The Double Life of the Covert Narcissist

[@JohnMartin-gg8uj]

Yup. They will slam you with the worst thing you've ever done, over and over, anytime you bring up a grievance. Total cowards and lacking any accountability at all.

[@JKDVIPER]

You know from experience. I can tell. I leave over shares here all the time on it. That's tally toxic, on purpose. See, because with bologna drama, borderlines and narcissists will use it to LIE. Where we are using it to FREE OURSELVES of it. Exposing it for what it is. Pure abuse. ❤what does that look like? Nice as pie, wouldn't harm a fly, I've never been UNFAIR, things like that. Yet, they are the best at CANCELING PEOPLE. Air em out. Those that have smartened up, this is your channel. 😁

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

True. Leave the narcissist in silence.

[@paulaadeoye987]

Absolutely 💯

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

🎉🎉🎉🎉 ignore them Walk away and run the hills 🎉❤

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

THANK YOU

[@paulaadeoye987]

The only way there wick people.

[@IWillHumbleMyself]

Yeah behind closed doors my mom was pretty cold and unaffectionate and grouchy, but in public she would always be so cheerful and pleasant and warm and affectionate. When I was a little girl I could see the differences between my mother in private and public settings. In my little girl mind I thought maybe it was because at home my mother didn't like herself and felt bad about herself so that made her mean, and when she did her hair and makeup and went out that she felt good about herself how she looked pretty and so that made her happy and then she was nice. But now that I am an adult looking back I can see that it was really because she wore 2 different faces. One to the public to the people she wanted to impress, and one at home to the people she didn't care to impress. 100% fake. All the horrible things she would say about the nicest people and their kids behind their backs too always made me shudder 😖

[@almondmilksoda]

You literally just described my mother to a T. We don't get along because I reflect her shadow right back at her, and she can't stand seeing herself, so she dislikes me - not understanding what's actually going on ...

[@rishabsingh8009]

How do they end!! I wonder. Do they ever mend their ways in their older daz

[@StaceyLozano-fz1ul]

You just described My narcissist mother she's cruel, sadistic, callous, will throw you under the bus without hesitation.

[@NataliesMommy]

Mine likes to spread private, personal medical information about her victim (me) to her born again Christian pastor, whom I do not even know. She does this to garner sympathy from her group of 'prayer partners'. "Hello!! Look at me, I know someone who is having a medical situation, pray FOR ME".

[@allekramuomizt1848]

They do it! 🙌🏼🌺Another reason they want to know what others want, is to get it for themselves in order to make them jealous! I know this from personal experience, trust me! 🌺

[@franksimmons9242]

It's like mad dark demons flying out of hell forever raging and consuming destroying everything in their path, nothing behind them but smoke and ruins.

[@haydeefernandez2608]

💯 on point 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@stupensardi2783]

My narcissistic mother in law used to share my medical information to anybody who was willing to listen. I told her to stop it.

[@allanfischer9417]

Wouldn't be surprised if this is how non sequiturs were invented by narcissists to connect dots to get the upper hand in an argument.

[@acedegenerate2254]

Oh you've met my mom

[@hurricaneaquatics]

Mine will bring up something from 25 years ago and I didn't even do anything. She's twisted a scenario in her mind and accuses me of it. One time, I was leading a project at work and took the accounting group to lunch (company paid). A group of 55+ aged ladies and I was about 37. My wife said I cheated on her with these women by going to a work lunch for an hour. You can't argue with stupid.

[@valeriemartin6936]

Oh yes, they do it sooo well. Ignore them- it drives them more insane, as they get no satisfaction out of it

[@indyku7405]

And the covert narcissist will make up lies in a court of law about you and their children. Even when that covert narcissist is a police officer. They will even outsmart the judge and lawyers

[@jmashe9949]

The moreI I listen, the more this woman speaks the truth. Its very much a stage production in public, better than one can imagine from a supposed non professional. But believe it, they are accomplished.. as Les Carter has taught me, driven home, relationships to narcissists are Negotiations.. Get ready to lose, since an overabundance of ego and a lack of insight has created this conflicted often very cruel person, not you. Blame shifting mirrors the trickster in Jungian psychology, or the devil, really simply a projection in some "Christian thinking'.of that dark pathology , so well disguised in public Very much the devils' patsys' . Im afraid they are always unaware of the dark side of that ' perfect reflection in the mirror'.

[@franksimmons9242]

Good morning Jill most times I hear your podcast more than once and because they are concise I comment before I hear the whole podcast. The depth of how they wounded our souls. And I wondered why my brother used to fight in his sleep and how he couldn't sleep without loud music or the television. Those demons torment them 24/7. So we figured out we don't want to be anywhere near that demonic energy.

[@Rick-r7h]

Great content

[@derfholl5216]

While the Narcissistic Humanoid say that you’re crazy behind your back. While risking their life on you not being crazy.

[@Amber-b3g]

Thankyou Jill🙏🌺💜

[@jamesl1130]

Extreme Truth

[@ValerieLangley-yw8xw]

Dimons and amen Thanks Heaven thanks again for your love and mercy on the most on Demonstrating the Divel S Dangerous wikedness Demons!! Let us pray to God the most High God ever 🙏🏽

[@jonnyenough1531]

I kept it going for over a decade. I've finally got my autist limit. Done with masking. This may not go well

[@franksimmons9242]

OK Google now since you know I don't always get through the whole podcast before I comment, thanks to podcasts like yours it's interesting to observe these people knowing what we know and having insight watching it play out. I used to make all kinds of excuses for these people not to be judgmental but boy oh boy!

[@ritanewman3981]

Sounds very familiar!!!

[@sandrathomas2893]

Jekyll and Hyde 💥

[@JKDVIPER]

So crucial. Exanple being, you have 4 guys at a bar, TONY, TOBY TIMMY and TYLER. Tyler sees a hottie, he wants hottie very much, hes drunk. His buddies have nornal partners, they share groceries, watch movies, hug each other, and alwats take care of each other when theyre sick. But Tyler is different, hes a narcissist. He wants quick action, fast results, and loves to Gamble. ❤it gets worse. He has a good job just like TOBY and TONY but because he chooses to take the town psycopath up on a ROMP 🤢he winds up fired, evicted, and brought to jail. How you might ask? At first, he tells HOTTIE GIRL you don't have to work? What? Pay bills? Noooo. 😂❤ here's my car, meet my mom, move in with me, you need support. Guess what happened? Once she was bored, and devalued him, she triangulated against him at his work. Had him brought up on charges, and now hes fired, jailed, and drinking bigtime. All because he went on a narcissistic impulse. 🤢

[@DebbieNielsen-e3r]

One thing i did was i never blamed myself, i would say to myself that i am not always wrong. The bid issue i had was that i had children, i was only working part-time…tried to thin how to leave him but i would have no home, no job and i was already to the point no confidence, exhausted. In those days these terms of narcissist were not used in the norm, mysogenist was called sexism and i had almost lost who i was. The most difficult, unusual thing is that i had to leave, without my kids, i knew it would affect them but his behaviour would have gotten worse and he would really start to use them in the divorce and custody, because he was the real ‘bitch in the relationship. I thought that on day i would lose my kids forever, it was a big risk to me but i could only see it getting worse as time went by. I know whar people said, i know what he said, the disgusting stories but i needed to get me back. I could not even go to a therapist because no one but the rich could afford that. When i got a phone call from my in-laws, they said that they held nothing against, because they knew what he was like. Exactly what he was like…he sure did not get it from them.

[@mahaliawilson-ik4gl]

Yes.Yes..😢

[@haydeefernandez2608]

💯

[@ninaabernathy2493]

My mother was an expert narcissist.

[@delenthiairby9156]

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[@hc80117]

I think the necklace was messing with the face scanner.

[@jamesl1130]

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[@sherrysarpu5647]

Do you believe words are spells?

[@jordanwathen2950]

So woman are narcissists 😂

[@1rytis]

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