Apparently men being helpful is sexist now

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[@SydneyWatson]

The fembots are at it again! Fun fact: I used to be a woman who had beef with men opening doors for me. I'd argue that they should open the door because I'm a human, not because I'm a woman. But, I've come to understand that there is a balance between being a StRoNg InDepEnDeNt WayMeN and accepting assistance and kindness without turning it into something ugly. Life's too short to be upset by people trying to do the right thing by you. :D

[@spiritupgrades]

Sydney Watson fish

[@owenb2738]

Sydney Watson fish

[@kangaroos929]

Merry Christmas Sydney... Keep up your great work for men in this stupid society we live in at the moment

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

@syndeywatson dw, Love your vLogs and as a Man, Gender dysphoria is everywhere here. [DONT "LIKE-THUMB" THIS]

[@Real-Name..Maqavoy]

@Black Knight Fool No, cause free will dont exist.

[@petersurdo4984]

I'm male. I hold the door for everybody. Men, women, kids, teens, and mostly get a generally positive response. I've noticed if I hold the door for someone 9 times out of 10 times they will hold the door for the next person. When will this horror stop!?

[@abdizur8765]

You Monster!!! 😨

[@petersurdo4984]

Abdizur87 I can't control myself! 👹 I'll admit it, I even go out of my way to help the elderly! I said hello to an elderly black lady today and said It's a beautiful day! She tapped my leg with her cane. It was very cute. What's wrong with me?!!!

[@Dan_Dropper]

@@abdizur8765 😁

[@m.draven477]

You need more Jesus in your life You heathen 😋😜✌️

[@ritiaggarwal995]

Peter Surdo EXACTLY

[@michaelandrews4403]

I was born in the UK, in 1960, and we used to spell 'benevolent sexism' differently. Formerly it was spelt, 'good manners'.

[@mrbill2600]

I was born in the US in 1939 and I was taught that men were to be "gentlemen."

[@zandertunes9602]

😂😂😂😂 that had me going right to the end

[@TimeCircleBlue]

Zander Tunes had us in the first 3 quarters, ngl…

[@zandertunes9602]

@@TimeCircleBlue not to sure what your trying to say. Why don't you actually say what you mean instead of gargling shit

[@ShiningDarknes]

I personally enjoy the fact that "benevolent sexism" is ironically abbreviated BS, as in the concept is bullshit

[@danielreid1352]

Coming home from London one weekend I offered a lady with 2 huge cases a hand onto the train. "Hiya do you need a hand with those?" "Nope I don't need a man for anything" "OK no problem" Got to Glasgow the same woman's wheel collapsed on her biggest case and she actually had the nerve to berate guys walking past her, one guy even said and I quote, "sure I heard you telling that bald guy you don't need a man for anything " he proceeded to receive a load of abuse. Another female passenger commented at this one.. "chivalry is dead" was the cry.. Guys just can't win..

[@genericegg7135]

That dude saw what happened and noped that one lol.

[@dylanzrim1011]

Apple Is Forever its world wide

[@franklindawnson9591]

I agree nice do not get the girl Girl do not respectively men if they are nice because they seem week to them

[@yimmy7160]

maybe if she hadn't been such a b**** and killed the chivalry with her disgusting attitude...

[@nexsusblue9728]

The sad part is someone else deffended her

[@seaschulainn]

I'm a woman and a few days ago a guy in the parking lot randomly walked over and helped me load my 2 bags of horse grain and it brightened my day. Thank you to all gentlemen many of us still appreciate you.

[@Lynn.-_-.]

And I thank you for being a nice human being

[@andrearobinson3911]

That was very nice of him. 😊 I had a man grab me some cat litter from the top shelf at Walmart a week ago. I was having a horrible day and it really made my day as well.

[@chasehenze9785]

Hope you told him that.

[@rizkiramadhan9266]

Thank you for not being a feminist

[@kjs8719]

On the topic of"mansplaining" I discovered very early in my career that most of my customers don't know what they are doing. Man, woman, young, old, doesn't matter. They all need things explained

[@robteeuwiszen]

You hold the door open, "sexist" You dont hold the door, "what an Ahole" Seems fair.

[@arktana]

Just stay away from feminists, and be courteous to other women - if you want to be a gentelman.

[@robteeuwiszen]

@@arktana I hold the door for anyone. I dont care if i get called names. My mom and dad raised that way. Be kind to people even if they are not kind to you. I like to keep the moral high ground. Even though people like that are annoying, i still respect them, they just make me laugh. I'm just glad i don't come across many feminist like that in my county.

[@arktana]

@@robteeuwiszen Good for you! just don't let any feminist disrespect you, and never apologize to them. They are the pieces of shit, not you.

[@doublekoseki]

rob teeuwiszen it’s shrodinger’s door.

[@robteeuwiszen]

@@arktana Amen to that.

[@Seenshadow]

Last monday I said "Hi" to a feminist. My court date is in December...

[@jetpackdino5703]

R.I.P.

[@A.D.540]

I help you can survive t stupidity during the court.

[@mohicanjoe2595]

@@A.D.540 you just have no choice but to ignore them as they give us no other option

[@A.D.540]

@@Seenshadow what made you think I was saying you.

[@A.D.540]

@@Seenshadow the person you going to be facing lol

[@josephswaine6890]

Wow, it's so weird to hear women speaking up for men on social media. Thanks

[@MansonX]

Joseph Swaine it’s the new thot process. It gets them views at higher rates if they side with the opposite sex. (And when I said Thot I spelt it like that on purpose)

[@EpicWarior365]

@@MansonX Get the fuck out of here, you fucktard. You can call all the feminazi "the thots" as much as you want but fuck off from the logically thinking women. And don't even try to pull the "white knight" card on me, cause I'm far from being one.

[@breeuhh]

MansonX just because women stand up for men and thinks a logical way it doesn’t mean she’s a “thot” and trying to get “views”

[@EpicWarior365]

@@breeuhh Idiots like him don't understand it. A few days ago I saw some shit the MGTOWs were saying. They literally call every single woman a gold digger thot. They are just like 3rd wave feminists only reversed.

[@sparkylynx8723]

@@MansonX bruh she literally lead a whole protest for mens rights wtf is wrong with u.

[@dejaneo]

It's exactly like that! I went on a business trip with a female colleague. When walking up some stairs I asked her if she needed help with her luggage, and she looked at me as if she was going to kill me for offering to help her. Yet 2 hours later she asked to borrow my phone charger as she forgot hers. She didn't make any attempts to return the charger that evening, so I texted her that I needed it back to charge my phone overnight. She seemed quite baffled that I had the guts to ask her to return the charger, and returned it reluctantly. This modern day feminism is just female entitlement, nothing else.

[@myblacklab7]

But also some people are just jerks. Lend one to a man, and see if it goes any better. Women aren't bad. They're just equal. OK, they're equally bad.

[@MyouKyuubi]

Wtf... Legit narcissistic kleptomaniac... yeesh. >_>

[@MyouKyuubi]

@@myblacklab7 Normally they are, but, things vary with the times, and, currently, women have a higher percentage of a-holes than men, atm... it is what it is. : /

[@aditimishra1220]

Sadly but yes, I totally agree with you on this point. Currently, the war is about replacing the monstrous male attitudes with monstrous female attitudes. True masculinity and true femininity is shamed and pushed aside.

[@ItsMeDevil-vw7qn]

Sorry I accidentally dislike your comment

[@CallawayVanZeeberg]

Man: Opens door for woman Woman: Are you opening for me just because I'm a lady? Man: Absolutely not. I'm opening the door for you because I'm a GENTLEMAN.

[@joes6088]

If she was a lady she wouldn’t have asked.....

[@geezerhull]

i would reply "just go through the damned door" but them I'm old an can get away with it.

[@draw2death421]

Me: No im opening the door so as you walk throw it I can slam it in your face! ... Youre Welcome! 😄

[@scottdenham1795]

Because im a lady.... Baaaaaahahahahahahaha.

[@CallawayVanZeeberg]

@@joes6088 Yeah, she's most probably a feminist!

[@DJSpike-ft9yw]

I’m a guy and got called sexist by a random stranger for carrying my friends legit 30 lb backpack to her car and accused that I was just trying to get into her pants...neither of us knew this lady, both of us had long since understood that nothing remotely sexual would ever happen between us (neither of us are each other’s type, but we’re still good friends)...and she (my friend) had 3 broken ribs at the time and were leaving the hospital.

[@barbarat5729]

Yikes. She should have minded her own business.

[@superfluityme]

@@barbarat5729 And there in lies the problem. A group of people that thinks other peoples lives are for them to intervene in.

[@markuskuhn9006]

That person that called you sexist is what I call a gigantic F*ck

[@daroldbannister7496]

Unfortunately I have a temper that I can't control in situations like this. My mouth has caused me lots of trouble in the past.

[@KuroDeku]

Darold Bannister If you're a Christian, pray about it.

[@vicfeb3]

I had a woman ask me what "mansplaining" was. We stared at each other for half an hour. I figured it was a trap.

[@DragonmasterSK]

Whenever someone asks me about these topics I usually say, I dunno let me ask my Gf xD

[@dylanzrim1011]

DragonmasterSK id respond with “does this mean I get to do a man thing?”

[@TheFattestLInHistory]

It's A TRAP!

[@abhinavdebnath9658]

I didn't get it. Explain pls( I am a boy this side )

[@dionysus2006]

I only have superficial conversations with Women out of fear of offending them. A conversation will be like "nice weather we're having....Yes it is....Long awkward pause while racking my brain.....Well, have a nice day ! Bye"

[@awho33]

I've been treated WAAAAY worse by feminists than by any man...

[@marjanahislam6358]

@My Gay Channel huh? 😂😂 you're not her ofc u can't

[@MareWT]

True. I have Been treated way better by normal woman Than by Feminist. There is significant difference. Even lesbian was more interested in me and was able to hit conversation Than Self-hating anti-male Feminist..

[@awho33]

@@MareWT very true

[@awho33]

@SMILEE ooh I'm good regardless... It happens. What gets me is I just don't understand how some ppl have so much hate in their hearts. You are 100% right about why it happens imo

[@awho33]

@@marjanahislam6358 what does ofc mean?

[@projectdelta2088]

A man opens the door for a woman: "How dare you I can do it myself!" A man doesn't open the door: "Chivalry is dead!"

[@BTFOOMNY]

Unless the guy is a doorman, he is NOT opening the door for a woman. He was planning on going through the door he just opened. All he did was allow the woman to go first. How do you know he's not gay? Would he still be sexist. I was riding a bus and a pregnant woman got on. I was going to give her my seat, but a few thoughts ran through my mind. 1) Maybe she's just fat, not pregnant. 2) I didn't make her pregnant, so why is it my problem? 3) What if it's just her coat stuffed under her shirt? Then we got to my stop and it didn't matter. Welcome to MS (malicious sexism) lady.

[@MrGchiasson]

Project Delta Summer 1977.. i opened a door for a 40 year old woman. (i thought i was merely being a polite gentleman) uh..feminist loudmouth. She did her' "I don't need any man to open my door!" The first tme..I shrugged it off..at the age of 23. After dozens of the same bitchy femdroid attitude..... I quit opening doors for women. That was over 40 years ago. Now...women gripe, "where are all the gentlemen?". ( I make a judgement call and decide when I will open a doorfor a woman) It has become risky to offer help.

[@masashiiino6914]

I usually do that for some other people, not only women.

[@dakota9821]

@@BTFOOMNY I don't ride public transportation (thank god its terrible), but I would NEVER give up my seat to a pregnant women... should have fucked a man with a car and a job!

[@womedrah1415]

It never ends, unless you shoot her.

[@WilsonProductionsOfficial]

When I open a door for a lady, I'm being polite. And you know who taught me to do that? My mother. Really being sexist there.

[@umbra014]

Doing it to women only tho is sexist.

[@WilsonProductionsOfficial]

@@umbra014 Not necessarily

[@umbra014]

@@WilsonProductionsOfficial Yes it is. Why discriminate?

[@WilsonProductionsOfficial]

If the only people you come across to open the door for are women, then no, you're not being sexist. Which is very unlikely. I'm not discriminatory, this was just a lame joke I was telling.

[@umbra014]

@@WilsonProductionsOfficial Well uh....ya, as long as you dont solely do it for women

[@alexzhang9468]

Feminism is when a woman wants The power of a man The privilege of a woman The responsibility of neither

[@alexboone3017]

Responsibility and accountability of neither

[@psykill2000]

A round of applause to our new mgtow brother!

[@asatruteacher]

That is rather profound. I might steal it.

[@surferxblood]

Kudos brotha

[@wascawywabbit0987]

@@asatruteacher There is no stealing in mgtow. Only sharing. :) That said, Me Too. AAARRRGGGHH! I gotta stop saying that.

[@lala-kc3br]

I'm a girl and if I'm carrying heavy things and a boy wants to help me carry some of those things I wouldn't think that he thinks I'm weak, I would think that he's a kind person just being decent

[@marymaedimakiling5110]

Men who is helpful are nice people. It's NOT really that sexists... Man, Feminists had gone too far...

[@christopherjobstraibitzer8407]

That‘s like helping someone, trying to lift a perambulator into the tramway. It‘s just nice.

[@christopherjobstraibitzer8407]

And either men and women are thankfull.

[@myblacklab7]

I'm a reasonably strong boy, and if a woman offered to help me with my groceries I might marry her on the spot.

[@smitajky]

It would become sexist if he would ONLY do it for a cute female. If he helps anyone who needs it there cannot be any element of sexism in it.

[@dwarvenmoray]

I was raised to hold the door & help people. I never called it benevolent sexism. I was taught it as being a gentleman with good manners.

[@mary__simone]

You were raised right.

[@tajcee]

Or you were just taught to be, you know, a decent human being

[@cowboyzombiez7281]

I feel like all of us were kinda taught to be kind to others this day in age from my view point is making it seem so bad for us to be doing this. Geez this world is weird

[@jonathanalvarado2704]

Lmao I was taught to open the door for anyone behind me because I’d want whoever In Front top open the door for me

[@idkstilldk9858]

Ya same

[@maryoomaaziz3606]

That’s literally crazy i am a girl and i hold doors for anyone who is walking behind me it’s literally respect ...

[@GxthBxtch420]

Im a guy, and I hold doors for everyone. Its just how my mom raised me, to be polite and have good manners towards everyone around me.

[@tommydunn5559]

Yes, but if a man holds the door for you, he is wanting something. Quit losing!

[@grasweg3]

I guess the women, who complain about men holding open the door for them, would never think of holding doors open for anyone else. Maybe they don't understand the basic concept of respect.

[@luvuforeverjames]

Exactly what I've been saying for years. I've always done this for anyone irrespective of them being male or female. I've always thought of it as being common courtesy.

[@emilytrott]

Your mother did an excellent job of teaching you basic manners. There is a joke from way back when that went like this: A man held the door to a store open so that the woman following him could pass through it. She sneeringly said "You don't have to do that because I'm a lady." To which he replied, "I didn't. I did it because I am a gentleman."

[@someoneontheinternet4965]

Opening a door for someone has nothing to do with gender It’s just basic logic of respect

[@aronnemcsik]

And you expect feminists to have logic? It's like expecting to have a Unicorn that farts rainbow because I want it.

[@someoneontheinternet4965]

@@aronnemcsik feminists never have logic lol

[@aronnemcsik]

@@someoneontheinternet4965 nor do they have rainbow farting unicorns... And I think they really wanted one

[@AudriusN]

@@aronnemcsik Unicorn that farts rainbow is a thing closer to reality than feminists with logic :D

[@denisesurber8176]

Going in or out a door, if anyone is behind me I'll hold the door for them instead of letting it shut right in their face. It's courteous.

[@draw2death421]

I'm a man and I open Doors for everyone not because I want to impress them but because I Like the feeling of: hey I made someones life less misserable.

[@peterlarkin9401]

Same as, gender of the recipient is irrelevant.

[@anthonymorris8982]

My favorite is the Feminist women who are shocked that a man would hit them back.... Right after calling for "EQUALITY!"

[@brucek6563]

I love it!!!!! 🤣

[@lobsterminion693]

I am a firm believer in equal rights and equal lefts

[@kanishkakamble5186]

Ehm yes yes kazuma desu

[@evelynjoy4466]

Seriously! I was once at a very small Pro-Trump event where I was the only girl in the group, and there was the crazy leftist liberal lady who was getting very heated with us, so I stepped in between her and the guys, because I was honestly afraid it would come to blows. Could you imagine if it had and one of the boys hit her in self-defense in front of some Pro-Trump signs? Oh, what a field day the media would have had if they got wind of it! However, if she had hit me it, we would have just been called racist instead of racist AND sexist. Thankfully, it didn't come to anything physical, besides her tearing up one of our signs, but I was scared! I felt bad since men should protect women, not the other way around, but I wasn't sure what else to do. Thankfully, it didn't end up mattering in the end, but still. Geez.

[@nanaegyirackahtaylor9661]

@@evelynjoy4466 I'm pretty sure a bunch of the guys thought you were really cool jumping in. Some probably even know/understood the real reason you did that :) Who said women can't be chivalrous? :D I tip my hat to ya!

[@alexclarke3534]

News flash for the sensitive individuals out there. Men also hold the door, carry the shopping, move the heavy object, assist crossing the road, and pick up dropped items for other men, elderly, veterans, professionals, friends, relations, children, disabled, etc as it a traditional courtesy to many of us.

[@darryl2583]

Exactly. It’s just good manners. I was sharply berated a few years ago when I held a door open for a lady I had passed through. She snapped “I don’t need a man to open a door for me” I replied with a quote I heard years before with “I didn’t open the door because you are a woman, I opened it because I was a gentleman.“ It’s just the right thing to do and I’ve been annoyed when people have slammed a door in my face many times without having the courtesy to look behind before releasing a door.

[@henryhunter9643]

If I notice someone behind me, I will hold the door open for them. End of.

[@natedog69420]

@@darryl2583 wow thats nice. I guess i have thin skin. I wouldve closed the door on her face

[@Favorline]

I live in and apartment building. I often if I see a girl or a guy no matter how they look or act open the door for them if I notice they are close by, why not? this has resulted in the other people living here doing the same for me. it's just being nice to each other that's it. I have also helped older guy's girls over the street in the winter when it's slippery so the don't fall and break their collar bone. and if I see someone old who is struggling just getting over the road. and everyone is happy for the help. But when it comes to females who have been brainwashed by feminist and have become one them self's. they often complain, as others have stated there is no right way to handle a Feminist.

[@kittentuson5892]

Yep it's called common decency toward your fellow neighbor. Always grew up believing it was an innate trait in all humans then realized how naive that logic was.

[@margoty5654]

It’s amazing how many of us are strangely attracted to “toxic masculinity” 😂. Maybe men acting like men and women being women is just too weird for our Global controllers!

[@smferreiro2610]

Those lizard people don't understand humans!

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

Yeah most women I know love it when I push a car for them, or carry three sixpacks of 2L water a bottle up the stairs for them simultaneously to help out with grocery shopping or such. It's just the feminists that seem to think that kind of instinctual helpful behaviour is toxic. Just more gender bashing to divide the sexes and keep them from making babies really. We can thank the Jews for that.

[@yharleththegrandobserver236]

@@TheStraightestWhitest how is it the jew's fault? What piece of information am I missing?

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

@@yharleththegrandobserver236 I had a whole paragraph of information written down for you, but my comment keeps getting deleted. I used no swear words, no insulting language, nothing. Clearly someone doesn't like what I have to say. Should I mention that the CEO of KZbin is currently a Jew? What a coincidence. Instead I'll just leave this here: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noel_Ignatiev Keep in mind that this is Rotschild owned Wikipedia, which also states (and locked the article, meaning no one can alter it) that the likes of Stefan Molyneux are white supremacists, which is a literal made up statement seeing as he never even insinuated anything of the sort. Even so, some of his quotes are there. Ripping apart the fabric that there is a white race is their goal. And as Orwell said: If you want to destroy a people, you destroy their identity. This is only the Zionist Jews though, you can spot them by their Germanic names. The Israeli Jews are in my experience nothing but nice people.

[@yharleththegrandobserver236]

@@TheStraightestWhitest thank you very much sir, but I have to say, the article says that he actually doesnt desire the erasing of white people, but the erasing of what we now call white privilege. Now, I am fully aware that white privilege isnt a thing nowadays, but it was when he wrote the controversial texts he is known for. So, I dont see what's wrong with him.

[@SCP_Bandit]

THIS WOMAN MUST BE PROTECTED

[@blueforce9269]

yes we must initiate protocol DEFENSE

[@AlphaDaxter1]

shes earth's best defender

[@blacknemesy]

@@blueforce9269 WOW you dare assume she needs a man to defend her? That's 25 years in the femnazi prison!

[@abdulalmasre3471]

@@blacknemesy nice

[@uhmnope4787]

Someone send her a sexy manly man to have lots of fun with!

[@SunnyDCurlesrainbow545]

Feminist: "Men need to be respectful of women" Men: *Holds door open for women* Feminist: "That was so disrespectful!"

[@MaidenlessScrub]

Search for say hello to a feminist

[@yourehereforthatarentyou]

@@MaidenlessScrub good old birdman

[@tomyoung2116]

Dude that is the mood

[@rei_sen7646]

men: don't hold door open for women also feminists: "how disrespectful smh"

[@SunnyDCurlesrainbow545]

@@MaidenlessScrub That video was so stupid. "Don't say hello to me! I don't play that sexual harassment game!" HUH??? She was so furious, all because a nice guy was just saying hello to her.

[@Yurindeep]

I was raised in the eighties, before all this rampant "feminiza" (Misspelled incorrectly on purpose, switch the 'a' and 'i' around) bull started. With three older sisters I was 'trained' at an early age to respect females, not because they CAN'T do something, but because I can help make a job easier by offering to lend a hand. I was taught that holding a door open for someone - regardless of gender, age or ethnic group - was respectful. I have both held a door open, and had them held opened for me. I've always responded with a 'thank you' and a smile. However, just a week ago, on December 22, I was at the local mall and got to the door first. I've always looked around to see how close the next person is before I go in. I held the door open for a lady [that looked around my age, but that's irrelevant] because a) she had a stroller, b) it was really cold and windy and c) she had a cell phone in her hand that was not pushing the stroller. She gave me a dirty look, spun the stroller around and hit the wheelchair button with her elbow next to the door I was holding open. I just shrugged and waited for the other three people - two male and a female - to go in the door I had open. Each of them said 'thanks!' and smiled. I noticed the inside wheelchair button didn't work as she hit it repeatedly, so I opened the inside door and held it open, too. She noticed this and gave me another dirty look. I waited a moment to see if she would take the offer, but instead she told the person she was talking to to 'hold on', and said to me, "I can get the door myself. I don't need someone like you to do it for me." (however with much more colourful words). Again, I shrugged, waited for other people to go through that had come in from the first set after me - again each of them saying thanks - and I went on my way. I heard her tell the person on the phone that "Some sexist a-hole thinks I don't know how to operate a door." before the door closed. As I was coming out of the shop I was in, I spotted an older lady talking to her. I only caught a portion of what she was saying. "[...]when some nice, young, man opens a door for you, it's not that he's being sexist or to tell you you're stupid. It's because he was raised right - to treat humans, regardless of what you have between your legs, with respect and dignity. You should be ashamed of yourself, young lady. [...]" (Paraphrased) That elder lady was my hero of the day.

[@doctorevil7352]

I read your comment with great interest and am happy to pass this on ;GOD said for us all, do not repay evil with evil. May GOD bless you for your comment and actions. Keep the faith and don't give up brother.

[@Yurindeep]

@@doctorevil7352 I also learned many (MANY) years ago; "Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things". In other words, "If you can't control the situation, or if it doesn't affect your life directly, not to worry about it one bit." The attitude of the 'mother' was not something I had the time, money or energy to attempt to influence, so I didn't care enough to comment. Apparently the 'grandmother' felt she had the time, so she did say something. :P

[@doctorevil7352]

Good for you brother, never loose that .

[@MsPinkwolf]

I don't think she was a feminist, I think she was just a dick. 'scuse the language.

[@Marcusjnmc]

super old lady

[@Tronman63]

I open doors for BOTH genders it's called MANNERS and RESPECT! And on rare occasions I've had doors opened for me by young girls and so I say "Thank You."

[@BrutusMaximusAurelius]

This. If I arrive at the door first, I hold it open. That's how I was raised.

[@jangoneko3875]

HOW CAN YOU! YOU DISRESPECTFULL, MISOGYNISTIC PERSON! MANNERS? RESPECT? GET THAT OUT OF HERE! Jk, you're absolutely right... I dont know who wasn't raised like this

[@wasd_totallyreal_dsaw9865]

Amen. It's called courtesy. I open door for men, if i get to the door first. If i see a dude carrying his weight in grocery bags, imma offer help too! It's called manners, and i was raised right!! Edit. I forgot to say this, but aparently (and unfortunatly) needs to be said, but i accept help too, and say thank in the end, like a normal person. It's common sense.

[@JDM054]

Ana Viegas the problem is you are talking common sense and manners which apparently are in the process of being flushed down the toilet by our modern society. Or at least modern feminism.

[@wasd_totallyreal_dsaw9865]

@@JDM054 unfortunatly, yes. I still consider myself a feminist, in the sense the I'm for equality, but true equality. I want to fight for gender issues, but men have gender issues too, and i want to fight for that too, and it's unrealist and dumb if we're ust fighting for one side. This is the idea i have of most feminists (true feminists, aka, ones with brains), the ones that say "men are our allies and we are theirs and we'll fight inequality together". But unfortunatly, internet idiots are louder than people with comon sense. There are actual studies that show the the most radical views are the ones that get shared more.

[@bilindalaw-morley161]

I’m a sixty year old female. Grew up in the first “Women’s Lib” days. I will hold the door for a man, a child, an elderly person. I will also smile and say “Thank you” when someone holds a door for me- whether they are male, female, or a pink spotted unicorn. I *do* get shirty if I’m holding a door open and the person walks past me as if I’m invisible. FHS this is all getting so silly. What happened to common courtesy, or, ya know, just being “nice”?

[@WorldWalker128]

Wait, hold the phone- You've held the door for a pink spotted unicorn.....too?!

[@calebleach7988]

that's how I feel. Just... be a generally courteous person, that's really all it takes.

[@RespectMyAuthoritaah]

Women's Lib killed it. Self inflicted wound.

[@davidbrian8295]

A man helping is sexist. A man not helping is sexist. A man hearing about helping is sexist. A man not hearing about helping is sexist. A man working for his family is sexist. A man not.... see where this is going? lol

[@GMdelsXT9]

I feel ya mate

[@jasonbrown4526]

It's getting to the point where even being a man is sexist.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Yep lol

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

@@jasonbrown4526 Especially if you're a white man, they think that's the worst kind of man of all -_-

[@xLionsxxSmithyx]

This Is why men are having surgery to become women.

[@ericliddle7556]

*opens door for feminist* "I don't need you to do that!" *Opens door for literally any other person on planet Earth, male or female* "Thank you"

[@VhivaLaRASTA]

Its funny because 14 years ago a guy opened the door for me at school and I dapped him up. Currently, hes my best man and my best friend at my wedding. Small gestures can lead to big things

[@billybobjoe198]

@@VhivaLaRASTA What is dapping?

[@raymondjackson1138]

In all honesty, if I ever were to go back to being purple pilled, I'd want a woman like Sydney because she's 1. intelligent, 2. reasonable, 3. would probably treat a good man right. However, for now, I'll continue to not hold doors open for women at all, just other men. I don't walk up to talk to a woman when I'm out with friends because I'm not dumb enough to risk a false assault accusation. I masturbate at night because I don't want the risk of either false rape accusation or getting someone pregnant. I don't date women because money > shitty women.

[@97JoMiller]

I'm finding more and more people don't know how to say, "thank you" when you hold the door for them, it really makes me want to slam the door in their faces... seriously manners cost nothing and help everything. Typically the ones who don't say thank you... teenage to early 20 females.

[@mr.madness7577]

I know. I always open doors for people whether young or old. Most people that I do that for whether male or female are always polite. But you always have that one person who just has to be a jerk and say how bad of a person you are just for opening the door. Huh... The day and age where just trying to be a upstanding citizen makes you a creep and a bad person in general.

[@shiva_689]

I love how it's called BS haha

[@mattslupek7988]

Me too!!

[@9500836]

@@mattslupek7988 I love that your reply is #metoo

[@mattslupek7988]

@@9500836 Lol

[@BrickbusterSt.]

Its called BS cause its total BS

[@alphanova01]

🤣😂Bs like yeah it's bs

[@7Ghos]

If I'm walking through a door first, I hold the door for the person following - male of female, It's not about domination/subjugation etc, but having good manners

[@destinytroll1374]

7Ghos Precisely I do the same

[@rayban5737]

Be classed as a gaybo doing that for a man....gentalman for a woman

[@7Ghos]

@@rayban5737 Seen as a tosser for letting the door hit the person behind you in the face

[@grifballa]

Most of the time I don't even fully look at them. I'll glance with my peripheral vision, and if I see a humanoid shape, I'll hold the door

[@personafanatic4597]

common courtesy shouldn't have a gender. that's all there is to it & good for you for showing manners in an age of millenials that don't seem to have been taught any

[@janwitkowsky8787]

I remember when I got extremely unpopular at campus for 8 hours. A blue-haired lady was talking about men's toxic behaviour and so on with the punchline of "chivalry being dead." The third time she shouted her punchline, it promted me to shout "Of course it's dead. Having a horse is expensive!" I had to flee from the scene. 8 hours later, at the friday-bar, linguistic students and medieval-history students came to me, handed me a beer and backed me up all evening xD

[@TheRoomforImprovement]

Jan Witkowsky And so shines a good deed on a weary world.

[@UncleAsmos2005]

R/ihopethathappend

[@lennaymaboyyy4848]

El Tio Asmodai r/ihopeithappened

[@UncleAsmos2005]

@@lennaymaboyyy4848 well, can't say wouldn't want this to happen. So...

[@SiddiqueSukdiki]

chivalry is as toxic as it gets. I don't know where this misconception that soldiers of the past were this sort of gentle specie. The 'chivalrous' soldiers would plunder towns, rape and murder its citizens.

[@superstd]

women : we dont want chivalry men : ok women : where are the chivalrous men ? men : ....what do you want exactly ? women : we dont want chivalry but we want you to want us to want chivalry men : ....runs away in confusion me : -_- thats life

[@Amaling]

Yo it’s almost as if there are different people with different preferences

[@joeychesnut6308]

Parsa Rathernotsay yo it’s almost as if guys are too scared to take that chance out of fear of public humiliation.

[@firethylacine1976]

@@Amaling So who's preference should we follow?

[@Amaling]

@@firethylacine1976 don't follow the preferences just be yourself lol

[@shawnmunck7412]

women never know what they want. "i want a nice guy" *turns guy being nice into friend* "i wanna go out to eat" *after hours of trying to figure out where, decided to eat something at home* "i wanna be drilled hardcore" *presses restraining order on a guy for being too rough and "raping" her* lol

[@vilefly]

I got accused of "mansplaining" at my job by an overly cocky woman who claimed to know programming and electronics. I work as a certified master mechanic with 30yrs experience in diagnosis. I hate it when someone who is only smart in one direction thinks it applies to everything else. She claimed she knew the ECM's strategy in the car by using the word "should". I told her it doesn't set that code based on that. "Yes it does. Don't talk down to me like that. I program computers every day." "With what? C++, visual basic, visual C, assembler, machine language, java, python, fortran?" "How do you know about those?" "Because I have to deal with the end result of those languages......fuzzy logic. Except fortran, which sucks. And my skills are not limited to my job, which is a love of problem solving. It's humans I don't get.....they're all crazy." Started to walk away. "Wait, where are you going? You're not done helping me." "You kept interrupting me. Can't force you to believe me. So we are done." I closed the overhead garage door, even though it was 96 deg F out, so her stubborn ass would get the message. Men who walk into the shop telling me how to do my job get the same treatment, only I am less patient. Never tell anyone how to do their job. It's asking for it.

[@myblacklab7]

Fair.

[@redreuben5260]

“Don’t tell me how to do my job and I won’t come to your job and show you how to sweep the floor” 😝

[@vilefly]

@@redreuben5260 My other thing I used to do when Lethal Weapon 2 was all over the t.v.........I showed my ASE Master Technician patch in my wallet, and said, "DIPLOMATIC IMMUNITY!".

[@UnknownName5050]

I’m sure she was being an idiot, but the attitude of not questioning experts is literally poison especially when it’s a doctor but even if it’s a mechanic or tech. It’s actually YOUR JOB to be nice / smooth over when someone is arrogant etc. not doing that / ignoring them makes you the one who sucks.

[@FocusedFighter777]

@vilefly And that's how these type of people should be dealt with, man or woman! And no this isnt foming from a man. People beed to stop seeing in terms of GENDER, rather in terms of "this PERSON is being an A Hole." Because a lot of people are, gender not required!

[@kevinsheane6362]

So if you open a door for an ederly couple, that's "Ageism?"

[@CasualLaugh]

That's right and don't you dare do it!

[@sogari2187]

Well there is an interesting take to it. I recently saw a video from Jordan B. Peterson in which he said (im simplifying) that "if someone can do it, let them do it themself." It was in regard of toddlers and elderly people. I think there is a balance in being respectful or nice and indicating that someone can't do it themself and taking it away from them although it might be something they want to do themself because they still can. As an example: I currently live in Austria and we had REALLY heavy snowfall a few weeks ago. When my 79yo neighbor started clearing his drive from roughly 60cm of snow i stepped out to help him. For me it would have been a matter of 15 min to clear it, but while we were talking and i was working i clearly felt that he was uncomfortable with me doing all the work and every few meters he grabbed the snow shovel and started doing it himself. So i let him do it in his slow pace until he was exhausted and then took it back to continue. We did this like 5 or 6 times before we were done and it took at least 40min but you could clearly feel that he enjoyed talking with me and that he wouldn't have liked it if i'd have done it all by myself. Edit: opening a door should be fine tho xD

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

LOL, I held the door open the other day for a woman who was in a wheelchair? Does that mean I'm against people with physical disabilities?? I'm a woman btw lol, just commenting on how retarded the world is today. She actually was happy that I helped her into the restaurant and even said thank you!!! I was always raised to "treat others how you want to be treated" and so far, that's always done good for me. Parents today would do well to teach their kids the same mannerisms, give respect to get respect. Not that difficult!!! My husband was very happy to see me assist the woman as well, and I told him "Well, I'd want her to do the same for me if it were the other way around!" and he smiled. ♥

[@lumyb9064]

I tried to help an old lady with heavy bags cross the street and she refused, mainly i think because she thought i would steal her stuff XD dunno really, but a lot of the old people in my country are somewhat afraid crossing the street on the crosswalk alone, since they move really slow and fear the drivers might become frustrated with them or not stop, so i deliberately walk super slow so they can pass without worries, but i never let them know i try to help them and they never say thanks, many things we do just come from genuinely wanting to help and no rewarding is necessary . I also noticed when helping old people that old ladies most of the times gladly accept the help or even expect younger people to help them, while older men don't, i think they still wanna feel useful and are somewhat "offended" when people assume they are unable to fend for themselves . It's honestly such a grey area, same as the whole sexism thing, i've been told multiple times that i'm so weak cause i am not able to open a jar of pickles, like bruh you either open it for me with your bare hands or i can use a knife to open it...same goes for lifting heavy stuff, if a man offers help or i ask for help, it shouldn't be sexist, as i return the favor but in a different context, using my own individual advantages, but most times when i try to return the favor, i am refused and the dude feels the need to say i am a girl and thus i need more help... So basically what i am trying to say with this, is that human interactions is such a complex area, when trying to help a lady carry heavy bags and she reacts negatively it could be that she is some feminazi or it could be that she was made fun of before for being weak and wants to just do it herself, also when guys open the door for ladies or try to help in various situations, most do it out of the goodness of their heart, but there are some who feel the need to express just how much that help was needed and kinda give a vibe like you're some incapable human being. In the end, just accept the help, teamwork op and life's too short to constantly try to prove a point.

[@Prene16]

@@sogari2187 I agree, old people feel bad when they start having trouble with things they used to be ok with, I really love my grandparents so now that they are getting older i try to be of assistance with anything i can but sometimes they insist on doing it themselves, since its smth they have being doing for years, they dont want to stop now... i should also mention that last year i went to help my father and grandgather in the fields and my grandfather kept telling my father i shouldnt do it cuz i dont have to and my back would hurt... which it did...badly ... i am 20 years old and i have less endurance than my grandfather soo i should probably stop being TOO protective and let him do what he does for as long as he can.... like making me food and bringing it to me like i am some sort of princess whenever i go to his place... HE GOT MAD AT ME CUZ I WANTED TO MAKE MY OWN FOOD, now i know why also my grandfather is the one to serve dinner to my grandmother when she can clearly get up and do it herself so that makes him sexist? but if he let my grandmother prepare and serve all the food that would make him a sexist too? maaan feminism and sexism sure are complicated, i dont want ageism to become a thing too

[@rezzzo76]

I don't mind being labeled. I hold the door for women all the time. But, then, I hold the door for ANYONE behind me trying to go through the same door. If that person behind me just so happens to not have a Y chromosome, it's not because I am being sexist, or even chivalrous for that matter. I am simply a believer in common courtesy to all. What if the woman behind me is in a wheelchair? If I hold the door for her, am I being insensitive to her handicap? or just trying to get in her pants? OR, is it even possible that I am simply being nice? I know one thing. NOBODY will ever make me feel guilty for being nice.

[@annother3350]

But you don't assume their gender so you don't even know they're women? This is all how the left eats itself

[@CWSouth]

Basically this. I can say with more and more certainty by the moment that men aren't trying to be sexist or whatnot when doing things like this - they're simply trying to extend a common courtesy to anyone around, because it's the right, nice, socially upstanding thing to do.

[@johalun]

MAC MILLER Indeed. I hold the door for anyone behind. I ask anyone I see struggle if they need help, regardless of sex. What does that make me? Dual sexist?

[@chrisguy1790]

It's good manners

[@joachimbikas880]

You sir, deserve a praise

[@renewyourmind1815]

When my husband and I go pick up 4 loads of hay (75-80 pound bales) I've always been WAY happy to let him stack them in the trailer while I entertain our toddler in the truck. Gosh, I overlooked the fact that he was being sinister! How dare he help load up hay for my horses. He's so sexist!! It's to punish me for the 3 horses and 7 dairy goats I have, not to help me. He's SO RUDE!!! I can't believe I didn't see this side of him before...it's like I don't even know him! All jokes aside, I'm proud of him because when we leave a store or the house, he opens my door with our little boy and he's teaching him to be a gentleman. Hopefully when our 3 year old is at a dating age people will still appreciate a man who treats women with respect.

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Lol amen sister ♥ My husband always holds doors open for me, pulls out the chair at restaurants, etc, I LOVE it!!! It's so sweet and just makes me love him that much more. Chilvary is NOT dead!!! EDIT: He also does all the heavy lifting too!!!

[@renewyourmind1815]

@@RedRoseSeptember22 - He sounds sexist too 😂 lol glad he treats you right though! How women can see help as a negitive is beyond me (& you it sounds!)

[@Aidames]

@@antdezbayarea That's OK, I'd rather that kid find someone who is still normal and appreciates his kindness, than to marry some purple haired loony that hates his guts.

[@oozhaboo]

He sounds like a creep. I mean creeper. Wait! I meant keeper, gosh!!

[@ashthetrash0]

I don't know. I think most "families" raising children are normal people. By families i mean two people married and living in a single house they call home. Again, i don't know. I'm not from anywhere near USA.

[@BenSenneck92]

A woman once told me off for opening a door for her, we got to the next door - she couldn’t open it 🤣

[@phenix4181]

@@l_AkumaNoYona_l some doors are really heavy, im a guy and ive struggled to open some doors, when thats the case i make sure everyone behind me passes through so they dont have to open the door again usually the ones behind are kind enough to hold the next door for me if there is one

[@denisesurber8176]

Gotta love that instant karma.

[@ALJ9000]

Ah, that’s the stuff 🤤

[@tomcleverley18]

Keep preaching it!!! My wife loves it when I get the door for her, help her carry something, and pick flowers for her. Yes, we both love being intimate with each other. She is my best friend and lover and I am so blessed to be spending my life with her

[@doreeneb]

That is amazing! You're both very lucky. Sadly, I feel men like you are becoming rare and women like me are losing out because of the craziness of this feminists movement. How can men opening doors for women be classified as sexist? Truly sad the state we're in as a society.

[@cm-pr2ys]

How wonderful! Good for you two! I also love to take care of my girlfriend and help her and make sure she doesn’t have to do anything that I could do for her, especially after she’s had a rough day at work.

[@brucek6563]

You're a lucky man!

[@blackpinggui736]

@@doreeneb We aren't that rare, we're are just quiet ;)

[@darthrevan558]

Weird flex but ok

[@iamisaid2295]

had to get my husband to open a jar for me just yesterday. we both laughed and then got on with our lives.

[@ultrapetey]

omg he totally abused you lol

[@iamisaid2295]

@@ultrapetey IKR, curiously I didn't go to social media to vent about it. we had some wine and ate olives and enjoyed our ocean view, life is grand.

[@josephleblanc3884]

I worked at officemax with a radical feminist in 2002. Guy was buying a desk. I asked if she wanted help and she snapped at me that she could do it herself. I just laughed and walked away. 5 minutes later she came to me and demanded help while I was helping a customer in electronics. I said “ you said you had it. You’ll have to ask someone else. I’m busy with a customer.” 20 mins later I’m being called to the managers office because I “refused” to help her. I explained to my boss how she treated me (asst manager and she was female) figuring I was fkd either way. I was very surprised when she left the office to talk to the customers ( both the furniture customer and the electronic customer) to get the whole scoop. Needless to say, this girl got fired and on her way out the door she called the asst manager a c word and traitor to women. LoL I left Officemax in 2003 because of this same manager( lack of scheduled hours) but we still see each other occasionally and I always tell her thank you for not just buying the BS. Too many times I’ve seen that not happen in a few places I’ve worked. Oddly enough I didn’t share this to rag on feminists, but to show that not all women buy into the bullshit. :)

[@67kemo]

Have you seen The Orville yet? If not, this is a bit of a spoiler, but the captain spends HIS first season asking his security officer, a female, to "open this jar of pickles for me". This is exactly the trope they were aiming at. For the record, she often times ends up making a hole where a door used to be.

[@tommcfadden5232]

It nice to be useful. What brand of pickles?

[@ladyhawk6999]

I love men! I love strong assertive men that treat me like a lady. I love it and appreciate when a man helps me, it is their nature. Hell, I even love it when a man whistles at me! I can be a strong, intelligent woman and still accept a man's attention. I feel sorry for men in these times. My heart goes out to you all!

[@kellypenrod2979]

IF YOU ARE REAL, YOU ARE VERY VERY RARE!

[@Goregreet]

Thank

[@Artizap_]

THANK YOU

[@franciscosargento8094]

Thanks

[@AnimeRayanne]

I don't know if I like assertive men romantically (because I don't have a lot of existence dating) or not but I really don't think they're sexist. My sister's boyfriend is not sexist for telling her "sit down women" because she's trying to do something when she shouldn't be at this time (She's pregnant so he's a little overprotective of her right now.)

[@joelhall5124]

Just chipping in with a man's perspective. He help with things as a sign of respect. It's not because we think of women as lesser, are trying to get laid, or think women need help. Manners are a display of respect.

[@myblacklab7]

No offense, but it can help in getting laid too. But yeah, whatever, I open doors for old people and whatnot - it's just way better when it gets me laid. Yes, I do sleep with a lot of elderly people. What's it to ya? lmfao

[@randomdude8327]

@@myblacklab7 bruh 💀

[@zr2ee1]

I dated a feminist once, she wanted more equality.... So i stopped putting the toilet seat back down, we don't talk anymore

[@begobolehsjwjangan2359]

Savage

[@Vorador47]

haha that was always my argument, when my girlfriend would complain that i left the toilet seat up, i would say, well just put it down, i think that's fair, when i use it, i lift it up and when you use it, you put it down, it's equal.

[@Mauipat]

I guess you showed her.

[@bfulton4]

A trick i us when ur girl friend asks to put the seat down is to put both lids down ! see what happens with that ?? it can b funny.

[@katzmanon]

HANDS DOWN BEST COMMENT EVER

[@darraghmccooe1752]

I helped an elderly woman get her groceries to her car and then some feminist shoved me saying how dare you be so rude and sexist

[@039aj]

I don't believe you.

[@datGuy0309]

aj039 yup, that’s probably fake

[@sachincs6711]

@aj039 Ever Heard of a thing called "Joke"?

[@noone-bf1vy]

@@039aj and its people like you that are the problem

[@noone-bf1vy]

@@sachincs6711 that probably wasn't a joke asshole

[@dany478]

I work for an airline and back in 1999 i was at work standing in the airplane and chatting to some of the crew. A colleague (Australian) who was about 160 cms tall was trying to reach a container which was about 2 meters from the floor. That container was approximately 40 to 45 kgs. I noticed she was struggling to reach so while talking and not even thinking I pulled it for her. She totally freaked out. She said: " what the F... do you think you're doing?". I was shocked. I said I'm helping you. She said:"well that's just rude, who do you think you are? In my culture you have to ask before offering to help and just because i am a woman it doesn't mean i need your help and if i need your help I'll ask you..." and she went on and on. So i said listen in my culture if i see anyone struggling to reach or lift specially a lady and if i don't assist that makes me a lazy disrespectful ahole and with this attitude you're showing please don't ask for my help because you won't get it anymore. She freaked out even more and i got called that day, myself and my countrymen, a bunch of "chauvinistic pigs"... All this because i helped and probably saved her from a back injury. I had never thought of it that way, that helping a lady means that i am showing her that i am stronger than her and that she's incapable. It was just a reflex. A couple of years after that i was a helping a family sit together and next to that family there was a lady. I asked her nicely if she's ok to move to allow the father to sit with his two little kids and wife. She refused and a lady sitting on the other side called me and stated that since i am looking to make a man "comfortable" and i asked a woman to move this makes me a woman hater and a sexist MF. 😱😱. However recently i was looking for a parking in a mall with my family and the lady in front of me was struggling to reverse into her parking spot. With those incidents described above in mind and many more over the years i decided to wait patiently and not even try to assist. The lady came out of the car and asked me to park her car because she is not great at it and she would appreciate the help. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, offering to help someone who's struggling is not a sign of dominance. It's just f...ing help.

[@mgtowhubproject8786]

"" what the F... do you think you're doing?"" I'd put it back in place and say: "You go girl!". Those would be the last words she ever heard from me. I have a severe allergy to retards.

[@nana-nh1uo]

the only time this happened to me I said sorry and put the box back up. She was more pissed and abused me as i walked away.

[@peterbuckley3877]

dani el asmar that sort of behaviour is not the norm in Australia, if you see somebody struggling or needs help you automatically help. Your co workers reaction is exactly the opposite of Australian culture.

[@dany478]

In 2018 i would put it back and walk away but that was 1999, i was young and this behavior was new to me and to most people. I also did not have a lot of experience dealing with different cultures. But that reaction stayed with me.

[@dany478]

@@peterbuckley3877 I didn't mean to take a swipe at Australians. I have now enough aussie friends and I've been to Australia enough times to understand how the culture is and I like it. 👍

[@TheMormonSorceress]

I remember when I was in my first accident and I was stunned scared a bunch of men stopped to see if I'm okay and called 911, my husband held me as I cried and got me some ice cream, and one man stopped to help my mother with her tires in the middle of a blizzard. If this is considered sexist then I like to move to a different planet now.

[@MussaKZN]

I’m a male boilermaker welder who worked with a female boilermaker in an underground mine, one job we had was to put Hardox liner plates in a apron feeder the plates were around 40kg each, I weighed 95kg and she weighed 60kg, PS totally different muscle mass! She Physically could not install the liners so I installed all the liners and she bolted them up from the back. The next day was the same thing I installed the liners she bolted them, on the third day I asked her to try to install the liners because I was getting fatigued and she said she couldn’t they are to heavy! So I had to do it again. The next day I asked my manager if I can work with somebody else today and he wanted to know why? so to be nice I didn’t say my Colleague wasn’t strong enough to do the job and get her in trouble I just said mixing up the work crews help keeping your mind fresh! He said “I’ll get back to you”, the next day I got called in the office and was informed that when my female colleague was informed of my request to change crew she then made Accusations of sexist and hostile work environment!!! Saying I wanted to do everything myself and didn’t let her even try to do the Physical Portion of the job!!!!!!! I was gob smacked!! Needless to say my request was denied and I was informed that I need to work with her and i will need to change my attitude of working with women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now how can this be right I’m thinking’ Well ok let’s do it! On our second last shift I was Courteous and respectful but I didn’t want to be sexist so I grabbed the nuts and waited for the first liner plate to be put in position she struggled but got it in place, 29 more to go! So buy the end of the shift we still had 5 more liners to install but it is what it is. The last day she requested a crew change and it was approved apparently I was working her to hard, so there you go!! Who is the one playing on gender?

[@averagejo1626]

sounds like the vast majority of women my age or younger. (Also a growing number of boys who will probably never become men) :-( Or like my wife asking me to balance the budget without reigning in her bad shopping habits.

[@sejuanisupportonly7385]

@Mussa Musumeci So you learned a valuable lesson. You do not go to the managers and make oral requests. You put your request in paper, make it official and explain EXACTLY what the problem is. That way noone can turn the tables on you or blame you afterwards. Your mistake was not telling the truth and keeping things informal, thus opening up a window of opportunity for that woman to get the better of you. Learn from it :)

[@vtshadow314]

You are a victim of yourself. You white knighted yourself. Will you do that again? Lets say it together. "I will not be a white knight." You tried to protect her and it turned around and bit you right in the ass. In the end, honesty would have saved your ass. Next time if a chick cant do the job, say the chick cant do the job.

[@josephnewman713]

Her blaming you and lying to the is completely ridiculous and out of line, but I dont understand why you did not be more direct with her and keep her in the loop. ex. "Hey partner, my back is killing me after 3 days in a row, and it would be dangerous for someone your size to lift those liners, why dont WE go to the boss and see if I can swap with someone who bolted today and have them lift the liners for you tomorrow?" It prevents the boss from suspecting you have a problem with each other. It prevents her from being defensive when the boss comes to her from out of the blue asking her why you want to change work partners.

[@MussaKZN]

Joseph Newman that’s a fair call but apples for apples We are all talking about pay Parity and the way a feminists has an outlook on a job description. I’m not a child care worker because I don’t think I could do that Particular job very well so why in the world would a Petite young girl become a boilermaker? Because her father was the mobile plant superintendent and she will get the same money as a any other tradesmen for doing fuck all and I mean fuck all !! And when someone called her out they went on nightshift or a window seat home so I was trying not to call her out because of other Ramifications. But in the end she’s gone and we’re all happy in our own little man world. PS She did a transfer into an OHS roll doing even less for more money!! LOL

[@elg1400]

Notice that the acronym for “benevolent sexism” is BS...

[@zacharymorin4634]

that is EXACTLY what I thought lmao

[@constantinesoldatos]

LOL

[@crusadeknight896]

It’s is BS :D

[@victorcates9330]

I'm at least somewhat conflicted, but I can't definitively rule out some component of nature and would note the relative lack of criticism on action flowing the other way. A woman exhibiting a somewhat maternal care (that arguably constructed a dude into the role of child) wouldn't be necessarily denounced and gendered assumptions regarding specific competencies wouldn't be regarded as indicative of intent or toxic. I'd note feminist works that assert that men are emotionally stunted and need saving presumably by them. Any assistance or criticism implies - at least in a limited way - an assumption of power. it also relies on subjective assessment of the split. If there's a gender split on assumed skills (Etc), then I'd contest that opening doors has less value that mothering. In education, there's an assumption that STEM is the real work and that women getting into the humanities somehow relates to a negative self perception. I'd rather be good at the humanities than STEM. (getting a STEM degree for me was a fallback and profound compromise). Is the feminine paradigm lesser than the masculine? Certainly in the court system, there are suggestions that if a traditional couple are contesting custody, a provider doesn't win out over a caregiver*. That's not a trivial assessment of relative importance in society. A woman can approach a lost child. A man in the same situation will be treated with suspicion and forced to repress an element of his humanity. * I'd note the trope of the "deadbeat dad"

[@RIPDavidBear]

My initials are BS...does that make me benevolently sexist? 🤔

[@JDseller1]

I am a white, middle age, upper level manager. In the last 10 years I can not/will not mentor or help any woman. I never close the door to my office with only one woman inside. It has became too risky. At 55 years old I can not count on finding another job with a good income or retirement. In today's corporate world a woman's word will trump everything short of a video of an event. In years past I helped anyone that was working hard to get ahead in life, male or female. You can not do that today.

[@GmodGTX]

Ah yeah, the Mike Pence approach, which a lot of Wall Street has adapted to, in order to protect themselves from potential allegations from women, which could ruin their lifes and firms.

[@breakaoz]

You sound like a shitty manager

[@timothyswindell4924]

@@breakaoz More like afraid to lose everything he has over a single, isolated event that got misconstrued. OR a female that just hates you as a boss and lies about a situation and ruins your life. Either way, I do the same thing. I shut up and leave everyone alone. You sound like a shitty human.

[@jimb9369]

@@breakaoz - ever hear of Judge Kavanaugh? A whacked out Professor accused him of attempted rape, date unknown, location unknown, details sketchy, none of her friends that were supposedly there would support her allegation. In short, not one shred of evidence or corroborating information, yet millions of people believe her. It has destroyed part of the Judge's life, even though he did get appointed to the Supreme Court. All it takes is an allegation from some to destroy decades of service from another.

[@lrdisco2005]

Record all interactions with all employees. You will be a villain no matter what you do, so you might S well protect yourself

[@bjack8315]

When I was a Little kid when I went shopping with my parents I used to open the store door to girls and women, just by good manners, I wasn't thinking "Oh this females are weak they need me Oh" I just was raised with good manners towards everyone and with a gentleman attitude.

[@xOGxSE7ENx]

A while back, a woman had opened the door for me and just to see what would happen, I said with a soft voice, "I have a boyfriend" she then said, "so that's what it feels like, damn"

[@xOGxSE7ENx]

@Alchemist she sure was, but I'm with a good woman.

[@Neobahamuet]

Rotflol i love that

[@Neobahamuet]

@Second Birth well they could be like me im just using my husbands account because i can't remember my passwords for the life of me

[@One_of_Many750]

Carlos Montes What A Way To Pull A Reverse. Lol.

[@Neon1880]

Second Birth maybe bisexual?

[@eszter.pdf.]

I just love how some women say "aLL tHe GeNtLeMeN aRe DeAd" and also gets mad when guy opens the door for her cuz "tHaT's SeXiSt"

[@arktana]

In many cases its not the same women, I think. Its feminists vs normal women.

[@missbettygauge]

As a woman in STEM, there are times where men have attempted to offer help for something because they assume I'm unable simply because I am a woman. However, these interactions are in no way the majority or representative of why men offer to help. The problem with feminists who claim to fight for women like me is they conflate a minority of men with the majority. Most of them are just trying to be polite and offer assistance. If you don't need it, just say no thank you like a nice human being. Oh, and holding the door open should be something everyone does for everybody. It's just common decency. Fuck.

[@matthewdonahue1609]

Thank you! Why is this such a difficult concept for some to grasp?

[@jimbokay5696]

Yes. Use the words "thank you"...

[@KeldorDAntrell]

"Common decency" says the woman with a foul mouth.

[@endergrad42]

Yeah feminists don't have the intelligence to get into STEM.

[@stevenwhite3.1415]

Maybe they aren't assuming you don't know how to do something. Maybe they are flirting with you by showing they know how. Your assumption that they are assuming you dont know how to do something is as sexist as the assumption that you don't know how to do something. Men try to be helpful for the sake of being helpful, not for the sake of thinking you're incompetent.

[@pepijngeerts8193]

I guess I'm sexist towards my mom, I carry the groceries all the time

[@annad4943]

Man: breathes Feminist: you just got 100% oxygen over my 77% oxygen!

[@bryanwoods3373]

Or that she used 77% of the air the man did. Even if it's because he's larger. Probably blame him for her taking shallow breathes as well.

[@jameslord5622]

Ha ha. This brings up a Fun Fact about oxygen. I took a Lifeguard/ life saving course through the Red Cross and apparently we breath in 21% oxygen and breath out 16% oxygen. The reason we are taught this is to better understand rescue breathing and administering emergency oxygen. So doing the math, if I did it correctly, we breathe out 77% of what we breath in. So I guess your statement would actually be true if you're giving rescue breathes to a feminist.

[@katec3963]

Feminists: you have 100% braincells over my 0%!

[@jeremysmith5579]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@Brinton_Callahan]

There is 100% oxygen in the air? How?

[@dubsquareofficial]

As a male I also hold the door at the gym when I see some dude would also like to go to the locker, not because I'm gay, more because I am a nice person and care for others

[@markhorsburgh76]

You opened the door for a guy? Look, I'm sorry, but that is WELL gay. I don't care what you say. AND, I am ok with that. Honest. Just sayin'. BTW I aim definitely not gay ok? Even though I said I am ok with that. But if I WERE gay, I'd be ok with me being gay. OK?

[@CaptunAlfred]

Y'know, Your profile pic pretty much indicates that You're a r/dankmemes mod, so You're 100% gay.

[@12InchesUnBuffed]

bruh, that was super ghey.

[@dubsquareofficial]

@@markhorsburgh76 can you read? I HOLD it open.. first of all learn to read you gay ass nigga smh

[@markhorsburgh76]

@@dubsquareofficial my bad sorry. You HELD it open.... ….. So you're bi, that's cool.

[@Keyser666]

I won't deny smirking at every use of the BS term. It's all BS at this point.

[@SpookySammy]

Me too 🤣🤣

[@lcross796]

Yup! LMAO!

[@jamesboadwine5262]

Same

[@blackdragoness21]

I don't think they thought that through thoroughly. Oh well. It just proves to me that they are full of BS.

[@grifballa]

My first thought was that at least they're calling it how it is now.

[@Krukster]

I still had for one whole year in secondary school the subject "manners" so that, no matter whats your family and social background, you behave like a decent human being. But also had plenty of situations by now where women thought I want sex im exchange for being polite...

[@brucek6563]

Sydney, I'm just tired of getting dirty looks when I open or hold a door open for a woman. When they don't say thank you, I know they're pissed. I always held doors open for both sexes, but I'm red-pilled now and am getting to the point of not holding the door for any woman, unless she's elderly! I'm sick of feminism!

[@AnimeRayanne]

That's so stupid 😢 I live in an apartment building and when I'm coming home from school I always hold the door open for the rest, if I get to the door first. If I didn't get there first most of the time someone else would be holding it open for me. Sometimes female and sometimes male (usually the same female and male.) I would never think the male is holding it for me just because I'm female, because I hold the door open for people all the time regardless of gender. Plus even if it was because I'm female, some were taught that's a good thing, and as long as they have good intentions its fine. One time someone held the door open for me and she got really mad when I didn't say thank you because she was holding a lot of stuff too. The thing is I did say thank you, she just didn't hear it because I have anxiety. When I'm anxious sometimes anything I try to say come out as a whisper.

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

I only keep the door open for the elder and the handicap, and sometimes the handicaps are assholes too, with "I got it, thats why there is a button" so i just tell them to fuck off and get inside I've also notice that when I go open the door women try to run in front of me so it looks like I open the door for them, I've stopped that since I was 18, there are 4 doors and you have to walk behind me, fuck off and use your own

[@lego007guym8]

I hate when I get stuck holding the door open for 15 minutes because people keep coming. It's just takes so long.

[@anneliselim602]

I'm a girl and I hold doors for both men and women. No problems for me.

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

@@anneliselim602 yeah, that's all well and good, but the thing is feminazis are saying that for a man to hold the door for a woman is sexist, no one is saying people should or shouldn't open doors, I used to until women started thinking that men are just a door opener and don't say thanks

[@TheMariusDarkwolf]

I was raised by my mother to be a polite and respectful gentleman. That said when liberals start talking trash about white men, I tell them that I identify as a Satyr, not a white male, and they should respect my cultural imperatives. Watching their expressions and responses are priceless.

[@gregorymata4579]

What is White? I don't like the term White, white is a color, not an ethnicity. Are you German, Irish, Jewish, Italian, Polish, French, English, Puerto Rican, Spanish etc.?

[@SandwichDoctorZ]

@@gregorymata4579 my ancestors are Swedish. You'd be stupid to call me sexist. If you offend me I'll cast you out of Valhalla!😆

[@mylesanderson2861]

@@gregorymata4579 Black is a color no culture. Also any culture we had was destroyed so yep we could have been called anything even Africa was named after an Italian man Scipio Africanus probably a few hundred years ago.

[@gregorymata4579]

@@SandwichDoctorZ I never called you sexist, I don't know anything about you.

[@SandwichDoctorZ]

@@gregorymata4579 i was doing the ancient art of telling a joke

[@davisdesigns1153]

The worst is when a woman asks you for help and when you do so criticizes you for it

[@electroskates2434]

My mum does that, But I am a girl.

[@myblacklab7]

That's called "psychological abuse." Break up with her, if you haven't already. I feel ya, man.

[@myblacklab7]

@@electroskates2434 You guys get it the worst from women, I have to admit. Thankfully I'm just a guy, and so I avoid the arrows that women sling at other women. As far as men are concerned, I'm just shocked that I'm not in jail yet - those a-holes really get on men's nerves.

[@chunestucke8532]

Yeah like lady you asked for help!?

[@t3hr00tb33r]

Sometimes I ask myself why I try to be nice. She's right: you just cannot win. Who knew that holding a door open for another human being would ever be controversial.

[@shadowpigglet]

I was buying a heavy object and a big guy (bigger than me) asked if he could help me get it down. I could have done it by myself, but it was pretty heavy and his help would be, well, helpful. I said, “sure. Thanks.” We got it down easy and we went our separate ways. He was there with his wife and child. An 8 year old boy (there about). I hope the boy learned that when an older person is in need of assistance a man offers assistance.

[@mr7wi]

William Cullen we’re all in it together. Those that waste their lives trying to problematize the trivial need to stop and clean their own room before they take on the world.

[@wovendandy]

People helping people, it's powerful stuff.

[@OOTurok]

I basically gave up helping strange women, because the majority of women now, cry rape, sexism, & mysonginy. The last time I held a door open for a woman, who was right behind me... she sued me for help rape. She didn't win, but the fact that (help rape) is a thing now, I have absolutely no interest in helping women now.

[@gtbmel]

Help rape? Never heard of it. When someone opens a door for me I just thank them.

[@shootthemoon6072]

Many hands make light work. My mother and father taught me that. I try to help anyone that seems in need. I do start off with saying, "would you like a hand? ", or "do you need some help?" I've never had anyone berate me or whatever; if they say "no", I say "good luck"and go about my day. Their loss really. Lol

[@joycetoingar9960]

Women: we don't need men to open doors Also women: where did chivalry go

[@TheChimonji]

Its really refreshing to see women standing up to these nonsense as well.

[@crazywindows88]

i want someone to open a door for me >;(

[@johnpapa8681]

Chivalry went right out the door that women didn't want held open.

[@yuvarajsinha3491]

@@crazywindows88 nah do it on your own. Those things are extinct now.

[@JackHaveman52]

I was walking down my street and I happened upon a woman trying to back her car with a small trailer into her driveway.....without any luck. So, I did the proper thing as a man. I started laughing, shook my head, ruefully, turned and went on my merry way. I didn't want to insult her by showing how inadequate she was. That would have been rude. Of course, I offered to back it in for her. I'm an old farm boy and we learned the trick of it when we're in our young teens. She was extremely grateful, fairly gushed with gratitude and even offered me a drink. A few weeks later, I was walking by and she called me over and introduced me to her husband, saying that I was the guy that helped her out. He thanked me and offered me a drink and this time, I accepted. It seems that there are people out there that just don't know how to behave in a civil society.

[@lonebikeroftheapocalypse9527]

Should have recorded it and posted it on KZbin.

[@smiler2309]

YES XD

[@R34L157]

Good ole mate 👍

[@JackHaveman52]

@@lonebikeroftheapocalypse9527 Where is the camera and the cameraman when you need it. LOL. Most times I leave the cell phone at home. I like being in a position where I'm out of reach. It gives me a feeling of independence.

[@JackHaveman52]

@Rick O'Shay I offered 2 possible scenarios of that situation. There was the suggestion, in this video, that it was better to not help a woman for some convoluted reason, so I offered a vision of how that was so much better for the woman having a problem. I elaborated on the one that actually happened. Read it carefully and I think you'll figure out the real story.

[@manguy9431]

Haha, I was helping this Lady, then she said, I need no man, then her shopping bag broke on the streets and her tomatoes got ran over

[@denisesurber8176]

🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅😂

[@SamtheMan0508]

Whenever a man has offered to help me with something or opened a door for me, I smile and say thank you. I never thought of it as being sexist. I just thought they were being polite.

[@berenjervin]

LOL - if only you could walk a few miles in men's shoes.

[@taiahunter2600]

When I go to the airport men normally offer to put my suitcase in the overhead bin for me. I normally say yes because I’m scared I’ll whack someone in the face if I do it... which I almost did... multiple times... Men are wonderful because they keep me from whacking people with my suitcase

[@OkabexKurisu]

Just manners to men, but woman want to go to war and such. Maybe they dont need us anymore. I would gladly give my life for 5 young woman to live instead of me, but yeah society sucks.

[@ArtOfCreativity396]

@@OkabexKurisu I don't mean this in a joking way or anything. Are you alright? I really want to know.

[@ArtOfCreativity396]

@@OkabexKurisu Hey buddy, I'm here if you want to talk. If not, that's ok too. I just get a bad feeling whenever people talk about giving up their life.

[@ArtOfCreativity396]

@@OkabexKurisu Alright. I wish you well.

[@OkabexKurisu]

@@ArtOfCreativity396 thank you man. Wish you good times for your future aswell.

Mars is Male,Venus is Female.The difference? On Mars,you have a chance of survival.

[@praetorxian]

Exactly. Earth is lost. Men to Mars, fire the wahmens towards Venus, and the Sun.

[@sherlockhonks2514]

👌

[@Geekzilla84]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Qwerty95ish]

OMG, if you made that up you need to do comedy wrighting.

[@One_of_Many750]

Angel Mcfadden Apt Analogy. 👍🏾👍🏾

[@overnine7602]

"you are needed - who would squash the spiders for me?" Me with arachnophobia: "Heh, Sure thing" ;_;

[@marchhare9440]

This is exactly why so many men avoid any interaction with women.

[@albertomartin70]

I recently move to the states and I’m afraid of talking to women. I just think she will call the cops for harassment! 😭😂

[@RatedPG64]

This world is fuck up!! I always open doors to anybody and now you telling me that feminist sees that as sexist? That's bullshit what kind of world we in? Now I see why men at my workplace don't talk to women, hell I avoid talking to them but apparently they gone see that shit as sexist too.

[@mckeonhoneyman7422]

NOBODY LIKE THIS COMMENT! I wanna see how long it will stay as 69 likes

[@heathera7953]

Women aren't all like this. It's just a very vocal minority that ruin everything they touch

[@thomasb5307]

@@heathera7953You are goddamn true. Feminazis are not that common in real life, most women just want to be treated nicely and respectfully.

[@DrGingerHamster]

More proof that regardless of what men do, we're wrong.

[@R34L157]

Inb4 "you're wrong about being wrong" 😅

[@Sp1n1985]

@@khatack What kinda ...

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

When a man, out in the woods, utters his mind, and no woman hears a word about what he says: is he still wrong?

[@iceinhuman9139]

Oh you think thats bad? Try being a straight white male in 2018. You get no opinion of anything! Its really not fun! lmao

[@anevilrotisserie9136]

Be a asshole and ruin lives? That's ok you being a leader of your life is attractive regardless. You trying to be good to others and carve out happiness with your significant others, well they won't tell you that being a good person doesn't set off any tingles. Your devotion be damned. It's clear what woman are ok with nowadays. Whatever satisfys their immediate desires and doesn't make them think of regretting their decision to choose you.

[@The482075]

How to deal with men who want to help women carry stuff. "I'm okay. I don't need any help." That was anti-climatic. Yep, it's that simple.

[@biggusdickus4952]

or just a "no" or "no thanks"

[@JNoMooreNumbers]

Can you get the door? My hands are full.

[@kaitlinrocca6677]

Yes, because opening my doors and carrying my bags means you’re treating me like a second class citizen😂

[@RespectMyAuthoritaah]

I promise you, I would never demean you like that.

[@kfl16]

Man hits woman: OMG YOURE A MOSTER woman hits man: you’re so weak lol

[@Grrk_Jr]

Hey, if a woman hits me I will equality punch her and provide the example that I won’t keel over because you’re a lady. If you want to talk down to me, fuck off. If you want to hit me, fuck off. “Do onto other as you would have done onto you”

[@kingantunes5128]

@@Grrk_Jr I saw once "equal rights, equal fights" in a comment section

[@Grrk_Jr]

King Antunes and I stand for that notion 150%

[@kingantunes5128]

@@Grrk_Jr WOW Elizabeth Olsen just agreed with me WOW I am literally amazed

[@levalpat]

actually it goes.... you see a man hit a woman and your think "what a terrible asshole".... but when you see a woman hit a man you still think "what an asshole, he must have done something to deserve it"

[@pringlesthegoose1702]

man: *politely opens door for lady * woman: "aRe yOU dOuBtING mY aBiLiTiEs As A sTrOnG iNdEpEnDAnT wOmAn?/??"

[@ty2115]

PringlesTheGoose haha...whenever a feminist says are you doubting that I’m a strong independent woman???? ...me: yes because if you were strong you wouldn’t fall apart over every little thing, like man spreading lol...and if you were independent you would think for yourself and not fall victim to group think behavior and illogical argument. So I agree that your a woman, but unlike libertarian/conservative women you lack the whole strong/independent part.

[@Grrk_Jr]

They are “strong and independent” and immediately break down into weakness when a guy tries to help them. So independent amiright guys

[@rdm5190]

Reply by saying no your stench is so strong it overpowers me.................&i hate tuna....

[@brianjungen4059]

Everything yes they do. I’ve had that happen to me.

[@c.j.cleveland7475]

@Everything(Your first post) Damn straight! I wouldn't even say a word. I'd look her straight in the eye as it closed and just walk away.

[@silvereaglexi3888]

It's very offensive when a forklift offers to lift a pallet of bricks for a human.

[@assassinnoir1015]

But not as bad as a drill digging through concrete

[@devonm042690]

Can you believe the nerve of that crane? It offered to carry a half ton I-beam 70 feet up the scaffolding of that construction site. Total sexist.

[@assassinnoir1015]

Devon Smith ik right

[@freedapeeple4049]

Where I live, forklifts are slaves

[@jeffersonalbright4967]

Yeah, I definitely think it comes down to mutual respect of each other's unique roles. I think men need to give women the deserved carved out space of purpose just as much as women need to do the same.

[@PBMS123]

Im a man with a phsyical disability, and love when anyone sees me struggling and offering help..... Wow I'm struggling something and someones offering help, oh god how dare you!

[@terrorvisionreviews]

As everyone should do with any person Who is struggling, disabled or not disabled.

[@lindsigarrett6293]

I love it when my fiancé opens my car door, holds doors for me, carries heavy groceries, fixes things around the house, and kills all bugs (lol). He is a true gentleman. When I’m in public and someone opens a door or smiles and says good morning I don’t run to my safe space and say that person was harassing me. Feminists now just want to emasculate men in any way possible and it’s ridiculous.

[@evad7933]

In his chivalrous behaviour your fiance is just trying to lever his way into your undies.

[@kaitlinbeecham6227]

You are delusional. These "acts of kindness" are just their way of subjugating you into an inferior role.

[@lindsigarrett6293]

Kaitlin Beecham I hope you’re joking.

[@lindsigarrett6293]

Dave Clarke are you serious?

[@kaitlinbeecham6227]

@@lindsigarrett6293 I am not - look me up on Facebook - I am serious.

[@ZedChuva]

Women: "Chivalry is dead!" Men: "Yeah. Feminism killed it."

[@kaylamolino3223]

That's so true.

[@michaelt.5672]

I've read a very poetic comparison on traditional masculinity in the modern world; It's like a wild animal, like a deer or a wolf. Most people have never seen it in real life. Because while it's not dead, there aren't many examples left, and those have retreated to places that the modern world hasn't conquered yet. So if you want to find it, you won't find it in society. You'll have to go out into the wild (a phrase that can be taken metaphorically as well as literally in this context), and you'll have to search for quiet a long time.

[@derektighe5131]

A friend and I stopped to help 2 women who’s car had broken down. The bonnet was up and they were looking at the engine. I faked could I help, they said “fuck off we don’t need a man’s help”. We left and decided never to insult a woman again by stopping to help. On another occasion I was driving and got a flat tyre in the rain. A young man stopped and asked could he change my tyre for me. I had a bad back and said yes. He changed the tyre. I forced £10 into his hand and said buy yourself a beer. He was helping somebody out. The women couldn’t accept help. I would stop to help a man having trouble but not a woman

[@freedapeeple4049]

Back in the 80s I knew a girl/woman/female who would get upset when I held the door for her. It took a while to get her to understand it had nothing to do with gender and everything to do with consideration and respect, and that I held doors for males as well. After she understood that, SHE opened doors for me.

[@msgtpauldfreed]

A few days ago I was awoken by my wife and told my (21 year old) daughter needed my help immediately at 12:25AM. I got up and grabbed a shoe. Why? Well, on my way to see what my daughter was so distraught over (she's freaking out! ) as my wife offered me a flip flop to which I showed her my walking shoe, she smiled. My daughter had got home late and was brushing her teeth when she noticed a rather large Wolf Spider on the shower curtain. From front feet to back it was about two inches long. Took me a minute to see it, as it was perfectly camouflaged with the print on the shower curtain. I dutifully dispatched the creature and then went back to bed. My daughter retreated to her bedroom and left the light on all night armed with two of our cats. 😀

[@ravenblackbird2002]

Paul Freed: that’s what dads are made for. You’ll be her hero for the rest of her life.

[@craigdax]

Women don’t need us unless there is a spider in the room.

[@ravenblackbird2002]

Craig Dax Then you haven’t met the right one. 😉

[@michaelblaine6494]

I’d never heard of a wolf spider before that and it made your comment sound horrifying,I wish I could show you what I pictured😜

[@aronnemcsik]

Armed with two cats. Am I the only one who imagiening her pump up the cat like a shotgun and shoot furrballs at any spider that comes close to her...

[@chadpowell1832]

This reminds me of that interview or comedy thing that bill burr did, where someone was like "Men are so sexist, always saying that women should stay in the kitchen!" and he responded with "I agree , women should get out because all the best chefs are men" then they started raging at him for saying that too lamao laughed so hard the first time I heard it I swear

[@benapeh854]

Well, all the best chefs are MEN

[@alexandercuevas6783]

@@benapeh854 Aunt Jemima?

[@ichitoburrito1359]

@@alexandercuevas6783 Now you're not just sexist, you're racist (according to liberals). Congratulations. Welcome to the club. LOL

[@ichitoburrito1359]

@@alexandercuevas6783 God forbid you use Aunt Jemima pancake mix and Mrs. Butterworth's syrup together. One's a black 'low income looking' woman, and the other is obviously a rich white southern lady.......so racist.

[@ichitoburrito1359]

@@alexandercuevas6783 Also, for future reference, Uncle Ben never wants his rice defiled by being on the same table as Quaker Oats. Just offering my tips so we can all avoid unintentional racism.

[@dat2ra]

The other day a young woman was just a step ahead of me when we arrived at the door of the post office. She pushed through, allowing the door to swing back on me, never looking back. I caught it, and entered. As we were leaving, it turned out I was a few steps ahead of her. I opened the door and stepped back to let her go through. She stopped and glared at me, then went on her way without even a nod. Now THAT'S an "independent woman"!

[@traxathon4464]

remember that scene in avatar when iroh poured toph a cup of tea, and toph got offended that he didn't let her pour it herself, and he went on about how he didn't pour it because he thought she needed it but because he wanted to and there was nothing wrong with accepting help from others who are trying to be nice. yeah, i have a feeling the people writing these articles never watched that show

[@gigabrad4248]

Johnathon Fake Name DAMN. I forgot about that. Best show ever. Fax

[@beholdthesupergirl]

Yes I LOVED that scene! "Having tea with a fascinating stranger is one of life's true delights." :D ...Iroh did "gentleman" right.

[@ltmuffler3482]

Iroh is a breed of character that won't be written into any narrative anytime soon, unfortunately. Gentlemanly behavior is deprecated because concepts like honor and gallantry are literally impossible for alt-left feminists in America and large parts of Europe (and their male supporters) to understand.

[@BruceWayne-us3kw]

@Lt Muffler Don't worry, it's okay to call them what they are; Social Justice Warriors. I'm liberal but I don't like associating myself with them because they want things to offensive even when there is nothing offensive about it. Some would probably get offended if they saw a wall painted blue because blue is associated with boys and red/pink is associated with girls.

[@semiautothanoscar9612]

I thing Toph does not trust iroh i think.

[@archysamson1429]

These insignificant modern day examples of sexism sure sound like "BS" to me

[@isuckatgames9814]

I see what you did there fam .

[@josephcolon7031]

Oh look, a female who actually had a father around... This ladies and gentlemen is what you call a " real woman " we need to preserve her genes..

[@RedRoseSeptember22]

Yep, if I have any daughters I will raise them to be respecful and appreciative of BOTH sexes. One is not better than the other. So sick of this attitude the femnazi femtards have poisoned a lot of people with. I'm a real woman who loves and respects men, and am happily married to one, he's the hardest working man I know and has the kindest, sweetest heart ever. ♥♥♥♥♥

[@MrGelmo1889]

I’d be happy to make many many babies with this women

[@dakota9821]

@Fucking grass You would be surprised how many there are if you don't live in a right leaning state.

[@matthewdaphnegospelacousti9308]

In a classical music KZbin video I read the comment in the comment section of a pregnant woman who said she was playing the music to her unborn baby in her womb. I knew about the harmful effects of wireless microwave radiation that comes out of wireless devices especially in relation to exposing children and so I politely greeted her, warned her about the potential harmful effects in relation to things like cancer and gave the documentary Resonance Beings of Frequency to watch and guided her to researchers such as Devra David and Martin Blanc. She then gave a like to my comment I suppose to acknowledge that she read what I wrote and then another woman very soon entered the conversation box and told me to leave her alone because it's her body and her baby. I was so angry and pointed out to her that she was treating me like a criminal for wanting to defend an unborn child against harmful technology by warning the child's mother against it and she said, "It doesn't matter! Leave her alone!" If I was a woman, I would never have been morally condemned for wanting to protect babies!

[@electroskates2434]

Omg

[@mistervermin2022]

I held a door open for a woman on my way to work the other week..... My Human Rights trial comes up next month.....

[@brantnuttall]

lol. GUILTY!

[@kaitlinbeecham6227]

You have violated a woman's right to be free of male control...

[@Jamac007]

yup, you f#%ked up....you were better off slamming the door in her face knocking her out cold getting assault charges. Now your actions put you on death row...say hi to Freddie Mercury for us!

[@kzizzles8329]

What, is this serious? I can't tell anymore and thats the sad thing!

[@kaitlinbeecham6227]

@@kzizzles8329 It is serious - a man holding a door of a woman is male subjugation of a woman or rape.

[@stevec6875]

Whilst leaving a department store, as I opened the heavy outer doors, I noticed a woman walking behind be, loaded with shopping bags..... Naturally I waited for her, holding the door open for her...... WHAT A MASSIVE MISTAKE!...... I was met by "If I wanted YOU to open the door for ME, I'd have asked.......". Soooo....... I just let the door go and it crashed into her, scattering her shopping on the floor.... I'd have helped her pick it up, but hey, once bitten and all that..... Unfortunately now I will just not help...... which is sad, but it's where we are. My partner loves how I respectfully help whenever I can and shock horror ,she also helps me...... it's called Mutual Respect....... It's nothing to do with the person being a Woman.......... it's to do with common courtesy to ALL....... I'd even open a door for an animal.... We live in freaky, sick and twisted times, for sure....

[@electroskates2434]

LMAO, What did she do after that?

[@stevec6875]

@@electroskates2434 Just looked at me for help, as I turned and walked away....... I call it Karma....

[@electroskates2434]

@@stevec6875 LMAO Yes! Well done!

[@Lynn.-_-.]

I would just say thanks. I don't see why holding a door open is a problem for some people. Weird

[@ALJ9000]

@@stevec6875 I would have said some cheesy one-liner before I turned around

[@presidentgateway]

My wife is always asking me to get things down from the top shelf. Now I wonder what that really means in the dark recesses of our relationship. Should I ask a feminist to 'splain it to me?

[@One_of_Many750]

rick Fischer Could She Not Grab A Step Stool?

[@One_of_Many750]

Tetrimas Especially In The Modern Era.

[@StrongOaker]

I did an experiment in 2007. I opened the door for 50 women, 50 men and 50 couples WOMEN: 38 women said nothing, 9 thanked me, 2 gave dirty looks and 1 touched my arm with a smile as she passed. MEN: 21 nodded like men do to each other, 13 men thanked me, 11 said nothing, 4 gave odd looks, 1 struck up a conversation with me. Male/Female COUPLES: 23 couples the man thanked me, 20 couples the woman thanked me, 6 said nothing and 1 couple both the man and woman thanked me.

[@alix6xgorg839]

These numbers mean something, if we subtract it and devide it we will get the last day of humanity.

[@imstarbuck1465]

So I assume I'm not the only one that noticed the acronym of "benevolent sexism"?!

[@phorewhoresman1897]

It is total BS.

[@MartinFlicks]

Reminds me of when they say “toxic masculinity” lol people with higher education love verbal gymnastics.

[@brantnuttall]

You're not. I think that was really clever of the original poster. This is total BS!

[@greatleader4841]

Why are you mansplaining to me about acronym's? you think im too dumb to realize that BS means benevolent sexism?

[@trevorflanagan4873]

Only feminists would create an acronym without looking at it another way

[@-.-4595]

I hold the door open if your close enough. no matter who. I've done this since 10yrs it's just how I was raised.

[@karenray7925]

Hey I like having doors opened for me , men have done that since I was young I enjoyed that myself . Women , it's alright to be dependent sometimes to know how to survive in case of losing husband or health issues,but there's nothing wrong in being and acting ,talking like a female. Manners has no age or gender limit. Respect the differences, enjoy the good things in life.

[@kentucky1519]

Same except I started a bit younger

[@dennymambo]

Same here. Some women really seem to struggle with this. I'm guessing because they were raised in pure selfishness, therefore they can't help thinking a person doing a nice thing for them had an agenda or ulterior motive. No lady, the guy behind you is 6'6 and has no neck, he looks like he could rip the fucking door off it's hinges. I'll hold it open for him too. I'm not trying to get into his pants, or yours either. Believe it or not.

[@wonder777warrior6]

Exactly. Ive only ever had like 3 college girls not say a word.

[@SB-wj8oj]

Here's a concept: Don't shame men for being men

[@constantinesoldatos]

How dare you speak such nonsense???? I helped my ex change her car tire once. Now I'm a sexist pig and I deserve to be shot.

[@johalun]

How about don’t shame men for being helpful humans?

[@bdale5231]

Don't shame.. insult.. categorise, or be rude to/about anyone, unless they show themselves to be a 'bad' person

[@JustAutistic]

Cilantro I can’t tell if that’s a joke or not. If not, he did use the plural word of man. Idk, I’m not able to pay attention that well, so correct me if you must.

[@michaelt.5672]

But how would feminism have a villain to demonise then?

[@Cliffster420]

I was taught good manners by a good mother and father. I hold open the door for everyone, male or female. I'm not thinking about gender, I'm just thinking about helping a fellow human being.