That Man WILL Waste Your Time For THESE 3 Reasons!

[@Keonahawk24]

Heavy on the “you can’t wait for people to do right by you, YOU have to do right by YOU!”

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@PeaceMatters5]

I recently had a guy like this, I let him go ASAP like 3 strikes you're out. I deserve better and now I'm dating a lovely kind guy who has many green flags. Ladies Let him go please!!!

[@donnatownsendp]

I’ve dealt with someone like this one time…..when he started getting feelings, he got ghost & alleged he had a lot going on. Months later, this hello jack came calling me again wanting to hangout…same thing….the cycle. So when I cut him off completely, he went lurking on social media to find me & telling me how he’s looking for a wife. I told him that I wasn’t the one for him. I don’t do inconsistency!

[@TUCL872]

I had this situation for over ten years until I got pregnant with another man

[@TUCL872]

This is exactly what I told him girl. I'm sure the only thing he wanted was to get intimate and feel like he conquered me? What a devil🤬

[@PeaceMatters5]

Amen, you did the right thing! Allow that time waster 🙌

[@ElevateWithDri]

I can relate! Lol I got a kick out of the social media lurking 👀 and not saying a word but keep matching on the same dating apps still being inconsistent and having my direct phone number the entire time 😂 can’t even call him a hello Jack 👋🏽 cos he never said hi. Just popping up outta nowhere and hearting a video but not follow me 🤷🏽‍♀️ I just sat back cracking up at that behavior.

[@MimiCoco-gt7zo]

Perfect video I got rid of a 5 month situationship last May 2024. Mind games, gaslighting, stringing me along, guilt tripping, ect. I'm so glad I bowed out. 🎉

[@darlene5848]

Agreed

[@therealqueenofeverything]

Same, but 8 months!

[@angelamendez1032]

I’m in deep pain right now because of a man you described. I pray God gives me the strength and the courage to let him go.

[@donnatownsendp]

@@angelamendez1032 if you truly wanna let him go….just do it! Ask yourself why it’s so hard to let him go? What does he do for you & is it worth you constantly allowing him to build your hopes up on let downs? Don’t play yourself. I’ve been where you’re at! That’s why I comes to this platform & can comment like I do. Experience was my best teacher. I made a vow to myself to never let a woman feels like she can’t do better & have to settle….naw naw, we ain’t doing that no more!

[@peanut20002001]

It Is up to you not to God 😥

[@Keonahawk24]

We have all been there honey. You are going to be ok. Don’t go back or you’ll be in a cycle of being hurt.

[@olayinkaosibodu]

God already told you what to do. It’s up to you to walk away now

[@teresalopez1529]

You can do it girl...It is very hard to do. Heart breaking, but the sooner you do, the quicker you will heal and move on to find someone who truly loves and deserves you. I think we have all been here as women.

[@chalottacox5898]

OMG! This video was made exactly for me. I just ended a relationship with a man after 18 months for this reason. I was the one giving and giving, and he did as well, but not to the extent that I was giving. He was low on affection, thoughtfulness, generosity, and emotional intelligence.....I could go on and on. But I finally made the best decision for me, which was to let him go. He wanted the benefits of a relationship but did not want the responsibilities that came along with it. He is a good person, and I love him dearly, but he is not good for me. And might I also mention that I am almost 45 and he will be 57 this year.

[@agika7777]

Omg I was the same and same age both of us..😢 16 years ge wasted of my time, you did well ending so early 😢

[@peanut20002001]

Oh man he is and old school type loser .

[@jack-eg6xz]

Not 57 omg

[@donnatownsendp]

We women don’t let go of these type of guys a lot of times because we’re “hopeful they’ll change”

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙂 Thank you for your feedback 🙏

[@CashThat4U]

Especially an addict.

[@DebroahPol]

Wow 😓😓😪😥😢going through it.two yrs done the drain. So over it he doesn’t leave me alone. Have my own apartment my own hes just been using me. Pray for me please. 🙏

[@terrijones1389]

Hopeful 😊

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Changes starts from within,we can drag a horse to the water but cannot make it drink

[@donnatownsendp]

Stef….i call these type of guys “Hello Jacks” because they’ll say hello & Jack your life up 😂

[@tiannatee5933]

😂 Good one!

[@coco_shannae]

😂😂 screaming

[@nursekillm]

Perfect! 😅

[@DS-wv7lf]

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

[@monicasmith923]

I’ve got to use that 😂😂😂😂!!!

[@msdemeanour]

Men will only treat you the way you allow them to treat you ✨

[@RatoKM]

This is true I’ve been demanding anything from my husband for 15 years and he’s used to it so he doesn’t support me financially but now I’m getting tired of him not taking care of me but I don’t know how to ask, he wants me to ask but I can’t ask a man I’m married to give me anything I think he should know what I deserve and effortlessly give it to me

[@judedonnelly4100]

​@@RatoKMI "haven't" been demanding is what you meant !??

[@tashamack8701]

I agree

[@msnaytaylor7078]

What you put up with you allow. Self worth, Self motivation, Self awareness. I am dealing with this now sadly😒. That conversation about transparency is necessary, working on this as we speak.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing that 🙏

[@charmaineandrews5435]

Boys

[@merveillemabidi3018]

Going to break up with my 3 years boyfriend today after listening to this . He is actually what Stephan said

[@donnatownsendp]

Ladies…..just raise your standards & make it your law & be your number one law abiding citizen 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌💯

[@tashamack8701]

I agree👏🏿👏🏿

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

A man can only WASTE my time if I allow him to,plain and simple

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯

[@maemaez9749]

Yah ...he can waste my time ...he just filled my car up....Houdini, ghost what ever this is ...he keeps coming back, I'm not letting go ....when he gone gone I'll be done done

[@donnatownsendp]

They’ll keep coming back because we they know that they don’t have to do much to be with you & when them feelings start rearing up, he retreats so that he don’t have to deal with his feelings & when they dwindle down, he’ll pop back up!

[@sugalowa]

I just had a hard breakup. It's been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My former partner is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anyone else. I know it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.

[@olivinaromina1450]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without him, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring him back into my life if you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference.

[@sugalowa]

How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@olivinaromina1450]

His name is Father Obah Eze and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@olivinaromina1450]

He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.

[@sugalowa]

Thanks to your useful information, I just looked him up online. amazing Father Obah Eze is really sincere, based on my online research. Once again, thank you ❤

[@anitaevans5361]

Self-doubt tripped me up, an easy target. Integrity is my core & I'm on my mission. I set myself free on New Years Day. It hurts but back 2 my mission, living my best life ❤️‍🔥

[@stayitive4343]

NPD type wanted me to keep on giving under sunk cost fallacy after 'investing with care'. This implied toxic one way in they did 'not care'. Do not expect: respect, care, effort, consideration. No hearing/seeing your POV, opinions, or feelings. Your role is transactional to serve them with validation, attention, resources in THEIR SMALL WORLD. End this situationship by YOU GO NO CONTACT / GRAY ROCK (You no longer care to listen)

[@nadlat8880]

Its so hard to walk away, time heals nothing it just makes the pain harder. I am more successful in every aspect of life, and his life is a mess but i see the good in him. He has never met a woman who does not need his money and respects him, so he doesn't know how to handle this mature, responsible woman.

[@BluntSpeaker]

I love this title cause they really do waste women who they DON’T know time like they got nothing better to do. Also can you do a video on dating as a virgin waiting for marriage and how to date as a virgin cause of circumstance without caring to wait for marriage?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@TUCL872]

Can you imagine that it took 17 years for me to come to terms because i was still not married but yet he was also not married. It had to take prayers to help break free from him. It was not easy at all.

[@donnatownsendp]

These guys don’t wanna be in a relationship with us women because we’re keep making it easy for them & they probably see us as desperate & needy…..for the sake of loneliness, we’ll tolerate whatever time we can get with them. Lord don’t sex the brother, you’re addicted 🤦‍♀️

[@donnatownsendp]

If you’re constantly giving these guy & they’re not giving in return…when you speak out on it, here comes the “see there, why you changing and tripping?”

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@hansdearie0051]

You are absolutely right

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯🙂

[@lovelyshirl]

LOVED this video. It helped me see my current "quasi-relationship" I'm in from a whole different perspective. Thank you ❤

[@PinkyJones-p3d]

Real truth here being spoken!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you, I appreciate that

[@PurnoBoro-qg8bh]

i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.

[@PivdennaChaika]

You are great!!! I want a husband like you 😂😂😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😊❤️

[@donnatownsendp]

Ladies…..sometimes that “good good” have them addicted and they can’t let go

[@msnaytaylor7078]

I approve this message SIS!!💯👍🏽💪🏽🫶🏽

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Ha ha 🤣🤣🤣 woman power , they can function without that good good

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

This definitely does happen

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

It's true, but that is not good enough for me to keep anyone around.

[@donnatownsendp]

@@TawandaClark-ii9ps Sis you have arrived! We have some sisters that haven't.....

[@donnatownsendp]

That’s that Calvin Richardson song “holding on, I can’t let go of you” 😂

[@RynaBNicki]

Just ended a 3 year relationship yesterday because I knew something was missing and I was the only one giving. Life is too short. I have to got to do what a right for me.

[@rolleendasilva163]

This is so deep

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@lorettajohnson207]

TELL IT LIKE IT IS STEPHAN, LET ME 3 IT ARE YOU PREACH ING IT OR TEACHING IT .EITHER WAY I LOVE IT.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@analynsilvia3485]

Very interesting topics i love watching your videos all the way❤❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you, I truly appreciate that

[@donnatownsendp]

These guys be having situationships all over the place….just being a hobo with these women.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Unfortunately this is true

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

I just live and try to get to where I am headed in life.

[@PivdennaChaika]

Bottomline is I've never met a man or a guy like you in my whole life (will 47 in May, of my!!!). So wise, so positive, so constructive, yet emotional... if there were more guys like you, women would never be lonely, that's all I have to say...

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Exactly I do agree, Steph is really special and Godly to ,but the good guys are having a hard time finding a good woman to, I guess that they are frustrated as well

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Hey Steph you aced it with this young lady hence the reason she wanted to take it to another level ,CONGRATS 😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀👍👍👍

[@dibyanshuenglishanmathteac8412]

one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page

[@ArnisByrne]

Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

[@KatherineDecker-x2l]

Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.

[@ArnisByrne]

Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?

[@KatherineDecker-x2l]

Meet Owen Abiola, a renowned spiritual counselor acclaimed for his talent in bringing back ex-partners.

[@ArnisByrne]

Thank you for this valuable information.

[@JackieS812]

Thank you!❤

[@TUCL872]

I also had this situation for 10 years and then i saw him again seven years thats a total of 17years of ghosting. In the 10th year i gave birth with another man. And then this man was so furious and angry with. Smh.😊

[@dianehawthorne1237]

You are right ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@paulalatham6634]

After 43years I'm done

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

People can't expect to move forward if they keep staying in the past...I don't reminensce about my past, no matter how great the s** may have been.

[@jessicacagle2187]

I have a guy who says he loves me and admits that he stalks me on social media. He won't let me go. This is so on point with the information provided.

[@khadijachadim8430]

yesssss all is right

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯🙂

[@TUCL872]

Exactly for 17.years he never showed any form of commitment. Thank God i never got intimate with him.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

All of these things sounds like past experiences I've long overgrown.🤷🏾 However, for the women going through it, hopefully you help him to understand that you are much more worth than what they're willing to understand and appreciate. 👍🏾

[@merveillemabidi3018]

You’re just funny on the booty stuff lol 😂 I laughed so hard and thank you so much for helping figure things out towards men 🙏🙏🙏🙏😂

[@job7690]

Yes, yes, & yes!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@nonenone6884]

there is no such thing as ghosting ,you have been DUMPED . grow up and get on with your life.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

If you’re ghosted then yes you’ve been “dumped”, but you can be dumped but not ghosted.

[@tonid773]

Actually if you are ghosting people you are the one that needs to grow up.

[@cellostrings2522]

Move on. It’s hard to do when you have invested a lot of time. But he’s not worth it. He should be madly in love with you. Don’t twist his arm to get him to reciprocate. Just cut your loses and move on.

[@h8h215]

Isnt that going to be hard to leave if your madly in love with him?

[@ORANGELILY4U]

YES, Stephan yessssssss.☀️🌺🏹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙂 thank you for watching

[@SubhajitDas-b2b]

there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.

[@prettybrown8886]

Only if I saw this video eight years ago. In my case in the beginning he played games & I cut him off for months. He then came back begged and pretended to be ready & great until we got married. It’s been one hell of a toxic ride. We had a conversation last night and he accused me of telling people our business. I told him that no way I’d give ppl details of the stuff that I allowed. I’m an educated woman i should’ve walked away long ago. He responded with you wasn’t smart then. I couldn’t agree with him more. He then said that he hates the woman that I’ve become. I know I’m doing the right thing by walking away. Hopefully we will be divorced by summer. Thank you for your work.

[@lorettajohnson207]

OH YEAH I TWO BELIEVE THERE IS A GREAT MAN THAT I CAN EXPERIENCES AGREAT RELATIONSHIP WITH.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@user-ee7zouser-ee7zo7vh3v]

i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.

[@nyuuuchan]

It's not just young males either! A 41 year-old child dumped me after years because 'he doesn't know the meaning of life' 🤣 you can't make this up 😆

[@Jm-ls8dt]

Stephan I am tired of these games. Do you have a brother or something????? 😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

3 sisters, no brothers ☹️

[@donnatownsendp]

It’s sad to say, but a lot of us women (before we wake up) creates space for these guys to be this way with us & then we trips! Listen, our lives are 5 🌟 movies and we have the leading role

[@donnatownsendp]

Them lil sneaky links be a waste of time too……and most of them be having that gator 🐊 tail & will sup everything 😂😂😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

lol 😂

[@donnatownsendp]

You know I ain’t lying 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dpaper7962]

😂 this is my situationship. It was love in first sight with a low down immature young 25 year old “boy”. At first I was having fun playing sugar momma but now it’s turning out where I’m not getting what I want for what I am paying for. So no contact it is bc now I lost my power and that’s not happening!

[@dmix2263]

Works both ways

[@anitradavis6449]

Why is it so damn hard to just do right by people? Why intentionally hurt/use/abuse someone because of your own faulty insecurities. We don't know how much time we have remaining, so to waste someone's time with the bs is just dirty work.

[@Rissasweetie50]

I'm dealing with the same thing right now. Yes, I'm in love with him and he said he is in love with me. I feel his actions doesn't show that. What can I do

[@DeborahDaniels-kq9pe]

Explain it Pastor

[@PivdennaChaika]

I wish I met a man like you in my life, really....

[@paulalatham6634]

All the above 😮

[@tindappabeloru2168]

i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.

[@RatoKM]

Please I need to talk to you how do I reach you, I’m in deep pain with my husband together for 15 years 3 children and he doesn’t take care of me nor support me, financially, emotionally or anything and he’s refusing to leave

[@pomhubnz-hq]

I have a personal rule never to keep a relationship with someone if they go to prison, it's seriously not worth it; they're there for reasons you didn't engage to be so selfish to take away one person from two that should stay together in the outside no matter what. Reasons are what get people to prison, don't keep them if they go to prison.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

I'm not having this issue, because a person has to be vigorously in the process of dating on and off, and while experiencing these issues. 😊

[@Airwak2]

I’m sitting here on the side of the road . Ran over something that causes a flat tire. Thank god for roadside. I know if I called the guy that I have been talking to 11 months now that I have a flat tire it would be a waste of time. He is always busy. If I tell him about this after the fact he wouldn’t probably say oh why didn’t you tell me?? Well I’m afraid of you disappointing me but not picking up or can’t get to me . Why waste my time

[@Jewelleanita1]

I’m in my 50s, been with my partner 6 yrs and thought we’d be married by now only for him to tell me he wants us to stay together for the rest of our lives but not married. What???

[@h8h215]

He may hold the same belief as i do which is marriage is an agreement between two people staying together through thick and thin to bring up children, if you are not having children together why get married? I told my girlfriend at the start that i dont believe in marriage unless we were having children and since we are not having children ill not marry her.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Straight !!!!!👍👍

[@ELizabeth_Beeza]

Thank you brother yet again you saved me. The Guy I was getting to know. He was no for me...plus he was Scammer just wanted me buying him Nike Shoes. The Hell with Him. Thank you! Brother for helping me out. I sent he to the CURB ! The Guys friends was damn scammers too wanting FREE BEES COFFEES

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m glad my work was helpful to you, and that you did what was best for you

[@ELizabeth_Beeza]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks Amen !!

[@favor-favor-favor]

I won't fall for it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Good!

[@Kamseherthepoet]

The title of this video made me scream 🤣

[@DrAJay-or9vb]

I am talking to a guy from 5 months and he works far away . We haven’t met once yet . Although we had planned it two times but due to some urgent work I cancelled the first meet and other he cancelled because of some sudden notice from his work of him being transferred to some other department in work. After 3-4 months we started sexting. We both have confessed our feelings that we like each other. When I asked him about commitment … he said that ‘we haven’t even met once. Let’s not hurry up things.. let’s know each other .. let’s be friends first’ . But as I am older than him ( he is 27 and I am 31 ) I want a commitment now. We have planned to meet very soon. I have told him now that am not going to do that sexting stuff again . Let’s behave like good friends now. He tells me that I am your boyfriend , calls me daily before sleep(not very late though), says love you often, gives kisses at the end of the call. I rarely texts him first . Sometimes it feels like he will never give me a commitment, sometimes it feels like there is some hope( because I love him). Don’t know what to do.🥺

[@h8h215]

You havent even met yet, this would be seen as unreasonable and creepy if a guy asked this of a woman they havent met, stop being creepy....my ex did this with me, we spoke on a dating app for about 2 weeks before meeting but i was still messaging other women, when we met i stopped messaging other women because i seen there is genuine connection, she complained about me messaging other women before meeting up, this is delusional thinking.

[@ticklemetricia8306]

Why does a man want to keep me a secret from his kids and ex but not his family and friends ?

[@h8h215]

Because he doesnt want you involved in his kids / ex lives, why create potential drama if it can be avoided?

[@maemaez9749]

Ghost and come back more than once... is that not letting go ghost... Houdini more I like it

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

I KNOW my Bubba wouldn't say that to me💅🏾

[@sevanajan6757]

Awwwwwwww😂😂😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

lol 😂

[@coxcustomcreations4101]

😢 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏❤️

[@ninacontratto6528]

Ladies, do you need a man that bad? Seriously?

[@PivdennaChaika]

Are you free? Marry me😂😂😂

[@October3074]

WHY after 5 mins in2 ur video, it goes in2 an ad that is soooo long? Are u that hard up 4 money from allowing these ads???

[@arshzxc-short]

i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.

[@MohammadShaid1234]

i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.

[@aneshikbal2062]

i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everything-confidence boosters, social tips, you name it-but nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.

[@KrishanVerma-ex2oi]

there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was just…there. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you? it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.