Dating: How to NOT look desperate

Do you worry about looking desperate when dating? Love Advice offers tips to calm anxiety and boost your confidence: #needy #fearofrejection #desperate
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Thank you MH!!

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Do not waste your precious time - go for it ask her out express your interest - someone will respond to you eventually. Use this to grow yourself and as a way to shrink your Ego. Enjoy the journey, I do.

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I just love your show and eloquence so much. Even your voice is calming to me.

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Thank you Erin!!

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I want to be honest about the hair situation. My hair is a priority because I wear it everyday. I looked for and found a good hairdresser. One that can cut hair well. Someone with a good eye.

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Need a cliff notes of each episode to takeaway! So good

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Ava!

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@@SusanWinter my pleasure! Future topic: getting back into dating after a big breakup/dating ptsd! Also I laughed out loud about the comment of walking in NY into a different neighborhood. Much love from Ny!!

[@sigridvonsenger734]

Brilliant! Really appreciate your insight into reasons for wanting a relationship. You give great clarity into realistic and unrealistic motivations. It’s really important and no one I’ve read or heard has done this so well before. Thank you!

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Thank you for this video. Helpful.

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I think there was a difficulty with my computer, apologies!

[@SusanWinter]

No worries at all!

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David, please send me your question to [e-mail]. Happy to respond. Thank you for letting me know it was your computer. I was going to discontinue doing the show altogether. If my viewers are doing super chat and I cannot see their commentary, then I need to find another format to interact.

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Great episode as ever

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[@azmike3572]

"In a relationship and lonely..." "Why Must I be Lonely in Love?" (Dan Fogelberg, 1987)

[@alexflips393]

Good topic Susan, looking forward to watching.

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Thank you, Alex!

[@alexflips393]

Some of it is so useful. I love being able to see a woman’s perspective.

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[@miraarim]

@@deboraholaniyi3977 no because he did love bombing, gaslighting, is controlling, manipulative, I believe he’s a narcissist. I’m hurt and on my own with a baby on the way. I don’t even know how to date in the future now

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🤗 My pleasure!

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Good day Mrs Winter I'm quite new to your channel and I'm not sure if you've ever covered a topic relating to the death of a person in a close relationship. If so, could you please point it out to me. It would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for your inspiring work and sound advice. Joey

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Joey. I have about 600 videos so I might not be able to remember the exact title... but I did address losing one's partner

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Damn! Would of loved to jump on the chat. Is there a schedule of when these live chats occur?

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Hi there! Yes, every Thursday at 11am PST! I announce the topic the day before on my IG and my community page!

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Thank you Susan!

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Thanks

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[@meganohyeah7200]

I have a question for you Susan - As soon as I decide I like someone, I start acting weird around them. How do I stop this?

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I know you can teach you more you need to know .

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She needs you to define "weird".

[@dangfd551]

Wouldn’t it be better to not be desperate instead of not looking desperate?

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Im new to this but what are the $$ being offered for? To ask questions?

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no, not in the replay. It's just a 'thank you.' In the live show you can ask questions

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[@sethtenrec]

A: don’t be desperate

[@ningjing1113]

phd means nothing, if you want one, you can probably get one, although if it's a phd from a renounced school that tells you this person is really really really boring. i actually think that's a turn-off if someone has a .phd.

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They're book smart. However some true academics can be very impersonal in interpersonal relationships.

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For me i don't need younger men👏