Skillopedia - 04 effective ways to survive office politics - (Soft Skills & Personality Development)

Skillopedia - 04 effective ways to survive office politics - (Soft Skills & Personality Development)
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In this Skillopedia session Niharika will share a few tips with you on how to deal with office politics. If you are a working individual at some point or the other you may be a victim of office politics or may witness it at your workplace. In this session you will learn how to find your way out of such situations and maintain a positive mindset at work.
Examine yourself.
Yes you need to first understand if you are just over reacting or if your colleague or boss is actually creating issues for you at work. Perform a self-analysis to understand yourself and your reactions to situations and people. Make sure it is not just a bad temper that’s making you feel this way and only then decide if you actually need to bother about someone creating any issues for you at work.
Approach the person you are facing issues with.
Yes it is a good idea to walk up to the person and have a genuine discussion. The important thing to remember is that, this has to be a one on one discussion i.e. it has to be in private. Since you are working in a corporate world, it’s very important to not let your emotions get the better of you and create a scene in front of your coworkers. Do make sure that the person understands how much their actions have troubled you and resolve the situation in a professional manner.
Share your experience with your friends or a trusted colleague.
A situation where you are being targeted by someone at work is frustrating and hence it is necessary that you share your feelings with a trusted friend or a colleague. This will help you to feel less stressed and find a way to deal with the situation at hand. Do not let the problems that the person may try to create affect you negatively. Instead talk about it to a trustworthy person and be positive.
Ignore the person.
Yes at times no matter what you try the person who wants to target you may still find ways of creating issues. Hence it is best to avoid any situation like a project for example which that person is a part of. While doing this make sure that your work does not get affected negatively.
We hope that you find these tips helpful and that if you have to face any negative situation at work you can easily come out of it.

[@BlinkFU]

Please Dont mind. Approaching the person directly will make matter worse. Also do not share experience with anyone until unless they are facing the same issues otherwise they will take advantage of your weakness. The only good advice is ignorance is bliss, try to limit interaction with this person and be extremely proffesional. And yes in some cases start searching another job.

[@md.mushfiqurrahmanchowdhur1437]

agreed

[@kalyugon]

Agreed

[@quantummanagementguru7733]

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[@avreddy164]

Its true thank you

[@designengineermechanical7825]

👌 just hit the nail

[@heaton6971]

HOLY MOLY!!!! I was so anxious! finally new video! thanks Niharikaaa you're the very best! like no one ever was! I'll continue watching! kisses for you!

[@melvincontreras7830]

I have watched all your videos, thank you Niharika. you are my number one idol

[@debendrapanday]

I most like your expression. We can understand easily by your expression it's mind blowing Niharika keep it up.

[@nurulhudabd01]

Niharika, you are awesome, and your teaching style is awesome too.

[@lambusaab]

Yeah! Sometimes I think it is better not to fight. Even though deep down, you want to kill them. 😑

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[@anamika9126]

Abhilash S 😀 well said

[@NehaSharma-di6ty]

😂

[@shruthivarma9261]

Tysm it's a very good video that you shared and thanks for helping me to deal with the situations in the office with the person who Is troubling me a lot 😑

[@vaideshshankar9899]

well said mam......it helped me a lot as a fresher at nineteen.

[@premkumar-vd8fw]

Dear Niharika you are given Wonderful work and advise thanks Have a good time

[@Sunny-wc3rt]

Thank you for sharing this. 👍

[@rakeshg.j8695]

Thank you so much for your video. It will help alot...

[@librasjuan]

Thank you so much!

[@notebook37]

i love u niharika you teach me a lot

[@bloomingday1152]

Damn! This is so helpful! Thanks Niharika❤️ Have a great day 🌸☮️

[@skypvtltd.3508]

Most needed topic Thanks

[@Manisha-hl1jd]

Thanku niharika....u are awesome and Video is too good

[@luoyong498]

thanks you teacher !

[@narayan_tyagi]

Thank you..... it was useful

[@vkumar43]

Thank you sweetheart.. it was useful to me.

[@nipunthorat1985]

You are clear lady ever i have seen before

[@affyalik1631]

nice one....vry nicely explained👍

[@avreddy164]

Thanks a lot now am better feeling

[@rajstephen645]

thank you siste!!

[@therealbmacz]

Luv Ur Vedios!!

[@rakeshroshan1974]

niharika u r superb...

[@themost7494]

Heyy Niharika thank you..!!!!

[@rohitsharma9756]

good lesson and carry on niharika mam

[@Starrynigh88]

Very well done video ! Thanks.... it seems these kind of people are increasing in work place so won’t it be a good idea to become like them let the nice people adjust and do all the polite work ?? Offcourse I don’t encourage or want to be this but if we see bottom line they are the winners

[@crazyworldfacts6492]

Office politics should be banned and those who practice should be put behind bars

[@elcucuy5290]

you are very awesome sister... i

[@piyakapoor4053]

Ma'am really appreciate your video and efforts you put it I have a request can you please make a video on how to ignore misleading people and stay focused on our goals

[@ameeleo5535]

Pia

[@anshumanarora4984]

Great work!!

[@delasahahmed5185]

Thank you so much

[@geethac.v6828]

Thank u madam.very useful

[@mohankashyap3534]

very good Niharika mam

[@prashantchutke]

nice tips...thanls

[@nirajkumarsingh6510]

Thanks

[@earthnote7586]

Very good vedeo do more on office politics

[@panchalvijay]

Thanks niharika you solve my problem with these tip :-) now i didn't need to change my job :-)I just need to upgrade myself :-D

[@Mr_ST_720]

Thanks it's very important.. specially in india.... N u r very beautiful

[@amarchavan7941]

How to Ignore someone when you need to interact a lot for project work?

[@mr.filmworm4018]

Stay professional, never discuss personal probleme

[@ikhtiarhussain9319]

think you so great speaking my question is how i spend my holidays explain in gramtic rule

[@harrydwivedi4497]

this video helped me a lot......niharika mam thanks a lot and yes must say, you are looking so beautiful in this video 😍😍

[@harshbajaj]

Harry Dwivedi , oreee lover ...

[@monishchowdhury3281]

Your class A pervert

[@islamic.boyan.bangla]

niharika

[@dungnguyen-dl9hu]

just so in love with your voiceeeeeee so beautifulllll

[@mosplays]

Awesome

[@apvization]

Nice one..

[@lalitbansal957]

I like your video

[@vijaykannansai]

nice animation at the beginning

[@DigitalTrendzy2023]

i got chance to work with L2 and L3 companies but i can't stand upto probation period in some companies .reason they told was i am very slow but it is unfair is it politics or unfair means please let me know . But people who joined like freshers got chance and stayed their as permanent employee's

[@lazygirl.7059]

Oh, You are my teacher . you look like an angel from the sky .

[@thedarkknight11956]

Then stop being lazy, maybe you would never search your for an angel anymore 😂

[@manikandaprabhup6009]

Not sure about the content. But the way you told and your body language is good.

[@afreenu1656]

How to deal with mass or a group against me since I am a bit introvert person.

[@greatguy423]

Ak 47 and shoot them all

[@paveinailanah9903]

It is so much easier to live and speak the truth..why do people have to put so many faces in this world 😎iam so pissed

[@artofmakingfood6330]

Same here

[@yashwantdholke]

I need tips for school Gathering Anchoring

[@ankitshinde982]

hello niharika mem I am a beginner in learning English I face problem that I practice the vocabulary but I forget them I can't remember to talk people I face problem to learn new words pls help

[@lambusaab]

Hello Abhijeeth. I always keep a dictionary with me. Whenever I dont understand the meaning of a word, I refer the dictionary. With practise you can perfect English. All the best.

[@drsureshh5792]

abhijeet shinde -buy iPhone, iPhone has a hidden dictionary, if you don't understand any word, press that word, you will get deferent options, select define, you will get the meaning. Also, if u are a user of iPhone, you can download 'new Oxford American dictionary' for free!

[@sinchanar440]

Hi niharika, i have a question for you!

[@taswarhussain5971]

Nice

[@MSAndroid]

I like your smile

[@kishoresarwan5947]

Hi Niharika, you always come with the excellent lessons. How would you got so much experience? You are very knowledgeable. Keep going on. Take care!!

[@surabhigope234]

What should i do when i am not getting any task?but everyone gets assign task .they don't even ask for it.but i am not getting any opportunity to showcase my work.after a while everyone is blaming i can't do anything bla bla

[@kfitnessforlife]

words don't come naturally in my mind while speaking in English how to deal with it? I have to fill with fillers please advice

[@bhubanjitsahu8775]

Same here

[@ameeleo5535]

Your smile 😘😘😘

[@ilyaasali3698]

if i learning oxford grammar It is very important i have no idea

[@skinorms7711]

This is useless. She's not talking anything about office politics.

[@gorantladinesh]

Rightly said don't know Is she a psychologist or English teacher. Your suggestion are far way from real world

[@chaitalyagadhavi6895]

Tnx Bhai bacha liya

[@Vikramsdbg]

😊👌👌

[@user-zw9xm6fp9s]

❤

[@GoblinsAreAGirlsBestFriend]

My best friend literally went in and scooped up the promotion that was promised to me by flirting with the boss. I don't think I'm overreacting :-/ I realize I need better friends then, but... she's now my boss so I can't exactly cut her off clean.

[@vikashsingh-gw8xb]

Hi great

[@amarchavan7941]

How to identify who is trusted and untrusted person at workplace.

[@rima22jan]

Uff can't take it more...

[@muhammadyaqoobbrohi1275]

dear nahireka please teach us all those things in urdu that you have taught us in English I mean teach us english through urdu.

[@surajsaini6432]

your expressions are so nice..... and you are really so nice.....

[@samswaims6774]

nice sister

[@KaninoPH]

This is not office politics. This is just dealing hard people at work

[@MSAndroid]

U are so nice dear

[@patrick7549]

She supports office politics... because everything she says supports and does not directly address the sneaky tactics...she is basically saying go along with it...maybe you are overreacting

[@AnkitFe]

gudone

[@amigomadiq2899]

Use 1.25x speed to overcome

[@Washaista]

Working in corporate like living with crocodile 🐊

[@iandavidsson5674]

You know what's better, completely destroy the concept of office politics as we know it and start a new paradigm. We can start with a completely open salary workplace, like they do in some European companies, where every wage for every worker is public knowledge and employees's demands for complete pay-equality is policy. Instead of a hierarchical performance review from higher ups, the underlings review the higher ups and vice versa, and HR keeps taps treating them equally. Have an overseeing organization that dismantles all forms of nepotism, advancing purely due to socalled networking. Strong personality and looks should be complete non-variables in any inconsideration. Only the work and the ability should have merit. As such, a completely open grading system on performance that is openly disclosed and discussed, between employee, manager's grades are revealed to underlings, and vice versa and with each other. Any and all promotions are offered via standardized testing or scoring system. The only place for politics to even be plausible is the 30 min interview session. Backstabbing is implausible as only the scoring system matters, and promotion exams are only offered for employees with a standard length of time working at the company, say, 18 months, employees with less time simply are not allowed to partake in exams or interviews.

[@sugabear161]

Love this idea

[@jyotisharma5731]

If I don't have a single Friend at work

[@mingakinsgibayuxds7542]

She must work in a call center.

[@mrshaheer2999]

ignoring is not the option...

[@arijitsinha7125]

in this and age when jobs are hord to come by.. .. such things dont matter.. u hv to swallow your pride and persevere.... unfortunately...

[@satinderdhillon6507]

I like Niharika lesson always..one lesson I mean bad habits...how to describe or elaborate for those spiting in public place while walking talking with few friends even...or they use it frequently..talking face to face with someone meanwhile spiting constantly..oh my god it's very unpleasant...kindly tell in detail how to brief it. thanks

[@neelbhavsar1977]

I do understand that this channel is about soft skills. I was expecting content about keeping your social strength and confidence under dire office politics. With all due respect I do not agree with the points in this. Honestly, politics is nothing but social interaction. Most people are able to do what you just told. And innocently doing these same points so far for me has what made matters worse. All this is so childish except first point because I have experienced each and every one of these and now avoid to do these same points. I was looking forward for more advanced ways to manage work colleagues trying to frame you or threaten you.

[@kirtivegad3488]

First time I feel it is not wise advises

[@mehra7690]

I keep a gun. No one plays with me.

[@deepsanghvi9240]

You are far away from Reality and Real Office Politics.

[@ranip2843]

Well, that's not a right idea. You cannot talk to the person who is annoying you... It makes the situation worse... You always remember to become stoned... Just don't react for their actions... You reacting makes them do more like such things..... Always never share with anyone who annoys you in the office... We cannot trust anyone at office... Who will ditch us, at what time, e never know..ppil have to maintain secrets... Especially office issues. Let other share with you.. But remember you don't share it at any point... This is my advice.

[@Travelscape-]

You make no sense! you need to improve your communicative skills

[@sk3ffingtonai]

Needs to be less gender specific at the beginning of the video. ("He" this, that, and the other) Suggest using "S/he". Some of the most vicious, backstabbing, two-faced people in the workplace are females; and they tend to get away with it much easier than men due to gender bias and social conditioning. I am a business owner and am able to be very objective in this regard as my presence in any particular office is limited in time - albeit reoccurring. I am a keen observer of human behavior and this is what I see very often in many workplaces.

[@ArbitratorTemplar]

Do you have any strategy to deal with those females in office for employees?

[@sugabear161]

So true, aside from a few cool women I know, for me it always seemed like men were much easier to work with.

[@islamislam-zw3il]

Sugabear 1 opposite gender effect ...

[@quantummanagementguru7733]

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[@kaushikkhanra941]

You are beautiful you can be HR

[@akashmore8527]

smile jada ho rhi hai

[@akashmore8527]

overacting

[@saibolsrinivas]

Sorry to say..This information is not useful because everything is false which you are speaking. All I can say is useless speech.

[@hectorgarcia3022]

you are in my dream, my wife. i love pretty teache r

[@gaurideshpande4475]

Very well techniques. But it's not properly work in real politics . This person have in boss favour. He said that to all newly join employees. And grab their confidence. Very bull shit person n work as just office boy he is in company from company established

[@SalmanAli-ui9mv]

Are you mad.......what are you talking about....it makes no sense

[@briansullivan2664]

Jesus guys all you got to do is shut that crap down like you got a pair.