Slept With My Sister's Husband by Mistake, but It Destroyed Her Marriage and Our Bonds Forever.

[@C9316]

I mean, I feel like normal people don't need their sister to explicitly tell them "Don't screw my husband" when it comes to establishing boundaries in relationships.

[@Olimar92]

Seriously. I don't need to tell someone I'm friends with to not call me at 12am because they want to talk. Kind of a common courtesy to not do something to piss off or hurt someone.

[@Montyandrew45]

"Clear boundaries?" How about the easy boundary that should not need to be said. Don't fuck your siblings partner

[@Eclipseisgone29]

"By mistake," so she slipped on air and fell on his ...😢

[@TheKnightofAwesomeness]

Wait, you never experienced that type of "mistake" before, especially with your partner's family member?

[@StoryWave123]

Happens to all of us

[@roevhaal578]

that's some hentai plot right there

[@nick-brothwood]

How the does OP suck D... on accident?!

[@TheKnightofAwesomeness]

@@roevhaal578 A Man of Culture I See 🧐

[@aparnathakur8239]

Op literally tried to GASLIGHT her sister in the texts, how does she not feel stupid by doing that?? Absolutely insane, to think that you should not get the most hate when you slept with your sister's husband is ridiculous. YOU ARE HER FAMILY FOR A REASON!!

[@TiFan86]

Storie 1 the OP is definitely the AH. OP even tried blaming the sister. Her logic is “she didn’t tell me not to sleep with her husband.” Come on you don’t have to be told not to sleep with your siblings SO.

[@Toneill029]

Even said it was her fault since she didn’t try hard enough to get her ex husband to that point? The fuck kind of logic is that.

[@gotenblack2542]

i love how acting like saying is a mistake changes what happened

[@ix7958]

cray part is cheating isnt a mistake, its a series of choices that the cheater makes to lead up to the cheater becoming a cheater

[@gotenblack2542]

there is a story a heard where the op was hated by his family and blamed him for everything and one was the dad cheated on the mom and blamed the op is like people that cheat always blame everything but themselves

[@alexuz93]

Story 1: it is WILD that OP was trying to dodge some blame and somewhat blame her sister for her failing marriage. I would’ve cut OP off as well! It’s good that OP finally realize what a sh*t human she was being.

[@Dayday-xj3hc]

Is this op high? Like seriously, “mY siSTeR sHOulDn’T have LeFT hIM iN mY cArE!” Is it crack that you smoke ma’am?

[@Olimar92]

That's just her admitting she can't be trusted.

[@highonmoss]

"Is it crack that you smoke" is a fantastic way to say "ur screwed" 😂

[@proteus2601]

Damn, never knew people could deflect blame so hard

[@meemzing]

Not only wants to deflect blame, she wants to rewrite the narrative to garner sympathy and turn people against her sibling. Some cluster Bs would be smart enough to do this in a subtle and sinister way, unfortunately for her, she is both crude and d u mb.

[@Olimar92]

Mirrors can't even reflect light like she deflects blame.

[@persinitrix]

Pours napalm on a smoldering fire and is confused why it blows up in your face. LMAO

[@ashleyyoung796]

Lol.😂

[@L4zyBumone]

OP in the first story is different kind of breed, "My sister didn't set a clear boundary" as if "don't bang your sibling's spouse" is something that needs to be said. She's an AH and if the ex BIL words is to be believed then she's a mega AH

[@Kkell0x]

😂😂😂 she can be as eloquent as she wants, but nope the only two people at fault are OP and the Ex.

[@Outofcontexthandle]

Story 1 or 2

[@robotgirl626]

Pov: The Villain doesn't know she's the villain💀💀👁️👄👁️

[@bodforge9484]

They never do 🙄😂

[@solidale21]

This woman needs a reality check. You don't get to use alcohol as an excuse to sleep with your sisters husband.

[@ssfheather6629]

she knew exactly what she was going to do when she went over there, alcohol was just an excuse, and even being called our her apologies are hollow and insincere.

[@Axelikescats]

Story 1 she sounds like a youtuber making an apology video

[@ashleyyoung796]

It's time to bring out the tiniest violin in the world and start the apology video.😆🎻

[@Syrin23]

She called that a mistake? That was NOT a mistake. She says she is willing to accept responsibility while not taking any responsibility.

[@Deedoof]

"I cheated and my AP threw me under the bus when I blamed him and my sister first??" Cheaters are always surprised when karma hits.

[@samiesam8315]

Ngl i expected this to be some clickbaiting title where it was a misunderstanding like they just fell asleep in the same bed but nah. This OP delusional as hell.

[@joshuanosko7481]

When she said accidentally, I was on her side, assuming the A.P. was an identical twin and that they had swapped or something.

[@kiragibsonmusic]

I thought the same thing to begin with, until I actually heard it and woah, that's some insane shit right there. No way that's accidental

[@mattas91]

Thought and posted the same thing. I wasn't necessarily "on her side", but I was ready to be understanding

[@Maninawig]

For once, I would love to hear one of these "mistakes" being an actual mistake. Like "After taking sleep meds and falling cold for 4 hours, I awoke to go pee and thought I made it back, only to discover I was no longer in my room." Do I just have too much faith in humanity?

[@copperandbrick]

Yes, but it’s kind of a nice thing. 👍

[@noobyman333]

I'm sure there are a very small select few where circumstances were just so out there that it sounds almost unbelievable and it was truly just a set of events that created a honest mistake. This in itself could be a mistake since a mistake could be an honest bad decision, which is what her situation is regardless of intoxication. The difference is owning up to it and accepting responsibility, in these cases it can no longer be a mistake when they try to lie, gaslight, misdirect, refuse their role, etc. A lot of these cases just want an easy fix least painful fix, when in reality when you find yourself in any drama situation where you majorly f'd up, sometimes the best fix is just to accept it, apologize, face it head on and dive forward. It'll be rough as hell, but it'll be the shortest way to the other side and even if people are angry, by owning it, showing reflection and remorse, acceptance, the more likely you are to maintain more connections when its all over.

[@steen275]

No accountability

[@jessicadriver1636]

Dear Lord, it's one thing if you're spouse is sleeping with some random person but it's a whole other ball park when their sleeping with you're best friend or sibling.

[@mekgoijra7857]

Did OP never read a single story from this subreddit?

[@contraire_where5878]

"I also question why my sister failed to adress the issues in her relationship and why she left her husband in my care without setting clear boundaries." DOES SHE REALLY HAVE TO SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU THAT YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO SLEEP WITH HER HUSBAND⁉️⁉️

[@max4377jk]

Oh $*it, OP Sister response made me laugh 😂😂😂, just the name drop of Kelly lol

[@HauntedGalMars]

"I slept with her husband... but it's not my fault" 👁👄👁 Then she is sad that sis won't communicate with her? Delusional much?

[@mongviemong]

Story one clearly an example that some people just not bright 😅😅😅

[@cloudyboy1756]

2mins in and my thought was “this is the devil” and I’m not even religious like that lol

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

By mistake seriously no by choice

[@francistheviking5759]

wait how they said? cheating is a choice? yes the girl said its mistake?

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

Ok​@@francistheviking5759

[@rukiakuchiki6187]

@@francistheviking5759 ok

[@notting2640]

A woman's ability to avoid accountability is unbelievable 😂 Jesus Christ

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

Its annoying how she said she takes responsibility but proceeds to shift blame

[@terriebtsOT7]

Just freaking wow. She didn't set clear boundaries...WTF? ADULTS ARE CAPABLE OF SEEING THAT CHEATONG IS A CLEAR BOUNDARY.

[@low-keydrama1260]

Story 1: OP is a bizarre person. She refuses to take any blame for what happened by saying "well my sister should've taken responsibility in her failing marriage by either working it out or leaving him." and "I was drunk!" and "He was making advances!" Like girl...

[@chinaking918]

Exactly sounding even more ridiculous. Trying to find any reason why she wouldn’t be at fault. The one that killed me the most was the part when she said her sister didn’t set boundaries like honey nobody should have to be told not to sleep with their siblings partner rather married or otherwise. I bet this wasn’t her first time sleeping with someone else’s man.

[@Nima-jneb]

20 seconds in and I legitimately cannot see a way shes nta here but ill let her cook ig Edit: should not have let her cook, delusion at its finest.

[@heyyitsjanea]

less than 2 minutes and i’m enraged by op already. she’s the type of person you get physical with

[@sunblobian]

Bro op writes like this is an essay for english class and deflects so damn hard like how is this humanly possible???

[@ThePawerStation]

"She wouldn't give me a chance to explain" WTF?! I love when cheaters think they can explain something. Gaslighter PoS that tries to put blame in her sister.

[@JohnDoe-h1e8l]

1:51 I’m sorry, don’t sleep with your sister’s husband isn’t a”clear boundary”? Really?

[@tdexth]

What the hell does OP meant when se said Her sister should have set boundary? It's common sense that you don't screw with your sibling's partner or anyone's partner at all.

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

I'm wondering the same thing too. It makes no sense.

[@agustinjr.enriquez6238]

baby you can’t accept the blame you deserve

[@JeSsE10mCcOy11]

If they didn't do it in the dark, then it's not a mistake

[@jjpendejo7407]

Even then you could tell

[@meemzing]

That is an awful lot of words to say "I'm a u s e l ess narc who took my error online to try to historically revise the narrative, gaslight my sister, and absolve blame for myself." Get reckd

[@Cullprit]

By mistake??

[@C9316]

She tripped and landed on his p*nis, a mere accident. A naturally occurring mishap some would say.

[@Bruh-wtf-did-i-just-watch]

Clear boundaries ? You want her to tell you to not sleep with here husband

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

the first one wow im oscillating believing this to be a skit or real, and girl is trying so hard not to be the only one sinking

[@brad6817]

I thought maybe Her brother-in-law had a twin but this is even stupider than that.

[@dhyeymendpara2169]

Clown music time

[@gotenblack2542]

Bluck and skull theme form power rangers

[@chinaking918]

All I heard was tiny violins

[@Meows1234]

“Don’t sleep with my husband” was she supposed to tell op that before she left? Or did op take it too literally when her sister said take care of her husband.

[@FlipflopB]

The fact that big Greg commented when OP’s partner was calling the prosutute Greg 😂

[@razemander]

"Mistake"?!

[@donaldkue2364]

Victim blaming! One of the top behaviors of a cheater!

[@Jo11ity]

“I hope for unbiased judgment and guidance on how to navigate this difficult situation” Honey you got a big storm coming your way.

[@stardustdeath2497]

“What are you doing StepBro?”

[@Syrin23]

It's pretty rare where the flight attendant is the faithful one who was cheated on

[@matthenley9969]

I feel so bad for any future partner that she has. Hope that girl stays single forever

[@justmeloms]

oh its soooo unfair that i ruined their marriage and they side with my sister🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓

[@koketso_dithipe]

Stop, stop, I've heard enough. 💀💀💀

[@dokuganryu1565]

Just the title and I've already read enough.

[@djafar699]

how can you sleep with someone by mistake ?

[@kaijuteeth]

"why didnt my sister set clear boundaries about not sleeping with her husband" BC GIRL NOBODY NEEDS TO BE EXPLICITLY TOLD THAT TO JUST NOT DO THAT 😭😭

[@Axelikescats]

“Butt trap a bear claw” is crazy

[@elfmagic10]

Good night from Sweden!

[@alidemirbas3722]

Story 1: I Want Her Sister To Make A Reddit Post From Her Side. I Wanna See How Her Sister Reviews The “Incident”.

[@jamiepetersen6153]

You would think her brain would realize he was lying about the marriage issues so he could sleep with her

[@boarder721]

Sister in story one has undertones of being a sociopath. YTA and deserve all coming to you.

[@RandomTrinidadian]

Heard this one before. OP is a lost cause and is full of it.

[@Doer231]

The ultimate scumbag move

[@MMCV963]

All the swerving op is doing to avoid accountability and trying to place any blame on her sister is nuts. She seems more upset that her ex bil isn't getting as much hate in her eyes than herself. Your sister explained it best.

[@handlebarmustache]

I hate those "complicated and difficult" situations

[@morganholtz8323]

Wow that was a crap tone of poor me and victim blaming right off the bat

[@GuardianHalberd]

I swear the story was something like "I have -35/-35 farsight and mistook my husband with my sister's" or "I married my husband who has a twin brother married to my twin sister and things went wrong" or something among these lines

[@mattas91]

When I hear they slept with someone "by mistake", I usually like to imagine someone sleeps with a twin, thinking it was the other twin. I would definitely understand OP being NTA. However, I have never actually seen or heard about that, except in movies, and it is nearly always the OP + cheating SO that are to blame. OP: YTA, and so is your BIL.

[@alext9320]

Have a family member who acts a good bit like the OP in the first story. Alcohol is an end-all-be-all excuse for any action taken, apparently you're not in control of yourself even remotely when you're drunk (weird how I've never managed to get so drunk that I lose control of what I say and do completely though). They fully accept that what they did was wrong, but here's a million excuses as to why it was no big deal. They're sorry, but you owe them an apology too. They respect your boundaries, but they'll never stop trying to get in contact with you. They accept responsibility, except actually it's YOUR fault if you really think about it. OP will not grow from this, if anything she'll probably get worse. Therapy won't fix her because she doesn't actually see a problem with herself. If she takes anything away from therapy, it will likely just be how to weaponize therapeutic language. Even her last update sounds like a KZbinr apology, nothing but vague platitudes about growing and healing. What a croc.

[@oROBBIEo]

What a horrible person OP clearly is.

[@vojtechotava1417]

This gotta be ragebait. She screwed sister's husband and made it her fault?!

[@brianarnold8666]

"By mistake" my ass. OP is really trying to put an ounce of blame on the sister? Absolutely not, all the fault involves you and the ex husband, the sister holds absolutely zero blame in this mess.

[@Feess0504]

How do you accidentally sleep with someone that you clearly shouldn't sleep with.

[@lance2304]

Take a shot every time OP says "i take responsibility" Update: my liver is charcoal

[@tannertanner8769]

Not even bothering with this one.

[@jeremiahethan9222]

"You didnt set bounderies" OP is defiinatly Mostly at Fault here, There was a lot of insight on the issues, but the story followed by the comments just poured way too much gasoline on the fire and made it explode. Despite how right it was.

[@jeezursilly5252]

I don't understand why the sister wanted her to basically babysit her husband after being told he was basically acting sus with the sister.... It's like the sister wanted her to sleep with her husband. Why put them into that situation.

[@guryurfur528]

Its always Kelley. Stay away from the Kelleys.

[@thetruesimplegrid]

😂 lol “mistake”

[@ashleyyoung796]

The first commenter was right on the money with that GTA comment.😂💯

[@Lumpaa]

How hard is it to not have sex with someone especially when your sister is married to him. Like seriously, why justify it?

[@leox.jaramillo3231]

This woman Is insane. This entire story/post is gaslighting.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Unless OP got so drunk or d----ed that she couldn't fight back (thus qualifying this as r-word), that wasn't a mistake. It was a CHOICE. Zero sympathy from me or anyone with common sense.

[@uhm9690]

story 1: I accept its my fault but also why am i being held accountable for my actions? 😢🧐

[@j0doe1]

"By mistake" Uh-huh...

[@dillanharris6654]

Honestly I wish the best love luck to op, I mean like come on it's gotta be difficult to be this stupid. She needs all the luck she can get

[@hobisoon]

Did sis use chatgpt to formulate her apology in the last update? 😂

[@truenation9890]

Story 1 op make it sound so easy to betrayed family

[@penguinpingu3807]

We got a homewrecker's pov for once. Like most homewreckers she is incredibly self-centred therapy is heavily required and hopefully she isn't lying about her personal growth fi win some sympathy points from internet simps. Plus, this should have been today i have fucked up instead of AITA, if she actually knows what's up.

[@KarmaTube5]

Story 1: so you slipped in the air into the husband? Sounds like you were planning to sleep with him

[@Himmel23]

What if she really did force herself onto the Ex? Not saying that's exactly what happened as there's no way we can know but we do know that she's very capable of lying if she did something like this. And there are so many instances where this happens and no one believes the man, i heard so many stories where the guy gets drugged and the woman forces herself on him, yes, as a guy your intimate part still works very well even if you have no idea what's happening, you don't need to be aroused or into it for it to start acting on its own, like what happens in a wet dream.

[@malikpittman6376]

Boyyyy do i wanna see the comments on reddit😂😂😂

[@just.a.tanuki]

Imagine if she got pregnant then we will see a true mistake

[@TheWiggl3ztube]

How are you trying to fix your relationship with your sister if you slept with her husband. I swear this is by mistake l. How? 😂

[@ShockWavelml]

How do you sleep with your brother in law "by mistake"?

[@MrArielK]

Your daily reminder that this channel only posts AÍ generated stories

[@copperandbrick]

True or not, they’re entertaining. 😁

[@MrArielK]

@@copperandbrickcan’t argue with that, but the does put #reddit...

[@seziey4617]

Op is Ofc the ah but the sis is a lil wrong bc of all of the factors at play like her not listening to op

[@fernybern]

Story 1 is a freak and ah like leave your family alone