5 Reasons Why GOD Will Send You The RIGHT MAN At The Wrong Time

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@ericapaul1755]

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[@EgyptianLineage22]

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[@EgyptianLineage22]

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[@LadyCharity]

Great book! I have the audiobook version. This is a great topic thanks for sharing!

[@cosmic4906]

I met a good man 2 years ago. He showed me what a man really is and how a man should treat a woman. Me, coming from an abusive relationship prior, got overwhelmed. I let the fear set in and the relationship fizzled before it could get started well. I prayed for this man before meeting him and continued after. I knew that I had things to heal within myself and I wrote and asked for his forgiveness. Now, he is back in my life, he has forgiven me and I have healed. I am ready to see what God has in store for us. Be us friends or more, I’m truly grateful for this man and yes…this man set the bar and no one has been able to top him.

[@Heisadoni]

I'm very happy for you!

[@silveraruchi2421]

Exactly in situation am in now, just out of an abusive relationship and I met this good guy but have not healed from my past relationship so I treated him poorly and he left.

[@joangordon8225]

Wow! Amazing

[@cassandracassandra7352]

I’m going thru this as well ….. I pray continual healing for you and for all the commenters to be healed as well as myself . Prayer is power guys let’s be a force ❤

[@cosmic4906]

@@silveraruchi2421 I have to say this, good on you for getting out of that abusive relationship. We have to give ourselves credit for that. Not many do. But give credit for doing that because I know that there’s moments where we ask ourselves why we took so long and the focus here is that we did so I applaud you. Secondly, if you feel he will listen and he was the one, write to him. Tell him somehow and apologize. It may make a difference or it may not, but it will help you in your healing. This is what I did and it helped me heal. What I didn’t know is in my situation, my guy kept this letter for 2 years and read it often. It is what he went back to. It helped him heal to and it is also what helped him reach out to me…he finally admitted this to me recently. If he’s a good man, he will listen at the very least. I’m praying for you. ❤️

[@ac9938]

For all the ladies who have been in crappy, toxic, & even abusive relationships. Ladies, PLEASE do NOT sabotage yourself, your life, & your blessings. God gives you a good man, DO NOT sabotage it because YOU DESERVE a good man. YOU are worth it.

[@yijinchen9741]

AMEN!

[@jackiebuhle]

Thanks for the reminder:)

[@charlinecharlostin3188]

Thank you

[@gogurletc8170]

Absolutely! We all deserve love in this life...

[@therealshannyboo931]

Yes amen

[@erinjohnson4273]

I had met a fantastic guy some years ago and our friendship and chemistry was off the chain . Just when I was ready to tell him that I was ready to be serious, he got sick and died. God showed me that I am worthy of real love and what not to settle for. RIP Ronald Wright! Always in my heart

[@viennabella4591]

I am praying god gives you someone else. You are beautiful human being

[@erinjohnson4273]

@@viennabella4591 Thanks love

[@brandivanemon7930]

I used to know a man by that name who was a perfect guy. Was he from Michigan by chance?

[@erinjohnson4273]

@@brandivanemon7930 No he wasn't

[@janiecediaries]

Whoa!

[@carmellinehan2725]

I met my first love at 19 and I knew he was one but just as you said it sent me on journey to wake up and heal and 10 years later when I was saved by Christ we were restored. At that stage I had completely forgotten him but God didn’t forget his plan. I’m married to him expecting our first - all happened in one year! Praise God!

[@sheaporcha1214]

How did you know he was the one god has for you?

[@Victoria_Fama]

God I hope this happens to me

[@DMoni2992]

Wow!

[@wandajohnson5399]

Wow you ladies are helping me with these testimonies. Happy for you .

[@karenbell3900]

Thank God and CONGRATULATIONS 🦋💕🦋🙏💯🙏🦋💕

[@luingalls]

Yes. It happened to me. 20 years later we're more in love than we dreamed possible. God is never wrong.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@vivianjackson7016]

So true this connection woke me up so I could move forward. My partner of 34yrs died. I was lost, no acceptive to any man's advancement but he sent that person. He is like a big brother, a friend but I still have to grow n become better not perfect. Thank u for this video.💯🥰

[@amimartinez4217]

Pray for us to find that right 1

[@iam_yahsgrace29]

AMEN💜🙏🕊🌈

[@some3sharks]

My goodness

[@devinbrown09]

This is exactly what I am going through with a young lady. Right now is the wrong time, but I believe she’s the one. I’m actually learning things about myself that could be detrimental in a relationship/marriage. Now that those things are being exposed, I’m praying against them! Thanks for this video… it may have been intended for women, but this is where I am currently!

[@icequeenandfamily46]

That’s wonderful just make sure you communicate that with her so she doesn’t feel like you don’t love her

[@TheSuperJAM]

You and me both! Never imagined a KZbin video intended for women could open my eyes as to why God hasn’t brought me and my young lady together into a relationship yet, even though He’s confirmed her as the one for me. Keep praying!

[@MsJPrecious]

Pray and go to counselling. I met a guy in this situation, I feel like he could be the one, but need needs to work on those issues first in order for us to really have a chance of a real healthy relationship. Keep the faith, remain prayerful and definitely go through counselling. 🙏🏾😊

[@carorine_ug]

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[@AntToneGaming]

i’m in the same situation bro i learned alot from messing with this one woman , gained a better and in progress relationship with God through this one woman. she is the one the time is just not right for us to be in a relationship me and her have some working to do. God is teaching me patience through her is incredible . If God does want us to be together ima thank him the most and blessed that i have that special woman in my life forever because i was patient with her and i knew she was the one the whole time .

[@nancycarr5164]

43 years ago I met a wonderful young man! We loved each other but we went our separate ways! We stayed connected and talked every year! I married someone else and he had long term relationships ! I divorced! We went away for a wonderful vacation together in 2012! We enjoyed our friendship! We then went on with our lives talking at least once a year! We reunited in January 2021 ! This time we both fell deeply in love! I am so blessed! We both share Our Christian faith! I thank God every day! God is amazing 😊

[@denzel1790]

What a beautiful love story. Wow. Be blessed ♥️☀️💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@sonianichols6900]

Wow i love this story

[@angelicagonzalez1140]

God bless you❤️

[@denisenavarro1600]

Thank you for giving me hope in love❤

[@turner2952]

Sometimes God will allow others to come into our lives so that He can show us ourselves; to show us the areas we need healing in from past relationship pain. The people God sends are not always "forever" relationships. They are meant to grow us up and to be learning experiences. God's timing is always perfect. If we wait on Him, He will bring us just what we need when we need it. He knows more about us than we know about ourselves. Thank you, Stephan, for bringing us real truth and wisdom. God bless you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@pearlsofwisdomdesign]

True ❤️True ❤️True ❤️

[@iam_yahsgrace29]

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[@Dana-rk2hc]

Linda, u better preach!!!

[@michelleogoe3426]

My god speak to me ! I’m going through depression over my ex and I’m loosing so much weight . I must work on myself first

[@nancyfavour9285]

I met an excellent man 13 years ago. I broke his heart but he never gave up on me. We made several mistakes with other people but we are back together and I pray this works out this time around

[@emv7929]

How long did it take for you two to get back together? I have met the perfect man but I know right now is not the right time. I just hope that he can wait for me. 😢

[@sbusisiweshaba1715]

May it work out, I wish you the best🎉

[@Layerlol]

​​@@emv7929You women really are slaves to your own emotions huh

[@shoniamarrow976]

Hi can I ask you a question my ex-boyfriend called and told me his girlfriend passed away. I just wanted to know why he would call me.

[@Layerlol]

@@shoniamarrow976 He's tormented and doesnt know who to turn to. He's feeling very vulnerable right now and feels alone

[@aishakirkland2198]

This title is the story of my life…. I pushed my now fiancé away because I didn’t know what true love was….. He stood by my side and said “Let me show you what true love is” 3 years later, we are inseparable! Stephan Speak brotha! 🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@MarjyGTV]

Omg 🥺 love this .. when 2 souls recognize one another, y’all are meant to be

[@rachaelle27]

Amazing ❤

[@trinigal95]

This is my life, after 33 years apart, we are finally looking forward to our future together. Throughout the 33 years, not a day went by without me thinking of him and for him the same thing. God is in charge, he led us here today.

[@Jaxkyyy35]

Currently I’m going through that with my man atm. He’s a God loving man but because of my past abusive or destroyed relationships, I get scared when he shows me that love. Mind you, this man also have been through similar situations in relationships so he’s been doing sooo welll with helping me clear my mind and helping see clearly and pushing me more towards Christ without even realizing it. My man’s words he said me is “I’m just trying to help renew you” after 3 weeks of my consistent bombarding him with questions about if he would commit infidelity or if he would leave me for someone else. Idk thankfully all I see is someone who is patiently waiting For me to come back around, I know my man missed the woman who he wanted to marry for a while there. Now I just hope and pray that God helps us get better in our relationship together and to keep Him at the center of our relationship to marriage 💕

[@StephyWephie]

Me and my ex (now bf) dated for a year, and broke up. We both needed to grow and things weren’t working cause I was scared to face myself and admit I was struggling in life. A year later we are reunited after I prayed God would give me another chance. Went to therapy for a full year while broken up and healed. If it’s Gods will it will happen. 🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@IamTanikaOwens]

Wow that’s amazing!

[@mmclean4793]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks a guy just broke up with me, then came back, then I a few days he unfriended me, he told me to text him on anothe rplatform, he quit snapchat, and unfriended me and someone else, he unfriended me because I wasn't online and replying, it was not my fault

[@hisgirl4life580]

Thank you for sharing your story! We've been broken up for a year and I just know he's my kingdom husband and hoping he's been working his stuff like me, and that we will be reunited very soon! I miss and love him, but I love him enough to release him and trust God and His timing! :)

[@CoveredEmpress]

Needed. Thank you for sharing

[@OhK746]

God sent me my husband when our age difference was socially problematic. I was sixteen and he was 20 at the time, but we didn’t start dating until I was nearly eighteen. Our families were unhappy but we knew we belonged together. We’re still together 20 years later.

[@baarbaramac]

I understand why it was considered problematic, but I'm happy you guys worked out. My first boyfriend, I was 14yo and he was 17yo. The problem is, as soon he was getting into college, I was halfway through high school. Nobody thought was problematic at the time because we met in school 😂 we stayed together for 6 years and the breakup was only because I moved out of the country. We had an amazing healthy relationship. I'm only telling this because "problematic" is a subtle line ❤

[@ShaneGuyton-mj1mv]

Four years is nothing, that's pretty perfect.

[@rosannaburgess714]

I am a true believer that God puts certain people together regardless of age.❤

[@alifeofjoy29]

“Your relationship has to be an example of what GOD brings together.” 👈🏽 Yes and amen. I receive this! 🤲🏽

[@frankbobby1930]

Hi joy

[@karenjudd8490]

I'm keeping that Goal in my mind.. of a relationship being an example of what GOD brings together. That will strengthen me to be patient, be faithful, and not settle. AND ask God about it always !!

[@MarjyGTV]

When he said that part I replayed it at least 5 times because my spirit resonated so heavily literally one of my fave parts of the video 🔥 Yah is so mighty and powerful

[@CoveredEmpress]

I pray for this

[@karencrawford9115]

I received that you are so true

[@Godisgracious85]

I jumped the gun with him. Right guy wrong time. He definitely motivated me. Woke me up for real. So if it’s Gods will we will cross paths again. Thank you for this video. ❤️🦋

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@kimberlyhicks3644]

Me too. He is not ready for me yet. He ran. I am praying hard for him. I've waited 28 years, I can wait a little longer. Pray for us. 🙏🙏🙏

[@sonianichols6900]

So true

[@cathiewilliams2154]

This was very eye opening, thank you so much !

[@ebonyqueen6820]

@kimberlyhicks No ma’am that is already way too long!

[@braveheartlioness]

"Sometimes in life we can feel like we're the only one going through something." 💯 Testimonies are a spiritual gift to one another. 🎁

[@paulinedylis]

Yess!!!

[@reneedouglas6699]

Facts

[@avasaya]

Amén!!!!!❤❤❤❤

[@kenishanelson487]

And I'll say, God's timing is perfect. He's never late but always on time.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right God's time is the best ❤ 🙌

[@nieshabrooks1038]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@Nathalie-to7ie]

Amen

[@rachelb204]

This.❤

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

Yes, God is always on time, but He also gave us His free-will to obey Him or disobey Him.

[@nesee77]

This message was right in time. I went to bed just last night asking God why would he bring a person into my life if it was not going to work, and I woke up to this message being suggested! This was so needed and an absolute eye opener. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@tosinmubarak8646]

True

[@brendaames6000]

Wow

[@aprilmccain3149]

Wow God answered your prayers…

[@Just_a_girl_in_the_world]

So close to my experience, I literally had a dream about what I needed to change for this relationship to work and this video was there this morning for me as well. We clearly both needed to see it.

[@MyKeturah]

I did the same! & this popped up!!! 🙏

[@mzemmie2415]

I met my man 13 years ago ..we went separate ways ..Hit and miss ...here and there...but when we were finished playing...it started to flourish....now it hits better than before....I think the Lord helped us be friends first!!! Amen

[@Katrica670]

Mzemmie I guess you're saying that yiu twi were together, broke up, played the fields, got back together. Then when did the friendship start?

[@fayleenndaout7727]

God won’t send you the right one at the wrong time, God does no wrong, He makes no mistake. If God sends you a man, it’s gonna be the right one on His perfect timing.

[@valeriemoron3389]

Amen

[@charlottewatson3708]

I think it’s more of a phrase saying right one wrong time because he hasn’t said that God has done it in wrong timing he has just said we are the ones getting it wrong by getting together at this point when God has crossed our paths but doesn’t intend for it to be romantic before more work is done and then it can become a testimony. So I do think this situation can be from God before he betters both people then let’s them know when they’re ready but he shows each other for motivation etc x

[@zaliafay2482]

In the book of Genesis Good does day he made a mistake... We just don't understand what we're reading 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@ashleynicole7255]

I think it's a matter of perspective. God's ways are not out ways, so we can not put God in a box on how He chooses to deal with us individually. Suppose He does let the right man come in at the wrong time, suppose it'll be the one thing to get your attention to sway you from going in the wrong direction or get you out of a bad relationship. Suppose you realize that "person He sent at the wrong time" is all you ever wanted but you don't feel worthy, but you are willing to trust God in a way you never have before that'll eventually make your relationship with God even better and grow your faith in ways He couldn't do before. Again I say we can't put God in a box for Isaiah 55:8 says For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord. If you read the Bible you can clearly see that God will use the foolish of the world to confound those who think they're wise.

[@toosing19]

I think you may have misunderstood his point. Throughout the Bible, God would show His people or tell them about their blessing that was ahead without giving it to them right away. Think about the Israelites in the wilderness. You would think that God would have brought them right into the promise land as soon as they were freed from Egypt. Especially, when God had made it very clear that they were headed there. But there was work that needed to be done within them. The trauma from Egypt had taken its toll on their hearts and minds and they didn’t fully trust God. I think Stephan’s point is that God will use what He knows you “want” to get you to take the path that is necessary for you to get what you “need”. This happened to me personally, but more importantly, it’s written throughout the Bible.

[@JamaicaLove876]

"Do not awaken love before it is time", I never fully comprehended the true meaning of that quote at the time. Yet, I know that God is strategic in all He does and often we might not understand the big picture. Yes, so true, it takes faith to wait on God and understand His Divine plan. It will surely test you & often we try to force our own will. Forging ahead with your own plan will only lead to heartache & confusion. Even if you feel like you have found the "one" it could be the wrong time. Like what sense does that make is often a question I would ask myself. Until God taught me to develop a stronger character like exercising patience & not being impulsive, having more intimacy with God. Walking in one's purpose leads you to your person eventually you end up on the same path. Be anxious for nothing, as it is written, in due time it will happen. Whatever is meant for you, will find you. Excellent message today, sometimes the truth is hard to hear, but always necessary. Blessings & light to you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback!

[@JamaicaLove876]

Always glad to share my thoughts with you. ❤😚

[@dianthiasimon3346]

Very well said Naomi. Real talk 💯

[@carolinecalvias276]

Ok

[@dw3675]

Naomi, thanks a lot. Needed this info

[@Selin2arslan]

3 years god had send me a good man . He showed me everything I wish to have in a man but I came out of a toxic relationship and I was not ready to give him what he needed cause I was still so hurt. Now we found back together and I am so happy that he still Wanstes to be with me Even tho I rejected him back then.

[@wozniaksm26]

Definitely needed this today. I’ve been on and off with my ex for almost 2 months now and decided on Tuesday that it was time to just let go. We had the most amazing dinner and evening together on Monday. When we’re together it feels like the world is not around us. But it’s all the other stuff that we can’t figure out right now. I know I’m working on myself and I have been since my divorce but I also know that he’s not done as much work and not nearly as far along as I am in the healing journey I can’t make him want to do those things. The only thing that I can do is continue to work on myself and prepare myself for when and if things work out with him or someone else I feel a connection with comes into my life. I need to stop trying to control everything and make things happen

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@eugenieholmes7846]

Oh Lord im going through this at the moment. Pray constantly God is there for you.

[@crystaldecena2318]

@@eugenieholmes7846 same here...😔

[@imakinsb5549]

Prayer do help and only one can help, careful on listening to other people's opinion, (sometimes you just need to be still) careful on listening to your own emotion as it can give wrong signal all the time. Even if you let go but still passionate to one another you can always come back if both of you are willing. If it can be fix, try to fix it. Both needs to be honest about each others feelings during discuss . Feel to see if both of you have equal feelings. If not, decide once and for all to never turn back and then move on...easy as that if you want to make it easy! It's really just an emotion that you can let go in a blink of an eye if you want to.

[@noneofyourbuizness]

Went thru the same girl you have done the best choice . This relationship would of hurt you so bad but you kept your thought straight and remember what you deserve as a woman . Wise choice, alot of us need to take note on that🙏🏼

[@angelstar708]

LORD I WANT TO BE WHO YOU WANT ME TO BE. LORD PLEASE HELP ME TO KEEP YOU FIRST. LORD I WANT THE RIGHT PERSON IN MY LIFE THAT YOU WANT ME TO BE WITH AND MARRY. ❤❤🙏🙏 AMEN

[@nieshabrooks1038]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@Queen-ni9is]

Amen!

[@tammytaylor6239]

Amen. 😔

[@erinjohnson4273]

Amen

[@jayjay3409]

Amen! However, get a little more descriptive about that man, ask for everything you want, God fearing, height….etc😀

[@johnmays2486]

This resonates so much brother! I recently went through exactly what you said here. We met through my sister and from day one we connected. That connection continued to grow stronger the more time we spent together. Things were going great until those “outside forces”(friends/family) got into her head causing her anxiety. One day we were talking about marriage and our future full of peace and joy and the next day she hit the eject button and said she needed to heal and wasn’t ready for a relationship. Needless to say I was both confused and heartbroken yet I still believe that it’s the Lords will that we are meant to be together in a Christ centered marriage. 🙏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@deeluton86]

Me and my bm were together for 10 years we have two kids but we had a lot of issues neither one of us loved ourselves it was doomed from the start. But during this seperation it’s been 8 months I’m working on myself becoming a better person i hope she’s doing the same because i want my family back.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@symonemoni7377]

Get your family back ❤❤❤❤

[@5twosize5shoe]

My story is similar. 10 years 1 child , I’ve been working on myself but he jumped into a new relationship immediately 🥺 I pray you get your family back 🙏🏽❤ I’m rooting for you both!

[@GabrielleSWalker]

@@5twosize5shoethat just hurt my heart, sis. Have you ever heard of RC Blakes Jr on here? You should check him out. 💕

[@candicedarbyfox7524]

Amen I pray God bless yall and yall can reunite and claim your family back.

[@queencharles3527]

I dated a man that set the bar so high that I feel like I will never find a man like him. Ever...After meeting him, I can't have anything less. I know our meeting was divine but I often ask God if it were just for a brief moment..or should I be preparing myself for him or someone like him? I sincerely believe that God allowed me to meet him so that I could have a peek at what is in store for me too. Maybe the timing wasn't right and we both need to grow? IDK but I know that God brought us together on purpose because meeting him literally saved my life. & he doesn't even know it. I wish I could share more but it would be over sharing..lol This video really touched my heart. Thank you, Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@danagold7115]

I feel the same way about this one particular guy. He is either the one or God is showing me what I deserve. It’s soooo frustrating but I’m still in love with him & he says he loves me too. So why were aren’t together, I can’t even tell you. I guess we love each other and we’re not meant to be together.

[@queencharles3527]

@@danagold7115 Pray about it, girl. In the meantime keep doing you and honoring God. Best wishes💜

[@simplyskyblue]

It’s been 10 years since I thought I met the one. I definitely think that guy is now meant to be a standard because I wasn’t the one for him. Maybe I pushed him away but how he treated me and how I felt with him was something amazing I never experienced. I look back and think dang if I set him as a standard then I really wasted my time on all the other guys I got involved with after him because they were not on his level aka my standards for what is acceptable to me

[@gaorisha]

I’d like to hear you overshare!

[@Empressnimra867]

I messed up and had little faith. I listened to the wrong things instead of listening to God. I am ready to speak to HIM and ask what I need to do. Powerful message. ❤

[@meccapelzer5550]

Wow! This is exactly what’s happening now. The spiritual growth that I have experienced since meeting this person still blows my mind. It’s teaching me patience as well as helping me to remember that 1) God is God and everything is done in His timing and 2) (as you stated) God blessing me is certainly for others/a greater purpose. As always, thanks for your insight!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@barbarabrown2277]

AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!

[@beintentional3852]

I am experiencing that now

[@dowell2121]

Exactly what I m currently experiencing and I have decided yesterday after a quick Argument to let him go and this video comes up in my feed just like that. I was like wow... I was in a long relationship before but I've never feel this way before since I've met this person. I'm talking about someone I know since 2014. And I don't know how to explain it to myself the way we get together and closer in 2021.... Only God knows this Kind of Pain.

[@Ashtarot77]

I met the right man at the wrong time. Leaving it up to God and Divine timing. For now I'm happy to have him as a friend.

[@joeslinerenee4620]

That's me too. Just recently happened to me.

[@cindylou2429]

Same here

[@ilysesugar]

Are you still friends?

[@U2Mii]

I feel deep down that I’ve met the right girl for me, all the signs were there that she felt similar feelings, but somethings were revealed that forced me to friendzone her for the time being. Through this, in meeting her, God has strengthened my faith and dependence on him. I’m establishing better habits, praying, and drawing closer to God. I hope to grow more of a friendship with this girl still, as we are in similar circles, and pray that God grow the both of us.

[@samanthatrucka]

Im muslim and im going through this now. God led me to this video and answered all my worries and confirmed what was already given to me after prayer. Keep letting God lead you

[@taeyonsays]

Ameen

[@jesuslovesyou.777]

Amen. God loves you

[@simsimx723]

Assalamualekum I’m Muslim too. May I ask what happened to you?

[@simsimx723]

Alhamdulillah

[@denzel1790]

Amen 👌🏾♥️🙏🏽

[@PRH0NEY]

I needed to hear this! This is literally me right now! I’ve been wanting a relationship so bad. God finally showed me the perfect guy for me and in a month I managed to mess it up. Now I’m sitting here like why did god dangle this guy in front of me and then remove him. So thank you for sharing this video. I’m going to continue working on myself and be patient with the process

[@mzceo35]

Whew! Same 😢 wishing you healing through your journey ❤

[@PRH0NEY]

@@mzceo35 thank you! Same to you!

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

First of all, God does not bring everyone to you nor does he remove everyone from you. Sometimes things are OUR fault and sometimes things are SATANS fault. God doesn't just show up like a genie doing things for you. That's not how it works. If you think you are sabotaging relationships, then you need premarital counseling as a single and have a godly happily married couple guide you through healing, deliverance, and true walking with God to prepare you to be a wife.

[@PRH0NEY]

@@Ginger_Spicy_Candor never said he brought me everyone. I prayed for a relationship when in reality I wasn’t ready for someone to enter my life just yet. I was working crazy hours and in between houses when I met the guy. I didn’t have the time for him that he wanted unfortunately. Now I bought a house and I have regular hours to be able to have someone in my life now

[@karenjudd8490]

PRHONEY - ME too.. I'm not looking. Haven't been because it takes TOO much energy. And I honestly cannot tolerate giving & then be rejected. I'm done with that !!

[@sharicecolebrooke5525]

God is Real and he loves us so much, he would give us a second chance because he knows we are ready for the blessings.. timing is everything. Trust the process

[@tonyacarpenter9033]

You can cross paths for a learning purpose. To know what a good man is and how they exude protection and integrity on all or most levels. It may be that one learns such for whom they will eventually be with. Because one is a good man and has the attributes. Doesn't mean he's going to be your good man. You may also be in that man's space for him to prepare for his love as well.

[@amaragrace94]

Exactly. Just let it be what it will be. We both learned things from that experience. Discovered some things I really want in a life partner and some things I did not...allowing me to reflect on areas I need to grow in. I learned I need to heal, learn how to enforce my boundaries, explore my relationship with God, and continue to work on my goals. If we come back together, great. If we don't, I'm ok with that. I hope we carry that growth/self work into all future healthy relationships. I wish him well regardless. Some times we are meant to be blessings to others. Sometimes people are blessings in our lives. Sometimes it goes both ways.

[@pheneriagonzalez1650]

Yes that's true

[@frankbobby1930]

@@amaragrace94 Hello Mara how are u

[@kristabland1657]

This beautiful soul of a man was introduced into my life and connected with me during my divorce from my abusive ex-husband. This beautiful soul of a man has challenged me to confront my former beliefs on what the "right guy" meant. I used to believe that the "right guy" is the guy who'd always make me feel good, constantly declaring his undying love for me, and devoting his life to making me happy. But thanks to this deep connection with this beautiful soul of a man, I'm casting down that idol. The "right guy" challenges me to confront my shadow self to grow and heal. The "right guy" inspires me to chase and pursue after my dreams. The "right guy" is my best friend, my playmate, my lover, my mirror soul. And this was learned and accomplished during the 2 years since we were separated. I'm honestly annoyed, frustrated, angry, yet also thankful and appreciative for the love he has for me. My journey of growth has not been easy but it has been worth it so far. I have no doubt that with him right by my side, I can change the world 💝

[@gogurletc8170]

Well said you are on your way!!!! Glad to hear 💓💕💞keep it up.

[@karenjudd8490]

WOW - just WOW!! God provided you with an Angel I believe. I would LOVE a man that is Loyal, steadfast, and is able to lovingly encourage me to open my eyes to a BETTER ME. MAY GOD BLESS YOU BOTH ALWAYS 🙏 ❤️ 🤲🙏✌️❤❤❣️❣️

[@endswithme555]

I was supposed to see this clip. God revealed my person through a myriad of confirmations and signs and gave me distinct instructions at the same time. He said to surrender and let go. From day 1, that’s been the most consistent instruction I’ve had and it’s been the toughest thing to do. My faith has been tested and i have wanted to walk away multiple times already. I can start the day off on a Faith high and then by midday or end of the day I’m struggling to believe and I’m questioning God. LOL! 😂😂😩🙄 This video hit it on the head. My faith and prayer life are increasing, as this is one of the top 2 things I’ve ever prayed about this earnestly. Since the revelation, I’ve given up some sucky habits that I don’t want in my relationship. I’m the type that needed to see the “dangling carrot” as that kept me focused on the prize. Had God not shown me that this exists and he didn’t put in my spirit to be patient and wait until the matter is resolved (Ruth 3:18)… I would’ve been dabbling in things I shouldn’t have. Even if this person isn’t it and I missed it, I know that this was a God moment because I’m a better person, more spiritual minded and mature as a result of following this.

[@endswithme555]

9 months later and not only have the signs increased but I put God to the test! I asked him outright what did all these signs mean. I fasted for 48 hours. Shut the entire world out and was intentional about hearing God. As soon as I purposed in my heart that I wasn’t moving until I heard clearly from God I saw a sign on the ground outside where I was walking and it said “the one”. All of my the times that circumstances and our connection told me they were the one was confirmed that day. I ain’t gonna lie I rushed outside of God and it started going left. A major test of faith. But…6 months later God reconfirmed again that it’s on the way. I’m taking #5 to heart. I have tried to stray and have tried to move on and it ain’t happening! And it ain’t just me that’s blocking it but God has been blocking it too. It’s hard to be patient and wait, BUT the signs I’ve seen, the connection I’ve felt and what’s in my heart is telling me to keep holding on!

[@tijana_veljic]

​@@endswithme555 I hear you and thank you so much for the update as well...I am in my own story and it means a world to me to see people struggling the same battle, but recieving the clear answers! Needed this! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@endswithme555]

@@tijana_veljic🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 the same prayer I’m praying for myself. That you hear the voice of God clear re: what He has for you

[@TamelaMiller-zk7bn]

That’s awesome!

[@katiekelman3703]

This happened to me, and I had to figure it out the hard way. Sometimes you just know, it’s not now, but you try to force it. And it don’t work, no matter how hard you try. The best thing you can do is to surrender. Evolve, grow and allow yourself to flow with the universe. You never know what is meant for you. And sometimes what is meant for you could be way more than you could ever want for yourself. It’s literally a wake-up call. It’s nice to hear this clarified by you Stephan 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@DJRenee]

I know this to be true @katie

[@MarjyGTV]

Whew yes 🔥👏🏼

[@helen.deoliveira]

I'm going through this... And it is super hard! I was very close to going crazy with the situation. I felt this need of telling the guy about my feelings for him, but he was involved with someone else. It was like death to me, but it made me look for God, go back to church, pray more and two years later I am a very different person, with different values, purpose and intentions with the man God has for me. I've been praying about the guy I have in my heart, asking God to free me from these feeling if it doesn't come from Him, but I think about him everyday, so I pray for his wellbeing and happyness. I believe he is the one God has for me, but it is not the most important thing anymore, cause I'm more dedicated to live by God's will, knowing that is true happiness ❤

[@aminahabu2313]

Hello, how are you doing? I am curious as to what the update on your situation is as I am in a similar situation now. Please oblige

[@helen.deoliveira]

​@aminahabu2313 Hi! Sure. Well, that guy never showed up, and I had to accept he was not the one God has for me. It was painful, but I had to let go and move foword, aiming to Jesus. Then in the end of 2023 I prayed a lot that I would find the one and get maried next year (2024). I used visualization, determination, prayers where I saw that one I still had in mind and said "him or someone better". I went on like 3 dates and found my guy. At first I almolst screwed up because a part of me was still attached to that other guy (even though my man is so much better), but since I was conscious about it I got to control my actions and be more careful. We've been together for 5 months now, no games and that shit, we feel safe, loved and we're planning to get married till the end of 2024. So far, that's my happy ending 😊❤

[@aminahabu2313]

Hello, I am truly happy for you and love your happy ending. It so hard and I am going to pray about it. I pray our journeys come with ease and that God blesses our efforts abundantly. Thank you for responding, sincerely much appreciated.

[@Lunariss_]

I needed to hear this. It just affirmed that I THOUGHT I was ready for a relationship with who I think God has ordained for me, but my faith is being tested and I still have areas to grow in, in order to be the woman I need to be.

[@jasminezepeda44]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@marilynwarbis7224]

This video has given the answer to a lifetime's puzzle. I met a most suitable man when I was 22, but I was too immature to realize that. In my immaturity I moved on and made some severe mistakes in relationships. Today, decades later, I know myself better and know what I need in a relationship. The memory of the man I left when I was 22 still teaches me the true values in life.

[@tracymcnally8413]

This entire video was for me. I met the right man at the wrong time. Waiting for God to do it this time. God just used this video to confirm every single thing I’m going through. All these things happened or are happening. I commented on a previous video of yours and you responded. This man treated me better than any man I have ever dated. He was kind. He treated me very well. Respected me. It was all based on God. I moved to fast. God is about to blow many minds with the miracles that he is going to bring forth in Kingdom couples! Thank you Stephan. I have grown leaps and bounds from your videos. Thank you Jesus! Bless you!

[@ScaryToRemarry]

God is faithful to his promises! Stay hopeful

[@tracymcnally8413]

@@ScaryToRemarry thank you for the encouragement, it was needed!!

[@ScaryToRemarry]

@@tracymcnally8413 for sure!

[@sweetcapricorn]

Same, I feel he's my kingdom husband its so hard to keep my ego at bay. Knowing my husband out there but not with me

[@Nicebag777]

This blessed me. I met him December 2022 then this past August we went out separate ways. My church mates were feeling my pain. Then one friend found your book, "The Man God has for you", in a second hand store and bought it for me. Then this video came up thank you so much!!!! I know that God used you to answer my prayers. God said I'm a Jealous God...I was putting him before God. God wants my time and intimacy. This man taught me all about intimacy with God he insisted on me spending time with HIM above everything. Blessing!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@itsbeeva]

Thank you for sharing.

[@suziesuzie1918]

Thank you for sharing. I am in the same situation and I guess, I have no other choice than to let God lead. Cause now I know there is no place for any man on the throne of my heart apart from God. God first and the rest shall surely follow.

[@Godstreasured]

We both decided to work on ourselves and continue to get to know one another. But the connection and level of intimacy by being in each other presence is none like no other

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, at times it can be overwhelming, but you need to focus on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@Godstreasured]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks It was very overwhelming! Detaching to work on me hurt like hell because I didn't detach when God was telling me to detach. But detaching from the connection and that feeling of intimacy that I never felt, forced me to step back and focus on myself and my relationship with God. I viewed it as, if it's meant to be then it will be, and that God was answering a prayer from years ago to allow me to get a taste of what's to come.

[@tammytaylor6239]

@@Godstreasured Thank you for sharing. Your story is very enlightening. I pray God's favor is showered upon you and his hedge of protection surrounds on this journey. Much love to you.

[@viennabella4591]

Im in this same position right now! And I completely feel you 100%

[@marshamish1214]

I can relate to what you're saying 100% too. He's definitely worth it and I can see myself being with him in the future. We both experienced synchronisation in different ways, and now I've had 3 dreams involving him, one of which he was parking my car (he doesn't drive in real life but in my dream he did and driving a car in dreams generally is very significant so we have to pay attention to what's happening if we have such dreams). I believe certain things happen for a reason. This is one of them. Sending peace and love 🙏❤️

[@caterinamarquezmartinez2367]

Wow a slap in the face 😅 I met a good man over the summer and I drove him away without even realizing what I was doing. I hope we cross path again.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏🏽

[@kelle0285]

Maybe it's for the better.

[@evelynford6860]

Red flags are important to see. So just the process

[@kaiserboutate8541]

I’m a muslim boy livin’ in France and you can’t even imagine how much your words have helped me … We’re prayin’ the same God. God bless you brother. Love ✌️

[@ScaryToRemarry]

I believe God blessed me to remarry because I didn’t have any bitterness or resentment towards my ex wife. God won’t give you that blessing until HE knows you are ready

[@zionurbanwear]

If you see an old flame, before you jump in, work through your emotions to make sure it wasn't an attachment that the enemy is using to derail your current progress.

[@annekajordan6952]

💯!

[@amaragrace94]

Amen!

[@mlady8137]

Thats right. That sneaky devil

[@tracyallan3704]

Thank you Holy Spirit for leading me to this message !!!!!

[@monicathompson9751]

Yes Thank you Lord!!!

[@oliviacookeaseamen]

Ase' Amen 🙏🏼✨✨✨✨✨

[@ILibraLove]

Wow!! You spoke so much truth. I met the right man in my 20’s we both knew God but we we’re also in the world. We made choices and through other relationships, and children over the course of many years God kept crossing our paths. Now 18 years later we’re both single, serving the Lord and building a foundation for this beautiful love story that God had always been the center of!! Because of this meeting this man God has shown & grown me so much!! It goes to show only He knows what lies ahead and I’m a firm believer if we’re meant to be with a specific person or on a specific path, God will bringing it around again and again if need be until we chose His way!! ❤🙏🏼

[@joyjoytotheworld2427]

Draw closer to God and let him show you what you need to do! It's what's BEST! Glory to God! Amen

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

[@kingskidtvbrandiva]

“If he’s not ready then that means there’s still work on your end that needs to be done.” Sir!!! You got me over here yelling like I’m in church! Talk sir!! You spoke a Word that I can definitely relate to. Unlike many women…I knew I was a mess coming into this. A calamity!lol God is delivering me though.

[@jazzray7517]

Dang, this gives me hope, but idk I think God says to leave the guy and we have a child together. So it's hard to just leave completely

[@nkwetisamacyran1936]

So true. God really sent my partner to really wake me up when he came into my life and brought me close to God when he left me. It doubled my prayer life because i totally depended on God to bring him back. He became my weakness and my greatest strenght

[@yaabima2]

Wow! That's powerful

[@AL-np5dq]

Perfect timing! When that connection walks away, God is the only one who can provide understanding. He's helping me grow as Proverbs 31 woman; preparing for that blessing in his time. It is the hardest type of growth. Walking in faith and praying without ceasing God shares the work in the other person's heart. Confirmation of guidance, thank you! ❤🙏❤

[@estephanieeblakey1875]

I'm currently 6 months pregnant and the father of the child walked out on me several weeks ago. It's been a painful difficult storm but it has drawn me closer to God and I'm still learning to trust in God and lean on Jesus. I know he is doing a work in me and convicted me to see what I need to change. I pray God is doing the same in him. And restores our family.

[@Skyview4me]

Wow!! You just hit the nail on the head. This is so, what I'm going through right know. I'm standing and trusting GOD all the way.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

[@priscillamensah776]

Me too, exactly what I’m going through too. I needed to hear this

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

@@priscillamensah776 Glad I could help 🙏

[@thereal863]

@Vision exactly! Had this happen 3 times before. Met amazing men ready to be there for me, but I wasn’t ready. Had a lot of growing, maturing, and healing to do. But it’ll happen again at the right time :)

[@Skyview4me]

@@thereal863 Amen

[@obailey973]

Can't ever go wrong when God is involved!! You are always soooo on point!! So grateful for your knowledge 🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback ❤

[@treystacks5568]

My mistake was I ask God. But I didn't wait and listen. Had I waited on God. I wouldn't have wasted 23years. But what a lesson and so much wisdom I did find. Thank you Sir. I love to Listen

[@raebell3538]

I literally just wrote a letter of thanks to the person I crossed paths with several years ago for this very reason. I appreciate & finally understand why he was placed in my life and why it wasn't the time for us. It made me do some serious self reflection with myself. I looked at where I'm currently at in life and why, also where I would like to be in the future. You may not always see what God is doing but he's always working. We just have to open our minds and hearts to recognize it🙏🏽

[@playboispacey1503]

As a young 20y/o guy, I’m currently going thru this now!! And I’m looking for answers for if my ex is still the one for me because I’ve never felt the emotional connection I have for her with any other woman. Although we are no longer for now I’m still only in love with her and can’t shake that feeling off my mental, no matter how hard I try. Of course I prayed for a woman and she came out of nowhere but I got too happy and rushed the whole thing and got too comfortable and eventually lost her cause of my childish and selfish ways and watching this is giving me a clear understanding how God can work for me and others! I believe our break up was a wake up call to become a better man for not just her but for me, her, and my community!! Thanks for being a tool and resource to have better understanding‼️✝️

[@MarjyGTV]

Wow !! Sounds like you really love this girl and you having this awakening at such a young age is amazing . You grow through what you go through . Maybe in time y’all will cross paths again. Or maybe you will meet another great woman. Keep focusing on your journey and healing, you’re doing wonderful! ❤️

[@niciad.2967]

I had the right man @ he wrong time.My friend from Highschool took me on the best places of my life no intercourse.I was so broken but when I was with him I felt @ peace.Now 2 years later still doing therapy,meditating now,wearing my natural hair(Locs),got my new place.He asked me to go out again now I see him in a different light-I really like him.NOW we’re dating.

[@kimhickman5014]

I was having a bit of anxiety over a situation. This has brought a calm to my spirit. I need confirmation from God over that relationship/marriage. I know that but sometimes get ahead of God. Lord allow me to decrease so you may increase. Thank you!!! ❤️🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@zeal4god402]

HALLELUJAHHHHHHHHH 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@rhon1908]

Same! 💯🙏🏾

[@kasicoleman1012]

Same here!

[@sweetcapricorn]

Amen, was feeling the same this morning then I came across this video

[@cpinder7249]

I got divorced and vowed I would never remarry ! Just like you said Stephan a carrot was dangled in front of me it was a wake up call indeed, God showed me our purpose together so I sure got working on me!! My journey to a better me has been so amazing ❤ Thanks so much for your teachings.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for sharing!

[@marvetajohnson5175]

I actually agree with this 💯! When I met my husband I heard the voice of God say, “That’s your husband but don’t sacrifice your future for right now.” Right person but it wasn’t the time. I did not listen to the timing. I got involved before the time was right and I sacrificed what could have been a beautiful marriage and family because I didn’t allow the time for God to get us both ready for each other. I had to deal with the consequences. Now I get it.

[@janengumi1654]

Give more of your testimony. Maybe am facing the consequences 😭of rushing things

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Damn I wish God would've done this for me.

[@Jofield421]

I met someone 9 years ago no relationship, but I liked him and I heard a voice with in say NOoooooooo so loud ' time was not right and definetly not for me as I was healing ' 9 years on I never saw him again. 😔

[@marywilson6354]

I'm preparing my self for my future husband getting my credit together and my mental as well as my physical. I praying patience myself and God

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@frankbobby1930]

Hello Wilson how are u

[@dafnenoel9825]

Me too

[@JesusTheCity]

The last point is very true. The bar was set EXTREMELY high when i met up with a man God wanted to connect me with when I was 24. It was very, very hard to justify spending time with men who werent at his level or higher in terms of spiritually, gentlemanlyness, attractiveness, godliness or connection. I am 32 now and Ive recently only met one person who only slightly surpassed that- and he is still not my person. I didnt know God could do better than the first man, i was sure he couldnt do better than the second whom i met years later. Now i have no choice but to trust and surrender that who he has for me is going to exceed these two VERY strong connections ive had, almost 8 years apart. (Hopefully it wont take that long this time for me to meet my actual spouse.) But i fully agree with your video and especially your last point.

[@jenniferstallworth2327]

I was in bed crying from frustration and eventually came to KZbin. Your video was the first one to pop up and I know it was God. Everything you spoke God has spoken to me about my coming together with this man. This process has been hard but thank you for encouraging me to keep going!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@valerielinares2068]

I'm right there with you, sis. This waiting and preparation process is HARD, it definitely tests and stretched my faith as I wait on God to bring me & FH together. I know it will come in time, but it hasn't come yet. I know all to well the tears cried because of the circumstances, being unsure how God is going to work things out, etc. I know it's hard. But, God knows what's best for us. We just gotta trust Him and trust He knows what He's doing.

[@2thankfulnGrateful]

Amen! I'm dealing with the same problem. Thinking God doesn't want me to be loved. Please 🙏🏾 for me.

[@latashacooper3007]

@@2thankfulnGrateful I will pray for you with the purest prayer tonight. But there are 2 things I would like to aware you of. 1. I strongly suggest no one to "ASK" anyone to pray for them, why because ppl can & will pray for your down fall, not all will do so but one demonic prayer is enough for satan to activate there wishes. If anyone genuinely wants nothing but happiness for you they heart automatically feels sorrow an it also activate heart felt positive prayers. How many prayer emojis do you see when ppl stating sad events they experiencing on social media??? Hundreds & thousands of them, if ppl are praying for one another everytime we see the prayer emojis wouldn't we see more uniting among us & a lot more improve in our daily problems??? Because true prayer with God is always fulfill, not when we want it all da time but is always on time. But if you didn't pray for your own situation but asked other & it's didn't change or/and your situation have gotten worst this is a consequences of putting faith in man and not God. Either they lying like they prayed for you or they prayed for your down fall. You asking for prayers igniting ppl evilness to manifest upon you. Let them willingly prayer for your happiness so that it is pur & it will be truly answered. Ask God to help you help your situation, you'll get direct answers & they wont mislead you. 2. If you think God don't wont you happy then you living in disbelief. Your prayers are answered through faith in him, if you lacking faith that's what's keeping you from receiving what he already have for you. God don't want you unhappy & sad even if you lacking faith in him. He haves bundle of love, joy & happiness made special just for you, he's waiting for you to get it through your faith. God is not like us, just because you lose your faith in him he don't stop wanting to make our life happy & abundant of good things... MEAN KEY: All that's good & happiness is of God, no good comes without him, all goods things are of him. Your faith & obedience towards him inheritance this & endless of good things for eternity... PRAYER: MY HEAVENLY FATHER I KNOW YOU KNOW ALL OUR ACTIONS. I KNOW YOU SAW WHAT MADE HER LACK FAITH IN YOU, WE ALL HAVE BEEN A VICTIM TO DOUBTING FAITH ONE TIME OR ANOTHER. GOD I ASKED YOU TO HELP HER TO REGAIN HER FAITH BACK, HELP HER TO UNDERSTAND WE GO THROUGH HARD TIMES TO AS A TEST OF FAITH, WHEN TIMES GET THIS WAY WITH THIS YOUNG LADY I ASK OF YOU TO LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WILL HELP HER THROUGH IT ALL, YOU ALREADY HAVE BUT IT'S HARD FOR HER TO SEE THIS BECAUSE IT'S ACTIVE NOW & YOU HAVEN'T FLEE TO HER RESCUE PHYSICALLY. GOD PLEASE HELP HER TO UNDERSTAND HER FAITH CALLS YOUR NAME. YOU GOD ALREADY HAVE THE SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM SHE JUST NEED DA FAITH BACK THAT ALL HER FAITH & TRUST WILL MAKE ALL HER PAIN TURN INTO SO MUCH JOY. GOD PLEASE SHOW HER WHAT A DIE HEART BELIEVER OF YOU RECEIVES. SO MUCH LOVE & HAPPINESS THAT SHE WANT BE ABLE TO EXCEPT IT ALL WITHOUT ASKIN WHAT HAVE I DID TO DESERVE ALL THIS HAPPINESS WHEN I THOUGHT GOD DIDN'T WANT ME HAPPY. ACTIVATE YOUR GIFT UPON HER, SHOW HER HOW DEEP IS YOUR ENDLESS LOVE FOR PPL WHO LACK FAITH. I KNOW YOUR LOVE SHOW'S EVERYONE NO MATTER HOW WE DON'T GIVE YOU ALL OUR ALL, YOU NEVER STOP GIVING USE ALL YOUR ALL. YOUR DEVOTION TOO US IS SELFLESS & IT'S DESERVE OUR 💯% FAITH CAUSE WITHOUT IT THERE'S NO GOOD FURTHER FOR US. GOD YOUR FAITH FOR US IS PRICELESS & WE AS PPL SOMETIMES TAKE IT FOR GRANTED & YOU STILL FORGIVE US, HOW CAN WE EVER LOSE FAITH IN YOU???? GOD I PRAY THAT WE CONTINUE TO UNDERSTAND THAT FAITH IN YOU IS A WEAPON AGAINST EVILNESS & UNHAPPINESS & IS OUR KEY TO LIVING LIFE KNOWING THAT YOU ALWAYS BE THERE TO HELP US THROUGH IT ALL. YOU WILL ALWAYS GUIDE US & PROTECT US FROM THE WRONG PPL & THINGS TAKE CAN MISLEAD US... WITH ALL MY HEART GOD I WILL CONTINUE TO BE ALL I BE FOR YOU & TRY TO BE THERE FOR MY NEIGHBORS TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY TO SHOW THEM HOW BLESSED WE ARE TO HAVE YOU AS OUR FATHER AMEN

[@2thankfulnGrateful]

@@latashacooper3007 GLORY TO THE FATHER UP ABOVE! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYER! YES YOU ARE RIGHT! EVERYONE CAN'T PRAY FOR YOU!! THEY MIGHT PREY OVER YOU! SO I PRAY FOR WISDOM OVER MY REQUEST WHEN I PLACE IT OUT THERE. GOD KNOWS MY HEART BUT ALSO KNOWS EVILDOERS AS WELL! THEREFORE I WILL SEEK MY FATHER'S UNDERSTANDING AND MERCY AND WALK BY FAITH AND NOT BY SIGHT! MY SISTER IN CHRIST MAY YOUR HEART SND HANDS RECEIVE ALL THE BLESSINGS GOD POURS YOUR WAY ALWAYS AND FOREVER MORE! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mykelle.javonne]

wow, i didn’t even realize this was posted a year ago. i had a a short lived experience with one of the best guys i met ever about 5 months ago. i knew i loved him immediately. but he was so out of my comfort zone as far as physical appearance is concerned, over time that didn’t matter to me. i feel i became obsessive after we decided to have intercourse a few times, it all felt really special. like something that i wouldn’t mind doing for the rest of my life. honestly, i felt like i was ready but truthfully i wasn’t i was in the middle of so many other soul ties and a huge transitional phase with my career. i feel he was scared and had other areas that needed to worked thru but was well established and growing rapidly in his career. either way, i realized i hadn’t attached myself to the thought of him like i would previous connections but this video brought up so many feelings about him and i miss what we had. if anything he was my friend first, it even felt like he was my best friend in the short few months that i knew him.

[@lleslie1536]

I met that man God had for me eighteen years ago. We went our separate ways, got married, had kids. Now our paths have crossed again. Feelings stronger than ever before. Confusion, heart broken, regrets, on top of all that both our marriages are failing. We are both in counselling trying to patch things together. I am connecting so much with this video.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@Courie11e]

I always pray every time I meet someone new. I ask God to allow His Holy Spirit to speak to me and direct me in what I need to do with this person, because I DO NOT WANT TO WASTE TIME. Trust me...GOD answers right on time, and I OBEY!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@Enheritance]

Wow, I’m going through this now.! My bf broke up with me a day ago and I understand a lot more now. In the beginning, God was telling me that it was best for us to separate and come back and focus & heal ourselves and handle our goals before being in a committed relationship. We were so desperate to make it work. We failed to include God in our plans. We both moved too fast and should’ve waited to date. Things were great but, when it came to our future plans, our finances weren’t aligned. So he told me he wants to focus on ministry and finances. We both didn’t want that to be a burden. We still love each other very much. & He believed that it was the “Right person, Bad Timing.” I’m hurt but I know I have to work on myself more and if we come back or not. I’m preparing myself, either way, to receive the right Man-God has for me and I’ll be fully whole and ready 🙏🏾❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best. I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@pheneriagonzalez1650]

O know when my ex broke up no way I'm going back God has something better.

[@frankbobby1930]

Hello

[@jadecolbert4286]

This is 100% true! I met an amazing guy at a really bad time in both of our lives. Our schedules, responsibilities, and post trauma from both our relationships make it infeasible for us to be together right now. He awakened a part of me that I long forgot was there. God peace for both of us 🙏🏽🕯️❤️‍🔥🤍

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

If schedules, responsibilities, and trauma interfered with a godly relationship, the schedules, responsibilities, and trauma were a higher priority than the relationship.

[@tinawilson2213]

I really and truly feel this message was for me. I know that timing played a very crucial part in my relationship and I have been praying to God for much needed answers...Be careful for what you pray for you just might get it!! Great message and some day we'll definitely be a testimony for others.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@annekajordan6952]

Stephan, I feel the need to also say, if it is ‘right person wrong time’ the feelings still have to be mutual. As you mentioned, God does not impede on our free will, therefore neither should we, meaning we should be mindful not to label it’s ‘right person wrong time’ if the other person isn’t having or showing mutual feelings. God blessing you with the right person & experiencing fruition from that connection isn’t contingent on wherever they fail to choose you or not or even on whether they have healed or not because God knows all hearts & what people have been through in life, & as marriage is God’s design & knows who the best fit is, the enemy’s plans cannot overrule God’s design but it is also not forced upon us as we have free will & choice. So we shouldn’t default to saying it’s because they are too scared or it’s because they haven’t healed yet or even blaming ourselves, because they still have free will at the end of the day & so do we. I feel that some people may take the concept of ‘right person wrong time’ to validate their feelings for someone who clearly is not returning the same feelings for them & using it to reassure themselves that the other person MUST have feelings for them too. This may be unhealthy if they are refusing to accept that it may not have been the right person for them in the first place. It may very well be right person but not the time yet but we should make sure it’s of God & seek His guidance.

[@katherinedean5704]

Totally agree!! I can definitely see someone mistaking this video as “I should keep trying”, when in fact, it is not the right person. Sending you the best. 😊

[@annekajordan6952]

@Katherine Dean Yes as difficult as it may be to hear, it is said from a place of love. Romantic love / connection is designed to be a two-way experience for a reason. I think some people underestimate the power of love. When the connection is true, you would have the URGE to want to stay connected to them. Wishing you the best too ❤️

[@omarveliz1216]

I think I was that guy for a wonderful woman not too long ago. She was a magnificent catholic woman with all the qualities I wanted. Sadly my beliefs and hers religiously didn't jive even if we had what each other wanted in a partner. I wish her nothing but the best in the world, and I thank her for showing me that my heart is capable of loving openly and honestly. I hope I showed her that good men still exist and that she shouldn't be afraid to love either.

[@kimvezina6470]

I've always believed that GOD would send me the right man when the time was right. So I have not been dating for years, I've been waiting for God to bring me this amazing man. After watching your video, I'm humbled enough to understand that perhaps, I still need to do more work on myself. Maybe I'm not as ready as I thought. We all have room for growth and improvement. Thank you Stephan for sharing this video. It has opened my eyes and my heart to a new understanding. GOD Bless You!

[@grabbelton]

I met him, didn't care for him like that, in the Next 4 year we saw eachother 1 day a Year at a conference. One day this year,it finally happened, like lightning, swept me completely of my feet. In the 4 year i imagined What I want in a partner/ My man, but never ever thought about him . friend of My brother, not my regular type etc. Turns Out we needed the right moment for us to be together . He is the Gift I never thought I wanted or needed so bad. I'm blessed with my Lucien. I love how he loves me 😊

[@Userrelyt]

God’s Love is amazing, so quiet, meek, calm, strong, and such a light burden

[@brendabarton7673]

All I can do is wait. God brought a man in my life to love. I tried to move on, because he is not ready. Sometimes it hurts being so far from each other. When he love God more then me and can tell me this. I will know the blessing is ready. So I wait.

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

That's not how God works. God does not SEND a man who isn't already in Him and walks closely with Him. So you are waiting on an Ishmael who is the wrong person for you and likely sent by satan to distract you. Focus on BEING SENT to the right place at the right time so you can be FOUND by the man who is already in God because HE who FINDETH a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the Lord" - Proverbs 18:22

[@beckygifty]

I can't even start to explain how your video but am actually in this phase. It felt peaceful watching this because now I can what God is doing, trust His work and let him finish what he started. For the past 2yrs I have been struggling with fear and doubt even when the signs were everywhere I still couldn't believe them. I give God glory for this timing because I can say I have been a difficult soul to a very gentle person.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@tiffytoo]

Ugh me too

[@candacegiles4899]

That’s Real when you say “Only God gets the glory” You can’t let other influences get in the way when you know that you know that He put this relationship together!!

[@teaminnerpeace6279]

Yes getting yourself together first is the key and don't settle because God wants the best for his children. God will also give you dreams if that person is right or wrong for you. Thank you for this Stephan. Blessings all.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@vawnlock7514]

So very true! I would have nightmares that my ex husband was cheating on me with a woman. I'm not the type who looks for evidence but believes what happens in the dark world be revealed in the light. Never had intuition about him cheating just the nightmares. Sure enough an emergency happen with a family member and I had to leave work early and my ex husband was no where to be found. Eventually it came out he was cheating. Put your trust in God and not in man. He will always see you through the storms and victories.🙏🏾💙

[@estherkargia6887]

What if you don't see him in your dreams at all. How can you know God is talking to you about him?🤷🤷

[@LigareRadix]

@@estherkargia6887 intuition

[@estherkargia6887]

@@LigareRadix wow oook

[@avihill1407]

I was going through so much turmoil and confusion trying to figure out what I did, where I went wrong and what I was supposed to learn from this. I was just thanking God for bringing me closer to Him a few days ago and this is confirmation that I still have work to do. Thank you for being God's vessel....he definitely knows I'm hard headed . 😆 To God be the Glory

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙏

[@BatmanFan2.0]

Amen. Dont ask God "please give this to me, please make this work." Instead ask, "God, what do You want me to do? How can I attain this the way You want me to?" I needed this.

[@_JustKianna]

Confirmation for me because December 2021, the day after Christmas, I crossed paths with the man of my dreams. But that’s all it was. We saw each other, made it known that we saw each other but that was it. But I knew. I felt it in my entire body & spirit that he is my soul mate so I have just been praying and working everyday.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙏

[@ashleyboo42ify]

Omg!!! Same happened to me in December 2020! I feel the same way you feel Kianna! I'm continuing to work on myself as well. Thank you for allowing God to use you Stephan!💜🙏🏽💪🏾

[@_JustKianna]

@@ashleyboo42ify God got us Ashley! Everything will happen in his timing! 🙏🏾

[@ashleyboo42ify]

@@_JustKianna Amen! I believe it with all my heart! God got us💜

[@thestoiclover]

Any update? 👀

[@tonisellers7159]

Hi Stephan, I needed to hear this cause I'm so broken and hurt it's beyond words💔

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

[@frankbobby1930]

Hello Toni

[@andken62]

This is so true. I met my girl when she was in a toxic situation. We connected, she was looking for better, I knew God had a hand in this even though the situation said otherwise. It was hard for me at first, but in time I understood what this was about. Good things comes from a wrong situation sometimes, this was one of those times.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that ❤️

[@keehumphrey5284]

Blessings on you both! ♡

[@kimberlysoto3490]

I needed this video about 6-7 years ago. It would’ve saved me a lot of heartache. It still worked out but it was a lot more painful for all parties involved.

[@angelmwende1873]

Ik😢

[@dafnenoel9825]

Me too

[@Malibulovers]

Exactly what you've described has happened to me. 19 years ago I met a guy and had a deep connection with. I wanted a serious commitment but he never offered me one and I casually moved on. However, I was too immature to really express my truth feelings for him and vice versa. Years later I married a man who I never connected with - it was an awfully abusive marriage and I finally divorced him on 2/28/22. Literally in March 2022 I got an email from my first person. I was so shocked. I thought this was peculiar and deep and wondered what was really going on. Since then we communicate intermittently and still struggle to find our "sweet spot". I'm unsure if we ever will but I truly believe the universe sent him to me in March 2022 to encourage me to never look back ❤️

[@noemihonor1390]

I'm in the same situation of this video, it's crazy how yt recommended this video for me right on time. I prayed for God to guide me and guide the man I like, and this video confirms and says what I have to do which is keep waiting for the right time to go forward. We discovered we like each other recently and Holy Spirit is teaching us about right time and the purpose of God in the details. Since we met, we never rushed anything, even before we knew we like each other, God was teaching us abt time, in long distance, and we almost don't talk, but when we talk we see God is teaching us the same things that envolves both of us, and treating us individually, using our friendship for healing our hearts and makes us more mature in a spiritual way and like human beings. Now I'm sure about what I have to do. Thank God for the answer! God always have a purpose on everything!❤

[@msprettykawaii950]

After my abusive husband left, I met a single guy after I prayed" God if I was meant to grow old with someone, please make him love the way I do"

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@michellescott8541]

My bro I am in total agreement with this topic.I had the right guy in my life at the wrong time.My experience was this guy came in my life when I needed someone to pour some positivity back into my life. The moment I wanted to give up on life he came and made my life worth living.And I realise it was God sent him for that season in my life.It wasn't a love relationship it was a beautiful friendship.I was healed emotionally and I thanked God so much for him and nine mths later He died of cancer.I thank God for him everyday because this guy helped me mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

[@hairtutorial1342]

I laughed so hard listening to you and your "spot on" analogy! An on-time God sent you to deliver an on-time message. This message is 100% F-A-C-T-S!!!!! Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@emmiescorner7674]

Letting some things go really helps a lot of times

[@katrinamccullough7100]

This is EXACTLY what I’m experiencing! What you’re saying is VERY TRUE! It’s real. We’re both drawn to each other, it’s a beautiful yet difficult experience. We will be patient with each other. When God says it’s time, we will be ready. God is preparing us. He’s the ONE God has for ME! We have the 3c’s

[@sharonbarley8191]

You are so right meeting the right person at the wrong time will definitely awake something in you I am experiencing that right now I keep pushing the pause button just to make sure this is from God I am so willing to wait if I have to I want the best that God has for me and also I can love the person without them being my man so on this journey of my life with the Lord I am learning so much in relationships with family friends Frenemies this is definitely a mind-blowing journey for me but with my hand in God's hand I got this last but not least I will let anybody go for God OMG keep me in prayer

[@lindaleaslie9388]

❤️🙏Been so focused on the "oh I guess not meant to be" instead of praying for guidance on how to get there. And now realize that every time I want to give up or discouraged I see his name. Constantly. 💫💫💫

[@RacilleAshley-sf7yv]

Hi, Mr. Stephen GOD brings two people together FOR HIS GLORY his purpose. 🙏🙏 May THE LORD, CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU!!

[@dena5558]

I spent several hours this evening in prayer and tears over this exact topic. Then, I got into bed and hopped onto KZbin …this is the first video I saw. I felt like God was smacking in the face like here ya go! Thank you! Thank you so much for sharing this message with us. 🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@cflanagan65]

God’s syncronicity is AMAZING 🙏🏻💙

[@zeal4god402]

God knows how to best smack us towards our best!

[@natureteknatutekno7905]

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[@HealThyLivingQueen]

Whoa… Everyone needs to hear this word! This is really good. God bless you. I wasn’t even looking for true love and it find me once I’ve found the Most High and myself! I didn’t even know it existed like this. Lots of the time we are being prepared for who it is the Lord has for us. May everyone who watches this video find true love and happiness when the good Lord says it is time 🫶🏾 He knows what is best for all of His children. God bless!