Talking with Yvonne from OfflineTV | Dr. K Interviews

[@HealthyGamerGG]

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[@KnghtRemains]

Maybe work into the explanations that it is normal to be unable to explain certain feelings, because there is a biological gap between sections of the brain. Emotion and logic/language are different portions of the brain. "unlike the neocortex, the limbic system has no capacity for language. This is where 'gut feelings' come from."

[@yuunmorino5718]

“You know what I am in League? A minion.” Everyone felt that.

[@lamediamond4172]

so veigar with no mana

[@dogelord398]

Lame Diamond 😔

[@siegpasta]

@@lamediamond4172 OOOF XD

[@oliver1784]

@@lamediamond4172 late game veigar with no mana still twoshots turrets

[@xelloskaczor5051]

Crybabies comparing themselves to minions while me, an intellectual, is a honey fruit

[@rexonios2224]

On Scarra’s stream today he said this morning after everything became public, Dr. K talked with Lily and helped her out. Massive respect man.

[@lachlanjones903]

and he rejected payment according to lily, by far my favourite person in the world

[@Sternenpups]

His statement about reckful was heartbreaking, Dr. K is a good one!

[@philbertzhai1684]

free of charge too

[@quyle3832]

One moment for the respect to Dr.K He is such a good therapist, he nailed every questions he asked, he the reason that give Yvonne the power to take the first step to let the truth come out...Respect from your fellow psychology practitioner

[@TheThomas3110]

53:50 she had already talked to her friends about it so they had probably already kicked FED out and were planning on putting out the truth. Not to minimize DR.k but i doubt he had much of an influence on that. These online sessions aren't too productive IMO because there are many things people would only talk about in private.

[@quyle3832]

@@TheThomas3110 You must understand disclosing privately with A friend (in recent event it turn out to be Toast who is the only one who know and confront Fed) is massively different from open to public...in the session with Dr.K you can still see the tendency of minimize her own emotion to protect Fed (I would say from my professional view that this was unconscious) until Dr.K hit her with the real question for her to understand the thoughts patents and how destructive it is. This give her a push to come out with the public This is what I admire from this session, a therapist is always try to "named things" as Dr.K said, he give Yvonne the way to figure out how she really feel and put a name on it.

[@flayzer1910]

Dr. K is good maybe amazing but his way of approaching things like emotion and “natural-ness” could be a thing to be better worked on

[@mixren2837]

He should have fed on, of course after a private session

[@quyle3832]

@@flayzer1910 The fact is staying "natural-ness" is very necessary for a good psychiatrist. you are a professional whose job is helping the patient figure out how they feel. It is not his job to pile in with her initial feeling, it will be an obstacle in the path to break open her real emotion. That's a friend job. You can see he was very friendly at the start, because the tactic always is gaining the patient trust to open them up. But it was easy for him since I doubt anyone agree to come on his stream who don't want to open up, the tendency is already exist

[@throwaway63021]

Oh my God. Remember when lily would joke about barging into Yvonne's room all the time until Yvonne started locking her door!!! She didn't lock her door because of lily it was because of Fed

[@2tjae481]

YOOOOO DAMN BRUH, THIS IS SO FAX

[@manmademachine3330]

Wooooooow

[@feverdream6826]

I've just realized this and it's blowing my mind :(

[@ajet7661]

Oh. My. God.

[@jaex7955]

Ohh damn :(

[@MrEsuoh]

I felt really bad first speculating fed when this came out, and now the truth is here. I wish everyone the best at OTV man. Especially the victims

[@eiendeeai]

I don't follow OTV, just Dr. K. What is the truth?

[@moistbread1177]

@@eiendeeai Fed Is the one that sexually harassed Lily and Yvonne

[@n-wordpolice4707]

@@moistbread1177 what did he do to yvonne tho? what kind of sexually assault? like touching?

[@eliseo4176]

Kevin Mendez what what ?!?!

[@n-wordpolice4707]

@@eliseo4176go to offline tv twitter

[@kirbyraichu6847]

1:04:24 "do you guys live together?" man i just froze here knowing it was fed

[@largeDUMBASS]

bruh moment

[@Traegor]

It's painful now i know what i know

[@strepie93]

I mean she couldn't really say yes otherwise everyone would know it was one of the OTV guys, most probably Fed because of the drunk story. She was still thinking so much about not naming him.

[@LinkLoverRinku]

Yea he shouldn't have asked that

[@aidenfields4846]

🥺

[@TheExcelllence]

1:22:40 "There's Yvonne, support player, protecting, taking it for the team, and boy did you take it this time." Wow that moment cut deep, for him to recall from the beginning with the Support/ADC LoL reference was good. You were very brave for doing this Yvonne, hopefully this will aid in your healing process with everything you're going through.

[@milkmanleeroy]

K: "Why do you feel responsible for protecting the ones that you love?" Y - After a few seconds of silence. Y - "Because I want to" I didn't know who she was until today, but that alone earned my respect. Moreso after she gathered her full courage and made her statement against the person who wronged her. She's amazing. Absolutely selfless. She earns my respect. I really hope she heals and loves herself at the end of all of this.

[@shaldem1976]

Check out offlinetv to get a better picture Also her twitter where she explained everything

[@Huntracony]

As an outside observer, she seems to be doing well now. In case you didn't know, she and a bunch of other girls spoke out against the guy a few days after this interview and he's out of their lives now, the internet assholes have moved on, and she seems happy.

[@aeronaerux]

1:37:10 timestamp

[@xEminX]

I heard the longest 18 second pause there

[@williamloo7505]

Yvonne's truth is out. She just posted it on her twitter. It's worse than we imagined. I must say, i thought it was impossible but my respect for Yvonne must have doubled and tripled after reading it. Once again, she carried and took one for the team. Please be respectful after reading it and don't go witch hunting. It's not what she wants.

[@twat3323]

bro its so unbelievable that fed would do such thing to them and using alcohol as an excuse...i hope he learns from this

[@ryumisty]

@@twat3323 tru. i mean, yeah we know that he's single and lonely but we did not think that he was capable of doing something like that. It was very unbelievable but its true and we have to accept it. Sigh.

[@maynrai7762]

The fact that it has happened more than once says a lot about his intentions. If he had recognized what he was doing was wrong the first time then he would have learned from that and try to avoid repeating his mistakes. However, he didn't.

[@JRonimo11]

It hurt more rewatching this now that the truth is out. Dr.K knew something was up during the stream and was asking all the right questions during the interview with Yvonne. Thank you Dr.K and thank you Yvonne!

[@Mactav3]

@@twat3323 Single, lonely, socially awkward and insecure guy with drinking problem that runs in his family (his father). All the pieces are there.

[@nikospyridis9579]

The comments on the video with Pokimane seem to be true. We are, slowly but surely, getting the whole Offline TV house in this show. In my opinion, an episode with Scarra or Toast would be great. Edit: I'm not sure when the whole stuff with Fed happened, but I learnt about it 4 days after posting the comment. Funnily enough, this actually amplifies the odds that this does in fact happen. The story with Fed is a really good example of how people that got sexually assaulted, even in a small close group, do not talk about it, for the reasons they mentioned ( mostly not wanting to ruin relationships ) as well as feeling embarassed and/or you thinking it's your fault.

[@Daedalus33]

Bro i’d watch those live if they ever happen

[@bioluminenssi]

Toast said he'd never do it, because he couldn't be truthful in it.

[@cidermouse]

Michael is next lol, early July

[@Proger-sj8cj]

CiderMouse *Dr K is gonna cry cause of Michaels tasers lol*

[@estebanalzate7609]

Id actually love to see one with fed, he seems to like me the most relatable of otv. Edit: Oh no

[@juniorthelivinglegend7904]

1:04:26 This was a major detail. I understand she lied so the community would not throw a tantrum and start spreading rumors. This was really tough for her to talk about. Dr. K's reaction of how he comes into the house was spot on

[@seisoch6969]

well, he is streaming and making videos to actually understand more about this new streaming-gaming community. The community and being a "stream celebrity" is old, but now is so normal and common to stream that he actually catched on instantly what was going on and that she is from a "streamer's house" (instead of living with her family or alone or whatever) and is a pretty untouched territory for mental health. He overall reacted and guided her pretty well, he sure has experience

[@taylor477]

Poki subs at 1:25:50, right after such a heavy moment, and the next day she talks to the house and everything goes down. Really feels like this session played a crucial role in helping these girls.

[@lightsoutisay]

Lesson to all of y'all: when someone freezes up when being sexually assaulted... the mind/body goes into survival mode. Yvonne (and Lily) knew it wasn't right, but because of the SEVERE consequences compiled with their genuine compassionate personalities... it was easier to just bottle it up and avoid him in the end... I'm so glad they had the courage to speak out.

[@zofaygo1400]

I'm truly disgusted at how fed has the audacity to sexually harass the group of people HE LIVES WITH EVERYDAY.

[@oasisvirk]

Zenahhh wait what????

[@hallucy2215]

@@zofaygo1400 i mean its bound to happen this is why u girls stay away from guys, male and female cant be just friends loo

[@zofaygo1400]

fhgjklmn yes they cano

[@hallucy2215]

@@zofaygo1400 lolno

[@elenorvass3789]

Even in the intro by 1:30 he's already done his jedi mind trick, and got her to help him to help her. Unbelievable tekkers.

[@zazauwowo9533]

That's a pog in the Chat

[@seignee]

wdym jedi mind trick??

[@yaboyradish3072]

TEKKKERS!!!!

[@homelessengineer5498]

He shared an insecurity of his, she responded by telling him he didn't need to worry about it, and then he UNO reversed that response back on her own insecurities. My man's playing interdimensional chess.

[@valakemedia]

cant believe he pulled the bait tech so early in the speedrun truly frame perfect

[@TicoKamisaki]

It hasnt even been three days after this video has been released and Dr. K already managed to make the world a better place for women, firstly by encouraging Yvonne to speak up

[@elainapatchi4993]

I wasn't really sure which moments to highlight at times but I hope this is helpful! So proud of Yvonne for doing this

[@edmund8954]

Because that's what heroes do

[@ClearlyMAD]

Respect

[@TheAleBecker]

Timestamp Andys are the backbone of every KZbin channel lol

[@dannyboy14370]

Timestamps are in the description

[@mundanebees3260]

Nobody Bolanos they weren’t there.

[@Golgiaparatus2]

Holy shit. This may have been a part of what helped Yvonne in coming out against Fed just now. Stay strong, Yvonne and Lily. And thank you to Dr. K for potentially helping in this

[@eduardos4574]

Golgiapparatus2 I thought about this too, I think he made her realize that she shouldn’t have minimized it

[@THINKTVTIME]

in the end he kissed a hand. and now he lost his job. and all his friends. has a million people hating on him for his actions. in a sense you think that person might need the support too.

[@needa6975]

@@THINKTVTIME I hope since six days passed, you read up and listened to Moe, Scarra etc on this issue and changed your opinion.

[@OmniValor]

Potentially? lol

[@stevent9484]

@@OmniValor well afterall they made it public because Fed ran out of the house and spread rumours. Kind of stuff someone do with traumatized childhood.

[@blubrin4373]

I think as a psychiatrist, dr.k knew very well yvonne was lying when he asked does the guy live in the house

[@ejej_shej7958]

Same

[@batcat3660]

Yeah... and it makes me respect Dr. K even more. He respected the fact that she chose to hide that. He didn't even mention it again, he let her trust him so that he could help her.

[@treasuremage7546]

I think we all did, honestly.It wasn't a competent lie in the slightest. But then even if he expected the answer to be no he still shouldn't have asked in the first place.

[@pinguin9305]

I'm so fucking disappointed. What the fuck. I started following OTV last August, and Fed really grew on me the most. It's so unreal to me that he would do this. He seemed like he was the "chill" guy, just being friends with everyone. I guess what I can take away from this is that I should never assume anything about people based on their online persona. Fuck, this is so disappointing... I wish Yvonne and Lily the best.

[@Traegor]

Same same

[@twitchclips9593]

dude same

[@jessyt6282]

I wish I could say the same, but tbh, the vibes I got from the few videos I watched with him in sort of just rubbed me the wrong way, if you know what I mean. Not to the extent of this, which makes me feel so sad, but the vibes were there for me. I suppose I hadn't watched enough videos to really grow a full view, but I felt like someting was off from the start. I don't know why

[@TaiyoIsSleeping]

I'm sorry for you. I didn't really see him as a chill guy like you said. Cause the first few clips I saw of him was bad. The way he forced lily to confess to the group about her relationship and looking at her diary when she kept saying no. It was really bad from the get go

[@kylespevak6781]

I try and explain this to anyone who thinks they know a celeb. Everything you see is rehearsed, of course you don't know them

[@morningcoffeecat2271]

Slowly going through all of OfflineTV

[@barildan]

Toast would be insteresting to see

[@Nestoras_Zogopoulos]

@@barildan yeah reeves too

[@ampersand64]

@@Nestoras_Zogopoulos I think he's doing it soon

[@anthonyperry8018]

Yeah Micheal confirmed

[@c0nsonant169]

@@barildan There was podcast where Poki suggested Toast to talk with Dr. K, and Toast said he ain't that "interested", I forgot what he said, but he did explained it well why he doesn't want to. i cant find the vid/clip or forgot what vid was.

[@darlantro]

This is a REMARKABLE document. A wonderful example of how therapy should look, how a trustworthy therapist should act, and how talk therapy can help people. A trustworthy, open, and intentional therapist helping an introspective, courageous, and similarly open subject to understand where emotions are coming from and how to process them to more clearly understand the paths forward. This is a 'stars alligned' moment where an experienced therapist pioneering streaming therapy to educate an audience met an experienced streamer comfortable with that audience while also open to sharing deeply personal and scary life experiences. This document can help so many people in similar situations both think and processes their experiences on their own, or feel more comfortable seeking out a therapist. This document can also help therapists think about how an aversion to sharing info about a trauma can be driven by misguided compassion, and a desire to protect all those involved, more than a fear of reprisal or a fear of losing something. Absolutely incredible job by both of you. This should be in digital textbooks in the future.

[@connorwood108]

Yvonne and Dr. K showed us the actual mental frontlines of sexual assault victims, we are staring at the problem in the eyes. people need to change, this can't keep happening. Thank you Yvonne for showing us a snippet of your mind.

[@MadCat_G]

After reading Yvonne's tweet and watching her here trying to still not say everything and just cry I... Just cried... Massive respect for Yvonne. She had the balls to do it publicly here. I hope this encourages more people to speak up

[@RaoBrandon]

Well I guess we found out who it was she was trying to protect... Man no wonder she felt like the world was going to fall apart

[@shawnfraley4838]

Fed was one of my favorites to and now im sitting here just confused. He seemed genuine but alcohol brings out the truth

[@shanedsouza189]

@@shawnfraley4838 he was genuine. We just had no idea.

[@justjuniorjaw]

@@shawnfraley4838 Based on Scarra, it wasn't the alcohol. He was already that way. Alcohol only enabled him to do the things he do and have a way out. An excuse. A reason. An escape.

[@ilia2603]

Junior Jaw you know what they say about drunk words being sober thoughts

[@Datboynutty_nutelli2go]

@@shawnfraley4838 not only alcohol as scarra said he was manipulative and fake

[@joebob6387]

"Why do you feel responsible for the ones you love?" "Because I want to" wow

[@ifightbears7609]

He had trouble responding to that one.

[@twilit]

the people that you want to protect what do you think they would say about you speaking? i think they would support me 100% but you’re not doing it for yourself you’re doing it for them. yeah do you think they would want you to be silent? it’s part of what i want to do. out of love or other stuff going on there? no i think it’s still that then if you want to stay silent i think we’ve done enough today you don’t have to help out everyone you just do what you can do. you don’t need to lift for all of us. you don’t need to carry for other people.

[@AlikoNoir]

the question of "does this person live in your house?" I could feel yvonne's heart sink and panic for a second. i hope she's doing okay now that everything is out in the open

[@Chachixo]

I watched this whole thing live. I love Yvonne! I hope she realizes that she has popularity based on her own merit. sure lots of people get introduced to her because of her friends but I genuinely enjoy her content. She seems like such a kind and strong person and I really hope she sees herself for who she really is one day soon. I also hope she finds healing. It was interesting to see Dr. K be a little more vulnerable and that little nugget wisdom from Mrs. K was priceless. Thanks for doing this.

[@user-um3yz9sq2p]

dr. k really helped yvonne take that first step with this stream.. glad to have a professional like him to actually help streamers going through these problems Clap Clap edit: 1:22:45 this part hits even harder now

[@deef6242]

I feel so bad for her. I haven't watched enough OTV clips to see her cry, and she just wanted to protect fed... But she did what was the right thing, and I respect Yvonne for that.

[@dostoveskiee]

@@deef6242 Fed? I got the feeling she wanted to protect the people in OTV financially. She didn't want to implicate OTV/Scarra and potentially bring the organization down by shedding a bad light on the organization. "I was abused at the OTV streaming house and my abuser lived in the same house for years" is a bad look; and if it was handled any other way that would have been the narrative. The sponsorships, her friends under the OTV, all could have been financially ruined if the story was spun against them. That was her worry, those were the people she wanted to protect.. not Fed. Fk that guy.

[@jareddavulture58]

sad to see the comments on her tweet saying how it wasnt that bad, and how she ruined feds career. You can see the pain, and the way she just shuts down here when talking about the situation. Anyone thinking that she did what she did to hurt Fed is delusional. She obv cares for him as a person even after he took advantage of her and her body for his own pleasure. Fed was the one that was carrying OTV also, as Scarra stated in his response. So even more pressure on her, she prob felt like whats going to happen to the OTV team and its content. Almost like the boss sexually harrassing a worker, its not easy to go against someone with that power.

[@adrianne5757]

I’m literally like trying to keep myself from crying seeing all these people sticking up for Fed and blaming the girls... it’s so messed up

[@yaboi-km2qn]

he ruined his own career. you can't keep someone with this behaviour.

[@tipips]

i agree and we need to remember that she nearly lost her job due to not saying anything and she would have taken that.

[@doodoodoodle]

I almost agree except Scarra said even though fed has brought in a lot of traffic to otv, that each member is valuable to how they got to where they are today. But having friendships mixed with work relations does make it hard, you don't wanna break the balance

[@Armendosmaciato]

I saw the pain in leonardo decaprio too

[@stevenmcqueen7433]

"I feel like I don't believe anything people say" damn this hurt me and I'm not even 10min into the video

[@RalphelValentine]

True I understand how she feels that her increase in popularity wasn't earned by her, but through offline TV. In which its kind of true that offline TV helped but its due to her that those followers and sub stayed. If she wasn't entertaining, those who came from offline tv would never had kept watching her streams and KZbin vids. Same for the rest of offline TV and friends. If we didn't happen to watch one of their content, we wouldn't have known about the other entertaining streamers their friends with.

[@soynadie]

Hell!! that was deeper than we thought

[@stevenmcqueen7433]

@@soynadie a lot deeper! There were a couple more moments later on that I really felt as well but this first one really stuck with me. I definitely have a high evasion rate as he put it myself when it comes to compliments it just never feels like anything I accomplish more like was gifted.

[@easyluckable]

Yvonne is truly a brave girl. This interview just brought me a completely new perspective on sexual harassment. Massive respect to Yvonne to decide to talk about this topic and share as much she can.

[@AlexCataT]

Simp

[@jackyplaysminecraft]

@@AlexCataT How is he a simp?

[@Dexrazor]

jackypacky Kid doesn't know how to use the word, just ignore him

[@thatguywhocorrectsyourgram2454]

@@AlexCataT Wow that's not how you use that word at all

[@MediaEgg]

It's great that she's so open and honest about her issues -- must have been really hard.

[@feefee6889]

How is having a counseling meeting in-front of thousands of people not a brave thing. It’s scary sharing your own internal thoughts with one person let alone a crowd

[@bloodwolf2609]

Fed would be interesting...

[@feefee6889]

Blood Wolf2609 true

[@VICESbeats]

An interview with Michael Reeves would be great, I think he got alot in his mind

[@abirelmoussaoui2971]

he said he is doing one in early july!

[@GLUFSAREN]

That would need more than one video haha

[@GrilledCheeseObamaSandwichMMMM]

Is it the robot ideas he hates so much??? Or turtles???

[@brandonjeffery8023]

I think he is pretty sound mentally, I could be wrong though, I just get this feeling when I watch him that he will be alright. I hope I am right.

[@cjgomes03]

Brandon Jeffery I think he’s said before that he has really bad anxiety, I think on his most recent stream but I don’t remember. This may be controversial but I don’t believe anyone is mentally sound everyone has struggles.

[@azolaun]

God this is even more heart wrenching knowing the context after this and how Yvonne came out. I'm so glad she got the courage to speak out and seeked help. Thanks Dr. k

[@MCactus]

yeah

[@lostlameloop9923]

Im proud of her for talking up, because I feel many girls that can relate to Yvonne are pretty likely to get sexually harrased in such a way and don't ever feel like talking up for it, because it wasn't that bad or something like that. It makes me kinda sad to see that she feels such a pressure to not call out the person probably because she doesn't want her interaction with that person influence the view of her friends to that person, which is horrible because I think no one wants to be a friend with someone that sexually harasses anyone and I feel like especially with people like Lily in her house they would completly want to shut that person off so Yvonne feels safe. I feel like Lily would be actually her go to, to talk about that because she is very mindful and supportive, so she wouldn't just call that person out, but would rather help Yvonne to go the way she wants to go, for distancing herself from that person.

[@jimmartin6803]

Is it considered sexual harassment if the other person doesn't touch any private parts like boobs face bikini region, waist etc. or is it still considered like sexual harassment if you don't want to be touched at all by the other individual? Do you know?

[@jimmartin6803]

Please inform me because i have no idea Also I think it could be like Fed or Scarra the second guy but let me be clear that this is just a hinch and I do not claim that it is an actual fact

[@lostlameloop9923]

@@jimmartin6803 Maybe thats not sexual harassment, but I think going under clothing is. I also don't know the exact meaning of it or the exact lines, but I feel like if you make a person uncomfortable by touching it should be taken as sexual harassment and it should be taken seriously, regardless of how innocent the spot might be.

[@rubyjackson6861]

I believe that regardless of the bounds of sexual harassment, it’s good to have some consent before touching someone. There are people that simply don’t want to be touched at all, and doing so without permission isn’t polite.

[@ScuffedEngineer]

@@jimmartin6803 She stated that both guys don't live with her which rules out both Fed and Scarra, it's just someone that's close to OfflineTV.

[@rcjm21]

Yvonnie is just to good for this world...she protected FEDS identity 1:04:34...It must be really heartbreaking accepting that a friend is a Creep

[@Lyrog]

I'm almost certain Dr. K would make MUCH more progress with her if there was nobody else watching. Normally I'm very impressed how he makes people open up in front of such a large audience, but here's the inevitable brick wall. And I completely understand her because I have thought experiments in my mind sometimes, and I think "oh boy, I can't even tell my closest friends about this because it would really fuck shit up".

[@nekomancer8471]

Yah maybe he should have 1online session and one offline

[@eatburbger]

sucks that it was fed in story 2

[@Silent.Program]

The attempts to avoid the problem in round 2 at 1:34:42 are amazing. And I learned a LOT from that. Several people opened up to me about their assault or even rape stories before, but I could never really understand them. After watching this I feel I have a better grasp of what might be going on the person's mind while it is happening to them. I am really grateful to Yvonne about opening up to so many people and hope there are no negative repercussions for her.

[@MaxCE]

he does. scarra said he gave lily a session for free. so he does give offline sessions but on occasion if the other party agrees he will stream the session so that the viewers start understanding mental health better. or so i think

[@seven9833]

For the people who are asking why Yvonne did not immediately stop fed (even though its in the video already): We really cannot predict how we will react if the same thing happens to us. Sure, we all think we can fight back cause they're doing something wrong. But that's just not the case when something really happens. It's not just women that freeze during the situation, everyone's different. The neurological response is different for everyone and you cannot blame the victims for freezing up. So, instead of putting blame on educating women better like some said, the real problem is how some people don't respect others' boundaries or don't know social cues. How about educating people about that. Better be safe than sorry, if one doesn't know what the boundaries are, ASK. Verbal consent is key. I'm sure Fed is not a bad person, if he had asked the girls before initiating something that made them feel uncomfortable, they would be able to tell him that will/will not be ok. Nothing like this now would've happened. Most importantly, he was not truly apologetic and cared more about how his career would've been impacted if people know. That's equally problematic. For people saying that they should've dealt with this in private, they did, and it did NOT work. For people saying they shouldn't have sabotaged his career, lets me tell you: He was the one that made those mistakes. And when it surfaces, its his karma, not anybody else's. Also, their intention for making this incident public is not to punish him but to prevent future incidents like this to occur and to educate the public. The one who does the punishing- "cancelling"- is the public. I have watched fed's stream for a long time, especially during the quarantine. He had helped me through this depressing time and it's really heartbreaking to know something like this happened. Hope everyone in offlinetv is doing better. And props to Yvonne and all the girls for staying strong.

[@GENOSANDIEGO]

I agree with you. If a total stranger did that, you'd immediately stop that person, sure. But if it's someone like Fed, who's her very first friend in the house, someone she trusted and someone she had a lot of fun with, suddenly tried doing that, then I don't think everyone will react the same way as you do to a total stranger.

[@theglobalwarming6081]

Well said. I hope more people think like this.

[@bumblerbree]

(replying three years late but oh well) people forget that there are a lot of different outcomes to consider in these scenarios. even if the best option is to stop it as soon as possible, there are risks that come with even that option and there are outcomes you might be biased towards expecting. she trusted him, he was her friend, by all means it makes sense for her to expect him to stop because she wants to think well of him. stopping something before it can start keeps you safe, but stopping someone can be seen as a lack of trust or even offensive and that's also a scary situation in its own right. and saying something means admitting out loud that something is happening and even that can be very, very difficult when you could just be in denial. hope for the best. let them make the right decision themselves rather than deal with the situation where you don't know if they would have had you not intervened and they can keep pretending they would have. he knew it wasn't okay, he knew she was uncomfortable, he knew he should have stopped and didn't. 'freezing' is not consent. i think everyone over the age of ten knows that someone going still and quiet is a sign that something is wrong. and everyone who cares about consent knows to ask for reassurance if they think something is wrong with the other person or step back rather than take advantage of their fear response to continue pushing boundaries while they can still use the excuse of 'she didn't say no'. if you don't notice the other person freeze up in discomfort, you shouldn't be touching them in the first place since you're not paying attention to how they might feel about it. worse even than being a very common fear response, you could be triggering a trauma response and you should always stop and check in before continuing if someone is showing those signs even if it turns out to be nothing.

[@xjminahh]

Listening to a Dr. K stream is like listening to a choose ur own adventure book, but someone else is picking the paths and i wanna delve in another conversation because it seems so relatable to me, but this is Yvonne's sessions not mine, but it's still helpful!! Idk what im saying anymore. I really relate to Yvonne and how she feels about herself tho

[@christopherholfeld8137]

The first one with Ls was so mind opening for me. I’m much like ls so it applied to my own life too:

[@niklaskraus1030]

Maybe get Therapie for yourself so you can choose.

[@matasuki]

Im sorry to hear that but I support you and any woman who comes forward. Esp after watching this. I just think of what I would do after learning this happened to my sister.

[@xjminahh]

@@niklaskraus1030 too expensive 😢

[@randellchan15]

The moment when Yvonne denied where she was living with this guy who assaulted her. Bro that hits so fucking harddddd. LIKE BRO JUST IMAGINE HOW IMPORTANT THIS GUY WOULD BE TO THE POINT WHERE YVONNE CAN STILL COVER UP HIS IDENTITY?

[@iamduck4750]

1:22:39 there's yvonne support player protecting taking it for the team boy did you take it this time that hit like a truck from a frickin isekai anime

[@aaronshearl3940]

Bruh

[@aaronshearl3940]

I have small 🧠

[@aaronshearl3940]

Doo doo fart

[@hector8538]

You could tell that really got her.

[@mariemaruškaa]

this was so painful moment. like damn

[@owenbrown6714]

This stream really put things in perspective, like I’ve always seen people post their stories about sexual harassment, but seeing Yvonne explain like this and why she stays silent is depressing. And to find out it was fed is sad as well.

[@jimbobur]

Dude same. It really helped me to put myself in the shoes of being in that situation and understand how these things happen better.

[@justalula7151]

@yGLeviathan Dude other OTV members have said that the "Drinking Problem" was an excuse. Lily came forward saying he touched her and Poki talked about how he would isolate her from others especially those she's interested in. You also do notice he is VERY touchy with girls. He would use his "drinking problem" as an excuse to keep doing this shit cuz oh he FoRgOt.Toast even confronted him about this and he still didn't change. They haven't brought this up to the public because he was their friend . Can you really say that he's just a bad flirt ?

[@TheSolaceOfSilence]

@yGLeviathan yikes. You sound pretty misogynistic dude, not to mention sympathizing with sexual assault. Calling Yvonne a bitch, making Fed out to be the victim, and justifying his abuse by saying he's lonely. FYI, this exact comment is what feminists are talking about when they say men feel like they are entitled to women's bodies. You treat men like they have no agency over their bodies and have no control over their sexual impulses or something.

[@killlerkai18]

@yGLeviathan why are defending fed

[@meoiaw]

@yGLeviathan You're disgusting-- he sexually harassed her and tried to take advantage of LILY when she was at her most vulnerable moment and you're defending him? THe alcohol was an excuse, she didn't go public for ''attention'' clearly you're not following the story at all because Poki explained that they weren't going to go public about it until they realised Fed didn't really care about what he did and was only trying to save his own ass. Is being 'lonely' an excuse to barge into someone's room, make them uncomfortable and sexually harass them? No.

[@cChrodinCc]

@Dr. K You made me wanna see a therapist, I didn't really believe in it before and was very sceptical, but seeing how professional you are changed my mind! Thank you for that!

[@isaiah8770]

Im sure the final otv member to appear on Dr.K will be fed, the man who may have the most issues out of all of em Well, this aged just a little too well. Lets hope everyone finds the help they need.

[@JosoLifts]

tru facts. Fed is already open to Dr. K but he said he needs more time to process everything

[@inthepalemoonlight14]

I think he can go and talk about his Dad passing. Mizkif already did the ADHD talk.

[@Proger-sj8cj]

everynameistakenomg *That's gonna be the hardest part , I already see Fee crying* Shit hurts

[@qualityyoutube1593]

he's like mr.peanutbutter from bojack horseman

[@vapingfury4460]

@@qualityyoutube1593 nah he's like the youtuber Fedmyster

[@juampisito]

I think Yvonne is actually one of the most down to earth people in twich. She has been doing this for so many years, earns a lot of money and still seems someone who you could talk with like fellow humans.

[@hakangencer2409]

1:22:25 holy fuck he figured it out . man he really knows what he is doing. skirting around the subject while still asking the necessary things. Without hurting a person who is hurt a lot... Kudos to Dr K. I'm so sorry for Yvonnie and I am glad things have come out. We love you

[@onlinetoby_]

Fed has always seemed a little bit "emotionally abusive", making girls feel bad for making him sad and lonely. But that "was just fed"

[@beast_priest]

Poki just recently talked about this. Confirmed

[@hisamezero3388]

As a person who have had OCD, anxiety and depression for many years of my life and still have to some degree I feel happy that there are people like you who take their time to help people with mental health issues and also show how you do it. Very interesting to watch and you learn a lot! Keep up the amazing work!

[@acidpop97]

Absolutely heartbreaking to watch. Yvonne is so brave for doing this. She's a legend.

[@liychi]

What really resonates with me when they talked about the break up was when she Yvonne said that she wanted independence by being outside of a relationship. Finding out who you are when you're by yourself is really hard when you're so used to being with someone else, it's so hard that even after you're single and "gained your freedom", you still don't feel "free". You don't feel like yourself still and at the back of your mind you're still carrying that guilt of hurting someone you love.

[@InayatBlack]

Preach.

[@asurajeff6316]

Sean is actually geniunely such a nice guy, he deserve the best for him

[@MellowChaos]

When I was SAd at 15 by my first boyfriend who I "loved" and knew I wanted to wait... I never told anyone. Years later I wish I would have known how powerful my voice was. I'm so proud of Yvonne for speaking up. If she doesn't like "courageous" Then shes braver than me. I have so much respect for her. We're very alike.

[@Detz0325]

Dr. K gave her the courage to do the right thing and expose fed. He should blow up and become like huge on YT and twitch so he can do this FT. He really is the saviour of the mental health of gamers right now and that's really important. No one else was going to help gamers in this way besides Dr. K. Much respect to him

[@romanatkins7182]

I can't imagine that to be a good thing. People can lie don't forget that.

[@jinoh1995]

This guy is too smart to trick for real. He really pulled almost everything out, despite the situation looked really bad. He figured out that there was alot more than what Yvonne telled Dr. K. Like this guy is amazing to watch & I hope he can help more people with problems. We love you Dr. K !

[@khyati7733]

Ikr? He's amazing at his job

[@foshizzlegizingar]

i really loved fed and his daily marbles streams really helped with that quarantine depression you know but seeing how he made yvonnie feel in this video is just... heartbreaking. devastating.

[@cobi421]

same im sad. but i still love fed and yvonne..

[@Infinity-xk5hm]

@@cobi421 Fed?

[@ecco2ks]

co I used to watch Fed a lot but after what he did I can’t support him even if he makes changes later in life I don’t support his actions at all

[@Jaxter0987]

The worse is coming back to this video with full context on the situation she's talking about. All her responses make sense. And that just makes the whole situation even worse. That it hurt her so badly but she suppressed it for so long to protect the people that she loves.

[@notincognito4660]

Lol, "that she loves". Bruh, she nuked his twitch career and future prospects because he made moves on her.

[@josuegomez-velazquez2527]

Aditya Shrestha making moves on someone with a boyfriend... yeah ok

[@iwillcry]

Aditya Shrestha yea touching up someone who seems to be sleeping and isnt responding to your creepy moves...real classic

[@kevinbanh5421]

@@notincognito4660 He's done this for years to all the OTV girls while they gave him multiple chances and upfront conversations about it to reform. He didn't learn.

[@kritivathinthaly5468]

Hey Yvonne. Thanks for talking about your relationship and the struggles you are having with your break up. I too recently broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was a five year relationships and it's been a struggle. Day in and day out, every little thing in my life is a constant reminder of her and it feels like I've lost half of me. It's hard to do anything but distract my mind with video games. You and I have different situations but you sharing your story, helped me. So thanks. I feel better for some reason and Dr. K, thanks for bringing her on. You too have been helping me with my struggles. So thanks to you too.

[@magda2153]

I'm so proud she actually found courage to speak up about this issue

[@uniworkhorse]

Holy shit I have so much respect for Yvonne now. She always seemed super chill and yet she's been going through shit day to day just to keep others comfortable. You go Yvonne! We're cheering for you!

[@deef6242]

Dr. K, I must say I respect you as a person, and I'm a huge fan that you believe someone can change. I really hope that you'll be able to talk with Fed one day to talk things over.

[@ajwaddanwarr3409]

I am literally looking at this video with a whole new perspective considering what came out today. Hope your doing better Yvonne.

[@Golgiaparatus2]

1:22:21 - 1:22:32 Holy shit he hit today's situation right on the head

[@vgud]

Right on the fucking head. He's insanely good. Shit had me tear up after today's context

[@Golgiaparatus2]

@@vgud I can't believe he saw that even with Yvonne not revealing the details. Man is so fucking good at his job

[@holarene2683]

@@Golgiaparatus2 dr k is friking awesome

[@isaaclee5897]

Frikin bullseyed that

[@mariemaruškaa]

EXACTLY he´s so fucking good

[@spriddlez]

I have never heard on OfflineTV but so much good vibes and appreciation for Yvonne for sharing something so intimate and protecting those she loves. Mega props.

[@lukeemanuels1691]

I cant get out of my head how her dumbbells look like Patrick star.

[@russell4892]

crap, now i cant unsee that

[@hauterpop9619]

Holy shit it does

[@oliverkent3786]

Now I see it and I can't stop seeing it.

[@callgrl]

i hate you

[@lamediamond4172]

I cant see it can someone describe it please.

[@actuallykaiba]

Wow, she is so crazy brave, I can't even imagine what it was like being in her shoes for this stream. So much respect. Very inspiring.

[@AlexBeast25]

holy shit. Yvonne is talking about Fed. I'm so distressed and disappointed to here about this whole situation. I can't imagine how the house is feeling at this time. I also don't know where offlinetv will go form here :(

[@jpaspaspas]

wow just found out rn. smh

[@granthini2335]

I’m just really sad and disappointed

[@AlexBeast25]

osslie, im just gonna spread this word from the Fed Sub VC on Discord. Please no witch hunting. We don't need more negativity and toxicity in this community. All we can do from this position is provide a support system for offlinetv, primarily lily and yvonne, and also make sure fed is safe. LSF frogs are going to go off, thats inevitable. The best we can do right now is wait till everything calms down. Stay safe chat

[@granthini2335]

IQ_The_Prophet don’t say that :( offiline tv was so good and entertaining:(

[@bobbyl2528]

@@AlexBeast25 For too late for no negativity, no matter who wants what. Internet ain't exactly nice

[@gh0starcade934]

Loving the Offline Interviews, keep it up man!

[@thatguywhocorrectsyourgram2454]

Michael interview today

[@sleebea1567]

I absolutely love how he changes his language and examples for her to feel more comfortable and its so nice and makes everything so much more comforting;-;

[@JosoLifts]

yvonne is so so so strong for doing this. I wish her the best in life, I truly do

[@rhiannn3416]

I feel like anyone who has been assaulted before, no matter how "minor" knows exactly what Yvonne is talking about. When you freeze up and can't respond - that's really a thing. Your brain is trying to process what is happening still - trying to overcome the shock - but by the time you come to your senses, it is too late to do anything anymore. I had a situation many years back where I was lost on a school trip. I got lost with a couple of my classmates. One of the guys put his hand on my upper arm. I instantly felt uncomfortable - It's so hard to explain the feeling, but it feels like every muscle in that area is trying to jump away from that touch. Your own skin feels like it's trying to crawl away. t's a disgusting, eerie feeling I can't really describe. It's like you can feel the muscles, your skin, everything try to jerk away from that sensation of being touched. Your mind just goes blank. I didn't know what to do. Then I brushed it off, "he's just trying to lead the way" I thought, so I let him leave his hand there. I felt disgusted and repulsed the whole time. But I was telling myelf, "it's just my arm. He's trying to be nice. You're overreacting. You're oversensitive." Then he touched my butt - very briefly. Then I really didn't know what to do. Once I came to my senses I quickly walked away from him and went to "protect myself" by walking closer to my other classmates. I heard from my other female classmates that he had done similar things to them, so we reported it to the teachers, but he was only suspended for a few days. I've long since left that school. I have a couple other incidents, but I decided to talk about that one because no matter where you are touched, I think your body kind of instinctually knows when something is very wrong. He was just touching my arm, but instinctually my body kind of knew that this was "dangerous" and I stupidly chose to ignore that feeling. And yes, it does feel like a real physical reaction. The feeling of your skin kind of repulsing away. It really feels like that. If you've been through it, you'll know what I am talking about. Also, you can see he hit the nail on the head when he said, "taking it for the team. And boy did you take it this time." And she broke down in tears again.

[@Joel-eu8fh]

This really hits different now after Yvonne's "story"

[@awsomeoawsomeo2103]

Why the quotes? 🤨

[@drpibisback7680]

@@awsomeoawsomeo2103 I think it's to point out that it's not a story, it's a true account. Story is a word used to refer both to fiction and fact. Hence why a number of people labeled it as "Yvonne's Truth."

[@Joel-eu8fh]

@@drpibisback7680 couldn't have said it better

[@dgap0010]

yGLeviathan yGLeviathan i think he fucked his career by his own, with all the shit he did, it was just a matter of time until everything came out, remember not because a streamer is friendly on stream it means that they are like that off stream, don’t idolize people that you don’t even know.

[@ajajass8163]

@yGLeviathan please don't talk like you know shit.

[@ChrisGallus]

It hurts seeing Yvonne so broken and conflicted. I’m glad you got your story out and can start healing.

[@simone8172]

Holy shit. 60 seconds in and you've brilliantly defused so much of the stress and broken the ice. Damn you're clean Dr K! You've been really helpful to me even watching you, and clearly to countless others. Thank you so much for all your work and your brilliance!

[@ahrims7]

Crazy how he has helped facilitate some big changes in OfflineTV, positive ones at that

[@projecthaywyre9326]

Just got recommended this right after the tweets

[@thefmaster9833]

Same

[@brandongair6384]

Damn this video is even harder to watch now that we have context. Props to Yvonne for being so brave.

[@serene-illusion]

Never thought "that guy" was Fed. It's really hurts to think about

[@Zer0-0]

Do you know who's the guy in the car, or is that also Fed

[@jorunas4590]

@@Zer0-0 read her thing on twitter

[@unlegitcombos]

@@jorunas4590 on the twitlonger it doesn't talk about a guy in a car, so we don't know

[@norwegiannignog2470]

@@unlegitcombos could be, the first story was drunk, 2nd story she said "man its always when hes drunk" my question is, why tf didnt anyone ever beat his ass? Wouldve generated more hype for OTV and fed would learn his lesson right there instead of years of self reflection

[@treasuremage7546]

@@Zer0-0 The details don't match up with car guy. He's someone else for sure.

[@jirojairo90]

Imagine Dr. K playing Persona 4 Golden on livestream and explaining all the psychological shit going through the character's minds. It would be fucking great.

[@mrheartbane]

Yvonne is very wholesome. You go girl!

[@Climbzip]

Dang she's 30? she could easily pass as a college student

[@edmund8954]

@Jack wait a minute...

[@25thRev]

Asians girls look 15 then they jump to 60 no inbeteween

[@Proger-sj8cj]

*East Asian features got me tripping*

[@weirdviews6113]

Fr she look good for her age No simping

[@serinerte69]

i had classmates in college who were over 30, im just saying (in broken english) give the people over 30 more credit. c:

[@DennisvdHorde]

Yvonne is the bravest, most wonderful person and i have so much respect for her. She deserves the best of things and I'm sure she will.

[@xodupza007]

As soon as he said "Look within yourself"... her expression broke you can see how she got hit by reality and realized that she had too express how she felt

[@10yearslater_]

You're absolutely amazing Yvonne! I kind of understand now when Poki and Lily were talking about writing their memoirs in the future and having so much shit to talk about that they experienced

[@pongclone8786]

It's scary how much of what Yvonne says about herself i end up seeing in myself as well, her having the strength to publicly do this helps so many more than she thinks it does, thanks for doing this Dr. K and Yvonne.

[@kchiu9080]

Dr. K's questioning is insanely sharp. Yet, he naturally opens up and controls the conversation in a very smooth and clean way that makes Yvonne comfortable and aware of her freedom and having a control in the conversation.

[@tanzy1174]

Can I just say, in hindsight after finding out about the OTV situation, it's quite insane how accurate Dr. K has been at reading Yvonne and her situation. Like he really hit the right spots without even knowing the situation as a whole.

[@Ezekku]

Ooh I love Yvonne, time to listen :) Edit: now that I saw the full video, she's fenomenal, and this must've been really hard for her. And about the breakup, I was in the guy's place, it sucks and it hurts a lot when someone broke up with you because they want to be alone or want to focus on themselves, but one year after I'm happy to see the person she has become, and it makes you appreciate the fact that she was sincere with you and the focus on herself really payed off (she ended her studies, she makes clothes and she has a lot of work, I'm really proud of her)

[@kylespevak6781]

1:36:26 This hurts so much to hear. It just goes to show you that people will take advantage of their closeness with others, and then those who are victim will protect them. Wow

[@tealmellon]

First time watching Dr. K and I appreciated how well he handled the conversation of sexual assault as a man. And all throughout the session, he doesn't assume anything and always checks in if Yvonne's ok or on board ;w; listening to this overall helped me identify why i, myself, freeze up in situations that makes me uncomfortable. Thank you

[@billnguyen4148]

god damn... this is so heart breaking to watch now... even during this conversation she was trying really hard to protect Fed...

[@williamchin5904]

Kudos to Yvonne for bravely addressing all of the issues that were covered in this session! That is real Bravery!

[@beths_version]

My heart physically aches for you, Yvonne; I found myself tearing up many times during this and just wanting to reach out and give you the biggest hug. I had a similar experience to yours with a good friend who was only stopped from going the whole way by another friend of mine when I was drunk. The violation haunts you, but it does get easier with every day that passes and the pain slowly lessens. I hope you know you aren't alone, and that we all think you are so brave. Your voice and story are so important, and I hope you take comfort in the thought that many women and girls watching this know they aren't alone too and that you and the many other women in the gaming sphere who have spoken up have helped elevate the voices of those who thought they were voiceless. I wish you nothing but healing and comfort; my thoughts are with you ❤️

[@Silent.Program]

I completely agree. I would also like to add, that for me, as a man who never experienced anything like that, this helped me a lot to understand the stories of friends who opened up about similar things to me.

[@dymbu2]

I haven't given a chance to this interview since it came before Fed's revelations came up, and I expected Yvonne to be super elusive and indirect. But boy, I have mad respect for her after watching this. She really stood up for her friends on this one, and didn't want to compromise OTV one bit. Such a strong, reliable and honest person.

[@bukie477]

This video proves that Dr. K is really making a difference and changes people's lives for the better.

[@csnoob02]

When u realize she's talking about fed in certain times it's absolutely disgusting what that man has done to her.

[@kosie2895]

I really hope he can get onto the right track. Not excusing it but I don't think fed had malicious intent I think he had some personal issues and made mistakes. Here's to hoping EVERYONE including fed in offlinetv will get better and stay comfy

[@jrking2308]

All in all he needs help

[@805cemarc3]

@@jrking2308 he sexually assaulted multiple women and made them uncomfortable in their own homes. don't support him. he needs common sense.

[@Dexrazor]

buffthis!! ! Common sense isn't something that anyone has while drunk. He needs professional help. Stop doing what Yvonne said not to do.

[@nendo4344]

Dex I commonly party and get drunk with female friends. Multiple times to the point that I don’t have common sense. Not once have I ever made advances on them. Drunk or not. Different people react to alcohol differently but it’s not an excuse for sexual assault. Especially when there’s been things that happened while sober.

[@felixmahlen9306]

I'm happy I decided to watch this, it gave me a great understanding about things not only about yvonnie but I feel like I learnt a lot.

[@Naex__]

I'm genuinely so sorry for Yvonne, no one should have to deal with these kind of messed up things man...

[@Raph2D]

Great job Yvonne! I really hope things get better after what's happened and you find the support that you need.