Kian, I don't know if it's obvious to you or not thank God is clearly using you and your circumstances being a single young lady to minister to others and help others get through some very difficult times. There is not a lot of people willing to take the time out to care for others. And you are excellent and unique in that you are not speaking as somebody who is married or in a serious relationship currently. Hope that makes sense! Just wanted to share that with you, I know sometimes being single is a bummer but God really needs your voice and you're doing a great job!
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much James, that really means a lot! I definitely love being single and enjoying this time serving God and the ministry He wants me to speak into!
@IsabelGonzalez-kf7jt5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thank you so much for this video! I was blessed by your advice and transparency 😭❤️ I recently got out of a 3 year long relationship and it hasn’t been easy. At first I blamed his infidelity as the sole cause of our breakup. But , after much reflection, I’ve realized that the deeper cause was our spiritual incompatibility...Thank you for reminding me that I, too, need to take responsibility for my choice to stay and disregard the numerous red flags. While I am still in the process of healing and forgiving, you’ve given me hope that the restoration I crave is possible! God bless you Love! And I pray that God can give you peace and continue using you for His Glory! ☺️💕
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear about your heartbreak. Infidelity can be so hard to heal from, but forgiveness is what really sets you free. Knowing that he didn't have God at the center of his life really helped me in the past. How can i blame someone for being so broken if they didn't have Jesus on their side? My heart goes out to all my ex's that cheated.
@ruth93835 жыл бұрын
I loved your advice on taking responsibility! I never really thought of that and I took the victim role as well. But forgiving them is going to help you heal so much! Loved this video! 💛
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
Ruth Yes i think that’s the biggest piece to the puzzle! Thanks for watching Ruth
@SophiaMarie925 жыл бұрын
You’re such a natural beauty! Thanks for being so vulnerable ❤️
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Love you!
@evangelinedesouza3 жыл бұрын
Fellow Christian KZbinr here!!! Been binging Christian heartbreak videos all week, loved yours! Just posted mine too and I love how we're in a community spreading the love of Christ!!! God bless.
@gray08MP5 жыл бұрын
Aw I really appreciated what you said in this video, Kian! Especially on the topic of toxic relationships, you exactly talked about a situation I went through. I have ptsd because of this past relationship and it brought me a lot of comfort to hear your kind words. Thank you.
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your ptsd. I know it may seem so heavy right now, but surrender all your pain to God and He will lift it from your shoulders. 💕 Sending you lots of love!
@stonemoney6915 жыл бұрын
Great advice Kian, I pray that the lord continue to bless you and used you life experience blessed others Amen 🙏.
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Peter!
@bernardorempel42165 жыл бұрын
Keep it up God is talking through you!
@silvanavalderrama5 жыл бұрын
I can block him on everything, but we're still seeing each other every Saturday and Sunday at church... I don't know how to get over him when I still love him
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
silvana valderrama can you temporarily go to another service time or church?
@silvanavalderrama5 жыл бұрын
@@Kian_Wolfgang he's in the worship team :/ that's why, and I'm getting help at my church for my depression and other stuff so I don't think is appropriate
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
@@silvanavalderrama I am so sorry, that is a tough situation. Pray about it and ask God what to do or what He is trying to teach you.
@silvanavalderrama5 жыл бұрын
@@Kian_Wolfgang thank you so much
@madisonhoward25244 жыл бұрын
Hey I just found your channel and have been watching your videos all day. I love what you’re doing and this video has helped me a lot. My boyfriend of 7 months just broke up with me about a month ago and I’m doing ok, but we have the same friends and we’ve already determined we are going to stay friends and nothing more. Seeing him isn’t hard, it’s the drive home alone at night when I have time to overthink. I am talking to God and he’s teaching me so much in this season and I know he’s freeing me up for something wonderful. Do you have any advice for my situation? It wasn’t a nasty breakup. We love each other and want to remain on good terms. I just don’t know how to navigate these sad thoughts when I can think about are the good times we had. Part of me wants to trash him and make him seem like a terrible person in my head but I know it’s untrue and not Christlike. Thank you in advance girl! Love you and your content. God is definitely working through you and I’m thankful for you!
@oliviawolf3679 Жыл бұрын
How are you doing now? God bless you and keep you girl💕
@agathag89853 жыл бұрын
I agree with your advice to block them because its hard to move on if we still connected
@antoniaweinrich55015 жыл бұрын
This is the best video on break ups I have ever seen !! Thank you ❤️
@deannaclementwrites5 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing
@austynspodcast2645 жыл бұрын
As a Life coach KZbinr. I can say great video. I’m actually uploading a video on how to choose the right relationship partner in someone’s life next Friday. Great video !
@michellestribe72314 жыл бұрын
Love your channel it is helping me a lot. ❤
@therapybyGillian4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this😌thank you for letting God use you
@silvanavalderrama5 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thanks
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
silvana valderrama of course 💛💛
@FaithTheGreatt5 жыл бұрын
love your advice! thank you!
@debdovel15694 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration!
@erikasimone_5 жыл бұрын
such good advice!
@denisereadstarot3 жыл бұрын
When she said take responsibility for staying... Ooof . That hurt me
@ellasmit43625 жыл бұрын
how do I get over my ex , we go to the same school
@lonelyshadownaga84605 жыл бұрын
Kian, you are beautiful.....
@prettylittleluli5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@ngalahansel60663 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with you when you say we should take responsibility. I'm sure you mean we should admit that we somehow contributed to the issues that led to the breakup but that doesn't mean it was entirely one person's fault. It takes two to tango,they say
@Poor_Georgie2 жыл бұрын
Audio 🙆 whispering . Is this an asmr
@ngalahansel60663 жыл бұрын
Laughed out loud when you struggled to pronounce "amicably" lol
@miaarodriguez19443 жыл бұрын
SIS LOL
@NickLynn5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos but I have to disagree about taking responsibility when someone IS the victim. Learned helplessness is a real thing and "just leaving" is not as easy as we make it out to be in our heads. It basically victim blames and that's very dangerous.
@Kian_Wolfgang5 жыл бұрын
Hey love! I totally see where you're coming from and respect what you're saying. My intention is to never victim blame ☺️ I know some scenarios are much more intense than what I experienced and shouldn't be treated the same way. I just found a lot of power when I stopped blaming someone else and found the strength to forgive myself, forgive the other person, and move forward. Hope that makes sense. Thank you for your support!
@KendraGraceT4 жыл бұрын
It's hard not to text the opposite sex when all your friends are guys and you have no female friends. 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️😁😁😂😂😂
@russgilbertson86895 жыл бұрын
Flee fornication it is in the scripture. The Marriage bed is undefiled. Relationship can wait. Come out of the world and be separate. Russ from Oregon.