Taylor Tomlinson Loves Women Asking Partners for a Cup of Coffee

[@matthiashunstock4713]

"If you love someone, let him go. If he comes back without coffee, let him go again."

[@maam-yj8ph]

Send him to get some milk.

[@Marci82]

😂

[@76marji]

oh, matt! 😹 that is so cute!!

[@kfaasse1160]

OHMYGOD - this is the best comment ever.😂😂😂

[@NinaCohen-dl4hm]

It was his observation/caution 'If the bag is steeping too long, it gets bitter. Remember to take it out soon." That both impressed me (expert tea brewing advice) AND melted my heart (genuinely solicitous). So devoted and romantic...Geen flag guy should show up.

[@FiveHungryTravelers]

I just asked my husband (no cameras were pointed at him) and he answered “With oat milk or almond milk.” So on brand for our lactose intolerant love.

[@I_Have_The_Most_Japanese_Music]

So much intolerance there you must have voted for Trump.

[@BenJamin-en3jb]

The "no camera pointed at him" part is what makes the difference between "my wife wants a coffee" and "I'm in one of those 'test your partner' videos for tiktok".

[@Zebragirl2]

When I ask my husband to “make me a coffee” he always says “you’re a coffee” (gesturing with his hand as if he’s waving a magic wand).

[@justsaying14]

Good one 😂😂😂

[@AgingStudent]

❤

[@bootercup001]

Excellent 🧑‍🍳🤌

[@DeborahWalkerXOXO]

Getting his dad joke practice in❤

[@j_emceee]

Hahaha, that's my kind of dad humor 😂

[@tootselee3097]

Whenever my husband brings me food, I loudly say “ROMANCE!”

[@oonwing]

Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha Good dude!

[@unionunicorn6776]

This is good like giving a treat to a dog lol

[@jbeezy8245]

😂 I love this

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

@@unionunicorn6776 it’s the bare minimum though 😭

[@trerodriguez]

That's cute.

[@qwitchyy]

I’m disabled and the question my husband asks me the most is, “do you want me to get you anything?” I always feel like such a burden, but he’ll do anything for me with a smile and a forehead kiss without asking anything in return. I’m super lucky.

[@maggiemcintyresahagun256]

❤️❤️❤️

[@pysvtfa4]

Will he clone himself and do trainings?

[@chriscolazo2689]

I get that; it is very hard knowing I depend on my partner so much in certain ways & that I'll never be able to reciprocate. In the end, I think there's give and take. He and I both have executive function issues, so I'm better w/ planning. I do things like make grocery lists and decide what to cook, whereas he carries the groceries, does the shopping & helps w/ the cooking and cleaning. I guess the best thing we can do is try radical acceptance if nothing else works, but it's still difficult

[@elizabethbaronebooks]

No baby, you are not a burden! You'd do the same for him. And hopefully neither of you are ever in a position where you'd switch roles. My husband was my caregiver until severe TBI last December. Now we care for each other. And I can tell you with 100% certainty, you're not a burden. Seeing things from this perspective makes me appreciate him even more, and even as difficult, heartbreaking, and scary the last year's been, our marriage is stronger than ever. So let him love you, and please never feel like a burden. You're not lucky to have him; you deserve to be loved like that.

[@nanashirose]

As I tell my sister, who I care for and is disabled, “You’re not a burden. You provide so much for us (her husband and I) mentally and emotionally, it makes all that we do for you beyond worth it.” Just because you may not be able to do something physically, you have no idea what an amazing light you probably are to your husband’s heart and soul. My sister is that for us.

[@Aloddff]

I like the optimistic view: The bar is low fellas, romance is getting a coffee

[@Fern635]

Excellent point!! 😂

[@limitlessinfinite2284]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nathanwood4762]

I wish I could bring a coffee to that special someone, but I have not met the woman who wants coffee from me. 😞

[@M_SC]

I don’t find it sad at all. The fancy flowers and dinners are a performance mostly corrupted by narcissistic love bombers and maybe always was that. They want applause and or some kind of attention/admiration/payout. This coffee thing is real love, Kindness, and partnership.

[@M_SC]

@@nathanwood4762keep trying Nathan

[@ElizabethT45]

"Will you take it out for me?" "What are we talking about?" 😁😁

[@michelebrugha1690]

Exactly.

[@thomasgade226]

gotta be timing the moment right

[@haleybarrick7455]

Very few things in my 35 years of life have ever made me gasp, cover my mouth, and blush all at the same time. This exchange did all three for me.

[@kyleydiamond]

also the way he said "oolong"

[@Sonia-rn1zz]

I'm going to use that line 😂

[@kieronmckay4276]

“Farm boy, fetch me that pitcher?” “As you wish” “Farm boy, will you make me a coffee?” “Actually…I don’t know how to make coffee…😬”

[@haleybarrick7455]

Wesley would cross the globe to harvest the beans, roast them, and figure out someway to sift the grinds to provide for her.

[@Eloraurora]

@@kieronmckay4276 ...resisting the urge to research what time period _The Princess Bride_ is set in, the contemporary stage of coffee as a commodity/recognized beverage, and exactly how difficult of an ask that coffee would have been.

[@greywaren621]

I can literally do all of Buttercup's lines. It's my one thing.

[@kieronmckay4276]

@@Eloraurora I did it for you…but given it’s a fantasy in a fictional country one can only guess. Northern Europe in the mid to late 1500s, probably before coffee beans or tea ever were written about or made it to Europe. Coffee made it to Italy in the early 1600s and tea required trade routes to ‘east India’ and China that would have reached Europe around the same time…so unlikely any of the characters of The Princess Bride would know anything about coffee or tea, least of all the poor main characters…or at best until Wesley traveled with the Dread Pirate Roberts…had they learned about it, it would have likely involved a trek to Italy, hahaha

[@AdrianColley]

"Pumpkins Of Unusual Spice? I don't think they exist."

[@Kelly_Ben]

My husband makes my coffee every morning. It's something he has always done from the beginning, when we start at each other's places. I "warned" him when we got engaged that he better not stop that wonderful habit now that he "had" me. 9 years later, coffee every morning. ❤ And yes, I give him the same level of love and consideration. And no, I would never freaking film it. 😂

[@wendykarle3114]

I always knew we were good when my husband would bring me coffee. When he stopped. Bringing me coffee I'm not even kidding.It was over. Just a sign of how they feel about you. And yes , I would find ways to bring him things as a gesture of my love and servitude as well.

[@jupiterlily13]

Yeah, my partner brings me coffee every morning and regularly offers throughout the day. He even makes me breakfast!

[@Canny-Octopus]

The hand clasp of thanks between the lesbians... I died at the sweetness.

[@jakubanterlope7432]

SAME!

[@maggiemcintyresahagun256]

Yeah that was a moment I kinda expected Taylor to mention but her response was fine, I’m sayin it was definitely something that got us all for sure. The only thing like it that we saw in allll the videos actually!

[@McScruffie]

I melted That was the cutest subtle show V of affection I hope they’re thriving 🥰

[@lavatr8322]

Yea they did Scissors later

[@DanielWright-np3fq]

When the lovely woman made a cup for her lady while on the phone...that's just pure love right there. And don't forget the cute smile of the asker as her boo was doing it. God bless them both.

[@markk3652]

That was reverse slavery in action, that's what that was.

[@hoosiermama3001]

Women can multitask!

[@jakubanterlope7432]

And then she grabs her hand after she sets the coffee down for her ❤️❤️❤️

[@aliciapeoples9616]

She knew exactly how to make her coffee too

[@maggiemcintyresahagun256]

I wish I was a lesbian

[@dripsandcastle]

New pickle-up line: I'll make you a coffee. ☕

[@kieronmckay4276]

And yet “hey want some pickles” just doesn’t work…

[@KxNOxUTA]

No. It's not a pick-up line but an established relationship thing. If it was used as a pick-up line, it'd only look transactional. There's nuance in what form of endearment and care is appropriate in each stage. Don't give them bad ideas. Also don't pick people up like they're objects. Actually be caregiving for the sake of caring about fellow people. Seriously, I know you're joking. But it's the Internet and men are desperate for easy transactional formulas that result in resentment when they don't work out. They urgently need development of ACTUAL social and emotion management skills. So such jokes are just way too likely to backfire 😅

[@crimsonraen]

LMAO The "Will you take it out for me"! followed by his raised eyebrow! LMAO!

[@AdrianColley]

4:19 "How is everyone not bi, at this point?" Bi people have been saying that since the 1960s.

[@M_SC]

Yes and it’s very annoying shhhh

[@Octobris]

​@@M_SC nobody asked

[@ColoringKaria]

Legolas almost made me go for guys. He made a VERY compelling case for being bi! 😅😂

[@Drosenv]

​@ColoringKaria the mummy was another bi awakening for tons of millennials... When truth or dare rolled around, and the question "who would you kiss in the mummy" came up, and the answer was "the entire cast...at the same time."

[@ryanbradley9066]

I'm not 100% sure I did this right. I told my wife I would make her a cup of coffee. And she said, "why?" And I said, "just let me make you a cup of coffee, ok?" And she said, "but I don't drink coffee." And I said, "just drink the coffee!" And she said, "but why? Why are you trying to make me drink coffee?" And I said, "BECAUSE I'M A GOOD HUSBAND!!! COME ON, I NEED THIS!" So, now we don't have to waste money on couples counseling that we don't need. Now, it will be money well-spent.

[@erinaa9486]

😂

[@AngelicChannelCS]

😂😂😂

[@TheLikeys]

This is my comment analysing and framing this whole madness perfectly.

[@NotAMuse]

This ‘trend/test’ works if your love language is acts of service.

[@M_SC]

I’m horrified you think this is funny. Maybe you don’t know how real this is

[@rodneytgap5340]

My loved ones don't ask me to make a coffee unless they really want a coffee because I will spend several minutes asking them about the type and method of coffee that they wish to receive and they have learned you don't open that gate frivolously.

[@AdrianColley]

A sort of weaponized competence?

[@loxleybattle2591]

Killing with kindness? You gotta get it right!

[@spinthepickle1244]

You sound like you make great coffee. I want to ask you to make me coffee, not my husband! My husband would 100% make me coffee even out of a dead sleep if I asked, but that sweet man inherited his mother's curse of terrible coffee making. He might be willing to drink what he makes everyday, but when I occasionally do want coffee I want it to taste good.

[@rodneytgap5340]

@@spinthepickle1244 I make coffee almost strictly out of rebellion to my father, who makes terrible, awful coffee. He is a Folgers crystals and drip pot man. He starts with a fresh batch of six scoops of grounds for a 12-cup pot on Sunday. Monday through Saturday he adds one more scoop and runs another 12 cups. He has been doing that for 40 years. It is a crime. A crime for which I must atone.

[@TheHestya]

@@AdrianColley Wanting to make a coffee exactly as a person wants is now weaponized competence? If you give my mother sock-water and call it a coffee, she will just have a ruined day. She takes 2 teaspoons heaped to the sky of ground arabica and hot water all the way to the lip of the mug. She brings her own coffee with her when she goes anywhere, because god forbid she has to drink gross coffee-water from a paper cup.

[@sailordaigurren8225]

Note to self: always carry a jar of pickles on the off chance I bump into Taylor Tomlinson...

[@Ojja78]

I love how natural these clips are of people who know they're being recorded for the internet to review their behavior.

[@erinfield1943]

I know right? Adding a camera adds a whole other angle to the story.

[@WastedPo]

I just made the same comment. It kind of annoys me how people react to these things with genuine outrage with no awareness that it's all performative for clicks.

[@hithere1528]

Yet the first guy still managed to be a jerk

[@erinfield1943]

@@hithere1528 But I hate being filmed, I really do. If my spouse filmed me to test me, I'd be annoyed too.

[@KxNOxUTA]

As you can see, the recording will NOT stop the "natural" abusive flavour to abuser's actions. So it's fine if they are hesitant and still show care for their partner.

[@ChristopherFonseka]

Don’t get me wrong, you should absolutely make the coffee. However, partners who feel the need to run relationship tests on camera for social media clout are red flags

[@edenwilde2719]

You're assuming the worst intentions. More likely she saw a bunch of cute reactions to partners making the coffee without a fuss, and wants to participe so she can brag about her partner or playfully tease them.

[@flemminghansen6500]

This

[@ODSTGeneralYT]

@@edenwilde2719 Hard not to assume the worst given the text on the video says "it always turns into an exchange" and the guy commenting he was just about to fall asleep. Like aside maybe being doped up post surgery, I personally wouldn't stick a camera in my significant others face as they are falling asleep or waking up, let alone do so for some sort of social media test.

[@adelshawish4732]

i love when the woman says hey babe will you make me a cup of tea and the husband says what kind of tea oh long chem 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@natalieshark]

My guy is always making me coffee and stuff. We both love doing stuff for each other.

[@josephine4s]

Like, it’s not that hard! Hell, I ask my DAD if he wants any coffee-at least when I know I’m gonna get some for myself.

[@ellefantine]

"What are you talking about" had me 💀🔥

[@Tonyhouse1168]

“I’ll happily make you a coffee. And I’ll happily ask you to quit walking around recording me for content on your social media.”

[@melvinjoseph952]

"Will you make me coffee?" "Yes, the second you turn off the camera"

[@MrAlfable]

That's what I was trying to wrap my head around, no one appears to even be pretending to hide their phone/camera, even the first one. Less a test of "coffee" and more a test of how patient they are willing to be with their spouse trying to be content creators...which I guess is still sweet in its own way.

[@Leblribrbrrq]

It's either scripted or people get recorded and put online against their consent. Either fake or unhealthy.

[@CanItAlready]

​@@LeblribrbrrqThere's another option: the videos are posted with the consent of the spouses.

[@Leblribrbrrq]

@@CanItAlready Yes, I and others talked about this in other comments. In my eyes, this is just as weird. Either it's a performance or it's unhealthy. It's certainly not as funny as it is presented here.

[@meriboberi]

The pickles are giving "I already have a drink. Can I order mozzarella sticks?"

[@Nixx2709]

Liz Lemon for the win! 30 Rock was awesome!!

[@cassidya5629]

Successful interaction with a man!

[@sedol3717]

Taylor is a global treasure. Defend her at all costs!

[@Reavenk]

3:15 He didn't need a few seconds to decide; he needed a few seconds to evaluate what kind of mind game was randomly sprung (and if it's some next-level joke where the answer "yes" is actually the wrong answer). You can tell by the finality in that headroll at the end - he's done looking at the 14,000,605 possibilities this could play out.

[@gladtravis]

I'm still trying to figure out how turning your spouse into an errand boy is a test of love. It's one thing if you have a disability, taking care of children or genuinely tied up in some other way. Beyond that, if you're able-bodied, make your own coffee.

[@Fern635]

​@gladtravis Right?? Especially where he's busy doing stuff and she's just walking around with her phone out. If they were both busy or both cozy, or if only she was busy/cozy, it would make more sense.

[@taylortheturtle]

@Reavenk love that dr strange reference lol

[@Tweetyresm]

​@@gladtravismaybe I like the way they make it. 😢

[@M_SC]

Nah, he was just surprised

[@iandodd7828]

I played this for my wife who for years has had an automatic coffee machine. When the alarm goes off, I automatically get up and make us coffees. Then, when I say, “Will you take it out for me?”, she usually reaches for it with enthusiastic gusto. It’s a back and forth thing.

[@cnj67]

The difference is you are not sullenly making sure she will do *you* a favour before being nice to her. It's natural to do favours for each other all the time, and sometimes you might need to talk about it, if one of you is just having too much on their plate. But in general, matters should role like you just described.

[@taylortheturtle]

@iandodd7828 I see what you did there. Way to distill all the lessons in the video into one comment. 🔥

[@liquiditytrap71]

@@cnj67 when that guy asked if this was “going to be a back and forth,” he was asking if she was trying to start an argument, not asking for a favor. Which a reasonable question to ask, because she was trying to start an argument.

[@arunima8138]

@@liquiditytrap71 oh wow so asking for a coffee is trying to start an argument now

[@kufitop]

Ay-oh! 😂

[@Worthy79]

As a husband of 20 years, we don’t know what’s really going on with this couple. But in all reality, no matter if we fighting or not, I’ll do anything for her 😊😊😊

[@lynnstlaurent6789]

My parents have been married 60 years and last year my dad had the flu. My mom didn’t have a coffee that morning bc she didn’t know how to make it. She also complained about opening all the blinds and curtains. She’s spoiled.

[@WholeHeartily]

I was just surprised how many women didn’t say “please” 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@nochaoticgood]

cope

[@j_emceee]

Yeah, although I kinda think it was more like a "will you" question (yes or no) rather than a "can you?" which would be more likely to be accompanied by "please" with it

[@saku.544]

They're Americans. I've noticed most of you don't ever say please to people. It's all "Give me some ketchup with that" "Get me this" it's actually very unsettling. I'm not surprised they didn't say please. If they were from another country I would be surprised though.

[@TheresaTV1]

Yeah, I’m not ok with the lack of please and thank you displayed here.

[@animefanaticc]

"Do NOT let booktok see this" omg I'm dead

[@lyndseygolden7546]

That hand hold gave me misty eyes and chills ❤❤❤❤❤

[@steveunderhill5935]

Perfectly choreographed even caught the best angles for tik tok. 🤢

[@NorthJerseyJedi]

If you feel the need to “test” your partner and put it on the internet, you don’t love that person. I don’t think any of them even said “Please”!

[@CentaurusRelax314]

Maybe I’ve never been in love before, because what I’m thinking is, “Oh, are your arms broken?”

[@ainulkhairilezral7200]

How my mom and dad show love for each other: they don't ask the other to make coffee for them, they make their own coffee and OFFER to make coffee for the other. But that's just them, I guess...

[@deekang6244]

That’s too bad. I would make my husband a coffee if he asked. He would make one for me. We aren’t afraid to ask. Even if I don’t want a cup, I know that he might. So he can ask. Vice versa.

[@pamelagonzalez8947]

@@deekang6244It’s very difficult to get up to do things for me, but it’s easy to do them for my husband. For him it’s the same, so we make each other’s beverages.

[@Izanuela22]

I sometimes ask him „Do you want a coffee?“ and when he says yes I add „Great! Bring me one too!“ 😂 But seriously, we both regularly bring each other coffee and normally one of us goes to make one and asks the other one if he/she wants one too. I love it when he brings me coffee unannounced to bed in the morning. And I guess/hope he loves it when I bring him coffee (and a cookie) while he is in a stressful zoom call…

[@julianacooper3406]

OMG!! Just when you thought she couldn't get any better, she goes and one ups last one😅. Taylor doesn't ever run out of material 😂😂❤❤❤❤❤

[@amberwilliams9950]

It’s never a second thought when my wife asks for a coffee

[@untexan]

Jack making Rose a cold brew sounds romantic until he has to make it with salt water

[@GregoryFariss]

Salted caramel macchiato?

[@mhawang8204]

The BookTok part is so right and made me laughed out loud, but “cold brew” really killed me 😂🤣 Also, notice the lesbian didn’t even ask the question. She just said “I need coffee” and her partner got up right away. Well done 👍

[@yeeaahBUDDY]

yeah, that one was staged

[@ameliaalastairmoon4145]

@@yeeaahBUDDY omg but why? Can't you believe there are actual good partners out there in the wild? They look so normal to me. I know my partner would react in the same way.

[@yeeaahBUDDY]

@@ameliaalastairmoon4145 of course there are good partners. There can exist good partners and staged videos both. These things aren't mutually exclusive.

[@nickgoodwin8715]

fun fact: having a fed, caffeinated wife who gets what she wants makes life so much easier than the alternative

[@ToniHinton]

Substitute "mom" for "wife" and my kids figured that out before they even made it to double digits. Why are so many grown men having trouble with such a simple concept?

[@EmanWell-ix8pg]

A good wife already made coffee lmao

[@MySchoolProject15]

@@EmanWell-ix8pg Clearly you get all your knowledge from books published 70 years ago, which is understandable because there's no way you have a wife.

[@chriscolazo2689]

@@ToniHintonright?? How is having a happy partner not the norm? I think the primary reason is how men & women are socialized in the U.S. Women are basically taught that if they make a man happy enough, he'll bend over backwards for her, too. Men are raised to be "independent" and resent responsibilities that don't have an immediate and direct payoff for them. At least 90% of men I've spoken to seem to have this individualistic lean where they somehow view my mental health as my sole responsibility, but then want to use me as an unpaid therapist. Basically, the message they're sending is: your happiness is not my responsibility, but my happiness is your responsibility. This bias regarding wanting to be mothered w/o considering reciprocity is clearly echoed in the most extreme cases. When a woman's husband is diagnosed w/ a serious illness like cancer, they almost always stay and take care of the husband. Both parties expect this. When the shoe is on the other foot, however, the men *divorce* their dying wives b/c they don't want to be burdened by it. Even tho it's almost 2025, men generally tend to still see themselves as humans and women as objects/commodities. It's frankly very sad, altho also infuriating

[@bryanwoods3373]

Switch the genders, and it's abuse. Your wife should be able to control being hangry herself.

[@Carrie25]

“God I see what you’ve done for others” 😂😂😂💀

[@johanneshalberstadt3663]

1. Relationship "tests" are bad 2. Filming someone, creating a setting in which you have determined the only acceptable outcome, all to expose them and monetise it, is all really crappy. You are essentially weaponizing your phone against your partner. Think about the state of your relationship in the first place and the lack of mutual trust, respect and gentle support there is.

[@sailincat2822]

_"1. Relationship 'tests' are bad"_ Thank you. As a guy, my first reaction to any of these would be, "WTF is this about?" (Although maybe not out loud. I'm not suicidal.) Not that I would refuse to make her coffee, but any of the scenarios shown would make me immediately suspicious of why she has her camera pointed at me while asking it.🤔🙂

[@chessenthusiast]

Neither my wife nor I are on SM (except my YT channel). Neither of us can imagine walking around with a camera pointed at each other all the time, trying to film “real”reactions to random crap about our relationship. The real ‘test’ is how you treat each other when nobody’s around.

[@Leblribrbrrq]

​@@chessenthusiastI don't understand it either. Either everything is fake/scripted or people are recording and publish the videos without the consent of the recorded persons. (Or recorded w/o consent but published w/ which is just as weird and unhealthy.) Stop testing your partners and publishing your lives.

[@JaySwag77]

I just ranted to my wife about this. I was like of course I'll make you something if you asked for it, I do that all the time, but if you came in recording me on your phone and asked me for something I would probably just leave the country!

[@alxk3995]

Then state this and not look at your partner like you about to maul her like a grizzly would.

[@primcasiha]

welp i just realized my whole life i've never seen my dad making coffee for my mom, and she does im not crying

[@Fern635]

Hopefully he does different stuff for her, though? Things don't have to be identical to be fair. I'm the main coffee-maker in our house, but my husband does a million other things that let me know I'm special and valued, many of which our kids might not see or be aware of. If your mom seems happy, chances are they've got a love language that works for them both ❤

[@primcasiha]

@@Fern635 thanks for such kind words

[@fdsfsdfsd1552]

What does "and she does im not crying"? Did you accidentally omit a word?

[@MySchoolProject15]

@@Fern635 Yeah that's true, I make my husband tea more than he does me, but he regularly does the dishes when it's not his turn just to surprise me (he usually does the cooking and I do the washing up, so that would mean he does the cooking and the dishwashing).

[@GSBarlev]

Not me getting recommended this rn when standing in the kitchen making my coparent a cup of coffee. 😂

[@BUMWRECK3R]

yeah I feel recording him asking a test question says a lot more about her than him.

[@leonardmilcin7798]

Chivalry has nothing to do with women pointing phones at their partners and asking them to do tests.

[@ohleander02]

My spouse would never get up and get me a beverage if I asked. She'd never. She'd be terrified and confused.

[@giantnerd14]

Man, expectations have hit a new low.

[@Jeegus21]

Am I the only one thinking videotaping someone like that is fucked up?

[@coreywall1977]

No you aren't alone

[@LusheRenRen]

Personally, I think if you imagine it would be a bad idea w/ roles reversed, then prob. not cool to proceed. 🤔 I can totally see the comments section yelling in unison "Did you ask for her consent?" 😓

[@sarha6024]

Nope!

[@VoodooMcVee]

No, you are not alone. Had you not asked this question, then I would have. I wouldn't go along with it and make it clear that someone who thought that doing things like that was a good idea is not someone I would want to share my life with.

[@lynnlamusga]

You are NOT wrong.

[@adamhawn2523]

A jar of pickles is better than a blood diamond.

[@76marji]

*1st* hubby sounds as if he had a *good reason!* 🤭 🥰 I'D MARRY ANY ONE O' THOSE SWEETIES❣️🩷

[@byusaranicole]

I don't even like pickles, but that's a good guy right there. (The bar is in hell.)

[@M_SC]

Me either but I would eat one for that guy

[@jeremylevey5194]

Chivalry hasn’t died, it’s just overlooked! Willing to prove it, but Taylor would never give me a chance. 🤙🤪😆😂

[@donizettirules]

My parents have been married 40 years. Every morning he has been home (i.e. when not already at work… cause my mum gets up late) my father brings my mum coffee in bed. Every single morning. Like clockwork. If he’s running early morning errands on the weekend, he does everything in his power to be back before it’s time to bring her coffee. And every couple Sundays or so, he comes back from those errands with two bouquets of flowers. You think she’s ever had to ask? I presume that whenever this started, well before I was born, this was just something he started doing, unprompted. Like… what kind of douchebag do you have to be to expect anything, let alone… … …, in “exchange” for A SINGLE CUP OF COFFEE Lawd!

[@sebastian-oq9be]

That's so sweet omg 😭

[@Nick-xo7bl]

Have you considered the possibility that she doesn’t do anything for him, she just takes and takes, without any reciprocation? Then she films him (without his consent) to “test” how compliant he is and broadcast it to the internet. He even says “I know I can say ‘no’, I hear it from you _a lot_ .” That isn’t necessarily just about sex. Weird of everyone in the comments (mostly the women) to assume that that’s all she’s good for.

[@TheHestya]

@@Nick-xo7bl People assume it because that's exactly how it sounds. Men have seen chores, kindness and any helpful actions as currency for sex for a long time. Idk where you've been, but it's been a gag in comedy shows, family shows, etc. Made a part of the society. Everyone assumes it because everyone has seen it happen a million times.

[@bg6b7bft]

If someone asks for coffee that doesn't normally ask for coffee, then get them a coffee and then ask them what else they need. It's the human equivalent of a check engine light.

[@marc21256]

NOBODY ASKS ME TO MAKE THEM A COFFEEEEEEE [sadface with tears]

[@andrewhooper7603]

can you make me a coffee?

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

@@andrewhooper7603😂

[@marc21256]

@@andrewhooper7603 ***ZAP** You are now a coffee.

[@BA-ng9bx]

❤

[@alanrichard6060]

My dad has been preparing the coffee the night before for my mom every night for years

[@NilfNilf1972]

I’d make my wife coffee 99% of the time, no problem - but if she is closer to the coffee maker, pointing a camera at me, and it all smells like a trap, then “are you nuts” is a fair reaction.

[@Eloraurora]

And now you've just created a vision of a husband who starts out "Of course," turns around, sees she's filming, and asks, "Normal coffee, or are we doing a meme of some kind? I don't remember how that espresso song goes, I'm afraid."

[@notalizardperson]

He's wearing a baseball cap indoors while lounging and fucking off on his phone. You can just look at him and know his reaction.

[@Tarquin2718]

Well she is trying to show how awesome you are, so I would do it nontheless. Sometimes fake traps are not fake traps 😊

[@eca7773]

​@@Eloraurora Yeah fake responses made for content creation. I would do almost anything for my wife, but if it's to post on social media like some reality show, then she is on her own. Thank God, my wife and I don't put any stock in social media and testing our marriage by asking the other to do things and video it to put it online...

[@Redthreadwitch]

I have actually had two different past partners gift me huge jars of pickles, before. My spouse now MAKES pickles. I obviously know how to choose well 😆

[@lordreginaldfilibuster]

Abracadabra! You're a Coffee.

[@dandotvid]

This is the one and only reply.

[@williamsnyder1315]

Clearly there were no Dads in this crowd

[@alyzu4755]

*snort* 😂😂😂

[@lordd007]

This needs to be liked more 😂😂😂

[@FranklyItsMe]

My husband makes coffee and brings it to me every single solitary morning unless I happen to be up before him when I return the favor. Rarely does that happen. lol. He is an actual gem of a human. 💙

[@shellohween]

My husband made me coffee, breakfast, drove to the store to get groceries and then made us all dinner. ❤

[@dhotnessmcawesome9747]

She- Will you make me a cup of coffee? Me- You know where the Keurig is.

[@temujing.k.5789]

Some of them were ordering, not asking. None of them said please. Whatever happened to "please"?

[@pinky6758]

I think, these kinds of weaponized relationship-tests are reason for a break-up. YOUR PARTNER is abusing the trust and emotional intimacy of your relationship for clicks&likes on the internet.

[@farmerboybill]

Only a coffee?! I’m making my wife a raised bed out of rough sawn black locust harvested from our very own woods for her strawberries. That dude sucks!

[@anna-fleurfarnsworth104]

Very cool! How big do the strawberries get?

[@BA-ng9bx]

❤❤

[@CuteSeamus]

god i'm so lonely... i'd even take the guy who wouldn't get his wife a coffee...

[@spevakdesigns]

I'll happily make my partner coffee, tea, etc anytime. But if she asks me for coffee at 10PM on a weeknight my response will be closer to "sure, but why?"

[@JBMorris9]

I would never pass this test.

[@wokeaf1242]

Taylor Tomlinson is so funny I’d make her coffee with a jar of pickles then use part of my rent to see he next stand-up. Or give her video. Thumbs up. She’s worth it. 😄😃😀

[@adelshawish4732]

i love when she says to the smash talk of him handing her tea do not let book talk see this and thank god i’m glad this is a book talk crowd 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JR-uq7et]

I once worked in a cafe where a lot of the regular customers were older couples and I was truly stunned by the number of men who could not remember their wife's regular coffee order or dietary restrictions. How many times have you had to order this for her and you don't remember she drinks soy milk??? It's become my litmus test for straight couples

[@joshfennell2257]

What if you ask your spouse what kind of coffee they want because you always leave them free to choose? Weird that anybody orders the same thing every time.

[@JR-uq7et]

@joshfennell2257 In my experience most people, especially older people, order the exact same drink every time they visit. It might be a cultural thing. In Australia the vast majority of coffee sold in restaurants and cafes is espresso and steamed fresh milk in varying ratios, and flavours, syrups and creams are relatively rare. Obviously it's fine to ask what your partner wants to order, but getting the order wrong because you weren't really listening, or not ordering gluten free when she needs gluten free, just speaks to a disregard for your partner's needs

[@pysvtfa4]

@@JR-uq7et my ex was a master of my very fussy coffee order. When he ordered my lactose intolerant self whole milk, I knew we were done.

[@peterkerj7357]

Not knowing your partner's allergy and not knowing if they want milk or cream seem like quite different things.

[@tiba242424]

Congratulations! I've been watching you on the come up for years now, from the to scared to get stage crew at the tiny desk. You deserve this! Proud of you my chick. Keep dat tism tight! 💞

[@Mushroom321-]

" ur too late demanding things like that" . 😊😅

[@ValeriaEntertainment]

In my house, I do the cooking and my husband always makes the coffee/tea, but if I randomly asked him for a coffee, he’d never say no. And neither would I. These little things matter. They set the tone of giving and love vs rancor over who does what.

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

The lesbian couple brought tears to my eyes ❤❤❤❤

[@CM-en8qh]

Speaking as a gay, women will break your heart and destroy your car but they will also pick up your prescriptions for you

[@PoSHEmediaglobal]

@ am a woman

[@Sari-b7k]

@@CM-en8qh it’s such a rollercoaster

[@_asantesana_squashbanana_]

Love being lesbian ❤

[@Mushroom321-]

" Come to the union & he helps her open the jar !of pickles..😅

[@NICOLHAWKINS]

"is cold brew okay?" 💀

[@katieosborne5203]

My husband makes me coffee every morning. I have told him he doesn't have to do it. Lol.

[@duaneosmith]

It's possible that he asks her all the time to make him coffee and she never does it, hence his "back and forth" comment.

[@elizabethbaronebooks]

"Do not let Booktok see this" 🤣☕📚

[@the.austinclark]

🤘 Wedding pickles 🤘

[@courtneylees9133]

The Chappell Roan's music comment... Ope! You got me 😅

[@stevegroark2034]

Ask for cheese sticks, gosh.

[@westofley]

my guy at 3:18 was thinking "didn't you just walk in here from the direction of the coffee?? oh wait this is clearly a test"

[@coachelly86]

Meh, they all knew they were being filmed

[@sailincat2822]

But how many of them knew *_why_* they were being recorded?

[@mabainter]

As did the first guy.

[@Reavenk]

Works often-enough against cops; might as well randomly treat your significant other the same way to test for response and surf an internet trend.

[@bramvanduijn8086]

@@mabainter That's why he's not making her coffee, he knows it is another one of those manipulative "tests" to use him for social media content and he is not going to put any more effort into it.

[@en2336]

@@bramvanduijn8086 relationship tests are bad is an idiotic take. Everyone is always testing their partner, for example one of the most common "red flags" people state is that if your partner treats wait staff/service employees badly, then they're likely not a good partner (because they failed the test). Almost everyone agrees, but when it comes to explicitly calling it a "test" suddenly y'all are acting like it's evil and illegal lmfao. That's just one example of the millions of ways that people decide whether or not their partners are compatible and have the character of someone they want to spend the rest of their lives, and it's completely valid :)

[@yarasub]

LOVE TAYLOR, GOOTA GO NOW, Taylor WANTS PICKLES. 😂😂💕💕

[@evanflynn4680]

Not everyone likes pickles. Cheeseboard for the win.

[@isabellaross1472]

My husband told me once if we were fighting and I refused to talk to him he was going to tighten all the pickles jars, etc. in the fridge and just wait for me to ask for help😂😂

[@cheskydivision]

It kind of proves that men get so much praise for doing the bare minimum.

[@wPOTH1]

"Can you make me a cup of tea?" Me: "Sure! POOF!💥✨️You're a cup of tea!🤨😏🤭🤪😜🤗

[@grankmisguided]

Not everyone's love language is acts of service though either, and that kind of thing can be confusingly difficult for neurodivergent folks. It doesn't necessarily mean they are or would be a bad partner, because they may care for you and express that care in other ways. Nor does it necessarily make someone who is good at those things a good partner, as they might be an utter failure at supporting you in other ways. Everything is a balance, and I'd imagine that the fact people probably notice they're being filmed also causes a lot of both false positives ("I'd better be on my best behavior on tape") and false negatives ("wtf is this, is my partner baiting me for the benefit of content for strangers, what an annoying asshole, I'm not doing anything for them"). Relationship tests might have their place if you're feeling unsatisfied and need perspective as to whether you should try to fix it or end it and move on, or even if you need an ungaslightable data point for couples therapy or that kind of stuff... But if you're pretty happy? Don't do this shit. And definitely don't do it for internet content, either way. If one person views their relationship as fodder for social media content, they don't deserve a partner who doesn't.

[@MsNatiBug]

But obviously the first guy is a horrific partner

[@en2336]

google love languages debunked. it was created by a christian fundamentalist who had NO degrees in psychology/cog sci and is complete horsesh!t

[@grankmisguided]

@@holli3716 I'm confused that you first state as a given that "recording my husband at all would be a huge violation so it's completely off the table" but your reply goes on to talk about "grown ass men who can defend themselves". What am I missing, why does your husband implicitly have the right to privacy but other folks don't?

[@grankmisguided]

@@holli3716 oh I'm sorry, when you were able to respect your husband's privacy I figured you would be able to extrapolate that to other people in that position regardless of whether they had social media or not. I didn't realize that you were saying only people who don't engage with the medium deserve to be treated well on it. Uhm, noted.

[@lorettanericcio-bohlman567]

By the time you’re done explaining I could have had Juan Valdez grow and bring the beans to me by donkey…

[@jennyfromthebrook]

I love that my husband makes me coffee every morning. I don’t even have to ask him anymore 😂😊

[@achliscantplay4202]

I don't even have to ask. The coffee just APPEARS 3 min after I raise my eyebrows and go "fya-fya". It is our thing. We just DO THIS for each other. Why wouldn't anyone?! Who are all those people who hate each other so much?!

[@johns3106]

Indeed! If you have to “test” your partner to see if they’ll do nice things for you, you’re with the wrong person!

[@cnj67]

Though if I was in the middle of a creative thought process, like that guy on by his PC, and was asked to make coffee for my totally capable husband, I would not take it lightly. (Also because it make take forever to get the concentration back). But then, if he was busy, and I was chilling, or was only slightly busy, I'd be happy to make him a cup.

[@bird3713]

It's tough when you're the one that's always giving favors and never receiving.

[@lorettanericcio-bohlman567]

@@bird3713exit strategy

[@NoraMorgan]

God. I needed a smile today. Thank you!!!

[@DarthD00bius]

Historical note: Napoleon actually ditched the woman he loved so he could marry into the Austrian royal family.

[@bexdee3562]

Wow. The straights are not ok 😬

[@_asantesana_squashbanana_]

I know right? Lol. As a lesbian this is just a crumb. Like, microscopic crumb of what a partner should be happy to do for her ❤

[@matthewbrown7048]

I can't wait for the sequel. Guys asking for a beer while watching the game. How do you reckon that's gonna go? 😂😂

[@Louve-music]

Loved it! Thank you so much 😂❤

[@unocson9359]

Wife: "Will you make me coffee?'" Me: "Sure." Later, Me: "Can you grab me a beer?" Wife: "Did you break your leg?"