bears?

[@LadyWolvie82]

Not everyone, OP. Have you heard the saying 'different strokes for different folks', because some will like that, but not everyone else will. Regardless of the age.

[@lelo8744]

​@@LadyWolvie82 it applies for sense of humour too, apparently

[@austinflores2139]

‼️DOORMAT ALERT‼️ OOP is a straight up doormat and honestly I can’t even begin to feel sympathetic towards them.

[@GMWILD87]

Sympathy for childhood OP but not for adult OP OP knew how her family is why stay in contact and if someone says family yeah fuck that.

[@munchie3909]

Oh my gawd, people need to know what abuse can do to people. I know it’s annoying that unlike 99% of the other stories, OP isn’t as willing to go nuclear on her sister/parents, but jeez leave OP alone. They’re finally starting to reject all their family’s BS and y’all’s only response to OP’s (probably fake) story is to call them a spineless doormat and tell them that everything bad their sister did to them is OP’s fault.

[@georgewashington4866]

Parents like "Miranda" rarely ever grow up. Safest bet for OP is to move to another state so that her sister won't have an opportunity to drop the kids off at OP's house

[@yoriichitsugikuni3743]

I wouldn’t of even bothered with it I would of told her to piss off and deal with it yourself

[@beeniecat9411]

Bruh this feels like my younger sister for me and my baby sister.

[@adude1486]

What a doormat Op is.

[@penguinpingu3807]

The only thing I applaud for Maranda by not showing her children in public (though obviously for selfish reason). Everything else about her sounds so garbage. Edit: I forgot to add the mom, yeah she is a piece of work as well. Funniest shit is that she involved the aunt already and that's a point that she is trying to use as an excuse. The dad is the enabler to by not doing anything. Edit 2: What a u-turn from the op's parents. I hope they are actually genuine.

[@AnotherChristianchannel]

Honestly I would love to only get books as presents.

[@sst4rb0yy]

these comments make me lose faith, it isnt easy to say no to someone like her sister.

[@theomaid]

Then you create a monster. An entitled little girl who's never heard the word 'no' before.

[@theomaid]

You're arguing that we should do the wrong thing because it's easier

[@anubishound8179]

Please never let me be as pathetic and spineless as op

[@shifuugincii]

what a pushover god!

[@DezAmmySel]

If you want to preserve your faith in humanity, don't read the comments! SO much victim blaming. Just do yourself a favor and scroll back up.

[@theomaid]

You feed pity to professional victims?

[@munchie3909]

@@theomaidI would like to see what you would be like being raised in the same conditions as OP

[@munchie3909]

Sorry, already did… my faith was low, now it’s lower

[@DezAmmySel]

@@munchie3909 It's okay, me too 🙁

[@SillyBilly334]

God damn some of ya’ll are ignorant… it shows none of you got abused or had any toxic people around. " just say no " not everyone is like you, not everyone has the strength or confidence to say no. Not everyone automatically realizes that they are in an abusive relationship. Stop victim blaming.

[@Moniik4eva]

No spine 😢

[@Rinefi]

I couldn't finish this story, op made too many bad things happen and then complained about it, instead of just using the word "No" ;;

[@BioAbner]

I hope she leaves the kids with her parents so that they dont have to suffer her manipulations.

[@AlE-kc7yw]

Don't answer your fuckig phone. Don't answer your door. Realize you are an adult and don't have to give AF what your parents say.

[@shreyasshinganmakki8155]

I think the whole problem creater was the mom

[@justroonhere]

Yet another AI generated story...

[@user-watermelonislife]

Yo what’s up bro this is a good story bro 😎

[@tonycrayford3893]

You allowed yourself to be a doormat.

[@LadyWolvie82]

Sounds like you're victim blaming here.

[@tonycrayford3893]

@@LadyWolvie82 she could've stood up for herself long before the incident in the video and didn't. I'm glad that she eventually grew a spine.

[@TheRandomGuyOnline]

Set the playback speed for these videos to 2x, for those of yall like who feel these stories drag on too long because of the AI's slow speech

[@Nezumi_Yasu]

DO IT FOR DAN!!!!!!!!

[@brakis18]

These stories that talk about constant abuse but still have the OP bending over backwards for the abuser that has no actual power over them are absurd. It only got more annoying as it goes on and I have absolutely no sympathy for this fake ass OP.

[@Doer231]

What’s a MOH?

[@CounseledLizard]

Maid of Honor

[@sinbadwilliams7186]

Medal of Honor... it's an old game series that fell off...

[@thehiddensilentone1795]

DOORMAT

[@xxxquariangaming6579]

Why is you know your sister is such a issues wouldn't you move far far away from family!?

[@searytvid4691]

I am inspired by your story

[@grt8guy03]

my sister in law is just like Miranda and lazy

[@whattheelle360]

S1 just say no or fuck no.

[@LadyWolvie82]

She tried, both Miranda and the parents made it nearly impossible for her to do so.

[@AnastaciaBC]

This is the most annoying story I’ve listened to yet. Just dang

[@Cezar_]

Op enjoys being the doormat, some people just deserve stuff if they are that spineless

[@Thaddius0]

OP sitting here blaming her parents when she enables all of them. wtf is wrong with you

[@shortangel333]

The difference between OP and the Parents is that the parents hold all the power. If Op doesn't go along with them I wouldn't put it past the parents to send the entire family after Op to harass them into forgiving them.

[@theomaid]

​@shortangel333 No, you have a great amount of power over the way people treat you. For starters; Have a little bit of self-respect

[@insaniayt7824]

Hello everyone

[@siypim9432]

HEya

[@wandRng]

Hiyeeeee

[@mr.halfright]

Howdy

[@Roro99999]

I’m sorry but why was op such a pushover like wtf

[@kimwoodland9371]

It took you long enough to get some self respect!

[@schiggennugget]

OP is so pathetic

[@lucifermorningstar2505]

Op should grown a spine sooner

[@marianzisciumaspaniei]

too little too late

[@bennyfugazzi1054]

Jesus girl Grow a spine

[@user-wd4hg1gx3h]

this is bs

[@adrianamurillo6721]

What really makes me angry is that thr OP rants long about how badly her sister and parents treat het, but is her entire fault for having the backbone of a jellyfish. People treat you the way you allow them to treat you.

[@wulandariuland1743]

You never stand up for yourself, and listening this story makes me mad so skip

[@_juju_jojo_]

Oh no not another doormat🙄 I would really like to see variety with stories. Just wholesome ones, maybe those “Today I Fucked Up” stories, or those random question stories. Just getting boring seeing a doormat OP, shitty family members, and the ending being some Disney channel shit or what should’ve happened from the beginning

[@user-es2vf4qn3h]

Both kinda annoying tbh feel bad for the spoiled sister’s ex husband tho

[@Bucketus.Lord.of.Buckets]

"Here's a story that completely exceeds the post length of AITA subreddits. It also has even more unnecessary details than the worst AITA stories. It's real, trust me bro."

[@michellemurry2180]

Enough is enough. Where is op's backbine? People treat as you allow in certain situations.