How to recognize a master manipulator | Dan Jones | TEDxReno

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NOTE FROM TED: Please do not look to this talk to diagnose yourself or others. This talk reflects the speaker's interpretation of Machiavellianism and interpersonal relationships, which remains a part of ongoing debate among social scientists. TEDx events are independently organized by volunteers. The guidelines we give TEDx organizers are described in more detail here: storage.ted.com/tedx/manuals/t...
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Some researchers have found Machiavellian personality traits are not fixed across lifespan and may decrease over time. For more information see here: pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32145...
Critiques around Machiavellianism and dark triad personality traits in business settings can be found here: www.science.org/content/artic...
Have you ever been the victim of manipulation? Do you need to know how to deal with toxic people? This talk explains dark triad traits, helps you recognize different types of manipulative people, and provides a way of dealing with manipulators by using their strategic thinking against them.
Daniel N. Jones, an Associate Professor at the University of Nevada Reno, is renowned for his research on dark personalities, with over 100 peer-reviewed publications. He's received accolades like the Early Career Award from the Western Psychological Association and grants from entities like the National Science Foundation. Jones delves into the Dark Triad and Tetrad, exploring traits like Machiavellianism and sadism, with a focus on their implications in areas like cyber-security. He's also authored a forthcoming book on "Emophilia: The Science of Serial Romance." Passionate about interdisciplinary solutions, he aims to establish consulting services to implement his evidence-based interventions. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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@saicharanjogu
@saicharanjogu 16 күн бұрын
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:03 *🗣️ Manipulation is common, and many people don't realize they're being manipulated.* 01:07 *🧠 Understanding manipulation is crucial for protection.* 02:02 *📚 The study of manipulative traits like psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism has a fragmented history.* 02:30 *📖 Machiavellianism involves strategic and cautious manipulation for power.* 03:24 *🌟 The "dark triad" refers to psychopathy, narcissism, and Machiavellianism.* 04:05 *👿 Psychopathy is considered dangerous but lacks long-term strategic planning.* 04:46 *🦁 Machiavellianism is like a lion planning its attack; it's strategic and long-term.* 06:09 *🕵️‍♂️ Machiavellians act strategically, unlike impulsive psychopaths or ego-driven narcissists.* 06:36 *📈 Individuals high in Machiavellianism cope better under destructive leadership and get promoted more often.* 07:31 *🛡️ It's important to defend against manipulation without becoming manipulative.* 08:10 *♟️ Treat interactions with manipulative people like a chess match, focusing on external gains.* 08:36 *❄️ "CBR" method: Cold (emotionally guarded), Bottom line (focus on goals), Rational (outcome-oriented).* 09:22 *💸 Treat manipulative people based on their utility, not as friends.* 10:20 *👫 These tactics are for dealing with manipulative individuals, not for healthy relationships.* 11:14 *🛠️ Recognizing and dealing with manipulation is crucial; future research should focus on practical solutions.* 12:06 *🧩 Using the CBR method helps manage manipulation until one can escape the situation.*
@GbemisolaOluwasina
@GbemisolaOluwasina 15 күн бұрын
Thank you.
@nachocheeba
@nachocheeba 15 күн бұрын
Doing the Lord's work 😂❤ thank you for this
@nellie...
@nellie... 15 күн бұрын
This information should be taught in high schools.
@YouilAushana
@YouilAushana Күн бұрын
Sure it'll probably help
@DoyConocimiento-zq4kr
@DoyConocimiento-zq4kr 15 күн бұрын
How to protect yourself from manipulators? Trust your intuition. Set clear boundaries. Don't give in to pressure. Seek support. Walk away if necessary...
@JudyHoPhD
@JudyHoPhD 6 күн бұрын
Great to meet with you at TEDx and so glad I got to see this talk in person. Many people feel like it’s their fault when they engage with a manipulator and begin to question their own self-worth. These tips help to put them back on the track to empowerment and trusting themselves again. What a unique way to take back control especially in situations when you can’t immediately get out of interacting with them (like if they’re a co-worker). Thanks so much Dr. Jones for your unique perspective!
@KayaStanley
@KayaStanley 16 күн бұрын
Outstanding talk, Dan! I have thought about this often while dealing with difficult personalities. Thank you for sharing your work in this area!
@alexandrabcarter
@alexandrabcarter 4 күн бұрын
This talk captivated both me and my teenager! A topic people of all ages need and can relate to, supported by research that will help many. Congrats Dan!
@Ariela-ApostolicA238
@Ariela-ApostolicA238 16 күн бұрын
My experience: I was married to a covert NARCISSIST, with a child!! This is a great perspective, actually! Thanks for sharing!!
@AliceHeiman
@AliceHeiman 14 күн бұрын
Such important information here. Dan explains how people use manipulation and what those being manipulated can do about it in a simple way that everyone can understand and use.
@BretSimmons
@BretSimmons 16 күн бұрын
Great job, Dan! I learned things from this talk that I am already putting to use.
@PaulMawdsley68
@PaulMawdsley68 16 күн бұрын
Thank-you, thank-you, THANK-YOU!
@itzhexen0
@itzhexen0 16 күн бұрын
There seems to be a lot of master manipulators down here in the comment section.
@hamzahalmajtoomi
@hamzahalmajtoomi 16 күн бұрын
Ur one of them 😊
@NickArcade
@NickArcade 16 күн бұрын
You manipulated me to reply
@itzhexen0
@itzhexen0 16 күн бұрын
@@hamzahalmajtoomi Found one.
@NA-tr9yn
@NA-tr9yn 15 күн бұрын
@@itzhexen0 fortnite
@istiakopu8521
@istiakopu8521 14 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@jodycasey6936
@jodycasey6936 16 күн бұрын
GREAT subject!! Thank you!
@Raymond-l4w
@Raymond-l4w 2 күн бұрын
I prefer to play along and when they least expect it, flip the scrip completely
@zapbutton8553
@zapbutton8553 15 күн бұрын
it is a good outlook, but the title is promising a bit more than it is, but that just shows we need more common knowledge about these characters.
@lorrieannesilvey474
@lorrieannesilvey474 15 күн бұрын
So sad that the world is like this.
@htetkaungkyaw8127
@htetkaungkyaw8127 15 күн бұрын
This "CBR" is eye-opening. Thank you...
@SOSSTSE
@SOSSTSE 16 күн бұрын
It's sad that we have these people to deal with. Helping the mental health is serious responsibility. Everyone needs help. SOSSTSE VOICES OF HOPE.❤❤❤
@memig9984
@memig9984 16 күн бұрын
This is soo needed
@kakarot_gaming662
@kakarot_gaming662 14 күн бұрын
This should be taught in schools …
@MoSadik-pj5yw
@MoSadik-pj5yw 16 күн бұрын
I think I am in danger now😢
@faithkoebert406
@faithkoebert406 15 күн бұрын
You are doing the Lords work my man!!!! This is so good!!!!!!
@alenaadamkova5322
@alenaadamkova5322 16 күн бұрын
Maybe they should create "nice weekend syndrome" The nice man syndrome is on point, Its about men who are not honest about their feelings or actions. but "nice weeked syndrome" can be actually about being honest to yourself and to feelings to others. Make idea once a week going to a nature, camping or hiking with a family, play silly games, with some ball, or do tenis, husband will bond more with wife, wife will bond more with husband, thanks to innocent silly games. I mean games like "who will" make the tent first etc or who will prepare food, or something little just for fun, bringing some mushroom, in such innocent moment wife and husband enjoy the moments of silence, and gentle loving touch, holding hands while walking in nature, or he helps making a camp fire, she will hand him the stuff from bag, without any silly analytical "thoughts" in head looking into each others eyes, without words, Actions speak louder than constantly anlyzing, In silence they actually create "bonding loving" atmposphere in their marriage. People dont practice this silent approach, just sitting looking in camp fire and enjoy family time, or riding a horse together, walking a dog silently, and enjoying the other person´s presence, they are taught by media, to just talk all the time, so they dont have time to fall in love over and over again. But usually you fall in love especially when your mouth are shut, when your mind isnt too rational in prefrontal cortex, and eyes open, not in times of constant analyzis. so ypou let your heart speak sometimes too. Its called brain heart coherence, in state of alpha, theta. Laughter is healling and laughter makes people bond together. Children may learn new hobbies. It is better than being constantly attacked by news and silly topics on social media, or being brainwashed to eat some pills to feel happier. Hobbies and laughter is good stimulation for brain, also it increases immunity of the body, so people feel healthier, happier.
@Rod_madk
@Rod_madk 16 күн бұрын
Literally just ignored someone like this away today Cold Bottom line Rational
@mariehughey5390
@mariehughey5390 15 күн бұрын
I see knowledge as good and helpful especially when needed to understand a n unhealthy relationship. I still mourn the loss of innocence that comes with it.
@syedimranullah
@syedimranullah 16 күн бұрын
Let's manipulate the manipulator strategically.... brilliant 👍
@fillyscandy2734
@fillyscandy2734 15 күн бұрын
Il fine giustifica i mezzi!!
@FealingFealing
@FealingFealing 16 күн бұрын
Please do Arabic translation for all videos♥️
@leo_gamer9
@leo_gamer9 16 күн бұрын
I think I am not in danger I am the danger💀😈
@nannybannany
@nannybannany 15 күн бұрын
I appreciate this talk but I also don't understand the extreme solution still. I'll watch again.
@katywallis5016
@katywallis5016 15 күн бұрын
Agreed…. I think the entire first half of the video was telling us that there’s a problem….
@tracykennedy4589
@tracykennedy4589 8 күн бұрын
CBR Cold, Bottom Line & Rational tools
@Amadioh
@Amadioh 16 күн бұрын
Ask drake on how to become a master manipulator
@toneswing6
@toneswing6 16 күн бұрын
I was looking for this😂
@namanarora3607
@namanarora3607 15 күн бұрын
And a habitual liar too
@phired6207
@phired6207 15 күн бұрын
​@@namanarora3607but don't tell no lie about me, and I won't tell truths like you 😂
@danielapedroso3817
@danielapedroso3817 15 күн бұрын
Donde puedo verlo subtitulado
@cfleagle1
@cfleagle1 6 күн бұрын
Is Machiavellianism a learned trait, from a person's upbringing, or genetic? What causes so many people to be like this?
@HardcoreRecovery
@HardcoreRecovery 16 күн бұрын
The first thing I would ask myself; are they on drugs? Most people in the rooms during their addiction were master manipulators.
@davidl9232
@davidl9232 8 күн бұрын
Hmm. Question then.? How are you going to prove in a court who the manipulator is and who( at least in the start) who was victimized( targeted)?
@SWonYT
@SWonYT 15 күн бұрын
Kendrick could have presented a case study.
@tradermunky1998
@tradermunky1998 15 күн бұрын
So two evils make a right.
@jsonlondrew3588
@jsonlondrew3588 Күн бұрын
Hey I'm the bad guy you described, how can i help?
@Girz0r
@Girz0r 15 күн бұрын
Machiavellianism of the Occupying Nation State
@dottyp137
@dottyp137 15 күн бұрын
How to recognise a master manipulator…. I thought I was going to get some clues on how to spot a master manipulator. 🤷‍♀️🥴. Maybe I missed something 🤷‍♀️
@nachocheeba
@nachocheeba 15 күн бұрын
He put it right up on the board...
@dottyp137
@dottyp137 15 күн бұрын
@@nachocheeba oh I missed it then 🙈🥴, it was very late I probably zoned out and had a little micro sleep. I will have another watch now I know 😝 thank you 🤩
@Blastin7411
@Blastin7411 8 күн бұрын
@@dottyp137?
@zeinmushref2753
@zeinmushref2753 15 күн бұрын
برأي صبروا شوي كل فترة بصير هيك هوجة وموجة مشانا نحنا السوريين تقولوا بالدور تكاتروا علينا بس النا الله مارح ينسانا ..سلموا أمركم لله عز وجل
@HertzMiao
@HertzMiao 13 күн бұрын
Llegué a 200k hoy. Estoy realmente agradecido por todo el conocimiento y las pepitas que me habéis brindado durante los últimos meses. Comenzó con 14k en junio de 2022, gracias Sra. Stacey Meredith
@fireflymary9269
@fireflymary9269 14 күн бұрын
Donald Trump?
@rikachiu
@rikachiu 15 күн бұрын
Half of america is about to vote for a machiavellian.
@KwadDamyj
@KwadDamyj 15 күн бұрын
Do you have any idea how little that narrows it down?!
@vladtheimpaler7869
@vladtheimpaler7869 15 күн бұрын
I’m beginning to think anyone can book a Ted Talk speaking engagement now a days.
@jeandicarlo-wagner
@jeandicarlo-wagner 15 күн бұрын
Spoken like a narcissist
@righteousbyfaithinChrist
@righteousbyfaithinChrist 3 күн бұрын
Human nature is fully described and explored but then the pages of the Bible... I know that you think that all the science knowledge in the world will help you to understand why... Maybe. And nothing has prepared me more for this broken system been my relationship with God and my knowledge of what's contained within the Bible.... And if you consider me a manipulator to be saying all these things... So be it
@ericalbright7210
@ericalbright7210 16 күн бұрын
Christine Albright "Brilliant vidio"!... "Thank you"!... "+"!..."❤"!...
@fireflymary9269
@fireflymary9269 14 күн бұрын
Ha! The entire Republican party
@fireflymary9269
@fireflymary9269 14 күн бұрын
Ha! The entire Republican Party
@Beedee664
@Beedee664 9 күн бұрын
Ok get to the point
@loveyourketo1433
@loveyourketo1433 16 күн бұрын
Would be helpful to get more info how to identify them. Useless
@jeandicarlo-wagner
@jeandicarlo-wagner 15 күн бұрын
Extremely well differentiated in the first six minute. Turn the closed captions on and read them.
@elidragom
@elidragom 16 күн бұрын
did a whole lot of talking & nothing to give lmao
@loveyourketo1433
@loveyourketo1433 16 күн бұрын
Exactly
@jeandicarlo-wagner
@jeandicarlo-wagner 15 күн бұрын
Went over your head
@elidragom
@elidragom 8 күн бұрын
@@jeandicarlo-wagner break it down in a sentence or two then. you can’t do it😂
@andrewkline
@andrewkline 16 күн бұрын
Extremely misleading title. This presentation is a vague introduction to machiavellianism, and practically nothing more. Getting tired of being clickbaited by mouth breathing ted talks...
@jeandicarlo-wagner
@jeandicarlo-wagner 15 күн бұрын
Did you stop listening at 6:44?
@andrewkline
@andrewkline 15 күн бұрын
@@jeandicarlo-wagner no actually I listened though 2x to make sure I didn't miss something
@travellingtom6091
@travellingtom6091 15 күн бұрын
Donald Trump
@KwadDamyj
@KwadDamyj 15 күн бұрын
Unoriginal. Get a job.
@travellingtom6091
@travellingtom6091 15 күн бұрын
@@KwadDamyj ...and saying get a job is original? 🥱
@JenJayBanks
@JenJayBanks 16 күн бұрын
Ok, but how?
@raviguptaboards
@raviguptaboards 16 күн бұрын
Get to the point ffs
@NA-tr9yn
@NA-tr9yn 16 күн бұрын
Fortnite
@map.1870
@map.1870 15 күн бұрын
Is anyone else getting annoyed with his mouth noises
@jeandicarlo-wagner
@jeandicarlo-wagner 15 күн бұрын
Got lost in your ADHD?
@barbaramuriithi2622
@barbaramuriithi2622 14 күн бұрын
You mean his words?!😂
@TaufiqueJoarder
@TaufiqueJoarder 11 күн бұрын
No
@Blastin7411
@Blastin7411 5 күн бұрын
No
@harrypearle9781
@harrypearle9781 16 күн бұрын
DUMP === TRUMP ?
@KwadDamyj
@KwadDamyj 15 күн бұрын
Try something original.
@randomgayguyman
@randomgayguyman 16 күн бұрын
This is how Kendrick spotted Drake
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