Stop Sabotaging Yourself | Debi Silber | TEDxFultonStreet

Leading health, mindset and lifestyle coach shares insights about how we become liberated when the pain of where we are exceeds the fear of the unknown. She discusses how we get in the way of our own efforts to improve our health, careers, romances, and other priorities - and shows how adopting a childlike openness can start the virtuous cycle of improvement.
Debi Silber MS, RD, WHC, FDN, CEO of Lifestyle Fitness, Inc. and founder of www.DebiSilber.com is a recognized health, mindset and personal development expert. She’s a speaker, consultant and author of the Amazon #1 bestselling book: The Unshakable Woman: 4 Steps to Rebuilding Your Body, Mind and Life After a Life Crisis, as well as 2 other books recommended by Brian Tracy, Marshall Goldsmith, Jack Canfield and many more. Debi's led countless others to achieve their ultimate body, mind, image and lifestyle; inspiring them to transform into their personal and professional best.
In addition to being a highly credentialed and awarded health expert, Debi has her own line of deliciously healthy nutrition bars and shakes, has also contributed to FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz show, The Huffington Post, Shape, Self, Health, Working Mother, Forbes, Psychology Today, WebMD, Yahoo Shine, Ladies Home Journal, MSN, Woman's World and Glamour to name a few. She regularly speaks at association meetings, corporate events, conferences, Universities and women’s leadership retreats, offering simple solutions that create lasting change physically, emotionally and psychologically.
Debi Silber is THE secret behind some of the healthiest, most influential, charismatic and successful professionals today.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@Somewherreonearth]

“That moment where the pain of where you are becomes greater than the fear of the unknown”

[@nellyb.9340]

Exactly, and that’s when you realise that it’s time to drop Excess Baggage because you have realised that the only baggage you really need is self-love because only you know and can carry that baggage as it should be.

[@dylanholmes5411]

There’s a direct quote from the Narcotics Anonymous (12 step) Blue Book that goes as follows: “When the pain of remaining the same outweighs the fear of change, we will surely let go” *Disclaimer* I am not a member of any 12 step program

[@themakingofLatoya]

Whew

[@missjohnsonftj]

✅✅✅

[@rachelwong3474]

🥹

[@suncraft18]

Wow, I absolutely love this!! Great work!

[@emilystanzione925]

Thank you for this! I needed it

[@TaraWagner]

So much helpful insight! Couldn't have said it anyyyy better myself!

[@youwantthisfire]

Letting go!

[@XD-ci6jl]

Amazing talk.

[@niyatikhandelwal7017]

Thank you so much!

[@IntentionalityMentor]

”The risk/fear is great, but the reward/faith is greater."

[@livlove8142]

I love change so for me it's something else

[@DanielSquires]

*You self sabotage as a result of your self image.* Your self image is like the thermostat of your results. keeping your results the same on average, be that your body weight, hygiene, income, health etc. when you make a change at the identity level, it is much easier to take new, better actions consistently

[@lucy111]

Sounds like the Psycho Cybernetics book.

[@hanihatoum2614]

Thank you

[@GraceJones1]

It's so sad how many ppl self sabotage themselves. I firmly believe, if ppl were more educated towards the power of the human mind and their true potential, we would be living in a whole different world.

[@fitnfab6522]

Kyung Jones most people understand the power of the mind, but some people need a mental boost. it is not easy for some to just get up and go. those who are mentally strong say what you said, but little do you know that some people are deep in their habits, lowest, and isn't simple to get up and go. They need help. Those who lecture like this speaker, need to realize and deeply understand what those who feel stuck are truly mentally experiencing. I find it ignorant for someone to lecture without feeling what others experience deeply. Easier to lecture, but let's help others to a deeper core.

[@Jo71603]

Hi Kyung!

[@Dmgolfer22]

+Fit n Fab she speaks from experience.

[@daynamcmullan5822]

Fit n Fab. This lecturer’s life work is doing just that.

[@moneybuilden]

Kyung Jones ❤️❤️💯💯💯💯

[@virginia_in_the_rearview]

Your words are my new mantra....."The risk is great, but the reward is greater!"Thank you for giving me that extra push I needed.

[@ompabaletserametse8643]

How are you doing today?

[@kellieknight2552]

I like that Mantra !!

[@fuckyoumakeart6672]

I hope you failed

[@thecowboy9698]

I think the reason why life has become so complicated, is because of how fast paced everything has become. With everything is fast paced, people can't slow down and think. They can't slow down and evaluate.

[@castleberries]

Very true! 😔

[@herkko1960]

Yeah, I wish I was born in the 1900s and be a soldier in war instead of being on a device and being lazy, I know life is good now, but technology has ruined humanity's tradition.

[@sumo8279]

They've gotten themselves in debt.

[@BLESSTREASURE]

Soooooooo True

[@jack8752]

well thats why im happy its 2020 and the world is on hold

[@goldenageenthusiast]

One of my favorite quotes “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” ― Anais Nin

[@twashpee5110]

I totally agree. Like when my ex friends would make fun of me for reading self help books...I knew I had to cut em off, before i self sabotage to thinking developing myself was lame. I am lonely 😂😂😂 totally worth it! Damn! Her arms are ripped AF

[@DebiSilber]

Hi T, I know it's hard to outgrow friends but I'm sure you're seeing that while it's challenging, you're allowing new, like-minded inspiring friends to flow in. Good for you!

[@Y0shiart2]

Do you want to do! :3

[@sacurine]

I didn't know how much this applied to my life until I watched it. This is exactly what I needed.

[@jayjayhayat5871]

This is exactly what I was beating myself up about at 4am and guess what...it appears on my recoms. So grateful

[@BLESSTREASURE]

Me too so True

[@swanne.9]

Same

[@johnnni76]

Okay you recognized what self sabotaging is! Bravo! Where are the methods to stop these thoughts! I don’t understand why people post things with no answers! It’s like saying stop smoking because it cancerous, bad for your teeth, bad for your health! News flash they know it’s bad for them but they still smoke! That’s not an answer! An answer would be mediate or whatever! But in order to be up there at a ted talk, please use answers to the questions

[@natalia-uu6hu]

The thing is that everyone needs something different depending on their particular problem, I think she did a great job making people recognize their problems and probably inspired many people to change for the better. In psychology you can't just tell the patient what to do, they have to think of it themselves with your help and they have to be the ones that decide to do it.

[@carmiezaya9849]

I agree completely.

[@PleaseEnterA.Name.]

Who else kept looking at her arms? 😭 I got distracted.

[@readynowforever3676]

I would hope that she practiced what she preached.

[@shuleyamaisha]

😂😂😂😂

[@naram8282]

😂🤣 I put my phone face down so I can comprehend what she's saying not get distracted from her toned arms lol

[@weepingwillow-ud6xl]

I kept looking at the strange circular object to our left, it seemed to be covered up with a heavily patterned cloth. I happened to notice there were a lot of clocks in circular pattern. I kept thinking is this part of the lady's talk? But NO it seemed that was not the case. This was my distraction.

[@gct1913]

Awesome biceps!

[@daynamcmullan5822]

This TALK spoke to every situation in my life now. I need to kick sabotage to the curb! Thank you. I’m going to order your book today too. Losing my remote control was the jumpstart from just surviving to thriving.

[@virginiataylor2850]

I've been sabotaging myself, & not able to get a handle on it. Thank you! That's it! I understand why now. It's the pain of change, fear. It's the status quo, the comfort zone. It's the fear of pain. Thank you for giving me a clue! There's a reason, or pay off for everything we do or don't do.

[@tashaislosingweight1068]

This is sooo much.. for years and years and years I have self sabatoged..... even walked to the edge, ready to jump, but i didnt... it took my bestfriend dying last year, for me to jump. i am filled with guilt, and regret, and fear.. but I jumped .. and im jumping.. pray for me please.. I have a l ot of weight to get off ... but im going to do it...

[@sickid41]

If you want to talk you can reply to my messages. How have you been been.

[@angelassembeguya5061]

tasha IsLosingWeight Don’t worry stay strong keep your head high, you can do this, you can change your thoughts and be great. God bless 😘

[@ananascarpenter]

You can do it Tasha!

[@sunitgogoi]

Sister do some yoga, gratitude and medication........

[@lazerarrow3680]

I wish you well do not stop

[@julielampe4987]

This is basically what it is like to be transgender. You spend your life....most all of it once you reach an age of understanding...say 5 or so yrs old....knowing who you really are. But that change, that reveal would be hard and the longer you wait to do it and the more life entanglements you get / aquire it becomes nearly life threatening to change. But, we reach that point, at whatever age, that not changing becomes unbearable. So we come out to an entirely new life.

[@DebiSilber]

Julie-I admire your strength, thanks for sharing.

[@sheeranlover4224]

I’m 23 letting past demons and current insecurities do just this, I needed to hear this and just in time

[@PaperRaines]

I wish I could Love this video on this platform. Change=Loss...... your new life is going to cost you your old one. Man, great talk

[@tremmelrichardson9759]

Eduardo perfectly said👌🏽

[@munroeanthony4004]

@@tremmelrichardson9759 peace

[@jonathanperkins4154]

LMAO all she did was describe self sabotage… she offered no advice or ideas of how to overcome it. I’m like yeah story of my life but HOW do I stop doing that to myself practically!!!

[@matthewmartin784]

Absolutely perfect. Exactly what I needed at this moment. Truly an amazing Ted talk. Thank you!

[@danl1519]

Matthew Martin pus

[@chandrikaiyer6514]

Thank you. So inspiring.🙏

[@alancohen1935]

I strongly second that emotion!

[@uluvnic]

This didn't tell me HOW to stop sabotaging.

[@amaterasugokamekkyaku579]

lol for realz... when it ended I was like. Aww maan

[@olaa6161]

@yadadoo1234 yo'll When you got like an _advanced??_ self sabotage behavior, you can acknowledge you have it, but it's more stressful because you know what should be doing but aren't doing anything.

[@thebetbetunderground9548]

Truly impactful. Other than just commenting something useless like "I think I know her from some hair metal band", I actually had something to express. She speaks with intensity, she persuades truthfully and her message is loud, direct and on-point. If she doesn't end up really changing my life or doing anything significant to me, at least she was able to give me a brief feeling of belief in myself that I can still do something about my life, which is actually not a trivial thing in my context. Just to have a little sign of life in me is good enough for me, for now.

[@purityrefinedbyfire]

Caverman Yes! To feel that aliveness is not so far away. Is exciting and I really felt your comment thank you!😉

[@weepingwillow-ud6xl]

I believe you should have said heavy metal as apposed to 'hair metal band' as you put. That's what the three dots on the right-hand side are for to edit after posting.

[@RyRobio]

"It's your message how can anyone hear if you're staying still" I felt that

[@SuperGorak]

Still brings pain to me know that if I ever start seeking self-fulfillment, I will start making a lot of people in my life feel really inadequate and insecure. To them it's ridiculous that you don't settle for just good enough. I feel really guilty and sad whenever I start feeling good about myself, so I do things that make me feel sometimes bad but mostly neutral about myself. But it used to be far worse, so there's improvement already.

[@JessicaRuiz323]

You better not stop. Life is all about growing.

[@wizzy1088]

Like i have been sabotaging myself for so long and I didn't even know it now i feel like i need to change myself and leave the old self who i am comfortable with and change myself altogether

[@ipnotikfromitaly5094]

Change can be very hard and scary, but it's worth it!

[@xxjia2387]

tears in my eyes. I need to hear this so much!!

[@nathanramos6685]

"The risks are great but the rewards are even better" awesome quote from an amazing speaker

[@JessicaG1971]

I came here to find out HOW to stop sabotaging myself. This did nothing.

[@amyfleming4758]

I don’t comment ever. I just had to say that this was amazing. “When the pain of where you are becomes greater than the unknown”. It took me until today to realise that there is nothing wrong with me, I was just self-sabotaging. I’ve recently dropped out of uni and I’m scared to tell anyone. Instead I’ve started to create a blog diary. It’s early days still but so far 😊it’s the only thing in years that has sparked any interest and joy in me. So thank you

[@manuelmanuel3968]

Hello mate how's the blog going for you.

[@skirti44]

I love what i am becoming :)

[@camryn5830]

Truly inspiring, one of my favorite TEDx's of all time.

[@dulpurp]

Seriously.... "stop sabotaging yourself" starts with the sad story of a CEO, top in her field? Um.... that person isn't sabotaging themselves. Any problem she is having after being at that level is nothing compared to the person who can't put together enough gainful employment to pay the rent. Oh, did she wake up feeling empty? Not as empty as my gas tank.... do I pay for groceries or fill up the tank or go further into debt? These are real problems. Maybe it's just that the only people who watch Ted talks are privileged superstars who just want to learn and have a little bit more? I digress....

[@lillypooh83]

Change is exactly what I'm facing, currently in my life. I sabotaged myself so much in the past that I just can't do it anymore. "Headed to the top so, that I can get a better view". -Saweetie

[@ptulip]

I don't people realize what's a bad decision. Bad habits, same ole same ole. Listening to Ted talks help I think, makes people think about choices.

[@ethicalphytophage]

Damn she is fit! Also, great talk!

[@iness6838]

personally I Self Sabotage myself by taking on too much work unrelated to the end goal

[@brunettecinderella8208]

I have less than 2 weeks to be out my apartment and I’m so tempted to leave rn but I’m terrified 😭

[@SabineFonderson]

I agree that by stopping doing things that are good for your mind and body you go back into the world of sabotage I used to go to the gym, eat healthy and since I stopped I can pinpoint the day that it made me lose focus in myself, my work and my reality I’m saying everyday I will go back to the gym and eat healthy again...

[@mattpassos5689]

DO IT SABINE I BELIEVE IN YOU

[@debbiewilley9428]

Bingo! Wish I had heard this 30-40 years ago. Great information.

[@yolandayoung6519]

I LOVE YOUR ARMS!!!!!!!!!

[@Corrans]

Yes, my thoughts exactly!!!!!

[@Jo71603]

Hi Yolanda!

[@platinum10000]

hey, thanks a lot!

[@jeffrey64]

So does she, she's worked hard for them!

[@xmantoo7699]

And i love u too

[@clintonmoyah7086]

I feel scared of change Being in my comfort zone is my safety net Being miserable is the downfall Every time I step out of my comfort zone their is always opposition that has cause and effect that leads to overthinking I'm sick of being tired of being sick of tired.

[@poloska9471]

Stop trying, start enjoying. Who cares what you achieve in life if the result is inevitable death and in 1000 years your existence won’t even exist and in spacetime the entire planet is utterly irrelevant (and that is said by me in an optimistic tone, not pessimistic or negative)? You have one life: do what you’ve always dreamed of for the sake of doing something at all and if those dreams don’t get you off of the couch then they must be lousy dreams or you simply need to let go and let breathe for long enough to regain a sense of desire to get off the couch. If you don’t want to do something then just lay there and stare at the ceiling until you get bored and do something… Just remember that when it comes to success, it is utterly inevitable so long as you simply keep plucking away at whatever it is that you set out to achieve and never quit regardless of how challenging or long it takes. Furthermore, you don’t even need to exit the comfort zone… you’re already uncomfortable… you’re already tried exiting the comfort zone and it leads you back into the discomfort zone which leads you back into the comfort zone and on and on it goes back and forth… so just learn to bob-and-weave with the roller coaster… focus on making your rock bottom higher (raise your standards rather than your goals, so when you achieve something new, you don’t go crashing all the way back down to zero… instead, you crash back down to 0.01, then 0.015, then 0.02, and so on… that will literally lead you to success in any endeavor. You don’t need to squeeze every single last drop of energy out of yourself to do this stuff. Success is easy... who said it is supposed to be hard? Other people? Screw what they exist for altogether, let alone what they think or do… you are the master of your own existence… your reality is your own to bare. Do absolutely anything you want with it so long as it makes for a worthwhile life in the first place… how sad would it be to lay on a deathbed and think “gee well that sucks… I missed my entire life because I was so obsessed with being something that I never got to experience anything with my heart and soul, I just kept pushing myself around and in the end here I am, in a deathbed”. The single only thing that separates every successful individual from every unsuccessful individual is that the successful person committed themselves so utterly to their endeavor that no amount of resistance forced them to give up and quit. They simply stuck around and simply showed up for long enough to manifest that which everyone else gave up on. So do you think of yourself as someone who can brush their teeth for their entire life? You’re successful at brushing your teeth, taking a shower, or changing your clothes… therefore you can do anything else if you can commit to it in a similar way… no mind tricks needed. Just simple good ol boring rinse and repeat over a long time. Accept that you already have everything you ever wanted… it’s just waiting for you a few year-meters ahead.

[@poloska9471]

See this reply, it’s important

[@clintonmoyah7086]

@poloska9471 Thank you, and I appreciate you I needed your sound wisdom to nudge me to life half full.insread, not half empty I believe the lesson here is to allow life to overflow and enjoy life 😉

[@poloska9471]

@@clintonmoyah7086 anytime! Glad it helped! I guess the best advice I could give is to just roll with the punches… your problems won’t. If you feel a lot of negative energy (the feeling of heaviness inside, lack of freedom, lack of light, lack of motivation, depression, etc) one of the very best ways to find change is to focus on the spirit, and that really is a thing… it takes time to cultivate but my god is it powerful once it gets going. Not religion but one’s connection to consciousness itself… remember when you were a kid and everything was wonder-ful? Find wonder in life again… when you do, everything else will effortlessly click. As for emotions, just say out loud 10 things for which you are grateful before bed every night… it will radically change how you see life.

[@caramelhuman7300]

The first 10sec I was like "oh I already love her" 😂

[@KrittinKalra]

Absolutely amazing! And truly an idea worth spreading. Thanks for inspiring all of us Debi :)

[@DavidBrown-dz9pi]

Ive tried to self destruct to the point of intentional death. All i was thinking about. Because i never released shame or guilt about past experiences and grief. I never have noticed my value until recently. I am 21 and was on my way to falling by my own hands. With drugs and alcohol. I have committed myself to a more positive aspects of life recently. Cause i realized i can make a change from the inside. Many trials ive had to face. And im still traumatized. I need to go free myself from this destructive behavior. Cause im breaking my own heart and also others :(

[@DebiSilber]

David-please get the support you need. You're a beautiful soul meant to learn and heal from your experiences.

[@Asteel94231]

Feel like if been moving through life with both hands tied behind my back. Tired of it I feel change coming.

[@reenspace1301]

Take a leap of faith and move in direction of well being ..Great talk

[@richardharris4256]

OK, she looks good and talks well, but for the life of me I can't tell you what the idea is that she thinks is worth spreading. An emotion is not an idea.

[@carmiezaya9849]

I agree. I watched it and yea its nice but now what

[@Ibthi_curls]

Can't stop looking at her guns!!

[@sabrinamartino849]

This video is grossly unviewed and underrated! Thank you for making me feel powerful and confident!

[@avitiaheights]

That covered figure on the left I thought was her final reveal 😏

[@mosesramirez6330]

Did she say anything practical in this talk at all? I listened to it twice and only heard inspirational fluff.

[@ohwhatworld5851]

She said that the reason why one could be self sabotaging is because we are afraid of something which is unfamiliar. So we retract back in to our old, unfulfilling but comfortable lives. If that does not resonate with you then I am guessing that that is not the reason why you are self sabotaging. You will need to look at others reasons. Maybe you feel like you don't deserve success or you are afraid of failure so you don't try?

[@TheSkinnyFairy]

She did say that why we are doing the self sabotage (the same thing everyone says on this topic), but didn't say anything about what to do to stop it. I just wasted my time listening to this talk # self sabotage

[@jonskunator]

Her main point is that you must recognize when you begin to sabotage yourself. This way, you are consciously controlling yourself and can stop yourself from going back to old ways. The example people all slipped back to old ways subconsciously.

[@MacaroniDad]

Spot on. She said nothing.

[@ditty88]

I think she's implying that we already know what we have to do to make ourselves happy. it's better than someone telling us what to do; it's making us aware of how and why we sabotage our own selves, and then letting us make out own decisions. that's what I got from it, at least.

[@KongLuvs]

She's impressive. One of very few "coaches" I've ever heard speak who I would actually consider paying to work with.

[@sumathybalaji5252]

Good talk. Eye opener

[@trainingxtrish]

KongLuvs why specifically? Just curious, for information sake.

[@tanyam2701]

Truly an idea worth spreading. Her level of clarity and understanding of the world is incredible.

[@halliexg]

off topic but she has noiiceee arms

[@Nwaina]

Made me cry

[@QueXLcior]

me too

[@katyarevenko9240]

Anima Nwaina same

[@magpieonline4801]

Something I'm learning...when you come to the path to change, take the path and don't talk about it. Simply do it. You can't be worried about the opinions of others if you don't confide in them. You can't self-sabotage if you're the only one who knows the path exists. Chase that inspiration and potential with abandon. I have literally come to the point where I only share my goals with a select few people and it's usually after I start changing. It's really starting to put me in a place where I feel like my potential is limitless because I'm not held back or sabotaging myself with the concerns for other people in my life. Their opinions don't matter. My transformation does.

[@iraamelia9526]

❤

[@alancohen1935]

One of the best and most relevant talks I've heard in a long time. What she said and who she seems to be is an inspiration to make the most of ourselves despite obstacles - including sabotaging ourselves.

[@barbarahernandez4166]

nice gunz

[@daminivalecha3140]

Nothing could have Helped me more than this! Grateful!!

[@matthewmoriarty8985]

fuck yeah!

[@doctornalini]

Brilliant, Compassionate and A Woman Who Walks Her Talk!

[@Dani-jo9yr]

Wonderful ☝️💯🥳so true 💕

[@boitumeloletsuma2406]

This lady is speaking to me!! Literally everything I have been going through and growing through over the past few months. I am even more certain now that I'm heading in the right direction. Thank you so much mam

[@Drew_Hurst]

Great to see a fitness instructor who is not onIy ripped but woke too 👍

[@trevorjensen2706]

This is me, right now.

[@souffled]

Unlike the other speakers, l have a feeling you didn't study psychology. Your basic message, move and you will get inspired? And you will be able to overcome self doubt and a life time of overwhelming negative emotions? Oh yeah baby, let's rock. Sure.

[@fitnfab6522]

most people understand the power of the mind, but some people need a mental boost. it is not easy for some to just get up and go. those who are mentally strong say what you said, but little do you know that some people are deep in their habits, lowest, and isn't simple to get up and go. They need help. Those who lecture like this speaker, need to realize and deeply understand what those who feel stuck are truly mentally experiencing. I find it ignorant for someone to lecture without feeling what others experience deeply. Easier to lecture, but let's help others to a deeper core.

[@DebiSilber]

Thanks for your feedback. Having been there and learning how to climb back up, I understand exactly where you're coming from. It's from that place that I'm sharing what I've learned with the intention of helping others do the same.

[@DebiSilber]

Thank you. I've been a coach for 26 years and I completely hear you about what those who are stuck are experiencing.

[@ManishKumar-gb7yf]

One of the best Tedx Talks I have ever listened to, especially when I needed it.

[@danae1326]

She left out one important thing: HOW? Tell us HOW to stop self sabotage.

[@klosdfesgopade1984]

The cuddly swan holoprosencephaly pray because coil chiefly mark with a neat geese. productive, grubby gruesome index

[@rachelsun3021]

I didn't realize that I need this, but I think I might have needed this

[@植树人工作室]

Ture hero isn't measured by the size of strength, but by the strength of hurt.

[@EDR-ih2fu]

Brillant! Clever and realistic...

[@DebiSilber]

Thanks so much!

[@traweler155]

I felt pushed a lot. Should agressive body language convince me to change? This lady thinks so (I guess - because she uses this so liberally). CPTSD is also rooted in agression, and that does not match. I felt not convinced at all, rather scared.

[@alexinatree2564]

So I'm at the stage where I know I've got to change but the thing I have to change is depression and forming good habits and persevering through the discomfort of it is so overwhelming that I just go back to my old habits.. not sure how to find the motivation that's necessary for change. Advice would be appreciated!

[@mike1967sam]

Hunny your train of thought is very vague and non-communicative, sorry but if anybody has to listen to people like you then they're already in big trouble.

[@richardchatfield5984]

Whos connection is intercepting my 📱 sabotaging yourself. Exposing your position this doesnt feel right.

[@tharpeaddy]

The title doesn’t do the video justice. This is the way I feel. This what my summer has been about.

[@Eimz4]

So leaving her husband and children is your definition of success? Instead of going with him to counseling? Junk

[@destroyermelody]

Keep sober you will be accountable for your mental health first. Keep Your freewill as human. What you are doing with your own conscious. I know we might hate our mindfulness. But believe me among everything else you will lose in your humanity.. you will miss your brain most!

[@NiharikaAcharya77]

Right Video!! At the Right Time!!! Absolutely Inspiring ❤

[@serge6886]

It’s a good speech. However, I was hoping it will inspire me. In my case, I don’t look for more. I know my potential. But for some reason, I’m not enabling it. Anymore

[@ashleyhands7717]

I know this probably seems a first world problem but my issue is with gaming. I've played video games for the past 15 years or so but these last few years I've realised they don't actually make me happy. I don't finish them but I'll buy every new release, even if they're completely broken and unplayable. I've played games literally everyday but I'm scared that if I don't play them then I'm just wasting time as I don't have other hobbies. I would like to lose a couple stone but I don't believe I can pull myself away from video games.

[@markhoeflinger1040]

a littel too fast, to be more effective slow down a little, dont rush, use some space between sentences, for effect and room for people to think - people have to be relaxed by the rhythm and relaxed speaker........and where was the answer to the sabatoge.....

[@DG123z]

Yeah, it's always easier to keep going when you're having success. It's when all your known is failure that it's hard to keep going.

[@msdixieblues]

Emotional eating is my own self sabotage. I eat repeatedly trying for the good feeling of those initial first few bites. Then I just overeat and make myself bloated, gain weight and get overall stomach pain.

[@stassy3117]

Omg

[@dmgsoultogetherness6667]

create a crisis....just to prove your own misguided self fulfilling prophecy

[@nphillips3349]

Love the message first. Also, those are some fantastic arms 😁. Ahem, excuse me while I find my free weights...

[@govindmishra6246]

I went from disliking the video in first 3 minutes to searching for any other work from the Author on google. The like at 6:05 shook the bejesus out of me

[@racheloh7031]

this should be getting more views

[@mohamedabdelsalam8258]

All these talk are repetitive but in different ways. They talk with enthusiasm but still old talk. Life is a mix and there is no a clear recipe for success. The key is the contentment , try your best but remember that life is a mixture of sweet and bitter and if it is always sweet ,then you will lose its flavour.

[@LifeisLimitlessItsaChoiceYourC]

Be HIGH on life....not drugs, alcohol, or deadbeat people....