How I Have Money (MY TOP ASKED QUESTION) | Sophie Shohet

[@debracannonrndsn2564]

Those comments are what the delete button was invented for. I heard a similar comment about my car recently from a surgeon who drives a much more expensive vehicle. I told him that after 46 years working as a professional and 22 years of college I earned the car I drive. Finished my doctorate at 60. Still smashing it.

[@clair233]

Bravo xx

[@anonymousstylist6149]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@josefineoijer]

👏👏👏👏

[@tsi4357]

Yaaaassssss!!!!!

[@StudioxYasmin]

Debra Cannon,RN,DSN 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@AzzyLand]

As another woman I am so proud to see you and others succeed. I'm so sorry that some people try to devalue all the hard work it took to get you to where you are. (btw I'm obsessed with that blazer, it looks amazing on you!)

[@saragrunnet8197]

Yaaaaas 2019 is all about bringing other women up and supporting Them in Whatever choices they make!

[@instagamrr]

I find it's like when people ask how you've lost weight - they never want to hear diet and exercise lol, they hope there's some secret solution that they can replicate. Human nature!

[@sunpi]

So happy to see you watch Sophie too!

[@firehorse9996]

@@saragrunnet8197 If @Sophie Shohet had any desire to "bring other women up" she would hire them! As assistants, interns, pay them well. But look at the attitude. One designer handbag would fund a scholarship for a young person! She's a piece of shit. So full of herself.

[@rachelw6237]

@@firehorse9996 You're a jealous piece of shit. Sophie doesn't have to give you a job or a scholarship. You lazy jealous piece of shit. Get your own instead of wanting other women to give you something.

[@brittanymcmcmc9730]

I'm gonna be honest- I don't always follow you for your fashion because my sensibilities are a bit different, I follow you for your thoughts and opinions. Your frustrations on the car video comments being misogynistic are SO ACCURATE. You saying that you don't have children/debt, is also a huge reason why you can afford what you can and people who disagree with that are totally stuck in old ways and need to calm down.

[@ellisrose8017]

Brittany McCarthy very true

[@GeorgiaAndrea]

Being single and having my own business, but at the same time, I am also a pre-university teacher, my colleagues especially kept on asking me why I can afford some luxuries. Well, first off, people can't consider there are people who are from well-off families maybe? But for my case, my business is doing very well now so that's one of that reasons.

[@legendarycreatormindset]

wow what an insightful comment!

[@MariaFR12]

@@GeorgiaAndrea To be honest, I think its a very personal question, even rude. Just like how much you weigh. You need to be close to someone to ask that.

[@GeorgiaAndrea]

@@MariaFR12 Yes, because it is rude. But people just wouldn't care. They just say they want to know because they're curious. I got a colleague who literally asked me, "You must have been able to buy that house when it's still cheap, didn't you?" I mean, what does that even mean? Is she trying to tell me I wouldn't be able to afford it if it's expensive? Smh.. people can sometimes be unbelievably rude but I just had to deal with it.

[@freemeow]

Some men get jealous when a woman owns a car they desire , some feel that a performance car is wasted on a woman .Not all of course! But they are out there . Great vid

[@not-even-german4892]

True.

[@xindirella3294]

How a man sees something shouldn't influence you too much. They want women keep small and dependent so why should you listen to them?

[@身赤-w3w]

'performance' car. it's not even legal to use it at it's full potential 😂😂 so idk what these men are bothered about.

[@dianareynolds2446]

My dad left my mom pregnant at 16 and my mother worked so hard to finsih school work and take care of me Now she is a criminal defense attorney and when me and my mom go around w an expensive car or an expensive piece of clothing ppl look at my mom disgusted and rolls eyes the only thing i wanna say is FCK OFF

[@cordapeleconfeccoessaopaul6163]

SO TRUE

[@cjjjones8123]

I sometimes think to myself why am I watching Sophie's channel as I don't ever buy luxury items or have an interest in doing so and I don't purchase expensive cars. However, what draws me in is that I find Sophie refreshing in her honesty, she is really likeable and most importantly she seems to have integrity. This seems a rarity amongst Vloggers, many of the successful ones have become conceited and mercenary and almost completely detached from reality. Sophie, please continue to be you.

[@lon2336]

I think the main difference between our lovely Sophie and other KZbinrs is that Sophie does KZbin as a hobby, it's not her main source of income. Other KZbinrs have made their channels into their full time jobs so there's that constant pressure to keep earning. This is when they become sell-outs. Sophie has nothing to lose on here so she stays honest, and she's always humble. This is what audiences want! :)

[@cjjjones8123]

@@lon2336 yes good point but I do think it's possible to earn a living from social media and still be "real" and have integrity but seems some just seem to let fame go to their heads and just be too greedy. I have unfollowed some volggers recently as I feel they have become obnoxious. Sophie seems different and I respect that about her.

[@2021-j2d]

Lon I concur

[@starstruck522]

Sophie's integrity and honesty is what shines through, and has kept me as a subscriber. She seems so genuine !

[@TheOnlineViolinTutor]

@@lon2336 not only that, but the constant pressure to literally shill everything and anything!

[@acarli1]

Love this girl. I am 40 and I have 10 WEEKS left of college. I HATE MY JOB SO MUCH. When I’m done I’m going to get a killer job. 💥 Always find your videos useful and helpful and I can’t believe those hate comments. Cheers 🥂 to you for not letting it bother you. Wish me luck!! Thanks to you!!! 💋❤️🐰🐰🐰🐰

[@madinaakberova5020]

Anita Carson good luck! You are inspiring!

[@stephanierichards1096]

good luck Anita

[@FannyGodMother]

Congratulations! I know how hard that is. I’m right there with you! Big things ahead :)

[@Polkadot2]

You know what? Just READING this is an inspiration. I'm 35 and thought I was too old to go back and do a postgraduate. Thanks for this!

[@wioi]

Anita Carson it's been 1 year. I hope that you have your dream job!!!

[@mysticfox1563]

The sugar daddy thing is disgusting. Why is it so shocking to some people that a woman can make her own money?

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

It's a ridiculous thing to say! 😂xx

[@Jacob-xd3ko]

Mystic Fox It seems reasonable considering the amount of time that it takes to sit down, make, and edit all of these videos that many of these female luxury KZbinrs have.

[@ingridorellana700]

Exactly!! It’s so annoying

[@SilSolo]

@@SophieShohetOfficial agreed. I would add that there's ways to be very mindful about money. I can go around in designer stuff if I wanted to and for me it's like I have a job and I know how to spot out good stuff at thrift shops. after that since I'm very big on shopping secondhand first, there's ways to find fantastic deals from secondhand sources. also I hope I've done enough homework to have bought the right items that I can resell to get back at least a good amount of the initial money with which I might refresh my designer collection. It's down to managing the money that we do get and being smart with it.

[@TelzAll]

Lol i think ppl just dont know what she does

[@maiyacooper3573]

"Nothing you say can affect me"... i felt that on a spiritual level 😂

[@saracatts3346]

I too was very successful as a younger woman in a male industry and the number of other women that just automatically assumed I was “sleeping “ my way to my position was shocking but the same women took time off -only worked only their hours whilst I worked and learned all I could and all the time just so I could be better, and to earn the same as my male counterparts, I was lucky that my mentors also saw something in me and helped me be better.....I just want you to know I as another woman am truly proud of your achievements and you are really an inspiration to us all, sending you love from Australia

[@lauceilia9839]

Sara Hardin s

[@OYah137]

Sara Hardin RIGHT. I noticed that people project who they are on others. Many women would not mind sleeping around to be successful. That's why they assume that about women who actually work hard.

[@not-even-german4892]

Waouhh true words. Thank you.

[@sarikatimmi]

Sara Hardin ugh tell me about it. i know that scenario all too well

[@fruitygarlic3601]

We really are horrible to each other. We're all a product of our society, and are more disrespectful to other women than we'd like to admit. It's all fun and games to talk about "uplifting our sisters", but refuse to change the mindset in _ourselves_ that gets in the way of that. A successful woman should be a role model, not someone for other women to scoff at and make accusations about.

[@applejellypucci]

Not having children really helps, I agree with that.

[@emmalisatilli9784]

April P. I totes Agree when single and 33 hahahahaha

[@bayharborbutcher8132]

The question is, what will you regret more, when you're 70

[@MiaMizuno]

Having a child, still having career, but yes, the difficulty level raised alot.

[@squirrelhallowino29]

yea but she still young. by 26 if she wanted she was already pretty fine to do it. And having kids, family, is just love.

[@miominipony1276]

That's sad

[@arcybarrios]

People ignore the power of being #childfree and #ambition It is (as we see with you) a powerful combination. Well done @sophieshohet for always looking up and taking risks in order to achieve your goals. There is no success in mediocrity.

[@not-even-german4892]

Yesssss true.

[@november132]

and then one day women end up wanting kids but it's too late and then end up alone not being able to hold on to a man. but it's all good, they got bags to keep them company.

[@kniveschao6431]

@@november132 I'm sure it'd be easier at that point to find a partner than if you weren't able to look after health and appearance due to lack of time and money spent on children. Plus there is a tragic amount of kids that need to be adopted by people who have the resources to provide them an enriching life. So actually she'll have a lot more than bags to keep her company.

[@katarina5651]

@@november132 or not.

[@itsalwayshalloweenexceptwh5118]

@@november132 There are 80 year old women who still don't regret not having kids, and there are still people telling them "You'll come to regret it, you'll die alone and regret not having someone to take care of you or be by your side". You have to accept that there are women who will never want kids, that there is nothing wrong with that, and that even if someone ends up regretting their decision not to have kids in their fertile years that it's also their business/responsibility to deal with the consequences of that decision.

[@Ella98960]

The men that say those things are jealous because you’ve got a better car than they have!

[@g.pearson4726]

I’m a traveling healthcare consultant and currently in school And the number one question I get asked is how much money do you make 😳 I think that’s the rudest question on earth It’s so classless 😤 I bought my first Mercedes at 21 and people would say a man bought it for me (to the point where they wouldn’t speak to me) or that I’m to young for the car...that’s a retirement car (says who🤣) Meanwhile they never paid attention to the fact that I worked as a licensed manicurist/nail tech. From the age of 14 years old until I graduated college I paid my way through college no student loans until I got scholarships (at the end) I worked while they chased boys and partied (I partied too but not as much as them) And I always tried to grow every year as a person (reading listening to elders ) It’s about sacrifice and tunnel vision on your goals What I hate most is... it usually comes from other women Instead of say you’re an inspiration to me, girl thanks. It’s hate. That’s why I cut off all friendships in my early 20s and now I have driven female friends (I met on the road or church or seminars). We motivate each other and no drama I think bcuz I have a huge predominately female family ( all successful) and I grew up in the beauty industry... I cheer and try to pull up the next women. But it’s really hard for women to do that for each other And it makes me So sad So, Sophie I love your videos and I think you are a great influence I don’t even live in UK (🇺🇸) but I think your ambition can radiate around the world Please continue to do what you do and much love and positive vibes going to you and your family Thanks for sharing

[@kniveschao6431]

You're an inspiration to me!😄

[@g.pearson4726]

Awwwww. Thank you You completely made my day 😿🤗😍 Sometimes we’re just living our lives We don’t realize by sharing are struggle stories that we can encourage and inspire another girl or person To keep pushing until she reaches her goal💃🏽💃🏽 So even if you’re not exactly where you want to be ...YET You’re going to get there😜 Share your journey Someone is watching you and you’re inspiring them Thank you for your kind words They truly made my day 🤗🤗 Maybe one day I’ll finally sit still long enough to do my own youtube 😂 Im wishing you nothing but love, joy, filled dreams, and blessings 😁

[@nineplustentwentyone26]

You're right! I grew up in an environment and country where women usually don't choose to life each other up and always choose to bring each other down to feel better. Thank you for sharing your experience! 💗

[@MY-kh9hx]

The moment you said “education is SO important” officially made you my favorite youtuber. I got to know you lately with your video “you only need one designer handbag” and watched a few videos of yours since then. You do have good thinking as shown in your videos about how woc is not worth the money, how we should only get one designer handbag and now this one! I do like fashion and I appreciate pretty things (not necessarily designer’s and luxurious). At the same time, I try my best to remain rational with my purchase. You are the very few fashion youtuber who are not encouraging extravagant and irrational spending, which is very much needed in the internet / real world! I feel that some KZbinrs saying that “luxury is not necessary” “its bonus” “my money comes from investment” dun sound sincere to me. And I can’t see the hardworking side of them like I see yours. Btw, When my kid tells me one day he wants to drop out of school, I will definitely share this video with him.

[@napandora]

I’d like to tell you, you’re such an inspiration to me! I’m a 31 year old IT professional, saved a lot last year and followed you advice and bought myself a Chanel classic flap 2.55 in caviar leather. I’m thrilled can’t wait for it to arrive

[@TheGoldenBahia]

I loved this video and I love hearing other woman’s success story. It’s ignorant to assume a woman can get her own money and deserve what she shows. Keep inspiring us!

[@Commentator541]

Diana Sh I know. I may be to aggressive when trying to push people to make a positive change in their lives. And what Sophie is saying is exactly how it is in life. You set a goal, and you work towards it. It saddens me that women think marriage is the way to obtain a lifestyle. It might help you monetarily, but noone in their right mind would think that living with a partner you don't love or even like only for the money is a good idea.

[@bethsheehan3488]

Absolutely adore you , Can just tell how genuine, and selfless she is . Humble and inspirational. I definitely aspire to be just like you

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Hello Beth! Thank you so much for your kindness - I always hope that these types of videos help and inspire, as opposed to coming off as me bragging (which I'd sooner punch myself in the face than do!) I thank you for watching my friend!xx

[@not-even-german4892]

Adore God.

[@MurielsAnimatedStories]

I've only now discovered this little gem and I honestly believe it's one of the best videos you've ever done. I like your content because it does offer me some escapism, but I also like you as a person because you're not one of those empty-headed influencers who are only in it for the attention and/or money.

[@nefertiti1052]

Are you telling me someone actually called you a gold digger? I'm dying hahahahaahahahahaha. Also how rude.

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

It's immature if anything lol 😆😆😆 Tbh, I think from the language used in these comments that they are from young boys (they always come from the car videos lolo) xxx

[@KB-mi8un]

They mistunderstood! You are a GOALdigger 😉

[@not-even-german4892]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@TeenaNikole]

Sophie I’ve never commented on your videos before; I’ve watched your many “luxury haul” videos and my apologies, I assumed you were an airhead who had no money management skills and just hoarded bags all day. I have a new level of respect for you and I 100% agree on your thoughts on education! Now I also understand why many people look at me and think that I am an airhead who does nothing but shop all day, in reality I am a CPA making close to 6 figures, I own a house and a condo with my husband and education is KEY! I am guilty for judging you just like others judge me, but you are nothing like what I thought and you’ve earned a new subscriber :)

[@chrismajor69]

I came across your channel about a year ago. I’m a bloke but I find your videos addictive lol thanks 😊

[@msjanetteok]

Sophie, I’m an avid watcher and supporter of your channel but may I suggest a what’s in my bag video? I love all your handbags and would love it if you started a series or what’s in my bag videos of your collection! Much love xx

[@laurabromley1835]

Sophie you are so inspirational! I’m currently a university student graduating this year with almost £60,000 of debt so watching you and your drive to do what you do keeps me motivated! I love your videos and hope you, David and the rabbits are all doing well!👌😍💜🥰

[@TracyJane67]

I’d love to be jealous of you Sophie, but you are such a sweet girl it’s impossible not to adore you.

[@not-even-german4892]

Jealousy is a sin. Regardless

[@skurinski]

@@not-even-german4892 actually its envy.

[@M.I.A105]

@@skurinski they are similar

[@mjm2253]

I am sorry you are pushed to explain and justify your earnings. Women are always treated with disrespect in this area. I personally really enjoy and learn from your content and advise. Best wishes and happy new year

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Hello Melissa and thank you so much for watching!! Ahh, please don't feel that I was pushed to do this. I totally don't mind talking about it, the sexist comments I thought I'd add in for comedy value (even though they aren't at all funny, but in a way it's weird how such opinions still exist!) Hugs to you my friend! xx

[@mjm2253]

Sophie Shohet | Fashion Beauty Lifestyle thank you for responding. It helps allot to me to hear your honest and sound advice about money and investing in ourselves before objects! . It’s important dialogue to have- how to make sound decisions and such. All the best.

[@wsk5nwytscnkfsu]

Seriously. In the meanwhile those men who show off their luxury watch or car collection never get these questions.

[@methsonhthila4341]

I don't think it's nobody's business where anyone gets money to buy whatever.

[@pumaraebon80]

Agreed but it doesnt hurt hearing a successful woman speak about her hard work and how she got there!

[@misanthropelife]

How about if it’s bought with corruption money?

[@heliaalves9062]

Precisely. It's her business how she got her money, she shouldn't have to justify herself.

[@heliaalves9062]

@@misanthropelife That's to be investigated by the police. If someone is not a police officer with the proper authorization and all the relevant paperwork to investigate, they should just mind their own business and leave people alone.

[@themango9644]

@@misanthropelife how would you know it's corruption money

[@Kim-rc8ym]

Loving the pink shades on you hun...we could all add more pink into our lives

[@krystalmckinsey350]

So true Sophie. Your words really hit home. I worked in the same job for almost 10 years without finishing my schooling. I finally decided to quit my horrid job and now I'm completing my BSN in nursing. Loving and being passionate about your job simply cannot be beaten!

[@jaimea563]

👏🏽 SOPHIE 👏🏽 IS 👏🏽A👏🏽 HARD WORKING 👏🏽WOMEN! 👏🏽💕

[@SS-ho4wx]

I can’t believe people jump to conclusions! People don’t realise the amount of hard work to become successful. You’re an inspiration to all women because you are so goal driven and positive! You wanted more for yourself and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, people are just jealous! Carry on with what you’re doing! Xx

[@DaughterOfChrist1997]

such an inspiration. so classy and successful ❤

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

You are so kind, thank you for watching Toyin my friend! xx

[@debrajarnagin9865]

Your great, telling young people to get their education. So good of you.

[@lilithenymph572]

Motivational and self development are my favorite videos on your channel ! Today I finally purchase my first CHANEL bag, which was one of my goal for 2019. As a woman, I find it very rude how people could assume that you benefit of a certain lifestyle thanks to a man. And even tho, how it is theire business ?! But I can imagine that comes from frustration and weird curiosity... Anyways I send you love and kisses from Paris, LILITH

[@nayomiohouo840]

congrats on your chanel! double congrats on accomplishing a goal for 2019 so early!

[@lilithenymph572]

thank you so much ! I've noticed that people here, Sophie's community are benevolent and soooooo nice @@nayomiohouo840

[@SamaraAmjad]

Congrats on purchasing your Chanel bag!! I’m planning on buying my first chanel later this year, which I’ve been planning for the last 2 years to make it a goal of this year to purchase it 💕✨ I’ve recently gotten into watching Sophie’s videos again out of sheer excitement of knowing I’ll be hopefully buying the bag, but also I love that her videos are quite refreshingly different and honest in comparison to other Luxury “haulers”. There’s something quite genuine and humble about Sophie’s videos that’s really nice to see.

[@jazzyjenkins]

Big,big congrats on your new Chanel bag.

[@lilithenymph572]

thank you soooo much

[@aokiQ]

I have to apologize to you Sophie because when I found out about your channel, I actually think you have got wealthy family! After you have talked about your career and how to worked your way up, becoming who you are now is so inspiring. I initially was interested about your handbag videos,but now I enjoy this type of videos the most from you! Thank you so much!🙏🏻

[@Minks4All]

This video right here is one of the many reasons I freakin love you. You serve up hard topics, discuss them brilliantly and always with such realness ♥️🙌🏻

[@JazminFlakita]

Minks4All I love you both ❤️❤️ omg Im so happy you know about each other

[@El-Wifer]

I watch your videos for everything BUT shopping. You have so much more to share other than shopping. BTW - everyone always asks my husband what he does to figure out how we afford as much travel as we do. It all comes from my work - but no one ever bothers to ask me what I do. They just assume my husband pays for everything, which is far, far from the truth.

[@klrp3248]

Genuine question, are you still attracted to your husband?

[@ArianaBerkeley]

That's true Wendy. But it's been a known fact that men have always earned more money than women and a lot of them do have house wives. But yes there is hard working women that do earn twice more than men, just not a lot of them where I live that's for sure :)

[@El-Wifer]

I don’t understand the context for this question, but since you say it is genuine I will answer. Yes, I am massively attracted to my husband. We are married 18 years this year. He is amazing. Would be interested to hear why you questioned that. Honest question.

[@klrp3248]

@@El-Wifer i know a lot of women aren't attracted to men who make less than them. It's just human nature, so i don't think of it as necessarily as bad. But for the women who make it work despite the odds, i would like to know how that goes? I know one couple where it was a stay at home dad and the wife was rich, but do not know enough about them to know how they've made their marriage work for so long

[@El-Wifer]

K. Lyn Richele I guess I just don’t buy into the idea that it is human nature. I never had it in my head that my husband was supposed to support me financially, so I was attracted to who he is as a person, rather than his wallet. That sounds harsher then it does in my brain 😀. I had conflicting messages growing up. My Mom said it is just as easy to love a man who was rich as it to love a man who is poor, so you might as well love a rich man. My father raised me to be independent and never have to rely on a man for money. My husband is massively supportive in every way that I need. He is working his own business and making it grow. He works harder than I do. If he was sitting around the house, I would be unhappy because he would not be contributing. But he contributes in every way. I don’t know, perhaps I am odd, but it works for me. I love and respect my husband for who he is. I hope that helps.

[@laurareven2548]

I like how you use others hate to help and give advice to us, really good advice to be honest. You are a wonderful woman!

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

That's what I thought! 😂xx

[@ShadesOfBrown]

Sophie! You are a true inspiration to me and many other women I believe. I’m 23, trying to figure out my “niche” in life and I find your videos soo insightful and helpful. You are amazing!

[@LX12399]

We’re so nosey 😆 But tbh you seem to work hard, have a successful social media profile and are married (feel like it’s easier with two people) so makes sense! It’s other people I often think this of. Those really young girls in their early 20s who seem to buy Chanel after Chanel after Dior and I often think to myself hooooooow 🤷🏻‍♀️I work hard, own 2 properties blah blah yet still can’t have ALL these things constantly. It’s an honest question I want to ask sometimes so I can see where I’m going wrong 😆 I’m very open so always think it’s good for people to share hints and tips and help others. It’s a good thing :)

[@ariallelee5917]

LG XO perhaps those young girls you mentioned do not own 2 properties? It is the matter of priority, some people prioritize fashion over functions, that's all. Or perhaps, they just simply born in rich family.

[@georgia7636]

Honestly, I reckon their parents are rich to begin with, or, they are social media personalities (at the right place in the right time).

[@LX12399]

Arialle Lee this is true...

[@LX12399]

Georgia Clare maybe! It’s just so common that I sometimes think “you can’t all just have rich parents” and “where am I going wrong here” 😆

[@TheOnlineViolinTutor]

For those girls, their parents are rich and give them money to live on. For the other KZbinrs, they can earn around £/$10k per each advertised instagram post for example, or even per video on youtube. You only need one of those ads per month to be able to afford 2 Chanel bags per month and pay the bills etc. *Im talking about those channels with 500K+ subscribers. Its very easily done and its crazy money.

[@annalisa2341]

Hi Sophie , I am in university currently . I come back to this video every so often to get the motivation I need . I’m studying accounting while running a nail business and selling hair . But some days are low . I am determined just like you . Thankyou so much for being inspiring .

[@wendychen2828]

I really enjoy your candor!! I can't believe people ask you these things!!! I grew up where it's just impolite to ask about people and their money situation etc.....but it's good to hear that you don't let people's negativity get to you. People are heinous sometimes especially when they can hide behind the internet! It's appalling what people are willing to say hiding behind a cloak of anonymity.

[@aggiebandana9920]

Hi, I found you by accident and this is the first video I watched...I am hooked, you are so eloquent and intelligent. You are like a breeze of fresh air, finally someone who does not say "like" every second word. 🙂

[@katarinapopadic700]

Wow, Sophie, you keep getting more and more gorgeous 😍

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

You are so sweet Katarina! Thank you! And thank you too for watching, enjoy your evening! xxx

[@kirrasudwal9759]

I just watched your handbag video and assumed you are around 23. Then I incorrectly assumed because of your amazing handbag collection, that you just must be a rich kid who makes videos about their stuff. I am glad that you put up this video, because it is inspiring. Obviously, you worked hard in college, worked hard in your job, then worked hard to start your own business... for years; and your type of success is real, inspiring, and attainable. I loved that you said to stay in school, i'm currently 23 feeling a little discouraged at times because I am soooo close to finishing yet I feel so far. But your video inspired me to work hard, and reminded me that the type of success I want in my life is reachable as well because I dont want to have debt/kids either. Like you said, you did not have to be as honest as you are, so I want to thank you for it. What you said was refreshing, again i am inspired, and i hope nothing I said offended you. I apologize for misjudging you initially and this is a reminder that it is none of my business how others make their money.

[@hodacci]

You are such an inspiration. I got a master degree in Finance then I decided to move to Europe due to some personal issues. I started another Master from scratch, at the Uni we only study extremely theoretical economic topics I feel like I am wasting my life there and when I see all of my friends already in management positions, I feel like such a loser. Right now I want to build a career in digital marketing but even the internships are requiring experience in the field, so I decided to volunteer as a digital marketer in an organisation and and I am financing my studies working in a company that's 3 hours far from my city. I am also creating my own website to practice the digital marketing related topics thay I am learning online. I hope that life is going to be nice to me. Greetings from Germany!

[@KarinaSwan]

You are doing great! Don't feel bad about these changes and what seems to be set backs. I know exactly how you feel. I've been there, not once... also felt like a loser in comparison. You have to remember two things: stop comparing and to each its own. Your life is yours, so you can't live it like somebody else. I know people who got where they wanted early and are miserable at their jobs overall and they talk about, but still stick with it. Not judging, just making a point, this is their choice that is good for them, in a different way. If you made a choice to move, that means you knew you just wouldn't be able to go with another choice and that decision is good for you.

[@MsLittlestar85]

Good luck and don't give up! 😘

[@WolfKissedKate]

Best of luck to you on your way!

[@hodacci]

Thank you very much I wish the best for you as well 🙏💗

[@g.pearson4726]

One day this will be an excellent and motivating story. Actually I already find it to be so Keep striving You got this

[@dennfsc.1262]

This is the first time I am watching your channel. I normally opt to not watch people who speak about all the luxury items they can afford. I like that you are brave enough to be honest and give viewers a window into your financial struggles and achievements. It is your honesty that made me subscribe.

[@michelemitchell9314]

I really appreciate & love your honesty. I can't afford 99% of what you show on here & that is OK! I like watching your videos because they are entertaining and you are genuine. Thank you ❤️

[@umangu]

Are you wearing Marge Simpson's Chanel suit?! Jokes aside, this is the smartest luxury brands channel I've seen.

[@drewisours]

Omg! I had a flashback of that episode!! Haha

[@Fie_ms]

Sophie I rarely comment but you’re an inspiration for my partner and I. We’re also based in Surrey and both young professionals, and while we’re blessed to have been educated this far, you absolutely showcase what hard work results in, and in such a humble yet informative way. Keep smashing 2019!

[@laurennicole5457]

This video perfectly embodies why I follow you. It is so inspiring to not only see the "luxury items" but also how you got there and your dedication and passion to hard work and paying off debt. In a world full of social media influencers who get paid to be pretty and stylish, it is so refreshing to have a strong, empowered woman enjoy the finer things in life AND give merit to school and hard work and good financial habits. Thank you for being a great role model :)

[@YumiHirugani]

That jacket is very chanel. Gorgeous 💖

[@nidaanida1751]

You are the only youtuber that talks about luxury things that I watch and doesn't make me feel crappy about myself. You are very humble and smart. I am a 26 year old girl who works at a bank and I absolutely hate it. I started learning german and as soon as I am able to I will quit my job and move to germany to study marketing. I have always loved it but in my country there are very little opportunities to do what you love. So I am taking that risk and I will change my life because there is no chance I will be stuck here forever ! thank you for being inspirational

[@HannahAngel123]

I moved from the countryside to London in August 2018. Since moving here, I am studying a degree part time alongside working full time in the sector I am studying. I could not be in the position I am if I didn't move to London. Thank you Sophie for being one of my biggest inspirations for making the change!

[@pixie3760]

How terribly brave of you to discuss finances publicly. You're an amazing woman Sophie.

[@callalily_6084]

Some men can be meaner & more judgemental than women. Men who are insecure often feel threatened & jealous when they see a successful & confident woman. Don’t let their comments bother you Sophie. They’re not worth your energy & time. Your subscribers know how hard you work for your money.

[@McKayyBee15]

You posted this video exactly when I needed it. I’m graduating this summer but I’ve worked in one of ‘those’ jobs throughout my entire degree simply because money is such a necessity. I hated feeling like I was sidelining my degree because of the stress of needing to earn for the here and now. This year I decided I had to take the hit and I’ve massively reduced my time at my job in order to prioritise my degree. If I could go back in time I’d tell me younger self that my degree will be my best tool in the long run. Thank you for posting this video, it’s such a reassurance hearing that my goals are tangible

[@yaniho97]

Hi Sophie, just the other day I paused on one of your videos and showed you to my mom, telling her about your life achievements and how you promote hard work and spread motivation 😂 you’re one of the very few women I really look up to because I have always wanted to have a fulfilling career since I was a child. I’ll be graduating by the end of this year and following you has given me so much inspiration and motivation

[@LFK77722]

Woman who came from nothing and are now on top, mostly know how to stay humble! You seem so sweet! Im binge watching youre channel since i found it today😍

[@clair233]

My haters have predominantly been Male too. Strange isn't it ...

[@nadinaslotuik7466]

I am so sorry that you have to hear from people who don't bother to watch any of your other videos to understand just how hard you work to get where you are. I am proud of you and inspired by you. You not only focus on the fun (which I love watching, especially when you and David go shopping) but you always emphasis that you live within your means. They are just jealous that you had the drive and focus to do what you do and be amazing at it. Never let the haters get you down. You Rock!!!!!

[@ShannonMoody]

Okay.. I have been watching you for a long long time. I love watching your channel. You should not have to repeatedly say how you afford what you purchase. I understand people are curious, but by just watching your videos people should see you are a hard working woman that makes smart choices when it comes to your purchases. Love ya!!! Keep doing what you're doing!!! And definitely ignore the trolls!!!

[@ccccc541]

Hi sophie, i found you through your handbag reviews. But i just wanted to say that im staying for you - youre such an inspiration! Your transparency, wisdom, empathy, and work ethic is so motivating to me. I really enjoy listening to your journey in life and look forward to watching more of your videos that have a bit more ‘advice’ aspect to them. I hope you still continue to drop more of these nuggets of wisdom. I’ve yet to see all your videos, but I’m hoping you talk more about your career journey and freelancing. It all sounds so exciting! :)

[@SueEmmDee]

KZbin has some amazingly ignorant viewers. So, I see you and Mr. Shohet as middle-class where you focus on a luxury lifestyle and you work in commerce for good money. I am bewildered by some folk.

[@LisaCulton]

I fully understand. Even though people *know* that I am a medical doctor with a long, successful career and I have degrees in Engineering and Finance in addition to medicine and I used to be a military officer - *men* are constantly insisting that my wealth comes from being married a couple of times. They refuse to accept that I was financially successful before marrying anyone.

[@tattooedreef2081]

I would be really interested to hear how you approached asking for pay rises. I have always felt very uncomfortable about the idea of asking for me (which I know plays into every company's hands, terrified staff not daring to ask for more) so would be very grateful for any tips. I work in the media industry and you are always made to feel as if you should be grateful for the scrap you have because there are a 100 people desperate to take your place. I have always felt confident in the initial job interview to pitch for the top end of the wage bracket but after that I become a bit meek.

[@MB-dg3lr]

Look up some of her older videos, in some of them she did explain how she went about it.

[@tattooedreef2081]

Ah awesome thank you, I will search through her previous uploads.

[@rike2040]

I believe in older videos Sophie already talked about it! I remember her talking about it! It was along the lines of: write every achievement down, remember what you do daily and how you benefit the company (eg financially) and when you feel like you’ve done enough for a raise talk to your supervisor and remind them of all the achievements you’ve had in their company.

[@lixiaoxuan8223]

I feel extremely empathetic. I went through a time when I worked from 9 to 5 and then stayed at the office to study until 11 in the evening. It was a horrible but meaningful experience, because all the hard work pays off now! Well done, Sophie. I admire you!

[@zare009]

These days its really hard to ignore the sly comments the whispering you occasional see but we need to learn to block that out and live your best life!

[@darcyferrigno]

Makes me so sad to see other people be mean, put others down, or assume about others instead of lifting them up and congratulating them on hard work. I am proud of you and your hustle. Let's stop being jealous and start working harder and lifting others up. Good for you and your success and your character Sophie!

[@Katyuk367]

I think on the one hand you shouldn't have to explain why / how you have money. On the other hand though I think it is very motivational for people too. I have always got the impression you work extremely hard for what you have and no-one should begrudge you. Love the videos xx

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Hello Katy, thank you so much for watching! I have absolutely no problem sharing :) It's that motivational bit you mentioned, I feel quite passionate about (hopefully) inspiring people! I was in hellish debt at one stage of my life, it'd make me sick to think about it - if I can help one person get out of their situation with the advice I give then that's brilliant! Hugs to you my friend!xx

[@lanafeulner4083]

You have a lot of class. That is a very good compliment these days! Keep up the good work and don't change. I have my own business here in the US and would NEVER change it for a job.

[@canmckenna2556]

You’re so real and this is why I continue to watch you

[@helenlesczynski3989]

I’m a 41 year old attorney in the States, no kids, and I just love you! You are so calm and focused in your presentation. Favorite KZbinr

[@UGAgradRN]

I think it’s interesting that so many men felt this way when viewing your car videos. My husband is a Porsche lover (has a Cayman, but his dream car is a top tier 911), and when I showed him your video about picking up your Porsche, his comment was, “Maybe that’ll be me one day!” He really wants to experience European delivery one day.

[@amelyatanesia8660]

I love the fact that u do youtube as a hobby and something that u enjoy. it makes ur channel more real and not so under pressure. I might never buy any of the branded stuff but i enjoy seeing u doing it and all the vlog. love u sophie

[@egleliis978]

Sophie, you are such a blessing! You continue to inspire me with your work ethic, intelligence, how down to earth, humble, kind and beautiful you are! In this day and age you’re a true example of a woman that I aspire to be. I hope to see many more videos like this as true viewers care and love to see you speak out and hear your thoughts 😊🤗💕

[@parisanna24]

Sophie you are absolutely refreshing and such a smart businesswoman. You remind me so much of my mum, who is an audiologist and worked her way up to becoming the senior audiologist of the clinic she was working at, and the next step for her was to leave and set up her own business. So much of what you say is so similar and reflective of other industries and these type of videos you do are my favourite, as well as your ability to speak with such intelligence which seems to be very rare amongst beauty/fashion influencers :)

[@brownbeauty8945]

God bless. You are beautiful, inspirational, transparent and intelligent. Thank you for having the courage to be on KZbin the way you are, it's refreshing.

[@katjaaa]

A beautiful successful woman!!!! I can’t believe it!!! Girl you inspired me so much!!! I have so much anxiety too cuz I don’t know what to do in my life and I’ve only got two years of high school left! Thank you for giving me hope! Love you!

[@xxfaithyxx1]

I, above anything else, appreciate the sheer honesty of this video. Sharing the truth of your experience is really inspiring to watch Sophie! #WorkingYourWayUp

[@jennifer1623]

I've watched your videos on and off because I like what you have to say about different bags and luxury items, but after watching this video I have a deeper respect for you as an individual, I appreciate the honesty and wisdom in what you shared. Thank you.

[@guybythedoor88]

Sophie is an amazing luxury lifestyle style consultant. Thank you for this, Sophie!

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

I thank you for watching as always my friend!xx

[@guybythedoor88]

​@@SophieShohetOfficial 💖💖💖💋 💋 💋

[@sherryb7018]

We are entitled to the life we choose for ourselves. We only have one life to live so it's our right to live it on our own terms. Anyone who is unhappy with that needs to grow up and find their own path. Do whatever makes you happy Sophie. You're not hurting anyone. You deserve what you have. Well done!!

[@yuliaott2473]

Good advice not only for women but for a man too. Persistence is the key! Also your blazer is gorgeous

[@aishac4981]

Sophie I’m so glad you emphasise the importance of education to your followers. I feel like in this age of social media so many younger people are seeing social media influencers who have gone from being modest to having disposable income and designer things. In reality, this is so uncommon and we have to strive for more!

[@courtneyamelia13]

Love you Sophie! Sad you have to explain yourself... but I loved hearing your journey! You deserve every luxury item you own, cause you’ve clearly worked bloody hard for them! Good on you!

[@elbaul.magico]

I really admire women like you that really work until they reach what they want, you're an inspiration Sophie 💜

[@ttmoore8750]

I'm a fan of your careers and hobbies that fund your lifestyle overall. Don't feel a type of way of how people think of you as they usually wanted to want you to have and never stay to watch any more videos.

[@mvincoy2962]

thanks for being real, sophie. you're one smart and beautiful human being who can guide others on how to go through life with strength and grace.

[@amysmith5585]

Wow Sophie! Thank you for sharing. I love your honesty, vulnerability and willingness to tackle subject matter that is not always the easiest to discuss. You inspire me!😘. Hugs from Texas!

[@k213389]

I’m not even that interested in buying luxury goods but I always appreciate your input about them. I feel like you are genuinely passionate about fashion and I know that if I ever do decide to buy a designer handbag, you’ve educated me so much about what is and isn’t worth the money that I know I’ll make a good choice. And you aren’t telling people to go into debt or not to live within their means. A lot of other KZbinrs kind of tacitly endorse irresponsible spending and you never do.

[@samianesar7033]

The troll comments are absolutely shocking! Absolutely disgusting comments.

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Oh there are worse than what I showed Samia - and they are sexually disgusting!! Thankfully I don't get them often! xx

[@leisav8538]

Sophie, I’m glad you did this video and I really hope young viewers really listen to your words. It takes time and motivation to become like you-you’re smart, savvy and beautiful. You don’t have to justify yourself to anyone, must young viewers need to have motivation and you certainly give it to them if they choose to listen.

[@MoneyMagicAU]

We love u Sophie! Such a natural, inspiring yet relatble women x

[@anac5656]

Wow I really admire you for answering this, considering how you’ve made it clear that you started from the bottom, cleaning bathrooms and being a secretary. You don’t owe anyone any sort of explanation, it’s no one’s business what your finances are.

[@nenenena09]

You're so refreshing and so welcoming, I'm sure that anyone would be lucky to befriend you. You know your truth and you should never let anyone make you feel less than. You have such a great channel and I live vicariously through each video lol 😁 You're so amazing Sophie! Remember, No one can make you feel inferior without your consent- Eleanor Roosevelt 🙄

[@TheeBratzDollxox]

Sophie you are a CLASS ACT! 👏🏾 the way you handle adversity with such grace and poise is admirable. I’ll admit while I’ve never been bold enough to pry into anyone’s financial business, I would also wonder how people could afford such a life of luxury, not because I was being nosy but mainly to see if it were something I’d be interested in getting in on! Lol It’s perfectly achievable to make a great living and live a lifestyle that’s comfortable and enjoyable when you play your cards right. I feel like part of people’s curiosity stems from that fact that much of our society isn’t very well educated in maintaining good financial health or acquiring abundance. We’re essentially taught go to school ~~> get a job ~~> save, save, save until the day you die. It’s not at all that simple, and that ideal life path often puts people in more trouble and confusion with finances. It’s a vicious cycle; adhere to the status quo because it’s all you’ve been exposed to, and then question, even as far as resent those who take a different route. I think if we teach ourselves financial wellness, maintenance and responsibility, more could have enough to not only get by, but also have the option to treat themselves and loved ones to little luxuries like you show on your channel every now and then, at least, it won’t feel so out of reach to so many people.

[@jonathancoe4591]

hi sophie i get so pissed off with the comments you must be selling your self to get all the money you have if you where a man you work hard for it . i have so much respect for you that you have worked hard for wot you wonted and it is to see such a driven couple as you two are and davied must be so proud to have a lady with beauty and brains on his arm

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Can you imagine Jonathan, standing on a street corner to pay for things to put into the next youtube video 😂 It's crazy talk! lol I thank you for your kindness and for watching my friend! xxx

[@lofibunnychill]

This video made me start to think of my career path and what I should focus on to earn more money. It's really inspiring. Thanks for sharing, Sophie.

[@jessicalemke4571]

When the Queen Uploads, you’re early. Always. Love you! Also have a letter ready for you! xx

[@SophieShohetOfficial]

Awwwww! You are so kind to me! Thank you for watching Jessica, shall keep an eye out for your letter!xx

[@chestnutbean1885]

Sophie, this was incredibly inspiring. I just started my first "real job" after spending years after graduating university in a rut. I hopped around several unsatisfying, temporary positions to make ends meet and thought that I was never going to claw my way out. Now I work in marketing at a very nice place with very nice people and have finally realized that I have ambitions and goals to work toward that will result in my long term happiness (not just survival lol). I love hearing success stories like yours. Awesome and empowering.