SOMETHING TOXIC THAT YOU LIKE IN A RELATIONSHIP?! | EP 325 | ShxtsNGigs Podcast

[@Mpho_Entle]

Fuhad calling James daddy might just be the highlight of James 'year.😂😂😂😂

[@Jewels1]

He's going to remember this forever 😄😄

[@fuckel98]

james blushed, bit his hand and had to cool himself down....Fuhad rizzed the fuck out of him unintentionally and James just couldn't hide it 😂

[@manimoo4352]

time stamp pls

[@nadr8806]

@@manimoo435215:33

[@fuckel98]

@@manimoo4352 15:33

[@Fonzworth000]

James: “Dear diary, today, the LOML called me Daddy. I’m giddy!”

[@mahoganysweets67]

What does loml mean

[@_she.is.her_4656]

@@mahoganysweets67love of my life

[@natashaj4113]

@@mahoganysweets67love of my life

[@izoldachristatjozongoro6918]

​@@mahoganysweets67means love of my life

[@queendombraids1829]

@@mahoganysweets67 Love Of My Life

[@yvettembele3570]

The way James got visibly EXCITED when Fuhad said "talk to me Daddy" made my whole day 😂 Mans beeen waiting for that moment

[@hr106]

😂😂😂😂yo I don't know how to stop crying laughing then he goes Daddy Yum Tum WTF 😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm going to suffocate I can't with this episode already

[@carvellsmith9650]

😮 the sus encounter marks are always wrong. James super sussy at all times and fuhad...I'm upset

[@SU_HU]

Possibly the FUNNIEST ep yet! 😅

[@jadajemmott]

15:33 is the time stamp if anyone’s looking :)

[@yvettembele3570]

@Troubleclef02 And the way he said it so casually too. Made my whole day 😂

[@mellissalopez345]

“If you wanna get gushy?? I’ll kick the back of your heel.” Hearing that shit made me scream 🤣🤣🤣

[@sneakerpulse8012]

I'll scream for u

[@breemapry]

James losing his mind at the toxic tweets is SENDING ME. Did y’all see that finger bite? 😂

[@sharraviiahill6545]

The finger bite. 😂😂😂😂

[@wraithhoops]

The thoughts were running wild in his head😂😭

[@orioncrawford9618]

Ain't going to lie,it ultimately made me pop a semi and I was out for a walk and I had to control myself

[@OnlyeverEddie]

​@@orioncrawford9618wonder woman's lasso couldn't get this outa me

[@Mel_o1234]

Yoooooo 😂 he got too into it with that finger bite

[@lovelycheryl]

Fuhad looking James dead in the eye while saying: You love this 🐱 don't you".. IS MAD! Lol

[@marwayoongi1294]

The voice he made too for each one while looking bro in the eye 💀💀😭

[@aphumelelenzimande6074]

Can we all agree ellis is definitely an out of the box thinker. He's just different.❤😂

[@abookishmess]

I'm always rooting for him in the top 5 😂😂

[@MaxineShaw_84]

💯 He always brings a different perspective and it's great for balance.

[@tierralangley3511]

I love Ellis. He's like the protected little brother so innocent ❤

[@junglekxngtalksanime]

Fr..man said Belle Delphine 😭😭

[@fuckel98]

mans said it's not for the weak with so much chest 😂, he 's the type of breh you just know you need by your side but still never expect him to show up and show out the way he does

[@hauwamuktari735]

Fuad calling James daddy is the story arc we NEEDED!!!! 😅😅😅😅

[@041_frost]

James getting flustered after being called "daddy" is everything 😭😭😭😭😭

[@nehemiejules9051]

I can see James tonight writing in his diary twiddling his feet.. “Dear diary, Fuhad called me daddy today 🥰🥰🥰, I think he like me too, I’m starting to wear him down.❤

[@blackbeauty7499]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 after 4 years he’s starting the wear him down!!! Underrated comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rcaldwell7255]

James got GASSEDDDDD when Fuhad called him DADDY 😭😭😭😭😭 man said "it only took 4 years" 😂😂😂😂

[@douxdoux333]

Someone give me the time stamp puhleaassseeee lmao

[@JLewisRacing927]

@@douxdoux333 15:30

[@alexandriabrodie3569]

Had me in my place of employment trying not to scream😂😂😂

[@mbaliyezwe]

I just love how calm Ellis is❤ he seems like a breath of fresh air

[@amraable116]

yes! so calm. They're like that cucumber you take after a tequila shot! so refreshing and keep everything balanced

[@muizajiboye1886]

I can’t keep defending Ellis’s top 5 picks

[@lils4341]

🤣🤣🤣 this took me out. I'm crying

[@TheodoreBakes]

😂😂😂

[@david1snk]

Belle delphine killed me 😂

[@amandafelix-amadi5334]

He's not making it easy. 😂

[@hermanlaidlaw9185]

Brooooooooooo, I’m praying he win but man enjoys Ls

[@starsaligned8440]

James: “ The next time you mans see me naked” Fuhad and Rem: *snickers*😂 Ellis: “Next time???🤔”

[@sibzpremiumnutt5490]

Bro I swear Ellis the only non sus one in the whole group 😂

[@godrules3596]

I've really made watching shxtsngigs a part of my weekly routine lol😂😂

[@Kaizenprotraders]

Same its mad i process it as therapy 😅

[@aregarshamyan649]

IT IS MY ONLY GOOD DAY BRO

[@amandarayforever]

Same 😂😂

[@precioustheedon]

listennnnnn😂😂😂🫶🏽

[@amazamakisi2571]

Bruv!!!😅😅

[@lisaruffin7867]

I love the way Fuhad confidently says the number one podcast in the world 🎉🎉

[@BlPlR9714]

* in James voice * :it is tho, to be fair😂😂😂

[@tesswolf666]

James went home to write in that diary about being called daddy

[@HayleyKelly-ps4me]

This made me laugh so much

[@alanaterrel9914]

Real Moesha style

[@mscynshe437]

😂😂😂...facts!

[@davidsimmons654]

Feet danglin’ off the bed

[@JBRealLucky]

🤣🤣🤣

[@touchtherapy4kidz]

There's a fine line between toxic and abusive, folks.

[@mrsmars144]

What’s your point though?

[@izabelarivera5211]

Finally an update on Elis' challenge. Damn! 3 weeks in! Respect. Elis:' It's only for the strong'. James: I can't be spoken to like that!

[@elsiec0ates]

What time stap? Sorry

[@RealPigeon]

@@elsiec0ates right at the end, 56:41

[@kylielinae]

56:36@@elsiec0ates

[@georgienaarna]

What's his challenge? I must have missed it

[@izabelarivera5211]

@@georgienaarna he's doing 75 hard challenge

[@_simplyshuga]

Not James biting his fist after Fuhad called him Daddy😂😂😂😂😂 I love it.

[@theresagondwe7548]

Not everyone of us getting gassed for James cos fuhad called him daddy today 😂😂😂 we have been waiting for this day🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@kianasealy3509]

How did we make it through this episode without James saying “OK Scenario…”

[@sharriceowens913]

Facts!😂

[@Desralynn]

James was called Daddy by Fuhad he needed no other scenario😂😂

[@kianasealy3509]

@@Desralynn 😂 haha omg true. Caught him off guard

[@eminenceofcalamity4513]

15:39 I'm finally convinced, James and fuhads where lovers in a past life and now reincarnated as best mates

[@thegreatmind8469]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@no-l2613]

The audacity of Fuhad wearing those grey joggers...can we just take a moment to appreciate....

[@andreafleet]

Yes we can lol love them grey sweatpants

[@leilajones9066]

He’s so fine 😩🤤

[@jeannettepyatt77]

I was hoping he would just stand up and model them

[@fudge2967]

James: I couldn't do 75 Hard Ellis: It's only for the strong I SAT UP IN MY CHAIR 😂

[@kelvinenos]

Got me shook 😂

[@Colein2013]

James’s Ribs cracked in his chest at Ellis telling him it’s only for the strong I truly fell out LFG ELLIS 😂😂😂 say it with your chest 😂

[@cissy2194]

James is a real life villain 😂🤣. He wants all the toxicity lol.

[@BaebaeW]

He is😂

[@brianaaaaaa]

literally 😂😂

[@shanel1714]

The way James and Fuhad read the room 12:55 cause the way I was looking at this lil sneaky link while we're both trying not to show on our face our reaction to the spicy tweets. Ugh, another week I love it here!!!

[@TrulyKeels]

James lets intrusive thoughts win every single time.

[@kerryd1826]

Zero self control and I love it.

[@TheGypsyWeaversFate]

Ellis cracks me up! He has a beautiful brain! His top 5 picks never fails. And those toxic tweets 👀. James and fuhad have me crying with their reactions! Mondays are one of my favourite days ❤

[@breaky3355]

This was the happiest day of James' life 😂😂. Fuhad gave him "fanny flutters" 😂😂😂😂

[@vibeswithdagger7714]

😂😂😂There's something so wholsome about the way James loves Fuhad

[@ziljianqisti]

lmaooo Ellis better watch his back because James is COMING for him for that "only for the strong" bit 🤣🤣

[@ilhaamfoster4617]

😂 He's obviously not winning at Top 5 so he needs to beat James at something 😅

[@blxxkstxx6139]

The Dilemma: they both have good parents and can't imagine having a bad parent. Cancer does not excuse and make me forget about how terrible a parent is or was.

[@zjazjaz]

I dont agree with their judgement but idk about them having good parents fr

[@shania991]

Exactly I don’t see how op excuse is bs but somehow the mother being an asshole and using their kid isn’t an issue

[@MrSpidermike5]

I’m like what is her new husband doing? Why is her son taking so much responsibility for her. I’d do everything I can for my mom but I’d be asking what is your man doing.

[@mereiam]

He’s living with her so clearly she’s not been that bad

[@mereiam]

@@shania991how is she using her kid? He’s 22 and she’s asking for rent to make ends meet, should she give him an itemized receipt of where the money goes?

[@taysreads]

“we have ellis” ✌🏼😗✌🏼 he’s so wholesome i love it

[@brenahiahopwood1941]

😂Fuhad's grinning to a female cutting off her family for a man, reminded me of when the Grinch smiled to be a terror at Christmas😅

[@Ms.Taslimah]

I like Fuhad introductions for everyone in this episode ❤❤❤️

[@TosinTosTos]

Yes!! Epic

[@smclemore89]

YES!!! I was WAITING for the 75 update. A third of the way, about 7 weeks left. LET'S GO ELLIS!!! ❤

[@DJohn0991]

My wife put me on to this podcast , now it’s a Monday/Thursday weekly occurrence after work . Plus the reaction videos been a hit !

[@tanesha1366]

James fanning himself and biting his fist SENT. ME. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Tobithegoodboi]

Good morning cult babies and happy Monday to everyone!! May have been alittle delayed but our boys have come through and it's time for some knee slapping laughs!! Lets get this week started off the right way!

[@Jewels1]

I was getting worried 😬

[@careyannesh]

Why you sound like their boomer PR guy?

[@littlebrowngirl4]

🤣🤣 They were late again!! i was starting to panic 😆

[@keeyajavan]

tobiiiiiiiiiii love the stories youre in bro

[@keeyajavan]

bro thats their boy tobi @@careyannesh

[@Amy-wq9gz]

Watching your podcast honestly makes my day. As a single mum who never gets out, I feel included 😂😂😂

[@tara-candacezulu6238]

Y'all make my Monday's😂 We have 11 official languages, Swahili is not one of them😂 Konje is an exclamation you use when you remember or forget something e.g. Remembering > "Konje it's Monday today," or forgetting > "Konje, where did you say that place is?"

[@longwenzwakazi]

We actually have 12 now, south african sign language is the new addition

[@BlPlR9714]

Swahili is an East African language spoke primarily in Tz, Kenya, Somali, maybe Ethiopia , Uganda too but not soo much

[@royaltynails469]

​@Blepiliar6569 ❤

[@royaltynails469]

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[@carolmashile7533]

Closest translation would be "by the way"

[@Bulelwakoko]

15:37 James had literal fanny flutters 🤣🤣🤣 You've made his entire life atp 🤣

[@aleciawhite1260]

James reaction to finally being acknowledged has daddy is killing me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 then Remski facial expressions is icing on every dam cake 😂😂😂

[@ahmedmounier3886]

my biggest question will always be where does James get his T shirts from

[@seancleminson8636]

Frrrrrr

[@BakareAdepoju]

Swear down!

[@Sha713Sha]

People send them and he orders custom 😊

[@norah685]

Omg yes! I'm still trying figure out where he bought his bleach hoodie from a 2 year old episode

[@LuwiKangombi]

True I’ve been dying to know 🥲😭

[@princessdi6021]

James made me lose it with the fist bite when Fuhad called him Daddy 🤣🤣🤣 James, if you're a chunky monkey, you're one of the finest ones I've ever seen.😊

[@taylormae4605]

I didn’t even watch it yet but the way I’ve been rewatching their shorts for the last hour and refreshing looking for this is crazy. I feel like shit working today and just really needed to listen immediately.

[@TswanaGirly5991]

That hand bite after Fuhad called James “Daddy” 😩

[@KiraiBK]

The daddy/sir reaction was hilarious 😂😂😂

[@TaylrBeatz]

Not James saying '' half english half mouth noises '' that sweeted me😂😂😂

[@khomotsomashego7473]

😂😅🇿🇦Yup! using almost all languages in a sentence is what we do! 😅

[@LxstLxrde]

As a South African myself I understand where brother is coming from, because things are at the point where decent/good paying jobs don't even look at you if you don't have a degree of any kind. The fact he is 22 and makes 5K is impressive. He is a asshole for not wanting to help but he also isn't because from what it sounds like he is around covering more than what 5K allows. Also what is the step-dad doing, because it sounds like he is doing fuck all

[@Natalia-ns7jf]

I don't think he doesn't want to help, I think it's more about the amount. He earns 5k a month, so she should be taking more than 1-2k. Especially when she knows he's trying to study and better himself which in turn will help her out. It's a sticking situation and you are right, where is her husband?!

[@Dayday-xj3hc]

This was the comment I was looking for, I’m sorry but tough tits. I feel bad that mother that she has cancer but that’s were it stops. I need more details. Why is she in so much debt, the amount her son gave her, why didn’t she put so aside? Was she working before becoming ill? And like you said before where tf is the step-dad?! People need to stop guilt tripping kids, if they can help then great, if they can’t oh well. You had them not the other way round.

[@Natalia-ns7jf]

@@Dayday-xj3hc agreed and what is her husband paying for? Why can't he find an appropriate travel alternative for his wife?!

[@gerainice]

And he pays her healtcare treatments.

[@lamekiahunter2911]

Yeah he is giving her over half of what he makes. And she wants to take almost all of his payout to fix her car. He already pays for her insurance. He is doing more then his part.

[@Kaleiyaangela]

😂😂😂😂it only took 4years🙌🏾😂😂 James loves fuhad so much.. we all need James in our lives

[@Aliensanonymous_]

“That’s not for me” sent me each and every time lmao. That toxic shit isn’t my swag 😂😂

[@mariesoni7189]

I have replayed minute 15:39 more than 10 times, James's blush was just genuine. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Itsjustt_Ariahh]

Honestly this is the one and only reason I'm always excited about Mondays ❤ Love you guys🌺🌺

[@Jewels1]

Monday and Wednesday are my favorite days 😊

[@chanelcreating]

The way this episode had so much tension wow

[@no.6377]

The finger bites😂

[@ToTBlacksmith]

I think Ellis is doing the 75 Hard fr. Man just seems different and the chest he hit James that “its only for the strong” sent me. Favorite part of a 🔥 episode

[@aqhamafaku6581]

Fuhad calling James Daddy sweeted me 🤣🤣🤣the finger bite always gets me i love these dudes😂❤

[@MikeHawk-ot9ue]

Had to stop myself from listening to the Spotify version, cause the Visuals are always so crazy 🤣

[@LareenJr]

Same here bro 😂

[@ashleemarie8779]

They have Spotify 😅 omg !! Thank you for this comment lol

[@AlwaysSadé]

I love that they all lowkey tried to pump Elis' spirit back up after the top 5 ❤

[@torreydean7139]

The “cream pie me “ got me that’s why I got a yout onna way 👶🏾

[@Jewels1]

Congrats lol

[@agirlhasnoname567]

The unwarranted honesty in this comment is sending me 😂😂😂😂

[@mahoganysweets67]

Look at your soldiers, conquered the land and crowned you!! Swimmers were swimming!! Congrats🎉❤

[@Niamhmariephelan]

Got me too. 🤣

[@LifewithMckenzzie]

Now listen ; I’ve come a long way from healing and growing . But after listing to that list of toxicity and wanting 2 of those things in a relationship tells me I still need some more time to heal 😂😂😂..

[@SummerTyme2023]

I saw the title...and knew James was going to be a problem 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Lovebirds1021]

The sus counter at 12:25 is killing me💀 we need more of this!

[@jermillionairetj1741]

I think Ellis and Rem should personalize their backgrounds next with a combination of their personalities like James and Fuhad . That would look dope when the camera switches . Also love to you all you guys in the comments and the showmen themselves you guys don’t know how much I laugh to myself while commuting to and from work . Keep up the great content peace and happiness to you all. Love from Baltimore , Maryland .

[@joibody]

“Moment on the lips, lifetime on the hips” is sendinggggg me 😭😂

[@onceuponacatika4328]

Yyyessss Ellis!!!! "Its only for the strong" Ellis is out here upgrading to daddy!!!!!

[@limitlesspursuit]

Folks never understand when a parent makes you feel like you’re to be used and treated like you owe them for having you. 47:09

[@randomlyjumping5514]

Coincidence, I too got my BMI checked, was around 16% - as a 37 year old American. I feel like I achieved a gold medal looking this good -now I just need to get my money into the next tax bracket 😂😂

[@SnapShiftMedia]

On behalf of all South Africans, we love you guys too 🤟 Lmao for sound effects 🤣🤣🤣

[@patricksibanyoni5413]

We?

[@staymultistan954]

I need to know WHERE James gets all his t-shirts, they are always fire!!!!!

[@Mochalate]

REM covering his mouth when James called himself a little fatty😂

[@A-wk2ss248]

15:33 I YELLED😭😭 ik james wanted so swing round a lamp post so bad😭

[@ovuyosivela5757]

Loved the episode❤, and South Africa has 11 languages, and they are as follows: Afrikaans, English, Xhosa,Zulu, Swati, Ndebele, Tsonga, Pedi, Sotho, Tswana, and Venda FYI ❤

[@moimeself1088]

How nice to have a SA themed ep on Heritage Day (well, close) 🎉🇿🇦🇿🇦

[@khomotsomashego7473]

🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿😁

[@TurtleOnTop]

The way I almost spit all over my laptop when Ellis said "It's only for the strong" 🤣

[@junglekxngtalksanime]

That last thread 😭😭I apologise on behalf of my fellow South Africans🇿🇦🤣🤣also peep more confessions from SA

[@snowypetal1]

😂😂🇿🇦Finished

[@angel_numbers]

God's calling and she's airing it😭🤣🤣🤣man said she had a good run🥺

[@spacedrifterrrrr]

​@@angel_numbersnow they're gonna think we're all like this😭🤣

[@ladi9868]

@@angel_numbersshe did 😭

[@junglekxngtalksanime]

@@snowypetal1 🤣🤣🤣

[@tezlymseniorsakutu7335]

“Keep your head out that fcking window!” - like, whyyyy??! 😂😂🤣🤣

[@Bulelwakoko]

14:44 Tulisa catching strays 😂😂😂😂😂 what a throwback

[@n.ele23]

As a South African, a lot of us can relate to the Zulu tweets 😹. It’s like they don’t want us to participate in the giggles, cause not all of us speak Zulu here 😑

[@paige06181]

Love the bond…when Fuhad said talk to me daddy!…not it only took 4 years 😂

[@sheenaestheticss]

“Im wrong for you” James is hilarious 😂

[@anapaulaborba9376]

5 months later and this episode still hitting hard 😂😂😂😂😂

[@misscoldasf9643]

Hving an emotionally tough day.....thank u guys for bringing this joy and sunshine 🌞 in my life 💛

[@yooussss]

The amount of times I’ve busted out laughing mid work is ridiculous! Love you guys for all the laughs you provide ❤

[@shaz4709]

James is utterly inlove with Fuhad...IRL😂😂

[@lihlengwenya7637]

James' journal entry - "He called me Daddy🥰🥰🥰😍😊"

[@mickeishalondon6197]

Ellis is jus so adorable 😂😂 and james at the end is killing me 😂😂😂😂

[@annagh2351]

Been binging old episodes then this pops up, best feeling in the world!

[@bubblestcat]

Fuhad got James BLUSHING like😊😊😊 !!! He can't contain himself.cnt even help it.

[@nkosiyabohabana7216]

Thank God, South African tweets made it again on SNG😂😂

[@katlegobrandon256]

Which ever device I grab to watch new releases, I subscribe each time😂😂 hoping I'm giving a good plug to the next thing they watch

[@leeleeongad]

These confessions makes me wonder if I’m living my life too mildly 😭 cause tf you mean cream pie in me?

[@taylorgirls1184]

right😂😂

[@brm_1221]

I haven’t seen this much lip/fist bitting in a single episode 🤣🤣 James and Fuhad are sendinggg me!!!

[@kandicetate5172]

When James mentioned the Dyson I yelled so loud I thought I woke my husband up! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Stalli23]

The fact that I could relate to a lot of these I’m glad my toxic years are over but the moments remain 😂👀😜 crazy lol their excitement 😂😂😂😂

[@nn8742]

James getting gassed cah Fuhad called him Daddy 😂😂

[@carrybeetle1199]

Love the gold jewelry on Fuhad, and the watch with the black and gold mix is fire!

[@Joyjoy12149]

15:33 this made my day. This is the highlight of James’s year:😂😂😂