Get comfortable with being uncomfortable | Luvvie Ajayi Jones | TED

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@nprpodcasts
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@victorianyawira956
@victorianyawira956 Жыл бұрын
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@disarmyouwitha
@disarmyouwitha 6 жыл бұрын
Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.
@rkarlsson6460
@rkarlsson6460 6 жыл бұрын
However being yourself too much is not good.
@hudaalenezi5638
@hudaalenezi5638 6 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1
@TheMarvelousBeautyChannel1 6 жыл бұрын
So sovery true!!
@ash-xs4cb
@ash-xs4cb 6 жыл бұрын
R Karlsson wow trueeeee
@shikhasaxena4611
@shikhasaxena4611 5 жыл бұрын
@@rkarlsson6460 why ?
@charlotteblenheim7220
@charlotteblenheim7220 6 жыл бұрын
"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell!" What a beautifully simplistic manifesto.
@nuhaanjum4774
@nuhaanjum4774 4 жыл бұрын
bad guy billie eilish
@phole1100
@phole1100 2 жыл бұрын
sounds kinda obnoxious
@cxa011500
@cxa011500 2 жыл бұрын
Seems like going around yelling would just make you an a-hole. 🧐
@seethetruth7427
@seethetruth7427 2 жыл бұрын
@@cxa011500 not yall missing the point, it is a metaphor
@seethetruth7427
@seethetruth7427 2 жыл бұрын
@@phole1100 say that to men who yell or act violently when they lose a game
@anflow96
@anflow96 3 жыл бұрын
"When it's time to say these hard things: 1. Did you mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love?"
@melkiway
@melkiway 2 жыл бұрын
This part is important. Thx for highlighting it.
@elizalaw1517
@elizalaw1517 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah totally important
@stlla1000
@stlla1000 2 жыл бұрын
Dope, love this.
@DavidRhyne
@DavidRhyne Жыл бұрын
The best part of the talk! Otherwise I felt the talk was a bit fluffy/derivative. Her delivery was nice though.
@icbullock90
@icbullock90 Жыл бұрын
Yes but I think we need to put a little less pressure on how people say things, because even if you say something perfectly with love it still can be misinterpreted and taken negatively. It's just as important for people to work on how they receive things and not just place the burden on the other person.
@tionak
@tionak 3 жыл бұрын
I’m reading her book Professional Trouble Maker now and she mentions how she tried to talk herself out of this TedTalk but did it anyway. So proud of her!
@rasa1116
@rasa1116 2 жыл бұрын
Guess it is beautiful, I'm planning to read it now after hearing this talk
@crystaltharrell
@crystaltharrell 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this.
@sakshiguptaz
@sakshiguptaz Жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how everytime we are about to step up there will be a demon inside luring you into how your comfort zone is nice and how it would be a lot of work and why we shouldn’t go for it
@sakshiguptaz
@sakshiguptaz Жыл бұрын
Important to talk back and be like “just shut up no one cares” to the voice in your head
@ms.fortune2957
@ms.fortune2957 Жыл бұрын
Oh wonderful. Thanks for sharing that! I am definitely supporting her, as we have so much in common character wise. lol
@hannguyen5637
@hannguyen5637 3 жыл бұрын
“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”. This sentence hits different 💛 feeling knowledgeable by watching these amazing TED talks during quarantine 💛
@userman44
@userman44 3 жыл бұрын
Did you speak out against quarantines?
@seethetruth7427
@seethetruth7427 2 жыл бұрын
@@userman44 why did u assume she's against quarantine
@NurseNikisElectricLeaf
@NurseNikisElectricLeaf 6 жыл бұрын
“Bridges that aren’t based on truth will collapse.” I love it👑
@tammy3141
@tammy3141 6 жыл бұрын
The Electric Leaf
@prensesavera3038
@prensesavera3038 5 жыл бұрын
The Electric Leaf i read that “ fridges that aren’t .............
@Watotowamama2023
@Watotowamama2023 4 жыл бұрын
Love you !
@ladiesroomlive990
@ladiesroomlive990 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!! Reminds me of "what's done in the dark will come to light."
@delailama736
@delailama736 4 жыл бұрын
So Social Justice is screwed.
@holdup7225
@holdup7225 6 жыл бұрын
I love how she conducted this session. Perfect amount of humor, references and inspiration. The topic has been spoken about often, but her delivery of the topic was rather convincing and was very relatable.
@Rilows
@Rilows 6 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Neither did she go out of topic like many TED talks
@mvfs
@mvfs 6 жыл бұрын
Most writers are excellent presenters. They understand the need for charisma and energy, and of course all of that is backed up by a solid well written and naturally spoken script
@madisonnesbit5081
@madisonnesbit5081 2 жыл бұрын
L
@makaso8563
@makaso8563 2 жыл бұрын
L@@mvfs
@shawtyisdashit1001
@shawtyisdashit1001 6 жыл бұрын
1. Do you mean it 2. Can you defend it 3. Did you say it with love 3 questions to always keep in mind when speaking up about something.
@kathrynjoslyn1835
@kathrynjoslyn1835 6 жыл бұрын
Jenny Saint You saint yaaasss! Wonderful comment ❤
@pippasandhu5988
@pippasandhu5988 6 жыл бұрын
Jenny Saint #lovelovelove
@lauravelasquez5397
@lauravelasquez5397 6 жыл бұрын
Preach
@alexaj21
@alexaj21 6 жыл бұрын
Jenny Saint fear is not winning
@josmis1234
@josmis1234 6 жыл бұрын
Jenny Saint God bless You.
@mokuu3313
@mokuu3313 4 жыл бұрын
This woman is very powerful. She conducts herself in a manner of which many people couldn’t imagine themselves doing. I really love it when she said that she chooses to yell in a world that wants us to whisper. Motivation at its finest. Thank you
@juainott5281
@juainott5281 3 жыл бұрын
"Being yourself is a revolutionary act" wow that truly got me.
@thegoodfellow41
@thegoodfellow41 6 жыл бұрын
-Fight or flight. -Get comfortable w/being uncomfortable. I hear these all the time dealing w/social anxiety. 2018 will be my year. Conquering my fear. "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself."
@MuadDib1402
@MuadDib1402 6 жыл бұрын
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain. :D
@billhicks8
@billhicks8 6 жыл бұрын
BOO!
@MuadDib1402
@MuadDib1402 6 жыл бұрын
I always wanted to be the cowboy hero. That lone voice in the wilderness, fighting corruption and evil wherever I found it, and standing for freedom, truth and justice. And in my heart of hearts I still track the remnants of that dream wherever I go, on my never-ending ride into the setting sun. :D
@hollyannaracena1873
@hollyannaracena1873 6 жыл бұрын
You got this cam 👌🏽
@diandrastithe3186
@diandrastithe3186 6 жыл бұрын
I struggle with social anxiety myself, I thought I would never get over it. But after pushing myself out of my comfort zone again and again, I am breaking down that wall and have accomplished social things I thought I never could. I believe in you! Push yourself out of that comfort zone and you’ll be amazed at the person you really are capable of being.
@chyenneariel
@chyenneariel 5 жыл бұрын
“Fear has a very concrete power of keeping us from doing and saying the things that are our purpose”
@efuaodafen3814
@efuaodafen3814 6 жыл бұрын
I​ love how she talks. Eloquent and fluent and funny and laced with gold. Bless
@irenefang246
@irenefang246 Жыл бұрын
wow, this talk is one of the greatest one that I clicked on KZbin. Her message seems obvious but somehow it hits me deeply because in the past I was kind of speaking the truth even it hurt me terribly. The checkpoint that she mentioned is also very important before we speak out loud 1. Did you really mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love? This can help us to say truthfully without offending others.
@peachynutritionthepeachydi3614
@peachynutritionthepeachydi3614 3 жыл бұрын
"When the world expects us to be silent, we choose to yell because getting uncomfortable can only guarantee our comfort." I'm truly inspired, thanks Jones.
@chinemeremnnadi9585
@chinemeremnnadi9585 Жыл бұрын
@natinatyoutube
@natinatyoutube 6 жыл бұрын
I got chills during the whole speech. Her energy is overwhelming - and i mean that in the best way. Wow.
@Ki.Lashay
@Ki.Lashay 5 жыл бұрын
This exact video is What slowly brought me out of my depression and allowed me to be myself . Love her for sharing this
@abstractbybrian
@abstractbybrian 6 жыл бұрын
I wish I could hit thumbs up a lot more than just once. I needed this. I'm quiet and shy. Not any more. Thank-YOU!
@LuckyLucky-xp2sz
@LuckyLucky-xp2sz 5 жыл бұрын
Bless you. I hope you become stronger.
@LuckyLucky-xp2sz
@LuckyLucky-xp2sz 5 жыл бұрын
I can tell you are a good person already.
@mg-cx5tv
@mg-cx5tv 5 жыл бұрын
I also need it really because of the same reasons but i thought its only me like this
@DFreshastar08
@DFreshastar08 5 жыл бұрын
JBL Creations amen. God bless you
@dianawinda4061
@dianawinda4061 5 жыл бұрын
just got destroyed by a mock paper, and came home and saw this. It put a lot in perspective for me, and inspired me to look towards the bigger picture
@yunjiecai8251
@yunjiecai8251 2 жыл бұрын
Her speech is so encouraging that I start to try to define myself to the fear.
@sumayzebecreating
@sumayzebecreating 4 жыл бұрын
When she said "comfort is overrated" felt that wholeheartedly ❤️
@valentinamora9459
@valentinamora9459 Жыл бұрын
The outfit, the SHOES, the message, the story, simply AMAZING. Luvvie, you are rocking it!
@lauramariakojnok3189
@lauramariakojnok3189 6 жыл бұрын
An amazing woman indeed . The thing is when people are too quiet ,and the rest too loud , there's no room for unterstanding . I am often both . Those 3 questions I will start use them too ,such a great way to start 2018 . I am so sorry for the racism and discrimination ...beautiful hearts &mind have no color ☺
@tanmaypalkar9861
@tanmaypalkar9861 6 жыл бұрын
Best Ted Talk Ever! Today onwards, be the domino! be the change!
@rkarlsson6460
@rkarlsson6460 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, better than expected but hardly the "best" one ever!
@samanthapazymino8131
@samanthapazymino8131 6 жыл бұрын
ted
@kiyahforrest3703
@kiyahforrest3703 6 жыл бұрын
Ever?
@teemutaponen9239
@teemutaponen9239 6 жыл бұрын
EVER!
@TeKeyaKrystal
@TeKeyaKrystal 5 жыл бұрын
that's quite the hyperbole
@michofalltrades
@michofalltrades 4 жыл бұрын
WHO ELSE IS WATCHING THIS IN 2020? This is so timely
@DS-ASMR-DS
@DS-ASMR-DS 4 жыл бұрын
For school and this is helping with life damn.
@debbiethompson14
@debbiethompson14 4 жыл бұрын
Me tooooooo! I am always changing.
@WINA.photo.971
@WINA.photo.971 4 жыл бұрын
I do watching this @michofalltrades.
@threequotesthursday5657
@threequotesthursday5657 4 жыл бұрын
Actually found this after searching for my latest video to see where it was in search! Awesome find and great message in this video. Very inspiring.
@ninnikins4768
@ninnikins4768 4 жыл бұрын
YES
@Jai.159
@Jai.159 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who's always concerned what other people think, her words were really empowering, I aspire to be her. To be like her is like a paradox, give zero fqs to opinions, but care so much on other's needs
@sarahbella458
@sarahbella458 6 жыл бұрын
She just articulated everything I feel! I’m a Capricorn too! Although when she jumped out of the plane my heart went into my stomach. I’m not there yet.
@2003mandiman
@2003mandiman 5 жыл бұрын
Your stand out word being "yet"!! 😏
@katielarsen2630
@katielarsen2630 3 жыл бұрын
I'm less scared of jumping out of a plane than I am of confrontation 😅
@supergirliex123x
@supergirliex123x 6 жыл бұрын
what a smart, witty and funny woman! Thanks for giving me some inspo
@worshiplibrary7157
@worshiplibrary7157 Жыл бұрын
To anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you're constantly stressing about gets better.May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and doubt exit your mind right now. Clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life!In Jesus Precious Name,Amen
@myelreynolds8225
@myelreynolds8225 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@feliciaogunnowo
@feliciaogunnowo Жыл бұрын
Amen in Jesus name! Bless you! 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
@micah4853
@micah4853 Жыл бұрын
@michaelmedeiros2089
@michaelmedeiros2089 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for kindness.
@liberianbeauti3529
@liberianbeauti3529 3 жыл бұрын
‘’People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are.’’ Love it!
@TrishEmpire042
@TrishEmpire042 7 ай бұрын
Just stumbled on this in 2024...very timely and fresh 1/04/24
@Hakasedess
@Hakasedess 6 жыл бұрын
This is a great talk, and I encourage everyone to 'be the domino' as she puts it. I would however also encourage everyone reading this to investigate yourselves. It is very easy for those in a privileged position to not investigate our own beliefs and values, what we advocate, believing we already know it all. I know this from my own experience. I held racist beliefs, yet I didn't see them as racist. I held sexist beliefs, and I did not see these as sexist either. It is difficult to confront your own bigotry, it isn't something immediately clear because it is covered by a veil of "That's just how it is". What ripped me out of this mindset was listening to others. Women, black people, trans people speaking up about the various harmful power dynamics they face.
@Kaminegg
@Kaminegg 6 жыл бұрын
Hakasedess All of our beliefs are difficult to purge. They make us do all kinds of things we don't want, skipping work or cheating on diets. Racist or sexist non-sequitirs need not be placed in a special category. Instead, the more that we see ourselves as believing any unnecessary nonsense and purging those beliefs, the more we can purge them all.
@Hakasedess
@Hakasedess 6 жыл бұрын
Indeed. Bigoted views are in a particular spot because the overwhelming majority of us do not want to admit we hold them to begin with. Most racist views are not regarded as such by the people holding them. It's important to be open to the idea that one could be racist, but unaware.
@Kaminegg
@Kaminegg 6 жыл бұрын
Hakasedess It is useful, even necessary, but need not be the first domino! Just knowing that what we know is probably wrong... As Lao Tsu said, "Darkness within darkness, the gateway to all wisdom." Socrates also said to assume that you know less than you believe you do.
@goddessintriptych7046
@goddessintriptych7046 6 жыл бұрын
I disagree. I've always been right about everything, so why should I bother seeking out others' opinions? Seems like a waste of time if you ask me.
@Nimuel
@Nimuel 5 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a bigot, I'm sorry to say. Someone being honest and true with themselves would, had they truly been enlightened, come from a place of understanding, not condemnation. A truthseeker seeks understanding first, the brave will speak with this understanding to test it. Truth sets you free, not conformity.
@brittneyshawnee
@brittneyshawnee 5 жыл бұрын
I needed this today! "Comfort is over-rated."
@UMVONLINE
@UMVONLINE 5 жыл бұрын
"My silences had not protected me. Your silence will not protect you. But for every real word spoken, for every attempt I had ever made to speak those truths for which I am still seeking, I had made contact with other women while we examined the words to fit a world in which we all believed, bridging our differences." - Audre Lorde
@malloryshepard1441
@malloryshepard1441 Жыл бұрын
Almost 3 years later from when I first discovered this TED talk & I am still moved by Miss Jones. You are so inspiring and I truly admire your honesty and grace. This is so great! 💗💐
@Iamkita.b
@Iamkita.b 4 жыл бұрын
“People in systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are” #powerful
@SimplisticallyDigital
@SimplisticallyDigital 6 жыл бұрын
I met her several times! We hung out at a conference or two. She is a cool person! This was a great Ted Talk on Fear! Good to see her on this platform!
@firesign4297
@firesign4297 5 жыл бұрын
😊😊😊
@Kaithelightworker
@Kaithelightworker 6 жыл бұрын
Yoooo why is she TALKING TO ME?! 😩😩😩 She is beautiful btw 😍🙏🏽
@loveyoubetrue111
@loveyoubetrue111 6 жыл бұрын
ME 2 SIS..
@jaymcee88
@jaymcee88 6 жыл бұрын
Hellooo!! She is talking to me as well! and yes she and those cheek bones are everything!!!
@CGABOR
@CGABOR 6 жыл бұрын
SlowClass Kai ISN'T SHE?! I FELL OUT. I FELL OUT. 😂😂😂😂❤️❤️😍😍😍
@slmay3484
@slmay3484 6 жыл бұрын
Yes she is! (to both your question and your statement) Do what you gotta do queen!
@Olasumbo888
@Olasumbo888 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful dark skin sister with a powerful mind.
@naturalQueeP
@naturalQueeP 6 жыл бұрын
I just had a dream about people that I went to school with who are doing great things in the world, and a Ted Talk with Luvie pops up on my phone. I'm so proud of Luvie...my fellow Illini.
@viviannwachukwu9467
@viviannwachukwu9467 3 жыл бұрын
I mean this is about one of the most powerful talk I have ever listened to here on KZbin and I am glad I did. It takes a lot to be Nigerian and take a stand in a public place. And yes, capricons rock! That thing of always wanting our feet on the ground? So true! Thank you for the inspiration, sis.
@valerievalle5207
@valerievalle5207 2 жыл бұрын
I cried hearing this. I get so much backlash for my words cuz I speak out. This encourages me to know that just cuz there is backlash, doesn't make what I did wrong.
@adrianborden1546
@adrianborden1546 5 жыл бұрын
Silence keeps us where we are.
@adamjobs
@adamjobs 8 ай бұрын
Fenekedés
@lanaryback598
@lanaryback598 5 жыл бұрын
My mother always said "A closed mouth don't get fed"😁
@ninnikins4768
@ninnikins4768 4 жыл бұрын
DANGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG
@zehrabek5323
@zehrabek5323 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@aperture0
@aperture0 4 жыл бұрын
Well said! 🔥🔥
@theradiatorisonfire7768
@theradiatorisonfire7768 3 жыл бұрын
Fine mother I will starve my self to death does that seem better for you?
@itsthesaint
@itsthesaint 3 жыл бұрын
the squeaky wheel gets the oil
@jennyp6244
@jennyp6244 5 жыл бұрын
"Being yourself can be a revolutionary act." Love. It.
@christinawong5183
@christinawong5183 4 жыл бұрын
“In a world that wants us to whisper I choose to yell” ❤️
@betterblackman9118
@betterblackman9118 2 жыл бұрын
Seeing this right at this moment is everything to me.
@dianaded1010
@dianaded1010 5 жыл бұрын
"And for some reason I was wearing business casual." LOLOLOL! So funny and motivational. Strong ladies put your hands up! 👏👏👏👏
@WouldntULikeToKnow.
@WouldntULikeToKnow. 4 жыл бұрын
@Yang Xiao business casual is clothing you wear to an office with a slightly casual atmosphere. Think button down shirts and khaki trousers. It's not very good for outdoor activities!
@Thinkem29
@Thinkem29 6 жыл бұрын
6:05 -> "I believe in Shea butter as a core value." This statement alone deserves a 👍🏾 Congrats Luvvie👏🏿👏🏿
@codegirl2069
@codegirl2069 4 жыл бұрын
She is brilliant. 😀😁
@LearnTwiwithEfiaBAE
@LearnTwiwithEfiaBAE 6 жыл бұрын
"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly were we are."💯 "...being yourself can be a revolutionary act."💯
@PortraitofAsha
@PortraitofAsha 4 жыл бұрын
"People and systems count on our silence to keep us exactly where we are"
@unnderneath
@unnderneath 3 жыл бұрын
This is definitely one of my favourite TED talks! She has such a presence I stopped doing what I was doing and immediately gave all my attention to this video. It even made me cry a little. Amazing.
@ialiarivololosoajeannestel166
@ialiarivololosoajeannestel166 5 жыл бұрын
the BEST TED ever, thank you very much for this ... 1- did you mean it 2- can you defend it 3- did you say it with love. "Perfect" ...
@coochchili217
@coochchili217 5 жыл бұрын
She had me at "Professional Troublemaker"
@jimmiejackson4366
@jimmiejackson4366 3 жыл бұрын
Me to loving it a😍♥️🙏 Professional Troublemaker
@marlamcdonald3038
@marlamcdonald3038 6 жыл бұрын
I feel like she took the words right out of my mouth. It's awesome how when you feel something and meditate on it people and circumstances fall right in place like a path. She is inspirational and I am motivated to continue to be me because of beautiful souls like her.
@sandrapatriciaoriguarios4589
@sandrapatriciaoriguarios4589 2 жыл бұрын
This is so encouraging! I'm going through a situation where I've had to speak up for myself and make my rights respected. It's been uncomfortable all the way, but I'm not afraid of the consequences!
@ikpaul9524
@ikpaul9524 Жыл бұрын
👍
@maheawu7943
@maheawu7943 4 жыл бұрын
Her energy is beautiful
@melaniec171
@melaniec171 6 жыл бұрын
I needed this on this day at this moment so thanks
@echakamonjok
@echakamonjok 6 жыл бұрын
Why did it take me soooo long to watch this? ❤️❤️❤️ Yes to all she said!! She’s gorgeous! 😍
@ovo5491
@ovo5491 5 жыл бұрын
I wondered the same today
@bravenuworld9215
@bravenuworld9215 5 жыл бұрын
She's phenomenally strong ♡♡♡
@madeinaotearoanz
@madeinaotearoanz 5 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful in every sense of the word!!
@kinkykoils6176
@kinkykoils6176 5 жыл бұрын
Right..🤣🤣 This has been recommended to me so many times but i guess i was ready to listen today.
@secondopinion53
@secondopinion53 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@sonyagray4261
@sonyagray4261 4 жыл бұрын
This woman is me, and I am her. Same experiences, and she has done something that I have wanted to do, yet I put it off for 4 year's. I have since decided that this is the year. I love it! Congrats sister! Keep up the phenomenal work! I salute you!
@legrandcardinal4909
@legrandcardinal4909 3 жыл бұрын
Was it the year?
@adorafaye5886
@adorafaye5886 Жыл бұрын
I saw myself in some of her speech: what others are thinking in their heads, I'm saying it out loud. I used to be afraid of that but now, I feel great about being my authentic self. Thank you for the strength!
@sharonericson4125
@sharonericson4125 3 жыл бұрын
In an often "don't stand out" world and having a drive for justice and truth, I will listen to this consistently for the strength of solidarity. Thank you for your courage to speak. You've helped many more on their paths to do the same, I'm sure of this, because you've done it for me!
@celia-daxin4882
@celia-daxin4882 Жыл бұрын
“My silence serves no one.”
@catinamasoned.d.6498
@catinamasoned.d.6498 6 жыл бұрын
I am inspired. This is me, I was tired of the consequences of being the voice that no one else wants to be. Thank you for the reminder to continue my purpose.
@kandyce2311
@kandyce2311 3 жыл бұрын
The synchronicities that parallel my own life listed in this video are amazing. Chemistry was the first class in my whole life where I failed an exam. It is also the reason I switched from a pre-med degree. I am terrified of taking a vacation by myself, putting my writing out there for others to judge, and public speaking. I love sky diving and dolphins! I am also a Capricorn. My take away- the universe wants me to start doing the things that make me uncomfortable! Thank you for this amazing video!
@tsmallhorton7209
@tsmallhorton7209 2 жыл бұрын
I applaud her authenticity and the courage to share it with the world!
@quadsandcarbs
@quadsandcarbs 4 жыл бұрын
Just watched this on my lunch break and wow...just wow. A short, but very powerful and insightful talk by the magnificent Luvvie. Silence is compliance. Don't just be a voice for yourself; be a voice for others.
@gabriel13dast
@gabriel13dast 6 жыл бұрын
That was good, I also like her style
@shearerslegs
@shearerslegs 6 жыл бұрын
I love her, I have so much fear I take medication and it’s been a mental health issue for my whole life, to choose to feel that blows my mind.
@tifftyme6657
@tifftyme6657 5 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite TED talk
@a.turgeon3019
@a.turgeon3019 Жыл бұрын
ok, now I need to buy this book. She is just so amazing!
@ojasvimehra20
@ojasvimehra20 2 жыл бұрын
Watching and listening to someone who faced fear directly and intentionally really makes me feel at ease like there's someone and many out there who are living life up and not just be scared within their comfort zone and actually let themselves free from this boundaries we create ourselves, I think it's beautiful, like it's ok to feel fear and keep going anyway and it'll turn out alright in the end . Thankyou so much.
@TheAmalys30
@TheAmalys30 6 жыл бұрын
Love this talk...silence is too dangerous... be the first domino
@aliabrahim315
@aliabrahim315 6 жыл бұрын
Wow! she is Amusing, About positive people, good moral fun, psychological comfort Happiness from the heart of dignity Personality, and interactions with people towards positive
@Srishhdutt
@Srishhdutt 6 жыл бұрын
Also you can look up to some amazing talks on TED here its like I would recommend these too yourdailywire.com/11-most-inspiring-ted-talks-youtube-videos/
@mrssaunders2
@mrssaunders2 6 жыл бұрын
She is one of my favorite people! She is so inspiring, motivating and real!
@vulturemode3464
@vulturemode3464 23 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this online. This was a blessing to get this information.
@juanfelipearango6282
@juanfelipearango6282 2 жыл бұрын
What an incredible speech. Love it! "Being yourself can be a revolutionary act"
@JordanPeterson-ly2kc
@JordanPeterson-ly2kc Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful, powerful, and inspiring. "People count on our silence to keep us where we are." I feel like this can be said for many of the companies I have worked for and work at now. Unless you stand up and push for the respect you will be walked all over. Thank you for this TED Talk and I will be purchasing your book in the very near future!
@prapurnamegha7086
@prapurnamegha7086 Жыл бұрын
“In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell”.❤ This hits hard ... A talk that always resonates.
@Mattman828
@Mattman828 5 жыл бұрын
“Being yourself can be a revolutionary act.” 💯😍💯
@PapaLens
@PapaLens 7 ай бұрын
Be yourself all the time, no need to hide from others. Just be who you are!
@monicachawla2838
@monicachawla2838 2 жыл бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes. She is such an inspiration
@rd4446
@rd4446 2 жыл бұрын
Brilliant.. you go girl… her entire speech can turn into bunch of t shirt quotes that the world needs tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️
@natasherwhitty6920
@natasherwhitty6920 4 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! ...at 49yrs old I really needed this Word of Truth, Tears! It's never too late
@ailaniperez6083
@ailaniperez6083 3 жыл бұрын
I pray for my daughters to love themselves and be so comfortable to speak up about what they are passionate about, and making a difference. This is a message I will not hesitate to share with my girls. You could not have said it any better. This video was inspiring, encouraging, challenging, and helpful. Thank you for not keeping quite, shutting out fear and choosing to make a difference. Blessings to you. - Jovanna Heaston
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381
@prolificprofoundpoetry5381 Жыл бұрын
I learned that when speaking your truth, speak it with love not out of fear because you need help or support. Understand your own intentions and where you’re operating from (what emotion led you) when you deliver it.
3 жыл бұрын
I love this as a Capricorn too, I feel our love for being on the solid ground literally and metaphorically helps us be uncomfortable for the greater good.
@mokshasanctuary
@mokshasanctuary 6 жыл бұрын
"In a world that wants us to whisper, I choose to yell." Girl power!
@BeeNaaa5
@BeeNaaa5 6 жыл бұрын
Super inspirational! Love her energy!
@Srishhdutt
@Srishhdutt 6 жыл бұрын
Also you can look up to some amazing talks on TED here its like I would recommend these too yourdailywire.com/11-most-inspiring-ted-talks-youtube-videos/
@blessed7015
@blessed7015 5 жыл бұрын
This is one to save and replay!
@malikgaruba4079
@malikgaruba4079 4 ай бұрын
her delivery is just awesome and the information is insightful ... thanks
@innocentthlathla5464
@innocentthlathla5464 2 жыл бұрын
I can always come to this video whenever I lose my sense of self. I thoroughly enjoyed it
@mawescott
@mawescott 6 жыл бұрын
PowerFull Speak truths of power. I prefer "Be A Professional GoodMaker" Being the Domimoe comes down to being exactly who you are. Being yourself can be a revolutionary act. Checkpoints with yourself: 1. Did you mean it? 2. Can you defend it? 3. Did you say it with love? If your answer is yes to all three - speak ☆
@ahttacca
@ahttacca 5 жыл бұрын
Enough said, her charisma had me with no words before I played the video. I can't believe I actually had good multiple laughs while watching a TED Talk video. I will try my best to keep coming back to this 'lecture' (if you will) to lighten up my mood as it's lightened up now to avoid too much anxiety, fears and preoccupations in my last year at school. Thank you very much!
@abiglad
@abiglad 2 жыл бұрын
I watched this like 2 years ago, but it is only now that I definitely understand the full meaning behind her words. I will not stay silent anymore.
@nenemoko466
@nenemoko466 4 жыл бұрын
why is she literally stunning. the best type of woman; fearless, inspiring, advocating, and bold!!!
@heketerangitemaipi5194
@heketerangitemaipi5194 4 жыл бұрын
2 years later and the first time i've seen this and 1. Your a whole vibe, 2. You are talking to me and 3. Thank you
@deysezamenhof2739
@deysezamenhof2739 3 жыл бұрын
This TED Talks is amazing! I love it when she says "Being yourself can be a revolutionary act" because it's so powerful. My silence serves no one. Thanks Luvvie
@jowhipp6382
@jowhipp6382 3 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite all times speech!!! Love it! I am with you Luvvie! Thank you.
@JustChiVlog
@JustChiVlog 6 жыл бұрын
Nigeria we don't come last. halleluya.. I love this woman. I will get there in Jesus Christ name. Amen.
@apotieriayansola
@apotieriayansola 5 жыл бұрын
Amen
@fmiller36
@fmiller36 5 жыл бұрын
Nigeria's a shithole. Of course it comes last lmao!
@CHICLAWS
@CHICLAWS 5 жыл бұрын
F Miller u know that’s not true but ok
@fmiller36
@fmiller36 5 жыл бұрын
@@CHICLAWS No white man comes to Nigeria due to how gross and unstable the country is. They always prefer Ghana, Senegal, Liberia and Sierra Leone instead. Those of the 4 pillars of the Anglophone West African world. Nigeria is a shithole with too many tribes and too many selfish idiots. Even black South Africans look down on you guys. lmao!
@NA-gc2nc
@NA-gc2nc 5 жыл бұрын
F Miller but the white man came and colonized Nigeria and your talking about how the white man dosen’t like us😂😂 y’all created the tribal division. There was no such things as african countries and borders until the white man show up😂 Britain LOVES nigeria😂 Y’all try and control us for our oil😂 y’all are still colonizing nigeria and all of Africa and wont leave them alone
@typicallytalya
@typicallytalya 3 ай бұрын
You can hear early on in her talk it was an anxiety airy breathing pause but then few seconds later it went away …love it ❤
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