The #5 Biggest Dating Red Flags

Are you navigating the complex terrain of dating and relationships? Look no further! Renowned expert Blaine Anderson is here to share invaluable insights that will empower you to make informed decisions in the dating world.
Blaine uncovers the critical warning signs to watch out for and provides essential tips for a safer and smarter approach to relationships. Whether you're a seasoned dater or just dipping your toes into the dating pool, this is a must-watch.
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In this video:
0:12 - Overview of Red Flags
1:42 - Hot and Cold Behavior
2:27 - Sexual Focus and Objectification
2:43 - Pulling Back in the Relationship
3:14 - Attachment Style Compatibility
3:41 - Being Critical of Friends and Family
4:22 - Excessive Mention of Past Relationships
4:53 - Lack of Contribution in the Relationship
5:21 - Conversational Hogging
5:51 - Conversational Drought
5:56 - Unwillingness to Meet in Person
6:26 - How to Handle Red Flags
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[@ScienceOfPeople]

Read more about red flags: www.scienceofpeople.com/red-flags-men/

[@AllElements007]

When said she needed to sleep with her ex in order for me for get a free airbnb room.... I'd rather go sleep in the car. Then she explained that she may pull an Irish goodbye and leave me hanging with her ex... I followed out shortly and walked to the airport. Friendship of 20+ years abruptly ended.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I'm really sorry to hear that you went through such a challenging situation. It sounds like a complex and uncomfortable series of events, and it's completely understandable that you chose to prioritize your own well-being and peace of mind.🙏🏻

[@DoubleMtnMagic]

Love your content, and have been following you for years. Anyway y’all can get some microphones or just put down some towels to minimize the echoing? Thanks so much and keep up the great work!💗

[@jonathonshaw6688]

Yeah the sound quality could definitely be better

[@leelasaraswat4662]

The sound is all right. Love your content!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much for your support and feedback! We truly appreciate your loyalty and enthusiasm for our content over the years. Your suggestion about improving the audio quality is noted, and we'll definitely look into getting better microphones or finding ways to minimize echoing 💕💕

[@backyardrailroader]

# 1 and #3 is something that I frequently experience. I never get as far as them contributing part.

[@Shreadington]

My ex (crazy hot on the matrix) didn't like me talking to other girls- friends, acquaintances, or coworkers for the most part. However, she had no problem talking to other guys lol. I'm not the jealous type, figured if she's going to cheat she will, and I'll move on. Regardless of multiple talks her possession was to much and I ended it.

[@americanexpat8792]

Hey Vanessa, Absolutely LOVE your content! One request concerns the English subtitles. Are they really necessary? I find those annoying, since I start watching them over watching the people. I usually stop following channels that continue to use them since I understand English fine. Food for thought.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks so much for the kind words and for sharing your thoughts! I truly appreciate you taking the time to engage and give feedback. I understand how subtitles might be distracting for some viewers. I include them to ensure our content is accessible to everyone, including our community members who are hard of hearing or whose first language isn't English. But I totally get where you're coming from! Thanks again for being here and for your support! 🌟

[@angelinasimon3513]

I loved how you named the red flags. One of the red flags for me is when someone bombards me with personal questions, making me feel like I am at a job interview or an exam and unwillingly answers my questions about them, giving me very brief answers. Talking to such folks is not fun, it makes me feel really bored.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Ah, I completely understand that feeling! It can indeed be exhausting when someone turns a casual conversation into an interrogation, yet offers little about themselves. This one-sided dynamic doesn't foster a genuine connection or enjoyable interaction. It’s like hitting a conversational wall, isn’t it? In these situations, it might be helpful to gently steer the conversation towards more mutual topics or share stories that invite reciprocity. This could encourage a more balanced exchange. 🙌🏼

[@angelinasimon3513]

@@ScienceOfPeople Yes, it's like hitting a conversational wall exactly.😆

[@stephensmith7995]

My red flag is when she stops posting the long form videos with depth and substance that first attracted me to her, and now posts short pop-psychology videos meant to attract tictok audiences with the attention spans of gnats.

[@margieway7179]

I wonder if im doing one of the red flags, i often find that i ghost family and friends alot... i just feel happy alot of the time being left alone and then when i feel like im ready to show myself and comunicate, i will come back around... i dnt understand it but i have always been this way and it does irritate ppl which i dnt meen to be rude but it comes off as rude...

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for sharing! It sounds like you value your personal space and time, which is completely okay. 👍🏽 Everyone has their own comfort levels with social interactions. Maybe you could try explaining to your loved ones how you feel about needing alone time and that it’s not meant to upset them. Communicating openly about your needs can help them understand your perspective better, and it might make them more supportive of your personal space. 🙌🏼✨

[@undarksmusic]

Love you both! You're both AMAZING 😎

[@einzelstein5291]

I can't hear red flags anymore...

[@DillonJayasuriya]

2:50 sounds like a person with fearful avoidant tendencies

[@Adventuresofastreetdrummer]

A huge red flag is someone who insists "we both bring our 50%." This only breeds co-dependence and complacency. A healthy relationship is 100% meets 100%.

[@fireket]

50+50=100 😂

[@Adventuresofastreetdrummer]

@@fireket Clearly you have some work to do, love

[@fireket]

@@Adventuresofastreetdrummer Thanks for caring

[@CalicoCooperFan]

Passive aggressive behaviors is one.

[@rmap206]

Too much body language for me that it gives me anxiety. Less eye to eye contact to each other as well

[@8randomprettysecret8]

I let you all down... :(

[@amygalvin1799]

Red flag….. speaking poorly of their ex’s on first date. They aren’t over them.

[@joshgreatscott]

No more lame Blaine

[@susanmorales6941]

You talk too fast girl on right