7 Subtle Signs He's Wasting Your Time And Will Break Your Heart + 2 CRUCIAL Things You Need To Do

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@ashleyoverholt449]

thank you very much

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💝

[@mtnhausgurl]

Thank you @ Helena. I 'm super happy for you. You found a real man and loving you sincerely. Always take care of yourself. God bless you both 🌹❤️

[@ashleyoverholt449]

I know that I have to brake off our relationship, I realized that I have talk to him, I realized that I can't do it by phone I have to do it face to face, and really tell him off, am willing to do this in front of all my friends at work.

[@alexisshaw3634]

My guy did that hot and cold behavior for the fist year we were together. I started seeing someone else and just kept our relationship casual until I had enough and told him I was leaving. He came back begging and gave me a promise ring. It's been 6 months since then and we are going strong...no more hot and cold. The moral of the story is if your intuition is telling you that you have something special with someone hold on loosely (like the song says). Don't cling. Have a back up plan. Be ready to walk away and mean it. My man finally came around and realized he didn't want to lose me. And I finally realized I had to quit being clingy and let him come to me. I live my life for me now and I don't rush things and I don't let him rush things either. I tell him all the time "lets just simmer". I am so glad I didn't give up! Never met a man more perfect for me!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Alexis! 💞

[@pinkypie445]

I Have had this happen so much and I just had to let him go and let him be ,I told him I don't like to bother people when they are busy.But I beg to differ if someone likes someone they'd send them a wee text,but maybe not.I just had to walk away and haven't contacted him for like 3 weeks now.Its hard,but I need to focus on me and what I have to do right now to be strong again and shiz In my life.

[@kechuri2706]

What happened now Pinky

[@deepdiver849]

So your intuition told you that the guy who was hot and cold with you, was the man for you ? But you decided to see someone else, and told him you are leaving , that’s when he flipped ? Are you guys still together?

[@RojitaCali]

I wonder if he was avoidant attachment and you are anxious attachment like me? This sounds similar to my situation, thanks it gives me hope! 💕💕

[@lindakitten2481]

My hot and cold guy for two years had an avoidant attachment style, which I thought I could accept because of his good qualities that I loved. It caused me too much anxiety and we called it quits in December. I attracted a great guy a few weeks ago and the extreme contrast has made me aware of what I truly deserve and need in a healthy relationship. Even if this one doesn’t last I won’t settle for less again.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Linda! I’m happy to hear that. 💞

[@phoenixrising8007]

If he’s confused That’s your certainty

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love it, thanks for sharing! 💕

[@thassan530]

So powerfully said

[@lindac6742]

I let go of a man who was leading me on and cancelled a date on me and the SAME day within two hours I was asked out and went on a date with a new guy who is doing all of the right things so far! It was a blind date & it was wonderful!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that Linda, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💗

[@LisaGemini]

Good to hear. My maternal grandparents met o a blind date. I hope they're now in heaven together.

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Letting go is real

[@ashleyoverholt449]

I am very happy for you, to be doing that. I think you should check out my entry, so that way you can get, a better insight on what I had to go with my guy.

[@SuperAnju23]

@@Dragonfly_magictarot yes! True

[@patriciarose2342]

I can vouch. When you can finally get that guy out of your life who drifts in and out, you won't miss him. You will despise him for wasting your time and move on to your whole and wonderful self. Cut yourself loose from time wasters. You deserve so much better and you will see everything differently later.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here, Patricia! 💕

[@patriciarose2342]

@@HelenaHartCoaching ❤️

[@phoenixrising8007]

💥🎯💥🎯💥🎯

[@kimgordon3695]

Such a lovely testimony 💕

[@cherylb2008]

It can hurt a lot when a man doesn’t return your feelings, but still enjoys the benefit of your companionship and time.( coking cleaning etc) That does not necessarily mean sexual aspects. If you are in later years, it’s rough to realize the man doesn’t want a romantic relationship. Takes strong self care to get rid of them.

[@phoenixrising8007]

Never make a man a priority if your only an option💥🎯

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s so important! 💙

[@pinkypie445]

So true

[@jeanine7540]

I have a 4 day limit , I don’t hear from them . I’m gone ! Wont go from texting to talking, one week , I’m gone ! Wants to comeback or re appears I tell them , ghosting not allowed . I run!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Jeanine!

[@sherrylldominique4990]

4 days is a long time. I give 2 days.

[@Nina-ur3ld]

Is it working because it is pretty strict? I think it is a good idea to have dealbreakers but I think the lack of communication can be discussed. A dealbreaker would be more sth like lying or not hold their word for a couple of time for me.

[@melissaafkari593]

I was able to let go of an unavailable man who made me an option for over a year. Though painful it was one the biggest learnings of my life. He helped me learn and understand what kind of love I want to attract. I haven’t met the right man yet, but I know everyday I am setting the right mindset and giving myself the time and self-love to attract the right man for me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Melissa! Yes, the love you desire is an absolute guarantee to you - and it definitely sounds like you’re on the right track! 💗

[@kimgordon3695]

💝💝💝Grasping the concept of UNAVAILABLE is key to #Freedom

[@kimgordon3695]

ThankYou Helena 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

@@kimgordon3695 You’re welcome! 💕

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

Same with me. He taught me what I DONT want in a relationship.

[@cocoglasgow6785]

"Feel 'GRATEFUL' they faded away!!!" Just what we all need to hear so we don't drag one spec of negative energy into the next relationship!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes! I’m glad that resonated with you! 💕

[@Komorebidreams]

I get really happy when I walked away from a man who obviously was not relationship material. I felt light and free. I’m glad I stayed true to my dating intention. Had I stayed in- I would have been sucked in to his myriad of broken wing issues. I walked away with my head high and dignity and integrity in tact.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here Marci, I’m happy to hear that! 💕

[@raimehoward]

Such a GREAT feeling!!!

[@SaimaKhan-xx7pg]

well done

[@our.secret1130]

What are broken wing issues?

[@doulalina]

Yes, you want what wants you!! And immediately let those who aren’t fighting for you. It takes inner child work to stop chasing love and learn to receive it, if you weren’t given the love you needed as a child. That helped me realize I didn’t need to chase. Let the man show you. Words mean nothing. Yes let go of low effort guy finally now dating a great guy.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I love what you said here Justine, thanks for sharing! These videos should be helpful for anyone who’s looking to heal their inner child and stop chasing love outside of themselves: kzbin.info/www/bejne/emrRonWlZ8mHesk and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hH_Ne3aDaqutZtU.

[@ohshesglamorous]

All of this is so true, a man that wants you will let you know with his actions. Congratulations again Helena! ❤️

[@patriciarose2342]

So true. No action, no man

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@irawise8315]

This is true. But please, please can someone tell me WHY why this keeps on happening to me?! The guys that I DON'T like - come on strong, chase and pursue and make time to see me in their life..But the guys that I actually LIKE ( like the current guy I'm seeing), acts like I'm just an nth variable he needs to "factor in" into his life...WHY?!! ( It's just *so* unfair!)

[@patriciarose2342]

@@irawise8315 I think it's like Helena said before; in your mind and subconscious you put yourself before the guys you don't like ( they see a challenge). But you put the guys you do like before yourself. They will only respect you as much as you respect yourself. You need to pull back, be busy with your beautiful self. You and your time is valuable. He needs to see that.

[@patriciarose2342]

@@irawise8315 oh and start looking for someone else. Don't consider yourself steady or attached until he starts talking future. Just don't settle 🙏

[@Flixy282]

Hard truths- but absolutely true! Know your self worth! No matter what attraction you feel- these sort of people are never going to be worth your time

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! I talked more about that kind of man and dynamic in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn3NZJKqptl2o9E

[@costelloandlizzievolk2233]

I’ve finally let go of and removed the men from my life who were doing these things. 💪🏼😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Awesome, I’m happy to hear that! 💕

[@dawnastebbins7526]

Hurrah!! (Yay!😃)

[@kimgordon3695]

"if a man is into you He will prioritize the relationship" 2:00

[@kimgordon3695]

Don't bother talking your self into NADA

[@kimgordon3695]

"we'll see" ??? NO!

[@kimgordon3695]

If he's IN n OUT: HE'S O U T!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights and takeaways here, Kim! 💜

[@kimgordon3695]

@@HelenaHartCoaching any time LOVELY

[@laxmiuppin4959]

Thank you 🙏🏽 Love when you said “when he disqualifies himself” Congratulations on your blessed union❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@angela-donna3332]

That's sad and true.... The love of my life said that to me. "Maby you should go back to your ex".... I never could imagine him saying those words to me....

[@nurhusna505]

Thank you Helena. I listened to you and Adrienne Everheart in December and January, hoping to save my 2 years relationship. I changed, my whole mindset changed. We got back again and apparently broke up after another two weeks. I was different, not being the previous female who would kneel down for him. Then after 3 weeks of alone time, to assess my feelings and just casually meeting new people through tinder. I met someone. Someone who is totally different, who is madly in love with me, respects me and straight forward is making actions to make me his wife. Already two months in this relationship and its going stronger day by day. Thank you again ❤❤❤❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! Thanks for sharing your experience here. ❤️

[@rebeccajones8628]

Thank you. I hate all the channels that tell us to work these losers into loving us. This video came up and I needed it.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Rebecca, I’m glad this was helpful! 💜

[@Honeybee-qc4np]

I stopped seeing a guy like this! He literally would go weeks or even a month or so without having time and had the nerve to act sad like he didn’t see it coming. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. I’m glad you were able to walk away! 💕

[@janetsmithson2156]

I ended things with a guy like this after 7 years .... the guy I'm seeing now told me he loved me after 4 weeks and is consistently showing me how much I matter to him. It feels wierd because I'm used to flakey men who string me along but I also worry that he may be so keen to nail me down because he's insecure. It would be great if you could post a video about healthy v unhealthy Male attraction Helena 🙏🙏💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Janet! These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJ-7oH6JgqaHpaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oKLHkmxtqrWFp6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqvQmYOIdraFask.

[@caitm8209]

I love you at 4 weeks is a red flag in my book. Beware of men trying to shove you into a mold they've been waiting to fill. You need to wait for a man willing to see you for you, and not use you as an object to feed his insecurities.

[@aBBy-pq4tx]

Your own words are speaking to you as your intuition may have picked up on something with your new guy, especially if you’re questioning it. Your intuition is your guide. I also think 4 weeks is too soon to call it love, imo.

[@emilyb1438]

Yeah I am NOT a fan of eager beavers. Part of the reason I’m enjoying the slower pace of a guy I’m seeing now. But at this point it’s seemingly so slow, that I’m not sure he’s ready. We do see each other twice a week and communicate fairly regularly though…so maybe!

[@bridgee4795]

I've experienced all these from the same person. I split 3 times in 4 months of it. Then thought about it for 4 months realised I did the right thing and can't remain friends so I told him to throw away the key. I feel so relieved to know at all times I defend myself. My head controlled my heart and for him not to fade away but for him to know am out for good. If a decent person comes along so be it. If not am happier loving myself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💛

[@Gigi-rg7xy]

Number 6 is very important! My ex dumped me once , came back (after 5 months) and then a year later dumped me again , saying he was unsure about us. By the way this was a 4 year relationship with a child. Ladies always have your guard up!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜

[@sasdon8]

I had a relationship where I was prioritizing and he was halfway out the door. I was in denial of his pulling away (I.e) ignoring the red flags then tried to prove to him how much better I was becoming (because we fought a lot) & he was gone and I was shocked. The most shocked I’ve ever been. These tips are great so we don’t make the same mistakes again.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here Stacey, I know many women can relate. ❤️

[@fleetingfootnotes9133]

If you're fighting a lot, no wonder he was pulling away. You don't get into relationships for the fights. Rather than paying attention to the tips in the video, it's better to pay attention to what you've done in and for the relationship. Hold yourself accountable and responsible.

[@RosinesCloset]

I love how you said, " you want these guys to string you along so they can leave, and the right guy can come along." I have never heard it like that??!! I love the advice about who is the next guy instead of how to get your ex back. I can't wait to meet my next guy to seem like everything aligns!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! Yes, you WANT the men who are stringing you along to drop off and fade away - that shouldn’t be a trigger for you to try to “go after” them. These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/baPCk5RqoLeYl7M, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nKvcm4CihKlmpcU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaGQd4CtmNx8j6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hGaUYYOsr5Wmrpo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/p33Elaybnq12kMk.

[@ginnybenett428]

I recently experienced this - he seemed so interested at first and then backed off breadcrumbing- I let go by stopping the communication- you make a great point - he did me a favor. Now I have a guy who is aggressively pursuing me and not afraid to let me know he wants me, what a difference, he is worth me giving it a try.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💜 Absolutely, I talked more about that in these videos: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqMsi=TjcjWk_JYC35qEMT and kzbin.info/www/bejne/e3fdm4OPqNKShs0si=bLTke7RNdcQFhqQx.

[@jessicathejedi35]

HELENA- you nailed it! the guy I dated brought up the “a woman from my past has reappeared...she’s the one that got away...I’m so confused what to do.” I had never been in this scenario before so I handled it pretty poorly at first. But saved face and showed him I was gone/out - he wound out coming back to me, but it never felt the same afterwards, even though we discussed marriage and kids. More like friends with benefits energy- blah. My intuition told me this was the case. Luckily his guilt caused him to break up with me shortly after - dodged a bullet! Also Ladies....HE brought up wanting marriage and kids to ME on the 2nd date. Signs that I was going in the right direction. But ultimately he wound up still being in player energy. It happens!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. I’m glad you were able to listen to your intuition and you’re moving on now! 💜

[@dianeat_the_beach3741]

This is so good, I did this and it’s so true- they weed themselves out and I am able to spare myself the emotional agony of getting attached too soon! Thanks Helena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Diane! Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💗

[@joannapilibosian1776]

I so appreciate you sharing your words of wisdom. It had been a long time since I had dated and a wonderful (I thought) man perused me. It was good at the time. But soon realized he was breadcrumbing me and was not yet divorced. He ended up ghosting me. It hurt my heart so much, and was the best thing for me in the end. I will never again do this! I’m not bitter, but grateful 💛

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here Joanna, I know many women can relate. I’m glad you were able to learn from this situation and move forward. ❤️

[@ananeixon]

He really likes me 😍 I just did a huge transformation and now I attract other type of guys that are very masculine. My mind sometimes can not even believe it that this one is just there reliable and consistent in such a way!! :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m so happy to hear that, thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞

[@linda3982]

Yes definitely experienced the being put on the back burner, not a priority, when I asked him he said I was important and I finally had a conversation with him and then we talked about it a week later and he finally communicated that he doesn’t have time because of stress and work. So I said fine, I am ready to be in a relationship with someone Who wants to be in a relationship and moved on although I did let myself get attached to him so it hurt my heart when I broke it off, but I have a date this weekend with someone else and I will just continue dating until I meet the right guy !,,

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here Linda, I know many women can relate. You definitely made the right decision! This video might be helpful going forward: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs

[@Kate.Sangalang]

When he pulled away after telling him I fall in love with him, i let him go and then he came back after a month. Now, were exclusively dating.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Kate! 💜

[@lorenadelrio8409]

This is so true DONT waste your time on men like that ! Helena you are always on point love your videos

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Lorena! 💕

[@divinegift-as1845]

Men fading off, which is good sign to meet the achual man meant for a high value woman 👍. I like it. Embodying with gratitude for unhealthy men fading away to universe. Thankyou Love. God bless You ❤️ Ashwini - From India🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad that resonated with you! These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3KZc5p9Z5lpmLc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs.

[@LisaGemini]

Amazing advice, Helena! Very helpful. I've also heard that if a man says something like: "My kids are my world," believe him! You'll never be his priority. There are many flaky guys out there (and likely women, too) and like you say, it's just fine with me if they disqualify themselves. The earlier, the better! P.S.: Did you get a honeymoon?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! Thanks for sharing your insights here, too. We’re waiting a couple months and are excited wherever we decide to go! 💕

[@LisaGemini]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Well, be sure to get one because the honeymoon is usually more fun than the wedding, LOL.

[@laurabreig5310]

aint that a good thing that he makes his kids his priority cuz i thought that anyone should come second to his or her kids cuz i have two kids and they are my priority over anybody even myself ?

[@lynseymckenzieyoga1627]

Thank you so much Helena! This is very timely, such good advice and listening to your words has helped me realise I need to let go of that flakey guy and make space for a man who deserves my attention ❤

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/sHyooKZrd75lpKM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJTNd6Sqlqydabs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGeqpJ6kbKqCfc0.

[@dawnsmith4311]

Saved this video. I will listen over n over. For strength, thank you .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💗 These videos should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@scorpiored3871]

I experienced all of these signs,was too in love to see the red flags,therefore, my heart got broken!Thank you 😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate (we’ve all been there!). 💞

[@carolcrowder8023]

Yes. All 7. I need to let go.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Carol! This video should be helpful for letting go and moving on: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs

[@sylvieb5498]

I would love to hear your thoughts on the right man at the wrong time. God told me who the ONE is … and it has been close to 5 years now that I know without a doubt. I am waiting for this man to step up. It has been hard.

[@dawnsmith4311]

Yep someone has definitely been doing their homework thank you so much for sharing your wisdom.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Dawn! 💜

[@chrisbigarani1691]

It was nice just hearing your delivery without a guest. Wonderfully succinct! :-)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed this! 💜

[@marylaureen549]

The man that I just broke up with (long distance) started with daily face time and slowly turned to random texts "I love you - Miss you" etc etc ..but the ACTION wasn't there. It had me very confused for a good month because we were so close in the beginning. He was always so busy with work etc. My gut felt sick about it all the time. I wasn't sure when Id hear from him, and he always seemed to "miss" my call, so I quit calling. When I finally broke up with him, he had the nerve to say that I was "giving up." Furthermore, 2 years ago we tried dating and he backed away in a similar way. I never wanted to talk to him again but when I bumped into him, he spilled his love for me and I gave it another change. Well, learning lessons over here!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Mary - it sounds like your intuition was right all along. I’m glad you were able to move on! 💜

[@theservinggirl]

🗣 Yes FADE away !! I love that!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💕

[@drshilpashah443]

All the things u said are so true..but it hurts when a guy gives us such signs...thanks

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜

[@jkdiverkaren]

Helena, This video I is so accurate!!! I just broke up with this type of man. I needed to be reminded he is not good for me. Thank you.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in a similar situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@itscecille1364]

True. A man must know what he wants same with us woman. Do you have a video for Long distance relationship advice Ms. Helena?

[@kayuhfainweh8716]

Yes i need this too

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, these videos should be helpful if you’re in a long distance relationship: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hmG2oqKcl955gZo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYPQZJWfZqmBipo.

[@itscecille1364]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you😘

[@dawnastebbins7526]

Oh Helena, so many things you said here are golden. For some reason this video is soothing to my soul. I want to just turn around and give this information to all the girls and young women in my life.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you Dawna, I’m so happy to hear that! ❤️

[@graceromarate8191]

Thanks Helena..He has displayed some of these red flags..though painful, but I need to learn to let go..either way, it would hurt to hold on or let go .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Grace! These videos might also be helpful for your situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/g3XZaaGjab5oe80, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck.

[@mariarooney183]

Can say all too familiar with with that! Specially the waiting around! Nothing worse! So so frustrating! But not anymore! I'm 50 now and way too old to be wasting time & energy on Wishy washy guys! Single atm. But feel I've learnt to value myself more and except nothing bit the best! 💖

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Maria! I’m happy to hear you’re valuing yourself more now. I actually recorded a video on why you should never “wait“ for a man, and what to do instead: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has

[@aditisubba7729]

Indeed the best relationship coach ever i love your advice and it has helped me a lot ❤ ♥ lots of love from India. 🇮🇳

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, I’m happy to hear that! ❤️

[@everydayisnew1831]

I believe if we recognize these signs and don't get held up too much along the way, we'll be setting ourselves up for a more sure success, if we treat this like a goal.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I agree - thanks for sharing! This video should also be helpful for anyone looking to do that: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck

[@karolina3920]

Helena thank you so much for this advice.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIvHfZJjlNZlnJYsi=uywKdjbJl4qTZnAW

[@DaughterOfLove17]

Thank you very much for these pearls of wisdom 🌻

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💝

[@Chimalmita1]

Ladies who do online dating. Have you ever had this situation: a guy asks you out, the details are set (place, time), but he doesn't ask for your number? How do you feel about it?

[@Nini-rl7tc]

I don’t mind. If the date goes well we can exchange numbers at the end of the date.

[@patriciarose2342]

I'd rather not give out my number until Ive met him. I would just make sure I know the place we're meeting before I show up there so I know it's a place I would actually hang out, I would be there early and bring a book or something. That way I can choose my seat, get comfortable and if he doesn't show, for whatever reason, I will still enjoy myself. It also solves the dilemma of "who's going to be fashionably late?".

[@ashleyoverholt449]

A lot of this has been happening in my relationship, he has a hard time settling with one person. Both set's of parents, don't approve of our relationship. He has a hard time settling with one person, he always has to be with other women, as well with me, he even tried to make me jealous of other girls. Even though he talked about being exclusive with me, and he continued doing the same thing every time. He had talked about getting close with me, every time I try he pulls away, like am not good enough for him. I believe that I deserve to be treated better then that.

[@ashleyoverholt449]

I always felt that I was more of a option, then I was a priority, when it came to my relationship with my boyfriend mark, he always made me feel that way all the time.

[@tgt7924]

He’s stringing you along.. A man with other girls around him like that would make me feel anxious. You definitely deserve better than that, girl.

[@ashleyoverholt449]

appreciate your advice, am a little confused about how to handle the situations, should I be more up front with how I feel and tell him, or should I just ignore him and put it all behind me.

[@skyeseas]

@@ashleyoverholt449 get it behind you as soon as possible. healing takes time. you have a hero’s journey to begin, & it starts with choosing yourself.

[@tgt7924]

We have to remind ourselves that we can’t expect a man to change no matter how good of a woman you are. You’re free to tell him how you feel. I’d just suggest not to have expectations after. If you feel you need to keep your options open for other men, then do so. As they say, don’t put your eggs in one basket, especially for a man that doesn’t make you his priority as the only woman. Take care, girl

[@pure-pisces9470]

Brilliant again Helena, Thankyou 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💙

[@januarybaby]

Every video you make is a gem

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@windyrainStorm]

He told me he can't give me commitment and that he doesn't see us forever but I still miss him whenever I do no contact. I don't know how to let this feelings go 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now, these videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/hpSodXuirc2FgKM.

[@shuchow4336]

Same thing happened to me 😢😢.. I tried to keep myself busy with job,,, & families.. Try this trick.. If possible, you can travel places... Stay well.. Good luck

[@gemini0794]

what got me so confused and staying in the relationship for 3 years! is that even though he told me he was not ready for making a commitment with me, but that he wanted to develop his trust in me, and that he saw the potential in being together. Anyway, after 3 years, he continues wondering. Happily is the end now

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. 💜 Yes, men typically know right away whether or not they’re interested in pursuing you for something serious. My husband and I talked more about that in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lXWWaHSGfLSsbrssi=QwYhgcUczRIsHGUe

[@reshgalvez]

OMG!!! Thank you soooo much for this video!! Now I know that my intuition was right 😁❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Regina! 💕

[@dawnsmith4311]

My new word disqualified lmao. That feels good & powerful I like it!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@khadijahnyabinghi]

Thank you so much Helena Hart. I needed to hear this.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad this was helpful for you! 💜

[@gabriellecjt]

Love this video. Thank you so much, Helena ❤️ very informative! I really like your presence and energy, feels like it comes from a loving place.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Gabriella! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pXfZl4GjjLKom6c, kzbin.info/www/bejne/iamXpad7gLp_has, kzbin.info/www/bejne/fYfRm5ppiquMmrs and kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck.

[@somprad4362]

Helena you are the best

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you! ❤️

[@peterpisspotty3052]

Great channel - very good advice

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you!

[@trinahope9733]

It was perfect timing seeing this video! Thank you Helena! 💖 🙌

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Trina! 💜

[@anjaknatz7157]

A good sign would probably be if he tells you, he does not want a relationship at all...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, that’s one of the signs I shared in this video! 💙

[@AmyElizabethBehnke]

Knowing The Truth sets you free 🙏😇

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Absolutely, thanks for sharing! 💜

[@missware2677]

At this point I just want him to ghost me. lol 😂

[@realtalktina]

This is very helpful I wished I watched this earlier we know things aren’t right but I guess we hope for better treatment

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn3NZJKqptl2o9Esi=HzH9SJG4QqDJvM8r and kzbin.info/www/bejne/iIvHfZJjlNZlnJYsi=IxtwGhGC-khSeMP5.

[@astariaseraphina2478]

Thank you, Helena! We love you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️

[@innervoicejargon]

Yeah I made the mistake of falling in love too fast and being hurt and heart broken and strung along by this sort of man.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many people can relate. These videos should also be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mn3NZJKqptl2o9E, kzbin.infozKEos5BY2nA?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@AudioRevelation144Hz]

Exactly I have loads of admirers honestly, not dealing with time wasters. ❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Love it, thanks for sharing! I’m happy to hear that. 💖

[@AudioRevelation144Hz]

@@HelenaHartCoaching ❤️❤️❤️

[@mageslvr2803]

💫Thank you so much! Needing all this right now! 💫

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💛

[@pusongfilipina]

Exactly, I love this video. Thank you Helena . I am relief for now. More power to serve woman’s that deserve the true love.🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! This video should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck

[@renataljubic2672]

Great video...so true...thank you🥰

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Renata! 💙

[@tjaspire]

I feel like if there's any vagueness about where your relationship is going, HE IS WASTING YOUR TIME. Anything along the lines of refusing to define the relationship or something like, "let's just see where this goes," yeah, red flag.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜

[@katharina1439]

I'm always into men like this😳 every guy is like that too me. I know i have to work on my self worth😶

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many women can relate. These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs.

[@katharina1439]

Thank you. ❤ I'm very grateful for your content🥰🤗😘

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it’s been helpful! 💗

[@clareyangzhu]

Definitely needed to hear this!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful, Clare! 💕

[@jenniferfitz1973]

I wish I had seen this about a year ago. 😪 Thank you, Helena!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Jennifer! ❤️

[@christinaregan-ardito4559]

I love your videos , I never knew how to date and my worth until I saw your videos! You are my favorite dating coach 💯

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Christina! I’m happy to hear that. ❤️

[@pinkypie445]

He did all these things and never made time for me ,kept stringing me along.I fell for him and my emotions were into him ,but I had to disconnect with him cuz I knew he wasn't into me or respected me like he said he is

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, I’m glad you were able to move on! This video might be helpful for future reference: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmncfJSNg8mkbck

[@shamaaara8056]

Helena you are a blessing to us ❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Aww thank you! 💗

[@tanjao.4312]

That one on one time point is so true!!!! Don't know whether you mentioned this before. But I experienced that

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Tanja! 💕

[@pamelakapke62]

Great job on these points!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Pamela! 💗

[@fonduelol]

You just exactly described the man that I am working on letting go of. The only sign he didn't give me is that he mostly wanted one-on-one time with me and while he was seeing other girls, I didn't know about it until after we broke up. I'm hoping and praying that I will attract the right man after learning SO many lessons of what not to do from this past relationship.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Laura! You absolutely will - letting go of men like this who are not truly FOR you is an important first step, you’re definitely on the right track! These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs.

[@sarahnelson2600]

So applicable for me right now! THANK YOU

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Sarah! This video should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU

[@hcassy1521]

Good points

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@DatingstoriesRea]

Very very good , straight to the point :) still waiting to attract the right guy :)

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Rea! 💕

[@kathyarmstrong8644]

Great direction

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Kathy! 💕

[@sheridansie10]

Loved this. Thank you!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Sheri! 💕

[@yaelri1430]

Well said Helena

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 🧡

[@CherylNegus]

🌼🌻🌺🌷💐 Its so hard to know in the first few weeks if they're genuinely preoccupied or neglecting you. Its hard to gage whether your feelings are valid or you're being insecure. Its hard to tell if they are genuine when they come to your door upset when you finally get fed up and tell them not to call again. Only for them to continue being silent again. 🌼🌻🌺

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

That’s why it’s important to watch their consistent actions over time before getting overly invested. A man’s actions (or LACK of action) will usually tell you everything you need to know about his intentions and interest level. My husband and I explain more in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZfMhYijlKl2d9k

[@Lisa-zk9pc]

Nice video, your hairs looks awesome!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Lisa! 💖

[@Deathdoulamedium]

Thank you 🙏. I’m letting go and looking forward to attracting wonderful!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome Kimberly, I’m happy to hear that! 💕

[@iMikkeysat]

Wow. Helena You are amazing woman.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful for anyone who’s in this situation: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bXelcqZ-pLGGhaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3jOc5xmos-meaM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZXdl5mGdsR8d6s and kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z6DFoJKni6p8ftU.

[@MajicGurl]

This was great!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💕

[@MsErazon]

Hi Helena, I’ve been watching a lot of your videos and also other coaches. Thank you for all the insights! My request is if you can talk about the Almost Relationships types and how to move on from that & just how trapping this dynamic can be. Thanks 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! These videos should be helpful if you haven’t seen them yet: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/houTi3qpadaZpK8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs.

[@kathrynmcgovern4242]

Great video !!! Wish I watched it 6 months ago!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Kathryn! 💕