The Best Way To Get Over A Breakup

[@jamescowan1100]

Kian, I don't know if it's obvious to you or not thank God is clearly using you and your circumstances being a single young lady to minister to others and help others get through some very difficult times. There is not a lot of people willing to take the time out to care for others. And you are excellent and unique in that you are not speaking as somebody who is married or in a serious relationship currently. Hope that makes sense! Just wanted to share that with you, I know sometimes being single is a bummer but God really needs your voice and you're doing a great job!

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you so much James, that really means a lot! I definitely love being single and enjoying this time serving God and the ministry He wants me to speak into!

[@IsabelGonzalez-kf7jt]

Wow! Thank you so much for this video! I was blessed by your advice and transparency 😭❤️ I recently got out of a 3 year long relationship and it hasn’t been easy. At first I blamed his infidelity as the sole cause of our breakup. But , after much reflection, I’ve realized that the deeper cause was our spiritual incompatibility...Thank you for reminding me that I, too, need to take responsibility for my choice to stay and disregard the numerous red flags. While I am still in the process of healing and forgiving, you’ve given me hope that the restoration I crave is possible! God bless you Love! And I pray that God can give you peace and continue using you for His Glory! ☺️💕

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

So sorry to hear about your heartbreak. Infidelity can be so hard to heal from, but forgiveness is what really sets you free. Knowing that he didn't have God at the center of his life really helped me in the past. How can i blame someone for being so broken if they didn't have Jesus on their side? My heart goes out to all my ex's that cheated.

[@ruth9383]

I loved your advice on taking responsibility! I never really thought of that and I took the victim role as well. But forgiving them is going to help you heal so much! Loved this video! 💛

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Ruth Yes i think that’s the biggest piece to the puzzle! Thanks for watching Ruth

[@SophiaMarie92]

You’re such a natural beauty! Thanks for being so vulnerable ❤️

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you! Love you!

[@evangelinedesouza]

Fellow Christian KZbinr here!!! Been binging Christian heartbreak videos all week, loved yours! Just posted mine too and I love how we're in a community spreading the love of Christ!!! God bless.

[@gray08MP]

Aw I really appreciated what you said in this video, Kian! Especially on the topic of toxic relationships, you exactly talked about a situation I went through. I have ptsd because of this past relationship and it brought me a lot of comfort to hear your kind words. Thank you.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

I am so sorry to hear about your ptsd. I know it may seem so heavy right now, but surrender all your pain to God and He will lift it from your shoulders. 💕 Sending you lots of love!

[@stonemoney691]

Great advice Kian, I pray that the lord continue to bless you and used you life experience blessed others Amen 🙏.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Thank you Peter!

[@bernardorempel4216]

Keep it up God is talking through you!

[@silvanavalderrama]

I can block him on everything, but we're still seeing each other every Saturday and Sunday at church... I don't know how to get over him when I still love him

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

silvana valderrama can you temporarily go to another service time or church?

[@silvanavalderrama]

@@Kian_Wolfgang he's in the worship team :/ that's why, and I'm getting help at my church for my depression and other stuff so I don't think is appropriate

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

@@silvanavalderrama I am so sorry, that is a tough situation. Pray about it and ask God what to do or what He is trying to teach you.

[@silvanavalderrama]

@@Kian_Wolfgang thank you so much

[@madisonhoward2524]

Hey I just found your channel and have been watching your videos all day. I love what you’re doing and this video has helped me a lot. My boyfriend of 7 months just broke up with me about a month ago and I’m doing ok, but we have the same friends and we’ve already determined we are going to stay friends and nothing more. Seeing him isn’t hard, it’s the drive home alone at night when I have time to overthink. I am talking to God and he’s teaching me so much in this season and I know he’s freeing me up for something wonderful. Do you have any advice for my situation? It wasn’t a nasty breakup. We love each other and want to remain on good terms. I just don’t know how to navigate these sad thoughts when I can think about are the good times we had. Part of me wants to trash him and make him seem like a terrible person in my head but I know it’s untrue and not Christlike. Thank you in advance girl! Love you and your content. God is definitely working through you and I’m thankful for you!

[@oliviawolf3679]

How are you doing now? God bless you and keep you girl💕

[@agathag8985]

I agree with your advice to block them because its hard to move on if we still connected

[@antoniaweinrich5501]

This is the best video on break ups I have ever seen !! Thank you ❤️

[@deannaclementwrites]

Perfect timing

[@austynspodcast264]

As a Life coach KZbinr. I can say great video. I’m actually uploading a video on how to choose the right relationship partner in someone’s life next Friday. Great video !

[@michellestribe7231]

Love your channel it is helping me a lot. ❤

[@therapybyGillian]

I really needed this😌thank you for letting God use you

[@silvanavalderrama]

I needed this. Thanks

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

silvana valderrama of course 💛💛

[@FaithTheGreatt]

love your advice! thank you!

[@debdovel1569]

You are such an inspiration!

[@erikasimone_]

such good advice!

[@denisereadstarot]

When she said take responsibility for staying... Ooof . That hurt me

[@ellasmit4362]

how do I get over my ex , we go to the same school

[@lonelyshadownaga8460]

Kian, you are beautiful.....

[@prettylittleluli]

thank you so much

[@ngalahansel6066]

I don't agree with you when you say we should take responsibility. I'm sure you mean we should admit that we somehow contributed to the issues that led to the breakup but that doesn't mean it was entirely one person's fault. It takes two to tango,they say

[@Poor_Georgie]

Audio 🙆 whispering . Is this an asmr

[@ngalahansel6066]

Laughed out loud when you struggled to pronounce "amicably" lol

[@miaarodriguez1944]

SIS LOL

[@NickLynn]

I love your videos but I have to disagree about taking responsibility when someone IS the victim. Learned helplessness is a real thing and "just leaving" is not as easy as we make it out to be in our heads. It basically victim blames and that's very dangerous.

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

Hey love! I totally see where you're coming from and respect what you're saying. My intention is to never victim blame ☺️ I know some scenarios are much more intense than what I experienced and shouldn't be treated the same way. I just found a lot of power when I stopped blaming someone else and found the strength to forgive myself, forgive the other person, and move forward. Hope that makes sense. Thank you for your support!

[@KendraGraceT]

It's hard not to text the opposite sex when all your friends are guys and you have no female friends. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😁😁😂😂😂

[@russgilbertson8689]

Flee fornication it is in the scripture. The Marriage bed is undefiled. Relationship can wait. Come out of the world and be separate. Russ from Oregon.