Terrible Relationship Advice...

[@rezasher490]

Kris’s hair looks like a Pixar mom’s hair in this video and I mean that in the best way possible lmao

[@kallmekris]

Thank you

[@DylanCam.]

Oh true😅

[@darcyDxxa977]

I know right

[@SBreezee]

Pixar moms are the hottest moms, mrs.incredible??? Hot af

[@cooliostarstache5474]

Mrs. Incredible, Aunt Cass

[@elissaferguson6753]

the idea that someone is "disrespecting your relationship" with something they did like 5 years before you met them is insane.

[@sirenrin755]

Bruh, this man got great ass background music. The Sims sound track will always be a stability in how my brain loads.

[@CavezOfficial]

a stability? Did you mean it's a staple in how your brain loads? Otherwise im confused.

[@sirenrin755]

@@CavezOfficial yee that, thank you ♡

[@LIONGOD]

its not him... its his editors

[@MarkTheDrunkenSailor]

Nah bro, this isn't the Sims music, it's the OOMP music

[@mylifebegunat30]

I didn't even realize I recognized it until I started getting flashbacks from the early 2000s😂

[@LODintheshadows]

If you read the whole of first story, he has a proper talk with her, she acknowledges she was pushing an unfair amount of the house work and child care onto him, and they discuss how to divide everything more fairly. He sorts kids in morning, she sorts them evening, then the next day they switch. Also leave kids with grandparents bit more so they can have proper date nights and stuff, everything works out okay in the end.

[@JohnAnderson-ev3lp]

Thank you for the context, I think there intent was to crap on men

[@babyjane7109]

I work from home with 2 kids under 4. I do as much work as I would have done in an office after driving an hour. I reach my numbers in 4 hours. It's not my fault I am more productive at home with my kids. I am also able to care for my kids and the home. My husband does physical work for 10+ hours per day and fixes the misc things that break. He also helps me with the kids and also helps me pick up from time to time. I would never expect him to help me, but he does because we are partners. I try to help him with the big stuff at home but I can't carry the water heater up the stairs. I can't fix the broken sump pump. I don't want to get on the roof to patch it up. There are so many things that he does. I respect everything he contributes to our family. He does so much more than I do. He deserves to come home to a relatively clean home and something to eat. He grateful for the things I do. It doesn't matter if I make microwave meals and home cooked ones. He's just grateful I am his partner, his wife, and the mother to his children.

[@LODintheshadows]

Regarding the first story, he has a proper talk with his wife, she says she could do a bit more and when he finishes work unfairly dumps a lot on him, they work out a better system and help eachother more and make more time for date nights and stuff for eachother

[@TanisAnnicchiarico]

Very well said! A relationship is exactly that, a partnership. When my gf and I first moved in together a few years ago (along with my sister and her husband), my sister's husband and I were the only ones working. Because of that, it was expected that the girls would take care of the house, because a household is *also* a shared responsibility. Then, I was unfortunately injured to where I almost died and was hospitalized for about a week. After that, I had difficulty finding a job, and so my gf being the wonderful angel she is saw how much not contributing financially was bothering me, so she went out and got herself a job. Now, my brother-in-law and her are the ones who work, so my sister and I are the ones who take care of the house. It's about recognizing you want to build a better life with the people around you and making that a joint effort however you can! Kudos to you and your husband, I wish you both a happy life for as long as you're living it, and nothing but success for your children moving forward ^-^

[@Kaebaee-g8m]

Please fix the way you write things 🤦‍♀️ ​@@LODintheshadows

[@shuepsx652]

I understand that you have a good balance because you work from home 4 hours and he has a physically demanding job for many more, but hearing that the husband "helps" with the children as if he didn't have any obligation will always rub me the wrong way.

[@babyjane7109]

@shuepsx652 oh? I think it would be impossible for him to just "help." I should clarify. He helps during the work day if I need him to watch the kids. When he comes in, he is all hands on deck. Maybe I don't understand your parenting dynamic and assumed that was implied. It would be hard to ignore the kids when they like to latch onto his legs.

[@justinetters4544]

My mom works from home, she starts at 8am and last weeek i caught her still in there at 9 fucking PM. My mom works her ass off and always has. shout out to the hard workers from home!!

[@Yaboibarney]

Same man my dad was up at 7 on a confrence call and he would always be on calls sometimes he would take calls at 2 am and then drive out... Wait hold on... i uh i have some thinking to do

[@keylanka940]

Same situation for my mom, and for myself as well. There's not an hour of the day she slacks off. On or off the clock. She's a real boss all around. WFH can be full time and challenging if you have the character to say I'm gonna earn my pay and do my best.

[@margaretqueenofscots9450]

My husband works 9 full hours every day. From home. He’s definitely not a slacker

[@willemhymel]

my mom starts her work at 8:30 and sometimes she is up till 9 or 10 and last night she was up at 2 a.m. still working

[@ZoeF.O]

My mom is dead.

[@raidredacted7821]

My father works from home, both my brothers work from home, and I myself work from home. We all live in different homes, so we operate out of both slack and discord as we manage a business, so we're often privy to when any of the others are online. Every one of us works WELL beyond 8 hours a day, bridging into 11-12 most days including the weekends. Working from home doesn't mean not working.

[@lizardking5210]

I felt like the wife is letting social media enable her and make her resentful She needs to log off imo

[@AhHereWeGo]

@@lizardking5210and she has no job, with one kid in school full time, and the other in preschool for 2-1/2 days a week….. so where is she getting this “I’m always taking care of the kids and providing unpaid labor” nonsense? She’s living in a house and eating there rent free, and if she’s gone most days, what is she doing? Probably eating out and hanging out with other mom friends at a park

[@Sica210]

Most of their “advice” in this comes from clear _lack_ of experience with any of the things they’re given their opinions on- 😐

[@inky1159]

​@@Sica210 Yeah, you can definitely tell they have a lack of real world work and are detached from the regular world a bit. They've gotten too brain rotted and used to being an "influencer". I've noticed he's become a bit stuck up on the SOG podcast too, standing on a soap box and lecturing other people for things he really has no right to lecture people on

[@raisinbran531]

Yeah I hated their response to the first question. It’s reasonable that if she doesn’t work she should pick up when she has the time, when he’s not working he should help it’s really an effort on both parts. Also yeah working from home doesn’t mean you’re not working. I work 12s at a factory and my cousin works 12 from home, we’re both tired and worn out at the end of the day. They seem really out of touch here tbh. Maybe it’s because they’re KZbinrs it’s like they’re detached from the rest of the world. Still love the content though. 😂

[@CrowCryptic-J2U]

0:40 “it’s still soft” *audible cracking sound

[@Douglas.kong33]

I too am in a relationship that my piers look up to. They’re always asking how we make it work. I feel like people over complicate their relationship, set unreasonable expectations, and view actions of affection and labors of love in a transactional sense. Just love your partner, don’t expect anything in return when you do something kind, and be understanding when they make mistakes (within reason). As long as you both do those things for eachother, you can take it a long way.

[@jlp11889]

Considering you usually walk on them of course most of the time piers are looking up to you.

[@milissaatwood4799]

I'm glad Kris has a bf that makes similar content on youtube, so I have more vids to watch as I procrastinate. Kris is my favorite. Always entertaining, and I'm here for it :)

[@BenDover-de7tf]

What's her account ?

[@BenDover-de7tf]

Nvm I'm an idiot lol

[@MelissaLawrence2002]

My dad works for our military base here in Utah, and because of his crippling anxiety, he has been allowed to work from home. He still has to work 8 hour shifts though, and they beg them not to start working or end working within certain hours. You still can, but they prefer that you don't. He does work more than 8 hours some days and less other days, but for the most part, it's 8 hours. I will say that's the only work from home job that I KNOW for a fact what they're supposed to work, so that's my only input on your discussion about the first case.

[@sixofcrows11]

that bread be looking scrumdidilyumpiltstiltskon

[@CrowCryptic-J2U]

Bro what lol

[@calikitkat8429]

So I'm not a huge commenter, been watching Kris for several years and you for maybe a year and a half. I just wanted to say how much I LOVE you guys together!! So happy the universe lead you to each other and hope you have many many many years together❤❤❤❤

[@utefanivan]

You must have missed the memo But the universe had nothing to do with them being together. It was vegan teacher. Allegedly. 😉

[@ambersather7460]

​@@utefanivanLMAO that woman just gets more and more crazy. Pretending that kris calls her on the phone while she's live streaming...total wackadoodle. It's funny that she makes people eat even more meat just to spite her. If she acrusllt cared about animals she would just stop lol

[@solarcubing7504]

@@utefanivanwait fr

[@calikitkat8429]

​@@utefanivanOh I got the memo, and as I do with anything that involves miss Katie I filed it in the appropriate dumpster 😂😂😂

[@utefanivan]

@@calikitkat8429 🤣🤣🤣 an adequate place to put it for sure

[@Gdub33]

You guys know your cognitive behavior therapy. Giving an ultimatum never works. He can simply state that if you both don't work on each other over the next year then he feels like he may need to explore options to better himself and his life by himself. He is coming from a good place but just stated it very badly.

[@bigboycreams4769]

Never thought Caleb would start making relationship advice videos, this is a weird timeline.

[@FreshGamerGarden]

We like seeing you guys talk about anything because yall are a cute couple, simple as.

[@CognitiveDissident.]

Bro, the way she smiles at you is awesome. Bravo, Oomps!

[@frogimage951]

Kris plz PLZ convince sam and colby to bring oompa on i think his paranoid skepticism will in fact be entertaining(make sure he knows ghosts are bulletproof as well ty)

[@thewingedserpent5823]

My dad works from home a lot. He usually works 8 hours a day, sometimes more and sometimes even on weekends

[@kendallmnowers]

I love this channel and both of them but two things: 1. Most of the people i know that work from home (including myself) work well over 40 hours a week because they have no boundaries around the work day, and go over to get things done. When I worked in an office, i left at 530 every day, and showed up at 830 every day. Now I log on at 7 and log off at 7 habitually, with brief bathroom/snack grabs in between. That’s on me for sure, just didn’t think that was an accurate depiction of WFH. 2. As stoked as I am for them to be in a happy relationship, they don’t live together yet, and have mostly had a long distance relationship, so I found a lot of their responses immature and a bit cringey to listen to. Also I think Kris kinda just goes with what he says, and just stares at him to see his reaction in between. I’d be interested to see how these reactions change in 2 years now that they’re moving in together.

[@KymanBailey]

"Why cant i be Aphrodite or sum" tehe goddess of loooove!

[@powercatfly]

I need relationship advice, how do I get a relationship?

[@machinerygunnardkellyclark8347]

be yourself

[@lydi_yah]

Audacity

[@ThaLoser]

just be yourself but be confident but be direct but be subtle but dont go looking for a relationship but do but

[@threshruleroftheshadowisle4247]

Go to Cabelas and head to the far left corner and you will find someone to help.

[@HaleyRexroth]

Focus on hygiene, put any sort of effort into clothing. never change your personality for a woman, that being said if you're blunt and unkind try being more kind and go out of your way to be kind like opening doors and smiling at them and asking about their day. Women are weird but that should get you through the door :)

[@taylersherman1687]

He may not care right now...this is basically how many relationships go with a stay at home mom and a dad that goes to work and comes home and doesn't help much at all woth the kids and never relieves mom of her mom duties so she is literally on the clock and the person EVERYONE in the house continues to come to for literally every tiny thing with no breaks away from the kids.

[@BriannaPhillips]

Exactly. Unless you're doing it, it's not going to be understood. Being a mom is a full time job. Pretty mentally and physically demanding 24/7

[@liljay300000]

It honestly sounds like she isn't really doing anything

[@CrowCryptic-J2U]

And that’s why I don’t want kids

[@SmileyRiley38]

1:57 Together since 14 and 16 dannnnggggg!!!!

[@cooperbell8233]

I’ve been with my bf since we were both 14! We are both 19 and 20 now trust it’s possible

[@SmileyRiley38]

@cooperbell8233 🙌👏 Props to y'all!!!

[@BucketOfFail]

I love how they both immediately forgot about the emotional manipulation in the last post.

[@burtismydogsname]

Huh? He said, “I don’t know if she’s manipulating, but this is something manipulators do” She said “yeah totally “ and they talked about it for a while longer then moved on

[@koletheftoms]

@@burtismydogsname what video is that?

[@BucketOfFail]

Then they suggested taking pictures together. The gf's reaction to the bf thinking about leaving is a more serious issue than her social media posts.@@burtismydogsname

[@XxidfkxX]

Wait what??

[@marthanewsome6375]

There is no relationship without communication or mutual respect.

[@JazzTen-]

Glad to see some people have healthy morals for relationships

[@JohnAnderson-ev3lp]

Al Bundy begs to differ 😂

[@danzusername]

And trust

[@graciehatton2828]

I think people look up to y'all for relationship advice cuz you seem so happy, get along great, communicate well, and just seem to overall do great in the relationship. It is only what we see in videos though so viewers should still consider that. But you do appear super compatible and communicate really well. Ive been in my relationship for 4 years and still admire how you 2 are together❤

[@Aperson3727]

alternative title: Caleb and kris making me feel even more single for 14 minutes

[@sophie_12392]

I love Kris and Caleb together, love ur vids 🩷

[@B3autifullyInsan3]

5:58 she must have worked at Hooters or Twin Peaks😂😂

[@mynamesurname7783]

3:38 I couldn’t disagree more, my father works from home and works 10 hours a day minimum. And no he’s not slow at his job, he’s recently won various awards for his work as he’s saved his company millions of dollars and countless working hours because of what he does

[@catjebus6793]

That last story sounds like what my ex tried pulling with me when I left him. He tried saying he had cancer on a lymph node in his neck and how he "couldn't believe you'd leave me when I could die any day now" it was a literally a epidermoid cyst. 🤦

[@dedf15]

As a man, I'm confident enough in my relationship that if my wife confessed that 10 years ago, she had an official job as a topples wairess, which she left before we met, i would take her word, cause i trust her.

[@aimes__]

The sims 2 music in the intro was like a trigger word for a sleeper agent

[@randallholloway8686]

"everyone has a past" based.

[@bhart3321]

YO! Thirst trapping gf is manipulative af! She doesn't get her way so she harms herself & tries to make it his fault. Dude needs to run for the hills cuz girlie is unhinged.

[@LifeisFoo]

Anyone that threatens that is unhinged

[@ScareyBusey]

Caleb would love her even more if she had been an assassin.

[@playmate7638]

I would buy that calendar in a heart beat

[@lh9761]

You guys are both really cool. It makes sense that you guys are together

[@Omi-gk4wd]

The first one, I would love more context. But, as a stay at home mom myself, I do most of the housework and childcare. When my husband gets home, he usually takes over with the kids so that I can cook dinner, do the chores that I couldn’t get too during the day, etc. Then we both do bedtime and cleanup, and pass out on the couch to watch an episode of trash reality tv, LOL. We work even hours, even though we do different work. It sounds like this lady expects her husband to take over the household completely after he clocks out. We all need breaks sometimes, but to expect that everyday isn’t reasonable and is unfair to him.

[@liljay300000]

The way you guys do it honestly sounds like the proper way to handle a single income duel parent household. From what I gathered from the first story it sounds like she isn't really even doing her "work hours" so to speak. If the house isn't being cleaned properly (outside of normal young kid mess) especially with both kids having school. In my opinion she isn't doing her job as a stay at home parent.

[@CatSpann]

‘It’s like Mr and Mrs Smith up in this house’ MA’AM YOU ARE CELIBATE. 😂😏💜

[@DJHailrock]

Wow Kris....Your Hair is Like SUPER Voluminous In this!!

[@emilyhernandez5944]

“I think it’s because they are stupid” 😂😂😂

[@caseyisanalien]

Broke up with my ex because he liked thirst traps like the last girl did. I knew he was a simp for egirls before we started dating and it didn't bother me because he was single. He promised me he would stop for me. He didn't. 🤷‍♀️ Oh well. Nothing wrong with woman posting for attention and people liking it when you're single or your partner doesn't care but it's cheating if it's communicated, agreed on, and then ignored behind your partner's back. Idk if it's just me and the kind of monogamous relationship I want is unrealistic but if I can turn my attention off of other people the moment I commit to someone then I expect that level of commitment back.

[@Nat1900]

Fax fr!

[@JazzTen-]

Hell yes 👍🏽

[@JohnAnderson-ev3lp]

Only women have the ability of hooking up with thirst traps online, if you are into anime romcoms or romance novels and don't stop talking about what you think about fictional characters and worship celebrity drama then you have no room to talk such as the reason women went to see twilight and Aquaman who never picked up a comic book, Men are visual creatures and enjoy looking at attractive things, that's why we have good looking cars, comic books, paintings sculptures, body building and other things inspired by the look of attractive stuff it's like a calendar you would find in a garage, if he was actively trying to get with them that's a different story, one of my ex's was insecure like you but I would never cheat even if I got the offer, it ended because she refused to take care of herself and cheated.

[@OptimisticNihilist1244]

That's not unrealistic. That's how things should be.

[@jijitters]

Its disrespectful to go behind someone's back but um... Girl it's not "cheating" to take and post public pictures of yourself. I would never date any freak that tried to tell me what I could and couldn't post.

[@mettayuna]

i love the new era of sims 2 music in commentary videos

[@dwerenat1]

The one with the ultimatum really isn't difficult. Troubled or not, once you give an ultimatum it's over. "Do this or else!!" For the sake of your sanity choose "or else".

[@Internet_Pilgrim]

I disagree. I know its phrasing definitely implies malace or control but most boundaries are just a re-wording of "or else". "If you do this I will leave" is just a more cordial way of saying "don't do this, or else I leave". Boundaries that don't limit another person's freedoms or individual choice tend to be the modern preference, but the consequence is usually "I will leave", because in reality you're setting the boundary/expectation for yourself, not the other person. It's just semantics in which the context of action matters more than the words; and arguably any formal relationship already has non-negotiables - don't cheat, don't slander, don't financially ruin us - or else it's over.

[@dwerenat1]

@@Internet_Pilgrim Oh fuck that, dude. Hand me an ultimatum and you get your walking papers-- period. I couldn't care less if you disagree. A deal killer is just that, a deal killer.

[@mazakmazakmein3437]

​@@dwerenat1i understand your point that an ultimatum is bad but imagine this "a girl said to her boyfriend that she's not her mom but her girlfriend, if he doesn't solve his behaviour.she will leave"

[@mazakmazakmein3437]

​@@dwerenat1he just wanted her to be happy and healthy. your point is valid too he could have handled it better.🤔🤔

[@dwerenat1]

@@mazakmazakmein3437 Like I've already said Mr. Beatingadeadhorse, I couldn't care less if you disagree. My response is the same. Ultimatum = shut up and get on with it. There are some things that have no middle ground.

[@hellomynameisrodney]

I mostly work from home and I have ~13 clients, A good chunk of those are youtubers who need an editor. when I'm not at home I'm in a local school substituting. when I'm not there, I'm in a library tutoring. Not only do I spend 8 hours, I spend 12, 14 hours. It's really hard for me to not complete a task and so if it takes more than 8 hours, I'll likely spend whatever it takes. The only time I'm away from my computer some days is when I'm walking my dog, fixing a meal, or taking a shower. If someone has me do any other thing, I just don't accept that I have to do it in the moment they ask and if I was with someone who complained that I was doing nothing or I needed to help with A, B, C, I have to wonder if they understand that 30-45 minutes is a long time, especially when I spend it editing a video. Having as many clients I do, if I am not working, there's no way I'd get half the stuff I get done. At some point I would set up a camera to prove to this person that my time is actually used to make income necessary to run the household. BC at some point, if they aren't taking your word, you need to have that evidence. If they think you're being an a$$ or whatever because you're now proving their ignorance...so be it. Sometimes people want to be right as a matter of opinion and don't want to be proven right in a matter of fact. They'd rather delude themselves into a narrative that helps them cope.

[@B3autifullyInsan3]

5:58 she must have worked at Hooters😂😂

[@allyburnett3315]

12:21 my last controlling ex (over 24 at thay point) was on my floor crying with a pocket kn!fe out and threatened to cut/k!ll himself if i broke up with him......thats so messed up!!! Wasn't even the first time i had a guy threatening that if we broke up 😡 unfortunately stayed for 2 years bc i hate myself clearly ...and he lied saying he was painting an old ladies house but it was actually his last exs house. Boys 🙄

[@Hoppity3845]

I honestly love watching the dynamic between you too. Oomps seemed a bit weirded by the denim bikini idea but I think he would do it for the sake of fun! Kris you are adorable! Rock on girl!

[@HoPeZz_N_DrEaMzz]

It's hard to truly judge with only ONE SIDE... humans tend to leave out, "forget" or share the 3rd version which is the full true story.

[@booper012]

I absolutely love y’all. Y’all are so funny and hysteric and an AMAZINGLY good couple. 27 minute mark!!!

[@Dat_red_subie]

“HA…GA-bleeeeeep” 😭😭 5:01

[@manuelmatos2748]

Everyone's gonna buy the calendar for oompa

[@thomasnelson6161]

Honestly, I put on 30 lbs in the last year, and I wanna burn it. If some chubby queen wants to drop some with me, I'm ready to start running or however the fuck people lose weight. This is my first time being overweight, so I'd like some company losing it.

[@wyattjohnson5181]

My advice is honestly just count your calories. Burning calories is ridiculously difficult. It is far easier to not ingest them. Just try to eat less added sugar and fat, and you will lose weight. Drinking more water also increases satiety. If you want to exercise to gain muscle and improve your cardio then go for it! If you want to lose weight and keep it off then make sustainable changes, dont crash diet. Good luck on your journey to better health! Im rooting for ya!

[@rjtruth1779]

You got this! I wish i had a gym buddy, my wife hates going to the gym and altho i am not a fan, i am trying reallg hard to figure it out because i wanna get in shape. She is someone who can eat whatever and not gain a pound & she plays soccer for her university. I on the other hand have struggled with weight since i was in middle school. Finally i managed to lose about 30 lbs before i met my wife and was in the best shape of my life. Ive gained back 10 of that due to a career change and its not much but i dont feel as good as i used to so I've started getting more into the gym because i no longer have a physically demanding job. My advice, its about calorie density, eating foods that are low in calories but have large volume to fill you up so you dont feel hungry. Like vegetables and fruit. Sticking to whole foods & minimally processed. I focus more on what i should add rather than what i should subtract from my diet so it doesnt feel like deprivation and then the healthy stuff ends up displacing the junk food. And getting in daily exercise even if its just going for a walk. Maybe get a dog if you can afford to, i adopted a dog about a year ago and she is high energy so i have to take her on a long walk every day and play with her in the yard to burn her energy and that definitely gets me more active. But find whatever you enjoy that you can do long term without it feeling like a chore.

[@nocturnalmusings1698]

I just absolutely LOVE how shy kris gets doing other peoples content 😂😂😂

[@-Jake]

3:38 KZbinrs say what? I wfh and it's like constant multitasking work all day, usually with overtime. I hate that stigma man..

[@HankChillin]

The editor sweating bullets this entire video.... DON'T SAY THAT CALEB😂😂😂

[@reni9k612]

My sister sometimes works 12 hour days at home, only getting 2 30 min breaks.. mostly she works 8 hours 1 30 minute break. Love yall, yeah it IS sitting, but I couldn’t do what she does, and I work at a healthcare facility..

[@ZAWMBITE]

you and kris are such couple goals tbh

[@dylandavis2737]

Pandora wasn't a God, she was just like a person

[@graciehatton2828]

"it's still soft" *Ckrrkckrkekckrck* "Aw come on" 😂

[@internetclown904]

Biggest relationship advice, be open to compromise! Communicate! Like, the absolute BASICS 😂 bruh!! Idk how that's hard for people!!

[@bogibsimmons]

Damn the instagram one is kind of a slap in the face. She got mad and upset with him with gym pics so he felt comfortable asking her not to do the same in bikinis. Since she knew he didn’t have insta and tiktok she posted them still and thirst traps behind his back and then when he got mad she manipulated him by doing something to end up in the hospital or has a condition where she gets upset so badly it’s life threatening. Still that’s kinda mean and disrespectful to still do when asked not to and behind his back as well and then going to the hospital to make him feel bad if that’s why she was there.

[@MoonBase-]

When they mentioned working from home. I think they meant (depending on the job of course) a lot of at home jobs either have less hours or you make your own hours. And the fact that the guy's partner in the post didn't feel like he was helping when he could. And this doesn't refer to single parents working at home. That's completely different. And their not saying the work people at home do are any less. They're saying a lot of the times your hours are yours and being in a relationship is a partnered thing. Not a "you do this because what I do is harder".

[@Emzzz78]

It’s not like one of his friends found his wife’s old onlyfans page. Its just a pic😂😂 Can you even imagine what the future is going to look like for these women? So sad. The internet is forever!!

[@everogersdownunder1242]

Ultimatums *never* work. You just can't do it. It's never a good idea.

[@liljay300000]

It really depends on how it is worded. Some people really need a wake up call to help themselves. Think about interventions for addicts. If he approached her and said something a long the lines of. "I have done everything I can to help you threw this period and have tried to lift you up. But nothing I have done is working. I can't continue to carry your emotional baggage like I have been doing. I need you to try and figure this out or I am afraid that this relationship will have to end for my own mental health." that is an ultimatum but it can also be the wake up call that someone needs.

[@jijitters]

​@@liljay300000 Nah, the second someone asks you to change yourself or your life to please THEM, that person has earned a break-up.

[@liljay300000]

@@jijitters So if someone said "hey I don't want you to smoke meth everyday anymore" that would be uncalled for

[@jijitters]

@@liljay300000 Go ahead and try to explain how you think posting pictures of yourself causes health issues.

[@liljay300000]

@@jijitters Did I make any type of comment on this particular case. My comment was about someone saying ultimatums never work.

[@lizardking5210]

Love seeing you two together

[@genna2455]

The two of you in jean-kinis! Haha great calendar idea I love it 😂

[@mummamu1970]

Totally into a calendar!!! I think you could do some fun stuff doesn’t have to necessarily be thirst trap shots

[@JordanSmith-bn3zp]

well, seeing as I bought Mark's "tasteful nudes" calendar, I would absolutely buy whatever you two come up with LOL

[@cameronnauceder4030]

Me waiting for the hotness calendar of Caleb and Kris in matching denim bikinis 😂

[@sarahm3991]

Omg, calendar please. You guys would make it so funny.

[@keanareyes-burke7007]

My ex would keep like tabs on how much money I would owe him on his whiteboard. But god forbid he actually ever do anything for me😂😂😂🎉

[@jennifercooper3547]

Bad relationships advice is funny, but what’s funnier is someone stereotyping your relationship when they can’t keep their zipper up. Now that’s God damned hilarious 😂

[@SsaasinGonGetchu]

Her face when he put that bread in his mouth lmfao

[@opalkitten535]

Imma need one of those calendars 🤣

[@jamie_dropd]

I want more of this, give me more! Make a series!

[@ScheelesGreen]

Jean bathing suits? Really bringing that Canadian tuxedo down for Texas summer, eh?

[@BrainofQuinn]

12:04 RUNN THAT'S A LIE DON'T FALL FOR IT!!! REDDDD FLAGGG!!!!

[@Pickles-j3h]

I now feel like I have to tell my mom that works from home for nasa that she isn't working 10 hours a day ;-;

[@Gravedigger933]

0:35 I will continue to point out the ring on her ring finger until someone confirms or denies what that's about.

[@Lilstiffsocks69]

I think it’s on her right hand if the video is mirrored. Really depends on the camera oompa uses.

[@ambersather7460]

I highly doubt they are engaged after so little time...they are both too smart for that....kris hasnt even moved in yet and they only just announced that she was moving to texas. She wears rings alot of the time.

[@Sica210]

@@ambersather7460 but she also tried on wedding dresses for a recent video-and wedding dress try on hauls are *not* her niche nor has she done them before, soooo… 🤔😉😁

[@Gravedigger933]

@@ambersather7460 They've been together longer than we know. And for all we know, they are already living together. It's common for people to recode multiple videos in advance. So maybe not, but also maybe.

[@Gravedigger933]

@@Lilstiffsocks69 She has it on in her videos. Behind her is a sing that says KMK the right way. So I'm sure it's on her left hand.

[@Glob-O-Gluten]

My ex did the same thing with the hospital situation. Was a very toxic relationship and you’ll be way happier when you escape THE DEMON WOOOMEN

[@julie2branden]

More of this! Love you guys!

[@AhHereWeGo]

The last post the dude definitely needs to run. If she’s getting herself admitted to the ER for a week as an attention grab, there’s no having a peaceful breakup. I also like how the immediate knee jerk of her still posting Bikini pics was “it’s her body” but you know for sure if it was flipped, and he was still posting Gym pics (which, let’s face it, it’s the same dude’s liking both her bikini pics and his gym progress pics) it would immediately be that he was bad.

[@NicachuMaeChase]

With the ultimatum one, I agree that the husband may have been trying to help for a while and is probably at his wits end. But the losing weight part seems kinda extreme. She may have gained weight because of her mental health, but don't focus on that. If her mental state gets better, she may work on the weight herself, without the threat of him leaving. I understand where they're coming from. But I personally don't think weight had to be part of the conversation. He just knocked down her self esteem a bit, which may make it harder for her to get better.

[@Omi-gk4wd]

That was my thought as well. If my husband put on a ton of weight, I’d be much more concerned with the root reasons than whether or not I found it attractive.

[@liljay300000]

Honestly we don't know what he actually said. People in a seriously dark place especially when its there self worth have a tendency of inferring the worst thing imaginable when people talk to them especially if that conversation has any criticism.

[@JohnAnderson-ev3lp]

​@@Omi-gk4wd 😂 I was cheated on as my health was going down and ended up in the hospital and having to be sober, trust me no one cares especially women they always look for someone better

[@Omi-gk4wd]

@@JohnAnderson-ev3lp I'm sorry that happened to you! Cheating is always wrong.

[@Child_OfApollo]

I need to know is it a red flag if you're gf does these following things 1.runs away and doesn't talk to u for hours after a fight then comes back like nothing happened 2. Tells other people you aren't dating 3.Ships you with other people

[@aestheticKio]

The last one, Everytime I yelled at my ex to get a job (she could never keep a job because she's worthless) she would down a bottle of pills and have to go to the ER to get her stomach pumped lmao

[@tymothyyoung1530]

Has that piece of bread 🍞 been there since you gave a tiny bit of it to Frankie? Wow 😅😂 no wonder it's a rock ,reminds me of the food that finally escapes my teenage daughters bedroom 😂.

[@yourgoofballfr]

kris keeps getting lost in ur luscious eyes. how sweet

[@emma.is_ontopfr]

They are SOO cute together!!❤❤

[@ChachaguaBryan]

I need kris I'm jean swim shorts and a jean jacket and oompa with the jean bakini 😂

[@GoofyGoldenToes]

I’m still shocked on how Kris was able to pull Caleb (not the other way around because I’m straight, but he is really handsome… I’m not gay I swear)

[@Auynix]

My gf and i have worked a 9 hours shift from home wtf are they talking about lol

[@jeremybain3830]

"Everyone has a past ". . . Where are the skeletons buried Kris! Did you help bury them Oompa?!?!

[@timothycaudill9039]

Oompa in a speedo would be wild tho

[@MelinaDimaria-xk4ww]

You two call me single in every way humanly possible

[@trollkid4680]

My dad works from home 9 to 6 and works really hard but lots of people that work from home don’t really do that much

[@BunnyTheCat]

Your editor Tara (if I remember correctly) also chooses super cute music choices keep being yourselves we love yall 🫂🥰💃🏻

[@EvelynHallow2512]

I think this channel editor is Connor not tara😅 but yeah I agree with you I really love their choices of the music too ❤

[@joseeshelf]

I work from home, health care line and yes i dont get calls all the time but i need to be attached to my headset all the time .. but my breaks/ lunch is me cleaning… but still