Staying Connected to Feminine Energy in Toxic Situations

The key to staying connected to feminine energy in toxic households, work environments, friendships, and more ❤️
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[@nicolataylor536]

This video came at the right time..

[@praisekatumba967]

I currently can’t afford the courses. But I’m so grateful for these videos you make. They’ve had a huge impact on shifting my life for the better ❤

[@AloTaro]

I admire you for taking him to court

[@FatimaD.-yj7tk]

This is something I’ve been thinking about ever since I started watching your videos . So happy that you finally covered that topic ! Thank you so much for all the wisdom you share, you’re truly the best Alexis, love you❤ I hope us glow girls can all grow despite our circumstances and the situations these teachings find us in . Sending much love to all of you ❤️❤️❤️

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much Fatima 🥰

[@AppyGVlogs]

Much needed topic ❤️❤️…I stayed in a toxic household for a limited period of time, but still fell into depression….now I understand the key is to observe as a third person and not take all the bashing personally…so very important lesson and the toxic workplace too…everyone would face it at a point in life…talking from 13+ years of experience in my own corporate journey…thank you so much Alexis❤️…lots of love💕🙏🏻

[@thatgirlyinspo]

I never miss a video of yours and as I stated watching I realised that I no longer have any toxic environments anymore. This made me realise how far I’ve come! If anyone is dealing with it right now my prayers are with you believe it’s gonna work for you too as long as you put in the (inner) work ❤

[@awwlexis]

That’s my girl! So proud of you love ♥️

[@Naomi.B.13]

I just discovered your videos and website this week and I can not devour it fast enough! I am sooooo grateful for you sharing your gifts with us. You are an awesome combination of grace, bravery, beauty, wisdom and vulnerability. A true role model. Thank you thank you! ❤

[@awwlexis]

Aww Brooke you made my day!!! Thank you for sharing your love with me. I am so happy to have you in this community 🥰

[@StraingBuds]

Yay I am grateful that you’re allowing us to still purchase the course🙏 thank you ❤

[@awwlexis]

You are more than welcome ♥️🙏🏽

[@DaemonGodess]

You’re a beautiful queen. Thank you girl! 🥰💞

[@lammabunzz2994]

My mom was a really bad unmedicated woman with BPD and bipolar. It was just horrible and until I moved with my dad I didn't realize how bad it actually was. My face and my body even looks different, I feel different like I'm genuinely glowing and feeling so happy almost constantly. I couldn't believe people could really affect you like that until this happened to me. Thank you so much you have no idea how much your videos help me and so many others. God bless you and I hope many more good things for you 💛💛💛

[@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988]

WOW!!!! You are incredible with that hair

[@miimiimusic]

Girl, I love and appreciate you so much! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for guiding me out of the darkness I endured for so many years with your bright light. You’re an absolute angel.

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much beautiful 🥺♥️

[@michelleextraordinaire5432]

I so happy I came across your channel. You’ve answered questions I’ve had on my heart for a long time. Your answers were divine and satisfied my soul. Thank you 🙏

[@Bermudablue3]

I was having trouble studying for my master’s graduation exam in counseling - the unhealthy scenarios are difficult for me to process. Thank you so much for this video!! God put it on my path once I chose to pause and take a break 💓

[@clarissaywy]

I’m so grateful for this video, it’s like God is telling you to speak this to me. I’ve been on my self development journey and doing inner work everyday watching your videos and journaling. But lately at work there’s been gossip and drama and it makes me triggered and not in my feminine energy. I was constantly stressed out and not my creative happy energetic self. You are such a blessing, thank you ❤️

[@mihaelaneamtu4275]

I always hear your podcasts and write down on paper your advices, all this at work. Im a nurse and I'm doing my break with you. Your video came exactly on time, haha

[@awwlexis]

Aww I am so happy to be with you girl! 😘

[@yupperzok]

17:40 the way she said 25$/hour Go Girl 🥰💯🙏🙏

[@blbro2631]

I love your videos, I'm a person from across your world, I love how you gently speak, and so feminine, you're a great role model who also speaks with so many knowledge about valuable feminine energy, I love you

[@awwlexis]

Aww thank you so much 🥰♥️🙏🏽

[@Tamannaaa3608]

As a high schooler I needed this💀

[@femfiore]

I lovvve your face because you smile a lot and your eyes shine and sparkle and full of life, it makes you even prettier!! 💕💕💕💕💕 I saw people who are not as pretty as you but because of their smiley faces they look so pretty and they became attractive, and that’s the first thing I learned from you “always smile and let your eyes shine”

[@awwlexis]

Aww thank you so much 🥰

[@zenz0ha472]

I’ve definitely been led to your channel. My faith may be different from yours, but I’m blessed to say you started changing my life the day I started listening. My fiancé has already started seeing a difference in my emotional control and my patience with everything, and he’s been starting to glow too with such happy masculine energy and I love it!! Thank you for being such a powerful guide!

[@milicagosic]

Alexis, my girl. The knowlege in this video is worth more than all the gold and money in the world. I cannot explain the feeling i feel right now. I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. You have taught me more than some of the great spiritual masters i listen to. I am so proud of you and myself. God bless feminine energy. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🌹🌹🌹

[@Glowingwithfaith0]

As a 17 year old girl who had believed before genuinely that the person she is define by the people that surrounded her is her complete reality. All just because we just look at one constant same angle as you said in considering stepping out of your body is all it takes to just take a moment to realize that your life is not define by your family or people who don’t have a “choice” to be around you. I profoundly thank you for this video Alexis!

[@amyhandley9613]

Our childhood sounds identical

[@divanity888]

I love this video so much! I am an entrepenpur who is starting her business, and this is so helpful! Women uplifting other women

[@theultra79]

I agree it's best to cut off toxic friends. I had to do this with one friend and I distanced myself from the other. Growing up with a narcissist parent really just me confused about what love and friendship looks like. I married a narc guy and I had several close narc friends. After I divorced and started healing work, I realized all of this. The weight loss thing is real. Me and the one who I cut off, used to always power walk together and talk about weight loss. Once she was gone I found the thing that made it easy for me to lose weight and lost 22 lbs almost immediately. I do feel that it's somehow connected to letting her go.

[@ChristineGayle]

Omg alexis!! This hairstyle screaaamss your “Dark Feminine Energy”!!! I love it so much on you 😍

[@awwlexis]

Ahhh thank you so much Christine!!! I swear my alter ego comes out with this hair! 🥰

[@n.1.o.8]

You are such an inspiration. Seeing that it is possible for a young woman to earn this much money is eye-opening. I am starting to think that it is also possible for me. Thank you❤

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much ♥️🙏🏽

[@nick7813]

You’re such a beautiful soul, I love you’re vibe so much ❤ Hugs 🤗

[@prik4727]

Thanks for the amazing free content ❤

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much! ♥️🙏🏽

[@prik4727]

You’re very welcome beautiful ☺️🙏🏽

[@pemmylewis2861]

Congratulations with 6 figures! Proud on you!

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love! 🥰

[@karinaortiz1441]

Ugh!! I needed to hear this because this is exactly what I want to improve in this 2024

[@_bbyChels]

Thank you so much for posting this. I really needed it!

[@Relaxingsounds21212]

I have looked up to you the past year, thank you so much for being you, i love you!

[@awwlexis]

Aww thank you love! ♥️

[@sierraharrison777]

You are such a blessing in my life. I relate to you so much! Thank you for doing all that you do. You’re a light in the world! ☀️🥹🥰

[@awwlexis]

Thank you love 🥰

[@HL-nl9eu]

I am boyond grateful for your work, Alexis. Thank you!

[@mirrorreflectionsfotobooth9771]

I’m so glad I ran across your page .. Omg I have been feeling this as if something was off in my life and you nailed it ❤

[@ncamara670]

I can so relate to your toxic experience at work, particularly in marketing. I don't know what it is about this environment but, having worked at different workplaces and even with freelance clients, I have noticed so many problematic behaviours. Also, there is a lot of pay inequality in this field of work. I also had an experience whereby I had to fight to get paid, it's just that in my case it was a freelance client. It started well but then they basically began to delay payment and make excuses, my suspicion is that they decided to run off with the project funding because of their personal circumstances. To cut a long story short, I had to write a lot of strongly worked messages to get my money and got paid a bit extra for the delay in the end. It was a big lesson in setting boundaries and asking for what belongs to me and there were times when I doubted myself. You know, am I not being mean, they have this family situation and things like that. Now, I am happy to have pushed through 🙂

[@Braveh3artGirl]

Only watched a handful of your videos and i can feel changes happening in my mindset ❤❤

[@LizDavinciLand]

I'm in a very beautiful household now but wasn't always. Great words of wisdom Alexis! Bests, Liz

[@kelliekaser1898]

Thank you for your honesty and strength. I really loved this video, it gives me hope. ❤

[@awwlexis]

♥️🙏🏽

[@Eagle77744]

Wow just what i needed.Good timing. ❤❤❤

[@Ffiisscchhssoonngg]

Great confirmation here for me, eariler this week I had to look at someone like they had 3 heads while they were just projecting and i just giggled to myself after🎉 whew that projection is the real deal, once you know you cant unsee❤

[@mirandakogucki]

This came at the perfect time !!

[@TheNibor9]

I haven’t listened all the way through. (I’m at 4:13.) This is also what my therapist says to me, I am safe right now. As an adult, I can walk away. But I seriously do not feel safe around this person. Maybe I’m ‘somewhat’ physically safe (I wasn’t as a child) but my emotions aren’t safe. My mental health isn’t safe. And really- that level of rage is terrifying to me. Screaming in my face, being pushed, my sister as an adult was pushed down stairs- I don’t know if I can make myself believe I am safe.

[@maybesonoya]

it feels soooo challenging. it feels so hard to uplift myself out of this environment. and it is so so tough to not get shifted out of the inner calm and stability i work to give myself

[@maybesonoya]

the friendships ending 🥹 thank you for talking about it bc sometimes you love them but know it’s time to move on, and we do it but ofc it hurts! i don’t regret the endings, just disappointing

[@Ririkoii]

Omgg thats what i wantedd i once commented about it on one of ur videos

[@ongee]

I can’t wait to get to the point where I am grateful for my difficulties rn,it’s still tough.Please recommend more books for emotional intelligence…ps thank you for helping us in our healing journey’s .may God bless you❤

[@happy2Bhere886]

Gurrrrrl while we *love* seeing you curly-maned, it is glorious and we love to see our natural hair so well represented, this look is so sleek! You are gorgeous either way, though, obviously xoxo

[@awwlexis]

Aww thank you girl 🥰

[@lekstellsall]

Thank you for this - can you talk more about your relationship with your dad? My dad is toxic/verbally abusive and Ive decided to limit interaction or even completely cut him off and maybe my mom too because she sometimes feeds into the toxicity... I'm 31 and my parents have been there for me in many ways but also source of holding me back and putting me down in more than unacceptable ways especially of late and it's stunting my growth and robbing my peace. I would love to hear more about your process of detaching and relationship dynamics as well to see if I can relate to anyone else going through this and who came out on the other end successful and thriving ❤

[@jhensengo]

Love you Alexis! Thank you for this! ❤❤

[@mirandakogucki]

Gorgeous as always ❤️

[@MarinaBrunoFilms]

Thank you so much for this girl 🙏🏼🙏🏼I literally have the exact same trauma 😓 I also want to ask, what if you want to move out, but you’re scared of being alone and don’t know where you want to go? 😥

[@sunwrey]

Thank you for empowering us❤

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

Girl.... I be taking napkins at the serving job I work & I do math as to how much money I can make in a year depending on how many tips I get, on the napkins lol! Its an okay work enviroment, but definently don't want to be working there a year from now. :p need to be making more money!

[@awwlexis]

This is EXACTLY what I did when I was working in a restaurant too girl! Let me tell you, you are on the right path ♥️🙌🏽 so excited for you

[@bella.a6]

You look pretty with the hair and everything

[@mariarafael111]

The most perfect video to what I’m facing in my life right now, thank you so much Alexis 🫶🏼

[@awwlexis]

You are so welcome love 🥰♥️

[@pemmylewis2861]

Top info!

[@awwlexis]

My top is from Revolve and is linked in the description under “revolve outfits” ♥️

[@rachelclaireclemons]

For Alexis’s brother! What shaped you to become a masculine man? And how can I encourage my man to be even more masculine?

[@awwlexis]

Wonderful! Thank you ♥️

[@shall1390]

This is such a wonderful video and so timely for me. When you network with those people at the hostes job or Wework...what does that initial conversation or interaction look like? As a Neurodivergent person I'm always curious about examples of what that modeled behavior actually entails. Thanks for this video❤❤❤.

[@d.alexandria1262]

I love this, how do you stay in your feminine energy when you’re experiencing a loss in your family? It’s difficult to navigate

[@munnazzahaslam]

Iloveyou girl. ❤

[@kb_2404]

Alexis what’s your opinion on being friends with the opposite gender? Also, if they tease or roast you, how do you differentiate between an insult and just genuine fun? Maybe your brother will have an opinion too! Thank you 🦋

[@thatgirlyinspo]

She mentioned in the video about friendships that she doesn’t support close male friendships

[@rsamuels6969]

Love all you’re content! Can you do a KZbin video on finances?

[@alessiapandante3931]

In your Master feminine energy course do you talk about healthy masculine men and how do they behave? Thank you Alexis🥹❤️

[@saimamaria5666]

Im so so so sad that you did not end up coming to Doha, i live here and i wouldve been the first one to show up to see you😭 I’ve grown so much because of you and walked away from situations or people. A question i have for your brother is, can a man love someone but not change his habits and become a better version of himself for his partner? As in his partner would demand how she wants him to be better at certain things such as fitness, health and job but he would try and give up easily.

[@GlamerGirlSally]

Alexis, can you ask your brother if a masculine man would approach someone even if its a rainy day outside? Its hard for me to look good if my hair gets messed up in the rain and I see so many "potential" options but i dont think the rain helps me feel my best. The weather plays a factor I feel

[@naomiuchiha0906]

How do I stay connected to my feminine energy when I'm grieving the loss of a loved one?

[@efstratiapatsidou]

Today you look especially gorgeous

[@awwlexis]

Thank you 🥰

[@lauriepham1368]

Alexis, I love you so much. You are like a big sister to me. I believe that God is really speaking through your healing words of wisdom. I am so grateful that I found you. Thank you for being you, because you bring so much peace and joy to my soul.❤️‍🩹

[@awwlexis]

Aww thank you so much Laurie 🥺 I am happy to be with you love 😘♥️

[@SurjitDhiman-pi8ph]

Beautiful girl Very nice VERY GOOD

[@lisali383]

Alexis, you said about your toxic family member. I had one to, i try to work on myself but i see i attract the same dynamic with guys that i meet. I am wiling to change my believes about myself and men, but, how can i do this? Thank you so much for your wor💮💖

[@sumiyums]

Is this reposted?😂 I've got the same notification 3 times already

[@arzuparlak4903]

Is the video length really 1.01.11 ❤

[@awwlexis]

Oh wow! ♥️✨🙌🏽

[@miimiimusic]

I noticed that too. I’ve been seeing 111 constantly. 🤍

[@caitlinrestrepo1352]

What can I do to be more of a high-value woman?

[@SARATAZOR]

Hello Alexis, I hope you are well. I wrote you an email as I would love to join your course but since I am in Europe I can't sign in! would you be able to let me know what to do ? thank you very much . Sara

[@awwlexis]

Hello Sara! What is your email love? And would you mind sending it again, I am not sure I received it. My email is [e-mail] ♥️

[@thelimitlessbabe]

I love this topic and your timing is perfect! Going to court with my narcissistic ex and this is just a great support and resource to prepare me for the battle ahead❤

[@awwlexis]

Sending you so much love my girl. The Glow girls are cheering you on in spirit. Your life will be SO much better from here on our ♥️

[@thelimitlessbabe]

@@awwlexis thank you! It's our second time (1st was 3 years ago) but after lots of healing I feel much more prepared this time... I love seeing how beautifully you have healed from your npd trauma..I worry for my daughter but seeing you as the beautifully healed child of a narcissist with an amazing mom gives me hope for her 🙏🏼💓 thank you for sharing your story!

[@womanxyz14]

Maybe you do look "objectively" prettier with your straight hair. Idk why im feeling the need to tell you that for the next beauty pageant competition your curly hair is a better strategy for you (you might know why). Your straight hair makes an unnecessary noise to me(not here on a simple YT video, but on a one-time-chance stage yes, and perhaps to the judge too. I see it this way: with your straight hair you could get to second place, but with your curly hair maybe not even ranked or maybe first place. (Dont take it too literal, hope I made my point) Thank you so much for the yt content girl. Btw, to my eyes, you and your curlz slay;)

[@meghanncloete_CyberGal]

Alexis 💕 im dying to see the top you are wearing. Where did you get it from?

[@awwlexis]

Hello love 🤗 My top is from Revolve and I have the link in the video description for you

[@meghanncloete_CyberGal]

@@awwlexis 💝

[@amyhandley9613]

If you don’t mind me asking did you end up recovering your relationship with your dad ? Is it possible with a narcissist parent?

[@amaniahmad1486]

I am wondering how old is you❤

[@Odinaa96]

Pls get a mic

[@astralia6219]

Thank’s for this vidéos and all 🩷 You re my safe place thank’s for all💜

[@suckerlovegigner1989]

I so enjoyed this one, I will defo watch it again to keep notes, your videos are always full of substantial content, thank you 😘

[@awwlexis]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽♥️

[@margaritastrode4752]

💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@Impoweredbyfire]

What’s the difference between wounded masculine energy and dark feminine energy?

[@azeoo5666]

Perfect timing it’s definitely a difficult challenge

[@zelphayue3538]

Hey girl, I've binged on so many of your videos and you always talk about how important it is to love yourself. I was wondering if you can make a dedicated video about loving yourself to the core where you talk about everything in detail. Thank you 💛

[@awwlexis]

This is a beautiful idea, I will add it to my list ♥️ I also do a deep dive on this topic inside the “Master Your Feminine Energy” course ✨

[@lovereyanna5363]

Hi love I'm trying to find where to order your robes? May you help me? I saw you talking about it on another video but I'm not sure what video it was. Thanks for being a blessing. ❤❤❤

[@awwlexis]

Hello love! Absolutely! My website is solistawear.com 🥰♥️ I can’t wait to send you yours

[@lovereyanna5363]

@@awwlexis 💖 Awww me too ❤️Thank you much your the best. 🥰

[@musicformindmfm5351]

lol😂

[@Isabella-jy2gf]

perfect timing Alexis, perfect timing 🤍

[@kb_2404]

Do you attract a wounded masculine if you are in your wounded feminine?

[@Bibirallie]

Yes