Ladies- Would You Date A Man With No Job?

[@theguy9234]

"I don't care if he is flipping burgers or picking flowers" Yeah what a load of crap.

[@parkerxjr]

That comment was made for tv

[@jesp1423]

Right

[@slowjoe4209]

Bruh who u telling

[@thisblackgirloverhere9013]

The Guy True...because as a grown woman, I don’t want a man that’s flipping burgers. Stuff costs money.😐

[@theworldisimmense]

The Guy haha yea facts. You think a woman will be into a guy who works at McDonald’s or a guy who’s a CEO of his own company? Haha society huh

[@alexandrasalas1198]

"If you lose your job you will lose your woman, not now...but eventually" - Chris Rock.

[@rolandedwards1777]

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU SMH.

[@hambone7181]

Just like if you get fat you will lose your man

[@rushfan9thcmd]

Sounds like shes worth losing before it gets started. If she runs when times are difficult, shes a loser from the start.

[@jonathanknyame6430]

I see

[@redfather5342]

Sounds like a who're

[@Soluchi-InfiniteCoCreatorGod]

These women are confusing me. They're contradicting themselves.

[@eliassocrates338]

It isn't about coherence but the claps.

[@endthefed1448]

Lol, what else did you expect? They are wimminz.

[@Yo-yo-ma150]

They said they don’t mind that he’s broke if as long as he has goals, but they all know that the only way to check if someone has goals before getting closer to them is by looking at what job they have or how much is in the bank

[@stealthunter14]

Exactly, there's clearly 2 conflicting views on this couch and it seems every woman sitting there is extremely confused about which view they hold, constantly jumping back and forth between the 2. Steve was the only one that remained consistent in his view.

[@MrJimmy3459]

That's just how women are, they don't know what the hell they want

[@anubisgod23]

"Why are men avoiding marriage these days?" Answer: These women

[@longgahn4486]

Anthony Kist yup

[@jeenjeanjeen]

If you have a penis and you're looking for a woman to be the provider and take care of u, ain't there no woman who'll want to marry u anyway.

[@ssgtakeover]

Exactly I’m good

[@anubisgod23]

@@sanghuloom6943 so are you my man

[@azharsattar7653]

What's in it for us? NOTHING!

[@thrilla72]

As if any of them would date a man who's flipping burgers.

[@onahunt5967]

thrilla72 hell naw that wouldn't

[@iceboss226]

Million dollar question right here

[@devinngeorge]

thrilla72 I think they mean at least be active while you're trying to get your goaos

[@victoriacharles9950]

I bet if he was super hot then .. yeah

[@celestematthews3266]

thrilla72 Right I agree with you on that

[@vistadriv]

They don't even realize how terrible they sound

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Daniel Rivera They will 20 years from now when they're living with a house full of cats.

[@endthefed1448]

Daniel Rivera it is called having Narcissistic personality disorder. Sadly, majority western women suffer from this.

[@michaelangst6078]

they are famous and in their late 30's + and have spent a ton on plastic surgey.. You think they want to be with a balding dude who isn't successful in his 30's?

[@sonofliberty6915]

@@rosecapitalgroupinc hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yea !!! right ! lmfao !!!

[@pytAK47]

i’m a female and i’m like 😬

[@Mickr4]

All i hear is "I want to be treated like a princess and you to be my servant."

[@boxyzebra3341]

Once you have children the game changes. What these “GROWN WOMEN” are saying is I can do or pay for someone to do what your going, but if we partners hold me me down and I will hold you down.

[@mangkanor9403]

Thats cause you dusty

[@jfyne03]

@1964sleepy They can have all the money in the world and still that wouldn't satisfy them. Take Eve for instance...

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

No they just want men to do what they're supose to do, provide.

[@ggpz1979]

Yessssssss

[@letterfake8319]

“No enough men are teaching their sons to be a man.” Yes well you can thank your family court system for that.

[@shinobiprince6999]

If that's the case then these "women" shouldn't be working since that could also be a thing a man usually does. That means a man can stay home and work on the house and still be a man. They're basically saying that he is only being used, not genuinely liked or loved.

[@Crymeareva]

Literally everyone on the planet at some point in thier life has tried to PREACH on "how to be men", but dare they say about "how to be woahmen" they'd get cancelled in no time

[@greenlove5833]

Being a man has nothing to do with providing for women

[@2l84me8]

Too many women don’t know how to pick a good man then that’s their faults.

[@malikrichardson9125]

problem is not enough women are teaching their daughters how to be a woman

[@nyc4233]

I don't hear any of these women say what they give to their men! it's always about what they expect!!

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

That's what I noticed

[@Pinky_Piie]

NYC 42 well women never talk about what they do for their men

[@nyc4233]

Imersiion Really?? What planet have you been living on ha ha ha??

[@Pinky_Piie]

NYC 42 I’ve never met a women anywhere where they’ve given something to their guy just about what they’ve been given

[@thetruthseeker9414]

Women aren't really self actualizing. They really can't account to their character only if the end goal has a cake and eat it too scenario. They'll beat around the bush trying to make the world bend to their liking. However, I have met women of good character but it's usually the older generations. Still, self actualization is hard for em.

[@mranere]

So what exactly do they do for their men? All I heard was "Me Me Me, what I want, What I need when I need it."

[@von6413]

Lmao that’s the thing, today’s society tells women they can do anything they want and they don’t need a man but people like Steve tells men that they can’t survive without a woman. I think both needs to work together but If we’re going to go this route then I can stand up on my own two legs too.

[@GeneralG1810]

Exactly a man is suppose to bring everything to the table, and these days all women bring is a knife and fork

[@6ixlxrd]

@@GeneralG1810 The funny part is that these women are literally LOADED with cash, making more figures than the average guy will ever see, and are still expecting a guy to bring literally everything to the table to...get what in return? If I wanted a short-term hoe I'd go to a club.

[@freddiecramford3722]

So my ears didn't betrayed me I heard correct.

[@SK_Esskay]

AintOP: Damn right baby

[@gregnagy7569]

When will single women learn...... Advise from other single women will not help you.... There are reasons they are single........ Talk to women in successful relationships.........

[@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496]

Same with guys who can't keep a girl. Steve Harvey is the one who has them on here giving advice. No one asked them anything.

[@AllPro777]

@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 But this advice is for women. And men never listen to men who can't get women, we're not like women. Everything does not have a mirror action, but women have a hard time understanding this.

[@parkerxjr]

@@naturalkinkycurlymarie7496 Men consider the source more than women do . Our friends do not talk us out of something we like.

[@thisblackgirloverhere9013]

Greg Nagy What a successful relationship is to one person might be a horror to another.

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Or listen to broke entitled men

[@vaishnavsahu8433]

"We're running the world" - coming from the citizen of a country with all 46 presidents who were men😂

[@nicholashayes5773]

44 presidents were men.😉

[@c.j.playzmc2430]

Dark Chocolate what

[@qcarey5]

The us isn't the world, these ladies still wrong in my opinion just had to say something

[@hagi3983]

@@nicholashayes5773 it's 46 to be precise

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

Well that's changing...we have a Woman Vice president.

[@stealthspider9831]

"I wanna see ambition", you mean their paycheck lmao

[@williamwebster8367]

Exactly. 🤦‍♂️

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Your only job is to provide and protect can't even do that loser

[@williamwebster8367]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 who are you talking to lmao

[@danielpradhanasaputra7956]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 Yeah, then what is your job? From your comment alone, i can see you are not good at raising children or giving a good example to them as a parent and by the way that's your job. From that mindset alone and your attitude, i can imagine how your child can grow to be a fully grown ass jerk.

[@1234michelle1]

Stealth Spider Yes. Precisely

[@rafaelrobert6235]

This 4 women represent why men don't want to get married

[@manabi314]

I think girl with blond hair is good person

[@ThrustIssues7]

White girls FTW!

[@The_Cat666]

😆😆

[@mirandatwumasi]

Cos they make their own money 🤔

[@blaq_betty]

@@mirandatwumasi exactly what i saw too but i guess some ppl ideas will always be their brain

[@micahmistretta4501]

This is why the MGTOW movement is spreading like wild fire

[@andreantoine3181]

Micah Mistretta 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 You FKN Right about that

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Mgtows are extremely undesirable men who are driven to go their own way because nobody wants them.

[@RiruKrypto_]

Nova I read your comment and I’m like what? 😂 Talking about women then say men at fault.

[@AltNova]

@@RiruKrypto_ Nah

[@Tusuperbis]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 I wouldn't say all MGTOW guys fall in that category. I would say that I do though. Sucks but, that's the facts.

[@Anonymous1312]

2:34 "We're running the world" HAHAHAAHAHA,that part had me dying..

[@jakemf1]

Anonymous#Reuploads complete disconnect from reality

[@shannoncurry2037]

Who's the President! 🤣🤣

[@beer777777]

What?? So basically they see men as their voluntary servant... -_-

[@mangkanor9403]

Yes. Because men are suppose to provide

[@mangkanor9403]

@Bruce Wayne your mom

[@mangkanor9403]

@Bruce Wayne we know bruce, we know.

[@danielpradhanasaputra7956]

@@mangkanor9403 A troll? So i guess this is why we don't like unemployed people. They turning into a jerk with nothing else better to do except trolling on internet.

[@mangkanor9403]

@@danielpradhanasaputra7956 bish I can program better than u indian boi

[@CPPidiots]

To be fair, I don't wanna marry a broke unemployed woman as well. 😉

[@80skid83]

Facts

[@80skid83]

@karma tam also true

[@MyEpiphany430]

Most successful men don't care if a woman is broke or not, as long as she is smart, nurturing, and a great mother.

[@shortlimb1]

Which woman has money though???

[@typicalminer2908]

"w0W THAT'S s0 S3xiSt"

[@andrewgarner2224]

Women: What's mine is mine, what's his is ours.

[@parme1241]

Not quiet right. more like women: what’s mine is mine, what’s his is also mine

[@3ma_lengend]

I heard this saying plenty of times

[@mostafaramy4711]

You said it beautifully.

[@thatguy3456]

Facts

[@TheGamingChad.]

lol yeah, a youtuber asked exotic car owners what they do for a living and the woman in a lambo replied "WE" own....

[@1castellp]

Woman: a man needs ambition. He needs to be moving. Man: agrees and works 80 hours a week Woman: how come you never have time for me? Man: quits job to spend time with his woman Woman: a man needs ambition. He needs to be moving ...

[@ClockworkAnomaly]

Gotta leave em wanting more.

[@littleboyboom_boom4726]

@zadose :Asian men work hard and they are least desirable men in the world.

[@rjdez3589]

Most of these women are alpha. It's like dating a man with a vagina. They will treat you like a kid and scold you if you dont do as they say. Screw that!!...Look for a feminine - submissive woman.

[@hyphen5997]

@@littleboyboom_boom4726 stfu

[@loredelamore]

@@rjdez3589 Screw that, don't look for any woman at all. MGTOW

[@moses2626]

All of them are single on that panel.

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Moses Small The irony huh.

[@moses2626]

Marcus Graves this is true comedy.

[@ajinkyaubale9713]

Moses Small this should be top comment

[@johnbrittain8695]

Moses Small Lol

[@redfather5342]

All the single lady's all single lady's hahaha

[@415jpx6]

They said they are independent “women” yet they want a man that will provide for them. These women are hypocritical lol🤦‍♂️😂,

[@pipebomber04]

Exactly! Why dont they look for the man they love, marry them and provide for them?

[@fiyahriddims]

Female's like them are the worst these days when it comes to dating, avoid them like the plague.

[@cicihenderson9044]

These women made me cringe the entire time smh

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Cithrah Henderson me too

[@stanleyjones1935]

Oh So much! They're contradicting their own beliefs

[@redfather5342]

#MeToo

[@darienford860]

Cithrah Henderson They are celebrities they don't speak for the average woman with their income

[@christianwallace7422]

They are single. Enough said

[@haloace2531]

Divorced twice. Seems like the perfect role model.

[@adam8ive]

Where my MGTOW brothers at!!

[@CLU7CH3R]

@zadose Where's the logic in that argument? 🤔

[@tracibenett4497]

@@CLU7CH3R where is your money and good personality. You're worthless

[@nadanada4996]

mgtow!!!

[@tracibenett4497]

@@ggpz1979 brokeuglytow

[@anniealexander9616]

They are unemployed and couldnt pay the internet bill 😂

[@Antweezy89]

Sorry I’m a man with a great job but I will not get married just to have a house wife that I have to work myself to death to take care of

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Antwan Myers Straight like that my King!!!

[@mauricewilliams7106]

While she out shopping spending all the money

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Maurice Williams You already know...lol

[@goatygal]

I don’t think it’s about any one person taking care of the other financially. It should be two people taking care of each other and contributing to the relationship.

[@Antweezy89]

Goaty Gal&Family totally agree you will get much more from each other working together to better your lives

[@jesusgeronimo312]

I feel like dating is harder for wealthy people because you'll never know if the female likes you for who you are or your financial satus.

[@AllPro777]

That's why wealthy people generally only date and marry wealthy people. Even then though, it doesn't work out often.

[@michaelangst6078]

Just don't spend money on them, the money you have can attract them to you, but that doesn't mean you have to buy them things.... the only men who can take advantage of good looking women now a days are rich men believe it or not

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

@@michaelangst6078 Women with high standards can't get played with a promise. If you ain't spending and investing they're not even THINKING of giving you anything and won't waste their time.The RICHEST man in the world divorced his wife of 25 years wife for a so called gold digger that he's spoiling like crazy. Most men with money want a woman that they find attractive by their side and will do what it takes because they can AFFORD to. Broke men and established wealthy men think completely different.

[@RiruKrypto_]

There’s nobody on this earth who will love you for who you are. Only a few which is rare and you shouldn’t take them for granted.

[@russellnanasahar]

Just fake being broke for a week, or a month.

[@PODSMPSG1]

There's no way they would ever date a guy who bags groceries, makes sandwiches, stocks shelves.

[@ZachAtaxx]

And what if this guy ends up being a millionaire one day? That’s the annoying part is he could have goals set but women don’t care because all they see is a grocery stocker.

[@FrnkieJnkrat1996]

Just described my life😭😭😭

[@SuperBigdude77]

@YoMoma What's wrong with fat women?

[@juiliustied1570]

Seriously, what's wrong with working stacking shelves, bagging groceries, or working at McDonald's and/or Wal-Mart 🤦🏽‍♂️.. At least they're making money and not sitting on their butts all day watching tv.

[@oceanprincess8886]

Lmao true

[@jonnydavis6066]

Yet they expect men to be with unemployed women!

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

jonny davis See the double standard there?

[@lotuswolf1518]

In my country men always marry girl with same degree/salary cause thats how we are raised

[@justonetime6179]

jonny davis men don't mind it. It's not like most men expect their woman to be a provider instead of a nurturer.

[@ThePlumbobiana]

Some men do not want their woman to work. They want her to take care of the family and home. Nothing wrong with that 😂y’all have an issue with being a provider? Find you a woman who is OK with that. Everyone isn’t going to do things YOUR way

[@Bloombaby99]

There are men who choose to be with lazy ass women so they get what they get. Regardless of gender, no one should settle for less.

[@cali6u]

"A broke man is like a broke hand, can't do nothing with it" Chris Rock Grandma

[@kingslate1]

Women request so damn much but give very little in return

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

No it's the other way around.

[@firstlast5630]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 Only in your delusional world. Women are literally good for nothing but a hole.

[@tracibenett4497]

@@firstlast5630 hahahaha a hole you can't even afford. Wonder why you're lonely and embittered.

[@firstlast5630]

@@tracibenett4497 So you're admitting women are literally nothing but a hole for sale?

[@janjoy9759]

@first last.... so you're saying your mother is a good for nothing but a hole.... ??? Got it! Yup! You're absolutely right.... what a wonderful sin you are.... pos

[@scottbrandon9390]

I knew a guy who lost his job two months before the wedding. The recession was in full force and jobs were hard to find. His fiance still married him. That's a real woman, one who realizes there will be highs and lows in marriage.

[@Mae-rr5ye]

She probably saw that he had the character of a man who was not a quitter. That even if he lost his job for a moment she knew he was the type of person who would continue to try to be the best man that he could for her. A man's character tells a lot about the type of husband, father, provider, protect her etc that he will be and if he has a strong character that is a lot more trustworthy than someone who gives up easily

[@fkoff0407]

Amen 🙌🙌🙌

[@davidv6588]

Nobody would call off a wedding because thier partner became unemployed and they actually lived them. You don't get credit for not being a monster

[@bringerofdeath1818]

Wow 👏... What a great social service she did

[@loo2400]

Why do we believe in equal pay if we feel that a man should provide?

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Lo Oo Billion dollar question

[@mauricewilliams7106]

Lo Oo women wanna b independent and want a guy to take care of them also.. which 1 is it. U can't b independent and then turn around & have yo hands out. U can't have it both ways

[@yoruba21]

Equal pay when we both have the same job, experience and education

[@DC...]

Sade_Ashley equal pay when you have identical track records and applied for the same position at the same time.

[@redfather5342]

Good question

[@Raniko2020]

All I heard from all these women was "Show me the MONEY!!"

[@CS-sv8fg]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 lo you are one bitter expired crazy cat lady who hasn't had a date since prom

[@Raniko2020]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 first, you missed the point. second, virgin till marriage so no this 'useless dog' never touched a woman or felt entitled to anything. third, the point i was making is that no woman on that panel is going to take a man 'picking flowers.' Women date up not down. even if it's a perception that he's below her. guy could have his own plumbers business with twenty employees, making a million plus a year. but on a first date when she asks him what he does and he says hes a plumber, she's already out the door. finally, 'standard that you can't meet'? really? let's see. College degree? Check. Six foot plus? Check. Job? Check. Commits to one and only one woman? Check. Works hard to provide for family, loves and respects her in all areas, listens to her concerns and input? Check. Now tell me again about those standards I can't meet.

[@RodovalPTY]

@@Raniko2020 Its funny how most girls upfront wants a 6 foot tall+ guy, I obviously get that women are attracted to taller guys and some of the other requirements, but the moment a guy says in their Bio or alike says " No fat chicks or single moms" they all get crazy and offended lol. Why women can have upfront preferences and guys can't. To be honest, these discussions are useless and the topics in these shows sometimes are stupid. Of course a women won't be attracted to guys that are jobless and with nothing interested going on for themselves. Girls might get away with that it if they are pretty but rest assure that the clock is ticking. Also the fact that women usually date up, not down it comes to an end when they reach 35 or so, beauty starts to fade and their list of requirements although is now even longer, usually will have to settle for less or stay single. The amount of guys waking up and learning that marriage is little to no beneficial to men is going up, and more and more guys are finding out that sometimes the juice doesn't worth the squeeze.

[@inchargenow320]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 why a loyal dog should put all is money in 1 black hole.

[@aj_han]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 I bet you're single and lonely af!

[@andreantoine3181]

1:10 That’s a lie...For starters a woman don’t care about a dreamer, ambition and etc. (not the come up), a woman is attracted to money and power (The present) 🤭

[@simonhimself1]

Its true. When i was in college, these chicks dont give a damn about your goals or the future. They can't process the future period.

[@gdehoyos006]

I’ve had the same experience. It’s hard to understand the amount of sacrifice it takes to actually make it

[@Englishsea24]

@n cw Women don't care about mens plans, even their own sons. Men have to care about and advocate womens though, otherwise they're sexist. I hate the way women manipulate society, they're just selfish

[@mgtowdream8972]

so true

[@suntzu6122]

Thats where you are wrong. Its not $$$ that women look for, its a mans ability to climb hierarchies and his ability to procure FUTURE resources that matters. This is true cross culturally across all of time.

[@simonhimself1]

"I've dated a bunch of musicians". Translation = I've had sex with tons of "bad boys" and wanna settle down with some chump.

[@amandaforrester7636]

So, In other words, women can't win. Might as well go for money if dating the unemployed guys is ALSO held against you. Either money doesn't matter, or it does. Pick one. (And before you throw accusations my way, I haven't done either. I've checked out of the game and support myself. Dating is not worth the headache. )

[@Sebastian-px3bl]

@@amandaforrester7636 how about go for a guy you love rather then his wallet 🤷‍♂️

[@greenlove5833]

@@amandaforrester7636 strange that a man provides and take care of a woman but women won't do the same for him so selfish

[@greenlove5833]

@Meep_ Murp there is far more bum women that men have to take care of men shouldn't marry a woman that's not working

[@greenlove5833]

@Meep_ Murp the real bums are the guys that provide for a woman they are most miserable slaves with no character or fun and life left in them because they have to work hard to shelter and feed a grown-up woman like a baby. These men ruine they lives with this stupid choice

[@Kevin-sg5xc]

Stopped watching at "I started modeling when I was 17".

[@esmeraldacuellarortiz7789]

I stopped watching as soon as they cut the first lady off in trying to giving her point of view, how rude :(

[@luischavez4130]

Kevin Laurendi i stopped watching after she said "when i waz 17" what a load 😖💩😃AHHH

[@lycheesack]

she look like a model for crocs

[@chrisw9122]

That's why she's a millionaire and you are complaining about her lol

[@leilo330]

She's ugly af to be a model!

[@beebobox]

What do women do for men?

[@mrcolemore5831]

I'm reading book to find out. Still no clue

[@sb-ns8bl]

nothing

[@victoriaobiadazie6588]

beebobox Women carry babies for nine good months and birth and nurture the babies

[@gamejunkie6519]

nurture the babies? in this generation? are you kidding me

[@Mafaneh20950]

Victoria Obiadazie how are they nurturing the babies when they are also working? Whoops

[@sabah4123]

Yes, why not, if he's willing to work. It's not a crime, love conquers all. 🤷‍♀️🇦🇺 married a man who had nothing, still married 46 yrs later.

[@williamwebster8367]

You the real MVP 👏👏

[@xtremezaykay1036]

True respect not many people do this in the u.s.a

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Like you had options, go ahead and lie 😂😂😂 if he had money would he be with you or are you all he could get?

[@danielpradhanasaputra7956]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 Seriously, it seems like everything happen in your life are only bad things and you don't want anyone else to be happy. Even a good news such as this you consider as a lie or too good to be true. I am very sorry to hear that.

[@Supiragon1998]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 It's hilarious how all the comments I've read from you were projections 😂

[@zachwagner9978]

A few years back, my friend lost his job.. It was a job way above his pay grade and it was hard to find another job at that level. After 4 months of this, his wife of 7 years left him. Everything was great until the money was gone. The ironic part, she never had a job in her life and spent her unlimited free time spending a good portion of his money. Now she receives half his earnings and her life of doing nothing can continue til the end of her days

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

That's what he gets for marrying a shallow women. Next time he shouldn't just focus on looks ,he has to focus on personality too

[@keepitapostolic.]

Aww man smh that's not right!

[@strawberrydiamond5886]

I'm so sorry to hear that 😔 it's a damn shame that she would do that to him

[@okidokiyowyow356]

Prenup needs to be normalize for marriage. Divorce only favor the women even the law.

[@derp8575]

@@gatestimonymiracle1302 How do you know what she looks like? Let's assume you are correct: If he shouldn't focus on looks, she shouldn't focus on money. Hypergamy exists; whether you want it to or not.

[@missionimpossible4869]

How many women build houses from the ground up in skyscrapers, how many women worked in auto mechanic shops, how many women are plumbers and electricians, how many women know how to replace the roof on a house? Is it really a matter of equality or is it really a matter of mutual respect? Men and women are different one is not more valuable than the other, we each have our place, responsibility, and functions in this world and we can complement each other. God created man, and then he created the woman as the man's help, who ever has a problem with that can talk to God about it.

[@Lyttleton25]

Amen!

[@Lyttleton25]

I agree with Mission Impossible; women are just as blessed to be able to do all they can, but men and women each have their place; and if they can work together as one, great things can happen.

[@boomerang905]

Amen.

[@markbrown2891]

You are so right my friend. Incredible I could not have said it better myself.

[@CourtneyA.]

Agreed!

[@Luna-ck3gp]

And this is why, i stay single. I don't need unneeded problems.

[@mangkanor9403]

By choice or by no choice? 😂😂

[@ttepic76]

DONT GET WIFE.

[@cryptojonny6837]

More money for you if you stay single lol.

[@CS-sv8fg]

@@mangkanor9403 every choice that involves a woman is a terrible or in fact the worst possible choice.

[@rebekahoj]

You’re the world a favor,every woman needs a good man.

[@Music64378]

"I've been married twice" bruh why she giving advice🤣🤣🤣

[@snowiehadebe4305]

To help u avoid marrying twice too😂

[@djbabyT15]

@@snowiehadebe4305 lol!!!!!!!!!!!

[@baazic2507]

It’s the type of women your attracting

[@isaac2986]

OMG you just made me realize that LMAOOOO

[@sweetgirrljames]

Same reason Steve Harvey 3 times divorcy is giving advice. What a dumb comment 🤣🤣🤣

[@uNr3al111]

A man is a real Man when he walks his own path and not listen to anyone, specially these lunatics.

[@Aggie4life77]

In most decent size cities with a good job market, the cost of living pretty much require two salaries unless one person makes over 100k. Even then it can be tight when you add in kids.

[@kingkang6877]

What if he makes $50K but spends $40K frivolously?

[@jigneshbunker8279]

When I watch his video I feels mgtow is coming.....

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

JIGNESH BUNKER Bingo!!! Lmao

[@DC...]

JIGNESH BUNKER Like a dark cloud because new Steve just panders to women now.

[@jessz9284]

MGTOW for life

[@Jermaine22294]

We here baby! MGTOW

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Yep by choice3😭😭😭😂😂

[@lextacy2008]

Men- Would You Date A Woman With No Weight Loss plan?

[@allsystemsgootechaf9885]

lextacy2008 NO

[@linkaswain1449]

Erin Rockefeller Aldrin rotf! Yes! Lol i was like huh??? Lol

[@jennywinter3025]

Lol

[@chem1913]

Jeremy Honeycutt is someone forcing you to pay child support??? You seem mad at women.

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Lmmfao

[@jaylin0626ify]

I believe when a man is trying to get a wife he hopes that she adds to his life not subtract from it.

[@butterflyangel75]

💯

[@vincentandrews6230]

I hate how people assume that your sitting on the coach if you don't have a job.. People shouldn't be so black-and-white its a tough world we live in and people can go months and months without work doesn't mean there not looking for a job though

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Vincent Andrews True

[@celestialcircledance]

I think that's very true but while it may not be fair, if you want the additional responsibility of a relationship you need to first be self sufficient and build some equity to be an attractive prospect .

[@adbc1f72]

celestialcircledance True

[@ThePlumbobiana]

That is true! But either way if you are unemployed, male or female, you shouldn’t be dating. You should put your time and energy into making money.

[@Bloombaby99]

@@ThePlumbobiana Yes!

[@RashonWill]

Society in my opinion has failed men to thinking all they have to do for so long to be able to be considered a man is go get a check and pay bills. Paying bills is what grown people do not just men. Grown folks pay bills period. Manhood needs to be redefined in my opinion nothing special about paying bills every adult does that.

[@jmatthews5685]

Study after study shows men need to be providers. Relationships where the woman is the breadwinner have higher divorce rate.

[@LisaAnn164]

JamericanDC1 YES....YES! I am in agreement with you😀😀😀

[@chem1913]

ShonMuzik Productions I think paying bills is very special. And one of the marks of a real man is stepping up to the responsibility of taking care of his family. Manhood is certainly not driving her car around all day while she's at work and then having sex at night. I work because I don't trust like that, but he is still going to work AND he is going to pay bills like a real man should.

[@LisaAnn164]

Che M AMEN....AMEN...AMEN! Now I am glad to know that another person gets the point!😀😀😀 Thank you....THANK YOU!

[@Mr.BluePants]

j Matthews One thing is for sure, I'm NEVER going to marry or even date a woman who can't get a decent job on her own merit. If I turn out to make A LOT of money I don't think it's necessary for her to work, but I'd still want an ambitious woman who doesn't have to rely on anyone else or me to get her where she wants and who'd still want to pursue her own carreer. Kinda like my mom now that I think about it. Both my parents have good and stable jobs, they share chores and pretty much everything and it's been working out very well from what I've been seeing all these years. A marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a parasitic relationship where one does all the work and the other stays at home doing virtually nothing most of the time - and don't come at me with the "oh, but the house chores and kids are as hard as any job or even harder" - stop patting yourself in the back so much, any job you can do in your pajamas is NOT a hard job. Single people have jobs and also do the house chores and you don't really hear them complain. Also, to the stay at home mothers out there saying they have the most difficult job on the planet should open their eyes a bit and have some respect for the people who actually work hard. You don't see a lot of mothers dying from lung cancer from inhaling coal dust from the mines do you? -_- I still like Steve, but I personally disagree with the way he views marriage as such a one sided relationship where he does EVERYTHING and his wife just does whatever she wants all day and spends most of his money on entire rooms dedicated to clothes. His wife seems nice, but she's a bit of a gold digger piggy backing on Steve's hard earned success... Want proof? Who was she before she married Steve? She would never have had anything remotely close to what she has now if it wasn't for her marriage with Steve. And she probably couldn't even have her own carreer before that either.

[@Firstdonjm]

Steve had no job. For 3 years, he was homeless and had a dream. Sometimes having a job will cut SIGNIFICANTLY into the time that you need to work on your craft. I've never seen myself working for someone and I know that God is gonna carry me to amazing places. I have a dream and I'm gonna get there. Period.

[@Mr.Honest247]

firstdon How’s it going 6 months later? 😂 Before getting offended, I liked your comment btw.

[@cryptojonny6837]

I hate working for bosses at jobs being told what to do hate that rather create my own job.

[@nekow1785]

Amen

[@Firstdonjm]

@@Mr.Honest247 still not where I want to be 😂😂 but I'm not where I was last year so.. baby steps

[@Firstdonjm]

@@cryptojonny6837 I fw it man 🙏 keep pushing

[@im1who84u]

Notice how when each of the women talk.... the one talking will look at the others to see if they are approving of what she is saying. They can't think on their own.

[@Strungcow]

She said “women today are running the world” and that right there lady’s and gentlemen is the worlds biggest problem

[@naomiolutayo]

I agree

[@Englishsea24]

I was thinking about this the other day when watching parliament. Though I agree we need women as part of government, the whole thing is going to end up a disaster if women are allowed to take it over

[@denisaziz4110]

LoL...they want a second father! I could date someone without a job, no problem there...i mean, anyone can fall on hard times. These women are just vain.

[@lotuswolf1518]

Good

[@ryans413]

Denis Aziz Your dating not living with each other shouldn’t be about money just enjoy each other’s company. If you where married or living together yes but even then it’s still hard to find jobs

[@mangkanor9403]

Will you pay for the date tho?

[@infinityloveharris492]

u have no standards

[@tecklafurro2040]

@@infinityloveharris492 If you had a man who had a job then lost it , you would leave him ?

[@wardaelmaslouhi6128]

Keri Hilson looking goodd😍

[@cheriweber1900]

She is beautiful

[@notynoty7526]

Not that hair.

Warda Elmas yes she does better looking than the average woman. The lady in the middle with the Jersey accent was rough.

[@olaraay]

that weave is a no no though

[@JesRocWitMe]

She got a big wig but i can't choose what parts of her I like to be bald, not saying she's bald under it.

[@mr.beelzebub888]

Well thank you for making relationships less desirable.

[@LazyGuy999]

They want man with job so they can cheat on him when hes gone

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Jesus isn't a loser.

[@mrreddy120]

This is just appreciation for women. The question isn't even about women yet they end up talking about women. 🤦‍♂️

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

It is about Women. Women not wasting their time on Mr DUSTY that leaves you with bills and three kids one day!

[@mrreddy120]

@@crystalanamericaninsicily it is about women being shallow 👍

[@crystalanamericaninsicily]

@@mrreddy120 Or about seeing what there MOM'S went through. Sacrificing for Partners that...left them with no money and kids.

[@mrreddy120]

@@crystalanamericaninsicily I'm sorry about that you went through that, but it doesn't justify being a shallow piece of trash :/ If men said they wouldn't date a broke woman, those would be shallow men. And I certainly wouldn't make excuses for them like you are, for these fools.

[@LyricsAndVibez]

I personally wouldn't date a guy who is unemployed, but if we dated then he came up on hard times that's different.

[@iamrolo2740]

Quita Diggs alot of those unemployed people looked over cux they situation end up bein the people we c on tv or hear on 📻 n end up makin enuff money to employ everybody tht stepped over em..

[@demigodlike]

Quita Diggs Yea for a while anyways..

[@charlessivaslian8556]

zadose What if he got into a car accident and was paralyzed for the rest of his life? It's unlikely but anything can happen at any time. What would you do? Not love him anymore?

[@aulerius1922]

That's why women are the most shallow species in the world.

[@Chrisratata]

If he's been laid off, is *actively* seeking re-employment, and has *no problem* paying his bills then what difference does it make if he doesn't have a job yet...?

[@CHANGINGTHEDUWA]

I'm just blessed my wife and we started dating when I basically had nothing (highschool). Had rough times but we got through it, and now we have 3 kids, and we're about to be grandparents 😊

[@suntzu6122]

@R Cruz He still has a woman, right? Lol.

[@r.b.johnson5269]

Met my now husband when he was unemployed 13 years ago. He moved in, I supported him for a couple of months...then he got a job. Now he works about 60 hours a week and makes mad $$. Plus he's awesome.

[@subhajit201]

so u supported him for a couple of months and he supported u for at least 13 years...and u r boasting here about that couple of months!!!!

[@user-yv4nf8qp4u]

And if he is unemployed again you’ll find someone else 🤣

[@amandayouksee1724]

Well she should...cause she met him that way and he improved with her support

[@infinityloveharris492]

so u want us to have no Standards because you have no standards ?

[@r.b.johnson5269]

@@infinityloveharris492 hahaha - oh Honey. Clearly, it's YOU has no standards. Now go flash a little more of that fat cleavage. ;)

[@leecaste]

4:57 the girl in the front row scratching her eye...😂

[@Misterfreezeable]

I wonder if she's redpilled 😁

[@genelawson9903]

If your man is on his way out, there’s only one thing you can say to pull him back for good. *4WhatHeWants. Com*

[@tonicomins]

I cried!!! I was waiting for it lol

[@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335]

Tiege Hanley and that's the reason I don't shake hands with disguisting humans.

[@precious4463]

i'm with Steve on this definitely. These women better get rid of that feminist mindset or they gon remain single for awhile. no matter how 'modern' the world is, there's only ONE way God intended a man and a woman in a marriage. has nothing to do with being old-school. it's God's school. when u read & follow the bible, this wouldn't even be in question. Strong women, learn how to give up the control. Men, learn how to love your woman.

[@LisaAnn164]

Precious YES....YES...YES!!!THANK YOU for saying this. I am a bible-believing, born-again Christian. Yes, I do have my own income and I don't mind sharing some expenses. However, I strongly believe that the man/husband should be the provider for his wife and the household. That is what God intended.That means that the man/husband is supposed have a JOB, go to work,and provide the main income. It demonstrates that can be responsible not only as a husband; but as a man. I would NEVER marry...let alone date a man who is not working. I know this sounds cruel so some people; but that it's just the way it is with me.

[@precious4463]

I agree with you. A man must have purpose(work) established before he settles with a wife. A real man of course. I also agree with Steve's idea on joint accounts in marriage.

[@LisaAnn164]

Precious I am total agreement with Steve on the matter. I find very sad that some of today's men do not realize how important it is that a man NEEDS to stand on HIS OWN and learn how to be a responsible provider as a husband. Now woman deserves to have to support a broke man. I certainly don't. AMEN to you sista!😀😀😀

[@precious4463]

Lol, we need to pray for our men. We can't allow them to go down. Hehe

[@precious4463]

Can u list the scriptures that back up a woman being the provider? If u want to go out there and work sweetheart, no one's stopping you. Enjoy your marriage however it works for you hun. My man being my provider works for us and so I agree with Steve, also with the Bible. May God give us all wisdom. Amen.

[@AxeKick80]

Thanks for reminding me why I’m happier single.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

At the first place theres nothing wrong about dating a man with no job. If you love that person, then go for it. I guess he will always try his best to do something just to impress you and give you a good life. Also, it’s important that men and women both have their own work to enjoy their own lifestyle. But at the end of the day, love is a gift you can never buy.

[@Feber2001]

This.^

[@shanestrickland5006]

A True Love Official Agrea with you hole heartedly I am a disabled man. No I don't sit in a wilechair. But I'm not able to work a job. But I will take care of my children at home. Clean the house and cook if I get married. I beleave it does not matter who is the bread winner as long as both people do their part. As well as love each other.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Yes, it should be more on understanding both sides and helping each other whatever may plans in their life.

[@shanestrickland5006]

A True Love Official Yea I agrea. Plus why do these women think they own the world. On another note if your a stay at home dad you kinda have a job. Your not sitting on the couch. Taking care of children and cleaning up the house. Takes alot of work. These women on this show apparently think being a stay at parent is easyer because your a dude. This is not logical. Plus these women on this show seems to only act like gender roles are meaningles if it suits them. The moment it does not thay say I'm a women. Give me special treatment. They can not have it both ways. But yea merrige needs to be about love. Now people act like what makes a man is to pay bills and work. But this is something that adults male and female do. In other words paying the bills and working is what grown ups do. Now taking care of kids is still working. What the deffinition of being a man means needs to be redefined To something unique. Apart from what all adults do.

[@kenyattamiles3226]

You are one of the good ones.

[@Maxantium]

Women want their cake and eat it too , it is that simple. It is not about equality for women it is about advantageous opportunity that's primarily in their favor.

[@precious4463]

huh? sounds more like a man to me

[@derp8575]

Precious Well? Are you going to answer the question?

[@Toshinaka01]

Precious thats funny lol last time i check a man would date a woman without a job but a woman wont do the same

[@kingmaker1306]

Precious Just Foh

[@eanoworro1028]

Maxantium So we as men need to make the cake! I like how steve said women wantca shoulder to lean on. Men, also, want to be the shoulder she leans on!

[@iamdannyel3285]

"I've dated every musician ever", music is a very valid career... it's being self employed not unemployed

[@cheesesteakphilly]

Exactly.

[@AllPro777]

If you're not making money, you're almost as bad as unemployed. And before you disagree, ask the rent man what he thinks. He wants his money every month, he doesn't give a damn about your dreams.

[@iamdannyel3285]

@@AllPro777 Bruv... soon as you get any form of exposure and hit 3 venues in a month with 2k for each venue, you think you can't live off of that??

[@AllPro777]

@@iamdannyel3285 A person could, but that's not typical. Most of these people are struggle artists going nowhere, making nothing.

[@chrisw9122]

Getting $30 per gig lol wow

[@nikilyons8999]

Having money is nice However the most bitter people I've ever met are people that are rich Steve is right ladies....

[@potatorekt7046]

zadose I understand what you are saying, I would want a girl that brings positive energy to my life, it’s definitely ok to have standards only animals don’t, I just don’t like the fact people are labeling you sexist when you do, both to man and woman.

[@Mr.Eminem]

@zadose can't afford you 😂😂😂.... Its prostitution... Just say it clearly.. No need to play with words girl.... You want a rich man and want to sell your body to him... You are not smart.. Don't try to

[@jakemf1]

Niki Lyons Nope

[@Unwantedbaby]

I think its funny when i hear ladies(and theyre usually the prettier ladies) say they want a man to provide for them so they can be a stay at home because men are the providers blah blah. One question. Where's the jobs we can have to support you, me, and 2 kids? This society isnt designed to have 1 income household's. Women pushed themselves into working jobs and changed society and now all of sudden want to opt out and go back to stay at home moms? It doesnt work that way

[@dreamycalm]

jeremy falzarano only men with very low income like yourself feel that way.

[@michaelmorse2216]

Living above your means. That's why most married with children can't live with a 1 income only provider. Didn't you grow up with hand me downs? Your toys were sticks & dead D cell batteries. Build mud castles in the back yard.

[@_DeadlyNightshade_]

Feminism and women pushing for their rights were created when women had enough with getting raped and treated like slaves by men in patriarchal societies just because men provide the income/money/power. They wanted to be powerful too to defend themselves against the misogynistic men and the only way to be powerful is by getting education and a job, starting with women's rights. The sad thing is that not all men are abusers, but those that are, need to have their wives leave them to become financially independent because these men use their power in oppressive ways.

[@3390974]

It sounds nice to take care of your family as a man. But bills are high. The cost of living is high. 2 incomes is better than 1. And sometimes 2 isn't enough. I believe a husband and his wife should work.

[@linkaswain1449]

unani mous i just said the same thing! Girl hold ur man down and get off ur tail and work!!

[@precious4463]

Whatever works for your marriage. If other folks can do it, it's possible for one to be the provider while other takes care of the home. But, whatever works for your marriage.

[@sineadprecious6629]

Who looks after your children ?

[@Kelly101Girl]

You got that right. Me and my guy didn't buy an exspensive home persay but its a nice one in good area. If i wanted to kick back and have him pay for everything we wouldn't have any saving, no money to shop, and would be a pay check away from foreclosure lol so because of that I have no choice but to work. Would love to to have the option to stay at home but its not realistic for most ppl

[@princessbc9791]

I believe they should both work if they have to. If she doesn't have to and he is cool with that then I don't see the problem with one of them working.

[@Metsfan1986]

Wanted to add to my other comment: Me at 21: I’ll pay the entire bill! I got it! Me at 28: can you quick pay me half the bill? Thanks. Sucks that I was so naive when I was younger. Wasted a lot of money on first dates.

[@VFRT]

The important thing is you have learned. I have finally learned that friendship, love and family don't last forever. I'm just hoping that the money that you spent on these woman at least got you dessert at the end of the night if you know what I mean.

[@Metsfan1986]

@@VFRT I think I learned from my mistakes for sure. Recently I talked to a girl. I was scheduled to go on a date with her. I said I would just pay for it. Which I did not want to do. I caught her lying to me about "Hating to text people". Needless to say I backed out before the date even happened. I was most likely going to bail regardless, but then saw what was going on and cut her off. Recently got back into talking to girls after almost two years, but I think I'm going to take an even longer break now. I'm pretty much done with the crap every single time. It's actually getting comical to me at this point.

[@jeremiahwhite2624]

@@Metsfan1986 That's because dating is a joke.

[@RiruKrypto_]

Good thing I never dated at that age. I never dated at all.

[@kossiscott1002]

Somewhat Knowledgeable Geek same here bruv

[@dulanawijeratne413]

So all the women here giving advise while they all have second marriages 😂😂 good luck for the audience

[@gutz1981]

Carrie seems like the only one who genuinely sees that its not a paycheck that gives a man value. I have liked Carrie and her attitude towards life for years and she never disappoints when it comes to a topic like this. She is a diamond in the rough.

[@zeynand4039]

"I got you babe" its nothibg sexier than hearing that.

[@slamminsammy941]

Do u have a guy that says that to u now ?

[@stringbeanpc]

just out of curiousity - does Nd mean North Dakota in your name? if so I am just north

[@zeynand4039]

stringbeanpc nope. Born and raised in europe. I'd never leave for north dakota, No shade.

[@zeynand4039]

Samwise Gamge i'd be married if he did. Maybe i should let that requirenent go and break the tradition haha.

[@dchappy6985]

Zeyna Nd The sexist thing a woman can say, is nothing at all! Lol

[@oceanhedonist265]

Steve Harvey is such a panderer. He'll say anything to get validation and applause.

[@theguy9234]

Ocean Hedonist That's what he paid to do.

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Or maybe he wasn't raised to be a lazy entitled bum

[@brianafranklin8164]

I dated a guy once who was jobless while I was in college and barely making it myself. I helped him out from time to time with some cash and paid his phone bill for a couple of months. Found out that this guy cheated on me with like 3 girls. Out of all of the guys that I've dealt with the broke one is the one who did me the worst! I never felt so stupid in my life. How do I get cheated on by a BROKE guy?? Lmfao never again. Hell will freeze over 😭

[@abundantlifenancytovar9757]

Are any of those women married? Just curious because I don't know and don't see a ring

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Nancy Tovar Well then there you have it!!

[@endthefed1448]

kantoi09 she is married to the State (big daddy govt)

[@veng3r663]

I've heard HORROR stories about Jewish wives... O_O

[@SO-ug5ns]

Very true....... how about you? Are you married?!

[@legoboy449]

The same goes for women , I wouldn’t date a woman who is unemployed.

[@veng3r663]

AmeriKan women shouldn't even be ON that list TBH...

[@junaldinho100]

Big facts

[@theizzidor1319]

2:35 my love you are so wrong. The world is ran by old men with suits.

[@paridhoxha5465]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@papaxxbear]

I couldnt watch all of this...gotta go back flipping burgers or i will lose my job

[@JulieVmakeup]

I see what they both are saying. But a woman doing it all says you don't need a man and that leads to a man not wanting us cus we are telling them I don't need you. We need men and men need us. Be a hard working women but let the man that you have or want feel he's needed. Idk what anyone says, there are some things only a man can do and some things only a woman can do. appreciate your roles in life.

[@vivians.coleman9367]

So much agree with you.

[@endthefed1448]

Cheryl Primo wrong, men don't need women. Look around, the whole world is built by men. Take away the govt security and women will be put in their place in one day. Don't tell me the BS that "A woman gave birth to you." That's a biological function, working is not.

[@celestialcircledance]

End The Fed Like it or not men need woman . Without the ability to give birth humanity would not exist duh . However while giving birth is a biological function mothering is not and most will agree that kids who grow up in a loving two person household have more of a head start in life . I also see a lot of women being better able to provide financially due to more education and opportunities . Look at backwards patriarchal societies like the Arabs . Wouldn't want to live there but be my guest !

[@DC...]

Cheryl Primo If men want women we'll get women just as we do anything else. Women need men by contradiction of your wants men don't need women. Women made the simple mistake of attempting to replace men with the state or other women. Even on father's day women are patting themselves on the back conditioning kids to worship not acknowledge them.

[@celestialcircledance]

Dust Cloud As far as the state stepping in if there's no history of domestic violence or skipping out and failing to pay child support than thats a non issue . Notice that I'm not implicating any gender .

[@marcoapinedajr]

Ultimately, it's great to be equally yoked. Hardworking, ambitious, a saver and best of all have each others back.

[@ashketchum4124]

2:19 Dude moved his arm wen his girl Clapped 🤣🤣🤣

[@vinny5727]

He went to start clapping. Look at the intent of his other arm. He was going to bring them together and clap. Lmao

[@GeneralG1810]

Chicks wont date an unemployed man, but we're supposed to throw ourselves at "Stay at home mothers" So you don't work and you want me to help pay to raise a kid that's not mine.....I don't think so

[@erikbalayan8072]

This is incredibly sexist.

[@DC...]

Erik Balayan Ironically they don't realise their being sexist

[@AllPro777]

@@DC... It's never sexist when women do it...

[@rovers141]

When they cut Carrie off I found them all to be extremely materialistic. All Carrie was saying is if the man has goals, and he's really trying to make those goals work then it is okay, that sounds like a woman who is understanding and willing to give the man a chance, that's all most of us ask for when we find ourselves running out of luck! Any Joe can go out and get a dead end job but those of us who truly love life are the ones who go after those goals. You could be missing out of the most incredible person in the world all because you didn't like the fact he didn't have a job. Personally I have been wanting to pursue comedy but I am 30 with a career that would heavily conflict with stand up or even youtube videos. What if one day I decide to chase my dream like literally every successful person in the world tells you to do? All the sudden I'm useless to a woman? I'm sorry but that's cold. To me Carrie is the only woman on that set that is worthy of my time!

[@LisaAnn164]

rovers141 I have dated...even MARRIED men with such an attitude as yours. Saying that they are working towards their "goals"; but never get there. We (I) give you the chance; and it doesn't happen. Then the women eventually ends up financially supporting you. I have heard this all before. Now, I know this may sound cruel; but You sir would NOT be worthy of my time.

[@LisaAnn164]

rovers141 Just how old are you anyway?

[@rovers141]

Elizabeth Anders so because you were involved with someone who failed, or didn't actually try to reach his goals, every other man who dares to sacrifice financial stability for their dreams is not worth your time? So you would rather hold your man back than allow him a chance to live his dreams, that sounds incredibly selfish.

[@LisaAnn164]

rovers141Please understand that is not what I mean. What I mean is this; yes everyone is entitled to have their own aspirations and dreams. There is also reality. I believe that it is important to work and bring home the paycheck and pay the necessary bills for the home. I believe that BOTH can be accomplished. Having to ask a woman to make the sacrifice to support you financially while you pursue your personal aspirations and not making any financial contribution to the household is selfish on your part. If that is case; then why would you want to be married let alone be in a relationship during that time. Why would you want to place your partner in that type of hardship? Yes, it would be a hardship; and I truly believe that is one hardship not worth the sacrifice. So other than for medical/health circumstances; having to make a woman sacrifice herself financially while you pursue your "aspirations" and not having anything to financially contribute on your end is selfish in itself.

[@LisaAnn164]

rovers141 Also, take a look at the single mothers out there in the world. These women are working 2nd and even 3rd jobs just to put food on the table for their children. These women have been making heavy sacrifices. Why? To support their families. Most of these single mothers who do not have the financial support of a husband. Yet, they are working hard to pay the bills and provide for their children. You have been talking about making the woman in your life (wife, girlfriend) to support you financially while you pursue your aspirations full-time; and not getting a job and make a contribution to the household. That I believe is very selfish.

[@Deadbeliefs]

I'm unemployed. I don't have a bank account. I don't have a driver's license. I don't contribute financially. I don't have much pride as a man because I'm old enough to have graduated medical school with a PHD. I dropped out of a carpentry course 4 weeks into the first semester at a community college because although I love to learn, I hate school. I wanted to follow my dreams, like everyone fantasizes about, I wanted to do it. Want to do it. They haven't worked out so far in the ways I imagined, but they are working out. It's just a lot slower than I thought it would be.

[@Feber2001]

There you go! Don't give up. You can do it.

[@JulietteandCompany]

Deadbeliefs You still have internet! Keep up the good work

[@ericruiz1036]

"If you have a goal, not having a paycheck is okay...." Give me a break! Friend of mine said it best" A relationship can survive infidelity before it survives the bills not being paid. Being cheated on is a matter of pride, the bills are a matter of survival."

[@hypnosisforhappiness]

Being cheated on is a matter of health too a.k.a. survival.

[@amandaforrester7636]

They only mean male infidelity, Agatha. No man puts up with a woman sleeping with other dudes, but they expect that their wife will forgive them for "making a mistake" with their coworkers or girls from Tinder 10 years younger.

[@eugenejoseph6910]

A man would look after woman with no job to the world that's his duty but if a woman looks after a man with no job for a few days the whole world would think he is lazy.

[@559local3]

I’m a millennial and I absolutely hate when people judge my generation by the few known millennials. I was raised knowing that I am responsible for my woman and my family. But I do give more respect to a female that works. It shows me that she is ambitious and that she has goals.

[@ch1ppy755]

Woman: I want my man to get off the couch and work to provide. Also woman: Why aren't you spending more time with me?

[@shanika8]

If a guy loves you he'll make time for you I work full-time and have chores and still have time to speak to people I care about

[@scottys1423]

Gonna play devils advocate here. Guys, we've all seen cases of women working and supporting some deadbeat. It always pisses me off they put up those guys. Would you really prefer that to these women having expectations?

[@ravisingh-mk5uw]

if i m earning ,she needs to earn as well ,their is no way around it ,a man n a woman r equal should take equal responsibility

[@jmatthews5685]

ravi singh k well how bout you "equally" carry a life for 9 months and then "equally" pop a kid or two out your ballls and then "equally" breastfeed/care for said kid (s) while "equally" maintaining the cooking/cleaning of a home while "equally" working full time. Oh yeah & don't forget to lose that baby weight in a timely manner while your at it. Men & women are NOT equal.

[@ravisingh-mk5uw]

what i mean to say is related to normal life ,having a baby is special time n a man needs to do more ,be more responsible n do his best to make it easy for her .

[@yoruba21]

Equal doesn't imply equal responsibilities or duties. Our roles are different, our genetic makeup is different. Equal implies mutual respect for each others roles and what we bring to the table. One is not better than the other. They both are important and work together.

[@k2x658]

Not an issue for the man who does not wish to have babies.Come again

[@ricardomiranda7768]

Let's outsource end equally pay for all those tough tasks, you know have a maid, a surrogate mother etc, then the woman won't have to complaint that she is being somewhat taken advantage of.

[@catchgenerics8667]

As long as its ok for a man to reject you if you do not have job. Then its ok, if not its a double standard

[@rosecapitalgroupinc]

Bazil Shahab damn right it is

[@jaym5118]

These women make me NEVER want a woman. As long as the woman is making good money and has her life together, it shouldn't matter if the guy has a job or not. Besides, it's not like the guy will NEVER have a job.

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

When unemployed, your job should be chasing a job not women that are out of your league. You can't force a women to accept something that she doesn't want. And no woman should have to lower her standards so a man can have a chance. That is unfair. You are pitiful. Dating is not free and you sound like a freeloader dusty.

[@jazzx7124]

not saying men who don't have jobs are useless, but there is a lot of women who support their men to study or work their way up in a company it could take a couple of years or start a business, and once these men are successful they leave them? so then what to do regret?

[@aspiknf]

There are jobless people who can be as good as a doctor in what they do, as good as a lawyer in what they do, as good as an engineer in what they do etc. but sometimes the life that they were brought up in has let them down and they aren't given the same opportunity as luckier people. Having no job shouldn't mean anything in terms of dating and marriage.

[@mightyblack1]

Too many young sistas date Pookie and T Bone No Job and will pass up a good who has a career.

[@Senseiocasio]

This ain’t it 😂

[@raguellagrande7344]

At first your profile pic looked to me to be myron from fresh and fit lol

[@pushkaradhikari9627]

We are running the world!!!???smh😂😂😂

[@tshaolin971]

her tongue slipped, this 3 times divorced woman meant ruining.

[@allisonmcinnis5929]

Not broke men

[@tshaolin971]

@@allisonmcinnis5929 Broke men can be broke because of exploitation, while still making the world going on. Behind someone filthy rich there is misery. Maybe you DGAF but the world couldn't go like this infinitely.

[@ion063]

''We are running the wrold' , couldn t hold myself to laugh :))

[@lovinglife995]

I know right 😂😂😂😂