The Definition of REAL Men | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

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[@sadiarehman6165]

This is what this generation needs to hear. Best lecture ever👍

[@wuw385]

It's precisely men with these traits that made me check into Islam. I loved watching them bow before ALLAH in humility, I thought it was the most beautiful sight I had ever seen. I'd never seen this in Western men.

[@chocolatecookie8571]

The modern Western ideology is narcissism and psychopaty which is the exact opposite of Islam.

[@Renee529]

Please make one for women, this was so helpful! Especially as a convert who grew up around these toxic Western values. JazakAllah hair sheikh

[@flypiflypi8835]

Jazak Allah Khair and Hair ya sheikh

[@sonjarenae3968]

I’m also a convert and was JUST thinking this as the lecture concluded!

[@Renee529]

@@sonjarenae3968 Alhamdulillah! I was blown away by this video. Also welcome to Islam (: may Allah bless you infinitely

[@GHURABA_DUNYA]

It's JazakAllahu Khairan ​@@Renee529

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[@kapsclip8400]

00:01 Quran distinguishes between male and man, praising masculinity over being male 02:54 Allah praises men who fulfill their promises and display courage and bravery. 08:22 Real manhood is demonstrated through piety to small details for the sake of Allah. 11:08 Real men prioritize worship of Allah over worldly pursuits. 16:53 Real men prioritize prayer over physical appearance 19:04 Critique of toxic masculinity in the Sunnah 23:33 Toxic masculinity enforces strict gender roles, while healthy masculinity is flexible and understanding. 25:35 Real masculinity involves being able to modify cultural roles and display emotions 29:49 Men should not be afraid to display emotion 31:46 Differentiating toxic masculinity from healthy masculinity 36:13 A real leader doesn't need to boast, but earns respect. 38:33 A real man physically protects his wife during an argument. 42:48 Embrace positive traits and understand gender strengths 45:01 Traditional gender roles promote harmonious relationships

[@alaa-xw1jz]

the leader doesn't need to boast he's the leader , Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

[@aleynab8583]

Anyone thinking of marriage should watch this lecture

[@izetnanic1995]

And especially everybody in marriage

[@humairanaeempasha2362]

So glad to see a scholar as renowned as Sheikh Yasir actually chose to address this. May Allah bless you! Ameen.

[@zeezeebo]

Our men today are fighting their women to pay 50% of the household finances. And their ibadah is very weak. May Allah guide them

[@kjy05]

Aameen

[@uslee19]

What does Ibadah mean? Some women make twice what their husbands make. Some make 1/5 of what their husbands make. Western culture require duel incomes. But the contribution to household expenses should be scaled to match their income ratios. If she makes 1/5, then she pays 1/5 of expensive. But, really it depends on the couple. Some women say they’ll pay the food bill, but he pays everything else.

[@surraya783]

So true! So many of our men are very demanding of their "Islamic rights" but completely ignore the rights they owe to their wives, children and families!

[@sergeantkawaii8070]

Stop using your brain !

[@Ntwadumela266]

They wouldn’t do that if women didn’t need to work. If women didn’t work this wouldn’t be a need as the husband would take care of the wife. But due to our economy and society where being middle class and living recently requires 2 incomes, the woman needs to chip in.

[@1minDeenrevival]

Dr yasir qadhi is my favourite scholer....May Allah bless him...i wish to meet dr yasir qadhi....i dnt think dr.yasir reads comments...but still want to say please come to kashmir india....we want to learn from a teacher like you...

[@dawahnetwork767]

I wish scholars like him to be here @Kashmir ❤

[@fareedamariam]

Excellent speech. I love how YQ explains that rijaal is not in competition with women but other males. Spiritual discipline, protecting your fellow believers, and being caring and loving are qualities of all real men and women. Screaming, shouting, and being aggressive is being highly emotional. The problem is that people don’t see anger as an emotion. Healthy humanity is the solution because everyone needs to worship, protect, be emotionally intelligent, and show others kindness and respect.

[@sonjarenae3968]

Yes, you nailed it with this comment! And closely related to that sentiment, I have been complaining to my friends for some time that the idea of male standards/ masculinity becoming the what women compete with is actually quite insulting to us. Why do I need to achieve what a man does to prove myself? Are my feminine ambitions not enough? Am I less because I’m not like a man? The irony of it is almost comical. Especially when it came to the sexual freedom movement… women should get to be promiscuous just because men already were? Why would I want to lower myself to reach their standard? Lol.

[@fareedamariam]

I also love the explanation of gender roles changing depending on time and culture. In my culture, men and women share in the financial, child rearing, and household duties equitably. It doesn’t make the woman any less feminine or the man less masculine. Both parties are working together to make the household run harmoniously.

[@raindrops1047]

Please read Sura Jinn,72:6.Clearly here,Rijaal word is used in negative way.Kindly please explain this.

[@monahaque1660]

EXCELLENT take by Dr YASIR QADHI!

[@ummuzareena9288]

Jazakallahu haira for the powerful message, Dr. Yasir Qadhi. May Almighty reward you.

[@МоррисДжеральд]

01:11 Mor.Gerald97-برج الحمل فيلادلفيا أمريكا والفاتحو-ليف دكا الهند..

[@МоррисДжеральд]

1 Dakka India.

[@belkacemyabadene]

i pray that one day i'll be able to attend one of your lectures, cheikh yassir

[@MAmericanEagleJ]

I liked the lesson until he ruined it in the end by saying and that's how a woman can control the man. No one should have control over the other but mutual consent in treating each other with dignity, love and respect.

[@dieynabadiallo5371]

Men fear none but Allah Allahu akbar

[@Brraziqved]

Maashaallaah! We Love You Yasir Qadhi Saab!

[@t.nurein1794]

Excellent lecture. Jazakumullah khayr to Shaykh YQ for shedding much needed light on this issue.

[@mkukhan2344]

MAY ALLAH BLESS JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN KASEERA SHEIKH YAASIR

[@ONE_SERVANT_OF_ALLAH_73]

💯☝☝☝🤲🤲🤲❤❤❤🤲🤲🤲☝☝☝🎯

[@yaman1999]

بارك الله فيكم. محاضرة جميلة جدًا والله

[@aylinertem789]

Please do a video about healthy femininity. Jazzak Allahu khair for this important lecture Dr. Qadhi.

[@discoveringclouds6198]

Came here from Dr Mona’s podcast 88 | The 3 Golden Chances Narcissistic Man Children Get From God to Transform Their Lives

[@sarahkhawaja9617]

Me too subhanAllah!

[@samven582]

Who?

[@JaleelBeig]

1) Bravery charactized by defending Islam and Family till death. 2)

[@mariayounus8832]

2) Prioritized prayer over business 3) Stood up against their people to speak the truth/defend Islam 4) Not scared of cancel culture or society gossip when following Allah

[@МоррисДжеральд]

14:52 Mor.Gerald 40- برج الثور تنزانيا أولاً زنجبار ثم جزيرة العذراء !!!

[@HayadAli-gh5em]

Alhamdulillah both men women have to hear the best lecture of my dearest brother Yasir quadhi

[@zubaidawaheda7165]

where is this other lecture that the Shaykh was mentioning

[@maha9711]

Jazak Allah khair Dr. Qadhi for all your good deeds

[@OnePathNet]

Informative and engaging. Sadakta

[@МоррисДжеральд]

جزر مريم-أجانيا ماريانا.

[@МоррисДжеральд]

19-توجد نسخة أخرى أسفل حراشف الجزيرة (الصمغية) ذات التربة الأسترالية.

[@МоррисДжеральд]

95-الميزان من شأنه أن يكتب بواسطة بوسان، لكن كلمة كوريا ليست موجودة هناك - يمكنك الحصول عليها مثل واكوناي وسابورو اليابان.

[@subhanallah_0]

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[@mohammadsorwar1464]

Masha Allah, Best lecture

[@kjy05]

Honestly amazing.

[@МоррисДжеральд]

20:21 Mor.Gerald 69- طوروس نومي (موريتانيا ومالي).

[@discoveringclouds6198]

“What can I do if Allah has removed all compassion from your heart?”

[@ayeshadeen7475]

Keep Allah swt name on the tongue ,

[@towardsislamfamily]

I hope there is a solution also on how to fix the issue

[@МоррисДжеральд]

08:15 Mor.Gerald 113-سمكة بوليفيا أويوني.

[@surraya783]

This is the best lecture on how we should be as Muslims, for men and women. Our youth are in desperate need of strong Muslim leaders and role models! Shaykh Yasir Qadhi is one of these positive strong role models and Alhumdulillah for him!

[@ahmeda.3198]

Excellent advice regarding the over emphasis on physique. There’s practical benefit to having strength, but many young men today are just obsessed with appearance. Young men, instead of wasting all of your time at the gym, go and get a good understanding of basic physics and mechanics. As in, how levers work; how gears work; what are the fundamental types of machines; how to use power tools properly; how to do things and how to make things. Get practical knowledge, so that you understand how the world around you works, and so that you can repair or build things for yourself, without always being dependent on other people. This will serve you much better in life than wasting hours staring at your muscles in the gym.

[@md.wahidulislam7800]

Alhamdulillah. Nice lecture

[@Kabiirah1]

38:45🤭🥹

[@ZlatanB86]

Great lecture. Thank you brother!!

[@МоррисДжеральд]

10:21 مور. جرالد. 69-نسخه دیگری از سرطان پاکستان گوادر وجود دارد!!!

[@M3ITASNUVA]

Aujubillah aujubillah aujubillah .

[@HayadAli-gh5em]

Alhamdulillah both men women have to hear the best lecture of my dearest brother Yasir quadhi

[@Alidrivingschool]

JazakAllah kairan very beautifully presented

[@biveksingh1510]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ beautifully said .. jajakallah khairan

[@farahberdai3010]

JazakaAllahu kheiran, very great lecture 🙏

[@alaa-xw1jz]

فيا ذلي و يا خجلي إذا ما قال لي ربي , اما ستحييت تعصيني ولا تخشى من العتب .

[@sarahkhawaja9617]

Dr Mona Alyedreessy sent me here ❤

[@rizwansheikh9521]

Great talk. Thank you.

[@Lilwayne911Eminem]

Alhamdulillah

[@atefel1889]

Allah hu Akbar

[@Imraz__Khan]

❤

[@shalizalacombe6330]

🌿🙏❤️🤲🙂🌿

[@dekanadifhassan6196]

I can't wait

[@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt]

The Prophet (saw) said "If I had to order anyone to bow down and prostrate to another human, I would have ordered the wife to prostrate before her husband" روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ : " لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح

[@uslee19]

@@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt Liar. It doesn’t say that anywhere. Proof of Hadith manipulation.

[@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt]

@@uslee19 روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ : " لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح The Hadith is authentic and actually says alot more than that like "by the one in whose hand is Mohammads soul a woman does not fulfil her lords rights until she fulfils her husbands"

[@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt]

​@@uslee19روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ : " لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح

[@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt]

​@@uslee19روى ابن ماجه (1853) عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي أَوْفَى قَالَ : " لَمَّا قَدِمَ مُعَاذٌ مِنْ الشَّامِ سَجَدَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا هَذَا يَا مُعَاذُ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الشَّامَ فَوَافَقْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِأَسَاقِفَتِهِمْ وَبَطَارِقَتِهِمْ فَوَدِدْتُ فِي نَفْسِي أَنْ نَفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِكَ ؟ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : فَلَا تَفْعَلُوا ؛ فَإِنِّي لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لِغَيْرِ اللَّهِ ، لَأَمَرْتُ الْمَرْأَةَ أَنْ تَسْجُدَ لِزَوْجِهَا ؛ وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لَا تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا ، حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا ، وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ ؛ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ " وقال الألباني: حسن صحيح

[@AbdullahMohammad-mg2tt]

​@@uslee19i just added the authentic hadith in arabic. You should delete your comment

[@sabrinayounisaden7238]

Something related to this topic please watch " are you a man or a rijaal" by brother mohamed hoblos.

[@savesheikhjarrah1480]

No real men these days