Relationship Insecurity - Susan Winter

[@ipsygypsy16]

The more I listen to Susan, the more I get bemused at humankind's unimaginable penchant for making the most simple things complicated, just because they want to. And then I marvel at Susan's amazing clarity to clear the cobwebs with one swift sentence and get to the bottom of it. Marvellous job, every single time!💛💛

[@vnikol-o7b]

Is it him? Is it you? or Is it the situation? - an amazing piece of advice, thank you.

[@ParisTNT]

Wow I’m blown away by this video, Susan. Especially by nr 3. I’m currently in a situation where I’m the hurt punishing friend rejecting my bestie and I’ve never heard anyone address this issue before. Big creds to you and thank you for sharing your wisdom. I will definitely book a session soon.

[@SusanWinter]

PARIS! You are welcome

[@OlderWomenRock]

I became insecure in my last relationship . 1. I’m prone to be insecure but it depends who I’m with . 2. My ex was creating insecurities not knowing he was . He told a lot of lies, was secretive , evasive and vague . He wasn’t into disclosure so yes I became insecure and distrustful . It was semi long distance ( short distance ) 3. I was insecure mostly due to my partners behaviour even if he wasn’t cheating . I became aware he didn’t have strong enough feelings for me or was giving me what I wanted so I became more insecure . I wasn’t in love but attached .

[@SusanWinter]

Great deduction

[@OlderWomenRock]

Susan Winter Thank You Susan , your agreement means a great deal to me . I think you are one of the smartest women on the planet . I learnt about Attachment Theory and recognise I’m an Anxious type but with the right man I’m not or much less so . I cannot cope with Dismissive Avoidance types . I had never been with a compulsive liar before .

[@clairewhite7913]

Your videos have an uncanny way of popping up just when I need them. Thank you x

[@SusanWinter]

I love that

[@brandongonzalez6277]

You are a remarkable woman, Susan. I always look forward to hearing you speak.

[@SusanWinter]

thanks Brandon

[@jamiejack764]

Thank you Susan winter, so much good advise for me as a young man at 29,learning a lot from your videos, thank you x

[@annieportier3584]

Well said on the three scenarios! Learning allot from you. Thank-you for the free advice. It is beyond appreciation for all that you give us!!!

[@jordanjablonski5697]

I love you, Susan! Thank you for this brilliant new segment 💕

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Jordan

[@stooge81]

i'm secure enough in my self-relationship to say that when those glasses go on at 1:55, you are genuinely rocking that 'sexy librarian' thing. another excellent video, well done.

[@SusanWinter]

thank you, (aka the sexy librarian)!!

[@mike42441]

This is interesting, Susan. I've always thought in terms of those three questions, but never consciously categorized them like you have. Great video and thank you for sharing!

[@albaonamission5540]

This was very helpful and keep doing these top.3 questions. Great new addition to your already great advice!

[@charliestarot8646]

Thank you I really needed to hear the second story about the marriage

[@228vik]

I had the same problem, he was very much in love with me...and I wasn't...that in love..and then I was in love and he found this female...I heard made from the Universe...and he was head over heels in love...and that really hurt...me..I was told from a reader to forget him because he will hurt you a whole lot...I did...but my heart is breaking..and I cannot get over him...but I must

[@silvershadow7655]

Very useful Susan - thanks.

[@terrymondon7649]

I love your advice❤❤❤ BRAVO!!😘

[@Stew357]

Excellent advice and video, as always. You are so sharp Susan, and pretty easy on the eyes too. 😉

[@SamanthaN92]

Susan I have to make a comment regarding that second woman. She needs a reality check! Why a woman would want to mess around with one: a married man, but a married man that is also expecting a baby! I will never understand women that choose to get themselves involved in these dramatic scenarios. If a man cheats on his pregnant wife what's to say he wont cheat on his mistress as well? I would be extremely cautious of a man that would cheat with me while his wife is pregnant. I would feel like such garbage having an affair with another woman's husband let alone if the woman is expecting. Its disgusting behavior. In a scenario like this, its hard not to judge. Where are some people's morals and respect? 😠 And the dude sounds like a lunatic too. Obviously not mature enough to handle a mature adult relationship. He's cheating but also playing an emotional roller coaster game with this girl's head too. She needs to move on and find someone that is single with no drama. Obviously this dude is not the right one for her. Shame such idiots are allowed to breed. What is his child going to think when he or she grows up and finds out daddy was cheating on mommy?

[@SusanWinter]

I agree.

[@LL-jw4pt]

I'll never understand either🤷

[@a.h.2667]

Yeah, nothing good could come from this situation. He has a whole wife but gets jealous when she dates other men? Run far away lady!

[@clara7920]

Can you cover what to do if your thre rebound unknowingly

[@willy6829]

Love your curly hair!

[@Th3Fab3]

Soooo good, Susan!

[@peternorthrup6274]

Your a smart woman. Young girls listen to you. Tell them all how hard life will be by having kids. You know the numbers. Tell them how important it is to practice birth control. Help these young girls. That's part of your job. Tell them how much better there lives can be. Help them. Thanks.

[@user-ik2no7jw5g]

Where should we ask questions? What platform?

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Linda: www.susanwinter.net - Press - below Media, there's a box that says Video Requests. Click there.

[@timsullivan1424]

Thank you

[@kristaljoycuencaborres6449]

I realized things now. It is me being insecure in our relationship. On the flip side my man is unconscious about how I feel when he hangout with his church friends. That is great and im thankful he can build 4 years of frienship with them. But the things is he dont show up on my birthday for somw reasons like he was broke and doesnt have money. But he never make a move to make up with me the next year on my birthdays. I feel insecure because on his friends birthday he was there. After 2 years of dating together we are now currently 6 months LDR. Any advice susan.. thank you so MUCH

[@newbeginnings1543]

Susan excellent points. I can’t find the magnify app😊

[@dianaf6333]

You and Coach Craig Kenneth and Margaret would be my dream collaboration.

[@ava-jl1ll]

Any tips on dealing with boundaries? Getting to be a priority?

[@SusanWinter]

Yes, I've done several on these topics. They're on my channel. Just type in those topics.

[@reeves326]

Love your dress! Really suits you :)

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Lisa

[@mimsc2914]

My ex-husband left me with a 4 year old and a 7 month old, but he begged to come back after the divorce. He left me for a woman he met at work.

[@isabelaguzei8745]

His loss... Hope You are happy now!

[@mimsc2914]

@G G Yes, my kids are now 21 and 17. I'm a strong mama. The kids will always reach out to me when they need something and they are closer to me than they are with their father.

[@ferremousavi5771]

How can we call if we have android phone? I need your advice 💓

[@ferremousavi5771]

You're amazing 👌

[@LL-jw4pt]

The sound is bad.😫 Great info tho👍.

[@frankpatron868]

Hi Susan... What's a relationship...

[@haroldguerrero8345]

Good common sense is need and good talk-thanks to you&everyone-gorgeous very pretty

[@Sarafara7]

Oh man, just wanted to comment on how I don't undesrtand how people have affairs with married folk....how does your conscience allow that? :/

[@alaiaadam5767]

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@c.9850]

You look lovely.

[@AkaHeart1]

Susan.....you look absolutely beautiful today!! 😘

[@ShowMeWhatINeedToKnow]

The married guy is a major bullshit artist. Run away and try to forgive yourself for being so foolish. There's no way he's leaving her -- if he wanted to leave he'd be making plans for that -- not making plans to stay. And he's obviously still sticking it in his wife, with a baby on the way. If he wants to separate, you would think he'd be a little more careful, wouldn't you? I think you got played, bad.

[@temitopejohnson9615]

Great video... Can you be my friend?😊