The Cringiest Break Up Video

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[@MuseChick]

Her behaviour absolutely reeks of being involved with someone else already

[@SuperMokez]

100%

[@samsosa7234]

I think she realized she’s gay

[@rosecity_chris]

Can't stand that. The type of person to lock someone else up before breaking up with you.

[@Brimarieddddddddd]

AGREED

[@GordonFreemayne]

It's sad how much her image is what matters most in this video. Feels bad for the guy, and tbh the kids because they'll have half the messed up moral compass as she does.

[@Mumstheturd]

I manifest that this man finds the hottest most loyal wholesome family oriented boss babe who will cherish him and his children. god this is such a toxic relationship this chick is a narcissist.

[@han6061]

Its really what he deserves

[@Ekkkaaah]

Amen! Kyra will likely eat her words and give them a hard time. I dont doubt it.

[@Mumstheturd]

@@Ekkkaaah I am sure this is the most regrettable mistake she will ever make in her life. You can tell she’s blissfully oblivious to the impact this will have on their children. When those butterflies disappear she’s going to want her safety net back , and by that time I feel like he won’t be waiting around.

[@Demongeminii]

yes exactly, you can see he tries really hard to have the kids not be included in the drama but her otherwise makes videos talking shit in FRONT of her kids and even asking them about it like girl WHAT 😭😭 i knew she was weird when she would “accidentally” post her and oscar arguing (a while ago) to get people to feel bad for her

[@Mumstheturd]

@@Demongeminii SHE DID WHAT!! I gotta see this is it still up? You can tell she’s a whole narcissist, but the evidence of it must have been so rich to witness. I get the worst vibes in the world from her

[@victoriaf99]

I am literally blown away by how cold she is. She completely belittled his feelings. She is someone who will shortly regret her decision once he has made a new life with someone who loves him just as much.

[@BurdieFromHell]

She has a family blog channel. If that's not a litmus test for weeding out sociopaths then idk what is.

[@phonepup06]

She belittles his feelings when her main thing against him is not being there for her 😂

[@Sulueti]

She has always treated him like this, stopped watching their channel years ago because of the way she treated him. Feel so sad for him though

[@nicksschiaretti6043]

and at the same time, scolding him for not handling her mental health well enough

[@AsiaJahnea]

I had to come back cuz I’m older now lol. The fact that every time he’d bring up something she did it was “I don’t wanna get into it” but when it was about him she’d dig into him like no tomorrow. Her body language and how she was speaking to him and about him screams “I’m a narcissist, and a manipulator” he was always holding his words looking like he wanted to say something but he was still trying to keep her looking good to the public but we can literally see it.

[@calliemcgoof]

The fact she is being a narcissist literally on camera. she's GASLIGHTING him, not letting him share his feelings, and MANIPULATING him ON CAMERA

[@murrmurr765]

The fact is?

[@pregerzoreo4886]

They are saying the old "if this is what goes on in public whats going on in private" basically just if they allow you to see this what dont they wwnt you to see. Or in this case what doesnt SHE want you to see

[@MsLkmssla]

Stop diagnosing people you dont even know 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@DeathMetalManiac]

@@MsLkmssla Who is diagnosing tho

[@mek0626]

She isn’t gaslighting him but she is manipulating him (yes, there is a difference)

[@josie2772]

Ironically her efforts to make him look worse ends up making her look horrendous.

[@whitestguyuknow]

It's like this video was made solely for her to monologue. She wanted to get out and describe all of her thoughts about how she was crushing this man throughout a break up. She's so happy to describe how she was trying to intentionally make him want to break up with her. It's like she's been cheating and wants it to make it seem like *he* ended the relationship on his own terms but it wasn't working like that cause he was trying to hard to fix things so she had to finally say it herself

[@whitestguyuknow]

39:00 We're suspicious of her cheating the *entire video* and then she finally reveals it. His cringe says it all when he looks to the camera. He knew that wasn't planned to be said to the camera. And then she gets nervous and interrupts him *again* to say "And one time Oscar did blahblahblah!" And then says she's going to immediately go screw a bunch of guys. This video was so infuriating I cannot describe how disgusting this w**ch is. Oh my god I wanna tell her face to face for Oscar's sake how sociopathic she is.

[@Sara-sc6nm]

Everything about her makes me want to scratch her eyes and pull her hair

[@benjaminv6057]

the fact that he's holding back tears and she's just being a bubbly happy woman says everything

[@ghostlyycosmic]

She even gets mad at him for expressing his emotions

[@sosweetmeanstreak]

@@ghostlyycosmic That's so dangerous as a parent. She's going to teach her kids to not be in tuned with themselves.

[@Jonqen]

@@sosweetmeanstreakthe classic way to raise males

[@sosweetmeanstreak]

@@Jonqen Yes!

[@tonebalone9203]

@@sosweetmeanstreak its cuz she wants a man, not s beta male, share ur emotions, there's a reason why ww2 men aren't weenies like the men nowadays

[@Alteori]

Say it with me, " she is and has been smashing with someone else" Girls don't act happy about breaking up with someone or happy at the thought of seeing their guy with someone else unless they are already involved with someone else. She's a freaking narcissist and she wants to look as good as possible. Meanwhile, she didn't even realize that she ended up telling on herself by the way, she was behaving in the video

[@chloeb2330]

FRRR. comforting another guy? girl..

[@littlelemons2413]

You literally explained the whole video😂 spot on.

[@kesslerjones3462]

she said in the video and videos after she had been out of it mentally for a while and you never know how someone processes their feelings. she could appeal fine on camera but what abt when the camera is off, you don’t see that. so it’s not rlly you’re place to speak

[@AmreeHolliday]

@@kesslerjones3462 Did you watch the video? At the very end he calls her out for emotionally cheating and sitting on the guy and rubbing him. Kyra started talking with a man about his relationship to help and anyone who knows anything knows that's a big no no because what happen was at a time when she felt Oscar wasn't there she turned to this man and he saw an opening and BAM! The relationship evolved from friends to friends with benefits. When will people learn that talking to the opposite sex about your relationship issues and not your actual partner is going to fix those issues. Kyra is in a puppy love stage where reality hasn't set in with another person and somehow wonders why she doesn't feel the same way about Oscar who she has been with for 7 years. Oscar took primary caregiver role after Kyra claimed she needed to find her purpose after having their third child, he moves for her, and eventually another child comes along which is crazy when you hear her talking about wanted more kids because she isn't really as present and as hands on like Oscar is which means true to why Oscar got a vasectomy because he already has his hands full. Anyway this wouldn't be an issue is Kyra was just honest and saying hey I went outside of my marriage and because of this I realized this this and this and we are ending are relationship, but she didn't, she is making excuses for everything. I and many women have been in Kyra's place and the grass isn't greener. Women aren't going to leave a functioning good relationship as they both claim they have for nothing, she has someone on the side believing it's better than what she currently has because she is still blinded by the puppy love stage to know what the true reality of being with this person ensues.

[@soniarican6275]

I’m a Female and I Actually Agree with you 🙌🏽💯

[@emilee823]

Now that more of the truth has come out about their situation I'd LOVE for Ethan to make an updated one of these

[@daisyuraga2953]

Omg yes lol this girl is such a weirdo he has to do an update 🤣

[@noooodle]

wait what’s the update?

[@daisyuraga2953]

@@noooodle she took her nanny’s/bff husband and yes “Husband” because they were married but I think they got their marriage annulled and now this girl is about to marry him. I believe January 🤔 she’s hella cringe lol

[@noooodle]

@@daisyuraga2953 oh lord that’s awful lmfao

[@Jushwa]

She seems totally unbothered with how it’s affecting anyone except herself.

[@abigel_____3020]

𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘

[@Megan9689]

She seemed not right in the head...

[@charris16726]

@Huzzboy looks like the twins escaped again

[@joshhunsaker7134]

Thats how narcissists live

[@nicoleloves9483]

Same thoughts.

[@antons7210]

This woman gives me major gaslighting vibes. You're better off, Oscar. There's no way in hell this situation is gonna work out

[@Sapphireemberss]

@MARSYA💦⤵️ shut up

[@eavye95]

@MARSYA💦⤵️ ANNOYING AF.

[@Rich_P_Anya]

She slips up so many times. She actually tried to get Oscar to dump her by being inexplicably mean and nasty (aka abusive)...on vacation during the holidays

[@eavye95]

That's exactly what she's doing. He almost started believing it too. Usually, even significant others that dump the other couldn't stand to see the person they spent so long with being with someone else. I'm guessing she's acting like she's happy about it so she can be with someone else. Otherwise she would never try to force him to move on to someone else. It's the only thing that makes sense is if she already has someone or has someone in mind.

[@pfl95]

no he's not better off he's been royally fucked and it's about to get worse until he lawyers up, has control over his own finances, and makes sure he gets custody of the kids also start thinking of making new content

[@missspell4897]

I would bet money that as soon as he finds another partner and she’s left alone (because they’re playing house still) she’s going to turn full psycho and realize what she did.

[@T.D.8]

She basically instantly changed her mind and decided she is going to move out and stuff. Have a feeling she already started going psycho.

[@Kayjuneoh]

Right. Its all cool and fine til he actually moves on and finds a decent woman.

[@hashtag2452]

She tried justifying what she did by saying she felt happier seeing him with someone else, it's actually a reflection on what she's doing...

[@harleymargaret5473]

"not full-blown cheating" definitely sounds like she was talking with someone on the side

[@Vndrxv]

“ Comforting another guy while he was sad” and the accusation of “rub up on” has to be someone close to them . Cheatinggg

[@youknow9519]

Emotional cheating is still cheating and even worse in some cases for some people than a one night stand. If the situation was reversed you know she would be not as calm as him.

[@harleymargaret5473]

@@youknow9519 I agree! Emotional cheating is giving your heart and energy to someone else which I feel is worse

[@Vndrxv]

@@emma_clare is this your spam account?

[@lhea1957]

@@Vndrxv I THOUGHT YOU WERE USING THAT AS AN EXAMPLE oh my god she really sad that

[@andyacidsquid5928]

Her telling Oscar to say she didn't cheat is a self-report. Like why even bring it up multiple times if it didn't happen?

[@Rich_P_Anya]

Yep her mind is definitely fixed on it for a reason. There's a lot of tells and slips on her part in this vid.

[@FezCaliph]

She may not have cheated, but she certainly is talking to someone else.

[@libby8269]

Bet you it’s a dating app or she’s messaging with someone. ppl say it’s a fine line and is like cheating but others say it’s not so maybe that’s why she’s trying to clarify it’s not and he’s saying it wasn’t “full blown cheating”

[@JimNortonsAlcoholism]

She's going with the we were on a break so it's okay defense

[@EarlyBirdie82]

Because she probably didn’t fuck someone else but emotionally cheated which he thinks counts but she thinks doesn’t. Evident at 39:12 👀

[@madison4561]

I used to watch this channel all the time and Oscar has always been an absolute angel. He seems to go above and beyond for his family and never seemed appreciated for it

[@Sulueti]

Same … it always seemed like he was unproblematic but she had issues with nearly everyone. Always hoped it would work out for them in the end but I feel so sorry for him

[@purpl3loverz]

The fact that she got TWO cats behind his back with him saying he didn’t want any because he was ALLERGIC just shows that all she cares about is what she wants and nothing else!!!! ALSO she says in the video that a year ago she was over this relationship in her mind and their youngest daughter is a year old I mean how can you keep having children when in your mind it has been over and your partner didn’t want any more kids????????

[@darkwebgirl]

He is way out of her league, physically, emotionally, intimately. This is going to be the best thing that has ever happened to him.

[@kathymetzle8099]

He does have kids though, not a lot of women (or men) in their 20s want to take on 4 kids that aren't theirs

[@MsSaint18]

@@kathymetzle8099 yeah, from personally experience, run from people that have kids unless the other parent is dead. It’s hard, frustrating, literally the most kind fucking challenge I’ve ever done.

[@camilab1121]

@@kathymetzle8099 I think though it’s easier for women to accept a man with children than it is for a man to accept a woman with children.

[@kathymetzle8099]

@@camilab1121 Maybe, not if you'd ask me or any of my female friends. Could work for someone who wants kids but doesn't want to give birth or can't maybe?

[@darkwebgirl]

@@kathymetzle8099 I mean I'd be uncomfortable but love is love he seems like a great guy I'd rather take on a great guy with 4 kids than a POS with none, easy 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@midsummersnight3848]

When a girl encourages her ex to sleep with someone else... she is ABSOLUTELY CHEATING.

[@miagraziano8860]

yep it’s a guilt thing

[@tiaaaaaaa]

@@miagraziano8860 that and being completely checked out the relationship 🤣 but she seems like she did cheat…when a woman cheats she’s done with making the relationship work…”Oscar : feelings we’re hurt, u did hurt my feelings” she probably was openly talkin to other men…. yuh I don’t like that 😐💀🙄 hopefully Oscar can find a lovely woman I feel like @ 16:53 when she listed them not having anything in common she never really liked him like that…friends yes but not genuinely romantic…seems to me she felt like she was stuck when she got pregnant at 18-19 and they thought she had to stay together or continue having children Like y on heaven’s green earth would u b with someone that u don’t have anything in common let alone like certain stuff they like…7 years of wasted time especially if that’s gonna b her excuse🥴

[@kidtacularKIDS]

Most definitely, let me suggest things I've been secretly doing to you so you can do them so I can feel better about myself. But it's cause I want you to be *happy*

[@stevesteiner6844]

That will make it even.

[@Alteori]

Yup!

[@MaylingStudio]

She's over it, and with someone else. He's barely processing his feelings

[@izziekostecki41]

I cant believe how accurate your commentary has become 😂😅

[@bobbarker6540]

She doesn't let him talk and has to control the narrative. She's a master manipulator. Oscar needs to lawyer up.

[@ghoulishtoad]

🎵🎶You better lawyaaaa upp 🎵you beetaaa lawyaaa UPPP🎶🎵

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

If you liked this, you’ll LOVE The Dad Podcasts’s videos on these two. He gives commentary on the breakup video, the q&a, and their podcast (which was such aggravating cringe, I wouldn’t have been able to watch it WITHOUT The Dad Podcasts commentary!) trust me, very one of those videos is worth watching! I think so far he has 4 vids on them total. I recommend starting with the breakup vid and going in order. You’ll love him!

[@josephperna2081]

What’s the point for him to lawyer up? There is literally close to no chance that he winnin that lawsuit, the courts are rigged to benefit women. He tries, and ahe will take the kids the house the car both of those millions and the whore knows it. It’s impossible for him to win especially cuz he knocked her up, 4 TIMES. He cant win so why try?

[@laurenkeil5016]

if she didnrt make money off her children pretty sure she would just say fuck it and runaway

[@EmmalovesLouis1D]

@@TheKatarinaGiselle the dad challenge podcast? I just looked at his videos, seems like a lot of tabloid stories.

[@madisonshelley1]

Her smile enrages me. He’s literally devastated and she’s smiling and making jokes. She’s a walking red flag 🚩

[@erikag290]

That shit had me heateedd like bitch he’s about to cry

[@User-435ggrest]

She looks like she is about to let the world know that they are getting married or having a baby. That constant smile and excited and cryptic language. I feel so sad for the kids, their lifes are definitely going to be negatively impacted by the break up.

[@xoxo9710]

Literally

[@leighahoisington1415]

U should see her lives on her IG

[@ShaiGuyz]

At first I thought he was cucked and that’s why he was so down but after more watch time I think he knows exactly what she’s doing and doesn’t want her to spin any negative moments from him to her on camera like back at him in the edit (how she cut so much of his stuff for example) so he was more pissed that he had to tread lightly

[@kiawnni]

I used to watch this family for years when they had their first son and from the beginning, I always had an eerie feeling about Kira. Her behavior towards him was always off. Oscar deserves so much better.

[@WalkWithFaith7]

Kyra, & wow 15 minute videos and you know a person completely! That’s amazing

[@izabellorchard1453]

Right like Oscar is hot and he is way too good for her. He’s so sweet and loyal and such a great dad and has to deal with kiras bullshit

[@milzj]

Same. I used to watch them all the time and I always got a weird vibe from kira

[@summermorelli2520]

she always treated him like he was just a dumb kid wtf so messed up

[@ml5301]

Can’t wait for him to come out with his own video explaining HIS side of everything

[@harrisonagnor4547]

She shows so many signs of narcissism. The gaslighting, the over-sensitivity to his tone+expressions, the monopolizing of the conversation...

[@mralabbad7]

+Manipulative control freak

[@migrations]

It's possible. Best not to participate in armchair diagnoses based on a single clip though. We don't know these people at all (maybe you've been watching their channel for years.)

[@kevindube7096]

@@migrations take away the narcissism “diagnosis” - do you agree with the second part of that comment? Because that’s what it’s really all about

[@elizabethlessley2811]

i feel like “not full-blown cheating” is still cheating.

[@sweetserein]

Yeah she’s definitely just over explained and gotten into his head enough that he’s not fighting against her blatant defence of cheating anymore, if he feels like it was cheating at all.. it was cheating. She doesn’t get to define that for him.. I get such mad controlling vibes from her 😬

[@Rich_P_Anya]

Indeed

[@Rich_P_Anya]

@@sweetserein she slips up a lot. her manipulation is sloppy which shows bad arrogance. she filibusters and talks over him....in front of the world. She accidentally admitted to surreptitiously being abusive in order to force Oscar to dump her....on vacation during the holidays

[@AmethystNotTaken]

Agree 💯.

[@bunnymoonbloom]

For sure, "not full-blown cheating" is a gaslighting tactic cheaters love to use

[@YogaWithBird]

I can't believe they actually approved that breakup video for upload lmao...i'm speechless.

[@caramecabe]

And the fact that she isn’t even bothered by any of the comments and goes on to make another Q&A just shows how much she doesn’t give a sh*t

[@mani_mantra]

I love your yoga practices!

[@YogaWithBird]

@@mani_mantra awe ❤️❤️

[@panerican4life]

I'm glad that there's an overwhelming amount of support for poor Oscar. There's an obvious disparity in the love they have for each other and most people recognize the signs that she's generally seems pretty toxic.

[@laylamoon6299]

This chick is so transparent with her projecting and manipulating, she's so selfish! My heart goes out to Oscar.

[@ashleypoirier5080]

This woman is unbearable to watch... this just seems like she trying to humiliate him honestly

[@kali7906]

She loves to hear herself talk.

[@erikalincoln8111]

I need ethan to revisit this now that she is married to and pregnant her best friends ex-husband that they used to double date with

[@AlyssaDelgado-jt5gv]

you need to make another updated video because you were SPOT ON about everything 😭😭

[@stephaniecook7603]

💯

[@kayleemariee239]

he spoke on the updates over on h3 !

[@DayManAHHHah]

Something that I love about Ethan is how much he loves gossip and drama. I love how he gets so into it and is giddy to analyze a breakup video. Me 1000% too and I’m sure so many of us here. Love this content 😩

[@DayManAHHHah]

@Huzzboy Something tells me you are, Huzzboy 🥰

[@abigel_____3020]

𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙖𝙙𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙨 𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙣 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 LOVEME.UNO/STORMY tricks I do not know Megan: "Hotter" Hopi: "Sweeter" Joonie: "Cooler" Yoongi: "Butter So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today. Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım '' Erinder: '' Sezimdüü '' Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak '' Dene: '' Muzdak '' Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis. Aç köz arstan Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon. Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan. Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾 They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising 💗❤️💌💘

[@lisalarsen2384]

He’s one of a kind 😂❤️❤️❤️ I LOVEEEE hearing a men’s point of view on topics like these it makes me so happy 😂❤️ it’s so different yet the same

[@Eilhea]

@Huzzboy All the best people are

[@DayManAHHHah]

@Huzzboy Oh, I apologize if English isn’t your first language and didn’t understand me! The word I used was absolutely correct though.

[@re_i_gn]

The signs of manipulation by the girl is just off the charts. - Commands him to tell the audience that she didn't cheat (even though he obviously feels like she did) - Keeps piling on to the bad things that he does, but never brings up the negative parts on her side. - Gets immediately defensive when he does try to say something negative about her - Talks over him when he tries to get a point across

[@Sapphireemberss]

+1

[@FezCaliph]

She may not have "cheated", but I do feel like she already has another man in her life. It's easy to see why she hid it, but it's unfair to him.

[@EarlyBirdie82]

39:12 when she says “I’ve done NOTHING, except some attitude here and there… and comforting another guy cause he was sad” Like WOAH. definitely more to unpack there. Sounds like that’s related to what he considered cheating and she tried to gaslight him and make like it was nothing.

[@Keepdjdhudjfjfjf]

I agreed with that until I heard that he ran away when she was carrying his child and it was High risk pregnancy and she was mentally unstable and he left her . Hence the he was t there for her when she was having a mental breakdown and that was said int he video except what was left out was that she was also in the middle of a high risk pregnancy and his response was to leave her .. idk man I don’t want Ethan to get cancelled for this if it comes out that he was the abusive one as well

[@kat2025]

@@Keepdjdhudjfjfjf exactly but as they mentioned that was several years ago, young adults grow and change. They both appear incredibly childish and their lack of emotional intelligence is toxic.

[@megancurtis9502]

I've watched them here and there for years since their first kid was a baby. In the beginning it definitely seemed like he was a bit immature at times since they were both really young, and I felt bad for her. After a little though he really got his life together and matured and grew as they decided to have another kid. Then it seems like she started doing the opposite as he was growing and she turned into an immature narcissist at which point I stopped watching until I saw the breakup video. I always kinda saw it coming. They've been together for years and engaged for a while and it was obvious something was stopping them from making the marriage commitment. Honestly I'm pretty shocked at how incredible raw and uncut the breakup video seems though. It's like they're trying to start drama the way she's pretty rude and it's basically implied that she cheated in some way. I don't care what he did to her that made her completely give up a year ago, there's no reason to string him along like this and basically emotionally abuse him for a year while he's trying desperately to make it work. If she wasn't happy she should have ended it a while ago and treated him with the respect she wanted to be treated with.

[@EmmalovesLouis1D]

I watched OKBABY for years. Around the time their second child was 6 months old Kyra really had a downward spiral. You could tell because the videos changed a lot. She kinda went manic and it was upsetting. I stopped watching after they accidentally went live mid argument and she was accusing Oscar of all these things. This was years ago so I don’t remember exactly what happened. She’s given me the ick ever since

[@marissakeepstheheat2]

Yes! I’m so glad I’m not the only one who remembered the live 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@NotSandraBullock]

She is coaxing him into being with someone else and moving on quickly so that she can do it publicly and won’t look bad.

[@munchmacuchi7502]

she's already over him and if she wasnt so cold in her explanation should would come out perfect. but idont think she has the brainz to say, ok im just so over this relationship im moving on

[@relaxationstation7634]

yeah I'm willing to bet she already has someone in her life. There's no way she would be all laughing and joking about the strip club and then talking to him about how to get with other girls. There has to be someone else in the picture and she seems very excited about this new relationship. He seems just so sad and is trying to match her happy go lucky attitude. She's wayyyy too happy about this whole situation. It's so weird. Hope all the best for Oscar and the kids. They deserve a good life.

[@jaylakay7391]

She scares me. She’s so focused on HER. And the way she talks over him and then changes the topic back on how SHE feels wtf. Total gaslighting.

[@Gh0stChili]

*AHHH*

[@seanceknowles2911]

That’s not gaslighting but I know what you’re saying

[@jaylakay7391]

@@seanceknowles2911 I mean she is gaslighting by saying “It’s for the best if you see someone else.” She’s also trying to manipulate us into thinking he’s the bad guy. I mean isn’t that gaslighting? Sorry maybe I am mistaken but at least we both agree lol 😂

[@maijapologies]

She’s a male manipulator

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Yuuup! You HAVE to go watch The Dad Podcast..you’ll LOVE his videos on these two! He gives commentary on the breakup video, the q&a, and their podcast (which was such aggravating cringe, I wouldn’t have been able to watch it WITHOUT The Dad Podcasts commentary!) trust me, very one of those videos is worth watching! I think so far he has 4 vids on them total. I recommend starting with the breakup vid and going in order. You’ll love him!

[@varvarauru6747]

Ive watched them for probably 6 years now, so your perspective of never knowing their dynamic and talking abt it is very interesting. I think it’s important to note that Kyra has always had rocky relationships with people, she has stopped being friends with people, gone through multiple business partners, and doesn’t have the greatest relationship with her mom. She has always seemed very selfish and stubborn also kinda flaunty with her wealth (They have mentioned many times that she is irresponsible with her finances making a lot of random big purchases). I also find that they have VERY different parenting techniques, Oscar is more strict while she is kinda more laid back. Oscar has always seemed the kinder one out of the two, he has stayed friends with people she isn’t friends with (khoa and Karen from kkbaby), he has a pretty good family dynamic. But he also has been pretty aggressive at points, he makes rude comments sometimes, and I remember him judging kyras filming style many times even though it’s a shared channel. All this being said and watching this break up video I realize how little I actually do know abt them. I always just thought all these quirks were normal, i was very surprised to see that they broke up…

[@ellak1382]

Wait is kyra not friends with Keren anymore?

[@DMomsFan1]

She isn’t friends with Karen?? She’s so unstable it’s hard to keep up with her damn

[@Sofia_ddd]

@@DMomsFan1 i think Keren unfollowed her on insta but neither have addressed anything

[@kellyb7432]

@@Sofia_ddd kyra actually made a comment on her lastest bts podcast saying that her and Keren are no longer friends

[@Sofia_ddd]

@@kellyb7432 oh shoot, I meant on KZbin, i don’t really watch/listen to podcast, but thanks for the information! Do you remember the episode?

[@mariqnadecheva]

I am getting goosebumps re watching this video one year after. He was right from the beginning till the end 😂

[@chillin5703]

Something I quickly noted with Oscar is that every time he'd say something critical of the lady (forgot her name), he instantly redacted it or lessened the severity. "She did some things that bothered me BUT", "You did a lot of things that bothered me, I wouldn't consider them full blown cheating" - receives the slightest pushback - "alright alright". He's literally unable to express an opinion or a feeling about something without feeling scared she will clamp down on him for it. I hate being an armchair psychologist, but since I have personal experience that is similar, I'll just say it: That's toxic, and it's depressing to see how much it's become ingrained into this guy's interactions...

[@jerzievap]

yeah it was so odd, every time kyra trashed oscar it was okay,, but if oscar mentioned something kyra did it was ‘wait wait, we’re not pointing fingers’… like ?!?!

[@Pizzachar]

@@jerzievap this

[@dazzlinggene]

It’s so sad. 😫😔

[@adrianagauna]

And y’all haven’t seen her latest podcast episode with him?? It’s truly disgusting

[@Mladeksgrl24]

Her and that Hannah girl have a podcast together and they did a podcast with Oscar and Hannah’s fiancé right after this breakup. So 🤢 podcast is called “beneath the sheets”. All they talk about is sex. Gross

[@frogortoad8952]

it’s so awkward seeing Oscar learn new things about their relationship in this video. This is a private conversation that should have happened offline… so cringe.

[@noamweizmann]

People will literally monetize their private lives, their children or any personal aspect of their lives for money. Nobody seems to value basic morals or privacy anymore. I feel bad for their children.

[@ani1451]

Ain’t that the truth… so sad to see him processing the new information and her trying to cover it up. I wish I could forget their breakup video💀

[@kristing1350]

Also red flag… she kept saying “we haven’t slept together since beginning of November” and “Oscar is sleeping downstairs”… it seems like she’s trying to prove to her bf it’s fine that her and her ex live together ;). Second red flag: she’s a HUGE TRISHA fan lol

[@LUVBUG24K]

Maybe she should’ve thought about “just being friends” before she had 4 kids with him

[@lizardqueen7052]

and they are only 24 years old, they jumped the gun by having that many

[@peculiarpru]

It’s worst he didn’t even want kids but had them for her when she’s saying that

[@kataclysmyc]

She is for sure manipulating the entire dialogue. She isn't letting him speak unless it's to defend her or make her seem like not the bad guy and him more of the bad guy, which she manipulates him to say. And Ethan is right ab how she said they aren't gonna go into specifics ab her but she doesn't hesitate to talk about his faults. It's really unfair and sad for the guy. I also agree that they should have at least had a conversation before having it on camera. It seems like that they're talking off the fly and she's leading and manipulating the whole thing.

[@ambsemlay]

she’s like i’m not gonna talk about his faults but here’s a list of them

[@r0syyyy]

The fact that he can’t even look her in the eyes…she’s a manipulator. He needs to get an attorney asap.

[@juniperusvloggus]

And a therapist damn

[@Beefbarn420]

For what? That he’s getting broken up with lmao

[@dlo7950]

@@Beefbarn420 to figure out their finances and more importantly custody of their children, in a way that’s fair for both parties.

[@LeBronIsAllMight]

@@Beefbarn420 bruh they have 4 young kids

[@cheyennemonique887]

Everyone keeps talking about her past and having a sad childhood like it’s an excuse for how she’s treating Oscar. It’s not. She tries to talk over him every chance she gets almost like she’s speaking for him. She downplays any emotion he tries to openly express, especially when it was caused by her. And gets mad when he tries to tell his side and how he felt but due to the fact it would make her look bad, she says she’ll cut it out. Nobody has a perfect childhood, alot of people go through traumatizing pasts but that does not give you a pass to be an asshole to others. Shes an adult , she can go to therapy. She’s manipulative and it fully shows in this video.

[@illidelphian1508]

Well worded and I completely agree with every bit

[@ok.4720]

He's abusive too but people don't point that out

[@chloegrant3116]

@@ok.4720 uh how

[@ok.4720]

@@chloegrant3116 He literally admits to having anger issues and would throw stuff at her and would verbally abuse her in the break up video

[@lexjohnson0803]

Thank GOD there is actually a comment section who is telling it straight. They're channel is filled with comments about how people will support them through this tough time. I get we can only see the side they show us, however, their channel had been fishy for years. I think when they first started they genuinely wanted to capture life as teen parents. The vlogs of them with just Levi are wholesome and beautiful. I think they fell in love with the money an realized they made hundreds of thousands everytime they had a baby, so they popped out a few more. My heart genuinely goes out to Oscar. I think he is just as confused as us and his pain is 100x worse than what he shows on camera. I do hope that Oscar realizes what he deserves. I also hope he realizes he is not obligated to stay purely to keep the family together. Overall, this was one of the strangest break ups i've seen on youtube.

[@ShowMeYourTeeth]

Emotional cheating vibes. She just wants to hold onto “I never actually cheated” but she’s leaving her husband to test out this guy who makes her feel butterflies. This woman is haaaappy.

[@Mumstheturd]

You can tell she thinks he’s boring and finding someone new is the way to go.

[@analinakos]

Thissss

[@MAX-de8fe]

"I never actually cheated it was just hand stuff🤪"

[@liesel16]

Plus if she cares about her baby father then, she should give the ring back

[@nateriver2711]

If she was just gonna talk over him and dominate the entire conversation she should’ve just filmed the video by herself lol!

[@commanderwaddles3483]

THANK YOU

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

Oh it gets sooooo much worse with the podcast. Okay..you HAVE to watch The Dad Podcast! If you liked this, you’ll LOVE The Dad Podcasts’s videos on these two. He gives commentary on this breakup video, the q&a they did a few days later, and their podcast (which was *SUCH aggravating cringe*, I swear to god there is NO WAY I would’ve have been able to watch it WITHOUT The Dad Podcasts commentary!) trust me, every one of those videos is worth watching! I think so far he has 4 vids on them total. I recommend starting with the breakup vid and going in order. You’ll love him!

[@MyGracieLouLou]

@@TheKatarinaGiselle its The Dad Challenge Podcast

[@SarahTheVegan]

I have watched them since before they had their first child. Oscar worked in a warehouse and did everything he could to provide for them prior to their KZbin really taking off. He has always seemed extremely invested into his family. It just makes me feel awful for him, because he has invested so much into this relationship/his kids. I don’t understand why she keep pushing for more kids when she didn’t even want to stay with him. Just insulting.

[@thearnotts121]

Same and I completely agree with your analysis.

[@williambeaudin4773]

This popped up in my feed today lol years later same scenario 😂

[@tabby4647]

Same lol

[@MrsGerardWayForever]

seeing your parents split up is traumatic but living in a house where your parents stay together, resent each other, and you are taught that is normal is worse.

[@LadyAurian]

Amen. I don't understand how people don't see how weird it is to preach people staying together as a good thing. I'd want to teach my kids that sometimes relationships don't work, and the healthy thing to do is to break it off and how to do that maturely and respectfully. We shame women for not walking out immediately from an abusive partner, but also shame them if they do walk out. Can't have it both ways.

[@bsturc]

Ethan, your commentary is both funny and empathetic and I am HERE for it.

[@Jenna237798631478975]

cancers b like :

[@CHOHAN67]

It’s BIIIIIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAN-CA

[@bsturc]

@@CHOHAN67 lmao, i'm surprised no one else has commented this under one of my comments

[@cupcakesx22]

Yea it's a talent being able to make jokes while still being so considerate and caring. I don't know of anyone else that can do it.

[@Josh-hd1lk]

Her saying to Oscar that she's going to cut the video if he talks about his side of the story and details what she did is so insane. The power imbalance of her silencing him and also having the editing power is crazy. She only wants the narrative that she wants to create and doesn't want to let him tell his side of the story, because deep down she knows that his side of the story is damning. She seems totally narcissistic and she wants to be in control and twist her obvious cheating to be his fault somehow. Insane. OMG and the way that she says "I thought we weren't dating yet" as if he's only allowed to start date once she starts dating first. Total control freak.

[@JadeGonzales1542]

Now she’s moving out and he has to sell his truck and she wants the money out of their house together so eventually he said he’ll have to find his own place as well! Let’s see what else happens

[@carolgannon2307]

Wow!!! Is this true?

[@JadeGonzales1542]

@@carolgannon2307 yeah go watch their recent update video!

[@Maiden_to_mother]

Holy fucking shit that was the worst and most accurate display of gaslighting I’ve ever seen.

[@ghostlyycosmic]

In 4K!!!

[@ellam1841]

This guy looks the picture of a victim in an abusive relationship. Poor dude, if that's true, he doesn't know how good the break-up will be for his life.

[@b00psn00t]

There’s definitely a power imbalance but abuse is a strong word…

[@rongomaisweeney]

Oscar is an amazing person. I’ve been watching them since day one.. he’s had his immature moments for a while at the start but you really watch him grow up on their channel and become an incredible dad. He’s so hands on with their kids and ALWAYS with them compared to Kyra. He supports Kyra in all things she wants to do and he’s also super generous! He did a series where he built something for a guy and his wife, it was an amazing thing to do and you could tell it made him happy. I used to really like Kyra but she’s really become so selfish and self obsessed over the years.. happy for Oscar that he can start again! 😊

[@lizardqueen7052]

same, i found their channel when levi was a newborn, it´s sad how she forced him to have so many kids being that young ,i mean it obviously takes 2 to tango, but she seems like the manipulative type and in a vlog they said how he only wanted 2 kids total and she wanted 6, my guess is that she´s moving on in order to find a new baby daddy and keep exploiting her children on her vlogs since it´s her main source of income

[@mariematala7714]

It's one year later and she indeed slept with uncle Brad !

[@d98lo]

the way she death stares him while he’s speaking…making sure he doesn’t let the truth slip out

[@Jushwa]

She seems like she’s loving every minute of this.

[@nubbymcscrubby]

thats what I was thinking, honestly feel really bad for the guy

[@meowJACK]

Yea for real, wtf. She's singing, she's laughing, she's absolutely beaming. This poor guy.

[@natalie8956]

I was just thinking she’s getting off on making him jealous and having all the power

[@natalie8956]

Or like getting a reaction out of him like wtf

[@meowJACK]

@@natalie8956 yea either that or she just sincerely genuinely does not give a flying fk about him, at all. Which is pretty alarming considering he's the father of her four children... I feel rly bad for him but honestly it's good he's getting away from her, somethings not right with that lady lmao

[@emilyharris7834]

Love the defense about the touching topic had me ☠️ "u know what, You dont get to touch him like that anymore" Go off king 🤴

[@breathing_helium_art]

She sounds like she wanted out and then read a ton of cliche relationship ending articles after googling something when she'd already mentally left the relationship. Like bro the issues shes discussing are just not reason enough to end your marriage at such a young age with so many Bubba's. Maybe he's doing more behind the scenes but just have the balls to say I want out, and not put someone else through all this bullsh*t. He's gonna have beliefs now that being best friends is bad in relationships. If you want to leave cuz you're bored or unhappy just say it.

[@lydiafrorer3078]

i like your word of "Bubba"

[@breathing_helium_art]

@@lydiafrorer3078 thanks only use it for the most precious people to me

[@Zoulz666]

I'm with ya Ethan. Sounds like she's making excuses trying to not make herself look terrible in this situation. And she doesn't give a damn about the guy. She just seems happy it's over.

[@ghostrecon3834]

She comes across very narcissistic.

[@FezCaliph]

Although I agree, I do feel she probably put in a lot of effort as well, but at this point is just done and is already moving on while he's just now accepting it's over and is very sad.

[@FezCaliph]

@@lolacookie453 men try to do the same, but our urges make us do some dumb things. Although, as I've gotten older I've seen women do the same thing, so i guess we aren't as different as we think.

[@dirtydan5281]

@@lolacookie453 yea, usually when a woman seems like this during a break up its because they have tried to repair the relationship but realized it was beyond repair despite it, so in their mind the relationship was already over. meanwhile despite all the effort, the man still feels blindsided. not saying this is the exact situation, jus something ive observed

[@FezCaliph]

@@lolacookie453 no, I meant it makes us want to go back to a toxic woman when all we really want is to hit it one more time

[@ajon6205]

She literally made it ALL ABOUT HIM. Not one thing she said acknowledged her part in the breakup.

[@Gh0stChili]

Her saying "when I picture you with someone else, it makes me happy" said enough lmao. She's already got a side piece lined up.

[@haidyn1230]

And when he tried speaking on it she threatened not the keep it in if he continued

[@anayarey]

@@Uglyprincw like he's held hostage

[@victoriareid4166]

I just could even with this video. I’m so pleased that everyone else is as equally appalled as I am. My reactions were identical to Ethan’s the whole way through. Just stunned.

[@jennatulls2245]

She’s the definition of a narcissist. $20 she cheated maybe not physically but emotionally

[@ashleyyy1]

If she was pushing him to physically sleep with another female she physically cheated theres no other reason she would think that way plus suggest it out loud. Im convinced

[@kyleeguthrie1787]

@@ashleyyy1 exactly.

[@rebeccag1405]

She's trying to alleviate her own guilt. Tell us what this evil woman did to you Oscar!

[@stacylynn8494]

She has memorialized his sadness on the video so she can watch it back as supply.

[@anayarey]

I'm ready for a tell-all video by Oscar

[@deed3259]

Talked to guys and send them nudes. That’s why she wanted him to say she wasn’t cheating. She gaslighted him into thinking that technically isn’t Cheating

[@ahmetocak1997]

@@deed3259 wait where did you get this from SPILL THE TEA

[@LUVBUG24K]

The fact that your jacket matches both of their shirts is so weird to me and I also love it lmao

[@avrgehuman]

while we're listing red flags here are some: -he got a vasectomy 4 months ago(it's on their youtube channel) and she said that she been wanting to leave a year ago, even though it was his decision to do so, he only did it because they had enough kids, and that he would be with kyra forever. -about the kids, he never wanted so much kids( he had said that before in many vlogs) but, kyra has 'baby fevers' and convinced him -she got cats while he was out doing something and 'surprised' him, he's ALLERGIC to cats. he didnt rly liked it but, she convinced him. -about her interrupting him, it has always been like that, you will know if you watch their vlogs, oscar is used to it so he doesnt feel as disrespected as he should have. it's just how their dynamic is.

[@lizardqueen7052]

i feel bad for the kids, but the dude dodged a bullet, he´s a better parent than her, also it´s crazy how she is literally the daughter of divorced parents and knows how that messes you up (because let´s be real it does) and she didn´t even try, he doesn´t seem happy with this decision

[@Svgarcanna]

I wanna shake these people. STOP HAVING KIDS JUST TO HAVE KIDS

[@Sulueti]

This … I remember when she announced her pregnancy after the 2nd child and he was concerned about how he could support them. Next minute she was making big purchases for the new baby - that’s when I tapped out of their channel because she was such a bully

[@LittleHwangO]

I’m all for leaving if you’re unhappy, however this woman 100% had a side piece for months before the breakup.

[@chemamehc1]

They're not hs kids in a relationship anymore, they're adults with four kids which makes the relationship a whole lot more than just "iM nOt hApPy wItH tHiS mAn aNyMoRe aNd wAnT nEw eXpErIenCes"

[@LittleHwangO]

@@chemamehc1 I’d rather be a child of divorce with two parents who love and care for me but are separated and living their lives happily with other people than be a child who’s parents are still together but one, or both, of them is absolutely miserable and I feel like they’re only “trying to name it work” for me. But everyone has different opinions 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@chemamehc1]

@@LittleHwangO yeah that's very idealistic but often not what happens. In situations like this, both parents usually grow apart with animosity and often still adversely affects the child. I'm not saying they're forced to stay together, but usually the life of the person in this mom's shoes, ends up getting worse and making things harder for everyone.

[@LittleHwangO]

@@chemamehc1 I’m just speaking from experience 🤷🏼‍♀️ you’re likely correct though

[@squillylizzz6759]

@@chemamehc1 my brother and his wife have been trying to make it work for years. It's not working and my sister in law is miserable (my brother is an asshole). Theres no cheating or anything but hes mean and refuses to change. They have four kids but I wish that she'd leave and he's my brother. The idea that you have to make it work for the kids is outdated. Having a perfect nuclear family is overrated. Behind closed doors I would want my parents to be happy. Making yourself be in love with someone who treats you badly doesn't make you the better person.

[@Emilia.a.a]

She basically just friend zoned the father of her 4 kids 😅

[@taytertot666]

That is the vibe of the video

[@re_i_gn]

Lol she dumped him like I dumped my highschool girlfriend through Facebook

[@candlejenner5558]

@@re_i_gn lol you should go apologize to her

[@re_i_gn]

@@candlejenner5558 i feel like that's a cool idea but that was 6 years ago and we haven't talked since so it would just be bringing up the cringiest phases of our lives hahahah

[@zamlar9628]

Lmao true

[@xzdollfacexz]

lol Ethan's commentary is just the best. I love when he says he's handsome. Facts! This dude deserves way better than her, and it's sad that 4 kids have to deal with a mom like that.

[@bitterswede3327]

I love you for doing this man! it's the new, older uncle Ethan reactions. Feels like the perfect step, at least from my point of view. What H3H3 gave me back in the days this does as well, if not even more. Love you guys!

[@bitterswede3327]

P.S. Not hate if ya threw in some fupa, coughs and sick dancemoves here and there boi. D.S.

[@Kai_yul]

I went to HS with Oscar and Kyra and remember when she had initially gotten pregnant. They started the channel I believe to make the best of their situation but anyone who believed they were anything more than a fling was delusional including Oscar it seems like. So crazy to see all my favorite KZbinrs cover a couple I had Algebra 2 with LMAO!!

[@Jushwa]

Oh she was a teen mom that makes more sense

[@3rdeye931]

Was Kyra always so controlling and annoying? She was giving me major “pick me” vibes during the video.

[@BlueEyedTaty]

Whoa. That must be super trippy.

[@Kai_yul]

@@3rdeye931 I don’t believe so in fact I have to give them credit for dealing with their situation the way they did so young, it doesn’t always end up with a cringe break up video as the worst case scenario. Oscar was always really nice too so I don’t wanna get it twisted they were good folk in HS but from what I remember everything happened so quick that it seemed set to fail from the outside looking in :/. Genuinely wish the best for them and their fam.

[@seanseen_]

@@3rdeye931 there's no way to really tell unless you know the person well. And even then they may be way different than they would be in a relationship with you

[@marthedreamer7629]

I counted how many times they interrupted each other: she interrupted him 16 times, often to divert the topic whenever he shared his point of view or his feelings. He interrupted her 3 times, I noticed two of them were him trying to stop her from oversharing details of his personal life or choices Do with this what you will

[@annwethenorth]

I don't think Oscar was allowed to talk alone for 7 years

[@G_Little]

Also on 2 of his 3 interruptions he noticed and apologized for it, and she noticed/apologized 0 times.

[@annwethenorth]

@@G_Little completely. She doesn't care now, but she will.🤑 I think we both know she made him make these. Don't want to ruin the brand. Cheers great comment ♥️🇨🇦🥓

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

Appreciate the statistics sir

[@AmandaJ__]

16 sounds accurate but it felt like more, my goodness 🥺

[@sarakrueger8209]

“It’s not cheating if it’s just a ‘handy ’in the bathroom.” 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brycewoods9007]

Dude, been a fan of your stuff for a long time. It is so cool that you are going back to your old format. I miss this stuff. Thanks for the vid!

[@SMATF5]

She seems like a super controlling, manipulative, and selfish person.

[@LittleSpacexo]

She is and she always jokes about being controlling

[@b00psn00t]

The kind of person to start a family vlog channel

[@imwalkinghereha6820]

ethan: guys i’m getting dark vibes… she was cheating wife: i was *NOT* cheating, to clarify husband: right… but you kindve were ethan: WHOA WHOA WH

[@han6061]

I love how ethan loves the drama omg

[@rebeccac240]

Thank you for covering this! I know this is a serious subject BUT I was dying with laughter at your commentary, you're brilliant❤

[@roseyknows2637]

The biggest thing for me is that KkbabyJ - keren and khoa, stayed friends with Oscar and not kyra.... that's telling to me

[@DayManAHHHah]

She broke up with him at Disneyland.. the day after Christmas.. LMAO and she’s the one who admits to it. He wasn’t the one to complain about it. What’s wrong with her?

[@wishiwasabear]

Santa came down the chimney, but look it's uncle brad.

[@Bonklyboi]

Had an ex break up with me on December 19th one time 🤔

[@Cloud_zy]

@@wishiwasabear 😂😂😂

[@Brimarieddddddddd]

I was thinking about that too. What a day to end things 🥺

[@gamrfam]

I have a strong feeling she is going to regret leaving him. He seems like a great partner and that's rare to find. The grass ain't always greener girl.

[@smooothiebomb]

I was thinking the same thing!! She's taken him for granted, clearly

[@foreverwander0320]

Yup. Especially with 4 kids. The problem with unresolved unresolved trauma and toxic behavior-it follows you.

[@marthedreamer7629]

Probably, narcissists like her seem to enjoy keeping around people they don’t care about but are useful for them. She likes the attention and love he has for her while she’s seeing someone else. She’s clearly not in a good mental state, but I think she’s going to keep using him

[@gamrfam]

@@marthedreamer7629 for as long as she possibly can! That's why she's so flirty with him to keep him chasing her. She sucks, I hope he eventually sees her for what she is.

[@aak8297]

Better for him, she should find a good therapist. Borderline shit

[@charamira]

She’s gaslighting him. She’s nasty & doesn’t love him. He deserves someone who will give him a happy life

[@paigeh2355]

Rewatching in 2023 just as hood

[@Alexandra_Wolf]

*I think she clearly had an emotional affair in the least* But as someone who eloped young and got divorced 5 years later (with a great guy) I know what this is. She’s young she is thinking the grass is greener. This is a mistake people make. He is handsome seems very sweet and they have four kids- she is GOING to regret this. She isn’t going to find anyone better, once her “star falls” it’s a lot to date someone this young with four kids who is so immature. If you are friends this long this isn’t worth throwing away. This guy deserves better. This girl will regret it so badly when he’s with a beautiful woman and he’s living life and she’s miserable.

[@hlherm]

Exactly, this seems like the type of breakup people have in their late teens/early 20s. Figure this stuff out, know yourself, and grow tf up before you have 4 children

[@rebeccafernandez8451]

I agree with you. It seems she's speaking from a place of emotional immaturity. She's acting like she's breaking off a high school relationship, not a marriage with four children.

[@TrevorTrolls]

she screams "well you're not seeing the kids if your new GF is around"

[@advancedlamb]

and she's allowed to have 4+++ children. people who literally can't even navigate their own emotions can create new humans that have even more complicated problems.

[@TrevorTrolls]

@@advancedlamb She scares me. She is the type to get nasty. Nightmare of a woman you can tell.

[@lasenoradelacruz]

When Ethan screamed “CAN YOU LET HIM TALK???” 😂😂😂😂💀 killed me

[@catsforhire9116]

22:27 when he leans back in the chair in silent disbelief 😂😂😂

[@bittenhare4493]

I swear Ethan always interrupts Hila though, obviously E&H are in a good relationship but kinda similar tbh

[@TheReMorseCode]

@@bittenhare4493 Yeah I think it's something he's been working on though. And Hila's a boss bitch and will plow through him and make her voice heard if need be. Never forget the fury unleashed when she thought Ethan called her a bitch that one time hahaha

[@annwethenorth]

Lol 😂👏👏👏👏

[@annwethenorth]

@@catsforhire9116 exactly. ♥️🇨🇦🥓

[@amberr1031]

wow i missed so much it’s been years since i last watched them and wanted to see what was new then come to see all this blows my mind.

[@lovejennanicole]

please do an update of these two because WOW so much has come to light

[@Kven2uraM]

Where can I see the tea????!!!

[@lovejennanicole]

@@Kven2uraM Dad Challenge Podcast has so many videos on them

[@amber4627]

“Maybe I’m over analyzing let’s see. We do have 60 minutes left to go, I’m only 14 seconds in.” 😂 Ethan holy god

[@EMlNEM2020]

16 minutes

[@amber4627]

@@EMlNEM2020 oh no! I misheard. Still funny but not quite as extreme

[@owensauvageot808]

ethan gotta get this man on here to hear his side of the story with no interruptions

[@careip]

Kyra won't let him do that in a million years.

[@karleyj9706]

bro I hope he gets away from her and tells the whole story.. to confirm what everyone is already thinking lmao

[@ainsleystuart1234]

YES!!!

[@MyGracieLouLou]

I love that Ethan has so many of the exact same comments and thoughts on this as The Dad Challenge Podcast. It really shows that so many people are agreeing on how Kyra and Oscar each come across in this situation. Kyra has talked about how much hate she’s been getting and saying that people don’t know the truth of the situation, but the way she’s coming across is her fault. If it’s not the truth, or it’s not portraying her properly, then why keep making it so public in this way. There’s a reason she’s coming across the way she is to everyone that watches. If she thinks there’s some truth that we aren’t seeing, then she just needs to come out with it.

[@panacheautomotive4298]

Uncle Brad = Uncle Preston

[@lpfan2818]

Dan scrambling for topics to talk about tomorrow since Ethan keeps taking all the good ones.

[@RL-ql5mt]

Lmao! Right! 😂

[@randell6180]

Honestly this is a a good one to get out of the way lol

[@lpfan2818]

@@randell6180 Honestly after watching the video I kinda wish we got the crews reaction. I don’t know anything about these people but man was that wild.

[@melissasanchez7268]

lmfao

[@marcomaldonadosanchez1135]

Dan fighting for his life rn

[@Ellie_fi]

This started as entertaining but turned so dark… poor kiddos and dad. She’s horrendous

[@TennesseeZ]

Your take is spot on.

[@munchiekins]

good for him that she left him, he deserved way better

[@PlanetJambon]

This video was so good that I came back twice to finish it. That’s something I never do, Ethan pls make more of these

[@ashleyyoung2597]

I watched the entire video and no joke this girl makes zero sense. She cheated and is trying to save her reputation.

[@andrewreece7312]

She doesn't even realise how bad she's coming off. I'm sure there are plenty of women that would be down to date him anyway.

[@thecrimsomcardyugioh9810]

Oh bro she’s gunna be all in love again when she finds out the amount of women would be willing to date Oscar lol I hope he doesn’t take her manipulative ass back

[@TradBarbie]

Prettier ones, who aren't hoes.

[@TheKatarinaGiselle]

If you liked this, you’ll LOVE The Dad Podcasts’s videos on these two. He gives commentary on the breakup video, the q&a, and their podcast (which was such aggravating cringe, I wouldn’t have been able to watch it WITHOUT The Dad Podcasts commentary!) trust me, every one of those videos is worth watching! I think so far he has 4 vids on them total. I recommend starting with the breakup vid and going in order. You’ll love him!