QUESTIONS about our RELATIONSHIP | Will We Have KIDS!? Religion? | INTERRACIAL COUPLE Q&A

[@skycedi]

We hope you guys enjoyed these answers about our relationship! We're always taking your questions so if there's something you'd like for us to discuss in more detail in a future video, drop them below 👇🏽🙂

[@pogglethelesser-fx5bf]

Hey guys and good morning from over here in the states ❗👋 But please take one step at a time as far as setting a date for marriage in the far future... I honestly deep down think y'all might go your separate ways in all likelihood unfortunately..🤪🤪 That said I'm rooting for the both of y'all and I hope you Prevail in these trying times of ours.👍💪

[@JamConcerned]

I just feel with any marriage things will come up and you guys will work it out. It's a journey and marriage is about growth, we get to see ourselves mirrored back to us from our partner. Gotta agree with Cedi, Hawaii would be a great place to live and still be in the states and close to Asia.

[@rachyeji]

More videos about Christianity in your relationship and how faith has affected it!

[@juliojustice3100]

Instablaster.

[@fynejules]

At a certain age, most men usually know by 3 months if they want to be with a certain woman forever. If they are with a woman for 6 months or more and feel unsure about the "forever" then most likely he will never be no matter how much longer he is dating the woman. He may still be with you because it's easy or he enjoys your company but he really is not in for the long haul. Becky: "being together with someone and getting married are different". That is so true. That is why there are many couples who will not get married but are in a relationship like a married couple and live together. Congratulations on your engagement! Will pray that the two of you will grow deeper in your relationship and understand one another more leading up to the big day!

[@frederickjackson7756]

Marriage it’s not always a bed of roses.Neither always in a straight road,it sometimes zigzagging,but with love for each other and compromising,and God’s love am sure all will be well.. Good luck.my blessings from New Jersey USA (Don’t let money be an issue)

[@shirlspark_stardust]

So true

[@darkerbrother1]

Ced and Becky. You may want to contact Slice and Rice. They can tell you how they did there wedding. It was traditional And Korean.

[@skycedi]

I loved their wedding video! It was very interesting how they blended the cultures and also, incorporated the KZbin theme as well :)

[@kalaiarasu128]

Is it just me or Becky seem to be happier and glowing since the proposal? Wish you both the best

[@babelove45]

Gosh, I feel like some of these comments are so discouraging 😔. I believe that y'all will be fine as long as you keep God in the center of your marriage and you both are willing to humble yourselves throughout the marriage. I remember my pastor saying that the reason a lot of people get divorced is because they stop humbling themselves (along with other things). Anyways, I wish you both the best of luck on your new journey, God bless! 🙏🏾❤

[@nathanielmills4678]

Amen! I would also say the Bible has plenty to say about marriage. Follow that and you are in a good place. One of the best sermons I heard on this (preached in the 50s) helped me really understand a man's role: www.mljtrust.org/sermons-online/ephesians-5-25-33/the-husbands-duties/

[@shirlspark_stardust]

True as long as they keep God first they will be fine 🙏🏾

[@pls-shanice]

I don't think they need religion to be fine, just love and respect!

[@askmamalouise7605]

Hahaha, on the 3 babies! That made all of my days! I can't wait! I really, really love you two together!!!! Just enjoy each other forever! I'm heart filled happy for the both of you!

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much!!

[@askmamalouise7605]

@@skycedi Absolutely!!!!!

[@jaykay5086]

Cedric is a catch such good, calming thoughtful vibes and Becky is really cool

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Please in the near future can you record your wedding when it happens and share with us your KZbin family💞

[@NarnianLady]

Yay so you're both believers.. wonderful

[@rebeccaemmanuel6813]

my thoughts exactly!!!

[@BreadNinja]

Dang she loves you bro. It can be seen in how she's always trying to catch your eye to see that love you have for her. Subbed

[@TheHalfieProject]

Truth ❤️

[@princeosei-bonsu8403]

This video is full of sweet moments and a lot of complicity as well as transparency between you both. Watching you make us fall in love with your love. Becky, you’re so sweet ,beautiful and glowing with the braids. We pray that your relationship continues to grow by day . Thank you for sharing with us

[@cl3140]

Thanks for sharing, my prayers are with you. An older couple with a long marriage and grandchildren once illustrated to me the image of how a couple grows closer to each other as their marriage progresses. The husband drew an isosceles triangle, he placed each spouse at each of the bottom corners and God at the top of the triangle. Then he explained that the higher the spouses traveled up their side of the triangle in their journey to be closer to God, the closer they got to each other. I'm sure that your wedding will be beautiful because you're very creative.

[@ivyd5485]

Oh and Becky it’s absolutely normal and ok to wonder about what your babies will look like. I wondered too and she’s more beautiful than I could’ve ever imagined and you will feel the same. 💖

[@mariabarnes9197]

I really enjoyed the relaxed feel & camaraderie between the two of you in this particular video -- it's very sweet. I also appreciate your transparency and genuine affection for one another and the way in which you work together to not only meet your personal & work related goals, but to navigate conflict. Perhaps because of your shared religious values, shared experiences as halfies, as well as the type of work you do, your relationship appears inclusive & expansive. Thanks for taking us along on the journey!

[@SunFlower-x3]

Sometimes when men and women are totally independent, they can hold tight the reins too tightly... Don't crown your relationship with fear. Don't be afraid to share the joy along with fear as a reason to move past things and began to enjoy one another. Earlier she mentioned "selfishness" you are not looking weird because you all are in love. Cater to one another, and Mr. Cedi, you are truly a man, you are a little sensitive but you are truly strong.. and Ms. Most women want a storybook romance 💒 but you'll find that you can create your own storybook romance. Both of you are precious people, and it is in the majority of women that are sweet and romantic, and still independent and capable. Don't live in fear. Sometimes as independent women, we can project fear to our lovers and the balance is thrown 📴.. best love, hope, and joy to both of you. We support you. Aunty vibes... Take heed. Spoken with ❤️ only. Be brave and write your own love story..... Be inspired. Don't forget, God is there when you need Him. You will be just fine, better than fine, supernaturally fine ☺️

[@TheHalfieProject]

Love this ❤️ thank you

[@Jazeerakiko]

You look beautiful together for real I can’t wait to see the looks of your children, can’t wait. And can’t wait to see different videos ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@loulou_9999]

Your compatibility is very obvious which makes your videos very enjoyable.

[@bernardbook3937]

No question from me, but I wanted to wish you both a happy future together and congrats to you both.

[@skycedi]

Thank you Bernard 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@LynnDanielleTreasure]

Northern Arizona is cooler and gets snow during winter. Southern Arizona is an oven for 4 or so months and beautiful the rest of the year. As a mom and Memaw, I could tell Cedric had a plan for Becky. You two melded. Keep melding! Continue in joy you two.

[@skycedi]

Thanks for filling us in on Arizona. I wasn’t aware of the differences in location. And also, thank you for the encouragement!

[@mcn6541]

It seems like people ask questions so they can get an opportunity to give their set opinions once you start answering. Congratulations on your engagement!! You both have faced challenges straight on like moving across the world to start new lives so I trust you will face your marriage with the same positivity, courage, passion and adventure. As a team I believe you can face whatever comes your way as long as you surround yourselves with the right support system.

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much for the encouraging comment 🙏🏽

[@judithbrewer8024]

Remember communication, commitment, compromised and courage. Don't sweat the small stuff. If you and share a bed there's some compromising right there,

[@scway29]

You two are cute!! 🥰 I'm so happy for you both!

[@skycedi]

Thank you!

[@sarahkim8651]

My hubby and I had 2 weddings. The first was in my hometown in Australia which was a very small garden ceremony and then we had a korean wedding for my husbands family 2 years later when we moved there so they could also be apart and see us marry in person. I love watching you both and a huge congratulations on your engagement. We have been married for 7years and had a baby last year so he is also a halfie and so beautiful. I enjoy watching to see possibly what my boy would maybe experience in his life after hearing your experiences.

[@skycedi]

Wow, thank you so much for sharing your experiences with your wedding. It’s certainly most helpful and encouraging!

[@bettys8666]

This is too cute. Congratulations and can’t wait to follow your journey. So many great Korean topics. Keep up the great work.

[@goldapple57]

Ahh Becky that's not too soon! My Yobo told his parents before me. I remember we hadn't even had our first date when his parents picked him up from where we were and they were glaring at me as they drove by...it was so awkward. Years later he told me it's cause he said to them: See that girl right there? I'm taking her! 🤣 that was in 2009! I think you guys should just get married with a personal ceremony and then have a larger one in the States when you can 🤗💚 We got married years ago with just 3 friends and the minister at a gazebo in the park where we have special memories. Our families are spread out. We then went to a restaurant.

[@skycedi]

Wow, thanks for sharing! Looks like your husband definitely had a good hunch :) and thanks for the wedding suggestion too! It seems like we’ll probably do something like what you suggested, but still sorting through options!

[@Lovebrook465]

Her response to how many children they want to have was concerning...she actually responded to her concern of what “they would look like “sorry but I pray Cedric is making the right decision, def reg flags, this guy is such a kind person he deserves someone who can make him happy for the long term..I pray I am totally wrong about Becky and she’s just a bit not sure about children and will be delighted when she has one and see how gorgeous their babies will be! I am on your team but have to voice concerns 😊 wishing you both nothing but the best life always

[@Lovebrook465]

@Disco Sprinkles She has always come across as if she doesn’t find him attractive like his hair comments kind of absurd since she say Yes! I hope she realize he CAN find a beautiful girl to absolutely love him...she needs to value her fiancé, and pray her Mom is not racist based on her previous comments. 🙏🏼 it’s all in my little head..as we really don’t know them😊

[@MsSunnyAvril]

My favorite couple! I smiled through this entire video! I’m in love with your love! 💗 💕 God bless you all on this wonderful and exciting journey! I’m here for it all....

[@skycedi]

Aww thank you so much. So encouraging to hear

[@freedomchance9982]

Great video! I love how honest you two are with one another. Thank you for sharing your lives with us!! Blessings and love to you both!!! I love and miss Korea!!!

[@Digital_Media_and_Food_Systems]

You guys are simply adorable. All the best for the future.

[@mikeblack3657]

I really enjoyed your video is it possible that one day you will take a home tour of your apartment because it looks really beautiful.

[@meryltaylor9933]

For where to get married, we did 2 places, where we live and then my hometown 2 years later :) both were fairly small (50 and then 100) and both were more like receptions less a ‘wedding’ in a church kind of thing :)

[@skycedi]

Thanks for sharing. We were tossing around ideas of having a ceremony in one place and a “reception” style wedding at the other. We’ll have to see :)

[@meryltaylor9933]

@@skycedi nice! Yes we still had a pastor come, speak a bit and bless the union for both times. But the actual signing of papers we did at city hall 😊

[@n.m.3364]

Two of you are a lovely couple. Don't worry, just be happy!

[@bernardbook3937]

Ced, and Becky your welcome and enjoy the rest of your day

[@rebeccaemmanuel6813]

yall are so cute! genuinely wish you the best.

[@skycedi]

Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽😌

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Everyone expresses their emotions differently being married for almost two years me and my husband has our issues sometimes is a lack of communication but for me i can't go but so long without talking while i live in the same house with my spouse thats just me i love to conversate

[@georgeklales188]

I would wish you both the best of luck but I think you have already had the best of luck in finding each other. So I'll wish you a long and happy life. 행복하게 오래오래 사세요.

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much! 감사합니다 ☺️

[@opportunityknox8575]

So 2 small intimate weddings 👰 would work. 💕 Korea and the USA

[@nicolegordon129]

Good Q & A guys. May God be with you on your journey with one another as you grow closer to Him.

[@carolinepoll643]

Hey guys happy valentine's day to you in advanced, and beggie you so pretty with your brade that's why sky fall so hard for you.

[@kristanobeng]

Love Arizona, Becky! I'd love to move back from California if all things align with work. Congrats you two ❤️

[@olzt100]

Great video! You both are really great communicators. That's a big key for your continuous journey. Love you both!.

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much!

[@judyf3090]

You guys are so cute. How exciting it is right now for you both. I can't wait to see your journey. Blessings from California .

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much Judy :)

[@donnadequire-rios3531]

Heeeeey, y'all! I'll be back I have to watch the video.

[@skycedi]

Hope you enjoyed Donna!

[@arosete3512]

You would totally fit in Hawaii. Like Becky said, we have lots of hapas. You hapas take the best of both worlds. You are most welcome here. We have many Koreans here too.😃

[@myvisualdiares]

should invite the fans to your wedding! haha esp if it's in NY

[@summersherbet2009]

Best video ever !!!! Thnxs guys! ( 2 kids at least....)

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Hi Becky and Cedi always good to see ya'll 💕

[@lisaflores8801]

Hello beautiful people!!!❤

[@skycedi]

Hello!!

[@CAMCAM413]

Three kids a year apart. They are a blessing. California and Hawaii are great places. California you can drive across the country and Hawaii is far enough from the in-laws (🤪). I love the long talks where time just moves so fast and the day is starting over again.

[@skycedi]

3 kids one year apart sounds awesome, like they would have each other’s back and be good friends. And I think I’d like living in Cali. We’ll need you to show us around 🙂

[@adetokunboerinle6034]

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[@kanagharta9783]

Cool! You guys are perfect together!

[@skycedi]

Thanks Kan!

[@josemnp458]

morning guys when you do have kids will you be living in South Korea or United States and once again great video keep up the good work happy for both of you

[@moses9175]

안녕

[@Dragoness0514]

Sheesh! Some of these comments! For reals though .. congrats! And just as in your relationship now .. marriage takes effort. I’m sure you guys are aware. Communication and compromise are key components. You already have so many things in common. Trust your love. I hope you don’t listen to all the weirdo haters out there trying to take fake sides (seriously .. who are those people?!?!) or make your relationship out to be unbalanced. Totally looking forward to the planning parts of everything. California and Hawaii are both great. Hawaii is crazy expensive so that’s something to consider. Again .. 축하해요 to both of you!

[@skycedi]

Thank you so much Julia. This was very encouraging! :)

[@ivyd5485]

Really interesting questions and answers. Looking forward to more sharing.

[@skycedi]

Thank you Ivy!

[@JamConcerned]

Well their have been Zoom graduation why not a Zoom wedding so everyone can attend.

[@skycedi]

We’re definitely talked about streaming the wedding in some way :)

[@beeli_love]

You two are so cuteee together . Love watching you guys 😍😍 God bless you ✨

[@skycedi]

Thank you!

[@thenobleone-3384]

I can relate to Mixed Asian people I grew up thinking I was Indian and African American. I found out later I'm fully Afghan however I'm not attracted to South Asian women. Indian culture was interested to me when I was a kid

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

Yay so excited for you guys! I pray God blesses your marriage 🤗❤🙏 You guys will be good as long as you put God first in your marriage and communicate with each other often. You guys can have an amazing wedding without spending too much ^_^

[@skycedi]

Thank you Nicole! 🙏🏽

[@nicoleyoshihara4011]

@@skycedi You're welcome! 🤗🙏❤ So happy for you guys! Also I'm a fellow halfie haha 🙌

[@waves.of.indigo]

You don't have to have children if you don't want to, Becky. You don't have to have bio kids if you don't want to. It doesn't seem like you're both on the same page on that topic.

[@jaykay5086]

Christians usually do premarital counseling so I’m sure they are too

[@waves.of.indigo]

@@jaykay5086 Counselling is great, but either way, whether she feels like she can be truthful and not influenced or pressured by others is another thing

[@jollyjohn5820]

Your guys are an amazing couple. Have more kids, it will be a blessing in your life. Money is not everything but happiness is. I know that Lord Jesus will bless you all always.

[@scottfw1193]

C - Becki is absolutely right you are good at communicating in the moment. But B comes across as the brains (not necessarily the artistic talent) in your partnership.You need to discuss this and resolve, I know, I've been there and it's tough for a smart person like yourself However it works out we want it to work out. 🖤

[@alyssadiceflipper5201]

Not sure if you know this but Hawaiians, not all but some, take offense in using the word Hapa since it was a Hawaiian word that began in the early 1800's. I used the word Hapa to describe many of my friends who are half Asian, but a Hawaiian person pointed this out to me recently.

[@graceshin7233]

You guys looks good . I am full korean and my whole family is Christian and I went to korean church since I was baby.

[@riminana4740]

Hello your both beautiful lovely couple.i don't think Becky is ready for marriage. And he should be careful he may get hurt.just my observation.

[@adetokunboerinle6034]

😎😎😎🙌👍👍

[@NimerionTech]

Ah man, I want to share so much with you to push you out from that "cheating" mentality, but honestly... If she accepted your ring, and she comes to you even if you're not doing the effort, that's where you know, she would never allow a third party to even TOUCH your relationship. Ignore all these stories of wifes cheating to their husbands, etc. Most of these things happen, because they were never in a stable relationship to start with! That's why people shouldn't push the relationship to "happen". She is your best friend, as you are hers'. Have you even seen how she's looking at you while she's talking? Almost as if you're the only guy in the world, or her favourite meal or something. :D Beat that "cheating" anxiety off your thinking sir. For better or for worse! Remember that! P.S. I've been cheated on, and it was painful AF, but now I'm engaged to the worlds most adorable girl. An I've NEVER been as happy as now. So I'm glad things happened as they did. P.S. 2 Ma'am, don't get angry with him, we guys still have primal instinct for our ladies. It goes away after awhile. :D

[@mtaylor2694]

Becky your body will be fine after giving birth. You seem a little nervous about giving birth. Are you?

[@frederickjackson7756]

Am just visualizing Becky being pregnant hmmmmmm. Man you’re in trouble. Bring in one of the mother in laws for help..

[@cristabel62]

Pay attention to the lady, I think she has cold feet. Make sure she is sure, even if it hurts because you are.

[@cristabel62]

Not even cold feet, wrong term, just think she needs much more time, than the timescales discussed here.