STALKER BEHAVIOR: What Is Happening? | Psychotherapy Crash Course

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Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC

Támara Hill, MS NCC CCTP LPC

Күн бұрын

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@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Stalker behavior is very intimidating. You can learn about psychotic stalkers here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqDbm6mmasqZqpY
@joakimber8831
@joakimber8831 9 ай бұрын
I can see now you are referring to the extreme... Not the norm in general political communication over relevant issues.
@kanemarco1145
@kanemarco1145 Жыл бұрын
I live here in Horry County SC and I've been stalked and gaslit for years. Watching your videos helps me to understand the mindset of the weirdos that are obsessed with me
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry. I'm glad my videos are helpful. It's less lonely when you realize there is a label and set criteria of behaviors to go with what you have been subjected to.
@doriangel97
@doriangel97 4 ай бұрын
@@kanemarco1145 hey! Just wanted to say it may help to keep your location hidden from anyone online including youtube comments
@AshleyNave-p2b
@AshleyNave-p2b 8 ай бұрын
A good thing to be aware of is stalking. Stalking is serious, and shouldn't be taken lightly.
@JamilaJibril-e8h
@JamilaJibril-e8h 7 ай бұрын
When people are poor and orphan they go insane over strangers I met people by accident they think after 15 years I got shit against them they record follow search and also track my home without one single proof someone did them wrong so they group and whine about me imagine 15 years ugh being local sucks and being forever poor is mentally draining I guess dumb people will never grow up to be normal adults either female or male 😂😂😂
@RB_Covered
@RB_Covered Жыл бұрын
My Mother's sister was harassing and stalking me. I had to get a restraining order to regain my peace she tried so hard to take from me. Glad I fought back. She didn't give me my peace, so she wasn't allowed to take it from me. Protect your peace by any means necessary 🧘🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️🧘🏾‍♀️
@prettydollswagg
@prettydollswagg Жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend constantly watches me from fake profiles and the second something good pops up for me she then starts the smear campaign’s. I am currently in the process of requesting a restraining order.
@curiousone6435
@curiousone6435 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video, Tamara! Sometimes, you hit the notes that other professionals do not, and this is one example. I am not sure any of these profiles fit for me, but I have a neighbor in my building who is unstable. I was friendly to them during some novel and crazy circumstances (mass shooting in our building that made national news, he had nowhere to go that night because he lived right next door to the crime scene). He constantly texted and called thereafter, then came to my apartment, and I told him to stop. Then, he moved to harassment via the common areas. The police have been called by the building multiple times; I also called about a month ago when he threatened my life and I got some video of it. The police encouraged me to get an ASO but here in DC, it's meaningless -- smaller requests to set boundaries have only amounted in escalation and more threats. He seems emboldened by a lack of consequences, and whenever anyone challenges him, he retaliates and plays the victim. People like this suck. I am already dealing with a whole lot. It doesn't help to have this extra shit piled on and know the system is enabling them and making me feel like I'm a crazy complaining "Karen."
@Jeanninecomeau
@Jeanninecomeau 9 ай бұрын
I'd like to see more in depth on rejected stalkers. Women go through this a lot.
@ROBERT-fd4kl
@ROBERT-fd4kl 3 ай бұрын
I have known 2 very handsome guys, and they could almost not leave the house due to females stalking them. This atrocity does happen to both genders.
@deidrabrey4043
@deidrabrey4043 Жыл бұрын
I've been stalked three times. Once from work for many years which was gang stalking because of a vindictive and very powerful boss. Then twice by neighborhood stalkers who seem to want to violate my property boundaries and call the county on me for perceived violations to harass me or spy on me (walking by with their smart phone pointed at my house surreptitiously recording). Now we have the couple next door who trespass, call in contractors to do things in our wooded area and walk back and forth in front of our home like they are just going for a walk but always stop in the exact same spot and bring out their phone like they are measuring something and going to the far property line they don't share with us to stand there and look up and down it like they are evaluating it. They release their German Shepherd on us when we are on our own property but within 50 feet of the property line and tell us we are lucky they have an invisible fence. They are well off people: a middle aged couple with two kids. He works from home and she doesn't seem to work at all. What kind of profile does this fit? We did nothing to trigger this behavior.
@NopeNotTodaySatan
@NopeNotTodaySatan Жыл бұрын
Breaks my heart to read this. All I can say is I have been there. I was for years. Remember that you did nothing to deserve any of this. If you believe in a higher power ask/pray for protection. Fear is what they want. Don’t feed them!! It takes a while to change how we react due to all the messed up things they do to us. Keep your head up!!! Hugs ❤️
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht Жыл бұрын
Its sickening,its creepy,and its weird.
@justinbeck4197
@justinbeck4197 Жыл бұрын
Tamara..you are excellent. This scene has so long needed a more feet-on-the-ground professional response.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@venussuki
@venussuki 5 ай бұрын
I am being stalked by my neighbor. God help me.
@MWear-x8t
@MWear-x8t 2 ай бұрын
I was for three years. We had to move to the other coast, change our name everything. I still have ptsd and when I hear a sound outside I wake up scared she found us. I got so tired of people telling me to just talk to her and make up, when she was caught trying to burn our house down (of course we caught her and had no proof, so no one believed us). Anyway, get far far away if you can, don't waste years with this situation, the person is crazy and won't stop and will poison others against you if they can.
@stephaniemillsaps3626
@stephaniemillsaps3626 10 күн бұрын
LOVE 🙏 🙏 🙏
@BBFCCO733
@BBFCCO733 Жыл бұрын
I was stalked for years by my father in my 40s. I was his punching bag and that of the family for years. I was beaten, put down and abused for years until I couldn't take it anymore. I cut ties but he tried everything...email, phone etc. Because of our goodness we sometimes blame ourselves. They just need someone they can control and they don't change. It took me years to realize that I deserve to be happy and they are not worth it. They are dangerous people who want to destroy us because they believe for whatever reason we deserve to be destroyed.
@truth4utoda
@truth4utoda Жыл бұрын
This was needed!! Thank you love. Short & sweet
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! You're welcome! And thank you for watching.
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise Жыл бұрын
Tamara! I have to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I am being stalked by a police in my town for 2 years now! The station doesn't do anything. I have no support system. Your videos bring me so much hope, and peace. I watch on repeat to just gain some insight! Can I please request a video on Stockholme Syndrome, and tips on how to get away from your stalker with a new life? If you're able to 💗 i struggle with this because he is a cop, and for so long I convinced myself he was just protecting me. I even feel bad that I am going to take him to court eventually Thank you for your videos, and bringing a little hope to me! It feels better knowing I am not alone 💗
@taraarrington2285
@taraarrington2285 Жыл бұрын
Good for you look out for retaliation though
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise Жыл бұрын
@@taraarrington2285 thank you! That does cause me a lot of anxiety, but I am trying to safety plan and move away first then file charges
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
❤🤗This is so humbling and so so kind. Thank you. And I'm sorry to hear this is happening to you. It's very imprisoning and overwhelming to say the last. It can truly derail you from the "normal" way of life. It sounds like a triangle you are in between this man, his station, and yourself. Getting out and away is essential to peace of mind. Praying for your continued strength.
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill thank you so much for the advice, Tamara! Thank you for your prayers and kindness 🤍💗 I am working everyday to start a new life! 🙏
@brandonsalisbury7182
@brandonsalisbury7182 Жыл бұрын
The whole stalking thing just like trying to imagine looking through the eyes of a killer is fascinating psychologically wise! However the obsession of another person is a strange thing though common obviously…love the video I’ve been thinking of taking on a career in psychology after finally changing my life post loosing my wife after her passing last year & years of addiction!
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
I agree. One of the reasons why it's such a topic on my channel and an area of study for me in the past in higher education. We don't know enough! And I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. My condolescens.
@beverlyjames07
@beverlyjames07 22 күн бұрын
My stalkers admitted they have been stalking for 9 years after the relationship ended and durng the relationship. Creepy and no shame. I won't stop reporting them and hoping for justice.
@larasudomlak7128
@larasudomlak7128 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Tamara! That was absolutely brilliant! 💯
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
🤗thank you. Glad this was helpful to you!
@vala4229
@vala4229 Жыл бұрын
Is unwanted gifting a manner of stalking? Someone I dated for a few months leaves gifts at my house regularly, usually little things, but sometimes elaborate. I've told him numerous times to stop coming to my house and that I don't want his gifts. He also calls/texts but I never pick up or open the messages. This has been going on for two years now. I thought he'd eventually take the hint and do the right thing, or meet someone who's interested, but it's become more frequent lately, I've just spent the weekend upstairs in my house where I could pretend I'm not home and where I wouldn't be caught off guard, this past few days have been exhausting and depressing.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Yes. It is considered stalking. It can also cross over into harassment if you have made it very clear you do not want these gifts, the relationship is over, and the gifts won't move the needle any higher. Sounds like this is what you did. I'm so sorry you are going through this. You really have to protect your mind because the stalker can make you feel trapped. The best thing to do is let people you trust know what is happening, have the police pay him a visit (mental health check or warning) if you know where he lives and have enough proof of the behavior, and consider getting security cameras to catch his behaviors around your home. It's sad but you may have to get a bit more intentional.
@greendragon4058
@greendragon4058 Жыл бұрын
Yes, if it's unwanted it's stalking be careful with this one bump ring around say hello but they gave you this and I gave you that may expect something from you. Get away from them send stuff back just it's hard to disengage from somebody like that
@vala4229
@vala4229 Жыл бұрын
Thank you both for the advice, I have told my family and close friends, one friend witnessed the behaviour recently. As far as evidence I have call logs, unanswered/rejected calls going back about a year, unopened messages on various apps going back as far as the end of the relationship, and some photos of him standing outside, but I don't have his address, I just know he lives in the city an hour from here. His previous girlfriend had similar issues with him too, I believe he even showed up at her workplace.
@cammiek3348
@cammiek3348 Жыл бұрын
Yikes! Get a restraining order. He’s trespassing on your property! My house was violently broken into the same day a creepy x of my friends’ was going to drop off a package at my house. Thankfully I wasn’t home, but needed to get my front door replaced:(
@0annonymous
@0annonymous Ай бұрын
I never thought unwanted gifting would be a form of stalking, I wouldn't think so because obviously it's the thought that counts if it's something you can actually use 🤔
@victoriam3894
@victoriam3894 8 ай бұрын
This was such a good and insightful video
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Glad this was helpful.
@buddyr1337
@buddyr1337 8 ай бұрын
Is there such a thing as a heavy footed stalker?? Because bayyyyyyby!! My neighbor’s follow me from room to room 🙄 then all I hear on the other side of the wall is and ear slidin and heavy breathing 😬
@deannavalenzuela6680
@deannavalenzuela6680 Жыл бұрын
My husband is a therapist and one of his clients is stalking him and he was placed on administrative leave beciase she claimed they’re in a sexual relationship. We are so lost and have no idea what to do cuz she hasn’t been threatening or aggressive like the predatory type. What the hell do we do? The police say we can’t do anything!
@Godess763
@Godess763 Жыл бұрын
Time Will show Who Has been stalking who. All I know this has got out of control and theirs more than one.
@robertah2353
@robertah2353 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos 🙏🏾
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!!
@lasseharbitz9506
@lasseharbitz9506 2 ай бұрын
Great info!! Thanks for sharing!
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын
You're welcome! And thank you. Glad this was helpful.
@After_this_He_will_return
@After_this_He_will_return 6 күн бұрын
Thank you, Tamara.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill 6 күн бұрын
You're welcome!
@After_this_He_will_return
@After_this_He_will_return 4 күн бұрын
@TherapistTamaraHill God bless you. ❤️
@GagaLuvr15
@GagaLuvr15 4 ай бұрын
I'm being stalked by someone who does claim to have OCD. She lies a lot so I have to take everything she says with a grain of salt but what you said does fit her.
@MWear-x8t
@MWear-x8t 2 ай бұрын
Can you do a whole video on the hitman stalker. I have a friend whose stalker is actually her mother. She tried to poison her. When my friend realized this, she went no contact and that is when the staling started. She then sent someone to beat her up horrifically. She is scared for her life, but her mother has ties to the police in the area. None of her other family even believe her as the mom acts nice around them.
@greendragon4058
@greendragon4058 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the breakdown, I was in a relationship for 5 years with a stalker. They are scary. I ran that cuz I was naive plus I have three kids to take care of myself so course you don't see the red flags people always ask why didn't you see that, sometimes you don't. This guy had taken my keys and made a copy of my keys one night when I was out with friends I came home my door is locked, when I got my door open this guy had his hands wrapped around my neck and picked me up he started yelling at me. I went to see management have the apartment building explained my situation submit change my lock so he couldn't get in and I used to carry my keys on my inside pockets of all my jackets and coats I was good for about a week and just when I felt like I was doing okay oh, he would find ways of following me. I would go out with my friends I actually went to a concert and when my friends offered to watch my children received nine and 10 calls threatening her she called me and I had to rush home but he was gone. He would stalk me at night when I was at home he he would blind me loud noises out my room. No matter what store I went to he was there. There's no worse feeling or scary feeling. I bought myself a knife and a gun for my own protection and took some classes and remembered my military training, be aware of your surroundings all the time. I tried to explain to my landlord who said you've already changed the locks on the doors Place whatever I moved two entirely different he sure ask me for another 6 months and I guess he got tired guess I haven't heard from him since. I think the worst kind of specters of police officers I had one of those when I moved here to my this town oh, so I went to the police department because no matter where I went he was there he would always follow me in his cop car, know your enemy I had dirt on him I went down the police department got a restraining order and I'm not so much a restraining order because he is a police officer they wouldn't let me do it but I had to go another route, has never bothered me since. It is it's the scariest situation you could ever be in it sucks but situational awareness is a cute big Q and to take some self-defense. Courses. I don't know if this was live or not cuz I just got home from three days access appointments always and I'm glad you kept it up because this is serious and if you do plan to leave this fit is personal relationship please leave this person stash money away do whatever you have to but leave and don't go back because they won't change
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
You're welcome! This is a tricky topic so most people benefit from knowing exactly what they are dealing with. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. You are right that some people do ask why you didn't "see the signs." It's not that easy. And just because you had to "go along" or you suffered behind this person for years doesn't mean you are not intelligent. Stalking is a "power" and the predator uses it to manipulate, triangulate, trap, and control. It's by the grace of God that you get out! I hope things are better for you now.
@greendragon4058
@greendragon4058 Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill Oh The Thinks you so much and slick back at some of your other videos just as a refresher. I no longer have either one of those stickers in my life now and it's nice but you still retain that trauma, and sometime series feel very very alone, but coming here and try a little Community I feel good because I'm not the only one and we can discuss it. Had to take my friend to the hospital said Chris had to get a hotel room cuz we had to drive into the big city we got everything taken care of but thanks for asking and thanks for letting me know so appreciate your channels as far as therapists go you're the only want to subscribe to now I'm dropped all the other ones thank you thank you
@greendragon4058
@greendragon4058 Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill oh I shouldn't have texted you right after I took my night terror medications sorry if you can't read it LOL
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
hahahahaahahaha - my mom says the same thing. No worries at all!! I understood.
@destinymarks2802
@destinymarks2802 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@eleanorweiss4217
@eleanorweiss4217 Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this informative video, Tamara. Have you ever considerered adding the "taboo" (not allowed to talk about) type of stalking to your educational materials, that being Organized Stalking (OS) ?
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
That's a good topic too. I mentioned just a little bit about this recently in my videos on gangstalking. If you haven't seen it yet, I encourage you to. One is a live chat and the other is a video.
@PerryMcCall18
@PerryMcCall18 3 ай бұрын
A stalker eviscerated a friendship of mine with an online friend. This guy started talking to me about some some stuff at first until I mentioned about fitness stuff. Things seemed fine until he was aware of a friend of mine online (calling her Victim for obvious reasons). He told me to say hi to Victim for him and I found it wierd at first. Mind you this has NEVER happened to me before and thought he was a long lost friend or something like that. When I was dumb enough to do so, I had gotten a message from another friend asking me "what's this I hear about you saying had to Victim for someone who has stalked her for years?" I was so devastating after reading that message that I didn't even know what to do. Not only I've been told that the jerk who used me as a messenger boy had stalked Victim for years, but also I was blocked as well! I wanted to apologize for not knowing about this at all, but I was told that Victim has officially cut ties with me entirely. I was so pissed that this happened. Not only being used, but also ended a decent friendship I had without even knowing the situation that happened years ago.
@EmpressEmpress-53
@EmpressEmpress-53 Жыл бұрын
I have been dealing with a predotory stalker for almost 4yrs. I only knew him for one month. I never had sex with him. He is still angry that I wasn't sexualy attracted to him. 😠. I tried to get a restraining order and was denied. I have left the Country and he still stalks. He's a hacker, so I have struggled to get rid of him. He also has other hackers helping him.
@tonimaric4867
@tonimaric4867 3 ай бұрын
Oh God I think if you are on social media you should definately not include your photo anywhere 😮 stay safe. 🙏
@roxannegalvan5927
@roxannegalvan5927 Жыл бұрын
I love in Syracuse NY and this woman is having me stalked by several people, she's scheming to take my life based on false things she's saying. I can't do anything until someone comes to the door. Do you have anything that I can do about this situation?
@johnhanaly2943
@johnhanaly2943 5 ай бұрын
My ex is a stalker and so are her siblings. They even manipulated my child to be a stalker. I want to know LESS about stalking, LOL!
@DuckTickler
@DuckTickler 5 ай бұрын
My uncle stalked a waitress from sunrise restaurant all the way to the hospital when he found out that she was having surgery. He uses his phone to take silent pictures of her without her permission. Add even has a poster made of one of the pictures that he's taken. He goes to the restaurant daily keeps asking about her and buys her gifts. It enrages me and my mom because he will not listen to reason problems borderline what other dangerous activities that are inappropriate and have gotten the cops called on him. Throw the cops don't do nothing about it.
@Zekrom569
@Zekrom569 5 ай бұрын
Very well explained. I think Baby Reindeer is a good example of the acquaintance stalker
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise Жыл бұрын
Is there anywhere online for a support group for victims of stalking? I am stalked by a local cop. I am female! Just looking for a support to talk if there is any group online available?
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
This is a good question. I'm not aware of any. I'm sorry. But that would be a great place for most people struggling with this. The National Center For Victims Of Crime may have something they could recommend victimsofcrime.org/stalking-resource-center/.
@nocturnalrise
@nocturnalrise Жыл бұрын
@@TherapistTamaraHill thank you very much!! 🤍
@kimstrippin
@kimstrippin 8 ай бұрын
​@@nocturnalriseI may have some resources for you
@0annonymous
@0annonymous Ай бұрын
I didn't know there were different stalker types, thanks for pointing this out I THINK the reason why authorities didn't want to deal with it for so long is probably because either they don't get stalked themselves, or they DON'T want to be bothered and think you can handle it yourself, or you SHOULD be able to I had a situation of my own one time regarding a landlord who started displaying strange behavior until I got some legal help and put a stop to it He was supposed to be working on an empty apartment for a number of three or four months and it dragged on into six or seven months with hardly any construction going on There was a strange TV on my available Bluetooth device list, and it wasn't my TV and there was no neighbor upstairs at that time The landlord was living upstairs part-time and going home real late into the night and returning real early in the morning, so I'm wondering if there was secretly something going on at home.... So I noticed just some minor disturbances when he snuck into my unit as I was gone and he also showed up suddenly right after I came up onto my own doorstep to enter my own unit No, I had no car, I was on a bike that never should have been able to be heard, which indicates he was probably watching and most likely jumped out the upstairs window to suddenly show up out of nowhere because the upstairs window was right above where my entrance would be I filled up my big soap dispenser with leftover soap from a refill jug and it was gone about 3 days later, and no it wasn't me that used that much soap and no one else would've used it This was a pretty big soap dispenser so I'm thinking he did something with my soap I also noticed another disturbance, missing coffee filters and a filthy glass cleaning wand, and the cleaning pad had a load of soap on it and it had to be reassembled The glass cleaning wand was clean when I put it up, so I'm thinking the landlord most likely came in and did something, I don't know what but that was likely where my soap went I think what could have happened is he took the soap, filled up his own container or even used it for something, spilled it and then tried to mop it up real quick with my glass cleaning wand As I mentioned, when I noticed the cleaning pad looked like it was disturbed, which by the way is not how I left it, I went to fix it and noticed it was slimy When I went to wash it out, that's when I realized the landlord did something with my soap and then used my glass cleaning wand to clean up an apparent spill That's how I can tell you he was sneaking in my unit because things were disturbed and out of place in a way I never left it The soap has been replaced and the cleaning wand has been cleaned and the cleaning pad attached to it has been repaired Now before leaving home I remove the soap, toilet paper and anything else that can be a potential target until I return home If I'm going to be gone at a time the landlord may be here, I set up a security camera If possible though, I try to either stay home so I can watch him or I try to be close enough I can watch remotely and then just show up on him if needed The reason why I don't move is because I don't have the money to move, I have nowhere else to go but a storage unit, I don't have help moving, and I'm not in the best physical shape to do so
@uwotm8373
@uwotm8373 7 ай бұрын
Experiencing this rn, just want to be left alone
@eric.mahoney6158
@eric.mahoney6158 2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry your experiencing this these people have disappointed me beyond anything that could. I'm sorry
@larasudomlak7128
@larasudomlak7128 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
💖thank you for this contribution. So kind of you. And you're welcome!
@billywiggins5181
@billywiggins5181 Жыл бұрын
why stalk me im a nobody ??
@robertah2353
@robertah2353 Жыл бұрын
Same here, this is what I don’t understand
@hugmc
@hugmc 11 ай бұрын
It’s not about you it’s about them there just crazy fecks ❤
@sinceresong9907
@sinceresong9907 Ай бұрын
Been happening for 7 months...It's now starting to bother me. A interference in my life.
@pinkcoco603
@pinkcoco603 10 ай бұрын
Is getting unwanted emails and DM considered stalking? It's just a compliment, not anything violent or manipulative. In this case, should I tell him one time that I feel uncomfortable getting personal contacts?
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
Watching w video and writing ✍️ got wrong one 🙏🏽🙌💯🙏🏽🙌🙌
@Glowup4Us
@Glowup4Us Ай бұрын
You would be surprised that a stalker could be an extremely NOSY , neighbor who tells outrageous tales about you. Constantly making complaints about you to several law enforcement agencies, intelligence agencies, etc. Will follow you to your job and try to get you fired. Will hack your phone to get into your business. Ppl are crazy and need to do some serious time in prison. Maybe they can get the proper help they need . These ppl need special treatment asap! SMH!
@leilani8262
@leilani8262 7 ай бұрын
I love your videos. They are helpful. I am being stalked by a n African American lady who has two children. I went to the airport and she followed me there to harass and control me. She is horrible. She's convinced they're going to make a movie about me. Where do they're ideas come from. There's never going to be a movie about me. I have gone thru several phones because of her.
@RakedLeaf
@RakedLeaf Жыл бұрын
Need to know this from the professionals
@Annastesiacrane
@Annastesiacrane 2 ай бұрын
Record everything
@WilliamLaneWright145
@WilliamLaneWright145 3 ай бұрын
I got something to say. She stalked me. Not the other way around. They brought her next door and hacked me. I didnt do it to her.
@Masterofallytps
@Masterofallytps Ай бұрын
Can we also get bullying to be illegal in all 50 states? Because they are also stalkers as well.
@kimberlydavis5034
@kimberlydavis5034 Жыл бұрын
How do you keep yourself from a predator stalker who you don't know? How can you protect yourself from a predator stalker?
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
That's a great question! So many people ask me this. The best thing to do is "prevention therapy." What I mean by this is prevention is key in protecting yourself against a predator as much as realistically possible through antivirus programs on your electronics, ensuring you have cameras or security where you live and even in your car if you can, and taking precautious steps ahead of time. Stalkers can always bypass our boundaries but you can at least make it harder on them.
@lanehennefer5896
@lanehennefer5896 Жыл бұрын
Get a concealed carry permit and start going to a gun range and they might start wondering if they are messing with the right person.
@LN-fi1nf
@LN-fi1nf Жыл бұрын
@@lanehennefer5896 Unfortunately, this is good advice. I would absolutely consider an unknown predator stalker a life threat. I had one, didn't know him but gained his attention through my lifelong habit of regular outdoor running through neighborhood streets. I always dressed in dark baggy sweats and t-shirts/hoodies for the very reason of preventing notice. He followed me home and would wait for me in his car, just far enough away that I couldn't get a look at him. He wanted me to know that he was stalking me as he would stop his idling car pointed straight at me and just sit there. He also flashed the headlights and honked at me. It's the scariest experience I've ever had. Not just in the moment, but true fear throughout the days knowing that I was in danger and someone wanted to kill me and was right there waiting. I opened my garage door early one pre-dawn morning to find his car sitting there idling and waiting. I moved, to a whole other part of the city. That worked, left him behind. But, I do now own a gun.
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
Hi hate to admit this too @L N and @LaneHennefer, but this is a good suggestion. As a Believer, I try to believe that what you sow, you reap. And I try to believe that, if we are smart and wise in how we manage the stalker, we will be okay. HOWEVER, there is a reality among us all that reminds us that predators don't just go away. They continue their behavior which will require you to make some adjustment to your life, routine, and safety. Sometimes learning how to defend yourself is also key. Sadly.
@LeAnne-uw3wp
@LeAnne-uw3wp Жыл бұрын
Stay away from me stalker I'm not interested
@Tonis.world0
@Tonis.world0 4 ай бұрын
@@LeAnne-uw3wp ok sorry :(
@blackswann9555
@blackswann9555 Жыл бұрын
Global pandemic now
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
It can certainly feel like it.
@tmrsfitz1967
@tmrsfitz1967 Жыл бұрын
Sad where are the crazy’s destroying our world over jealousy seriously 😳 🤣🤣🤣
@150ryder
@150ryder Жыл бұрын
We have an old man stalker, follows his targets around town in his Grey dodge truck then rage up n down there house with metal pipe calling them by name to go outside, poor guy is really sick we just leave him alone😊
@PropheticWords-oy3gb
@PropheticWords-oy3gb 3 ай бұрын
My stalkers on line right now
@DogMommy.
@DogMommy. 28 күн бұрын
Honestly I have to say i feel very ashamed. I stalked my boyfriend only because he has been acting weird and hiding stuff so yes I was wrong and got carried away and passed by where he said he was gonna be I feel really bad about it that I got that obsession. Idk 😢 I hoping I never get like that again it's not worth it.
@freddys12
@freddys12 3 ай бұрын
What if they’re having me followed…?
@beautifullife3344
@beautifullife3344 Жыл бұрын
How do we respond to these types of situations?
@TherapistTamaraHill
@TherapistTamaraHill Жыл бұрын
This is a good question. That live chat is coming up! Stay tuned.
@brianvogel5322
@brianvogel5322 10 ай бұрын
Can we cure stalking
@hugmc
@hugmc 8 ай бұрын
No narcissists can’t be cured
@KingdomTalkMinistry
@KingdomTalkMinistry Ай бұрын
Lord Jesus ✝️ 🕊🙏 protect your people.
@PropheticWords-oy3gb
@PropheticWords-oy3gb 3 ай бұрын
I get cyber stalked everyday. 24/7.
@DuckTickler
@DuckTickler 5 ай бұрын
My uncle has been stalking a waitress at a for
@SD-rm5ty
@SD-rm5ty Жыл бұрын
My son's school teacher implied stalking buy mentioning he drives on the street over from the street I live on.. and he's a cyber stalker 😑 But I got a ....
@adventureswithlayla9681
@adventureswithlayla9681 Жыл бұрын
I have to ask. This guy I had a one night stand with this guy. I did something stupid but I find that his friends and could be wrong , but his friends watched my page in the past. Why I walked away. I walked away didn’t see a future. He is in my mind. I try to get him out of my head. But at the same time his friends like certain things I say and so online I am not interested in him but at the same time I feel like I’m being watched. Hope it’s not in my head just my intuition tells me they watch me.
@kylielogan8771
@kylielogan8771 Жыл бұрын
Oh and changed everything, again no contact, blocked, no social media under my name new phone, iPad etc!
@DTaz1105
@DTaz1105 7 ай бұрын
The problem is with the political stalker that is what you're supposed to be doing you are supposed to stalk all of your politicians and make sure to hold them accountable to the words coming out of their mouth 90% of the time. Unfortunately it is a form of stalking but you know what it's the way the government works in America and you have to stop them to keep them accountable otherwise they will manipulate the situation to their advantage. It's like you need to stock them to prevent their narcissistic grandios behavior.
@MaryJane-h3g
@MaryJane-h3g 3 ай бұрын
💀
@RitaDoran-p4v
@RitaDoran-p4v 2 ай бұрын
My ex set up a fake profile with my real face he bad in his gallery but he put sexually based intro and im modest. I reported he was taken off site and to prove it was him week later same site he creates on of him his face saying he liked andv❤ my profile I left himb8 month's ago no contact he totally was a future faking Narc just cant believe he gets pleasure out of doing this when his behavior caused me to run away.......
@MistresstheMediator
@MistresstheMediator 8 ай бұрын
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