The BEST Way to Declutter Clothing- Declutter your Closet with Tough Love

[@Clutterbug]

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[@poppyseed389]

Loving the 30 day challenge!! I was on the fence about whether to enroll but so glad I did!

[@erikamartin8217]

Is it possible to do it in a few months?!

[@grandmasewhappyhomestead187]

I am loving the bootcamp. I'm also part of the take your house back course.

[@godzdaughterh1180]

@@erikamartin8217 I was wondering the same ... I'm having some life issues right and need more time...😉💜🤗🙇‍♀️

[@KatiesWorldSCRAPBOOK]

YES!!! I joined and it's AWESOME!!!!!!

[@barbmureillesplace7338]

That doctor is toxic and should be brought before the board. You are beautiful just the way you are. We all love you

[@sthompson2839]

Exactly! After the first time, I would never have gone to her again. 😢

[@marceattack1]

Omg that doctor is terrible!!!! 🤯 I can't believe she did that and said that to you! That's terrible, I'm sorry

[@fianorian]

You gave us a 2-4! Two lessons in one vid. In my sixties now, I have days when I look at my face and wonder, "What if I got the eyebrows tweeked? The chin lifted, the lines botoxed?" On other days I just shrug and say, "I'm in my sixties. Life happened," and move on. Society seems to think that if you don't look sixteen, you're not pretty, and it's time we changed that mindset.

[@jacquidanke1263]

WE ARE GETTING SO MUCH TOXIC-PERFECTION BALONEY FROM THE MEDIA! YOU AE LOVELY AND LOVED JUST THE WAY YOU ARE.

[@bellec7893]

Cas you are beautiful! I have NEVER thought anything about your nose other than it's cute. Joe fell in love with your heart and your face and we all did too! God made you perfect for us all to love and look up to! What an example to your kids (and all of us) to love yourself the way you were designed!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Believe it!!💙💙💙

[@sheilafelix113]

Yes! I always thought her nose was cute. Cass you are beautiful!

[@angieemm]

It's also important to remember that, first, the dr wanted to make money. Secondly, beauty 'standards' change. Remember back in the 80s when everybody wanted Cybill Shepherd's nose? Nobody's paying for her nose now even though it's a perfectly delightful nose then and now. The beauty industry is dumb and harmful.

[@lisaschooler9992]

I can’t BELIEVE any cosmetic MD even SUGGEST a nose job unless client had asked first. Note: I did indeed notice Cassis extremely “smooth and tight” forehead a couple of months ago, And was happy she had decided to do it for herself apparently but I had no idea ANY clinician would push other things….

[@johnandkitty]

I never noticed your nose in all the years that I've been watching you. Just be you, that's the you we love and appreciate.

[@sandywilliams848]

I agree!!!

[@Mistypitt1]

"It's not the bra it's the age" 🤣🤣 This made me laugh so hard! Thank you for this motivation to get rid of those pieces I've never liked!! You're awesome Cass!! ❤️

[@rebekahpowers1595]

So funny it’s the age 😂😂😂!

[@CareersbyJenn]

I was sad to hear that this happened to you...AND...YOU are beautiful just as you are! Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing this story and all your decluttering wisdom...I love watching your channel because you are so real. We all need to love ourselves just as we are which is hard given the pressure and expectations out there about how women need to look. As you know, it's bunk.

[@sandiewhite874]

Cas, I've told you this several times before, you are changing lives! Not only with your DE-CLUTTERING tips, but also with your honesty, humor and love. I have watched you blossom and grow from your very early videos that I started watching and have been inspired by every step of the way. In case you don't know it, your subscribers love you 😘 and the contribution you make to our lives! ❤️

[@merylkleiman3930]

Cas, I've watched your videos for 2 years (and binged some older ones as well during the pandemic) and thank you for all the decluttering inspiration. Thanks to information from you, my apartment is totally different and I'm much happier at 71 (fellow ladybug). I have to say, I never noticed your nose. Not once. Not for a second. I'm sorry for the hard lesson you went through. You have always looked so pretty and young to me. And some unasked for advice, if you need a doctor for any reason about your face, maybe there's another doctor in another town who's not such a ==whatever she is that made her say the word "hideous". I don't want that treatment for you or anybody else.

[@joeandtonyacable6096]

And filler only lasts about 6-9 months, promise! I’ve had it twice now.

[@amandab.6815]

This is so powerful! Today is the first day in over 6 years (since I had my first child) that all the clothes in my closet actually fit me.

[@christinaruiz4183]

Well now you can be rude right back and tell that "Dr." she did a bad job 🤷🏼‍♀️ She talked you into it because she wanted the $500, not be because "Your nose wrecks your face." You're beautiful, funny, creative, successful, and the list goes on and on. Don't ever let anyone tell you what you "need". You know what's best for you 🥰💕

[@LisaSonora]

BEST closet decluttering video ever! The tough love and honest talk about certain clothes being toxic bullies is so refreshing. The insecurities you mention in your story - girl! you are so brave to put this all out there! I am so inspired by you, and that color coral / orange? looks fab on you! Keep rockin' you, just the way you are is gorgeous!

[@jonellebrown8171]

Thank you for sharing. I am so shocked that even such a beautiful tough strong woman as yourself shares these struggles. I’ve been following you for awhile and had no idea that you had such insecurities. I truly appreciate what you do. You help so many with your stories.

[@jacquidanke1263]

WE, AS WOMEN, NEED TO BE KINDER TO OTHER WOMEN BUT TO OURSELVES MOSTLY!

[@denisea3465]

Cas, just earlier today I had gone to your website looking at the 30-day bootcamp. I noticed several pictures of you and thought, “she is so pretty! She was made for tv!” Now you post this video and I totally resonate with you about the weight struggles up and down and all the esteem issues (I’ve had Hashimoto’s for 25+ years). But you should know that we all see an amazing, positive, cheerful, motivating, creative and BEAUTIFUL woman! What am awful doctor, I am so sorry!

[@livinglargeonasmallbudget1027]

I used to hate how my nose hangs down but my husband said my nose was so cute on our first date. I never told him my insecurity but what bothered me was so cute to my husband. it made me realize that other people don't always see what you see and that you need to love yourself for who you are. I never changed my nose and now I love my self for who I am. we are our toughest critic, but screw that doctor because she is wrong. you are beautiful and have inspired me to lose weight.

[@WannaBoogieWithYou]

I wish you could see yourself how we see you because you're amazing! I got a nose job a few years ago and specifically asked for something like your nose. So that lady was absolutely wrong to say that your nose is wrecking your face. Love you, Cas!

[@sherylmccrystal3804]

Cas. I NEVER looked at you and said: oh dear! Look at that nose! We all look at ourselves and compare ourselves to others but…. God made you and you are perfect just the way you are! ❤️

[@emdeers]

Much like your closet tips, this doctor you go to does not make you feel good about yourself. *She’s toxic.* Toss her out of your life. You’re beautiful, you’re kind, you’re successful. The person who says these things to you earns their living making people insecure about themselves. Making them believe they are flawed… and she has the cure. Don’t buy into it. It’s a lie that’s feeding on your insecurity to enrich her bottom line. You’re beautiful. You’re kind. You’re successful. ♥️

[@SusansCozyKitchen]

Love you for your honesty. Sweetie, I never noticed your nose! Even after you talked about it I kept thinking “what’s wrong with her nose?” I focus on your eyes and beautiful smile when I watch your videos!! Now I desperately need to go through my closet. It’s a hot mess with clothes I can’t wear (1, 2, or 3 sizes too small or so large I never want to go there again). Plus the few things I love and wear all the time and the ones that I can wear but bully me because of how they make me feel about myself. It’s time for the toxicity to GO!! Thanks for the push this morning! 💕

[@TheGenflute]

TESTIFY! I did this exact thing to my closet, and I LOVE IT! I get up in the morning, look at my closet, and everything is a YES. I don't feel bad, it looks beautiful and tidy, and it's super easy to pick it what to wear. I struggle with weight a little too, and I used to just stand there trying to decide what fit, what looked good--now ALL of it is a yes. I have not regretted purging ANY of it. Not one thread. ❤

[@dianedutrisac5829]

Thank you for sharing your story about your nose. It requires courage to share such personal details and also to recognize that you should have listened to your gut and not caved in to someone else’s opinions. We all need to be more self-accepting of our flaws and remember that we are more than our body parts. 💕

[@minskysfeedbackyianni1302]

Hi Cas, I'm a recent subscriber. Sounds like you need to declutter your life of (professional?) people "who make you feel bad about yourself"! Incidentally my first impressions of you were how down to earth & funny you are aswell as how pretty & well proportioned your features are too. The face we had as a kid is not likely to be the same as the one we have now. I've earned my wrinkles so I am not going to be ashamed of them. Some of us improve like a quality wine! Love from Scotland.

[@maryserecky3762]

Love you Cas! I get it. I have tried Botox and thought about plastic surgery. Screw it. I am who I am. I have two adult daughters and I try to think about what advice I’d give them. Love yourself. If people want to do that - great. But you’re right. Trust your gut❤️

[@jeanetteh.9240]

You are a wonderful role model to your daughters. When I think about plastic surgery for myself, I think of my mother (aged 95), who simply continues to dress nicely and fix her hair. She looks beautiful.

[@godzdaughterh1180]

@@jeanetteh.9240 What A Blessing... I have a 98yr old Aunt who still cleans her house... Her kids try to help but she insists she not dead yet 😅... She goes to Church every Sunday...💜🤗🙇‍♀️

[@jeanetteh.9240]

@@godzdaughterh1180 You are right--it's such a blessing! These women give me hope for my future!

[@godzdaughterh1180]

@@jeanetteh.9240 I Know Right Sister ... I've started on my closet and I'm taking them to the Rescue Mission... They help anyone who needs help for free...💜🤗🙇‍♀️

[@katemullinax9694]

I’m 44 years old and I’ve yo-yo’d up and down enough times to have clothes in sizes that run the gamut. I love your encouragement to only have in my closet what fits TODAY. I struggle with body insecurities from top to bottom. I know insecurity stems from comparison and we already know comparison is a thief of joy. But understanding it doesn’t take away the crappy feelings. Thank you for sharing your relatable experiences in a way that only you can. I learn a lot from listening to you, but more importantly, I laugh! And that’s better for my wellness than *anything* else.

[@jacquidanke1263]

YOU ARE A LOVED AND PRECIOUS CHILD-OF-GOD!

[@HannahRainbow88]

OMG! That's so horrible of that lady to do that to you 😥 I can't stand people that push for sales rather than actually caring 🤬 You're right that you can't see it on camera though 💗 I'd be tempted to sue her (or at least give her AWFUL reviews to EVERYONE and on every local webpage/group) just to teach her a lesson... And save others from similar experiences too hopefully!

[@kaycarle8361]

At the very least she should be given her money back!

[@drdawnshoptalk]

What a great message of the power of toxicity and how our clothes can play a more important role in how we feel about ourselves than you might think!

[@kitw76]

I have been dealing with this exact thing! Being menopausal I’ve gained weight about 30 lbs especially weight in my stomach, butt and thighs. After trying on clothes that don’t fit or look flattering I just want to break down and cry. I’ve been decluttering for 2 years and planning to go back into my closet and go thru items again!

[@jennifermoore4808]

I’m in the same boat!! There’s something about this menopause business that just throws everything for a loop! Wishing you all the best 😊

[@kitw76]

@@jennifermoore4808 thank you and you too! It’s rough but to know we are not alone!

[@nancyellen8006]

It’s a struggle for all of us of a certain age. Don’t think you’re alone. I’m just trying to concentrate on eating better for my health, but even that Doesn’t always motivate me. I still give into my weaknesses when eating. We’ll all get through this together and support each other. Good luck! 🤗

[@debbiejungling8513]

same here.

[@g.m.4877]

Yup, I have been lucky in the sense that I haven't really had the hot flushes etc but the weight gain sucks

[@veronicabone8835]

You are beautiful!! No more face jobs!!! I used to be self conscious of my nose which is big and has a bump like it's been broken. Anyway I realized my nose is part of my heritage from my maternal grandmother. Now I'm proud of my nose. No one will ever make me feel bad about myself again.

[@serenitynow8021]

When I was in my late twenties, I had a pair of pink jeans. I loved those jeans. But they were not flattering. I kept trying them on for YEARS, and then feeling bad about myself because they didn't look good, or they were too small, or both. I still remember donating them, and that was over twenty years ago. What liberation! I finally realized, the jeans were wrong, not my body!

[@azillliasmith2734]

Star comment 😊we aren't freaks because an item of clothes don't fit us !! ✊🏻

[@traczebabe]

I am a Clutterbug groupie. Have the books, did the classes. I did this to my closet. I realized I didn’t have enough clothes, that I felt good in, for all the seasons & events in my life. It opened my eyes, I was keeping the never worn, because I bought it. I decided to donate those clothes, and my thinking was maybe someone else would find that item of clothing that they loved at a price they could afford. You are amazing and gorgeous Cas! It’s not sustainable to always be as small as we want to be. It just doesn’t match with life. It’s sad we have too many reminders everyday in media telling us we aren’t good enough. You most definitely are! And so is everyone who is doing their best! ❤️

[@jacquidanke1263]

I AGREE, SISTER! YOU ARE A LOVELY CHILD OF GOD! YOU ARE LOVED AND PERFECT!

[@Nupur.b]

Hey! I feel sad for you that your dermatologist experience was so bad: There are plenty of kind doctors who would have treated you with kindness and helped you get past your insecurities. Wishing you loads of happiness and confidence. You are beautiful as you are.

[@judym4673]

WOW, that dr needs a lesson in humanity !!! I’ve never seen anything other than a fun , beautiful, energetic entrepreneurial woman 🥰🥰🥰😃😃😃😃

[@joekellycanfield6779]

You are the kind, bossy, wonderful big sister I need! ❤️ Thanks for being so real. For the record, I have watched a bunch of your videos and all I thought was, "She's so pretty!" The dermatologist is nuts.

[@KristinPhillips1]

I seriously watch your videos for the story at the end!!! And I have literally have never had a single negative thought about your nose. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. You are not alone!

[@lindseyah]

I think body acceptance over “body goals” is much more healing. Even on hard mental health days, it helps to at least seek for body neutrality (dont love it dont hate it) and trying to be thankful for everything your body lets you do (walk/ hug your family/ cook food for yourself or others/ being able to clean for yourself etc). 💜

[@nancyellen8006]

Thank you for sharing the term body acceptance! I hadn’t heard that before but it sounds perfect to me. I just want to treat my body better so that as I age I don’t get frail, and full of aches and pains because I am too lazy to exercise and stretch my body. Thanks again for your great advice, Lindsey!

[@nataliegover9008]

This is why I love watching you and your videos! You’re real, honest, not afraid to laugh about annoying things in life, and most of all display love and kindness to everyone. Thank you for being you and passing along your loving advice whether for the home or self.

[@jenniferharrington4694]

I love that you can stop halfway through and still know where you left off! Genius! Thank yiu 😁

[@Jade99455]

Girl you’re beautiful , not just saying that. ❤❤ true true love yourself , u only got one

[@janh5199]

I am long in the torso and caught myself trying to pull some of my shirts down. I donated all of those because I realized I was avoiding wearing them. Hopefully they will fit someone that needs them.

[@Lisawhatshersname]

Yes, I avoid certain brands bcz I can't wear them, they don't fit properly

[@tonymartinez457]

You look adorable in the clothes you are wearing right now. Those colors are so spot on for you.

[@MsK_in_CA]

Cas, I’ve been following you for 5+ years and I have NEVER thought anything about your nose. Your beautiful! Inside & out.

[@beam8250]

Sweet, Cas, I am sooooo sorry to hear about your experience! That woman sounds like a horrible practitioner, whom in my opinion, should not be in practice. Who says that to a client and then has the audacity to mess up??!! Thanks for being vulnerable. Your authenticity helps us all.

[@megan2176]

So true, we can't always know who's had what work done, or even what sneaky filters they're using on social media! My friend recently introduced me to filters, and I was blown away by how much "better" I looked. But in the end it's a lie, and I'd rather be my old, wrinkly, puffy, double (triple?) chinned authentic self!! (But oh man, those filters are tempting!!) 😟😅

[@jacquidanke1263]

YOU WERE MADE BY GOD-JUST AS HE WANTED YOU TO LOOK! I BET YOU ARE YOUR WORST CRITIC-LIKE ME! I HATE MYSELF A LOT BUT MOSTLY DUE TO THE PERFECTION WOMEN FEEL THEY NEED TO CHASE/ACHIEVE. IT IS UNATTAINABLE AND I FIND IT EXHAUSTING...UNLESS YOU USE CHEATING TECHNIQUES. I'LL BET YOU ARE LOVELY AND LOOKING AT HOW THE WORLD WOULD JUDGE YOU...THEY DO BUT WHO ARE "THEY?" YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD AND LOOK JUST AS HE WANTED YOU TO!

[@megan2176]

@@jacquidanke1263 Thanks ☺️💕

[@imsleepingbeauty]

People are cruel. You're beautiful. You don't need any of it. And shame on your doctor!

[@tif7252]

Thank you for all the tough love, humor, and decluttering/organizing goodness you bring to all of us! My biggest problem is clothes. I started decluttering them last week. I haven't missed a single thing I've gotten rid of so far! ❤️ Love yourself enough to let them go you will be so much happier! Eta- I'm not going to lie when you said "wreck your face! " I laughed not at you but out of shock. Thanks for the encouragement. We tend to want what someone else has or what we don't have, but others look at us and think the same. Stay blessed friend! ❤️

[@nadinezarowny6216]

So sorry to hear you were treated like that. How aweful! You are gorgeous without any of that. Keep doing you because you are amazing!

[@susanp7432]

Today is my birthday and I got a clutterbug video to celebrate!! Thanks!! 🥳🎂

[@glyderglyder]

Happy birthday May Allah grant success

[@fubar1491]

Great tips for the closet! I had to adopt this rule a couple years back when I moved to a home with a very tiny closet in the bedroom. What a difference it makes! I never ever noticed anything wrong with your nose! I had a boy tell me in grade 3 that I had big ears. I didn't wear my hair up after that until long after graduation. Isn't that crazy one comment can stick eith you for so long!

[@michellewelling9074]

Thanks for the tough love... Hitting the closet tonight. Girl ... You are gorgeous! 🥰 Please, no more fillers. Scary stuff 😳.

[@sandiekaye5241]

I actually need this discipline today before I attack my closet !!!

[@Barribam]

You should put the date on the box that you packed the "too small for now" clothes in. That way when its still there 6 months later you can just donate it. 😆 I've hung on to those boxes for wayyyy too long.

[@nancyellen8006]

I hate to get rid of all of my cute, but too small, clothes. They’re stored in my attic for now with the size written on each box. I just can’t bring myself to give them away…

[@scara1859]

Donate to give those struggling to pay bills a little joy in finding cute clothes that will fit them and make them feel good.

[@cathystinar124]

Omg!! I'm glad that you can get it fixed. I hate that when someone looks at you, and tells you (the exact thing you always think about yourself or some mean thing) and they act like what, it's just a fact. NO MA'AM. YOU ARE A MEAN GIRL. You are so pretty, Cas. Don't let anyone say anything to you!! We got u, girl!

[@JadeCanada237]

It took me a long time to learn to speak to myself the way I would to my best friend. The love, kindness and support I give to them, I have to give to myself too. Also, let's all just ignore clothing sizes! Sizing is NEVER consistent for women's clothing (we all know this) and it has changed a lot over the years. I used to buy an xl in my 20's, but the average clothing size charts showed me I'd be a medium by todays standards! 🤨🤯

[@victoriacarter2537]

Cas, you are beautiful and funny and so honest! Forget that "doctor". She sounds like she preys on insecurity and/or tries to create it to make a dollar. Horrible! You have leveled up the organization game, you are so relatable, and we can identify some parts of our lives with yours - that is true connection! I almost fell out of chair laughing at "toxic dumpster fire". This will be my new label when sorting through my clothing. You are fantastic!!

[@n.pickering5082]

Cass...I adore you! You are so real and I love that. I needed this video today. Thank you for being you!

[@happyx2]

I can't tell you how much I needed to hear your nose story today. Truly. Thank you for opening up to us and being so open and candid. You just saved me from doing something equally as dumb. And by the way, you always look beautiful! 😍

[@randomharts]

Cass, you are just AMAZING!🥰 I’m here for the organizing but your pep talks are equally important!!! You are beautiful and your features make you who you are…sorry for the traumatic situation with the dermatologist. It’s ok to NEVER go back🤔

[@CreateLoveRepeat]

I’ve always thought your nose is cute! It’s crazy that she was that so forward saying that to you over and over. Gracious! PS. What finally made me really love my body was when I caught the dreaded virus that shall not be named. I was so sick, but my body made it through, and spending two weeks being unable to care for my family gave me a new appreciation for this wonderfully imperfect body of mine.

[@lindamaglione7189]

All the time I have been watching you...I never once noticed your nose. What I see is your beautiful smile and EYES...you have beautiful eyes! And your wonderful sense of humor! You have helped me so much get my "stuff" under control. Screw the dermatology lady (can I say that????) Just goes to show that we all have our struggles...and the majority of the time they are with things no one else notices!

[@UnicornAngelEyes]

Cas, you are absolutely gorgeous and perfect. There is nothing wrong with any part of your face or body. I love you just the way you are and so does your family. xxxx 😍😍😍

[@kitw76]

Omg the clip with the pants that didn’t fit was me yesterday! The sales lady kept asking me why I didn’t like the shorts. I kept saying they didn’t fit, made me feel fatter than I already am, simply not flattering. These shorts were expensive and no way was I going to spend that kind of money on an item that don’t make me feel good! Of course she didn’t understand she was like I size 2!!!!

[@u2abulous]

Your derm is a bully! Toss her out! And your insecurity is a bully. Toss out those thoughts! You are gorgeous and inspiring and we love you!

[@moniqueross1850]

For the record, I have never ever thought something was wrong with your nose. There’s nothing wrong with you and you always look great 😊

[@ladybird169]

Oh my dear Cass! I'm so so sorry that happened, I hope you will never visit that person again. That is just horrible. You are such a kind person and so sweet and beautiful, and you make me feel better about my situation. That person doesn't deserve your presence.

[@intherockies]

You are beautiful Cas, inside and out!! We all have something or things we would like to change. I'm getting closer to 60 yrs old and oh boy are there things I would Love to do. I think about Kenny Rogers or Michael Jackson (may they both RIP) and realize we don't want to be messing with our face. I've seen the beautiful woman that have had things done that turned out perfect but I'm not willing to take that chance. These lines everywhere LOL means I lived, laughed, cried, struggled and yes survived it all. When you start thinking something bad about yourself, say NO, I AM Beautiful and I won't allow that thinking any more!! Thank you for helping us all 💞

[@mariatanadelrosario5548]

I’m angry crying for you that you had to experience that! Absolutely horrible “doctor”! Thank you for being so open in the hopes of saving someone else from such an experience. You are SUCH a beautiful person inside and out!!! I’m so sorry you went through that.

[@Clutterbug]

Thank you

[@kimberlynewsom9876]

Thank you for sharing not only the tough love on the closet, but your story at the end. I have to call out those women at the conference you went to - they should never have told you needed to do all the cosmetic stuff they've done. That was not supportive at all, it was rude, and irresponsible. Between that and the rude doctor I'm just so angry for you. But I'm glad you seem to be handling it well and can share it with us. You're a better person than me for sure.

[@teresamarks931]

Oh Cass!! That's horrible!! That dr doesn't know what she's talking about. You have a pretty and youthful face. God made you beautiful inside and out in your own way and there's no one like you. Celebrate you!!😊

[@amywjn]

Thanks Cass! I may have to try this today. Also, I’m in a transition where age is catching up with me. I do not have the financial resources to slow the process, so that is not even an option. So, I am going to have to come to terms with aging. I know that through my life I have met many women who were wrinkly & a bit overweight, but they were so loving & happy & made me feel so comforted. They ended up looking beautiful or cute, it was amazing, their loving personality put some type of real life beauty filter on them 🤔. Lord willing, I want to be like those women for myself, my daughter, & other younger women.

[@nancyellen8006]

Well said! You’re absolutely right about having to come to terms with aging. I’m right there beside you and I’m not having any facial procedures to make myself look “better”. I’m happy just the way I am. At least, that’s what I tell myself most days, lol.

[@bobbiebowen4426]

Cass we all have insecurities for sure but you are beautiful and need no plastic surgery procedures . I’ve been watching and listening to you for years and would have noticed if you had a irregular nose. Your beauty, sincerity and goodness shine out from within, and your sense of humor is delightful.

[@Aundrialynn]

Cas, thank you being so transparent! I know I’m my own worst critic and talk to myself terrible each morning getting dressed. Doing this will be once step closer to loving not only my closet but myself! It’s about time someone helped me get real with myself.

[@erindixon2877]

Try a different perspective. Instead of beating yourself up about what you don't like about yourself, think about your good points. And ask yourself "Is there a good way to improve the things I don't like about my self?" Not drastic crazy solutions but practical ones that are actually achievable.

[@godzdaughterh1180]

@@erindixon2877 Thanks 🥰 I'm going to try this also and pass it along.. 💜🤗🙇‍♀️

[@heavenisaheartbeataway9575]

The end story: It just goes to show you it's a matter of perspective because I find you beautiful and think you have a cute nose. One rule of thumb: don't trust the opinion of someone who has something to gain by making you feel badly about yourself, whether it be monetary or other. I also want to thank you for the information you gave because I hate the mess a lot of methods of cleaning out your closet create. Taking everything out all at once is just not feasible for many of us as we don't have many hours to devote in a row. The way you do it makes it possible to split it up into different times or stop at a moment's notice if something unexpected comes up (emergencies always occur when you are up to your elbows in something). Thank you for all you do. And love yourself. You are beautiful just the way you are!

[@lobkenel3460]

Cas, made me laugh with the "wrecked face" but yes everyone has something and just saying everyone is made perfectly! Wonderfully and Fearfully made! ❤️

[@kerrygearin3910]

Exactly! If any complaints people can take it up with the designer .... designed by God.

[@nealiecruz2532]

This video made me cry!! Who knew clothes could spark so many emotions of the person you used to be, the person you are today and the person you aspire to b in the future

[@angieemm]

If I did this, I'd have nothing to wear but 2 work shirts and a robe. I swore I wouldn't buy another stitch of clothing until I started getting healthier. Turns out, I've only GAINED weight since then. I have very few things that even fit and absolutely nothing that makes me feel good. For normal people, this is a video full of great advice. I love how you make the connection between clutter and mental health, because they're SO CONNECTED and that's very often ignored by creators.

[@Lisawhatshersname]

You are worthy of going to buy new clothing! You are worthy!

[@Marsolan]

Exactly my thoughts. Lol,lol. For example, I should be buying XL but I continue to buy L. How stupid is this? But, most recently, I finally bought a few XL blouses and I look so much better in them. So here we go. Forget the size and buy what fits!!! How about getting 2-3 items that you wear the most in the right cut and size? Good luck!!!!

[@angieemm]

@@Lisawhatshersname You're too sweet. Thank you!

[@angieemm]

@@Marsolan I appreciate it, ma'am. Thank you!

[@lisam8044]

I am 52, my stomach is my issue too...my nice clothes that once fit now makes me feel horrible and it took me to this vid to finally just get rid of 2 garbage bags!!! I can go buy a new dress or suit if i need it

[@josephdaly2015]

Omg I can’t believe someone, especially a doctor, said that to you. You are perfect the way you are. Thanks for reminding us all to love ourselves the way we are because we are all perfect in our own way. Do any of us really want to be a clone of someone else? Nope. This might sound mean but anytime I pass someone beautiful I always say (in my head, not to them) ‘Are they happy’? I’m sure everyone has an insecurity about something. Thanks for all your help, advice and encouragement. Stay safe and healthy. Mary, Joes wife 👏🙏💐👍💪🤞🙇‍♀️

[@lisaeprice]

Your nose looks 100% normal! Thank you for sharing and challenging us to be content with how we look TODAY.

[@jeneancreasonbcba]

Cas-since i did a lot of devluttering in my closet, heck my whole home, I did this in 5 minutes!!!! I put them under my bed ! my closet looks almost empty -but the truth is they dont fit ahymore after covid!! now my closet is simple, positive like the rest of my house’ 💕Jenean

[@amydillardGypsySoul]

"Let's love ourselves the way we are" --Well said Cas! We love you the way you are ;-)

[@suannecobb1393]

Thank you for sharing your struggles with your weight-I have struggled my whole life with it. Love the approach in this video.

[@jennycurtayne7216]

Dear Cas. Thank you for your inspiration. I have lived a 74 year old lady bug mess but that changes today! One can't give away what one doesn't have so one must accept and love who you are in order to love others. God created each one of us to be unique and He thinks we're beautiful. ❤️

[@eponine318]

Cass, I just love you so much. YOU are perfect. Thanks for the video and the amazing story at the end, they're always my favorite part.

[@elisaroberts9463]

Have you ever considered stand-up comedy? Your dermatologist story had me chuckling. But seriously, I've always thought of you as being very cute AND pretty too. You look fine, and I like your moral to the story. :)

[@2lisabarth]

You truly are my FAVORITE KZbinr... I literally get the best advice from your decluttering & organizing expertise AND your end stories!!! Love ya so much Cas!!!! You are one of my favorite humans 🥰

[@Clutterbug]

Awe, thank you Lisa!

[@Spokenfan]

Gosh some Doctors have a terrible beside manner. We are elderly and we cannot find a good doctor anywhere in Central Florida. It seems like they only care about money and not caring for the person. Thank you for sharing, You look Beautiful. Stay safe healthy and happy ✝️ 🇺🇸

[@dena61965]

Unfortunately that's the case everywhere. We are all just numbers in a computer, being treated like we are taking up too much of their valuable time. Gone are the days when Drs. showed true compassion for a patient, now it's just all about the money.

[@nancyellen8006]

I live on the west coast of Florida outside of Tampa. You might ask your friends to recommend their doctors and ask them if their listens to their questions and whether or not they feel rushed during their appointments.Also, try to get more than one recommendation for the same doctor. Sometimes it takes trial and error while waiting for the great doctors. Good luck!

[@Clutterbug]

[@barbaracarbone4658]

OMG what a horrible experience. And that Dr should have her license revoked. She was preying on your insecurity. Plus it leaked!!! I am so surprised to hear you don't like your nose. I think your nose is adorable. I've always thought what a cute nose you have. And you have such a cute face...honestly. .. I've decluttered so much in my closet but I need to do more. I'm trying hard to not have any "just in case" pieces. I'll try again. Thanks much. 😍✌

[@ivyandroses25]

This is the first video I've watched of yours. Please don't ever get near that troll again. I think your nose is perfect for your face. It's lovely and so are you, just the way you are. It's been a few years since you made that video, but it never hurts to get a reminder. 😊

[@maryellenwilcox2008]

Cas, you are beautiful and inspiring!!! We all love your stories 🙂 and encouragement you bring to each of us. Girlfriend, you even have a TV show that we all love to watch you display your gift of immediately defining someone’s organizing style and implementing it. We all love you!!! Don’t change one thing!!😘

[@rebekahbratton793]

Cas, I GENUINELY mean this…you have ALWAYS been VERY pretty to me even before you had weight loss surgery!! Thank you for always being yourself and real. 🥰

[@mindfuljourneys3010]

I love your idea about using tough love when decluttering in your closet and then giving yourself permission to hold onto a few items you love!! I will be using this with a friend when I am working with her at her home. I also always appreciate your wisdom combined with your humor. They are so an impactful and meaningful but not too heavy. TY for just being your beautiful self!!

[@WYO-KG]

I can’t believe there is anybody who doesn’t ‘stay to the end” of your videos. They’re so good. Love the organizing and the real life. 😘

[@Clutterbug]

So glad!

[@joyfulalessi7628]

Thank you for being so sacrificially open and vulnerable!! ❤️ you really helped me today.

[@natashabraga4407]

Just came across this video. I am in the middle of a whole house declutter journey, tackling it room by room. I’ve come a long way, my decluttering muscles are getting stronger, but I still have a bit to do. I’ve been dragging my heels at the thought of having to deal with my closet. This is the best closet declutter video I have ever seen! I love that you can do it in bite-sized chunks as not to get too overwhelmed. I am feeling very hopeful now. Thank you so much for all the encouragement and tough love you dish out to us!

[@rhiannonNK]

Thanks for sharing! I’m sure that was hard! I didn’t notice anything wrong and I never before thought there was anything wrong w your nose. I hope it gets better!!

[@indiganoir]

0:40 was exactly what I needed to hear!

[@PhoebesWorldProductions]

I recently went through ALL my clothes..... I tried everything on, and let go of 3 large bags for donation, and one large bag for garbage. =) That "Bully" thing is really helping me..... I've been working a little at a time, here and there, throughout the whole house..... it's making a big difference..... there's a lot of work to do, but I'm getting better at letting some things go. Thank you for sharing that difficult story. I'm sure it'll help many people. I'm sorry you had to "learn the hard way" but I'm glad you learned something important. I've got two weird things - lumps (I don't know how to describe them)... on my chin area..... No one has ever mentioned them, but, my whole life, I've looked in the mirror and seen them and hate them, I think it looks strange, and it seems like they're getting more and more noticeable as I get older, and I notice that when I smile they aren't as "pronounced" ..... ;) so, that's one good reason to smile. ;) But, anyway, if they weren't there, I wouldn't look like me.

[@petadiana6016]

Your story made me cry Cas 😟 People who tell you, you should change your face are more toxic than ill-fitting clothes! Pease don’t ever listen to them again. You’re perfect just the way you are 💕

[@christinejames5286]

I have neverrrrr once thought anything about your nose! I'm sorry you're insecure; I think you're absolutely fantastic and always LOVE seeing your videos, they make me so happy! You are so funny and easy to watch, so relatable (and that's hard to find on KZbin), so fun!! Thank you for being you!! ♥♥

[@life_lived_well_8]

The lesson is "I jacked up my face so you all don't have to!" Thank you for taking one for the team Cas! And you are absolutely beautiful inside and out!

[@the3boyds]

Awww....Cass! The Billy Joel song, "I love you just the way you are" came to mind. Thank you for your vulnerability and encouragement. We appreciate your efforts to help us not wreck our own faces and live this experience through you 💜. We appreciate your advice and love your heart.